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Who goes on dinner dates? Drinks at a neighborhood spot preferably walking distance from your place.
/r/seduction09/07/26 05:13 AM
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I don’t understand the question. Don’t you want to date when not in a relationship? I date a LOT when I’m not in a relationship, usually I’m dating to find a long term partner, but no reason not to smell the flowers on your way down the yellow brick road. I love it.
/r/seduction13/04/26 03:01 AM
1

Lean in…..who me? I don’t know what the lady is speaking off…with a wry smile.
/r/seduction27/11/25 01:47 AM
8

Exactly! Being the perfect combination of “fun” and “safe”is the key. That and picking good spots that are good for engaging conversation and are close to your place so walking there after a few drinks and a bar make out just seems….normal.
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:57 PM
1

Used ? How? I don’t understand that part…
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:06 AM
1

Be easy. Be kind and forgiving. But most of all…be good at pleasing women and genuinely not care if/when they move on. You want to be that sweet spot of both SAFE and FUN.
/r/seduction05/11/25 11:51 PM
3

You can have sex on the first date even if you are desireless. That’s kind of the point. Ok…say you’re on a dating app, she KNOWS you are attracted to her, no need to mention it. When you match ask her questions about herself, most people like to talk about them selves. Feed that impulse. NEVER get sexual, no jokes, no innuendos unless she does so first. When you meet for your first date, be strategic, preferably a bar walking distance from your place. Find a place with narrow tables or seats so…
/r/seduction16/10/25 05:58 AM
60

Well…..oddly not wanting sex is very attractive to women. Be desireless Be excellent Be gone
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:17 AM
3

Find the women that go for men who that go for brown men. They are out there! My ex had a friend that dates Indian dudes almost exclusively.
/r/seduction05/10/25 06:11 PM
2

Some advice if you are willing to accept it. No worries if not. Chill on the “beneath me” talk. It comes off terribly. Confidence is good, cockiness not so much. Start making female friends. And NOT women you want to hook up. But real friendships. You will learn a LOT about women from those friendships. Listen not only to what they say, but what they do especially in a dating context. How old are you? Just curious
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:06 PM
1

I’ve always done well….I only app date currently as I prefer to leave women alone in public. I have multiple dates a week and lots of women who want to want to continue seeing me. I LOVE the dating apps, always had lots of long and shorter term relationships. I don’t think it’s much of what I’m doing - more that so many guys are just not good at dating. Do you have a lot of women friends? Just curious
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:57 PM
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Yes…and if you slept with one of them they would always be thinking that is there level this creating an alpha widow. And…I understand you completely. I assume you do well with women on the apps and IRL?
/r/seduction29/09/25 05:47 PM
1

Ahhhh……and should you sleep with them does that create an “Alpha Widow?” 🫣
/r/seduction29/09/25 04:54 PM
32

They think they have a shot. Yes they absolutely think they are in your league when it comes to attractiveness. That said, PLEASE be nice when they approach. We need to normalize women approaching men and shooting their shot even if it’s a miss.
/r/seduction29/09/25 06:02 AM
118

Sigh…..the bar is low….but only for the ones they REALLY want. Women will lament that the bar is low because they are having men hit them up at 11pm wanting to hook up. So…yes for that hot guy the bar is low, she’s having sex with him on a first date and rushing to come over whenever he asks her to. No need to take her out to dinner or wherever. BUT…what she doesn’t mention is all the men who “don’t count.” The guys who are taking her out to fancy dinners or who want to take her out. For them th…
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:03 PM
1

Maybe it’s because it’s the same few men having most of the first date sex 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:47 AM
5

I don’t know….I’m in my late 40s and recently out of an LTR. I have a lot of wonderful friends, a full time job, work out, read, play sports, and still have time to sleep with multiple women per week. I guess I just really like going on dates and sleeping around. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction10/08/25 01:41 AM
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What does that even mean? If you’re single and dating why wouldn’t you also be having sex with your dates. It’s called living a happy bachelor life. Why would you want to stop doing that? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction09/08/25 11:47 PM
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Hmmm…interesting perspective.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:49 PM
1

