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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Simps have ruined the dating world. You are pretty callous, unempathetic, and disloyal to your fellow man. As a red pill man I find that contradictory. Of 20 of your bros, you think all these men are hideous. Man I’m not exactly a pilled but consume red pill content plus many other self building content. I would not tear down men, so easily, because I know and am right with so many good guys. You are talking like a white knight liberal	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:42 AM
6	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone Ah heres my biggest fan!! Edit: blocked, you are bonkers, you repeat the same hysterics, you can’t even have a discussion/debate because you twist or reinterpret whatever the op says where it’s incomprehensible. You are clearly left leaning to the point of complete bias, which makes for talking to a wall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:19 AM
7	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone Men are expected by women and society to pursue women, sometimes they are strangers. It’s a chore, men didn’t sign up for but it is what it is. Do you need to learn about the birds and the bees?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:11 AM
9	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone Because this actually generally true. Many stereotypes have layers of truth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 02:05 AM
20	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone Dating is such a rigged game against men, it’s to the point that if doesn’t matter honestly in the grand scheme. We need oxygen, food, water. Most anything else is a luxury. I can’t see women making dating any better, only worse. They have all the cards now, maybe we bow out and see if they can take initiative and accountability in dating. If not, in 100 years see if the human race survives	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 01:57 AM
9	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone To expand on my point that people-men have busy lives and such. While we are expected to do the pursueing. If we can’t make it to the gym, if you never see her around much, but figure it’s worth a shot. Shoot your shot, women tell men this. It’s all contradictory. It’s a joke . Barely worth trying. We all know they won’t ever do anything. If pursueing were up to women tomorrow. In 100 years the human race would be extinct. We never asked or wanted to be pursuers. Maybe we should quit. We don’t n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 01:51 AM
14	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone True, it’s garbage rhetoric by women privileged in dating that are entitled and want every single fairy tale moment handed to them. While they do nothing but take and receive. Meanwhile people have busy lives, working jobs and such. Men are expect by society and women to pursue. It’s not something we enjoy, it’s a duty. Nothing will happen if we don’t. We know women aren’t going to pick up the slack. It’s stupid today	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 01:02 AM
26	Men trying to speedrun getting dates in non-inherently-date-focused spaces ruined it for everyone Honestly, at this point men should bow out of pursuer role. If women want to pick up the slack and actually effort, great! If not who F-n cares at this point. Everyone can be single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 12:41 AM
0	The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and convenience She used another line commonly used when bringing up these dating imbalances. “It’s a you problem”. Used all the time	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:51 PM
2	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them Like really, men don’t do it because they enjoy it. It’s like a duty or a job, a chore, if we didn’t, seemingly no one will. You mentioned it’s a part of life which means as a woman you some what get it. So from your point of view, what are the environments you would find approaches most agreeable, and least agreeable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:52 PM
3	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them More women should be so proactive if they aren’t looking, it’s at least doing something helpful and contributing to the struggling dating scene	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 04:03 PM
1	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them This low key approach is the easiest and most respectful, but not the most successful as it often doesn’t transition effectively in a bold asking out. More effective over frequent contact. It seems not complicated to you because as a woman you don’t have actually do anything complicated other than stand there and be approached, all the work will be done for you, all you have to do is be exist, be approachable, agree or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:37 PM
1	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them What if in the case that alot of single women don’t leave the house to be social. People don’t have parties much. Hobby groups are mostly men. Don’t care about books and would be disingenuous to go to a group where I’m not interested in the subject matter. Not many types of meetups available.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:31 PM
1	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them Men for a good while have not been approaching irl. For good reason, to respect womens wishes and to prevent from being accused as a creep or harasser. We men knew gyms, workplace, streets, appearing busy were definitely not where women wanted to be approached. Women pushed for this evironment. Now that apps are in decline, nobody seems to be enjoying or trying. Irl contact is quietly coming out of life support. With women now exclaiming they want irl approaches back. Some men are trying. Once a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:20 PM
–	Clubbing creates completely different feedback loops for young men and women Clubbing sucks. -source: man	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:11 PM
0	Simps have ruined the dating world. Men don’t view one thing like her expectation of him paying as a incompatibility, and would not dismiss her for it. It’s foolish to dismiss over a minor thing. Besides it’s still traditional dating culture, equality hasn’t arrived here. Society and women expect men to pay, quietly or not. I don’t “want” or “expect” women to do anything. It’s women who expects from us. I understand this is how it is. I don’t even necessarily agree with the op’s premise. I only commented to your assertion that men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:34 PM
0	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:20 PM
