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Back to the book. What makes you think explaining logic to an emotional being would get you the result you want. She will not hear your words, only how they make her feel - and telling someone to settle will make them feel like shit.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 06:35 AM
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Had a list like that once, but you would never know if she was following it or not, girls are great liars. It shows too much investment that you care too much. If she does not know your boundaries by being around you for enough time, then maybe you haven't been displaying them or don't actualy have them. Communication like this is pointless; any deals or negotiations don't work. Your applying logical thinking to an emotional creature. She may even read and hear what you say differently to you wh…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:23 AM
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In my school everyone was banging from 13 onwards..
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:55 AM
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You being Muslim has nothing to do with this, you cant use being Muslim as a reason for saying your not going to marry her, you shouldn't even be fucking her if you're Muslim. Want to be two things at once, even if they conflict? Fine but dont use it as illogical reasoning. The whole point of red pill and especially plates and abundance mentality is if it is not what you want you move on because there are billions of girls with no tattoos. You are now on the spectrum of oneitus, among other spec…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 01:19 AM
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Women use logic all the time I'm not saying they don't, I'm talking specifically in situations pertaining to sexual attraction with an alpha, their desired alpha who gives them those feels. At that point at that extreme I think most women won't use logic, yes there are exceptions but I don't see the point in discussing unicorns. Furthermore, the exceptions tend to be societal repercussions and consequences not a woman's internal moral or logic system. It's nature the same way most married men wi…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:27 PM
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It make zero difference in my opinion, if a married woman is getting her buttons pushed in all the right places by an alpha, and she is getting all the tingles she wants, do you genuinely think the red pill or self-awareness will matter? That assumes logical thinking over emotional. If they're want to? Why would they want to do that which is against the natural inclination, against their desire? Women respond to consequence at best, not logic, something society no longer provides. All women are …
/r/askTRP29/05/19 04:29 PM
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Self aware up until the point their man goes through a down phase and they branch swing, but I guess that wouldn't get posted up. Redpill women are the same as religious women, its a way of boosting their apparent morality, what's changed? Any woman that wants to keep her man is more self aware.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 03:04 PM
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Why would you assume anything they say is true? Aren't we supposed to watch what a women says not what a woman does? I'm not saying they're lying, but I have always been amazed at a woman's ability to see reality differently. I wouldn't be surprised if a red pill woman could believe she'd gone a whole day with out shit testing, I doubt her man would agree. It's not red pill women its women behaving because they want something out of it.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:56 PM
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It's not overiding her nature if an alpha with beta provisioning is the prize, a women will change anything about herself to get him. It would be overiding if she is settling for a deadbeat while receiving offers from alpha providers, out of loyalty. Understanding their own nature, will not stop them shittesting, or seeking attention from men, like a normal relationship, that's down to how much she wants the man. All her "understanding" of her nature will go out the window the moment he stops gi…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 02:44 PM
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I think it's a part of hypergamy in that women use it to attain their alpha male with beta providing traits all in one, the perfect catch. There is no overiding women's nature.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 01:50 PM
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This is what I would say, if I'm trying to be the best version of myself I want to surround myself with like minded people, not many out there.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:50 PM
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I do many things I enjoy, mostly training, though things are always more enjoyable with people you enjoy, people that you share commonalities with, you are the average of the five people you hang around with. Thanks though, I will look into more activities
/r/askTRP28/05/19 03:31 PM
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Sometimes I feel like with women, if she says she hates you, its the closest you'll get to her loving you the way you want. Hate is normally what they say about the guy that alpha widowed them, they love that negative emotion, more than any nice guy.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 02:58 PM
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Once had a glass of water thrown in my face in a restaurent, threw one back at hers with a smirk on my face, started a water fight, got kicked out, arrived back at mine and she was still wet...
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:57 AM
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Most religions posit this life as a test, in that regard everything makes sense as it is.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 12:44 AM
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Anxious is good, being sure around you is bad. Anxious means you make her nervous which means she cares what happens next. When you fuck it validates her so the anxiety dies down a bit until next time.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 02:52 PM
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Aren't comfort tests in relationships only?
