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Well done, but you could have finished this one with a bang.
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:13 PM
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Let me start by saying that I think my connection issues don't begin to surface until date 3 at the earliest, but maybe more like 4-5 (assuming no sex to that point and assuming I'm really really into her). I am good at building comfort and do well early on with sexualizing conversation and getting them to open up. I struggle later when we start talking about fantasies and more wild sexual experiences. I guess I'm still a little bit basic regarding my sex desires, although I recently bought some…
/r/seduction24/10/15 08:33 PM
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Agreed. There's something really liberating about sharing things that would have previously made you uncomfortable in the past. Having said that, I still have a lot of improvement to make in the way of connecting about things like childhood experiences, relationships with parents, etc. Do you feel as though this is now a strength of yours after previously being a weakness?
/r/seduction22/10/15 06:26 PM
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"but never became better at digging into a person and finding out about THEM. What makes the girl tick? What makes her light up? What does she hate? Where does she want to be in life?" Yes...THIS This is my sticking point. I've gotten better, but am not good enough and yearn to improve.
/r/seduction22/10/15 05:59 PM
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I've been at this HARD for the last 16 months and have been experiencing plenty of "success." I've probably been with 40+ girls and don't have any problems opening and building attraction. What I do have problems with is getting friendzoned with girls I really like/respect in a more serious dating process. I've found that going for the quick bang on these ones isn't the best line either, and am improving at the slower dating cycle process, but it's still frustrating especially because the volume…
/r/seduction22/10/15 02:48 PM
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I think if you want to emphasize those things your story should have a better climax. This one is lacking one altogether.
/r/seduction25/09/15 01:21 PM
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Really though, how is this a noteworthy night out?
/r/seduction24/09/15 04:26 PM
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There are so many variables here. Will you have anxiety about the roommates' reaction to you bringing back ANY girl you might want to hook up with? If so, consider this since you might not be started off with 9s and 10s. Will these roommates be helpful to your social circle goals and help generate organic opportunities for you to improve/meet women? Is there potential for a roommate who has similar goals? Living alone is more expensive, but can be a great way to grow if you need stripped of the …
/r/seduction03/09/15 05:53 PM
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I would check out the areas near the food trucks, like Farragut Square. Having said that, most people will be in a hurry at lunchtime, so good luck.
/r/seduction27/05/15 05:33 PM
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Hold up, are you actually doing well with girls now, or is this text the apex thus far?
/r/seduction27/05/15 04:47 PM
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This seems like a bullshit way of looking at it. My bed is within walking distance to the place I suggested. I find shit like asking to use her bathroom to get inside her place to be creepy, whereas I'll be more than comfortable suggesting we go back to my place for a drink.
/r/seduction30/03/15 06:11 PM
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Try it, you'll be fucking amazed
/r/seduction03/03/15 08:44 PM
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You're probably just afraid of sex...whether you know it or not
/r/seduction02/03/15 03:53 PM
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Ya, please elaborate here, please.
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:55 PM
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Go outside bro
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:46 PM
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Are you good at talking to men? If so, you just need to do everything you can to get yourself around females more often. If you just aren't very social in general it's more complicated.
/r/seduction24/02/15 03:59 PM
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God, this forum is awful. Why am I here?
/r/seduction23/02/15 06:49 PM
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You blew this. Stop trying to make it happen and hope to just bump into her when you're having fun. This question doesn't belong here though.
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:20 PM
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It only matters if you can't own your choices. This means that if she hates a song you play, it's because her taste is shitty, not your song. Don't bend on this.
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:57 PM
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This is such bitch made bullshit, do your seducing in person, man.
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:56 PM
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Anything except complying with her wish. "What, you already know you're going to lose so you want lighter language?" That sucks, but anything that playfully tells her to shut up with that crap is fine.
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:54 PM
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So you can talk to girls on the street or in the grocery store, but not in the bar or club? Bar/club gaming is all about energy and eye contact since talking is generally more difficult. Because of this, I like to use high energy openers, like "Hey, there you are!" then when she looks at me I'll say "Did you invite all these people? I thought it was gonna be just us." then most of the time I'll introduce myself with a handshake after she laughs. From there, you just need to continue to be fun/hi…
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:03 PM
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You've probably already fucked up and ruined the frame you needed to have, but you need to just start being super alpha and tell her what's up. Like I said though, it's probably too late since you've already made a habit of complying to her wishes.
/r/seduction19/02/15 09:00 PM
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Then act like it and go for it, man. If you're touching these girls and they're receptive to it, you just need to find a spot where you're looking each other in the eyes, then lean in and it's on.
