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As for your personal experience, I can’t say much. However, I highly disagree about the research and I don’t think modern research is on your side. Kinsey’s research is not good either in my opinion. Anyway, thank you for sharing, I’m not looking to argue much I just wanted to hear your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:34 PM
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Dude Redditors are so weird on the topic of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:48 AM
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Is this a gut feeling you have about how most people’s sexuality functions based on your personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:46 AM
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From what I read of your comment, you’re misusing how I’ve seen spectrum used in the research I’ve read. You’re arguing each person sexuality functions as a spectrum, that is, it operates as a continuous range or on a gradient, rather than as discrete isolated categories (binary, for instance), when there is no evidence that this is the case for all people. Their experience of sexuality could very well be static and would be more appropriately categorized in a binary. If you feel like taking thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:29 AM
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Yea sorry wish I could summarize it better. A lot of it just boils down to control and directionality over real physical processes and not just what goes on in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:47 AM
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I am reluctant because it's really not as straightforward as you'd imagine. You have to define the entire metaphysical framework of power before the conclusion is comprehensible, which is the case for a lot of sexual ethics that rely on a theory of power. Here is an extremely sloppy summarization of one such argument: Dominance and submission exist between agents as a relation. You can determine who is dominant or submissive based on how an interaction is physically structured (leaving out a mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:12 AM
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What I would consider a “rational” way to arrive at the conclusion that penetration is inherently submissive (so regardless of any circumstances) is to take the actual definition of submissiveness, so something along the lines of allowing yourself to be controlled by others and logically deducting from this that penetration is submissive I see where you are going with this but, I wouldn't use common dictionary definitions when you're discussing philosophical concepts, like power. But so far in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:42 AM
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I think the main thing I have learned through this posts is that there is no “objective” or “rational” reasoning about what is submissive or dominant. What do you mean by rational and objective? If you accept certain premises as being true, it's trivial to make an argument that being penetrated is inherently submissive. The Romans structured their entire system of sexual morality on this idea. Personally, I think it's an incredibly reductive way to think about power, to the point of it being non…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:33 AM
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Well, the most commonly cited dictionary definition of the word isn’t actually the way that you’re using it, so it’s sort of ironic how you are saying that doesn’t change the meaning of the word. This is how the word hypocrisy is defined by Oxford Languages: - the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense. To give an example to better explain this, let’s say there is a person named John. Let’s say John prefers low body count wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:10 PM
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So it seems like according to your definition, a short women preferring a taller man is also hypocritical Or in general, preferring something in someone else you don’t have is hypocritical. This makes pretty much every preference in heterosexual coupling hypocrital, which makes the word pretty meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 02:39 PM
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I really don’t have much of a view on this subject, but I’m curious, what do you think the word hypocrisy means? How are you using it in this context ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:53 PM
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https://youtu.be/aPxVSCfoYnU?si=VZFiJTGDYn7vZtdB
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:41 AM
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Its always funny to me how quickly eating ass has been normalized I remember nearly everyone thinking that it was foul and then that song dropped, and now 30-40 percent of the dudes I know do it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:35 AM
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Give a definition
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:45 PM
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Jesus, being on this sub at your age is gonna pollute your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:27 AM
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What definition of confidence are you using
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:26 AM
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Kpop has not changed that paradigm, I think you are overestimating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:47 PM
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Not really ironic, westerners are often used as means for other ends in those countries. Ukraine and Czechia are not as developed as the rest of Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:45 PM
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What is toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:26 PM
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I think it would probably be more productive for you to put forward a definition of sexism, and then explain how exactly viewing women with colorful sexual histories as less desirable for romantic relationships meets that definition of sexism. I personally find a lot these discussions about misandry, misogyny/sexism, to be really vague so its hard for me to engage with; because, it always seems like the men and women here conflate being devalued in the romantic sense is equal to be devalued as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:50 PM
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Get some head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:31 AM
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I’m pretty cynical because of the way I grew up, but you might be worse than me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:31 AM
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I don’t mind it nowadays, but only ever for my long term gf. Never on a ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:50 PM
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Nah brother, can’t do that, can’t get past that. I’m generally indifferent and forgiving to a lot of fetishes, especially if I love the girl, but wanting to fuck animals is uniquely disgusting to my brain for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:46 PM
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I really depends on what the fetish is. I could probably get over like some gross incest fetish, but something like bestiality is so much more foul to me that I probably wouldn't be able to kiss her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:24 PM
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There should be fume extractors for facilities where they laser cut wood, but in construction there is basically a health violation every second A lot of these guys do die earlier than they would have otherwise but in my experience, it’s more so from other injuries and not the chemicals, weirdly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:34 AM
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I see, no wonder he doesn’t care about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:29 AM