Oh, yeah I don’t consider leagues by social strata. It can be part of it, but naaah. And most people in your dating pool are generally close to your social strata or you they wouldn’t be in the dating pool. Do you see how physicality can affect league? Like a tall good looking guy who makes good money is generally out side of the league if an unattractive woman who works full time at Walmart.
/r/MensRights27/06/25 09:19 PM
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I don’t understand. You’re asking how you would THINK you’re out of someone’s league? The way I see it here is that he saw the author as a casual good time/she was in his sex zone. He had no interest beyond that. She was NOT in his relationship zone. If she was he would have gone for it. Why? Who knows? Maybe she was too old for his tastes, too thin, too fat, not into the stuff he was into? Politically misaligned? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:52 PM
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And ….she seemed to radiate “main character” energy. One guy who was probably a little out of her league didn’t respond to her invitation and she blames people hiding behind keyboards?? All the while never acknowledging her role in promoting pornography and getting more men on their keyboards? 🤷🏼‍♂️ And…:she admitted she’s too lazy to do it he work she expects men to do and is surprised when they don’t do it!! I’m not a MGTOW guy at all, I have dates and events lined up all week. I have had wome…
/r/MensRights27/06/25 08:32 PM
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She missed the point! Men don’t go out with other men to fancy restaurants (with the exception of gay men) because the terrible waste of money. My female friends happily go out to fancy restaurants together where they spend a lot of money on food and booze. My guy friends and I…. We don’t spend money that way. Why go out by yourself to a fancy restaurant when you could just sit at home watch a game and get wings from the place down the block? And she turned on guy turning her down her invitation…
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:34 PM
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This is why some dudes have FWBs, hook up buddies, and side pieces.
/r/seduction29/04/25 05:21 PM
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Of course they do! And they often have low self-esteem and are somewhat clueless and lack perspective. Spend some time in Los Angeles and you’ll see it a lot.
/r/seduction17/04/25 06:03 PM
2

Huh? Why not always have 3 in your damn pocket? When I’m single i don’t leave the Blake without them!
/r/seduction14/04/25 03:53 PM
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Why not just use condoms and expand your universe of sexual partners? No reason not to have multiple hook up buddies/FWBs. Seriously….i am baffled at the # of people who don’t use condoms.
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:13 AM
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Why would you be exclusive with an FWB? Isn’t the whole point to have a nice fun side thing while you’re looking for Ms. Right? With her lower libido you should at least have two FWBs.
/r/seduction14/04/25 06:05 AM
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I’m sorry Op, I’m not meaning to be hurtful. But I don’t think you get to control who he has a wank to. And if it’s not to porn, it’s often going to be to someone else. Usually someone he sees or knows. I suppose you could say, please try not to fantasize or have a wank to my sister, but how can you control if he has a wank to some lady he saw on the train or on his way to work? You mentioned boundaries…are you seeking to control his thoughts? I would assume that’s not what you are talking about…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/24 03:42 AM
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Op…..you need to figure out what you’re exactly jealous of. Is it just the looking? Or is it him fantasizing about other women when he gets off/has a wank. You can get rid of one…..but I don’t think you’ll ever get rid of the other. Suppose he stops watching porn….he’s still gonna have a nice wank here and there if not daily. If he’s not looking at porn…..he’ll be thinking about something else, say the cute barista at the coffee shop down the street, or perhaps the waitress from last night. Mayb…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/24 03:15 AM
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Seducing them for what? Just looking to hook up? Or are you trying to date the guy?
/r/seduction15/09/24 11:25 PM
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Why are you so much work? What does that mean? And…..he was obviously attracted to you if he was dating you, no?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:32 PM
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So….why did he say it?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:29 PM
2

He told you that HE was too good for you? Or was it the other way around?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:25 PM
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Oh! Like how can you like the guys who actually like you? Now that’s a tough one. There’s usually a reason why you like who you like. It helps to understand who you can and can’t attract. Obviously some guys do find you attractive. That one dude even said you were out of his league.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:11 PM
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Change the guys you want? Like make them be attracted to you/want to date you? Sure, be the kind of person they want to be around and spend time with.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/24 07:03 PM
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How would you know?
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:29 PM
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It’s not a flex to be successful IRL at uni. I’m rather surprised that people even bother with them in school when there is so much abundance right there in front of you every day. Personally, I never approach IRL. Women have been clear it’s unwelcome (except when it’s not). I’ve always had far more success on the apps. At least there I know every match is (or should be) single and looking.
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:58 PM
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Sorry man, it happens.
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:59 AM
2

Sounds like she ain’t down for either 🫠. Best to move along. My two cents
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:42 AM
1

