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| 1 | How do I get into a girl's social circle?And also, be funny. Imagine all the crazy good times that could be had and find something that could make you laugh (and hopefully her) and wind it into a whimsical thought that if you and her were together, you'd share that funny. Explore her interests and see if you can find an ironic or hilarious statement that would make her laugh out loud. Us guys love to find a funny woman, they're the same as us in that respect. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Urges to sleep with other women while in relationship, dilemma.You say that you're not prepared yet for an open relationship, even though it's been discussed before. It sounds as if she's neutral on the idea of it. So that's a lot better than someone who won't even entertain the idea. So you've got something to work with. If you're thinking you're not prepared, then figure out what it is going to take to prepare yourselves. In my humble opinion, it is going to take a lot of honest communication and a cast iron promise backed up by reasoning that there is ze… | /r/seduction | 03/11/16 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Any UK Sedditors in the UK South East?I'm 33 and I've been married for 8 years. In an open marriage for 1 year now. Got a lot of stories to tell. A few that I should be posting to seddit but I'm too lazy! I'll message you on whatsapp :-) | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 05:11 PM |
| 50 | How to be confident when kissing?Be dominant. Kissing is a prelude to sex. The way you kiss is the best way of telling a girl how you're like in bed. Start off slowly and tease her. Make her wonder when your tongue is going to touch hers. Build it up from there, take notice of her tongue. Match her moves, maybe surprise her from time to time. Listen to her breathing and try and match breaths. If she's breathing heavily you're on the right track. Once you have a built it up to quite a passionate level you can touch her face gent… | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Getting over the feeling of shame for expressing sexual desire.What percentage of your first dates have you actually wanted to f-close? Mines no where near 90%. Online dating is a bit of a lesson in projected image versus reality. | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | A better way to get her digitsHow can she call the police, her phone is in a river... I can't see how this could fail! | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I mention that I'm in an open relationship?Some of the girls who do that are attracted to the unavailablility of your boyfriend. As soon as you are presented as a supporter of the situation, some of that disappears. For some girls however (and these are the ones he should go for, not the other ones, they will only try and destabilise your relationship) they take care to make sure that you are on board with this. They don't want to hurt anybody and they are so into him that they would be prepared to speak to you to make sure everything is… | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 06:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I mention that I'm in an open relationship?Ok... I'm in the same boat as you. I usually build up some rapport first, just enough so that they can see you're a genuine guy. But I do try to tell them as soon as I can. If they give you a negative reaction, don't worry. It's a better feeling than hooking up with someone who doesn't know about your situation, and I have found the ones that are okay with are generally the more adventurous in bed. So look at it as a positive filter. Start off with asking them how open minded they are first, to … | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 07:51 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she cancels a date few hours before it?Do you mean what to do as in what you should end up doing that night, or what do do with her? If you were going to meet in a bar, you could always go out anyway and practice a bit of solo night game, but only if your frame is strong. If her flaking on you has affected your frame, best to just see if you can chill with your friends... If she doesn't talk about an alternative time for a date when she cancels that's a bad sign, move on. It's not gonna work out well. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants a more aggresive approach...help?You should push her for a date. Don't text her what you're gonna be like. That is setting expectations and that is lethal. Then just be yourself but also ask personal questions (you don't have to be sexual at this stage but I usually do by this point) to build up rapport. And find information about her to use for later, if you like her. Then at about 11pm suggest shall we go home after this drink? The answer you get will flush out her motive. If she asks you what you think, you have to say hers … | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Girl keeps giving me LMRCould be a number of things. It could be that she had a deeply troubling sexual experience at some point and that she needs time to build more comfort and trust before she can allow herself to get aroused. On the other hand she could be determining your level of commitment by throwing LMRs at you and seeing if you're still eager. You just don't know. Best advice is to figure out how you feel after seeing her. If you feel more frustrated than happy, move on. If you're that into her that she still… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | How to get her on a date ?Just come up with a plan that can involve just you if necessary but can also include her. For instance a comedy gig or some live music. If she likes the sound of the plan she may well meet up with you. Just saying hi and not having anything to say that makes her laugh or think is a bit of a mistake. You have time to think of a smart text so use the time and maybe use some of the texting game tips that are on here to help get her receptive to wanting to meet you. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How to get her on a date ?Just because she says she's not looking for a relationship doesn't mean she won't enter one if the right guy comes along. Plus it doesn't mean she doesn't want sex either. So if you want to have a relationship with her then maybe try and consider those things. In any case my strategy would be to meet her. You don't have to call it a date. Just meet up and see if face to face you guys click and have chemistry. When you meet be confident and assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 11:00 AM |
| 1 | If the subject of sex comes up, offer to read her desires... My go to routine explained. It's simple.When I say I just had an epiphany, was about 2 weeks ago but it's worked so far online. I will do a FR after tomorrow nights date. | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:56 PM |
| 5 | 99.9999% of your outer game issues, or questions on what to do or say... Are really inner game issues.I totally agree with OP here. Every point on that post attracts female attention in slightly different ways. I'm married in an open relationship and I'm honest about who I am and what I want. It has not been as much of a handicap as I initially thought. My inner game is there because I've already won the game and now just playing for fun. Girls who like a confident guy seem to be quite plentiful these days. And just getting them on their own and kiss closing is easy enough if you use these point… | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Desire to Hookup and PerformanceWell that escalated quickly... | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Any UK Sedditors in the UK South East?You in Ipswich and I'm in Colchester, not a million miles away. PM me if you want a wing buddy or two! | /r/seduction | 08/04/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Any UK Sedditors in the UK South East?Ok I'm In Colchester in Essex. any good to you? I got a couple of trusted friends who game too so we could hit sets... | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 10:29 PM |
| 1 | The rookie error of not being prepared to be approached. Never again.I know. I totally could have kicked myself in the balls if it were possible (and if I'd had any balls to start with) over this. I can only hope that she's a regular and that next time I won't be such an AFC. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 11:54 PM |
| 1 | The rookie error of not being prepared to be approached. Never again.I may well have missed the point and what you said is totally valid, but the situation was that we walked into the place and she came and grinded for about 10 seconds. I grinded back just going with the flow. She then moved on to dance with her female friends. So I should have made some sort of move. I get that. But I'm 33 and these girls were probably 18. I had to deal with the whole internal monologue screaming at me as I danced. And the fact that about 30 minutes prior I had done 5 tequilas a… | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | The rookie error of not being prepared to be approached. Never again.Personally I would leave out cute in that question, hopefully prompting her to mention it like "no, only the cute ones" which would be exactly what you want to hear. Then introduce yourself, ask questions about their night and get them chatting in your ear. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 08:07 AM |
| 3 | The rookie error of not being prepared to be approached. Never again.This is what I thought about. What to say. But calling them out on their forward behaviour is the best way, as long as it is done in a tongue in cheek, light hearted way. They'll assume confidence and a sense of humour instantly and first impressions count! | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 12:50 AM |
| -1 | The rookie error of not being prepared to be approached. Never again.She did it either because she was drunk, or seeking valuation, or into me. All those thoughts went into my head and I just lost my game. I think I will return to that venue to see if she is a regular. If same thing occurs I'll know what to do. Btw the club is in Colchester UK. Not gonna name it though. I don't need more competition :-p | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Six Insane Ways To Kill Her Sex Orgasm, Never Do Them!One insane way of killing my browsing pleasure is to offer one useless tidbit of info per page. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 12:23 PM |
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