1	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Agreed, same to you	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:17 PM
1	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Nobody should have to play by any rules. Unfortunately there is a natural world, to quote yourself. If there is multiple dates and no progress, it’s fine for a guy to bail. I don’t agree with men who are explicitly entitled while dating. Can’t help but mention there are entitlements coming from women dating men all the same. A example of such briefly mentioned by me earlier	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:16 PM
2	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Yes you do get to set your boundaries. You don’t know them much of the time, you don’t know there sincerity or interest. In this case it’s, if it plays out like my example it’s ok for a man to assert his boundaries and to walk away, for being used, toyed with, gamed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:08 PM
1	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Not should a man expect or think anything is owed. The problem lies in the culture. Traditionalism is remains in dating culture, equality hasn’t arrived here. Quietly or not men are expected by women and society to pay in initial dating. You notice when the cheque arrives majority of women quietly sit and wait, or a few will sllloooooowwwwllly reach for her purse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:03 PM
1	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Women and society quietly or not expect men to pay. It’s traditionalism in dating, one area where equality hasn’t arrived. Women seem to have no qualms keeping the status quo here	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:58 PM
2	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. Women pay for half their dates? Where in Sweden? I don’t think men feel entitled to anything from women. To be honest today it feels more like expect the worst and hope for the best from women. But there is something to be said from a man paying for multiples of dates and the relationship not progressing anywhere and her only taking while he’s giving. I think it’s fair to say he that a woman “uses, toys, games” a man who is paying for many multiples of dates and it’s not progressing	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:54 PM
3	Men not enjoying being single and alone makes it easier for women to have power over them. I’d wager that the presumption that men are emotionless, or that men only want sex is near entirely perpetuated by women. What is the agenda? To make women appear better in some way? What does appearing better gain? Status?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:36 PM
2	Men not enjoying being single and alone makes it easier for women to have power over them. Great response! This was of course what he meant, but she baited with her answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 12:21 PM
1	Simps have ruined the dating world. Totally and completely disagree then, men are not privileged at all in the slightest in dating. There’s no rational line of thinking that the party who has all the workload is privileged. It’s like a wealthy landowner calling a slave privileged. Women are privileged in dating, no doubt about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 12:11 PM
0	Simps have ruined the dating world. Since equality hasn’t caught up to dating and it’s still traditional. Yes when it’s boiled down making something equal means balancing out where the scale where it’s tipped. One side loses abit so the other can become more equal. So ya maybe women would have to put more effort into dating in general as a whole like ask a guy put you fancy, instead of waiting and expecting him, therefore both sexes will initiate. Automatically pay 50/50 on dates. Equal expectation of communication effort. Etc. so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 11:34 AM
-1	Simps have ruined the dating world. It’s not a assumption, it’s common knowledge that women are choosers and men are pursuers, women have lots of options to choose from, and that with these mentioned other than sorting through options it’s generally a easier processs. Of course guys want more equality in dating, look we all bitch about the same things and we never met. As for wanting without returning, that’s bogus men already are the givers and women are the receivers in dating, analyze how every step and action and interaction g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 11:10 AM
2	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men If you actually read any of what I wrote without reinterpreting it in your mind you would see that some men and the women that pair up don’t care about the institute of marriage and prefer common law, a shared decision. Both are choosing common law commitment. You projected the bit onto my statement that these men are casual. Bad faith. You are in fact projecting a lot here. Laying down heavy women victimhood rhetoric. I agree casual people should pair up with casual people. That makes sense. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 03:14 AM
4	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Parroting the feminist rhetoric of men a few generations ago, and applying it to modern men does not work. Modern men take care of ourselves, cook, clean just fine. There’s plenty of women who leave from wanting to get with the partner they cheated with, and other no fault reasons. Women are by far and large the entitled of the species, every aspect of there lives is catered too. Literally the whole of dating privileges, caters to women. All of society caters to women including the men you despi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:55 AM
-1	Simps have ruined the dating world. Maybe it dissolves down to the dating privilege and the abundance of choice for women vs men having to work with the small sample with who they are expected to work for. It’s very hard to analyze without having dated as a man, seeing through his eyes and living his experiences. We men would love more equal effort in dating, a more level playing field. But it’s not how it is. I mean women can simply pick out one thing and dismiss such man because she has access to ten, twenty other men who will e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 02:12 AM
2	The real reason dating is broken They don’t do a equal share in dating initiative, expectations, most the load of every step of dating is put on men to step it forward including communication. Women are flakier too	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:59 AM
0	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Some men want a committed relationship and some women do. Some men opt not to or don’t care about marriage ie financial or personal reasons, same with the women they common law with. A committed relationship does not equal traditional marriage, common law can totally be committed. If you are blaming men, keep in mind women initiate majority of divorce, so it’s your decisions when the commitment ends majority of the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:50 AM
