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absolutely hilarious typo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:23 PM
3

what’s the point of blocking your post and comment history on a one month old account?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:09 PM
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do you think someone that “befriended” someone bc they think they’re hot is being genuine with their friendship? if anything it’s a disadvantage bc you can’t trust that people are being genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:05 PM
1

what is rj?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:59 PM
2

they died too :( honorably, of course 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:10 PM
2

come on now if you used the word “femaplaining” seriously then i’m pretty sure you know why someone wouldn’t bother responding to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:43 PM
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very very curious as to what life experiences you’ve endured that have lead to this thought process
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:42 PM
4

from observing the world around us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:41 PM

“love” “black pilled man” for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:28 PM

…bc some people have lots of children and some people have a few children and some people have no children. there will always (perplexingly) be people who want to have children so some people wanting to not have children really and truly is ok. yall are being real alarmists about “the decline of society” when last time i checked there’s still people pumping out 4+ kids. so why do you think everyone breeding is fundamental for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 01:01 PM

breeding is the only way to contribute to society’s continuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:53 PM
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how do women suffer more at ‘the latter stages’?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:44 PM

no one is taking care of her and when she needs someone to she’ll pay someone to. she’s literally creating a job. helping “society”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:40 PM

having children is NOT the only way to contribute to society tf??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:38 PM

how is being happy single and child free equal to being ok with the decline of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:37 PM

the government that’s largely comprised of men? huh, curious
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 02:03 PM

yes that’s why people choose the field right? we don’t really care but the pay is amazing so we…oh wait. the pay isn’t amazing is it? so people are going into a field that pays poorly AND they don’t care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:56 PM

and why do you think that hasn’t been done?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:51 PM

i haven’t heard him complain and i’m certainly not complaining so i’d assume it’s frequent enough for both of us? i’d say initiation is about 50/50 usually with some changes depending on where im at in my cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:46 PM

so you think the solution to that is forcing more men into the field instead of better pay? interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:41 PM

how is this poison? all of this is solid advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:37 PM

pretty sure my partner is under 5’10 and i’ve dated some tall mfers. i’ve been with him for over a decade and we still have amazing and frequent sex. heightism is a huge cope
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:36 PM

as someone in the field of education, why do you think there aren’t more male educators?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:33 PM
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i know everyone is entitled to their own opinion but 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:04 PM
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i’ll never understand why yall think we have to be fear mongered to or influenced to be afraid of motherhood 😂 even if we had wonderful childhoods, good relationships with our parents, enjoy being around children, and minimize our social media exposure some people just don’t wanna have kids and there’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:48 PM
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it couldn’t just be our own lived experiences right? it has to be conspiracies and psy ops right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:34 PM
7

what is the “obvious” benefit of having children tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:24 PM
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the last guy i was “talking to” before i got with my man literally said “i don’t want my wife to work” and at 18 i was like “hell yeah i don’t have to work?!” thankfully that’s not the route i went down but yeah they exist, and unfortunately they’re rarely in the financial position to actually uphold the “”traditional”” household they so desperately claim to want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:09 PM
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i think when people say that they’re not saying it with the intention of that being how someone finds a partner. just as a horizon broadening experience that could take their minds off things or potentially meet new people who could introduce them to someone. idk, i’ve never told someone struggling with dating to join a club OR get off the apps so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 04:02 PM
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i’d think the “don’t shit where you eat” rule is being observed here. if you start dating someone in your…hobby circle and it doesn’t work out or ends badly then it might make you not wanna participate in your hobby anymore so it’s easier to just not date those people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:42 PM
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wait where do yall live that you can have an event like a wedding and pay for it after? that’s not a thing here, especially for weddings. you pay during the planning period when you’re setting up who’s give do flowers and decor and catering and all that. i can’t imagine working a wedding before getting paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:10 PM
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i’m confused, so you pay to put the wedding on and then the guests reimburse you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:02 PM
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where’s that wtknight mod that removes debate posts for the op not sticking around to actually debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:49 PM

ok then don’t do anything and complain online i guess? i’ve taken actual steps to improve my life, what do i know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:24 PM

ok then patronize a sex worker?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:30 PM

sounds like cutting out “content creation” and adding a job would do you wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:11 PM

bc happier people have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:08 PM

if all of those are imaginary problems then so is loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:08 PM

give me an example of people just randomly blaming single men for something bad happening to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:06 PM

those aren’t good reasons to be dating anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:05 PM
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for having different life experiences? yes i’m sure you know me and my life better than i do. i must be lying if our experiences don’t match up right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:12 PM
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haha i’m a woman whose only social media is reddit. we exist, and the avoidance of social media is intentional and practical
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:17 PM
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so you don’t see any problem in women employing the same tactics to get with men, and agree that lying about this is kinda a given and not a gendered thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 01:10 PM
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just another reason it’s smart to heavily limit your social media footprint
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:57 PM
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i don’t know any women looking for that but i know everyone’s experiences are different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 12:55 AM

no one that uses the term “next level beta cuckery” genuinely is to be taken seriously about anything at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:31 AM

bc with harsher more deranged posts like this i like to see if this is typical for this person, seeing what subs they post and comment in and what those posts/comments are or if they recently went through a breakup or something that’s making them think/seek out this kind of content
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:42 PM

i’m fascinated by what your life experiences must be for you to arrive at such wildly off base conclusions. that sounds condescending, but i truly mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:59 PM

so you agree with op that the kids don’t matter? or you think that abortion is acceptable bc it prevents children from being in these situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:58 PM

this works for me as a child free woman too! i’m in!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:53 PM

you can certainly think that but most people would disagree. what has lead you to think this amount of overreach is necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:48 PM

i’m so surprised someone with these views would hide their comment history 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:46 PM

gonna go hold my bf extra tight bc i’ve heard too many men express this idea and it hurts me. most men, most people deserve to love and be loved
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:57 PM

none of those are guilt trips tho they’re just objective truths for everyone regardless of gender identity…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:54 PM

and their idea aligns with yours. why are you more willing to accept their word than hers? or not at least put equal value in hers
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:25 AM

so you only accept the ideas of people whose ideas align with yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:22 AM

don’t you think she’d be able to tell you better than anyone else? like why are you so willing to take other people at their word but not this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:37 AM
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this is so beautiful. i’m the opposite. i had a beautiful childhood, have wonderful parents and amazing siblings. i know i can’t provide the childhood i had so im not gonna subject someone to something WORSE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 02:03 AM
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bc it’s saying you don’t actually care about the nurturing and raising of a new human and i absolutely do not understand how you’d “be willing to adopt” but also “don’t want to be part of a broken home” bc if you were adopting, you’d be raising another man’s child. why is it acceptable in that circumstance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:49 PM
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i think people with this outlook should be prohibited from having children tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:30 PM
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and service workers and family members and friends, or if they go to school or the doctor or travel anywhere really…not being attracted to people doesn’t make them suddenly not exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:41 AM

the first study you linked is about the adverse health effects of neuroticism. nothing about women being more neurotic. the second one is one i’m actually familiar with, being autistic and in the behavioral health field. i also don’t think it shows the conclusion that you’ve come to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:12 PM

you can say that all day long, and i’m sure there’s some little boys who will buy it. but i see no proof and an emotional man sooooo 🤷🏼‍♀️ excuse me if my lived experience is more applicable to my life than your ~feelings~
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:50 PM
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that might be the funniest thing you’ll say this weekend, congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:40 PM
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when you respond like that? why should anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:37 PM
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would women suddenly disappear if you were gay? like how does this line of “reasoning” begin to make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:35 PM
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you know what people say about assumptions, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:41 PM
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except when you’re talking about women apparently 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:24 PM
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oh, yeah i’ve never fucked with natalists so idk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:01 PM
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guys don’t even care that much about trust worthy or kind ime, attractive yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:54 PM
1

i kinda think this attitude has more to do with your lack of success finding someone than your “advanced profession”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:53 PM
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why were you insulted by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:29 PM
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pretty sure my dude just appreciates me taking out my impulse to argue on other people rather than him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:27 PM
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how do you read all that and think both carry equal risks in a relationship? they just outlined how women generate carry more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:03 PM
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no? bc you don’t have to be married to someone to be in a predatory relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 07:18 PM
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just bc you don’t care about having a partner that you share similarities with and can actually enjoy spending quality time with doesn’t mean nobody places value on those things
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:40 PM
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alright man for sure age gaps are still, largely, weird and predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 02:34 PM
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it sounds like YOU think that enjoying sex “ruins” women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:59 PM
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this is such a gross thought process imo you’re allowed to have all those opinions of course, but who are you to decide what’s good and bad for anyone but yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:57 PM
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i’m saying it was very obvious from the judgmental tone and content of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:49 PM
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13 hours later and we’re still waiting for that one single study
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:47 PM
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i don’t think wanting someone who you’re more equally matched with experience wise necessarily equates with sex being reduced down to the animal act, that seems pretty narrow minded
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:46 PM
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you are aware that some people (including women) have a “hoe phase” bc they…enjoy sex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:44 PM
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you really didn’t need the flair did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:38 PM
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right bc only men enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:38 PM
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i mean i’m a woman so i know my opinion counts for less but i actually did want someone with some experience bc i wanted to be equally matched and my bf has shared similar thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:36 PM