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Poly people, swingers, and nudist have a reputation for being ugly and weird looking Attractive ppl don’t really frequent those spaces for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:28 AM
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Your husband is open to the idea of you getting dick from another man? Just curious If so, This doesn’t actually surprise given what you’ve said about his other preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:26 AM
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You seem to be speaking in past tense, you don’t have that friend group anymore ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:12 AM
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False dichotomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:31 PM
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Lmao facts. I think porn is degenerate so I was agreeing slightly in the first half but he lost at that point looool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:35 PM
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Zero, I spend zero time doing this. Using people on Reddit as a basis for reasoning about the general, normie population is a recipe for disaster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:55 PM
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While three does sound gross, it is a pretty common thing. Ironically, you see it more in girls who have had horrible male role models instead of good ones. It makes sense that because you have had a very respectable father that you would not be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:52 PM
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First time I agree with a comment of yours in a long time. People bitching over preferences in general is so lame to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:48 PM
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Loosen up gender expressions and norms is exactly what is killing marriage in the first place lol Marriage as an institution should die to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:46 PM
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The actual facts are relevant because that is what we are using in judging whether or not marrying a sleezy women was considered emasculating... Not replying anymore, you are obviously biased considering you are a swinger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:40 PM
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Are you fat? I lost around 80 pounds and have been able to operate off 7 hours easily ever since.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:43 AM
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Female women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:01 PM
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Pericles circumstances doesn't contradict anything that I have said, his "wife" was subject to ferocious attacks and slander, and Pericles himself was constantly clowned on; to begin with, whether or not it is even true that she was a sex worker is a contentious position that modern historians are only really able to make inferences on based on weak evidence. We don't even know if she was just a piece of pussy he kept around or actually his wife. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aspasia I don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:59 PM
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Why do you view marriage as a deeper, more secure commitment? Because of the consequences and difficulties of divorce? This to me is hardly romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:08 PM
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There’s nothing emasculating about marrying a woman who’s had kinky sex with other men. That’s all in your head, buddy. This is only a recent viewpoint in history. eople used to view women as conquest and knowing your wife was getting dominated and toss around, and you being okay with that, was supposedly an indication of weakness because you are fine with your stuff having been violated. Things are different now and stuff has been normalized but his position doesn't seem far fetched by PPD stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:13 AM
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The point he is making that the commitment is irrational. Marriage is a monogamous tradition based in part on the principle of sexual exclusivity, but what is your exclusivity worth if you've already slept with a bunch of different people? You've already shared yourself. You are making a commitment to something on a fallacious basis, this person isn't actually exclusive to you unless they are a virgin, this goes for both men and women, they aren't "your" person in any sense really. Modern marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:06 AM
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You shouldn't be downvoted by anyone who accepts TRP. That is legit ideal stoic TRP philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:40 PM
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This is the best comment on double standards I have ever seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:44 PM
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So if a women has a vaginectomy, is she no longer a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:44 PM
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That is nebulous. Which female external sex characteristics are you referencing? Vagina, boobs? Must they have both? What about in instances where a women has their boobs cut off, are they women still? I am curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:31 PM
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Because women don’t believe exclusive tops are a real thing, or at least that is what I’m told. To be fair, the two bisexual guys I know who call themselves tops still suck dick, which apparently is common for “tops” So are they really tops ? If I had to guess the vast majority of gay and bi men are switches and real Roman style exclusive tops is like less than a percent of all lgbt people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:05 AM
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If not all women have an XX chromes, how are you defining women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:02 AM
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The point I am making is that it is not the same thing. Men fucking women, is not the same thing as women fucking men - it isn't the same in principle and is only thought of as such because we use more abstract phrasing, i.e., " sleeping around " So lots of men are not doing the same action as women, because they are not sleeping with men, and the ones who do get shamed for it, so your point is incorrect and relies on vague, abstract terminology. This is one of the funniest false double standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:28 PM
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the hoe phase is just women having fun and enjoying some freedom to make choices. I think lots of men do the same thing and don’t get shamed for it. Men do get shamed for getting fucked by men, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:16 PM
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Ngl bro, you seem a little off in the head, not because you enjoy casual sex but because of the way you described it lmao Fucking girls on ONS is an expression of your love and appreciation for all of womankind ? That is a new level of horniness I have never seen before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:04 AM
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Depends how you define casual. I’ll usually have some long term friends with benefits and I enjoy those, so if you consider that casual sex then I suppose I do want that; however, one night stands and other stuff that is considered casual is not for me because a lot of girls are dirty as hell and I can’t risk getting an incurable - I need to be able to vet the women I sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:01 AM
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What did she nail
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:44 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:40 PM
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You must be a little older than me brother, hot girls are everywhere nowadays lol Frats and stuff are still where the big parties happened but not everything is sectioned off anymore, everyone hangs out with everyone pretty much So yea - pretty women everywhere, or maybe I’m just a cavemen and all women are pretty by virtue of just being women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:53 PM
