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| 2 | I should start ignoring her, right?Dude, get control of yourself, calm down and fuck her. Ignore the shitload of noise that will inevitably come, just enjoy the ride (puns everywhere). CALM THE FUCK DOWN. And just be a man and take her. Don't forget a condom, you don't want to get crazy pregnant. After the sex the shit tests will probably go through the roof. Cruise along with your chilled life like you literally can't even hear her crazy. And when she is about to explode from need of attention from you, fuck her again. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Insecure girlsAnd on that day the Lord spoke, and we listened. Thank you for sharing this. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | The perfect example of how an alpha widow feels.Perfect example, thank you for sharing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 04:24 PM |
| 6 | What nobody tells you about marriage, from a married manThe main issue is, I am no longer sexually attracted to her at all. And I don't see this changing any time soon. Possibly never. This was exactly how I felt and I got a divorce at 32. That was almost exactly a year ago. I have banged 5 women since then with the momentum picking up like crazy the past couple of months. Two of these women I consider hotter than any I've been with before. It's not selfish. It's nature. A man can still have a healthy sex drive way into his 60's and beyond and when I… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 09:26 AM |
| 12 | How Do You Maintain Attraction in an LTR?He's referring to this absolutely golden post. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:01 AM |
| 6 | Plate is now posting pictures of me on her social media, uh, good or bad?You are days away from the "exclusivity" talk. Prepare for it so long. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 08:37 AM |
| 1 | 17/187cm/80kg (6'2", 176lbs) If I continue bulking will I just become fat?Fuck yeah haha | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 06:17 AM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 25Some young and naive girls never had a dating life during high school. Then, after school,they become hot and start receiving the typical inundation of cock. These girls, however, tend to want a relationship much more desperately than simply wanting to ride the CC. I think it's partly because they never had somebody that they could call a boyfriend before. There is a certain social status boost associated with that for girls. Be careful with these girls. They tend to get very obsessive with you … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 06:43 AM |
| 6 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 25If you can get a girl to mate-guard herself, you've achieved a new level of proficiency. Case in point: plate put up a photo of her kissing me on social media, beta orbiters who all have been friend-zoned freak the fuck out, calls her a liar for "not wanting to be in a relationship" with them and now she's kissing this other guy (me)?! She keeps forwarding me all the messages. Laughing our asses off. Effort from my side - close to zero. Get a girl to the point where she mate-guards herself, it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 06:32 AM |
| 4 | Do you allow photos on FB timeline if one of your plates tagged you?If you are spinning plates, I wonder if this isn't a bit too boyfriend-ish, especially the kissing photos. Might be sending the wrong signal to her if you plan on keeping the plates spinning. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsGirls are inherently beta so this is the correct answer. Do you know of a guy who would have done the same? Check. Ergo, if the balance is tipped far enough to the other side there is a girl (see: this plate) that will also do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsSure. If you get somebody to invest in you (do any kind of favour or put in some effort from their side on your behalf), they will hamster it to perceive you as higher value after the act because "why else would I have done him that favour?". | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsGood stuff, a lesson learned can carry a lifetime of value. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsBefore she left her house and walked all the way to my work, I changed the plans to me picking her up from her place and us going to my place. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsHa, good ol' Woujo at his best. Thanks for reading man! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsProbably differs from plate to plate but I'm not a fan of the idea overall, mostly because I want my space to be my space. Leaving her there unattended strangely feels like a bit of an invasion of privacy to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsYou'll get my vote for that one! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsDammit that would have been the shit. No, I dropped her off at the mall afterwards and headed back to work. Next time haha! | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsPicked her up and took her to my place. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsSure, every post needs to be approached with a healthy bit of own brain function and discernment. What undoubtedly helped me more than I can count are things like: The iron law of seduction is that your emotional investment should be less than hers at every step of the interaction The Benjamin Franklin theory (good reminder!) How to avoid getting too invested too early ...and one of my very favourite lines that helped me get through numerous beginning stages of relationships: Have faith that she… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your Results100% correct and that is very helpful, thanks bro, updating now. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Some Important Shit. That Clearly Is Being Missed.We absolutely need posts like this every now and again because everybody including myself tends to lose sight of the goals of TRP. Thank you for this post OP. It will help me contribute towards TRP in a much more useful way going forward. Appreciate you taking the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 11:46 AM |