the same people that wanna talk about how good and helpful weed are somehow also the ones want you to acknowledge what a huge sacrifice “one day sober from weed” is. and i say this as a giant stoner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:41 PM
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lmao i’d say it’s just as serious as your post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:09 PM

i don’t care 🤷🏼‍♀️ you’re still wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:17 PM

well you’re right that i don’t need a reason but wrong about my reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:12 PM

and i didn’t want multiple children for what reasons? bc im sure you know better than me (:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:07 PM

oh the irony 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:48 PM

tf? i love orcas but i would also refuse to live with one. am i being hateful towards orcas?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:00 PM

those are two of the three reasons i’ve had multiple abortions instead of multiple children so i think he has a point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:57 PM

all that plus the cost of raising a kid on TWO incomes seems impossible, let alone one. plus the fact that the world is going to shit. plus the fact that pregnancy and childbirth seem like literal hell. but yes also that being a single mom sounds truly awful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:55 PM

are you speaking from experience or have you spent a lot of time in some of the sadder corners of the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:05 PM

and that’s truly what “sexually diverse” relationships are right? making sure you get yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:04 PM
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as opposed to your entire post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:08 AM
0

is this a bad thing tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:16 PM
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i don’t troll and i don’t believe you what do you want to know about cold approach …nothing? i’m a straight woman in a relationship so i can educate you lol, lmao even
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:29 PM
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these are my favorite kind of troll accounts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:06 PM
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really? i wouldn’t say most, only bc i know since really amazing men but i’ve seen/heard that sentiment far more than i’ve heard it expressed the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:59 PM
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my mom definitely doesn’t want my brothers marrying submissive women and i find it very weird that you assume that to be the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 02:37 PM

just another reason i always tell my girls to lie about their “body count” when a dude asks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:07 PM

if a high experience male wants a low experience, that is also completely fine no, that’s def creepy. hypocritical at the very least the rest of what you said is also probably garbage but who cares to read it when you open like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:00 PM

long as you’re holding yourself to the same standards i don’t see why anyone would 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:52 PM

i’ll never get tired of men explaining to women how women actually feel. yes sir, surely you, a man, knows infinitely more about how i/we think and feel. thank you so much for being here to enlighten us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:49 PM

not from what i’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:42 PM
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i never liked making another man feel small…that’s exactly the driver when it comes to getting female attention ?? are people genuinely experiencing this past high school?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:52 PM
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bc if she didn’t want a provider at all, a stay at home man would be a gift and yet for most women, he feels like a burden why would he be a gift? it seems like he would be one more thing to take care of?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 02:49 PM
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you don’t think they were just trying to put two points at opposite ends of the spectrum? like, “it could be as simple as this, or as dark as this”? i’m just not really seeing your problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:43 PM

advising someone to be comfortable in their own skin before dating isn’t the same as telling someone to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:59 PM
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yeah dude, you didn’t have to tell us you pay for it. it’s very obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:39 PM
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women are totally blind to just how much of society exists to women’s benefit based on the idea that women might have sex with you can you expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 02:37 PM
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i disagree with that statement tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:00 PM
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that’s not the question i asked
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:57 PM
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you’re making a lot of assumptions about a complete stranger but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:57 PM
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don’t yall like to complain about how women have the luxury of using body modification to attract men? why is suggesting men do the same thing a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:45 PM
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bc there’s a hundred other you’s to move on to instead of lowering standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:35 PM
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“how can i make this womens fault”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:32 PM
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whereas men never right? the only difference is that women are the only ones forced to “take accountability”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:30 PM
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way to engage genuinely (:
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:01 PM
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“i’ll be a great dad” “i’ll take care of you” “we’ll be a family” are a few that i’ve personally heard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:52 PM
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right, bc once you report someone to the police, you’re no longer pregnant. that’s how that works after all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:13 PM
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i forgot men always take no for an answer and never lie about anything either! but yeah, it’s probably an ~accountability~ issue on someone elses part
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:57 PM
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it’s like what we’ve been saying about men fur years…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 02:23 PM
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yeah we all know losers never force anyone or lie or deceive in any way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:24 PM
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this is why i will always advocate for the right to get an abortion and strongly recommend to women who get knocked up by losers to just flush that shit out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:13 PM
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bc i wouldn’t want to be raised in a loveless home so i wouldn’t want to raise children in a loveless home. i do not think that seems like a good life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:06 PM
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i feel bad for those children :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:26 AM
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the way you phrased your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:32 PM
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and you’re still planning on reproducing with these bad candidates and producing children from these loveless unions??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:17 PM
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i mean, it is either or isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:07 PM
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i haven’t done gang bangs (😔) but i’ve had a few mmf threesomes. i don’t think it’s absurd for sexless men to want easier access to sex. i think it’s absurd for anyone to suggest that male desire should be placed over female autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:59 PM
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things aren’t not a real job bc you don’t like them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:18 PM
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objectively less suffering than if society were to continue right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:58 AM
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you realize content creation is a job right? a vapid, money grubbing, society harming job; still a job. so they’re not ‘getting money for existing’. you just don’t like that they’re living your ideal life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:49 AM
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i strongly disagree with that but you’re entitled to your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:46 PM
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yeah, sarcastically lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:45 PM
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i mean this genuinely and not confrontationally, who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:44 PM
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i couldn’t count how many men on this platform have called me “not really a woman” bc i don’t want to give birth. don’t act like society doesn’t expect a certain level of performative femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:15 PM
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no one said that was the only reason. many women having more of a choice with what happens with their bodies/lives may be a reason for declining birth rates but 🤷🏼‍♀️ my life is more important than the continuation of my genetics so i’m not bothered
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:14 PM
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i’ll just never understand where the “well he/she has that/has done that, so i’m entitled to that too” comes from in regard to sex/relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:31 PM

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:43 PM
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it might be wrong for some and correct for others tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:54 PM
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huh as an autistic woman this hasn’t been my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:40 AM
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this honestly reads like a lot of cope and assumptions. i could just as easily take your evidence and use it to show how the majority of normal women don’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 12:59 PM

i think a lot of times when women say things like that it’s really that they want their man to be the opposite of what they currently are. i don’t think attraction is the main issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:17 PM

well cheers to consistency at least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:31 PM

ok. and you have to see how that is repulsive to women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:57 PM

this is why i always advise women to say whatever tf they want to the men they’re interested in. oh he’s “religious”? that’s so funny bc you’ve been saving yourself for marriage bc religion is just so important to you! he’s “family oriented” and you’ve had multiple abortions? literally nobody has to know queen! they lie, we lie, and the world keeps turning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:55 PM

most of us know they hole is the goal for a lot of yall. and a lot of us are fine with that, it’s the wild disrespect that comes along with the desperate horniness that we find off putting. it’s the way boys will say what they think we want to hear until our pants are off then flip it around and talk about how disgusting and slutty we are. if men were as sex positive as you claim i don’t think slut shaming would be a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:51 PM
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yeah people never change right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:45 PM
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oh big time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 01:40 AM
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not what i said is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:02 PM
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i think it means that 80% of divorces are initiated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:15 PM
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genuinely funny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 07:27 PM
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and to you that means women aren’t loyal?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:09 PM
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yes i’m sure you’d know better than i would right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:52 PM
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ngl this was a big reason i used to enjoy conservative men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:34 PM
5

even if there is true, would having kids improve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:40 PM

they live around me and i still end up texting someone in excitement when i see one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:05 AM

i think women are sexy but pussy sadly does nothing for me. i think it’s a pretty normal thing idk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 04:02 AM
2

idk selling implies a conscious choice to me but i can see what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:38 PM
9

wait i’m confused, not finding the majority of men handsome = not enjoying sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:57 PM
4

i’m gonna be honest idk how to do a custom flair and i just like pink so idk :( none of my friends are currently in new relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:56 PM
7

but that’s not really settling imo that’s your body being tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:53 PM
2

my proof is all the comments you leave that i can read lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:50 PM
15