/r/seduction19/02/15 08:57 PM
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You can PM me if you're not comfortable answering...but are you still a bit afraid of sex? I grew up really overweight and was def terrified of sex after I got skinny, so I can relate to this.
/r/seduction19/02/15 02:12 PM
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don't do this
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:27 PM
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All the better, mine live 6 hours away and I use it
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:26 PM
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"I'm unemployed and live with my parents."
/r/seduction18/02/15 08:03 PM
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Do you work as a spokesman for the NSA by day?
/r/seduction18/02/15 06:58 PM
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C'mon man. I know you're a moderator here and have to walk that line, but the vast majority of threads are total crap and 100% indicative of people not reading anything before firing away. I don't envy your position, but the forum is struggling.
/r/seduction18/02/15 05:49 PM
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It's both boring and useless aside from the occasional drop in from someone good who uses the forum to get business. 99% of the threads are someone wondering how to ask out the girl they've been fapping to for 6 months.
/r/seduction18/02/15 04:04 PM
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I'm 28 and didn't really start my actual quest until this summer. The post I made about my journey is below... http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2u4g5v/in_may_2014_i_got_sick_and_tired_of_being_sick/
/r/seduction17/02/15 10:10 PM
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There are probably lots of these, but they don't really get readers until they're very good. Plenty of forums will have active enough field report sections that you can view someone's journey from the early days until the point he's succeeding regularly.
/r/seduction17/02/15 09:17 PM
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Text is a supplement to your real conversation/interaction, so if you're struggling with what to say or are too afraid of how she'll react to what you want to say, that's indicative of you needing to make a better connection in person. In general though, avoid anything that comes off like an interview.
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:46 PM
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Swing higher, Wade. I think your best bet is to wait until she makes some type of status or check-in that makes it obvious she lives close to you and leave a comment about it. That will plant a non creepy seed and give you some chance.
/r/seduction17/02/15 08:06 PM
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Dude, you just need to talk to more girls. As for this one, it's dead, move along. Try again in a few weeks if you must but your expectation should be that this deal is dead.
/r/seduction17/02/15 07:49 PM
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Be sure to make a really nice "O" face
/r/seduction13/02/15 04:46 PM
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Thank you. PM me sometime if you want to bounce some ideas
/r/seduction09/02/15 01:53 PM
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InkoDe's advice is the best, but... If she's laying in your bed with you to go to sleep, that super sexy seductive move could be something as simple as a hand on the hip and rubbing noses before kissing her. You just might find she's been waiting for this so much that the anticipation will have her ready for whatever with no resistance at all.
/r/seduction06/02/15 05:25 PM
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You can try freezing them out until they go further, but it all depends. There are things you can do when building comfort with her, before you've done anything physically, that can subliminally indicate to her you aren't looking for a monogamous relationship. This will turn some girls away, but they aren't the type who fit your goal anyways. If you took her back to your place on date 2 and did some fooling around but no sex, I would not go for a date 4 if date 3 doesn't end in sex. You'd have t…
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:58 PM
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I lost 100 lbs years ago and likely struggle with similar skin issues as you resulting from that, yet I've been able to overcome the struggle and make progress. I know it's hard, but if you can lose 100 lbs, you can do it. Look at my previous posts to find my overcoming the struggle story if you're interested.
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:37 PM
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If you want multiple fwb's, why are you playing the dating game so slow with these girls? 3+ dates is a lot before banging if your plan is to stay casual with them
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:31 PM
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waiting for the follow up field report where you tell your AA to go fuck itself and approach a bunch of sets.
/r/seduction06/02/15 04:23 PM
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It only gets easier as you get better and have more rings in the fire. It's definitely a challenge early on bc you're naturally going to be needy and probably horny enough that the text interaction alone can give you fuel to fap it. When more girls are coming, you won't care about the ones that are going.
/r/seduction04/02/15 06:43 PM
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I think Models is an awesome book but not a great place to start. A lot of the way he structures it is to improve upon pua stuff. So, I'd start there and make it a goal to work towards this book later as I think it's ultimately a great destination for how you should want to structure your "game."
/r/seduction02/02/15 07:25 PM
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^ I liked it!
/r/seduction30/01/15 08:32 PM
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I liked "Sex God Method" a lot. Not a techniques book at all, focuses on the psychological side.
/r/seduction30/01/15 02:27 PM
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Thank you. I'm not sure it was any one thing. The night that things really clicked and I went all RSD on the place was mostly driven by being uncomfortable with my frequently opening wing. I was already making small but steady improvements by continuing to have higher quality interactions in the sets I was getting into and I was spending A LOT of time out and about. Additionally, I was reading a lot of material, partially for new things to try and mostly for motivation to get out and grow. Durin…
/r/seduction30/01/15 01:04 PM
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