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:52 PM
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No worries man
/r/askTRP12/05/19 11:00 PM
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I don't even think the other people respecting you matters, if you can sleep at night with self respect, its worth it.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:19 PM
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I think it comes down to why you did nothing, if you are well trained and could have handled yourself you might feel happy with not saying anything. But if you know deep down you didn't do anything because you were afraid then that's the issue. A defencless man in this situation is running, where as one whom could defend himself would be ignoring. But there were three of them so... Guess do more training, krav maga trains fighting against multiple people. Your mind is nagging you because you hav…
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:17 PM
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Tadalafil daily 2.5g/5mg, Boron 10mg, Building muscle, Zinc
/r/askTRP11/05/19 08:30 PM
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I though the idea was to do all those things to be the best version of yourself, to pursue your purpose which is the most important thing in life, and then that just so happens to make you more attractive to women.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 02:00 PM
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"I missed you, I thought of you the whole time"
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:39 AM
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"Honestly babe I thought it wasn't real..."
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:25 AM
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Must have been one hell of a fuck..
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:55 AM
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When a girl is unnecessarily insecure or paranoid, I usually end up finding out that they're projecting their own actions onto me because they cheated.. Probably not though..
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:51 AM
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Pass her anti-slut defense then get her to describe her perfect type of man in detail, how ripped, skin color, hight, which positions she'd like to be fucked in by him in, let her think you don't care an just think it'd be cool to know, no judgment. When you find out her dream is nothing like you, you'll be put off for life knowing she's fantasizing about him when you are railing her... Hint: they all want that BBC.. If you don't believe it you're a dumbass
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:34 AM
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Tried it, works surprisingly well..
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:27 AM
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If all white guys are referred to as boys, it doesn't change the fact you can make women view you specifically as an individual man by changing what you can control. I sometimes get this, but I know I wouldn't if i was so pumped you could tell by looking at me I would break you, in precisely what way depending on the gender of the person viewing me — Thats one variable. Till you're at that point, take being seen as a boy as motivation. My little thirteen-year-old bro told me it annoys him how pe…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:42 PM
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That promise ring will be giving friction burns to the man she's giving handjobs to behind your back, don't invest.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:40 PM
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I see, I will internilise this, so ultimately - actions speak louder than words, especially real actions that are meant. Appreciate it
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:37 PM
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Got it, Thanks
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:52 PM
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See how she reacts if she thinks your breaking up, my exes would often reveal themselves then. Maybe sad but understanding at first, some emotional manipulation, then attitude, threats, swearing and shouting, most unladylike behaviour unseen previously because they don't have a reason to hide it at that point, they think it's over, but it's what they're capable of when they get comfortable. I've had conversations with an ex where we both said it was crazy how girls can wolf cry on violence and r…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:49 PM
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So it's not beta or needy if you simply tell a girl "no" with zero arguing or reasoning? According to personal bounderies Should this be something she knows not to do before entering an LTR?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:34 PM
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Everyone is different, but you should not feel depressed, because the whole idea of your mindset changing is that you would then view those things in a positive light not a depressive one, YOU are going to want to settle, and if you dont, oh well. You have freedom.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:35 PM
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Crazy story, she ended up carving my intials into her skin to get me back, fucked up shit. A lot of beta moments but more importantly lessons. I'll make a long post about it soon, the most important lesson is that men will say AWALT but slyly perhaps unconsciously hold hope that if they can just find a girl with enough values, culture or religion.. Maybe if they can just be alpha enough she will be their unicorn, I don't believe it.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:25 PM
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It's only a matter of time + the right place until she cheats, and you may never know, the lies are that good. But what's the alternative, how long can empty plates sustain you until you need some actual food. It's always going to end, but so is life and we still live it.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:14 AM
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Had to go with a holy, fully veiled, muslim woman to realize All Women Are Like That. You know when she accidentally sucked someone else's dick.. Twice.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:02 AM
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Yes just checked it out, so I have a lot but it's not bioavailable, may need medication to mitigate very high SHBG
/r/askTRP18/04/19 01:02 PM
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Does free testosterone not matter so much then?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:44 PM
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Sure, will check it out, thanks
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:44 PM
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Appreciate it
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:43 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:42 PM
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These are all I have, Testosterone - 25.80 - nmol/L. SHBG - H 73 - nmol/L. Free testosterone (calculated) - 0.317 - nmol/L
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:04 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0dKmgPMDnCI
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:58 PM
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Men don't lose their virginity they just have sex for the first time - Rollo Tomasi. It shouldn't be a big deal if you're on track to bigger things
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:12 PM
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I wonder (still reading sidebar) if not explaining yourself extends to men. As in its not your problem, should you not tell him to go ask his girl and leave it at that and worst comes to the worst if he escalates you defend yourself.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:58 PM
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You feel like you missed an opportunity seeing her get married now, but later it might feel like you dodged a bullet if she divorce rapes him one day...
