if they want you, they’ll let it be known. You are not tied to someone until both sides have made it clear that they would potential like to initiate a relationship with one another.
it’s like a dating app when you get the best picture and in person it’s a whale washed up on shore. There’s always a debate regardless of what’s done. Take it for what it is.
becoming super nonchalant meaning I look at things for how it is and if I don’t like it, I bounce off. So holding yourself in accountability and keeping your standard over the average, you’re doing yourself a solid.