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My college is like 56 percent female and 44 percent male, so getting laid is pretty easy not gonna lie College environments are sort of unlike anywhere else in the country
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:47 PM
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Men regard the act of allowing another man to fuck their girlfriend as an implicit act of submission to the man whose been allowed to fuck their girl, and any man whose agreed to his girl being fucked by another dude is thought of as weak, regardless if he gets to fuck other woman - that’s pretty much it ( as a man, being thought of weak is pretty much the worse thing that could ever happen to your reputation, which is why it’s so stigmatized ) There are a bunch premises/beliefs and other assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:12 AM
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taking turns being dominated does not make it any less of queen behavior, you are just switching up who the bitch is throughout the act lmao Having a different conception of masculinity isn’t dislike or prejudice of gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:21 PM
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I can’t imagine anything more feminine than wanting to take a dick in the ass or get fucked in the face, or being attracted to a dick in general lmao Unless you are saying gay people don’t like dick, I don’t see how it isn’t feminine, or why it’d be homophobic to consider it feminine Actually, define homophobia for me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:39 AM
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I doubt your n count is that high
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 03:41 PM
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I’ve never plated or ghosted a women , don’t have the coldness in me lol But I’ve definitely rejected women for past promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:51 PM
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I give up, you didn't understand the point brother, and you write a lot in your replies, and I am honestly too lazy to reply to everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:28 AM
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Not preferring dicks doesn't make you a hypocrite IF you are OK with people not preferring your own genitalia. So if a guy was okay with others not wanting to date him because of his sexual history, then he is no longer a hypocrite? This isn't how you were using the word before. ​ Hypocrisy - the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform; pretense. As to bodycount. If you believe that your own sexual promiscuity doesn't make you lesser r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:49 AM
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Do you think women who have height standards are hypocrites? Do you think straight men who prefer their partners to not have dicks, despite them having a dick themselves are hypocrites for this preference? This is them having a standard they themselves do not meet, so you would think they are hypocrites for considering people with dicks as having no romantic value? I am trying to make a point here, but define hypocrisy for me before I do; I think you'll see that most people have no idea what it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:14 AM
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On the other hand, if you're like a lot of guys and want to fuck women without a relationship, want a world where women are just as interested in casual sex as men, it's both hypocritical and self-sabotaging to restrict ex-sluts to non-marriage material. Define hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:43 AM
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I’m fine if she’s still an occasional slut after we’re together a while as long as I can be too. So you are okay with other men fucking your girlfriend, as long as you are able to fuck other women too, is what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:55 AM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:51 PM
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Your dream whoridise is not going to happen, keep coping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:41 PM
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Here comes the poly person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:28 PM
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Keep in mind, epigenetic changes are largely reversible - the theory is relatively new as well, I don't think we know enough to say one way or another. This is also a dating sub, you might want to look through journals to see if someone has already written about this question for a better answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:25 PM
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She for the streets, I'd drop her ass just cuz she asked to try it out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:21 PM
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you are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:25 PM
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Yes or no - he wants you to fuck more men, while being in a relationship with you ? If yes, he is a cuckold, or at least an aspiring cuckold; I’ve seen men like this ironically shame women for not having slept around more and it manifest as some sort of backwards weirdo sex positivity Good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 11:04 PM
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In my experience, every guy I’d label as a HVM cares about sexual history for relationships, they just don’t give af when it comes to casual sex with women since they aren’t looking to date them, where potential STDs are the only concern
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:57 PM
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What is the point of the hypothetical ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:47 PM
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Wait hold on, I just want to make sure I am understanding this correctly You are currently within a relationship, and the man you are dating wants you to sleep with more men because he finds it hot, whilst being a relationship with you - so he is a cuckold? He is a cuckold and thinks men who care are losers lol ? I love Reddit, can’t find these sorts of takes anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 10:43 PM
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I agree with the asking part, you have to be socially stunted to not understand that asking women about their previous sexual experience will prevent you from getting laid or into a relationship, it is socially taboo in the West at this point; however, you guys gotta stop thinking that because you are not asked, men do not care, that does not logically follow, and doesn't even make sense as an assumption since men have something to lose by asking you - this isn't a reasonable way to assess the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:36 AM
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She is gaslighting tf out of you 😂 Anecdotal but I live out here in ATL where gay and bi niggas are everywhere and every bi guy I know said some of the girls he’s fucked with, even the progressive ones, would feel some type of way about him having fucked other niggas at some point in his life even if he was not on that type of timing in the present. It’s actually crazy she is really pressing you over a small assumption that many of these women who don’t wanna date bi dudes are also many of the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 10:19 PM
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2 months late, but: I think it is a "active" vs "passive" force thing, where the person who is primarily in control of the circumstance is the one doing the "using", and being the penetrator in of itself makes you the active party; so, in these terms, the women is certainly the one being used, regardless of her agency. I think a interesting way to think of it is like this: If you taped a knife to wall, walked 20 foot back from where you taped it, turned around, and ran full force into the knife,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:56 AM