?? porn is legal tho and the feminists i run with all wanna decriminalize sex work…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:36 PM
1

wasn’t an argument, simply a statement of fact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:30 PM
2

that’s it, that’s the whole answer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:16 PM
7

i asked if women settle for men they’re not attracted to a lot bc, as a woman myself, that seems absolutely crazy. i couldn’t be sexually manipulated or settled for by a woman…bc i’m a straight woman. i don’t think my partner is settling for me regardless but hey what do i know it’s only been a decade. i think maybe you misread or misinterpreted my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:13 PM
23

women don’t like having sex with them so women just don’t like sex period and the only reason they do it is to reward men for good behavior (an actual take i just read in this very comment section)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:09 PM
1

oof you have some healing to do huh? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:07 PM
10

i’m not really worried at all about that and it doesn’t relate to anything i commented? did you mean to reply to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:57 PM
17

do you want to cuddle someone when you’re mad at them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:48 PM
19

are there a lot of women that do that?? couldn’t be me so that just seems alien af. i’ve ended relationships over bad sex and i have female friends that have as well, it’s not something i can see the women in my life tolerating
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:46 PM
22

the fact that men are willing to pay for sex doesn’t make selling sex a “weapon” of femininity good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:44 PM
3

i fucking love my bfs body hair that’s kinda weird to type out, sure, idc it’s hot! i shave and wax and i like seeing my smooth legs next to his hairy legs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:46 PM
1

every time i read a personal post by someone in the medical industry it confirms my general distrust of people in the medical industry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:35 AM

oh they are not gonna like that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:21 PM
-1

i disagree, but i’m comfortable with you holding that opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:19 PM

i love having a man confidently educate me, a woman, on how women think and why they do the things they do it will truly never get old
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:56 PM
5

what does “interested” mean tho? willing to go on another date? kiss him? put out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:51 PM
1

that falls under the rude category my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:50 PM
-2

he’s getting to pay for the date, he’s welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:50 PM
-1

how?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:47 PM
4

we barely do anyways so no worries there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:46 PM

oh so you personally know that everything posted on the app is bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:39 PM

i didn’t care when women did it, and i don’t actually care that men are doing it bc im not on the app 🤷🏼‍♀️ but it is hypocritical to whine about it and do the same thing. you can justify it however you want, it’s still hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:24 PM

explain how this isn’t hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:47 PM

lmao wait so it’s awful when (they) do it but justified when you do it? that tracks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:47 PM

wasn’t it the user’s data that got leaked?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:41 PM

how would you know? from the curated screen shots you’ve seen? as i’ve said before, i don’t have it bc i don’t need it, wish there was something like that when i was sleeping around but 🤷🏼‍♀️ so far the only downside of this that im seeing is hurt feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:38 PM

i don’t have it bc i’ve been in a relationship for the last decade and don’t need it. i still think it should be allowed to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:34 PM

oh ok well if you don’t ~believe~ that women are using it for their safety then we should just get rid of it completely right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:26 PM
1

bc…that’s how it works? why are you railing against something you clearly have no experience with? you’re *probably able to shop for one. and how does one do that? i have no idea. i’ve never had a dr or psych or insurance rep or anyone say that i can go out of network if i can’t find a therapist im comfortable with. who am i supposed to ask? don’t be helpless don’t act like everyone in therapy is able to operate at the same level you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:47 PM
1

you mean exactly what you’re doing rn, but the opposite way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:51 PM
1

stop thinking start doing i had so many people tell me that for so long that i decided to try. wanna guess how that worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:20 PM
1

if prayer is just as useful as therapy why are you only shitting on therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:17 PM
3

bc lots of us have shitty health insurance that just throws the first available provider at us. if i’m seeking help for suicidal ideation and drug abuse and they throw a family and marriage counselor at me, then yeah i’m gonna switch bc if i’m gonna invest in therapy i’d rather it be productive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:12 PM
4

i’m doing intensive outpatient therapy rn. it’s hours a day, multiple days a week. so that part is definitely hard. it’s also a group where they remind us at the beginning of session that we’re not here to get into personal stuff, so we’re not even really directly “talking about and analyzing ourselves”, we’re working in building skills. and i guess by your logic we can assume that you just love working and sitting in traffic and paying taxes bc hey, you keep doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:08 PM
1

ok ignoring everything else for a moment bc i see where you’re coming from but i just don’t agree…is edging bad for you? :( or bad for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:02 PM
5

my dude said he’s not gonna fuck someone he’s not dating. we’ve been together for over 10 years. having boundaries is cool
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:18 PM
-1

you know what they say about assumptions, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:03 PM
1

my dude if you’re gonna troll at least put a small amount of effort into it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:31 PM
1

ok hope that works out for you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:29 PM
1

lmao i’ve been in a hetero relationship with an amazing man for 10 years but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:11 PM
-2

it feels safer 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 02:07 AM
1

seems like it would really suck to be expected to shave your face in any capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:09 AM
0

if used with cycle tracking it’s reasonable 🤷🏼‍♀️ that’s what i do bc i hate condoms and have been fucking the same guy for 10 years now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:38 AM
7

hey guy? no one thinks being attracted to women in their 20s is pedophilia. is a 40+ year old dating/pursuing a 20 year old gross and predatory and a bunch of other negative things? yup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:57 PM
2

except the people in the situation we’re talking about weren’t in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:22 AM
2

how can you cheat on someone you’re not official with??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:17 AM
4

i’m confused. i never said that was my only consideration, only that i understood why she would do that. i have empathy for both of them, i can understand how he would be hurt by that but i think if your expectation is monogamy then you should voice that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:03 PM
2

how am i ignoring it? i’m acknowledging how i would feel in that situation and assuming someone else should feel similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:06 PM
7

i know if i was “dating” someone for months on end and they didn’t put a title on it then i’d certainly feel free to fuck other people, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:57 PM
10

maybe you don’t but not everyone operates the same way. that’s why having conversations about expectations is important
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 03:46 PM
11

every individual is gonna give you a slightly different answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:51 PM
1

well that sounds really hard :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:04 AM
8

what does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:26 AM
2

where did he say anything aggressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:43 PM
2

and i’d hate to carry a kid for a man who didn’t trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:34 AM
0

that is absolutely not true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:09 PM
2

if you suspect your partner is cheating on you i’m not sure what good asking them about it would be since cheaters aren’t really well known for telling the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:24 PM
2

if we do get that. which we don’t. they also do not say that in court, you’re thinking of tv it’s also funny that you say that bc me and my man celebrated our ten year anniversary a few months ago. you really think it would be legitimate for him to knock me up now and then ask for the test after the baby was born? after 10 years? that’s something i should accept? naaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:15 PM
2

they *should but they aren’t so if i don’t get that AND i’m expected to physically do 100% of the work related to gestation/birth, he’s just gonna have to trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:54 PM
2

i mean we’re all different. i have weird trauma too, so if someone was upfront about it and how they cope i’d be more willing to be understanding. i don’t know that it’s something i’d be willing to accept but it would be infinitely better than him saying “yes let’s have/raise a baby together” and then being like “actually bc of my past i can never trust you so now bend to my will”. i was pushed into an abortion i didn’t want years ago. i recently experienced a miscarriage. were all have trauma a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:52 PM
2

exactly! that was a more succinct way of putting it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:45 PM
2

men’s feelings > women’s feelings. always and forever right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:44 PM
3

telling me that he needs a dna test to confirm that our child is biologically related to him is indeed implying that i cheated. why else would he need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:43 PM
0

well seeing as i wouldn’t be pregnant if my man didn’t want a child this feels like a good time for them to be reminded of the sacrifice we’re expected to bear and that we should be given some grace
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:42 PM
3

nope i’m admitting that if i carry a child for someone and they accuse me of cheating im gonna bounce. with their kid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:51 AM
5

the timing aspect is the whole thing. obviously if this is something that happened to him in the past then he’s aware of it before fucking someone else. if, somehow, he only became aware of it and drew this boundary after a new, unaware, woman became knocked up then he should say it in response to her telling him she’s pregnant. if he doesn’t do this, doesn’t ask for an abortion, agrees to be with her and raise the kid together, and then asks for a paternity test after the kid is born then no th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:47 AM
7

it would only cost you that bc you’re making it that way he’s only paranoid about it bc it’s his trauma making him that way. if your hypothetical trauma is objective, then so is my hypothetical self worth. i personally have reproductive trauma so if my man expected me to prove that the child i carried and birthed was his, my response would be to protect myself and my new baby. if he knew about his trauma and knew he wanted a dna test and that was discussed while family planning, i wouldn’t perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:30 AM
6

look having a trauma response is valid but no one has to accommodate that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:04 AM
7

it would cost me my self respect and it would greatly devalue my partner in my eyes so it would cost me my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:03 AM
2

they do have the right. just as we retain the right to leave if they do 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:58 PM

no lmao bc it depends on way to many things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:32 PM

i’ve had men say way more out of pocket shit to me so don’t be surprised. i’ve also yet to see anyone on this thread other than you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:32 PM

you’re real close to getting what i’m trying to say all women are “regular women”. sex work doesn’t make you irregular or “other” it just makes you a sex worker. if a dude hit me with “yeah i paid a prostitute, but you’re a regular girl” i’d be out so quick he’d wonder if i was ever even really there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:23 PM

just like women aren’t obligated to be honest about how many men we’ve fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:19 PM

sex worker regular girl this is why i wouldn’t trust guys that pay for sex. they very clearly view sex workers as a different class of human and that’s scary to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:17 PM