| 22 | Your Beliefs Will Catch Up Much Slower Than Your ResultsI cannot link to the post referred to in my post because this sub does not allow linking to anywhere within Reddit. The title is: "The most important part of game is not being emotionally invested". Just search for it, it's one of the top posts on here. Update: link added in post, thanks to u/anabolic92 | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 09:13 AM |
| 5 | Fucking UnicornsI think that because she is still so young you are 100% correct with this observation. She is constantly trying to prove that "she's much more mature than other people her own age" and this was just one of the ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/18 06:25 AM |
| 21 | Fucking UnicornsHaha thanks for reading bro 👊🏼 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.Interesting to see it from the perspective of no man being good enough.. Hmm. Quite a paradigm shift. Do I understand correctly in that you mean no man can ever be the "full package", so if she gets the missing parts from another guy, why even bother about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 08:44 AM |
| 24 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.What a fucking awesome reply. Thanks for taking the time to type this out dude. Helps me get my head on straight again. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 05:46 PM |
| 467 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.The first time you fuck a cute little thing and she treats you like a sex-god only to realise you’re actually her plate and she treats every other guy this way too. This part freaked me out... because I suspect that this is exactly what might be the case with my latest plate... so sweet and submissive and eager to please. She stares into my eyes after sex. She strokes my hair and kisses me. She wakes me up the next morning with a soft kiss and whatever else I feel like. She gives me affection an… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 02:23 PM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Indicator That You Are Making ProgressI wouldn't say reflection to appreciate what we have today and reality creation are mutually exclusive at all. I have been using similar reality creation techniques for the last few months at least and it "syncs" your goals with your reality in astounding ways. Great share, thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:53 PM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Indicator That You Are Making ProgressNo, saw it on GetMotivated sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:20 PM |
| 0 | The Ultimate Indicator That You Are Making ProgressThanks for taking the time to read anyway. Cheers! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 12:04 PM |
| 5 | The Ultimate Indicator That You Are Making ProgressLiving in day tight compartments is ridiculously powerful Exactly. Today: I just have to eat well today. Tomorrow comes: I just have to eat well today. Rinse and repeat. The results are incredible. Thanks for sharing! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 11:44 AM |
| 24 | Women cannot handle rejection at allBeing bitter towards women and having a "I'm going to fuck you over because that's what all you bitches do to men" attitude only leads to more drama. It is an acknowledged phase that you have to go through when taking TRP but you should eventually moved past it. Then you simply start managing your plates with honesty while rooted in the realities of the differences between the genders' sexual dynamics. You should never end your TRP journey being at war with women. It should come full circle with… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 09:06 AM |
| 68 | Women cannot handle rejection at allPro-tip: never lead a girl on to think a relationship is going to be more than you are really interested in. This will only lead to drama. It sounds like you did lead on to more than the relationship really was. She was starting to go into betaizing mode as all women will eventually do to try and get you to settle down. I am relatively sure that this process was helped along by you, consciously or subconsciously. What's done is done now, just be aware of it. Any boyfriend behaviours you displaye… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on dealing with woman who feels like you're too high value SMV compared to her?This is helpful, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/18 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Cynical ImplementationHow long can you listen to a women mouth vomit about the new Starbucks Mermaid Frappuccino before you decide to help George Soros depopulate the earth with Super Aids? Have to find a way to turn this into a tattoo. For now, this'll be the lyrics to a new song I'm writing. Credit: GayLubeOil. No royalties, sorry. Only upvotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 09:42 AM |
| 3 | BP friend cries for gf to not break up with him, and rejects all of my advice.I had violent cringe convulsions at almost every new paragraph in this post. OP, do you want to know what the best thing is that has ever happened to you? This: I end up getting dissed by the entire group of friends. Time to celebrate! You had the weakest fucking group of friends, dude. Weakest. Ever. Losing friends is a great indicator that you are improving. Nothing sounds good or constructive about these guys. Enjoy your new life! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 09:31 AM |