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I guess this is the gay version of the whore uniform that Dave Chapelle was talking about... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7QNw1LRJv4 Would I say he is a femboy? Probably not as the term is understood today, prince's aesthetic was basically how pimps used to dress, and that aesthetic (while flamboyant) wasn't really considered feminine at the time - of course, prince still upped the flamboyancy enough to where he was breaking gender norms; and also, he was a queer icon before the johava witne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:22 AM
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Would you be mad at a man not wanting to date a gross girl that everyone has had then? I personally don’t care about n count, but I feel like so many women on PPD are hypocritical regarding sexual history preferences ( ironically )
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:56 PM
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You will never know that they have those experiences unless they open up to you about the period of time where they were having casual sex, which is quite literally them just telling you they were slutty at one point; when I say no slut "tells" exist, I mean there is not anything you as a man can perceive unless they straight up tell you about the experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:21 PM
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Wow that’s crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:53 PM
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Well it’s more of a pragmatic thing, regardless of whether or not it’s inherent, there is a high degree correlation between casual sex and those bad things, so for most people it’s probably gonna be a regrettable experience I blame the lack of sexual education honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:51 PM
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A friend of mine recently started to embrace his sexuality or whatever, told his girl he wanted to try pegging and she left him ( a few months down the line, not immediately, but we all know this was the reason) They fr stopped having sex for pretty much that entire period between when he asked, and when she left I think a lot of guys who might be into that shit might not even break the news
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:49 PM
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u/EulenWatcher
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:47 PM
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Huh? How old was your gf mom when she had her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:45 PM
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Well I think it’s a little more nuanced All the promiscuous women I know regret it, not because they had sex, or that it ruined their dating options ( I think men underestimate how easy it is to do dirt and never get caught, like lying about your n count easy to get away with, especially if you move out of town - slut “tells” don’t exist, you’ll never know unless you do some obsessive investigation ) They kinda regret it only because of the abuse, sexual assault, and other shitty things they enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:42 PM
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So you were stepping out on your husband, at some point in the relationship, is what you are saying ? So your husband is/was a cuckold?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:57 PM
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What do you think that complex actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:54 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:27 PM
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You are making it sound like you are the Gandalf of these streets lmao I’m sure a virgin guy wouldn’t be to pressed over like 15 bodies, or would he ? It’s not like you’d be dating each other When I was a virgin all I cared about was getting to smash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:08 AM
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I feel like this is kind of a word game, though Yea, which is what I was kinda getting at, the guy I was replying to seemed to be operating off a different definition of slut based on something like 'desire to have sex', instead of how most other men use the term. Being a “slut” is fundamentally about being promiscuous, not necessarily enjoying/having enthusiastic sex. It seems like there’s sometimes this weird assumption baked in that having enthusiastic sex only on committed relationships is j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:37 PM
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just don't act like your preference makes sense or has a logic to it lol This is true of the vast majority of preferences that both men and women hold, most preferences are arational ( they don't have a sense or a logic to it ), so attacking this one in particular just seems like you want to troll the men who care; I'd understand it if you were replying to a specific comment, but you started the thread yourself lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:06 PM
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So did that study he linked change your opinion about this at all then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:55 PM
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If you're gonna date a "slut" why not date a good one lmfao Because to them they aren't dating a slut, they usually define it solely by n count ( some include oral sex in n count, it just depends ) , not just mentality ( if a girl was a "slut" just for them they'd be over the moon ) Not trolling, I'm being genuine. Men who think their gf that swallowed the seed of 5 other men is any different from a girl who got fucked by 20 different dicks are delusional. What do you even mean when you say any …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:43 PM
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men who care about n count just want to make themselves feel better. Obviously? Pursuing any preference is about personal satisfaction - making yourself feel better - you aren't actually saying thing here lool your girl who's had 3 dicks isnt any "purer" than a girl who's had 30, she was just worse at being promiscuous lol lmao, regardless of some talk about purity, don't you think dudes with n count preferences would be happy that she is bad at being a slut Cmon bro, if you gonna troll dude wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:31 PM
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Watch the first minute https://youtu.be/5DAwY85_gYQ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:19 PM
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Lmao that made me laugh, can’t lie Out of all the reason I’ve seen for low n count women, this gotta be the most bummy, and not how most men think about it ( at least on this sub ) Usually it’s “ I don’t want something easily accessible “, “ she’s gross “, “ more likely to cheat “, “ difference in values “, “ cheapens intimacy”, etc... I think even the PPD demons might have some disdain for this guy allowing a MERE WOMEN to influence his perception of his own masculinity - not very gigachad of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:51 PM
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u/necessary-worry1923
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:45 PM
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Well he just responded, and its pretty much exactly as I guess it would be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:14 AM
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For most guys a good girl is just a girl who hasn't slept around, nice to them, fucks, and laughs at their jokes occasionally lmao Honestly, these are pretty low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:06 AM
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Everyone wants different things. It is not simply a matter of men and women. It isn't - but, if it were true that humans were so unique with their desires, any study of behavioral patterns in humans would be useless; so, a more nuanced position here is that there are a few things that we can track that a lot of people seem to want, but outside of those few things, its pretty impossible to predict the wants of other people with any reasonable certainty. The problem is, people end up assuming a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:56 AM