“men who paid for sex tend to objectify sex women and regular women” maybe look at this sentence a little harder and think about your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:11 PM

it kinda is your opinion bc you said “every man think that way. it is normal. it is a dual standard but for good reason” none of this is objectively true and all of it opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:10 PM
4

not really but again, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:59 PM
3

ok, weird, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:46 PM
2

and you want more of that??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:59 PM
2

oh well if ai tells us something then it must be true right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:03 PM
9

ok am i reading this correctly? you want the government to influence perception to…make people want to date unattractive/undesirable people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:02 PM
-1

and i’d bet the guys that use this as a dating tactic and the guys complaining about being ghosted make a venn diagram with a big huge overlap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:52 PM
3

how is this in bad faith? and how do you know it’s for no good reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:51 PM
1

logically i’d like to say yes but realistically no absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:56 AM
2

if, god forbid, i was in that situation i would absolutely take the test. and then leave immediately bc i’m not raising a child with/for a man that doesn’t even trust me after i risked my life to bring his spawn into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 12:25 AM
5

i would view him as a hypocrite, bc he would be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:57 PM
6

that’s crazy hypocritical don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:28 PM
7

hahahaha i can assume you’re pro choice then as well? and who gets to qualify what “worse” is? you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:37 PM
2

we’re really just sticking with the ‘mens feelings > womens feelings’ thing huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:32 PM
1

i’m not gonna cry about it but yes i absolutely do/would find it offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:30 PM
4

ok and you’re one person. i don’t want my dude going through my phone bc it’s an invasion of privacy and akin to him telling me he thinks i’m being sneaky. you don’t have to be doing something wrong to not agree with a breach of trust
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:28 PM
6

well no one is calling anyone offensive here. just talking about actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:26 PM
9

so basically men’s feelings over women’s is what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:24 PM
16

one article about one person from one country doesn’t back up your claim
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:23 PM
14

oh you mean actions have consequences? that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:06 PM
7

guess you should’ve picked better and settled down young 🤷🏼‍♀️ where do i keep hearing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:47 PM
1

why are you going on a date with someone “when you know you’ll get nothing”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:06 PM
6

you know there’s other people in this thread right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:22 PM
9

same way you’re doing it rn i imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:58 AM
4

amen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:47 AM
3

it wouldn’t be invalid, but i’d hope you’d give women that have had very negative experiences with men the same grace you’d like to receive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:58 AM
23

…all i can focus on is your last paragraph i should call him…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:01 AM
-3

if i ever get to retire and own a boat and i’m still wasting time arguing on reddit…someone please help me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:02 PM
5

well as a woman i’ve literally never heard any of my female friends/coworkers/relatives/acquaintances describe their desire to fuck ugly dudes so i think they were right on the money. i’m neurodivergent and often lack the ability to grasp nuance so assuming neurodivergent men have the same issue seems pretty fair. so again, what did you think was wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:36 PM
2

tf was he supposed to do? kick you out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:31 PM
4

you know what they say about assumptions right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:25 PM
0

“if you’re not getting off stop sleeping around” would’ve been more succinct and equally wrong. js
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:22 PM
4

ok then enjoy the life you’re living (:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:18 PM
5

and they didn’t say they are…but doesn’t a woman’s opinion on this kinda hold more water than a dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:16 PM
4

no one said they were better than neurodivergent men. which part of their comment do you think was “wrong”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:15 PM
1

we absolutely are lmao my ex said i wasn’t a real woman bc i was on the fence about having kids bc of my mental health issues
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:50 PM
0

and you…regularly neg her and make sweeping generalizations about her gender? do you have female friends or coworkers? mom? auntie? sisters? would you show your girl the comment i originally responded to?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:42 PM
1

i would be fascinated to hear about some of your relationships with women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:23 PM
0

shh that ruins their point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:21 PM
6

i’ve literally never seen an actually masculine man say “sounds feminine” before. just some food for thought 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:14 PM
22

whereas men care so deeply about women’s issues, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:13 PM
13

if my son was miserable because of his lack of relationship i would feel like i failed him somewhere along the way bc a relationship is not the end all be all and it’s not healthy to look at them that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:13 PM
3

i don’t think that was the point he was making
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:31 PM
16

and yet curiously its men gleefully awaiting that and not women fearfully anticipating it? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:52 PM
3

of all the things to be right about this is where i actually get confirmation 😅 idk how to feel about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:39 PM
6

but not a gang bang. at least not by me i guess? i thought it had to be 3 or more guys for a gang band. i’ve been known to get hung up on semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:15 PM
5

you’re a real one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:59 PM
8

lmao stealing this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:30 PM
16

i was ~promiscuous~ in my day and i’ve never participated in a gang bang so idk about that. i’ve had a few mmf 3 ways but a gang bang seems like it would take a lot of organization and my 3 ways have always been spontaneous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:29 PM

you said you don’t agree that it’s a choice. the definition of celibacy is choosing to abstain from sexual contact
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:20 PM

look you’re clearly struggling with the definition of celibacy so i thought i’d ask
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:07 PM

do you even know what the word incel means good fucking grief
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:02 PM

you explaining something doesn’t make it correct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:01 PM
2

by compiling data about dick sizes…look as a neurodivergent straight girl i totally get it, you do you. i generally keep these things to myself bc people get a little judgey
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:12 PM
5

i mean, it would’ve netted the same amount of useful discussion right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:56 PM
8

these posts just remind me of all the insane research we did, time we spent, and weird “solutions” we came up with as preteens waiting for our breasts to develop
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:42 PM
11

there’s no way this isn’t a very weak troll come on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:26 AM

one can be a problem for reddit, one of them isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:05 PM
2

i personally wouldn’t even go on the date then bc we’d be obviously incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:14 PM

no. but just like another person pointed out, it’s just another example of a normal every day thing that women are expected to use but isn’t designed with their bodies in mind. like seatbelts and medicine. i’ll say most of the time it isn’t done maliciously, but the end result for women is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:47 PM

you’re getting hung up on the wrong detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:37 PM

ew
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:35 PM

except no one was asking anything in this scenario :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:35 PM

i’m also autistic. people don’t like it when you don’t “play your roll”, especially in public. you already acknowledged you know “what’s expected of you” but you don’t want to engage until verbally asked. a lot of neurotypical people can see this as not upholding the social contract and don’t like that. i’m not saying you or them are wrong but this is something i’ve noticed in the last week honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:28 PM

as an autistic woman with a special interest in human behavior ☝🏼 i agree with this for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:26 PM
2

how is marriage a great retirement plan for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:08 PM
2

men usually don’t waste their time to hit the negative button my life experience would disagree with this, literally every toxic online experience i’ve had has been with an angry dude “wow this guy is right…” ….what on earth? weird (false 🤷🏼‍♀️) assumptions and a graph on declining marriage rates? how is marriage a good retirement plan?? what are you going on about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:54 PM
7

probably getting off the internet for awhile would be a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:29 PM
6

yeah various ai chatbots aren’t a scientific source dude i’m starting to see your problem here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:26 PM
4

back that up otherwise with proof otherwise you’re being prejudiced
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:13 PM
2

please believe that men are not universally honest or brutal so expecting all women to be is irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:07 PM
2

if he had everything else going for him then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:55 PM
2

like i said yesterday, some people aren’t comfortable being open about stuff like that. and like you clearly noted, there are women for whom size doesn’t matter. i’m not sure why you’re willing to accept it in one form of communication but not this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:47 PM
8

“here’s a google ai overview that agrees with me 🤓” is absolutely not the proof you think it is mr “subject matter expert” lmao thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:03 PM
5

i’m not saying that user isn’t worth interacting with but from the comments of his that i’ve read i’m definitely implying it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:25 PM
6

that sounds nightmarish to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:23 PM
9

oh how silly of me. i forgot i don’t mean what i say. thank god there’s literally always a man around to tell me what i actually mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:46 PM
10

i have fucked a lot of dudes and this is straight up untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:16 PM
1

oh no they don’t. i’m a woman, we divorce yall over not listening to us or caring when we tell you what we need. but yeah “house chores” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:36 PM
1

i am just fascinated that you can take all these personal things that may apply to you and then just apply them to the whole human race while acting super self superior
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:34 PM
1

did you just assume that for “many women” the only fulfilling thing in their lives are kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:19 PM
2

women want to use their agency for happiness, not helping first of all, imagine saying this like it’s a bad thing?? second, i thought yall were always on about how having and raising kids is a woman’s natural place and where she’s happiest? so which is it? are we naturally inclined to be happy being caregivers or are we naturally inclined to seek out what makes our individual selves happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 12:03 PM
2

why are you all over this thread throwing out your opinion like it’s the gospel truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:53 AM
1

na, bc women don’t “divorce men over house chores”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:50 AM
14

that’s so silly to me bc yes, obviously women (and humans in general), prefer someone around their own age. your first example was a 16+ year age gap and your second one was 5-10. which are way different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:07 AM
9

not at all what she was saying or the point of the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:19 PM
6

babe if you don’t think a ton of women carry a pocket knife on our person/in our bag i have a bridge to sell you. it’s way more normal than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:51 PM
0