| 22 | Back From the Grave. I bring a Message from the otherside: No feelings for hoes until 6 months of steady sexFIRST: SHUT THE FUCK UP. You have nothing to prove. Thinking like this is making you go back into chode mode. When I realized how much everything really matters (spoiler alert: most things are totally fucking meaningless), I finally let go of wanting to prove myself to girls. You said it perfectly. I couldn't understand why I kept feeling all this anxiety despite "having game". Turns out I still gave a fuck. A biiig fuck. Once I realized that all of this is temporary and really doesn't matter, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 09:13 AM |
| 18 | Back From the Grave. I bring a Message from the otherside: No feelings for hoes until 6 months of steady sexBe "non-judgmental", make them think they can open up to you and it wont be a problem, then you see who they really are. That'a the shit right there, brilliant. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Sluts and the City: A Carousel Rider's RegretsMost entertaining piece I've read in a while, thank you OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 08:57 AM |
| 2 | If she becomes pissy, am I interpreting this correctly (it's her problem, not mine)?It might just as well be her testing you. Don't give in. What you did the first time clearly worked. Keep that frame. Even if she becomes pissy, be prepared for that, handle it and take her back to bed again. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverToday I would say that I'm good looking yes, but THIS (dramatically waves at face) didn't just happen by accident. Lifting, keto, getting an entirely new wardrobe, grooming all facial hair, getting a decent haircut... I mean, I can go on and that's just on the outside. The biggest changes are on the inside and combine the two, they become a deadly combo. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverThanks man. I really don't remember but I do know that I was eating healthy for about 6 months already, so hitting the gym in January this year was just the next step. I was probably about 25% BF and weighing 83kgs, around there. Wasn't in bad shape as it was, but obviously lifting just take it to a whole new level. As simple as it sounds, nothing else helped accept consistency because it's all that you need. Don't miss a session. Don't mess up your diet. Just do it again today. And then again t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverWhen women chase guys their game is so fucking wacky that your shit eating grin just comes out naturally during the interaction. Like shes a cute little child. Haha dude, that is probably exactly how I looked while just soaking it all in. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverIn this context it simply meant she didn't want to go home yet... And even deeper, she wanted to not only not go home yet, but she wanted to come over to my place. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverWhat you actually need is ketogains. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverComments like this are actually awesome because it confirms what I know to be true: my consistent, hard work is paying off, the results are astounding, I have all the more reason to believe in myself and if it causes people to say "that's bullshit" it just means I'm really onto something here. Hard work pays off, gentleman. Commenter, if this is beyond the realm of your own reality, that's also fine. One day at a time bro, we're all in this together. I keep breaking ceilings of my previous reali… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay Everjust imagine how many people she's done that to if she really is that easy Might be the case but at the same time I'd rather use it as fuel, confirmation that what I'm doing is working. No point wasting energy and doubting myself, this is the payoff for very hard and consistent work and I'm just going to keep on keeping on. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverI just OWN it, seems to work quite consistently. Thanks bro! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverYes, 5 months of 5x5 without missing a single session so far. It's not like I'll win any competitions at all, I just feel like I look hot as shit and the girls then believe it too haha. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:12 AM |
| 7 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverAt that time I was having sex with two girls but like I honestly admit, I was enjoying the one who dumped me a whole lot more. In that comment itself it's then clear to me why she dumped me: I gave her too much attention, made it too easy etc etc. Lesson learned! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:09 AM |
| 13 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverDear past self, thank you for not being a fucking slob. Love, present self. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:06 AM |
| 9 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverYes, sticking to my idea of the script for the evening was not necessary. That's why I like writing it out like this and appreciate the comment - one small tweak I can make to make future encounters even better. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 07:05 AM |
| 20 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverIt's obviously sarcastic, but then again apparently nothing is obvious around here, the realm of "real men" where only lifting and no smiling is allowed. Anyway, let's not take all of this too seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverThanks man. For me, the "Dating and Relationships" section and all articles underneath it was what just got my head on straight again. It might have been because of where I was emotionally at that time, but whatever it was, it worked. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Do You Even Lift?Mind Illuminated Thanks for the recommendation, just bought it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverPlausible deniablilty. THANK YOU. Exactly that. In my previous post the girl gave the plausible deniability by bringing over a bottle of wine. This time the girl hinted at it and I had to lead and give it to her in the form of coffee at my house. Thanks bro ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverYeah man. Weight: 87 kg Height: 1.82 m BF: about 20%, possibly a bit less these day. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:19 PM |