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No, I am not a lair, why would I extrapolate extreme fringe opinions that I see her on PPD ( I honestly don’t even see hate for single moms to the extent she describes on this sub but I'll concede that if it makes you happy ) to general narratives about single mothers - that’d be dumb... I am not gaslighting anyone, relax - conversations we have here aren’t representative of the “loop” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:17 AM
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Lmao alright, I was with you on your first comment, but what dude is really about to share his fuck toys, that’s gross If it’s expensive, the person who paid big bucks for it is not gonna share it unless he got some atypical interest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:47 AM
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He said “generally”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:01 AM
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There just isn't a point, and asking is very creepy to women, which is counterproductive to tryna get laid in the first place - its a losing question lmao Statistically, most women aren't sluts, so its just best to operate off that assumption until proven otherwise ( imo ); some men here take the opposite approach, that all women are guilty of sluticide until proven innocent, but I like to be a little more optimistic A lot of dudes aren't even getting any play in the first place, until you get y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:58 AM
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Maybe I am just out of loop, but I do not see single moms being hated anywhere near the level that you describe, men just don't want to date them... I mean to say this: I noticed that single mothers get hated more than drug addicts, rapists and murderers do. is a little ridiculous, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:50 AM
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lol what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:51 AM
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I literally just quoted you saying that marriage doesn't make sense for humans, that is a judgement made regarding how reasonable the practice is, this is not you merely saying that it is not natural. Are you using a different definition of the word sense that I am not familiar with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:11 AM
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As a black man I kind of hate that feminism has hijacked conversations about race because every black man knows a lot of racism is a good mixture of misandry as well Lmao bro, I know this might not be what your referring to, but I just have to build on this a little - the only other race of women that gives their men as much shit as black women do to black men, is Asian women to Asian men ( the emasculation is wild ) White men get a lot of stupid flack online from women of their race as well; bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:08 AM
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This is entirely anecdotal, but I think it has to do with the humanities department at Universities - I myself am a liberal, and was still shocked at how extreme some of these professors are in their beliefs. Teachers do make an effort to remove their biases when teaching courses, they are academics at the end of the day, but how they present information to the class, and what information they present to the class leads students to what feels like, a predetermined conclusion. We know that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:02 AM
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Marriage doesn't make sense for humans. You didn't say explicitly that it was bad, but saying that it does not make "sense" carries with it a judgement as to whether or not the practice is reasonable for humans. Say what you mean to say with your chest and stop teetering around arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:53 AM
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I think virginity only matters in contexts where men are expected to be sexually exclusive and share resources with one woman. I think this is a point people often forget when looking at history, if a guy is fucking a bunch of girls, and being "together" with this women doesn't involve him having to commit to her, why the fuck would he care what she got up to if she is just another warm hole to him? They are essentially a glorified FWB, if people think the dudes of today were bad with the object…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:09 AM
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My unicorn gained a lot of favor when we first started dating with the way he responded to finding out about my period issues Maybe my dating life is just too vanilla, but what is a unicorn? I just searched it up, sounds like a person that is invited into an already existing relationship? I know its not relevant, but I was just curious - no judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:56 AM
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The Madonna-Whore complex is a niche psychological ailment, it isn't a common thing, it'd be a unrepresentative example if anything, making it meaningless for a broader discussion To use it as an example after describing how men view women who engage in casual sex doesn't make sense since it doesn't substantiate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:35 PM
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Casual sex is not beneficial for women because of men’s view of sex. As a woman, it’s very easy to realize that men want sex but ultimately believes a woman who has a lot of sex is unworthy of love/respect, all she is good for is that act, nothing else. She is deemed a slut, whore, etc… And that’s about it, it doesn’t matter if she did it 10 years ago, she’ll always be just that. And the woman who hasn’t, is worthy of love, wifey, etc…The madonna whore complex is a very real thing. " a Madonna–w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:28 PM
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Nah there isn't, I think if I am being completely honest, the knowledge of my girl having had been with a bunch of other men is just upsetting to me since I get jealous and possessive, and it would completely fry any sort of romantic attraction or intimacy I'd have for the relationship, its not even about whether or not she has changed; so, since I am like this, it is better for both me and the girl to not date since we are not compatible, I would not be happy treating what was easily accessible…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:02 PM
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I'd love to continue to this, but I feel like you are not giving to my points the same understanding that I am giving to your points and it is a little frustrating. I will reply to this comment but you seem only interested in considering the women's perspective - I already expressed several times in my past comments that I am sympathetic to a women's predicament, but that it is what it is, and how my perspective here is entirely male centric. So, if men relate sex to relationship quality, but al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:50 PM
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Men here get so hung up on past sex, that they fail to realize that the woman is with him, because she is looking for someone different: the guy in the past didn’t give her what she needed. You’re already ahead of him by her hanging out with you, spending time with you, and not relying on the physical side to keep her interested . And see this is the disconnect, you have to stop basing the metrics of success for men on what is often considered the metric for success for women - generally, girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:21 PM
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See that’s fair! But I think some men here don’t understand that women can want to have to wait to have sex for physical comfort, and not for a means of making someone stay longer. I get that, and I am very empathetic towards this, I do think that is her right to do, it just is what it is I guess - I think this is just a part of dating where men and women are going to buttheads. Put it this way, on the flip side, what a lot of girls don't get is that men get really jealous over sexual things. Se…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:59 PM