And no sex? That doesn’t sound good. What do YOU want Op?
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:41 AM
2

I’m curious, how often do you see each other? How is the sex between you two?
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:38 AM
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This happens. Women often claim that they are very good at communication. But I don’t think that’s true. I think they may be good at communication with other women, but not so much with men. I think you should talk to her about. More than that, make a plan. Give her an opportunity to fix the issue. And if she doesn’t, be prepared to leave her. You shouldn’t have to put up with that.
/r/seduction19/06/24 01:44 AM
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Yeah and for me, I have a very wide range in what I find attractive. I can go from a tall athletic brunette to a short/stout gal to a 6 foot voluptuous girl from Jamaica. But….what I don’t like is all the make up and fashion/dress up.
/r/seduction18/06/24 05:06 AM
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Can I imagine them without make up and wearing just jeans and a t-shirt? You’re asking about physical differences and not style, right?
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:28 AM
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Yes, absolutely. A large number of single men between 30-35 are absolutely looking for their future wife. And if they came across her they would definitely go for it. It’s possible the problem you’re having OP, is that the men you keep encountering, the ones who you believe only want something casual and not serious……actually want a deep committed relationship, unfortunately, just not with you. With you, they are only seeking a nice short term relationship or hook up. Why is this happening? Most…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/24 12:51 AM
0

Why are constantly doing things that annoy and frustrate you? Why are you all up in his shit too?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/24 02:31 PM
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Is it the delusion that is the problem? One would assume you’d see if someone was completely out of your league and it’s probably just going to be sex, no? I certainly know when I’m on a date if the lady doesn’t fancy me, or the few times I’ve been some girl’s mistake or fling.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 11:25 PM
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He’s out of her league because she wants him for a relationship but for him she’s only in the sex zone. That’s pretty much the definition of “out of your league.” And grow up, nobody uses anyone for sex that’s consensual and here it clearly was. It takes two to tango, Op was having sex with an attractive guy, why not say she was using him for that? Because it’s bullshit. It’s just two adults consenting adults to sex.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 11:16 PM
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Most Men who’ve slept with you don’t call you fat or ugly. They don’t shit talk you behind your back. Most men don’t do that. Op, it’s time to re-set. And get your head right. Start here, you’re very young. Just ask any woman in her 30s or 40s and they will tell you how young you are and how much time you have. Start thinking about what you actually want. Do you want a boyfriend? A long term relationship ? If so, you need to be sensible about your options. The “hey you up, wanna come over at 11p…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 10:38 PM
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Marry them? Because they tell the girl’s that? I’d wait for the wedding ceremony before making that claim.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 10:10 PM
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I like providing for myself!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 04:45 AM
2

I always loved that little dance. Bill comes, I reach for my credit card. She reached for her purse. I put my hand up and say…I got this one. She says, thanks! I appreciate it. I can count on one hand the number of times a date actually insisted on paying for their share.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 11:53 PM
3

Sounds like he’s got some insecurities there.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 05:34 PM
0

As long as the person you’re talking to doesn’t think they have a chance with you, I think you’re good. Don’t we all like to feel attractive at bars or parties? As long as the person talking to us never thinks they have a shot, I think you’re good.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 07:07 AM
15

Usually when I guy goes sexual early he’s just looking to hook up. Nothing wrong with that. Just be aware.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 06:40 AM
39

This myth existed in the 1990s as well. There was a moment where people tried to create the narrative of the gorgeous cheerleader who NEVER got hit on and was never taken on dates because every guy was too shy to try. It was bullshit then and it’s bullshit now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 04:38 PM
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Maybe just write it on your forehead for all of your first dates?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 10:11 PM
3

🤣
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:13 PM
3

Above you said you had sex with the men you dated, no? Those were the ones you felt coerced into? And how many partners are we talking about here?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:11 PM
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I don’t think you want to date or marry a guy who cares about how many men you slept with. Are you trying to marry some red pill d-bag?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 09:06 PM
3

How in the world would he know? And…are you asking about only male partners?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 08:58 PM
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Huh? Which part? Some people do get jaded after one relationship! I’ve seen it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 03:13 AM
1

But the even the numbers they quote…5/6…that was a slow semester at college for some of us. And….a person can become jaded after even ONE bad relationship, so there’s that too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 02:46 AM
3