| 38 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverI love everything about this comment <3 | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:05 PM |
| 11 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverAppreciate the reply, thanks man. Despite everything going so well I'm just going to be honest - I still wasn't courageous enough to just immediately go for it hard. Luckily some lines from Sex God Method came back to me and I started dominating. Will remember this next time! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverOh right. I was about to take her home (or so I said, at least) and she replied with "it's still so early"... reading between the lines: she doesn't want to go home just yet. So I led the situation, suggested coffee at my place as alternative to not go home yet and the rest is history. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:51 PM |
| 13 | Nevermind - THIS Was The Easiest Lay EverSure, so she went to the mall earlier to try and get some of the shopping done before meeting up for our date. I arrived at the arranged time and she still wasn't done... so she wanted to try and go to one or two more shops even though earlier I said I'm not going shopping with her. So when she asked again, I just grinned, locked eyes and remained silent. It only took her a second or two to realize it ain't gonna work on me, so she abandoned all her plans to go have our date. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 05:37 PM |
| 7 | The Importance of Oxytocin Production in Women and Inhibition by Hormonal ContraceptivesVery interesting share, thank you for the effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsWell you had the common sense to not get into a relationship because it would have been a nightmare for me as well man. These stories are absolutely enlightening and so much more emphasized by the girls' husbands or boyfriends being away for a few months. And I think that the "everybody's doing it" thing is probably helping it along even more! Thanks for sharing man | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this the most bluepill moment from any movie scene ?Dammit, just got Rickrolled again XD | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:06 PM |
| 6 | She regrets it: “feels miserable”Definitely not on text, thanks for pointing that out. All of this advice is for in-person. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 10:08 AM |
| 8 | She regrets it: “feels miserable”Dude, this one is easy to understand. She didn't have plausible deniability, you didn't give it to her so she had to hamster her way out of what she did to avoid responsibility.. however, she couldn't justify it in any good way so now she's tripping out on guilt. I don't think you can do much right now, but going forward remember this: Plausible deniability before sex: This is the ideal. You should have used the "we are so drunk" thing, get her to buy into it and therefore alleviate all and any … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:10 AM |
| 5 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsYeah man, what's getting me is that she didn't feel guilty. I helped her rationalize that "it is the wine" and that was all that was needed, she just threw herself at me. It's just bizarre man. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsGood share man. You see, this girl did exactly that - plausible deniability! So in your friend's story she still had to calm the hamster down. With me, I soothed the hamster before we had sex and it was so "obvious that we were drunk" (which we definitely weren't) that she was laughing and playing music and telling stories afterwards, not a single crumb of guilt at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsSure, I am 32 and she is 21. So yeah.. Not sure if that helps. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 03:06 PM |
| 15 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsI don't. But what I do know is that even if that's the case, no amount of promises and commitment between the two of them was enough for her to honor and choose the relationship rather than have sex with me... and that is a brain bomb. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 01:49 PM |
| 17 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsEven if out of context in that order, that is good insight. Ha! Guy's fucking lame then.. okay this helps explain it a bit more. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 11:07 AM |
| 4 | Learn The Sex Secrets of the Palestinian Buda: DJ KhalidWould be extremely valuable, please do! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 11:05 AM |
| 28 | Easiest lay ever - a cocktail of AWALT, plausible deniability and feeling strangely guilty afterwardsGreat share man. This is so disillusioning and appreciate the support in shape of your story. You experience it with women, married or not! Holy crap, that's a lot to digest. Not sure why it's hitting me so hard today. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/18 10:21 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls have one night stands? Why won't they fuck you again after the first time? Girls never want to keep in touch after we fuck and I'm starting to think I'm a fucking weirdo.Ask and you shall receive. Blackdragon released a post on this literally about an hour ago. Enjoy. When women one-night stand you | /r/askTRP | 10/05/18 12:47 PM |