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But is that what you’re saying she should do on a logical basis? In order to show she’s equally attracted to this new man, as compared to some guy he’s doesn’t know? I don't really care what strategy she employs, I am not making any arguments for what she should do; my view here is entirely male centric, advocating for a strategy that benefits men If she feels that because she no longer has control over the pacing because the guy is willing to dip at the drop of a hat if his needs are not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:36 PM
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Its not a matter of fairness, she can do whatever she wants, I am not making prescriptions for how women ought to behave If she gave it up to another dude some night in a club that she didn't know, and is making the guy taking her out to several dates wait, that is her business - I am just saying guys need to have their own pacing, using whatever metrics they want in determining what is too long for them, and if those are not met stop wasting time and get the fuck on to the next girl A guy doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:19 PM
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lmao bro, this open relationship status just seems like some shit you've accepted so that you can keep her around, cuz otherwise, with her easing on the labels, you feel like she gonna disappear from your life. That is an L, have some self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:01 PM
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At the end of the day I am allowed to sleep w someone cause I feel like it & not sleep w someone cause I don’t feel like it. But even if there had to be rules, sheer time spent in the vicinity of a guy isn’t an approximate estimate for how: Well aside for whether or not OP's argument that it is dishonest is true, even if it is - I agree with this. Do as you want, you are completely entitled to sleep with who you want, when you want - I advise men to do as they see fit as well, bothering to argue…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:46 PM
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Yes I’m talking about men discussing “body counts” and their related preferences to or around women. I personally haven’t heard it even referenced since my sophomore year of college (outside of this thread). Yea I get it, if a man has not yet realized by the time he is finished with college that talking to a girl about shit like body count is for sure going to ruin any chances of him getting laid, he is socially inept; so, it doesn't surprise me that many women on this sub share similar experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:31 PM
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It’s not absurd. To not hear even some reference to it in 35 years is absurd, I guess we will just have to agree to disagree. I find it weird that you can’t conceptualize that perhaps the men on this thread just grossly overstate how often men are revealing this preference in real life I don't overstate how often men are revealing this preference ( to women ), I had a discussion about this in another comment thread on how men will not be explicit about this preference because of the consequences…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:08 PM
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Having sex with someone else outside your relationship with permission is different from cheating. We also talk about that as a potential future thing. Your boyfriend would be okay sometime in the future with you sleeping with another man? I don't think I will ever be able to comprehend men who are okay with this, but to each his own, - it is just absolutely wild to me .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:13 AM
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You guys can hate all you want on promiscuity but for me it was the right choice. I have no problem with women deciding to be promiscuous, I only have an issue when women shame men for not wanting to date promiscuous girls ( ironically ), no one has to accept a past in a partner just because they needed to sleep around to understand what it is they wanted from sex; you should just find someone who doesn't care about your history, and in your case, you have - I am glad it worked out for you. I ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:45 AM
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A women not hearing of any concern men might have over previous sexual partners ( n count ) in 50 (35) years of life is absurd; and, this isn’t an overestimation of the rate people ask on my end, it’s pointing out how removed she is from general experiences if she had not heard of it at least once before PPD I thought for a moment she was being hyperbolic, but given her other comments, that doesn’t seem to be the case... I live/have-lived in several urban areas as well, grew up in ATL, schooling…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:12 AM
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No, I was not okay with him bashing women, from what I understand, promiscuous women being more dissatisfied is true - calling women dick obsessed doesn’t seem sexist to me, men are pussy obsessed and would fuck around way more if able; again, I didn’t feel the first paragraph had any obvious sexist undertones, unlike the blatantly obvious racial undertones with Tyrone - combing through other comments threads, you can tell OP is sexist, but that wasn’t the initial reading If you disagree, and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:07 AM
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Wtf are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:06 AM
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Are you okay ? Are you just trolling ? I explicitly said I wouldn’t claim to know more about women than women do themselves; I see you still have this weird obsession about the men on this sub never having had some pussy or a girlfriend lmao Go get some help, you are unwell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:54 AM
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Solution is just to not give a fuck and stop debating it with women; obviously, that is an area that they are uniquely sensitive about, so you will be met with harsh criticism - if that energy bothers you, I don't think this sub is good place to hang around Reality is, women are going to look out of women's interest... They wanna be able to fuck around and still find a relationship with a good dude; so collectively, they all understand that if they are able to shame men for the preferences to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:42 AM
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He is trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:38 AM
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I was with you until it got racially tinged, you are wilding lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:33 AM
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Pretty much none, I don’t think people truly understand how small a subset of the population trans people are - I blame media; and, the fact they are so overrepresented in media actually makes me feel bad for the trans people that just want to take their hormones or whatever and keep it pushing, extreme trans activist have really done way more harm than good for this demographic https://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/publications/trans-adults-united-states/ Gender ideology is actually completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:29 AM
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Non practicing Catholics are still exposed to religious philosophy, and many of their values are still extensions of it I wasn’t making the argument that they are all hardcore, just that there is still a significant religious presence that often influences what people care about in dating; so yes, you live in a super bubble, but that’s fine, I just think you should be aware of that when extrapolating your personal anecdotes to the general population - you are the one in unique an environment, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:22 AM