*some of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:35 PM
3

lmao there is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:18 PM
-5

yes a man would never
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:18 PM

or they just fell in love with a poor dude. it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:11 PM

ahaha yes that’s right, we control everything that men do. even the things we don’t want them to do are actually our fault! how special of you to have figured it out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:41 PM

it’s…women’s fault that men don’t build and cultivate interpersonal relationships between themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 02:32 PM
0

i didn’t say they had no stance did i? no i did not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:50 PM
9

no one you ding dong are you even reading what you’re typing? you describe yourself as red pill, do you speak for everyone that considers themselves red pilled? or do yall have a central leader so you assume others do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:05 PM
0

unlike men right? i think that’s what bothers a lot of us here. i see so many people taking human behavior and making it male/female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:13 PM
8

what would yours be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:47 AM
10

personal growth and choosing better? those are male traits for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 10:40 PM

so what you’re saying is that i’m doing society at large a favor being attracted to feminine men? i’ve said it before and i’ll say it again, you’re welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:57 PM
10

what is wrong with wanting a partner on your level?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:46 PM
8

being a stay at home parent is a full time job tho, technically more than full time and this dude only wants part time so stay at home parent wouldn’t be a good fit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:45 PM
7

i’m definitely not with my partner bc he makes my life easier. i’m with him bc i love him and we both enhance each others lives. do we do things to help each other? sure! i love him and want things to go well for him. but if you’re looking for a partner to “a your life easier” maybe what you’re actually looking for is a personal assistant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:39 PM
31

bro has one failed marriage and applies every part of it to every single aspect of every marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:37 PM
3

i only lie about things that matter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:43 PM
1

and you’re apparently incapable of looking for it too :/ that’s unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:41 PM
3

sure i gave an example in another comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:36 PM
1

maybe take a stroll on over to true unpopular opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:07 PM
5

lol i like when i can guess what subs a person frequents from one comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:53 PM
7

if you’re interested in the misogynistic side of reddit you just have to look, like even a little bit. so many subs that show up on the front page are straight up echo chamber of right wing misogyny it’s actually pretty scary. and then there’s more niche ones that don’t show up on the front page so get less attention and get away with more heinous shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:52 PM
6

and i’m a victoria’s secret model 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:50 PM
4

lol thanks for the laugh little guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:42 PM
13

why anyone would think a random dude is more qualified to speak on behalf of women than an actual woman is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:35 PM
17

Why don’t you have custody of your kid? Literally any time I’ve seen a father actually fight for their children they get at least 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:41 PM

I’m painfully unsurprised tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:06 PM

I’m literally a woman telling you I feel pleasure from anal. I also said it can hurt. I also said everyone is different. So you can think whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:45 PM

I’m a woman and yes, the act and the feeling can give you pleasure. It can also hurt. We’re all different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:00 PM

women typically don’t feel anything from anal My guy? I promise you we do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:36 PM

I’m just curious what was said that would lead you to believe she’s a misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:11 PM

That just might be the funniest thing I’ll read today.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:18 PM
2

Wait but that’s different!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:28 PM
1

Just saying, I’m at around 50 but I’ve been with my dude for almost a decade. I don’t want marriage but you absolutely can choose monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:27 PM
5

Lol as a woman that’s blatantly untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:57 PM
1

As long as he doesn’t want kids, I agree. Bc it can never truly be 50/50 if one partner is gestating and birthing and nursing a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:57 PM

I’ve been clean for like 3 years lol come to my town. I can sit at any of our 3 bars and hear men say the exact same shit “well Debra just ain’t puttin out like she used to so of course I had to get some on the side” and Jim bob and the boys will nod along and congratulate him and ask for pointers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:20 PM

Idk what world you’re living in but where I am women are judged way more harshly for cheating than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:09 PM
3

According to OP none of that matters bc they had higher rates of marriage? Not successful marriage mind you, just marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:52 PM
1

Not enough to change how I think 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:53 PM
1

I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:11 PM
2

I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:39 AM
1

Average to below average? I’m probably the heaviest at 135 and I’m 5’4
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:28 AM
1

I mean…it’s not the reason we’ve been together for almost a decade but I suppose it is a reason. Imma show him this comment lol he’ll like it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:27 AM
0

Misogynistic logic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:55 AM
1

If I disagree with you I’m dissing him and if I agree with you I’m dissing myself :( I think we’re pretty evenly “looks matched” tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 01:59 AM
2

In my friend group there’s literally only one couple where the man out earns his wife. I out earn my bf and cover the majority of our bills. Every time I bring that up red pillers like to point out how that’s the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 05:57 PM
5

Do you not like talking about dinosaurs??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:33 PM
6

I’ve never had neon hair but I did have lavender hair for a while and I got hit on way more then than I do with blonde hair now. I’m not complaining but it was one of the things that made me move away from unnatural colors
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:53 PM
1

Counter point: Gypsy rose Blanchard
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:04 PM
3

Yes we already know that men commit more crimes than women. But implying that some men don’t thirst over women in jail the same way that some women thirst over men in jail is just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:25 PM
0

I mean that’s blatantly untrue but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:19 PM
4

Then what’s the point of making a post
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 06:19 PM
9

Ok assuming you actually did hear these words come out of an actual humans mouth…why on earth would you assume this applies to all women? As for the other part, it goes both ways ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:09 PM
4

That is certainly an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:12 PM
4

everything in society is centered around women Yeah like reproductive laws right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:23 PM

Interesting. I, as a woman, don’t want that. Don’t know any women that do. But go off I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:21 PM
7

Yes I really and truly believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:23 PM
0

yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:07 PM
11

Truth is…funny? I mean ok I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:07 PM
0

“It’s ok if I do it bc they do it too”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 09:05 PM

Bc we understand we generally get a raw deal lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:52 AM

So you’re saying marriage doesn’t mean the man carries most of the financial burden? I’m shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:52 AM

We don’t have children or plan on them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:45 AM

Wait if I marry my long term bf he’ll start making more than me??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:42 AM
1

Nope I’ll keep speaking and acting exactly how I want, thanks so much for the concern 😊 Edit: /u/fifththrowaway I’m literally autistic…so
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:21 PM
0

…you mean exactly like you’re doing? Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:25 PM
2

Again, you can have a genuine connection with someone and still not find yourselves compatible. People literally break up or decide to only be friends for exactly this reason. Not everyone is gonna be the right match for everyone ride just bc they spent a week/month/year/decade talking/dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:42 PM
0

Sounds like a super healthy way to look at humans and find a solid relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:32 PM
3

You can connect with someone and still not find yourselves compatible tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 01:28 PM
4

No it’s not. Look through my history im absolutely a woman. And I don’t think it’s fair to say most women don’t bother with this just bc this particular site leans towards men more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:37 PM
4

I’m a woman you fucking doorknob
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:22 PM
4

Yep, all women right? That’s why men have such deep and meaningful relationships and aren’t constantly whining about the male loneliness epidemic, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:12 PM
4

Are you joking? I like fat guys with face tattoos. No one is commending or championing my taste in men besides those men. My friends hate it, my family is worried about me, I’m confused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:18 PM

Then stop trying lmao no one is asking you to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:31 PM
1

It’s true for some women. I always liked virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:48 PM
14

There’s also many “autists” (as you so eloquently say in a a totally non discriminatory way 🙄🙄) that deeply enjoy clubs. But I guess it’s easier to just lump us all in one category
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:34 PM
-4

That’s a wild over generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:15 AM
1

Not really I know what my dude is into and it’s nothing nefarious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 05:03 AM
1

Relieved lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 04:56 AM
1

Accounts like this truly fascinate me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:24 PM
1

~hot~
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:03 PM
11

Yeah I think I watched this porno actually
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:40 PM

god forbid I get sick and spend a weekend on the couch, I know. True degeneracy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:49 PM

I wish you were as clever as you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:32 PM

I’m comfortable with you thinking that, randomly generated account that’s less than a year old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:29 PM

Oh don’t worry, I am
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:25 PM

Babe, you fucking wish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:18 PM

Yes comedy usually makes one seethe right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:06 PM

funniest comment I’ve read all day thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:01 PM

This part literally made me cackle
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 08:00 PM

ok but fr picnics are lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:59 PM
4

I’m gonna be honest, I’m sure they exist but I’m fucking drunk and in no mood to look for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:57 PM
5

after. When the woman is vulnerable. What common means here is that people with abusive tendencies will mask their abusive inclinations until their partner is in a vulnerable position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:46 PM
1

you’d like that wouldn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:38 PM
3

the woman who rejected him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:37 PM
4

when you said it’s uncommon for abuse to start at pregnancy or after birth I think you mean super common. Bc it is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:35 PM
1

then OP is kinda dumb and knows very little about relationships 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:32 PM
-1

smells like ‘pick me’ in here 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 06:31 PM
2

😂 there it is your wants > ours
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:21 PM
2

you enjoy it so much you took time out of your Saturday to write a post complaining about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:17 PM

I’m happy to report she’s now a single mom who lives in a 5th wheel 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:09 AM

So I was in a lovely situation where he cheated on me with someone i considered a close friend. She was someone I had confided in about my relationship and she just felt sooooo bad for HIM and that turned into her “falling in love with him” and then sleeping together. I absolutely blame both of them as we all lived in the same house so it’s not like there was any miscommunication about the status of our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 07:30 PM
4

lol I absolutely do not believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:22 PM
3

the amount of you that truly believe this is terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:22 PM
7

which is another thing men always respect
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:21 PM
11

Yeah it’s generally women whining about wearing condoms right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:10 PM
3

lol why and how
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:48 PM
9

lol are you…surprised by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 05:25 PM
3