| 6 | The Illness of Oneitus (And a brief discussion on female "friends").In my experience this is especially true for girls with daddy issues, but I've met girls with enough self-respect to maybe get confused by it for a second and chase you, but they soon sober up and tell you to kindly fuck off. As soon as they realize that they are only an option, they move on. But yeah, the ratio of healthy to unhealthy women is obviously strongly skewed towards the unhealthy side. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 09:49 AM |
| 2 | A quick AWALT reminder.Okay but I feel it needs to be said - as much as this guy clearly did some things right to get her, she was also receptive to it at that point in time. AWALT is a fact, but it is contextual. Women are human - gasp - and go through different seasons in life. Sometimes they are subtly ready for adventure, sometimes they don't want shit to do with it, sometimes the pressure to lock a guy down takes over and she simply won't fuck every Chad, sometimes her career is most important.. do I need to go o… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 08:43 AM |
| 70 | GF deletes all her WhatsApp chatsNobody starts cleaning up unless there's a mess. Sorry OP, but this is exactly it. How do I know? Because I did exactly the same thing when I cheated on my ex. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 10:02 AM |
| 39 | I've been destroyed and am new here.Man, don't SELF HARM OVER PUSSY!!! Thanks, saved me the trouble of writing it. OP, listen to this man - even if you feel like total shit now and clearly don't understand your immense, nearly unlimited value as the man that you are or are yet to become, there is not a thing on this earth that is worth you doing something as stupid as this. If you think you are reaching the end of your rope, you've actually only reached 40% or less, trust me. You might not understand this today, but through such i… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 08:22 AM |
| 2 | TRP on flirtingThis is a fucking great suggestion for people who doesn't have a clue where to start, upvoted. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 06:37 AM |
| 4 | ED problems, solutions?Good work with the 2 weeks. If you read the book "Your Brain on Internet Porn" which led to much of the knowledge that started NoFap, you'll read many stories about guys who had to go a couple of months before their brain slowly started rewiring. This, of course, might only be one of the reasons for your ED, but I would still seriously consider it again if I was you. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 12:36 PM |
| 13 | ED problems, solutions?Stop watching porn asap. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 12:30 PM |
| 191 | The people that I know that have girlfriends didn't do anything special to get their girlfriendsAs a serial dater, not having been single for almost 15 years until about 6 months ago, I would like to throw my 2 cents in here as well. First: ALL my previous girlfriends happened purely coincidentally, to be honest. Literally just right place, right time. She was single, I was single, we met somehow (mutual friends, or she was a receptionist and we just hit it off, or she moved into the house down the street and walked past me one day - nothing that can be considered "game"). Secondly, none o… | /r/seduction | 24/04/18 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A WhileDefinitely will make sure to take this into consideration if I write something again, thanks mod. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/18 06:16 AM |
| 4 | Being A People-Pleaser: what it actually means, and how to rid yourself of this disgusting conditionFantastic post. I would like to recommend to everybody the best book I ever read to help my people-pleasing ways. It's called Not Nice by Dr. Aziz Gazipura. Easily one of the best books I've read so far this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | What is FRAME ?Too many of these shitty questions! Sidebar literally says: You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse. Read the sidebar, sort r/TheRedPill by top posts, that'll keep you busy for a while. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend never creates drama. Never does anything weird. I don't know what to do.I keep coming back to this comment, holy shit rofl! | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Mate Guarding - Is it always wrong?be a man women would be afraid to lose THIS! Holy crap yes, this is going on my list of affirmations. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Mate Guarding - Is it always wrong?What a great reply man. Thanks for sharing about your friend, it must be a nightmare to be a single woman over 33. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A WhileFor sure man, that's why I said to gauge it in context. It might just be that she's bored and looking for attention, but I am pretty sure this girl is into me hard at this point. Will write update again after the weekend. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A WhileSure do, I've been ripped a new one. Filtering through the regular haters, it's humbling and I know I'm definitely still just learning. I take all the advice I can get because I sure can use it. It's pretty illuminating to see the situation through other, more experienced eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 04:38 PM |
| 44 | Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A WhileGreat reminder and look, the way I see it right now, I simply haven't fucked it up and navigated the rocky shores of the first few dates without fail. I remember those days when I would have blown it by now, so the value of the lesson lies therein already. I'm keeping what you say in mind, as we all should, thanks bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Did I break a man's frame?100% this. I KNOW that my ex talks shit even though I dumped her. They can't afford to be honest and lose social value about things like getting dumped. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 07:26 AM |