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Saying someone isn’t very bright isn’t that bad, but I guess it’s technically against rules Though, it seems you’ve deleted some other comments I made where there were no explicit personal attacks, unless I am misremembering what I wrote Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:19 AM
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Don’t bother, she actually doesn’t care about anything other than women’s interest This person has no principles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:59 AM
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Lol You have no morals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:37 AM
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Yea center city Philly is a very small area relatively speaking, you def lived in a bubble Philly itself is nearly 70 percent Christian - Philly is the 24th most religious city in the entire country, so the fact you’ve never encountered this is amazing to me Have you literally never lived outside of center city ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:25 AM
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Yea, I lived in an urban environment, these people are every where - you must live in a bubble within a bubble, that is also within a bubble; and, I am actually happy that you do considering your opinions, we can all find pockets where we fit in It’s good you found people you like being around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:13 AM
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Hmm, I think from now on, I might actually be okay with men lying about their entire education, lifestyle, height on dating apps, wealth, etc... to get sex, especially when it comes to women who are willing to lie about their n count It’s only fair, otherwise, you not being okay with that in of itself would be a double standards;considering those qualities are not given equal value on both ends, being a women enforced double standard All of this is quite sad honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:07 AM
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Suggesting they lie is just crazy to me, that’s an absolute violation 😂 Man, I’ve been railing against a lot of TRP points, but it’s shit like this that makes me understand the spite - some of y’all women are cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:52 PM
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For sure, there are only ever consequences “if” and only “if” he finds out - the reality is, you have to take it on their word or do some crazy Sherlock Holmes investigating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:50 PM
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If you’ve never encountered this sort of thing in your 50 years of life, you’ve lived in a bubble
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:48 PM
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So you take issue with one, but not the other lol Alright - do you lmao...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:48 PM
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Not sure why my comment was deleted... Sure, though that isn’t what we are arguing about is it? We are not arguing about whether or not it’s pointless to ask ( whether you feel it’s pointless is also irrelevant to the argument, even if that might be true ) , we are arguing about whether or not the preference exist in high numbers; I already said earlier men are blackpilled about it, and will accept reasonable histories even if they hate the thought since they don’t have a choice if they want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:43 PM
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Missed the point ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:57 PM
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I feel like being pedantic as to whether or not it is logic, but theres not really a point - I gathered her thoughts and placed it in a more clear form for the sake of clarity - I understand what you mean, you are referring to her thinking strategy here Sure, we can say she employed a heuristic technique, but it remains that it does not logically follow, you don’t think this is a problem given the thought process; I do - I regard that as a problem in determining how common the preference is when…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:15 PM
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The preference persist, men are just forced to accept reality, that in modern times girls are gonna get fucked a bunch before you show up, and if you want to date, you gotta accept some history; but, don’t mistake this as the preference disappearing, the post college crowd certainly cares, they are just blackpilled on it - it is what it is sort of thing YOU can continue to believe whatever you want lmao, imagine thinking you know men’s general preferences in partners more than a man; men are way…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:39 PM
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“ ones that did care didn’t need to know “ Lmao, justify the lying with whatever reasoning you want 🤥 If he cares, then it is his business, you don’t get to dictate to others what is a valid concern when they are looking for a partner I actually disagree a lot with TRP, but after spending a lot of time on PPD and other subs, I actually can empathize with dudes who just charge all this toxic shit to the game, accept that it’s fucked, and doing whatever they need to get what they want Since girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:31 PM
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Do you take issue with men lying about their personality and feelings in order to get sex ? If you also don’t have a problem with this, then I accept you just charging it to the game here, since you are being consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:23 PM
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Your experiences are being selected for, stop basing whether or not you think a concern exist on whether or not you are asked, that is faulty logic. Premise 1: men don’t ask me Conclusion : most men don’t care Conclusion doesn’t logically follow from the premise, men are not going to be upfront with this preference because of the social consequences of asking
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:21 PM
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Def not a revenge fantasy, I’ve seen a lot of dudes completely in shambles about a girls past, a few have got over it cuz they love them; but, I have seen a significant number completely blow up and end the relationship. Also let’s not pretend that women are just lying to specific men here, they lie about it regardless, even if they think the guy isn’t judgmental - it’s one of those things girls only are ever open about with their own friends, and a guy she TRULY trust Something else I’ve seen t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:16 PM
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Only because women lie lol They are able to hide the one thing men really care about, pretty big advantage honestly lol You can’t hide being short or having a small dick lmao; I guess the equivalent here would be men lying about their personality and all that shit to get pussy, and the completely switching up after Both are pretty fucked, but I guess that’s just the game I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:10 PM
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Your being pedantic, I didn’t make that assumption , I used a hyperbole as a reference to promiscuity - you aren’t very bright I find other men’s dicks comparable to shit, but am completely comfortable and fine with mine - this isn’t a contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:43 AM
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Lmao if a man is disgusted by the fact that a girl had 80 different dicks all in her mouth than that is valid , it doesn’t necessarily have to do with thinking that there some attribute of the body that is tainted as a result of them engaging in sex Would you want to kiss a partner who was into a skat ? Even if they’ve brushed their teeth , the mental association is enough to dry up any desire , which is why most men buy into the ignorance is bliss shit I’ve seen all throughout this post being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:35 AM
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“ A 304 spells hoe on a calculator when typed in and flipped upside down. A 304 is a rather skanky and promiscuous girl, also commonly known as a hoe.” From urban dictionary