It’s just some bullshit the Red Pill guys love to talk about right? It’s not really a thing….
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/23 04:21 PM
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I’ve never had a difficult time bonding with women. I’ve never regretted being sleeping with a lot of women. I enjoy their company and they enjoy mine. If any thing it was always a nice confidence boost and a happy day when I hooked up with someone.
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:05 PM
1

I don’t think so. Not sure I even understand Op’s question.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 03:19 PM
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High is a relative term….how high is high?
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 09:20 AM
31

Just be aware that your sex zone and your dating seriously zone are not the same. You can get a LOT more men to have sex with you then are willing to have a committed relationship with you. The way the apps work you can get confused because you’re constantly being hit up for dates and sex by men some who are in and some who are out of your league. Just don’t confuse the two zones, because if you start thinking of your sex zone as your dating seriously zone..you’re just in for a lot of disappoint…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 03:01 AM
2

I’m sorry this happened to you, but it doesn’t appear to meet the definition of an Alpha Widow.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 02:55 AM
2

I don’t think the guy is all that High Value. He may be the guy you like, but I’m thinking he may not qualify as an HVM.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/23 10:27 PM
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Go for it OP! I mean worst case is you get the answer you don’t want. At least you have the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 05:33 AM
1

Fuck it, ask him out for a drink next time you see him. Tell me the downside to that?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 04:25 AM
1

Text him right now and ask him what he is getting into this weekend. Is he watching football. Yes, it’s a stereotype that only straight men watch football…but it’s a clue!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 02:05 AM
1

Where are you? In the US? Elsewhere?
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:58 AM
1

Is he on social media? That should be a clue….
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:56 AM
1

Do you have an update? Why not in your next conversation bring up a quick story about an ex or a silly break up story and then ask him what is a silly break up story he has….
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:28 AM
24

One non-reciprocal BJ a day, and he will cherish you. If you can’t make it daily, 3-5 times a week should do.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 12:55 AM
12

Op….I’m a bit worried, oftentimes controlling people will cut you off from friends and family. If that is happening, it’s a big red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 08:37 PM
21

Hey…..you need to talk to your best friends and your family about this. Then make a plan to GET OUT of this relationship. His behavior is controlling, toxic and nowhere near normal for a healthy adult male. Do not marry this man OP
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 08:11 PM
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I don’t think being jealous is helpful. And seriously, what can you do about it anyway? He’s with you because he cares about you and likes you. The only thing you can do is be the best you that you can be. I have no idea why you mentioned the virgin part….Is that something that is important to your boyfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 07:46 PM
15

His ex was beautiful? But was she a good person? Was she a good partner? Was she fun to be with and positive presence in his life? This may sound crazy, but men don’t exclusively go for looks. There are lots of other things that are more important. When I was in college I dated a woman who was stunning. Everyone stared when she walked into the room. But….she was a terrible person. A true “mean girl,” did I like walking into a room with her? Sure, but having to live with her was miserable.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 07:26 PM
3

Does he like the Golden Girls?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 08:29 AM
3

I’m guessing their pre-nuptial agreement decided exactly how much he gets.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 06:45 AM
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I run super hot. I’m 100% the guy wearing less than everyone else and even if I only walk a short way, I can start sweating. I’m in the airport in shorts and a t-shirt and other people are wearing coats! And now someone wants to say it’s because I’m intimidating women…😩
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 10:10 PM
1

I’d there a link to an article about this I can read?
/r/AntiFeminists07/01/23 07:26 PM
0

Mattress girl was full shit. A clear false/unsubstantiated allegation.
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 01:27 AM
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Sigh…..I don’t think you know what feminism is. Just because it comes from a female and you don’t like it doesn’t make it “feminism.”
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 01:18 AM
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That’s complete bullshit. Nobody supports false rape allegations.
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 01:16 AM
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What does this have to do with feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/22 12:37 AM
2

Yeah, and it’s all an act to make money. She’s an entertainer not a social commentator.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 06:40 PM
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Pearl is a grifter. I don’t think she believes half the shit she says. She says it to get a reaction. Whatever, good for her.
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 04:40 AM
2

And this has what to do with feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists12/12/22 03:43 AM
2

Is this woman a feminist? What does feminism have to do with NOT wanting people at work to know your dating. Dating someone at work is a risky call, and telling people about it even riskier. Not sure what the connection is to feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 06:50 AM
1