| 1 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlYeah some of his other videos kinda suck and are just for show, but dammit when I saw these two for the first time my mind was blown. What I know today about daygame is that a set ideally needs to be at least 5 - 10 minutes to build a bit of a connection with the girl and so really get a solid number, which kinda ruined this for me because his openings are just incredible in these vids! Either way, awesome examples to get started with, thanks for the reminders. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 3 | To propose next week, but now wondering if it's a big mistake."leaning towards another month" That is extremely wise. Instead of just telling you yes and know, take that month and gauge for yourself, and maybe come back to us after that time with an update. Good luck bro | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 05:17 AM |
| 21 | People overthinking thingsJust reading Book of Pook and he reminds me of exactly this - stop overthinking and let your testosterone do the talking! Thanks for writing this post, it had to be said, this sub is becoming a cesspool of over-analysis. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:01 PM |
| 4 | Need Help with Text Game (Think I am getting better)Yup, hahaha! | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 07:46 AM |
| 2 | This predictability is becoming ridiculous - AWALT!I hear you man. Fact is, if somebody just told me about RP stuff a few years ago it would not have meant anything. We all need to come to that crossroads ourselves. It's tough but it's life. It's awesome that we have this freedom now. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 03:42 PM |
| 2 | This predictability is becoming ridiculous - AWALT!Dude, don't even get me started on my married friends. I long ago realised that I should just let them be. As much as I care about them as friends, they also dug their own graves. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on independent women?This post absolutely nails it. I am currently spinning a plate that has literally just filled up almost every waking hour of her life with something. It's not that she's playing with me, she really is just insanely busy. Her reason is because she came out of a shitty relationship about a year ago, that gave her all the fuel she needed to "never be so dependent on somebody again". What I can absolutely guarantee though, is that this will only be a phase. She has grown as a person and I'm happy fo… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to hate oneitis after thinking of what she has done to me before?Bro you have to understand one thing - you are obsessing about shit that really doesn't matter. And I'm not denying your struggle at the moment like some Chuck Norris idiot. I'm saying you need a perspective shift. You are going to die one day. Your ex is going to die one day. Every single person that you pass by today is going to die. Every single person that you know and love are going to die. We all have just so much time on this Earth to struggle and learn and live and make it to the end as … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What kind of answer is this?Yup nailed it. If she flakes on you this time, you can just try again next week and get a definite yes. There's no problem with the man leading and trying again as if this time didn't happen at all. If she flakes AGAIN... well then you can start moving on. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | DatesThat's thinking in a way that doesn't understand women. As a man you might start feeling like somebody is overbearing if they always force their way on you, but women need, want, desire to be led. Just give them what they want. Always plan the entire evening. Again, of course, if she ever comes with a suggestion from her side, awesome, she's investing. But never wait or rely on that. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | DatesAlways lead. If she asks, bonus, but never ever abscond your duty as a man to always lead. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 03:30 PM |
| 6 | How to navigate this situationHoly crap this just let an alarm go off in my head that I didn't notice earlier: OP, listen to detective JerryMullin. Your lady didn't start withholding sex because "she doesn't like it anymore". That is COMPLETE BS. She is just getting it from a new, more exciting source. And secondly, this one is going to sting: She probably am so in love with this guy from work that she would feel like she's cheating on him if she sleeps with you. Her emotional commitment has completely shifted. Do the right … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel like I have the duty to "save" girls with problems?Summed it up perfectly dude. Traced my issues all the way back to childhood stuff that you never would think would lead to such unhealthy behaviours. But the important thing is to finally become aware of it, then you can start dealing with it and make better choices in the future. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:25 PM |
| 6 | How to navigate this situationBro. Sit down. Time for some truth medicine. She is in love with him. That is why she is bringing him up in conversation the whole time - because he occupies her mind the whole time. There is literally nothing you can do towards her directly so I am going to recommend something I usually don't: time for dread game. That's all that you can still do. It's still not a great situation though. Odds of cheating are exceptionally high, sorry for having to break it to you. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 01:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm turning soft - what should I do?Let me ask you this: if you consider yourself a good person, why then still put in all the effort of improving yourself, spending hours in the gym, learning game etc? Now ask your own question again. If it fits the person's sexual agenda, it's what they are going to do. She's just doing what she does best. Let the disillusionment set in now and get it out of the way. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 09:21 AM |