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:31 AM
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He is asking you to explain why attractions to wealth and height are legitimate, and his preference for virginity is garbage - I think that was what his original comment was getting at. It seems your response to this was that one is physical and the other is not, but you already know how I feel about this distinction in the other thread, no need to waste more time in this one. After this reply, I am done playing defense for buddy, he just needs to express himself better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:53 AM
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The distinction is meaningless, both remain preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:50 AM
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Wrong or right, if I was Jack, and I were to know Abby was getting up to that when I was showing her affection and taking her out on dates, I’d break up with her ( even 1 year into the relationship ) The dating scene is wild these days man, exclusivity was an implicit assumption when going on dates from where I grew up, it must be different across the states
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:18 PM
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Ah I see, I was about to say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:13 PM
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10 year talking phase is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:03 PM
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Okay, so I am going to be very charitable here, but from what I understand, you are actually the one who side tracked the argument, let me know if I am reading this comment chain incorrectly. u/beidameil says here: So all (social) trends should be dismissed because people are different? Do you really believe that? You then reply with: We don't actually have a lot of social trends. His claim wasn't that we have a lot of social trends, he was asking if this person believes (all) social trends (so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:38 PM
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You aren’t saying anything that refutes his point that social trends exist, merely that it is very difficult, if at all possible to identify one specific casual explanation as for why this trend or correlation exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:28 PM
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He is not trolling you, he is saying a high degree correlation is still indicative of a predictive relationship between the two variables X ( whoring around ), and Y ( heartbreak ); and, that for our purposes, the causal explanation for why this exist is not necessary, since what we are concerned with is the question " Why do women participate in hookup culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want? " We know the trend exist, and we know what the outcomes are, so we can use it to inform …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:26 PM
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I am sure some do, but it doesn't seem to be anywhere near as common as it is in the states considering how much of a plus it seems to be a to a lot of these girls who come from there to the states
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:29 PM
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This actually isn’t true from what I’ve seen in my experience. Hilariously, American men, even conservatives, tend to be far more progressive when compared to everywhere in the word outside of like Canada, Western Europe, and like three South American countries; so, American men end up becoming desirable to a lot of these women from Uber conservative countries since they are relatively accepting and open. It’s a very weird state of affairs - my friends girl is from Korea and she was over the moo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:58 PM
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lmao ex hetero ? You became bisexual? Or were you always bisexual and merely removed some inhibitions? This is interesting to see since I spoke to a sexologist recently, and apparently there is no substantive evidence that social environment has any influence on sexuality, this is not a biological determinist argument, there is just no social environment hypothesis that has been substantiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:10 PM
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For number 1, this variance is greatest in things not relevant to what is often discussed on this sub, in: careers, hobbies, academic interest, etc... However in dating, there a few things that when observing at the population level are notable, like interest in taller men, wealthier men, physically fit men, etc... These are not ground breaking understandings, nor is it entirely unique to women, but these are useful generalizations that are accurate, so I think you should be more clear here as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:34 PM
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Man Stoicism is so overrated I grew up in the projects, shoot outs and all that type of dumb gang banging bullshit was a common occurrence - I got into trouble here and there, but I wasn't really on that type of shit myself. Still, I had a lot of close friends die, and stoicism really helped me out; so, I disagree that it is overrated when learned properly, and you do not need to endorse every single tenant ( there also isn't some universal handbook ) in order to benefit from stoicism. I tried s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:40 AM
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If you're high n-count but want someome low n-count, you are a hypocrite. I see this argument a lot, and I read through an argument between another user and someone else regarding what it means to be a hypocrite, and I actually don't know if this is true in all cases. People prefer traits in the opposite sex that they themselves often do not embody, from: short women preferring tall men, fat men preferring fit women, poor women preferring rich men, etc... Are all these people hypocrites? If yes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:34 AM
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Women are going to want their cake and eat it too; men are going to want their cake and eat it too. So, they shame others for having preferences they do not like in an effort to get others to behave in ways advantageous to them, consciously or subconsciously - women don't want men to not like girls who get around, they wanna be able to fuck dozens of dudes and still pull that prince charming. For men, men want to be able to be short, or broke, and have women not disqualify them on that basis - i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:50 AM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/conquest 2.b.: a person whose favor or hand has been won Go to the example section, you will find: " She was one of his many conquests. " It can be correctly classified as a conquest, and that is not an archaic usage of the word - you just don't like that framing - just say you do not like the framing, there is no point is arguing this when you are incorrect definitionally, its not an opinon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:40 AM
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Personally, I don't see any role as inherently more submissive, and both can involve just laying there while the other does the work. There are certainty roles and behaviors where one person is in control and has greater power over the situation - they are dominant, you can just call a spade a spade here; though, I do understand why you are reluctant to frame it that way, you want to see it as a mutual thing, and it can be it - these things don't have to be mutually exclusive. And the "conquest"…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:45 PM
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Getting fucked is an inherently submissive position, the man is being subjugated , and this is regardless of whether or not you find it degrading. The romans caused a massive fuss over this dynamic lmao, any man who was to ever get bent over like that was a bitch forever with no political future - that society was pure ego lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 09:20 PM
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