Yeah…stick around here for bit. I don’t think most of the commenters actually know what feminism is. They see a woman doing something they disagree with and cry: FEMINISM!
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/22 08:54 PM
1

Sigh…..those aren’t feminists. Stop lumping in everyone you don’t like with a concept you don’t like like yet don’t seem to actually understand.
/r/AntiFeminists18/11/22 11:11 PM
0

It is about rights and always has been. The women you have beef with ain’t feminists. Not saying you’re beef with said scammers isn’t justified, I’m tight with my shekels too.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 07:01 PM
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I think I figured out the problem. Those are not feminists. The women teaching other women how to scam money out of men are NOT feminists. Call them scammers if you want. If anything they believe in traditional gender roles of the dude paying for everything. As I said above ….you’re painting feminists with two broad a brush.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 06:31 PM
0

That maybe true, but the two above quotes were NOT written by feminist. They we’re most likely written by angry dudes who don’t really understand what feminism actually is. I’m rather blown away at just how broad a brush feminism is painted with these days
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 03:48 PM
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This is bullshit. It reads like an incel fantasy of what they want to believe feminism is. Poor sweet innocent girl get corrupted by the cold dark city and…..FEMINISM!! Run for your lives!
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 01:24 AM
2

Then it may simply not be a match.
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:23 AM
2

This is the way…
/r/seduction28/10/22 05:19 AM
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College is the best odds you’ll ever have! There are more women in college than men, and they’re drunk!
/r/seduction28/10/22 01:44 AM
9

I don’t know….I’m a super hoe between relationships. Not sure if it makes my life better but I certainly enjoy doing it.
/r/seduction25/10/22 07:12 PM
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This is the way….
/r/seduction25/10/22 05:23 AM
1

Months??? Do people really wait for months to have sex? Who can really hold out that long?
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:24 PM
2

Well, I assume some of them have to get laid sometimes. But the way they talk sounds like the way they THINK guys who do get laid a lot sound like. As if all the Chads just generally drop into conversation how many people a girl has slept with . And of course, gotta cross of the list the ones who have over 3.5 partners cause…
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/22 05:38 AM
3

Seriously? Have you read the comments here? I have a feeling these guys rarely if ever get laid.
/r/AntiFeminists23/10/22 12:00 AM
8

I routinely rubbed one out before every first date. It mellows you out and gets sex off your brain for at least a little while. Keeps you from going sexual too early.
/r/seduction19/10/22 06:03 AM
1

We both agree she should move on quickly. But …I don’t know if you’re right about him being a short term guy. Most men are indeed looking for a serious relationship. It’s not a red-flag to express that thought. And waiting for sex at all past the first or second date for many of us is waiting an abnormal amount of time. Which may be why having sex sooner rather than later may be the right call. PNC will occur whether you wait a month or only a day. And it can really hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 11:00 PM
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Sorry, but that article was complete garbage.
/r/AntiFeminists18/10/22 03:07 PM
2

I don’t think he wanted a fling with OP. I think way too often we prescribe bad motives to people who ghost when in reality it’s often just having a change of heart or getting to know the person a bit and realizing it’s just not for you. This happened to me a LOT. It’s easy to become interested in someone you’re messaging with frequently. Things just seem easy. But then not so much. 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 03:03 PM
4

I don’t think waiting was an issue. Could just be a case of post-nut clarity. That would explain the sudden….oh wait….this isn’t really what I wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/22 05:05 AM
1

This is bullshit.
/r/seduction16/10/22 12:49 AM
2

What does this have to do with feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 04:43 AM
4

Start here: you may want to have sex with lots of women, but first you have to not care if you do. If it happens, cool. If not, fine, just as good. There’s a saying a friend of mine came up with: “there are two types of men out there, men who cast a wide net, and men who don’t get laid.” Good luck
/r/seduction18/08/22 02:12 PM
5

Some of them definitely want to fuck you. Most of them just enjoy the attention from a good looking younger guy. Your task is figuring out which is which…
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:54 AM
2

I hope you use condoms….
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:39 AM
1

Reading comprehension you say? Sometimes you gotta read between the lines. And by “he,” don’t you really mean…..”we.” Why do I get the feeling that you and he, how shall I Say this….try to pick up girls at the same middle school? While I do believe you actually are OP using a different account if you’re not, message is the same: Stay away from the underage girls! Don’t say you weren’t warned.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:17 PM
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In many States having consensual sex with a person who is underage is called, “Rape of a Child.” You really don’t want to go to prison with a child rape jacket. Leave the kids alone.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:57 AM
1