| 20 | Why do I feel like I have the duty to "save" girls with problems?Simple: because you are broken as well. Odds are that you are an "abandoholic" that are attracted to broken people, people you can't really ever get etc. The only way to cure this really is through a lot of work on yourself, but it's worth it. Remember, people aren't victims. People are powerful creators of their own life and if they create shit for themselves, that's not your problem. Look after yourself first! | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 08:21 AM |
| 3 | I'm turning soft - what should I do?she's got such a childlike innocence I can't even comprehend her tryna be manipulative on purpose My ex wife was exactly the same. And it really doesn't have to be a conscious process. She was a lovely person overall, very sweet and caring... and she still was testing me all the time. I just didn't realize it back then. Always dropping hints about other people going on better vacations, better cars, bigger houses... blah blah. She never got in my face about it because it wasn't her temperament, … | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 07:48 AM |
| 6 | Girl [19F] I’ve [20M] gone out twice with suddenly goes cold through text?This. Sorry bud. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 06:38 AM |
| 8 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.My beard just grew a little. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 06:35 AM |
| 4 | I'm turning soft - what should I do?Dude it's almost like I can literally still see the veils over your eyes. You would not be asking any of these questions or be confused at all about her behaviour if you're read enough TRP material. Maybe start with "Women in Love" and then "Men in Love" (on sidebar in main thread) and take it from there. None of this is a mystery. She's acting like this because it's working on you. She gets a validationgasm from you because she knows what she's doing is working. Your own words and all the proof… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 06:32 AM |
| 36 | Asked girl out to coffee, she says yes, however...All you need to know has been said. If she wanted to go on a date alone with you, she wouldn't have turned it into a group date. Don't shit where you eat / work. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 06:28 AM |
| 7 | LTR throws an unexpected tantrum.Dude I think you did awesome, that was fucking boss to get up and coldly just say see ya. In my opinion that was as perfect as you could have wished for especially considering that she caught you out with a curve ball like that. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Ex texted Ltr... Lost frameJust wanted to add another thought. If you guys were having a good relationship and this guy just messaged her as an orbiter, then you would have nothing to worry about. Don't mate guard! (Read sidebar). But that's not what's going on here. It really sounds like an unhealthy relationship. It's time to choose yourself and your own health, care and sanity. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | when she is out of townBro, you got your shit handed to you by other guys already. My opinion is that she is on holiday having fun, so don't drag her down. Let her message you first. Then reply on your own time if you want. SHORT. If for some reason you can't help yourself, the only text you should (RARELY IF EVER) be sending is a high value, fun, flirty thing like "look at this cock-shaped lamppost I saw today". Not needing anything, just giving. But you know what, fuck it, even typing that makes me feel how it must … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:52 AM |
| 2 | when she is out of townLOL! Savage. As with most truths. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:49 AM |
| 2 | LTR going to party this Wednesday and invited me.Obviously don't just overreact to normal shit tests, but if she misbehaves: remain cool, politely excuse yourself without ANY drama, go home and reconsider the relationship immediately. You can't be serious with a girl until you've seen her in a multitude of scenarios - a party scene being one of the obvious ones. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:36 AM |
| 2 | LTR going to party this Wednesday and invited me.I don't understand this either OP? | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:34 AM |
| 18 | Ex texted Ltr... Lost frameThis is the thing bro, she's adding nothing but arm-candy value to your life. Literally nothing. Sounds 100% like my ex. Here's the truth low-down: It might suck to break up at first, but you'll get over it. One day you are going to wake up and the sun is going to shine brighter and you are going to KNOW that you did the right thing for your own health and care. Do what you know you need to do. Sorry it had to come to this. Make sure you take the lesson from this to not repeat again. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 11:31 AM |
| 0 | How do you develop better frame?Bro, sidebar, so much info there, seriously. Also, Tomassi's Iron Rule #1. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble with "don't care what others think of you."Dude, there's a difference between not giving a fuck and being indifferent. Indifference is just an extreme version of still caring what people think, so you turn yourself into a bland, disconnected person. NOT GOOD. You ALWAYS give a fuck about something, it's just what you care about that actually makes the difference. You will always need people, connection etc to make it through life and there's nothing wrong with that. It's just that we tend to care about small shit that is truly irrelevant… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 08:50 AM |
