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| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.I’m talking about a girl dressed in normal pants and a tshirt playing the piano at an high standard not to show off and a bunch of men being perverted. She isn’t leading them on, men are openly being pedophiles and creeps these days. There is literally no difference between the amount of partners a man and a woman has. In fact the only real difference is a man is more likely to have performance issues or suffer an injury with more partners. It’s just something guys are sexist about where as girl… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...No you haven’t. You’ve never come close to sex with a woman mate let’s get real 😆. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 05:07 AM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...I’d say your comments are dismissive and refusing to accept obvious truths. When a young woman walked home at night and was stopped by a male cop, she was raped and murdered. And the response from guys like you was “wasn’t us, not all men”. You guys would rather defend yourself than call out the attack. And try to paint out that women can do this too when we both know that they do not on anywhere near the same scale. Now I don’t believe you are at fault. And sure maybe these men have a reason wh… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 05:04 AM |
| -1 | We need to keep saying this...I’m not villainising men. I’m pointing out that men make the streets unsafe, both for women and for men as well. I’m not sure why people want to take exception to that. When was the last time a girl tried to sell you drugs on the street? Tried to scam you? Followed you down a road? Shouted or talked about violence? This has all happened to me in the past 6 months from men. Just the comments in this sub alone show how bad men can be, especially towards women. I’m not sure why we should pretend th… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Honestly I just think they’re two separate scales so it doesn’t really matter. A 25 year old woman who is in the fiftieth percentile of women in terms of looks is physically attractive to the majority of men. A guy who is in the Fiftieth percentile is not. So expecting a 5 girl to date a 5 guy based on looks is just unrealistic. You’re asking for him to date someone he finds hot and her to date someone she finds unattractive, while there are guys she finds hot that would date her. Point is the s… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Mate, you miss my point. Go into a video on YouTube of a 15 year old boy playing the piano. There will be a lot of comments, many from women, talking about how well he played. Go and look at a video of a 15 year old girl doing it. The first comment will likely be “men of culture”, and it will be full of guys being sexist, talking about her clothes and generally being creeps. And no one ever calls them out on it. Behavioural expectations are lower for men. Always have been. Look at how you all ta… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 01:12 AM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.There’s no inconsistency I was referring to behaviour standards when I said girls are held to higher standards than we expect of men - I.e men can get away with immature sexist and racist behaviour but we’re surprised and offended when women behave badly. Thats a different thing entirely. On the basis of looks, absolutely agree men hold lower standards when it comes to choosing partners for themselves. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/23 12:13 AM |
| 0 | We need to keep saying this...People do listen though. My take is the more popular one of the two? Perhaps not in a sexist echo chamber but society as a whole certainly recognises men as the pedophiles, rapists and killers. Because quite honestly, no matter how you’d like to deny it and defend it, they are. Not all. But far too many. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?Because if you see a fat woman you find her less attractive than if she were skinny. And if a girl sees a short guy she finds him less attractive than if he was tall. It’s the same thing. But we won’t agree so let’s move on. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Ah fair points. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Why not though other than to make men feel better? If a woman is in the 50th percentile of women but she’s attractive to most men, and a guy is in the 50th percentile of men and is not attractive to any women, why are we pretending that they’re equal and that she should be dating him? The scales aren’t equal. One holds more value than the other. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...The thing is you can say those men came from a single mom family, I can say yeah the dad left the mom, you can say a woman upset the man who is going to stab me before he left the house. We can go back and forth. At the end of the day the reason it is not safe to walk the street is because a man might stab me. It comes down to that. The man is why the street is not safe. As a man who hasn’t had the best life but doesn’t stab other men or pose a threat to women, I wont condone or justify that beh… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.A male 5 and a female 5 are not equivalent. The average woman is more aesthetically attractive to the opposite sex than the average man. A male 8 would be sexually attracted to a female 6, it doesn’t work the other way. If she’s got perfect white teeth and the guy has yellowing or misshaped teeth they’re not the same scale. Likewise if she’s average height and weight for a woman and he’s short for a guy they’re not on the same scale. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 09:29 PM |
