Justwondering83 Archive

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2	Help me understand I sent you a direct message. Thx for your advice. It's helped a lot already. Let me know if I can do anything for you.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 02:35 PM
1	What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle? Great idea. Cooking + baking. Both important skills.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 02:52 AM
1	Have I messed up? I agree with this comment 👆🏼 The way she is going about it is immature but yeah, she's looking for attention.	/r/seduction	18/04/17 01:01 AM
1	Finally said fuck it and approached. feel good, but a little empty I can understand not wanting to be watched walking up to someone. I have to give presentations at work sometimes and I literally make a script before hand and prepare for all potential questions/responses to manage my anxiety about it. On the musical inclination question, I personally would not have passed on someone because they had different interests than me. In fact, differences are what make people so interesting. As long as you seemed interested in her and engaged in the conversation, I do…	/r/seduction	17/04/17 10:54 PM
–	Help me understand To recyclablebanthas Thank you. I agree with the bullets and no, I can't be the "other woman." As far as the crush goes, yes - I do like him but those feelings will have to be managed. The crush is one issue but the biggest issue is me. The back story is: Im 34 and I've been divorced for 1 year. My friends have disappeared. I work constantly, have a high stress job that I moved to the middle of nowhere for and I only have a few superficial friendships at work. This guy shows up at work and pays …	/r/seduction	17/04/17 03:40 AM
–	Finally said fuck it and approached. feel good, but a little empty I just want to say that I'm very impressed you walked up (sober) and told a girl she was pretty. That's awesome. When I was in college, I only had guys approach me when they were drunk. Most of the time (especially when I went out with my sorority sisters) the only guys that would come up and talk to us were the cockiest, most arrogant a-holes. I dated several of them. But I didn't have any other options! They were the only ones who showed interest. I would have had mad respect for someone sober…	/r/seduction	16/04/17 10:12 PM
1	[FR] Struck out 3 times tonight at the same club How would you stay motivated if you weren't attracted? I think you should be attracted to anyone you approach. Your time is valuable - don't waste it. "how you going to be at a bar with a drink in your hand, let me buy you one" she brushed me off and said no the dude in her friend group is buying them drinks. Let me buy you one is asking permission which almost assumes rejection. It's like "may I please?" Better to say: "what do you want?" because it's not asking for permission, it assumes accep…	/r/seduction	16/04/17 09:53 PM
–	Help me understand To recyclablebanthas Thank you for that thoughtful and detailed response. Projection is always a possibility. Also, I wasn't saying that he did anything wrong (re: he may have been flirty but didn't try anything). We are all human and flirting happens. I was more so curious about whether or not I understood his behavior correctly. I need to know the difference between flirting and professional friendliness (not so I can be judgy) but so I know when a man is interested! Lol. I haven't misread any…	/r/seduction	16/04/17 09:25 PM
1	Coughing to get a girls attention Women prefer being talk to over being coughed at.	/r/seduction	15/04/17 07:03 PM
2	Ten seduction facts men wish they knew earlier... As a woman I agree with 9/10 of this. The only comment I was a little apprehensive about was the "your value is proportional to unwillingness to take her shit." From my perspective, a mans value is based on much more than that. A man will have reduced self respect if he takes shit from anyone but I wouldn't say that it was directly proportional to his overall value. Most men are awesome (except for a few a-holes) and have lots of value to women. It shouldn't be oversimplified like that.	/r/seduction	15/04/17 06:44 PM
–	Help me understand Okay. Well, next time he looks me in the eyes and bites his lip, I will try to remember that I'm just projecting. Lol. I do see your point though and thanks for the comment.	/r/seduction	14/04/17 06:28 PM
–	Help me understand I'm sorry you are going through a separation. If you still think of the missed opportunity, maybe you should reach out after divorcing. I might be into it if someone said they used to lust after me but had to control themselves because they were married. It shows self restraint and it's sexy. Just sayin'	/r/seduction	14/04/17 01:01 PM
–	Help me understand No that's not what I said. All of this took place before the one time I think I flirted with him on purpose. And by flirting on purpose, I only mean that I went into his office (after he told me to come see him in his office) and gave him a little attention - smiled, laughted etc.	/r/seduction	14/04/17 12:55 PM
9	I have the best wingman, a dog. However I'm socially inept. Wtf do I say when a group of girls I pass yell "puppy!" and start petting her. People who yell "puppy" want to pet the dog. Just say "you can pet him" and then when they come over you stick out your hand and say "I'm (whatever you name is) and this is (dogs name). They will then introduce themselves and you say "nice to meet you." And then say "what are you ladies headed" and then wherever they are going you can say "nice" or "cool." And then you say "maybe I will see you around" and smile. Then they start to walk away and before they turn around (you have to be quick now)…	/r/seduction	14/04/17 03:45 AM
–	Help me understand You're the best - thank you! I see your point.	/r/seduction	14/04/17 02:56 AM
–	Help me understand Woman - lol. Thank you for the reply. 34yo. The dude is maybe 42ish.	/r/seduction	14/04/17 02:47 AM