Mine is a pic of a famous rapper but that’s a solid reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 09:16 PM
1

Unrelated but why do I keep encountering people who claim to be men and have a female avatar thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:14 PM
4

Wow not even 9am and I’ve read the dumbest thing I’ll read all day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:15 PM
4

Than a trusted family member? You’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:59 PM
1

How
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:32 PM
1

It’s ok, I’m wrong about things sometimes too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:31 PM
1

That is certainly an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:37 PM
2

Does it make you feel better to know I’m not? I was just doing the best I could in the situation I was in 🤷🏼‍♀️ and that part I don’t feel bad about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:36 PM
1

Not to be that guy but you can drown a goldfish
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:35 PM
1

Women are always choosing to get and be pregnant? Interesting tell me more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:35 PM
1

😂😂 abortion is pro woman whether you like it or not. Us having a choice is infinitely more important than anything you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:48 PM
1

Lmao what is a “victim of abortion”? Anti abortion legislation is anti woman. You can disagree but it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:32 PM
2

I do enough lying irl I appreciate the honesty anonymity allows for 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:31 PM
1

Well they can so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:29 PM
7

No one is arguing it’s not a life settle down 🙄 I’m wildly pro choice, have had 2 abortions and acknowledge it’s a potential life. I just think women having control of their bodies is more important than a potential life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 06:27 PM
0

I mean it seems like there definitely can, no one can force a man to be pregnant but tons of women are forced into it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:27 PM
2

Disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:25 PM
6

Legislation against abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:03 PM

You’re assuming the bears preparing for hibernation the same way yall gettin mad at women for “assuming” the man would rape her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:56 PM

Jokes on you I didn’t go to college 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:46 PM

Did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:45 PM

Something that animals do when they’re hungry?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:36 PM

I feel like it really depends on how hungry/angry the bear is right? Like I don’t think they just run around looking for people to kill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:16 PM

I find it super strange that you know your parents had a dead bedroom. Did one of them tell you that? Very odd
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 PM
1

I don’t see it that way. he’s making me uncomfortable by being loud, and I think I’m valid in addressing that. I can’t say I would enjoy being made fun of in public for doing/saying something stupid but as someone on the spectrum I appreciate the learning opportunity on how to better integrate into society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:46 PM
1

See to me it comes off as self absorbed and unaware and those are things I abhor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 08:39 PM
2

Lmao ok but also long arms! I’m not gonna date you if you’re walking around like an orangutan
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:20 PM
8

Good lord that’s my bf and I’m forever making the “take it down” hand motion bc we’ll be walking our dog down a quiet street and he’s yelling bc he has strong feelings about what he’s talking about. Like I’m glad you’re passionate but shut the fuck up I’m right here and no one else cares to hear what we’re talking about!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:18 PM

It really isn’t tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:45 PM
0

What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:42 PM

And that accounts for all the women in the world right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:29 PM

lol no you absolutely haven’t
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:27 PM

This isn’t the gotcha that you think it is. She explains her reasoning elsewhere in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:16 PM

Other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:12 PM

You’ve witnessed most women do this? Give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:06 PM
1

I’m with Obvious Smoke on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:25 PM
7

Do people look down on garbage men?? In my area that’s a good job!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:23 PM

My bf has handled it by constantly touching me and trying to initiate sex and telling me how he loves my body even if it’s not the body he fell in love with 🤷🏼‍♀️ I think I have a bigger problem with my weight gain than he does but if he did have a problem with it I’d want him to come at me with it truthfully and with suggestions on how to fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:26 AM

It actually is but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:57 PM

So if I was going by myself it would be a problem? I don’t really understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:57 PM
3

My family and my partner don’t get along. My family brings me on trips frequently that my partner is not invited on and couldn’t afford to pay his own way on if he was. He has never begrudged me going on these trips. He knows that traveling is important to me. We live together and do plenty together. I really don’t see the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 07:34 PM
3

Living a life of constantly deferring to the opinions of someone else seems pretty boring to me but I guess everyone is different
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:04 PM
16

Oh please do tell us what a “submissive wife” should be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:22 AM
15

It feels like a waste of my time to remind you that not all (or even most) feminists hate men but I have to try
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:33 PM
15

But you’re cool with getting conscripted to save non feminist women? Is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:24 PM
23

It’s frankly disturbing how many of you think ‘feminism’ means female superiority
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:17 PM
1

I think you really only get to make that call for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:11 PM
8

I’m a feminist and I love men 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:08 PM
4

So you want more abortions is what I’m getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:03 PM
3

He probably won’t have to worry about anything bc a woman seeking a provider isn’t gonna get with a man who’s not a provider
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:48 PM
2

A lot of us can. And a lot of us also want that from a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:43 PM
18

This should really be the end of the thread lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 04:42 PM
2

Fuck that my bf is neurotypical and I’m neurodivergent and he’s the furthest thing from a predator. We’re allowed to have partners and lives even if it makes you uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 03:01 PM
1

Depends on so many factors tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:01 PM
1

This is a why I never felt bad about lying about my body count and will continue to do so if I find myself single again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:00 PM
3

You damn jocker!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:09 PM
2

Ok then start doing what you’re doing 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:05 PM
-3

Fat guys are more fun to fuck than ripped guys. They try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 04:48 PM
1

I out earn my partner. We’ve been together for 9 years and that hasn’t always been the case. I like it this way, and I liked it the other way. As long as the bills are getting paid and I don’t have to make sacrifices on his behalf, I’m happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:49 AM
4

Legitimate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:04 PM
0

Yeah I’m a recovering opioid addict. I understand where you’re coming from and I can almost appreciate it but I still stand by what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:25 PM
1

I really cannot fathom the lack of mental fortitude it takes to get addicted to video games
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:23 PM
1

I really assumed that would be everyone’s answer but apparently I’m very wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:18 PM
1

Good thing mom and dad have money 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:15 PM
2

What if you have drive, ambition, and passion but your field doesn’t pay shit and you live in a HCOL area? 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:10 PM
8

It’s ok. Neither are they
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:19 PM
2

From your post history it looks like you also participated in the “beta provider” thing? And now you’re shitting on others for it? And your wife also fucks other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:06 PM
2

I mean the comment you’re replying to is a statement of fact about reality. I’m sorry that gets in the way of your feelings or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:21 PM
4

This line of thinking is one of the reasons so many kids go undiagnosed and never get the help they need and then end up as angry maladjusted adults :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:38 PM
3

You know autism is a spectrum right? I’m autistic. I was never bullied or excluded. Most people are surprised when I tell them. And a lot of us are capable of learning how to engage in “normal” human social behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:37 PM
2

As an autistic person I really love it when people wave off weird/creepy behavior with “well maybe they’re autistic!” Guess what, we’re capable of learning! I know I do some weird things but I work really hard to not make people uncomfortable. And wouldn’t you know it, I’ve never been accused of being creepy (at least to my knowledge) It’s almost like some people are just fucking weird and don’t have or need a diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:34 PM
-3

Got it “no jokes”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:49 PM
13

Hey now, why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:24 PM
12

Lmao what does once being a cab driver have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:50 PM
14

That will inevitably remain unanswered by /u/HardTimes4Vampires 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:48 PM
10

But only women apparently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:26 PM
9

I wonder what happened to you to make you like this 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:23 PM
1

If someone is doing this that’s their own decision, but they better make it crystal clear to their partner that they’re being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:18 PM
1

This is a joke, you’re joking right? Say right
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:30 PM
3

Yeah I do feel like that’s a fair thing to say actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:06 PM
1

Suffer is a wild over reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:01 PM
6

Hormonal changes happen during your period tho
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:49 PM
2

Yep, that’s what they were referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:48 PM
4

Yep, as a woman, those are the only reasons sex appeal diminishes 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:31 PM
2

Lmao what on earth is this comment 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:30 PM
8

This is certainly an…opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:29 PM
4

The day men can go through pregnancy and childbirth is the day I start taking their cries of “my wife doesn’t want sex anymore” seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:26 PM
2

Or terrible attitude…it’s not just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 04:24 PM
6

Sexual assault happens on a way larger scale than you seem to grasp and I can’t continue a conversation like this until you’re willing to accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:39 PM
13

No you’re delusional for acting like sexual assault doesn’t exist and women are running around getting themselves pregnant and then aborting for the fun of it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:28 PM
4

Yep 😊 any other questions I can help you with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:28 PM
-3

*in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:24 PM
9

I genuinely wish I could be this delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:23 PM
4

I’m poor and have had two abortion, one while I was a teen. You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:23 PM
3

Or if the condom breaks or you forget your birth control…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:09 PM

Na dude you were right you should def leave her!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:03 AM
4

I’m genuinely sorry that that’s your interpretation of what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:15 PM
4

Well then that’s just another reason I feel bad for them!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:05 PM
5

I genuinely feel bad for the women in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:47 PM
2

Bc why would they be interested in a romantic relationship but not a friendship? Bc one involves sex? Just seems weird
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:40 PM
2

not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:29 PM
6

That would make me wonder why this person would be seeking out a romantic relationship then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:22 PM
2

And different people/cultures value different things. Shocking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:26 PM
3