| -1 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?I’m not brainwashed haha.. you just don’t have an argument here. It’s not a decision made by women. You need to take it up with the president of the Ukraine who is a man. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...You make some good points but I stand on it being men making society unsafe (for all not just for women). Men serve as police officers sure. And many of them are probably great. But there’s been a huge number of them been found to have joined that profession specifically to target vulnerable women. Along with the corrupt ones and the abusive ones etc etc. Sarah Everard walking home one night trusted a policeman and she was raped and murdered. Are there good male cops? Sure. But how can you reali… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...Sure but by another man right? I don’t see why it’s not okay to call this out. Men have made the world unsafe. You can blame women for being bad moms if you want but it’s not a woman that’s likely to try to rob my phone and stab me is it? | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 09:07 PM |
| -3 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.We might be thinking of a different show. Guys see average height women with attractive bodies, pretty face, perfect teeth and nice hair and declare them a 6/10. Then they look at themselves with imperfect teeth and a belly, balding and being short and also declare themselves a 6/10 and get mad that she’s not into him. Any girl who most guys find attractive is at usually at least a 7, even the nerdy ones you’d like to sleep with because there’s something about them. 4s are outright ugly and unat… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...They’re not supposed to look outside of the 10%. It’s biology. They’re designed to find the best genetics for their kids. Works this way in the entire animal kingdom. The only reason it didn’t used to go like this is because a patriarchal society made them have sex with guys they weren’t attracted to. Which has resulted in their babies being unattractive and struggling to find a mate in a society that gives women more selection choices. This is the right thing for the future, humans were getting… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 04:34 PM |
| -1 | We need to keep saying this...It’s not all men but because of a man or some men, my sister has to go through a lot of hoops I don’t have to to ensure she gets home safely. It becomes “all men” because she doesn’t know which of the 40 at the bar is that one who follows her home. Its better she distrusts the 39 than ends up getting raped by the one. She shouldn’t have to worry about any man. Im not worried about a woman abducting me. Society has been made unsafe, by men. Not all, but enough to be a societal problem to deal wit… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...It’s not all men but because of a man or some men, my sister has to go through a lot of hoops I don’t have to to ensure she gets home safely. It becomes “all men” because she doesn’t know which of the 40 at the bar is that one who follows her home. Its better she distrusts the 39 than ends up getting raped by the one. She shouldn’t have to worry about any man. Im not worried about a woman abducting me. Society has been made unsafe, by men. Not all, but enough to be a societal problem to deal wit… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...Do you never look at behaviours of guys and think oh ffs though? Because I feel like there’s merit to what it is being said when I go onto a YouTube video of an average 15 year old girl dressed normally playing a piano, and literally every comment from a man is either sexual, a meme or just plain mysoginistic. Don’t you feel that she should be able to post her video without that? Also note that a 15 year old boy doing the same gets mostly encouragement by women. Sure there’s fringe cases but we’… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | We need to keep saying this...It feels like a lot of men I have to be honest. You go on YouTube comments and see some of the stuff being written. A male content creator can do what he wants pretty much. But every single girl on there doing something as simple as playing the piano gets a bunch of shitty comments she shouldn’t have to put up with. It’s definitely not all men. It’s not most men I would like to think. But a lot of guys are shit when it comes to aggression and sexism and violence and just general douchebag behavi… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?Mate you are really reaching now. As I keep saying to you, it’s men making the decision to not draft women and it’s men making the decision to send men. All female leaders in history have been figureheads for male governments who make these decisions. Whether it’s the same men or not is irrelevant. Women do not come into the equation here at all, they are not refusing to go nor are they making men go. Men took them out of the situation entirely without consulting them, they have no blame for thi… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:54 PM |