2	The real reason dating is broken Well I don’t want a servant, I want a partner who can actually communicate, reciprocate and show up consistently. I can say the women on this board want men to be servants to women. Men having all dying expectations and initiative forced onto them by society and women. Discussion is helpful. But painting everyone with the same brush doesn’t help the dire situation of modern dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:42 AM
3	The real reason dating is broken If that’s what they want and legitimately choose then not much to say. I can’t help but mention this reads like reverse polygamy, and typically involves some degree of emotional coercion. Not saying this is what is going on, doesn’t matter what internet people say anyways. However as a every man’s view, most men would consider it be fair to open the marriage equally. But it not being open, hence why polygamy comes to mind. All the power to ya as long as it’s all “fully” consensual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:36 AM
3	The real reason dating is broken This I don’t get. Your response to a responder of your previous answer is “you are happily married to a guy who does chores.” His response was if “you don’t like men be single.” Your initial answer was “men suck and don’t do chores.” There’s obvious contradiction	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:22 AM
2	The real reason dating is broken Are the men allowed to be polyamorous as well in your situation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:16 AM
7	The real reason dating is broken I’d argue it’s more women want it all. Equality everywhere while expecting traditionalism in dating. They want to cherry pick equality. Women still want the dates paid for. Even when they earn more than men. They don’t want to date a guy who earns less and has subjective lower status. Women care more about the situation, while men care more about the person. When men earned more, it was right and chivalrous to pay and initiate and perform to these dating rituals and expectations in consideration…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 01:11 AM
5	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Considering women initiate the majority of divorces. I’d say extraction of years and beauty is all on y’all, your decision. Accountability is a b**ch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 12:27 AM
0	Common law marriages should not exist and are legal scams and are unfair to men Common law marriage at least in Canada is the fairer of the two to men. Marriage vs common law. In a marriage divorce the women has rights to everything, stuff she has never contributed to like your pension, or assets you bought. Common law, she has rights to what she contributed to. I’d say that’s a fairer deal for men. It’s marriage that is not fair to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 12:23 AM
1	Society made it so that women can earn equal to men and now women can no longer find someone who earns more than them. Women today have been so masculinized that they don't even find men attractive. I agree, but nothing new here. Women-feminists cherry pick equality. When men were sole providers and protectors under the old patriarchy, men were chivalrous. Pre industrialized women were happy to stay in the cabin-cave and pick berries while men broke their backs and risked their lives against lions n tigers and neighbouring tribes. Once air conditioning and industrialization arrived by men, they were happy to announce they hate men, they don’t need men, let’s try rewrite history and slander …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 03:08 AM
1	Having hobbies is essential for having individualality and being intersting Tell us more about being rich and having no responsibilities, or dependents, or a job that you require for mostly basic income that doesn’t allot for such extravagant travel and time off? Regular people would like to know	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 01:56 AM
1	Having hobbies is essential for having individualality and being intersting Not a problem at all, I simply avoid these types. My point is relevant to this topic and I think many men will agree. I strongly agree in compatibility. I also think hobbies based on high levels of income should be sorted amongst other high income earners, just like women sort out men of height and other superficial degrees	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 01:44 AM
1	Having hobbies is essential for having individualality and being intersting Just my thoughts to a debate on topic, which is most likely shared by many men. It’s all good, whatever people will do, you do you. Still worth a mention if it’s on point	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 01:37 AM
2	Having hobbies is essential for having individualality and being intersting They are mostly completely pretentious. Outside of these expensive travels and experiences, it’s more than likely you meet a basic b***h who watches reality tv, likes Taylor swift, and likes yoga. That she has money or has access to money and flashes her travels around is her best card that makes her somewhat interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 01:17 AM
2	Having hobbies is essential for having individualality and being intersting Love how women often tout travelling as a hobby, and you must love travelling to date her as an expectation. Like seriously, we aren’t all spoiled brat rich kids, or have high paying jobs that are so agreeable to time off, or lives that support that. Some of us have some hobbies that have a bit of investment up front but then it’s go time anytime without uprooting your whole life or your finances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/26 01:03 AM
2	Young women (18-24) dont want older men 35+ True, unless they are rich. That’s when women shed ALL their standards and expectations	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 02:26 AM
-1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? I’m thinking it’s more of relaxing in your female dating privilege of being able to sit back and do nothing while men are expected to carry the load in courting. While dating women someone has to do it, so you roll the dice, maybe because you date men as well you pick up on pursuer ques. I also don’t think women are nicer as a whole, they can be generally narcissistic, self absorbed and entitled by nature. Expect men to jump through hoops for them	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 02:08 AM
1	It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcision Actually, fgm in its lightest removes the clitoral hood which is the biological equivalent of the foreskin. Debate me why one is ok while the other is deplorable. My assertion, neither is ok, neither is worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:44 AM