That’s simply not true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:18 PM
2

Na. Some of us fit into both categories
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:03 PM
2

It can also be really low, depending on how you put it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:59 PM
1

Yo wtf? Why are you with someone who views you like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 03:03 PM
10

I’m really sorry this is going so far over your head, that really wasn’t my intention :/ have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:49 PM
11

You told that woman that she must not know herself that well. Implying you know her better. How do you know an individual better than they know themselves and can you teach me that skill? Sorry that wasn’t clear enough for you, hope this helps 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:35 PM
12

How did you learn everything about every individual in the world and will you teach me to also know everything about everyone in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:20 PM
5

So caring for your partner and doting on them is viewed as servitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:19 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:04 PM
31

Then they’re free to seek that out from someone looking for the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:33 PM
14

I’d say that needs to be a discussion between that couple and she’d be perfectly within her rights to not wanna continue a relationship under those terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:14 PM
15

yes Especially if her partner is comfortable with it. Which he clearly is. Since he told you that. You need to worry less about everyone else and more about where your insanely strict ideals are coming from and how they’re going to effect you in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:50 PM
15

What? I’m saying it’s inappropriate in your opinion. The vast majority of people do not share your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:41 PM
20

In your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:28 PM

Fr if I have to follow the rules then so does everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:44 PM

Reported 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:02 PM

Why ya hittin on “young girls”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:55 PM
2

I can assume you don’t drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:25 PM
13

I really don’t wanna see the inside of this guys living space
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:37 PM
3

A lot of them really insist on acting like spoiled tweens and it alternates between hilarious and concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:20 AM
24

I personally have a problem with phrasing it like that. Asking any of the questions you listed is totally legitimate and I’d be happy to answer them but just saying “what do you bring to the table” comes off as needlessly confrontational to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:29 PM

You’ve already lost if you’re lumping all women in together
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:55 PM
0

Right? Guess we have even more in common than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:27 AM
29

So people called you manipulative and predatory so you decided to be manipulative and predatory to prove them wrong? Interesting strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:30 PM

Can a 12 year old consent to sex? It’s so weird how yall wanna cry about men’s problems but then continue to perpetuate a huge one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:34 PM

Idk what you’re trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:31 PM

Why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:15 PM

Lol ok. I think you’re wildly misinformed but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:04 PM

Weird of you to cheer for a child being assaulted but iight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:47 PM

Ew what? Why would you need to know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:46 PM

Yeah no you’re right. Homeschool your kids. See how that goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:46 PM
1

This is one thing I’m confident on being right about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 PM
6

Hey so I work with kids and you’re wrong. There’s literally no research that supports hitting children. It’s not good for them and it’s not good for anyone. Facts don’t care about your feelings and all that good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:39 AM
3

It’s funny that you think you’re making a valid point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:26 PM
3

Yes, one typo makes someone illiterate. Yall are boring 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:56 PM
5

That sounds like even more work 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:39 PM
7

I’m the opposite. I like my job most of the time, but I hate that I’m obligated to do it or starve/be homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:30 PM
2

Glad you appreciated it 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:29 PM
-1

Just as I’ve never painted all men as predators. Do you get what I’m trying to say here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 02:39 PM
-2

How about you don’t cause female neuroticism by preying on us? I can do this all day babe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:44 AM

Show me a law that says it’s ok to abuse men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 07:07 PM
1

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:55 PM

I’m sorry you feel that way but you’re wrong :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:21 PM

It’s not at all a rare occurrence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:20 PM
3

I’m not wrong tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:18 PM

So the flip side of this is “why should women enter relationships when men have the power to literally rape and kill you?” But I assume you’d have a problem with someone saying that. If this is how you view relationships then just don’t get in them. It’s ok to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:20 PM
4

Imagine thinking this is a helpful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:10 PM
16

Got it, accommodate male neuroticism but not female neuroticism. Any other tips and tricks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:11 PM
13

Just to clear this up, you’re saying you would consider killing a woman who chose to have an abortion. And yall wonder why so many of us are afraid of you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 03:29 PM
6

What on earth makes you think most women are bisexual or asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:15 PM
0

Just curious from seeing your flair, are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:52 PM
5

I don’t think the vast majority of people are talking about high school my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:08 PM
0

Implying you can’t be healthy and also have hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:15 AM
3

Get a vasectomy??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 08:14 AM
0

I live in Southern California, I can see and feel the difference climate change has brought every season change and that’s alarming to me. Again, living in Southern California (specifically San Diego), the cost of living is nuts. Even if I did find a “rich” husband, unless he’s a millionaire, one income just isn’t going to cut it. I’m willing to live frugally but there are also some very expensive hobbies that I’m not at all willing to compromise on. The last one I will admit, I’m vain. I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:24 PM
0

For me the biggest reasons are climate change, cost of living, and the personal toll it would take on my body. In that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 07:11 PM
1

I’m 28. I love my family. I would love to create my own. But I’m not stupid, this is not a world to bring a child into
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:15 PM
2

The world is on fire, finances are just one reason a lot of us aren’t having kids. Things like war and climate change affect all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:11 PM
0

And there’s nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:56 PM
1

Um I love kids and I’m def afraid of having kids and as a result ruining my looks/body. I’m also terrified of the pain, I was an addict for years and normal pain meds just don’t cut it for me. Acknowledging that kids can ruin you financially also doesn’t indicate that you hate kids, it indicates you’re aware of all the things that can go wrong. The fear of losing your identity is also super valid. Every woman that I know that has more than two kids has described that feeling to me and it’s heart…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:55 PM
3

Jacked doesn’t equal attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:12 PM
3

I hate to be the one to tell you this but there’s always been women who are into the whole guy liner thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:11 PM
5

Idk if he’s a “sex symbol” but my celebrity crush is def chubby bordering on fat and I think he’s sexy af 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I also know I have a thing for bigger dudes so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:10 PM
6

I do not wanna see the inside of where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:08 AM
1

Lmao just bc you don’t like women doesn’t mean everyone feels that way dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:07 AM

That’s all anyone is doing here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:03 AM
4

That sounds good and healthy for all involved parties
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:15 PM
1

😂 ok dude, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:35 PM
3

Denzel curry is a god
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:20 AM
1

Usually I’m into that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 09:31 PM
12

That’s a healthy outlook
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:06 PM
10

Inconceivable!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:05 PM
4

Well we can circle back to the part where /u/Horses4causes thinks that the DNA of people you’ve had sex with stays in/on (?) you and somehow impacts your sexuality and life choices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:52 PM
3

Every comment you make on here my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:50 PM
0

He’s talking about himself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:50 PM
3

Thanks for the laugh, I’m sick and bummed about probably missing thanksgiving but this made me cackle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:49 PM
8

As long as he’s clean (free of STDs) then yeah why not. My count is lower than that but still higher than a lot of people find “acceptable” and I’m not a hypocrite so 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:03 PM
2

I can pick you up at 8 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:44 PM
2

I mean I’m not claiming to speak for all women. That’s just how I feel 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:22 PM
2

I actually think being a step mom would be ideal, especially if baby mama isn’t in the picture. You get the kid without having to be pregnant or give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:23 AM
-1

Hi. Now you’ve come across 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:38 PM
28

I’m a straight woman but good lord do I feel this. I’m cute, I know I’m cute, but taking pics of myself just gives me the opportunity to point out every little thing I don’t like about myself. It also feels vain af and idk, unnatural? Like I’m never gonna say no to taking a pic with friends or family but intentionally taking a pic of myself seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:34 PM
-1

That fully depends…there are some of us that are into fat guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 10:32 PM
2

Go right ahead, but no, the auto mod isn’t going to ask women the same question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:29 PM
5

I’m sorry you’d rather go through life as a misanthrope, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:10 PM
2

I’m gonna let you in on a secret, you can love someone, especially romantically, and not want to support them financially. Shocking, I know 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:13 PM
6

I mean, most everyone is wonderful and unique in their own way so yes 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:52 PM
2

You implied that, actually. If you’re going into a relationship looking at what kind of “deal” it is, you’re already doing things wrong. But you kinda seem pretty bitter about this so idk why I’m expending the energy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:49 PM
1

Catering to someone’s needs doesn’t equal fully supporting a full grown adult who is supposed to be your partner. Don’t date single moms if you don’t want to, I don’t give a shit. But I’m tired of so many people acting like a single mom is the worst thing in the world. It’s 2023, get it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:24 PM
1

🥱 you could just say I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:09 PM
6

I mean I can’t speak for anyone other than myself but I don’t talk or think like this. Bc I’m not a mean person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:04 PM
1

Wait you mean most single moms aren’t looking for another person to support? shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:56 PM
11

They didn’t say everything was great they said they didn’t yell at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:48 PM
2

I’m just saying, this sounds a lot like what I would say/have said to avoid psych meds and anti depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:45 PM
6

I mean if this is how she talks about someone she “likes” then how do we think she talks about people she doesn’t like or doesn’t care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:38 PM
0

Pass
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:20 PM

Ok then don’t reproduce 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:22 PM
7