| 3 | Do we friendzone girls? (Develop orbiters)All my previous experience would suggest 100% yes! Like everybody's already said, pre-selection is very powerful. I can clearly remember a time when I had 3 orbiters with whom I would never sleep with because really they were 5-6/10 at best, but just those many girls fawning over you got me the hottest girl in the entire group in the end, solid 8/10. Never cut off ties completely that you don't have to. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 08:46 AM |
| 0 | New gf...has only one red flag and thats depression.That is exactly it. Sorry for the truth bomb incoming OP, but here is the fact: It's only a matter of time until she is going to start taking it out on you, if she hasn't already. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | PolarizeAs far as polarizing goes, there was a great post recently. Read point 2 - developing standards. If you have standards then you'll automatically polarize a girl because you will project your boundaries clearly. This leaves the girl in the awesome position where she has to decide "Fuck yes" or "Fuck no", as Mark Manson would say. Article here | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:05 AM |
| 10 | Do I call out a white knight?100% agree. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Do I call out a white knight?Happened to me years ago. A few facts: He's never getting into her panties, no matter what he tries (he is probably hoping for it at the moment though). Due to above point, cut the MF out of your life. When relationships split up, it's almost always inevitable to have a splitting of the shared friends group as well, if not more than that... see below. My story: Was dating a girl for a year and a half until I broke it off. She was the craziest, most manipulative girl I've ever dated and that was … | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 07:00 AM |
| 4 | Does anybody here rent and live alone?How is it living alone? I can now answer this with the full perspective of having never lived alone to being completely alone at the moment. Long story short: lived with parent, got engaged, got married, moved out into our own place we rented, then bought house. Then separated, moved back to parents for 7 months, divorced, moved back into big house alone where I'm currently living. Currently living in a 3 bedroom house. Alone. Let me tell you, in the beginning it was the loneliest couple of mont… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Going on my first date in an hour. Any last minute advice?Only drinks at each, but usually something like Bright cafe for coffee/tea Bright bar Dark bar / lounge But that's just a rough guideline, nothing set in stone, but it's been working well for me. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:44 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?Physical pain reading this. Dude, congrats on dodging all those crazy bullets. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Going on my first date in an hour. Any last minute advice?Dude, lesson learned. Don't be too hard on yourself. Next time you can escalate more. I usually take a girl to about 3 venues. Venue 1: normal conversation, light, fun. Venue 2: deeper sharing about who we are, life views, starting more kino, touching her leg and arm, hands etc Venue 3: more sexual, less words, building the tension, eventually going the kiss here. Anyway man, like I say give yourself a hi-5, you just got a little more experience and that's always a win. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Ex girlfriend gets angry at me and complains about irrelevant stuff, only to apologize in the end and try to communicate better with me.This is all you need to know, OP. Thank redhawkes for having the link on hand. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to live in the present?Dude yes, this. Meditate! There are two very good reasons why you want to do this: Mindfulness / awareness: You need to give your mind some training and exercise, just as your body. This way you will start catching yourself when you slip back into your mind and can bring yourself back to the present moment. And becoming aware is an incredible, awakening experience for us who've been mainly living between our neck and our ears most of the time. Visualization / reality creation: Not to go too deep… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:46 PM |
| 15 | [UPDATE] Just discovered my fiance has a very promiscuous past and I have thoughts of ending it. Am I being too rash?It's going to still suck for a while man. But you did something incredibly noble in staying true to yourself. A lot of us (maybe just me?) had years of suppressing our emotions and not dealing with life etc. By the time I realized that I need to grab life by the balls, I was already unhappily married, so I had to go through the entire divorce process to get to where I am today. Believe me, you just saved yourself a ton of more heartache and drama. We empathize and simultaneously guarantee you th… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Going on my first date in an hour. Any last minute advice?Don't fap. Take condoms. Take a deep breathe. Remember: you are not going for an audition! You are going to check out if she is a cool girl or not. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | What other things can I do besides lowering my BF% to get a better jawline?Only thing I ever tried that I think had some legit effects was this guy's video. Other than that, you nailed it with lowering body fat percentage. It is definitely the #1 thing that helped me have a more defined facial structure, looks SO much better than I did when I was overweight. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 08:16 PM |
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