Why you trying to fuck your friends? Seriously? Often The best way to get laid is not care if you do or not. You did the right thing here by accepting her lack of response to your move.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:29 AM
1

True self confidence, quick wit and an easy going attitude. It helps to be successful in your career and to be valued by your peers. Women can smell that shit on you.
/r/seduction04/08/22 05:27 AM
3

Push for sex? No. That’s not how it works. She should be happy to fuck you on the date. Be funny, be interesting, be easy.
/r/seduction01/08/22 09:51 PM
6

It’s not a mindset. It’s not game. It’s simply real and true. Even the “bad boys” and the “I don’t care guys,” have women they pursue and they do care about. It’s just that there are a LARGE number of women that like them and go for them. It’s because these guys don’t care for these women and the women obsess over them that it appears they simply don’t care about anyone. Women want someone who is wanted by other women. It feeds on itself. Thus these guys can have a whole harem of women who they …
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:47 PM
2

Zoo? Aquarium? Girls like animals!
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:35 PM
1

Maybe the best thing is to focus on yourself..get a solid job, a home, and some stability. But….I’ve always been good with women. Sure it helps to have those things. But the most important thing is being confident in who you are. Oh….and the only guys who call women hoes and sluts are men who are NOT fucking those girls. So, take that out Of your vocabulary. Like girls who say “fuck boy,” are talking about men they want to be with. That said…you’ll rarely get the girl you pursue. Be 100% you…and…
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:22 AM
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Alright that what would you suggest? If a girl ain’t interested…my advice is to back the fuck off and let her come to you. That may never happen, but you gotta be easy. What’s your advice to Op?
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:03 AM
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Got it. Don’t be something that you’re not. Be you. She’s not the one for you. And if she is, she’ll come to you.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:57 AM
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Did she say this to you? If so….what she meant is she doesn’t like you. At least not as a romantic or sexual interest.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:43 AM
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Hey man, that’s great. Personally, I love that type A Career woman, definitely my wheelhouse. That said….most of my dates are easy, laid back and super fun. Most of the career women I date still like to have fun in their personal life. And all my first dates are just drinks. Have you tried Hinge? I like that one too.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:48 AM
1

Yah…..that may be why it works well for older established professionals. I have to say, if you have a career and own a home, it helps!
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:59 PM
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Why? I love bumble. I’ve met lots of great attractive women on bumble. Had multiple long term relationships from bumble and had a few hook ups turn into FWBs. In my area bumble has a lot of educated professional women, which is what I go for.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:36 PM
22

Bumble.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:16 PM
0

Really? I hear men complain they get few matches, but how bad are we talking? I’m not rolling in matches but I get enough that I can choose not to respond/keep conversations with some of them. I do go on a lot of dates…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:28 PM
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Anytime I start thinking like this I pause and take a moment to look at all the women on the apps that I’m deliberately not responding to. I suggest you do the same OP. Life always looks easy for everyone else if you don’t self reflect. There are lots of women that want you…you just don’t want them. Do you assume that they have it easy when it comes to dating or are you only thinking about the girls you can’t get? To those girls it seems so easy because you’re super available to them…and they do…
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:25 PM
1

No. Don’t do it!! Seriously. There are so many reasons NOT to do a ball game on a first date. First of all, it’s a LOOOOONG date. Getting to the game and then a 3+ hour game. It’s just way too much time for a first date. And the little stressors of getting to the game..just not worth it. Do something simple, meet for a drink or snack. Get to know her a bit. Heck you’re better off watching the game at a bar than going. Seriously…save this marathon date for when you actually know and like each oth…
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:31 AM
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There’s only one way to find out, date lower and see what happens. Only you will know if it works. Your logic is sound. Honestly, i sometimes look at my female friends’ dating app matches and I’m just blown away that think any of their top matches will want anything more than a sexual relationship with them. And…I’m just about always right. The constant availability of men out of your league wanting to fuck you can be confusing. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/22 05:05 AM
1

Yeah. Especially when I’m single and having new sex consistently. I never get tired of it. Sometimes I prioritize it in ways i shouldn’t, but I really enjoy it.
/r/seduction10/05/22 12:21 AM
2

Yeah…but it’s nice to get laid. Especially on a first date. 🤗
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:41 PM
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