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Every time I would make the 4hr drive there it wore me out. She would always jump at me for a hug, and we would hug and embrace each other and It was so nice, so we'd hug for probably a minute. But the drive was long and wore me out every time, and I always had to pee, so I would pull away because I had to pee so bad. She thought what I was doing was a horrible thing to her, because I wasn't showing her any love since I was pulling away. Like come on, I drove 4 hours which wears me down just to …
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 09:19 PM
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Right? It's so childish She had such an issue with communication, she couldn't have face to face talks about issues, she always waited until I had driven 4 hours home, and then text me about her issues, refusing to have even a phone call. It was mad
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 09:04 PM
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First off, Patrice O'Neal is fuckin hilarious. And like you say, that nobody can define what love is, but it's what I defined it as for myself. The great moments were amazing, but definitely the fact of how she ended things (lied to me for months about still loving me) absolutely sully those good moments
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 08:35 PM
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First of all, suggesting therapy is not an insult, it's an incredibly useful tool for anybody who is having issues handling something mentally. And I mean, honestly I know the reason why I let that happen, and it's because I viewed the reason she was doing those thing because of her mental illness, and that I had made the commitment to love her and stick by her side to support her. Which I still believe is the honorable thing to do. Love shouldn't be something you say wishy washy to another pers…
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 06:57 PM
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Oh yeah probably, she said she fell out of love with me months before. She had just been saying she loves me and she's happy to avoid having to talk about it. Even though I would ask her because she was acting different. When I asked why she never told me she was having issues in the relationship, her response was "That would have been a difficult conversation for me" Like, fucking seriously? Like a child
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 06:55 PM
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Honestly, I was a bit. But the reason why I put up with it is because I said that I loved her, and to me saying that you love someone is supposed to be a commitment, and I thought that all this terrible stuff she was doing was because of her mental illness. I had made the decision to stick by her because I loved her and so I did.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 06:53 PM
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I've honestly been thinking about that, and I've come down to 3 options on what I would do in that situation, I honestly don't know which I'll choose. 1)Send a message telling her about how she hurt and abused me, and that she was a terrible partner 2) Ignore her 3) send a picture of me dabbing on her
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 06:52 PM
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I may enter another relationship that's true, but certainly not for a long time at least. For the time being I'm going MGTOW, but maybe in a few years I'll be ready to try something else, I reevaluate my feelings on relationships then once I'm in a better place with myself. That shit fuckin hurt man, I cried a lot. It does not seem worth it to put myself out there like that.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 09:05 AM
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It was like her goal was to convince herself that I didn't care about her. It hurt like fucking crazy hearing the woman I loved wail nonstop about how much I didn't care about her. Like during her anxiety attacks she would literally wail like a mother finding her child dead in the street. This would happen over things like spilling her coffee. I didn't deserve to be treated like that, I never hit her, lied to her, raised my voice, was always attentive, helped raise her up so she could be the per…
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 08:43 AM
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Oh definitely
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 08:37 AM
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Holy shit that's funny, I need to rewatch austin powers now. It's been atleast a dozen years
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 05:38 PM
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Yeah it felt like my girlfriend wanted only the like "end results" of my passion, where I had the abilities. But wasn't willing whatsoever to actually give me the time I needed to achieve those things. I definitely felt like just an option to her at the end, and I did whatever I could to help her feel special, because she was to me
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 04:43 PM
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Wow that's really good to know. I had no clue that would help with it, thanks for the tip! I'll have to take a look into that
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 04:42 PM
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She was definitely not mature enough for a real long term relationship. She couldn't handle the most basic of things without having anxiety attacks to where she couldn't function, and could barely communicate. She would never talk about issues face to face, always wait till I took the drive home that took hours and wore me out, and then would text me when I got home, and would refuse to call even
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 04:41 PM
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I'm so excited to improve myself greatly I had absolutely no time to before and it was killing me inside
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:34 PM
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I felt more like a caregiver in that relationship than a partner. It felt like I didn't have a girlfriend, I had a tamogachi "Have to write texts like this, hug for minimun that, can't say this, have to smile all the time or else she'll think I'm angry"
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:30 PM
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They both have their charms. If the relationship is good, I'd definitely go for being in a relationship. The parts that were good were great, it was nice to feel like you have that 1 on 1 support. But one where I'm constantly accused of not loving her, being called selfish, forced to give up my dreams and sacrifice my family. I will be single 100% of the time rather than go through that again. I will be single a long time before considering dating again.
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:27 PM
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Oh good god I can't even imagine. My friends asked me if I would marry her, and I replied with "a year and a half isn't long enough for me. I need more time with somebody before I could do that"
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:24 PM
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Yeah I certainly need to find what works best for me to lose this weight. It sucks being so heavy now, but I know I can get there
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:24 PM
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I truly loved her, the start of the relationship was amazing, we talkrd about needing to be able to still have our own time and whatnot. But stuff just drastically changed and she became incredibly codependant. I truly loved her, and even though I knew everything was wearing me down, I stayed in the relationship because I wanted to do my best to help her with her anxiety and improve herself. Learn money management, independence, overcome social anxiety, etc
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 01:23 PM
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I think she'll understand that not everybody is as understanding or patient as I was. And she'll eventually come back saying she made a mistake. There's never a possibility I could take her back. I take love so seriously, and she spent months lying to me saying she loves me, while she had already fallen out of love for me. The amount that hurt me is indescribable, I could never forgive someone for doing that to me.
/r/MGTOW03/04/21 01:49 AM
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God, it certainly meant shit all to her. I did so much for her, and she only did the things that don't require a lot of effort, like making me a couple notes
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 09:04 PM
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Yeah I don't think I could ever date somebody with anxiety or bpd or anything along those lines again. I don't have anything like that, and had to do days of research to understand it. It was so much effort, and it wound up just with essentially me not being compassionate enough or something
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 09:03 PM
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I haven't blocked her, but she made it clear to me that she didn't regret her choice breaking up with me. I have her deleted on everything, and if she does get into contact with me, I won't want to get back with her regardless. The way she treated me hurt me unbelievably so.
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 09:01 PM
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Hey, I truly loved her, and wanted to do everything that I could to help her feel better. I went into the relationship full force. She had told me she was stressed from work, and exhausted, and I believed her. So I wanted her to feel the best that she could
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 09:00 PM
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Yeah, the more that I think about it, the more bullshit everything was. I'm happy to be single again, but it's difficult and still hurts
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 08:59 PM
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I've been doing my best to get into this habit, especially the hanging out with friends bit. I'd barely hung out with my friends since we started dating since every weekend I went to where she lived to spend the weekend
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 08:58 PM
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Boy that would be a wicked coincidence haha
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 01:44 AM
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I notice myself feeling better as time goes on, but wow it still hits like a ton of bricks when I'm feeling bad. It feels weird being single again, because I know I was happy with myself being single before, but going back into it, it's difficult.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 11:48 PM
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I was honestly really excited to move in together, and build a life together. That was my plans for the future. I wasn't ready for marriage yet, I didn't want to until we've lived together for awhile, and our relationship had gone on a bit longer.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 11:47 PM
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I've been trying my best to get all my friends together and hang out, it certainly helps, but I can't stop thinking about everything.
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 11:46 PM
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It wasn't time that I wanted to do nothing, I want to start a business, and that takes a lot of effort
/r/MGTOW31/03/21 11:45 PM
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