| -12 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Not when it becomes to standards of behaviour. Go look at YouTube comments. Girls can’t play piano, go to the gym, go shopping, make a funny video, wear clothes or whatever without tons of shitty off topic comments from guys and they’re just accepted. When a guy plays a piano it’s “wow nice man, good job”. If anyone makes any mean comment at all he gets defended. When a girl does it every comment from a guy is either about her tits or how pretty she is. And no one ever calls them out on it, they… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:43 PM |
| -15 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Maybe they do with their girlfriends or whatever who knows. There’s a ton of immature guys as well. I’m not sure why there’s this expectation that women can’t have personalities and have to conform to the wallflower trope while guys can say whatever. Girls are being held to standards beyond what we expect of men. Almost every guy under the age of 25 seems insufferably arrogant and rude to me but everyone here gives that a pass while yelling at a girl who uses the wrong word. I guess we can say p… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?The problem is it’s picking and choosing. Let’s say we say we need to draft all the women because it’s equality. Okay well they never had a female president so let’s replace zelensky with a woman. And about 45 percent of the ukrainian government and half of the leaders in the military institutions and let’s bring down the men’s pay to what the girls are on in every industry in the country. You’d agree that’s fair? There are issues where there is gender inequality, but the vast majority of these … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?The problem is it’s picking and choosing. Let’s say we say we need to draft all the women because it’s equality. Okay so let’s replace zelensky with a woman. And about 45 percent of the ukrainian government and half of the leaders in the military institutions and let’s bring down the men’s pay to what the girls are on. You’d agree that’s fair? There are issues where there is gender inequality, but the vast majority of these issues affect women. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:19 PM |
| -21 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.If it’s the one I’m thinking about most of them are 10s. The guy drags on a bunch of models to be mysoginist towards them right? Let’s be honest they’re above average looking women, that’s the point of the show. I’ve never heard a woman in the real world call herself a 10. I think a lot of you guys spend too much time on social media, where these women are making money baiting guys into clicking on videos. That guy on the podcast is not your ally, he’s instructing these girls how to act so he ca… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:15 PM |
| -3 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.It’s the bare minimum for her. She’s allowed to have any standards for herself that she wants. You’re also allowed to have the standards that your wife cleans the house and looks after the kids. You are also under no obligation to meet her standards. Not everyone is a match. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?No but the girls who are not being drafted didn’t make the decision not to be. Men did. They used to want in and men like you made comments about kitchens and guns and stopped them from being allowed to join. Men are sending men to die. Women are not. So why are you all mad at women when the issue is the men in power and the patriarchal society of Ukraine? Because it seems like it’s for nothing else than that none of them want to date you if I’m honest. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?You do understand the reason they don’t is men like you right? There are women who campaigned for years and years for the same right to be in the military as men. Being in the military carried a lot of benefits that were denied to women for generations, they actively wanted to be in it and protested to be in it. Men like you labelled it feminism and blocked it because it suited you at that time to deprive them of those benefits. So now you changed your mind? Ukraine is a patriarchal society with… | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 01:26 PM |
| -1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?There’s some confusion here. You’re telling me that face is the only thing that makes someone ugly. But I’d say scars on your arm, an unusual body shape etc, certainly make you unattractive if you don’t want to use the word ugly. Most women feel the same way about short men as men do about fat women, that they have an unattractive body. It’s an unattractive feature for a man to have. I’m not sure why people are so adamant to accept this when there’s so much evidence that women do not find short … | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?I said it’s an ugly feature. It is. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?I didn’t say it makes him ugly. I said it was an ugly feature that makes him unattractive to most women. And if you’re a woman why are you crying about women and not jumping on short guys? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?Everyone? You wouldn’t right? You mean her friends and family would. Which says more about the guys friends and family than hers surely. Gotta stop blaming women, most of your problems come from other men. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:48 PM |