3	It’s hypocritical to be against FGM but not care about circumcision Yes it is. Interestingly it is a human right that girls have that men don’t. A proving point that in the west women have more rights than men, so feminists, who again has more legal rights? Men do not have bodily autonomy, women do. It is illegal to alter the genitals of a girl under 18 without consent. A boy has no such right. They also claim it’s without pain and is consequentless. Garbage. Any surgery on any part of the body has feeling. The foreskin has extra nerve endings. Research babies d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:00 AM
–	Why has their been such as rise in Forever Alone Women over the past 5 years? Of course it’s equally a loneliness epidemic. But liberal society wants to blame, bash men, without even their input, because we are easy targets	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:39 AM
–	Mixed cultural messages about sexuality create confusion around consent and expectations. Super weird, dating is retarded today. Not religious but starting to think people need the bible	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:36 AM
3	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Great example why men should not approach women at all. Apparently we are a beasts who fuck animals and corpses. Again great example why modern women are so paranoid and entitled, not even worth dating. It’s honestly more peaceful to be single. Go fuck the bear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:28 AM
1	Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocrites 100% they are. Ask them about equality. Follow up with “should they ask the man out”, “should they make the first moves”, “should they pick up the tab”, ask “if niqabs are beneficial to women or scantily clad”. Watch their high and mighty equality position crumble to that of a 50s housewife. Yup, cherry pick equality, why not pick and choose what equality suits you. Forget the complete definition and ideology. Just pick and choose like you are at a grocery store.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:51 PM
2	Men are coping too much about women who don't desire them The thing is no man out there is demanding women do the chasing. Etc. We just put our heads down and assume our EPECTED role because that’s the way it is. Abit of venting or joking about the irony or contradictions of dating roles online is different. Is your question, a question of why men ask questions about expected dating norms and roles? Because asking questions and having some debate about important topics is perfectly fine	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:41 PM
1	Comp heterosexuality is much more of a man thing Obviously yes. Men have rigid expectations from society, biology, women and other men. Straying to far outside the line can make you a outlier and it’s a competitive world for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:16 PM
1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Nah, lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:09 PM
1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Very. If a consenting woman and a old dude want a risky workplace relationship, all the power. Im saying that’s shaky ground for modern men	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 11:01 PM
1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Lots of old dudes will comply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:51 PM
1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Dating in the workplace is a terrible idea for men, should be completely avoided. I don’t know any modern man who thinks that’s a good idea	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:47 PM
0	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Would probably be easier, except for the sexual orientation part. The middle ground is hope for the best from women but expect the worst.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:28 PM
6	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Majority of women expect princess treatment by simply showing up with the lowest effort. Highly doubt you are some kind of unicorn. Let me guess, “you are the table”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:11 PM
0	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? I had men and women typed in reverse in a place which confused the context. I quickly corrected. That’s ok, conversation over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:05 PM
2	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Smiling and eye contact is such a joke for initiation or a signal. There’s numerous times a day men or women receive and give eye contact and smiles. It literally is nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:01 PM
2	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? You sound rare	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 09:57 PM
1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Plenty of good men who are good at sex and she is satisfied many times over. Still he’s a number on her abundance of choices. Won’t stop her from moving on from one guy to the next	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 09:56 PM
-2	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Women are very self centred, entitled, and disloyal. Men hope for reciprocation but know better than to expect it or anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 09:51 PM
-1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Men don’t want women more than the reverse. This is deeply ingrained biological instincts and EPECTATIONS by society and women included. It’s very feminist to say women don’t want men. I understand indoctrination can be hard to understand. Men don’t approach because they want to or need women, it’s more like a job. You just have to	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 09:17 PM
7	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? Sure why not, I imagine it’s mostly women insulted by this. Most modern men would like appreciation, equal effort. It’s women who stranglehold rigid dating stereotypes and expectations, men would like equality here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 08:53 PM
-1	Q4W: Do you actually pursue men you like? If feminism is only about equal legal rights and opportunities, then we can all say thanks and goodbye to feminism, because we have equal legal rights and opportunities. In fact women have more rights than men, in the west. According to the complete definition of feminism. Feminism includes personal, social equality to men, also dismantling gendered stereotypes. By that complete definition, that includes the privileges of gendered dating norms that the patriarchy established for women when men w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 08:48 PM