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:02 AM
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Because rap is survival of the fittest, at least it has been since it reached the alphas in struggling neighborhoods. It still maintains that aspect today although much less so, some alphas will reside at the top because it's still what we respect deep down. There is a massive rise in feminine/emo rap; however, talking on beta issues. Just because much of it may be alpha doesn't mean it's redpill, or even masculine. There is much feminity in rap now, look at the harsh, aggressive deliveries ever…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:37 AM
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For me, it affects my psychology, the way I view society and everything contained within, from politics to simple communication. Society is made up of male and female individuals; when you realize these individual natures, everything makes more sense. Suddenly everything resembles a machine of cogs instead of chaos, and you can affect change in your part of it that much more easily.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:01 AM
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Cheated on in the first relationship, left. Second, my girl moved on so quickly after I broke up with her. I think she had the next guy ready to go. Today I got cheated on, well at least I found out today that she did. My fault for being a blue pill in denial and I'm glad it happened to snap me out of it. It's mad, so pathetic when I look at all the excuses I made for her. I rangled the confession out of her, took months but I trusted my gut. Should have just left. The one time I turned down stu…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 09:48 PM
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Yh check out the nofap forums, my problem is porn addiction. Numbed my brain to real pussy, to the point I could masturbate to a girls body in front of me as if she was a video, but couldnt stay hard to put it in. Still relapse now and then and it crashes my sex life and confidence. Anyway it's hard to quit but just focus on who you wanna be and how you wanna be able to fuck like a real man, it gets better
/r/askTRP02/03/19 05:52 PM
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Performance anxiety or perhaps you watch porn? Healthy diet and training doesn't mean you have normal testosterone levels, have you had tests? I used to have performance anxiety in regards to sex, but if you do it means your performing for her (in her frame) I lost that problem when I started fucking how I wanted to, when I wanted to. Doing the deed regularly and often will help, one day sex just isn't that much of a big deal with a new girl. Also public speaking helps, anxiety is anxiety the mo…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 05:42 PM
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Yes it's been too overt, thanks for the guidance
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:14 PM
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I didn't clarify but no we sleep together every single time we see each other, at mine in college, she's willing to do anything/everything in that respect, we see each other normally about 3 times a week.. She's my girlfriends after all, and she's asked me to marry her She is not on a pedestal in the idiolistic sense, I understand she is the same as every other girl just with a different story/astethetic. The oneitus comes more from the effort that comes with attaining plates and also self belie…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 06:23 PM
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Pre-selection, girls always check me out, when I'm with a girl.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:43 PM
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In the wise words of Kurupt, "Bitch niggas pay for hoes, just to lay with hoes Relax one night, and pay to stay with hoes Captain 'Save-'em-all-day' (Bitch), well, save this dick Bitch nigga, you more of a bitch than a bitch"
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:04 PM
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If you knew for a fact she DIDNT cheat, all the behaviour is still more than enough reason to dump her. Always trust your gut in this situation. Confusion normally comes from your gut knowing the truth and your head trying to deny it, after all its not easy to admit you been cucked. I should know, it happened to me.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:44 PM
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On a smaller scale, I was working in a store and met some resistance when I requested a change in contract for more days and training to move up. This went on for about a month until I talked to the managers of three other stores concerning a transfer. When I returned to my store requesting they start the transfer process, I suddenly got my contract and training. I don't think bluffing does it though, they need to see real intent. You wanting to leave can make a manager feel as if he's not compe…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:04 PM
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Listened to Dr Dre's The Chronic 2001 The other day, lots of unconscious red pill truths. "So he found himself a hoe that he likes, but you can't make a hoe a house wife" Black community has got it the worst with the high reliance of mums on welfare.. They just want your sperms..
/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:11 PM
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