| -1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?Being short is unattractive to most women though. It’s an ugly feature. Thats the thing being missed. If a girl was pretty but was also fat, you might lower her from a 9 to a 5 or whatever. That’s the same with them and short guys. If he’s short then he’s not good looking to her. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?Not sure that having standards is a bad thing. As I said if she can do better than you, then she should. And if she can’t, well that’s on her really. Her loss or whatever. It seems like you want to control them, and that’s not healthy. You’re not entitled to a girlfriend. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?Perhaps she would but that’s more on men not having standards than on girls having them right? And honestly if a lot of the incel types looked at the five foot looking trolls a lot of them could also get laid and married. But they’re expecting attractive women when they’re not attractive men. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:39 PM |
| -10 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?It’s not their fault if they’re short or unattractive or naturally introverted of course not. But how is that women’s fault? If there was a 5ft troll looking girl with a negative personality, a bad family situation and no money interested in you and a 5”6 pretty girl who was sexy, confident and independent also interested in you, which one are you going to pick? And are you gonna feel bad about it? That’s the situation a lot of girls find themselves in. And many of them do feel bad about it. The… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 02:42 AM |
| -9 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?There isn’t really much to blame them for with any good reason though. Almost all of the incel arguments is blaming women for only dating men they find attractive. And none of these guys would feel bad about dating girls they found attractive and looking over less attractive ones. What really are we blaming women for? It’s not their fault if you’re ugly or if you don’t adapt to society. And society isn’t their fault either, they’re just playing in the playground that men built, on the dating app… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 02:18 AM |
| -13 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?But he’s not? Why do you feel entitled to date a girl who’s out of your league? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 02:14 AM |
| -5 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?You can find people to talk to about emotional issues. It’s about how you do it. Meeting some girl you’ve never met before and wanting to unload years worth of baggage on her on the first date or two isn’t going to go well in most scenarios. You come up with the “women are bad for not wanting to fix my problems” but see it the other way, you’re looking to meet someone to get to know them and have fun and they’re utterly depressing and always talking about themselves and it’s not going to make yo… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 02:12 AM |
| 1 | People who mock lonely men are absolutely distasteful.Ah I don’t know, depends on your age. I get why you’d stay home and all due to economics but that’s one of those things where you can’t blame a woman if she doesn’t want a boyfriend who still lives at home at the age of 40. Especially if she’s independent herself. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 10:38 PM |
| -10 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?When a woman says you can open up she means you can tell her whats on your mind and how you feel to some degree. She doesn’t want to know really deep depressing or borderline scary stuff. Guys tend to go over the top and it scares them. What exactly is there to open up to a woman about anyway? Mentally Ill/depressed guys need therapy not a girlfriend, you can’t expect a woman to fix you. The aim of a relationship is to make each other better, not to fix one another or for you to pour all of your… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?It still works to an extent. There’s plenty of ugly guys and older guys that have relationships. Not saying that getting yourself a hobby is going to suddenly change your dating life. It’s most likely not going to. But sitting back and bemoaning women because you aren’t attractive to them isn’t either. The best solution is just to make do with what you have, find your own happiness. That often does bring other people in. But again you can’t do it for that purpose. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do people blame lonely men on men?With the greatest of respect trans problems and male problems are not the same. Most straight women will not want to date trans men. Because they’re straight and they are attracted to males. It works the same with straight men not wanting to date trans women. Also to go to bat for the girls would you really want to date a short autistic virgin or someone ugly with social issues if you were attracting beautiful and intelligent women? I wouldn’t so why expect them to? At the end of the day we are … | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is this a failed shit test?I think you went just a bit overboard. I don’t think it was a test so much as just a remark that you could have done well with. She probably takes it that either you think she’s out for what she can get from you, or that you’re acting too serious after one date. Personally would have either asked her about her day or just said sure to the flowers. You could have maybe met her in the evening or something. I’d also stay away from awws and more feminine texts until you know her better. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:42 AM |
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