Would I prefer that? Yes. Would the results be the same if I found out about him doing it, absolutely. I don’t think a lot of men really acknowledge what a huge giant sacrifice it is for a woman to have a child. It’s not a small thing. If I’m willing to go into a lifetime commitment like no other with someone, I expect trust at the very least. If they can’t even give me that then they’re gone and I’ll never feel bad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:54 PM
2

Na if I’m innocent it’s an “I’m now a single mom/have to abort a wanted baby bc it’s father revealed themselves to be a fucking idiot that I don’t wanna reproduce/co parent with”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:44 PM
13

Why is it the governments job to give you that assurance? The government can’t assure me affordable healthcare or food or rent but they should be financially responsible for assuring you of your paternity? How does that make sense to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:31 PM
7

Damn and she didn’t leave you? I’d leave the dude that said that to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:27 PM
12

You have children with someone you trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:25 PM
5

Yes absolutely, the only answer that makes sense right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:24 PM

I mean that varies depending on every couple and their situation right? Like there are things that can be seen as reasonable to work on and there are things that no normal person would tolerate in a relationship. I think the only people who can really accurately assess that are the people in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:05 PM

Because situations and feelings never change? How old are you? This viewpoint makes absolutely no sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:02 PM
-4

Congrats on having one of the more deranged accounts I’ve run into here 🤮
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 03:17 PM

In my experience, the relationship isn’t all that good if one party is ready to leave. It’s a two yes, one no kinda thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:01 PM

I’m not really sure what you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 PM

So you’re advocating for people to stay in relationships they’re unhappy in, unless they have a good enough reason to leave? Would you want to be in a relationship like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 PM

Why is marriage different? Bc of the divorce process?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:47 PM

Why/how is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:47 PM
1

I’m so sorry that you can’t read or interpret emotions :/ that must be really hard for you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:12 PM
1

You realize that comment was literally the same as what I said earlier just with the genders flipped right? Stay creeping through my profile tho 😘 sorry this is the boring one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:05 PM
1

And yet they only said women. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:54 PM
21

Illegal? What about those of us that don’t want to get married but do want to live with a partner? Why is it bad for people who love each other to live together?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:37 PM
1

I was in a relationship for 9 years. If I called him my bf people didn’t really take it seriously. Calling him my husband would be a lie since I’ve never intended to get married. Partner felt good/right bc most of the time that’s what we were. I’ve only seen partner used at like law firms, which I’ve definitely never worked at so I don’t really see the word partner and think ‘work’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:33 PM
1

Thanks I will
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:23 PM
0

If that’s what you’re taking away from this I’m comfortable with that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 09:22 PM
-1

You are completely free to feel that way 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:53 PM
2

Not sure what that has to do with it but I am 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:48 PM
2

And what does it sound like to you in OPs original comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:34 PM
-5

Anytime 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 PM
1

Damn I can’t. What do you do? Oh wait, I see you’re in the UK 😅 jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:48 PM
4

This is what I’ll be telling my next bf if he doesn’t wanna pay for shit “if you loved me and were attracted to me you would do this to make me happy” Wait, that sounds really fucked up right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:47 PM
0

lol no it wasn’t, not everything is about you, feel free to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:38 PM
-1

I mean I wasn’t asking you but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:22 PM
2

Haha maybe I’m the asshole here bc manipulating most people, especially if you know them (unfortunately goes double for men), is super easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:18 PM
2

What’s weird about saying >most of them have no fucking idea how hard it is to manipulate a person for a limited period of time let alone keep the manipulation going year after year? That’s what you’re asking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:14 PM
3

Ah well if you’ve never heard that then surely it just doesn’t happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:11 PM
-5

lol thanks for the laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:09 PM
1

*people conflate red flags with fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:04 PM
3

So you would date a 22 year old as a 30 year old? I’m 28 and hooked up with a 23 year old and felt really weird about it :/ 22 and 30 seems weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:02 PM
5

Interesting how you specifically said women and not people as if this is something men are immune to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:00 PM
-3

…are you speaking from experience? That just strikes me as a really weird thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:59 PM
5

Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:53 PM
2

More *diagnosed autistic men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 04:42 PM
1

Wait are there women who want to have sex when they take LSD?? I love sex and I love psychedelics but for me those two should not mix
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:38 PM
8

Did someone not get invited to a Halloween party? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:45 PM
6

Um I’m a woman and I wasn’t attached to the vast majority of men I’ve slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:32 PM
1

Can you read? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:28 PM
0

Some of us actually do be doing that tho 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:27 PM
1

That’s untrue on both counts 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:54 PM
4

This is why I stay in the sub. Y’all are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:51 PM
1

This may apply to you but I assure you not everyone feels the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:37 PM
3

That’s not true lol people can want to party and have fun and also settle down and have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:20 PM
2

I’ve interacted with this guy before, his user flair is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:38 PM
1

I think it’s statistically more likely to experience intimate partner violence than paternity fraud actually. From what I can see at least
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:37 PM
1

You realize the exact same thing could be said about partner murderers, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:30 PM
-3

Wack shit, meaning something you can’t conveniently rebuff right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:27 PM

Just like men will never know what it’s like to cook and birth a whole human 🤷🏼‍♀️ being a parent is a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:12 AM
2

That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:38 PM
6

You have to be attractive too. Bearded and tattooed helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:36 PM

How can I lose respect for someone when I’m making the ultimate sacrifice and commitment to them and they can’t give even give me basic trust back? Are you really asking that question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:42 PM
2

Doesn’t change what I said 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:57 PM
2

Why are there so many dudes with girl avatars?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:13 PM
3

Congratulations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:11 PM
4

Asshole and whore are wildly different insults tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:10 PM
2

I’m sorry this is your experience with men. The men in my life are nothing like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:09 PM
1

Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:07 PM
9

Why do you say it wouldn’t cost me anything? It would absolutely cost me the love and respect I had for someone I chose to reproduce with. It would cost my hypothetical child a 1 house, 2 parent household and it would cost this hypothetical man the chance to have a family unit with me and his child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:00 PM
8

You sound like you have some really deep seated issues surrounding this so all I’m gonna say is that a. I wildly disagree with you and b. I really hope you disclose all of this to anyone you hope to impregnate, before you’ve impregnated them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:46 PM
9

I wouldn’t be “choosing to be offended on behalf of women’s rights” I would genuinely be offended that someone I chose to reproduce with suddenly decided they couldn’t trust me for whatever reason. Seems like common sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:40 PM
8

You realize all you’re saying is “dads feelings > moms feelings” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:35 PM
8

No. And I absolutely would leave someone if they insisted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:33 PM
10

If I’m having a baby with someone (literally the biggest commitment I, as a childless woman can make) but homie needs a medical test to fully trust me I’ve already made a terrible mistake and would no longer want to have a child with this person. The reassurance to the father can very often come at the expense of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:23 PM
1

Couldn’t you lean into your masculinity and potentially looks tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:20 PM
2

I disagree with that. With being diagnosed comes access to services and support that people who aren’t diagnosed never get. I’m not saying men or women have it easier, but getting a diagnosis is generally a helpful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:40 PM
5

There are more *diagnosed autistic men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:26 PM
13

Women are generally better at masking their autistic traits than men and yes, most men are willing to overlook more than most women are. In my experience at least
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:25 PM
2

~or~ I’m not gonna waste my time on an obvious troll. Your choice 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:11 AM
5

🥱 ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:10 AM
5

lol I’m a woman and I agree with what /u/HighestTierMaslow is saying. I also think this is an absolutely ridiculous comment on your part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:02 AM
2

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:40 PM
3

No wtf? What did I win? If he says he actually loves me then he can prove it bc all those things, especially if you know for a fact he did differently for other women, just tell me he’s ready to settle down and doesn’t actually care about what I want or need. That’s not a win, that’s a disappointingly average relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:15 PM
2

This is a joke right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 02:01 PM
5

Impossible bc nature!! Or something, idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:58 PM
6

Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:57 PM

That’s really gross to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:18 AM

lol as a 28 year old, I said the same thing at 20. Just sayin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:31 PM

I’m 28, I’ve essentially spent the last ~12 years ho ing around as much as I can. I’ve, quite literally, never come across an arrangement like this. Where (outside of porn) are you encountering this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:04 PM
3

Bc you can be feminine without being submissive, as well as the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:20 AM

I’ve heard men say this before and it very deeply icks me out. I also experienced the exact opposite in my last relationship. I fucked my coworker (bc he was hot and I wanted to) and he fucked my friend (bc he was sad and I was being “mean”)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:13 PM
8

The worry about declining birth rate is my favorite excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:31 PM
1

I genuinely hope this is helping your self esteem
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:24 PM
1

Not really helping your case are you
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 03:10 PM
1

Dense too 🥱 good luck buddy, seems like you’re gonna need it
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 02:53 PM
0

Cope knowing that lots of us can and do have casual sex, do our hobbies, spend time with friends and family, and work (funny that you left that one out) and can still drop in to do whatever tf we want 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 02:40 PM
1

I can’t imagine why you’re still a virgin, you seem so pleasant!
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 02:33 PM
1

lol idk this post and your comments make you seem pretty dumb
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 02:26 PM
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