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Are you an idiot? This behaviour doesn’t exist these women are just making bait to lead to their onlyfans. It’s marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 10:44 PM
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This is because you don’t understand women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:35 PM
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Yeah and she can go if you don’t want to. If you don’t trust her don’t be with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:15 AM
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Yes it’s controlling she’s young and wants to have fun like all her other friends are doing. Clubs and drinking are fun when you’re young.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 05:06 AM
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This reeks of trust issues and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:08 AM
10

Having male friends isn’t cheating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:35 AM
1

that is a good point tbf, however i assume most women who talk about a preference for dad bods are talking about someone who has some muscles and is now a bit out of shape, not just a guy who is overweight. the same way when i say i like chubby it’s a woman that still has somewhat of an hourglass shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:48 AM
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if i’m a guy and i prefer a slightly chubby body why can’t women have the same preference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:09 PM
5

in america yeah but not in northern europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:41 AM
2

you are the reason romance is dead lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 11:29 PM
29

or more women are having sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:17 PM
2

Depends, my first date with my current gf she was very quiet and literally didn’t ask me any questions. She genuinely didn’t seem that interested in person but she seemed interested over initial messages so i just put it down to her being tired after a long day of work. We still had sex after the first date. If you just mean a complete stranger and your first interaction is cold and standoffish well yeah that’s obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 04:13 AM
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if you don’t expect them to masturbate your asking for them to be a religious extremist or asexual. But yes there are some who don’t use porn to masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:37 AM
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It’s only gone if your only source of visibility is a bunch of 18 year olds on tiktok in the western word. The large majority still reject it there’s just a more vocal group on whatever media you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:32 PM
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true it’s not porn sucks the life out of consumers and the makers. but even that benefits a bunch of old men at the top who get to hoard wealth while we all stay zombie sheep. And the whole sex work empowerment isn’t actually good for feminism because it enforces the fact that women are commodities and purchasable. It’s just important that you understand the distinction between liberal feminism and actual feminism because the only people who take liberal feminism seriously are dumb and naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:26 PM
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liberal feminism is entirely beneficial to men. It’s individualist and solves no route causes of feminism and just gives women a feeling of equality but all it does is empowers mens power. Grooming 18 year olds into starting an onlyfans and promoting sex work as a good thing does nothing for women and just helps horny guys objectify young girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 11:18 PM
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what are the connotations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:21 PM
8

that’s 0 upside to what he could be doing anyway. That’s just his life. Their IG status actually gives them something new. They all know they’re not special and they don’t care because they are with him for the clout.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:16 PM
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not really he could fuck any girl anyway, the girls are getting next level clout it’s like winning the lottery
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:00 PM
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Society becoming more digitised definitely has a part in it but the increase correlates with the increase of red pill ideals and people like joe rogan / jordan peterson and andrew tate becoming idolised figures. As more ideology spreads about women being a hizemind that has little nuance and the empathy of womens struggles against common patriarchal scenarios diminishes; there will be an increase in men that continue to fail at connecting with women and will be unsuccessful in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:03 AM
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that’s because the women who do this are seeing a relationship as being with someone they’re going to spend lots of time together (a best friend) and the men who do it see a relationship as a person they’re going to fuck a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 07:48 AM
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smart and studies 10 hours a day is a boring personality. hot guy is probably cool and fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:06 PM
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if you care about that don’t go on a second date if you didn’t have sex on the first one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:19 PM
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what if you sleep with a girl during her hoe phase and then she wants to turn it into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:09 PM
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because asking a stranger on a date based on looks has ridiculously low odds of success. Do you think you could find the best friend for the rest of you life from literally just picking them out in a grocery store? You need to learn more about their personality. You need to vet them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:41 AM
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read what i said again, i said it’s easy AS a man to find a woman. I didn’t say it’s easy as a woman. I understand the female dating pool is worse for women. The average woman is beautiful, the average man is ugly. The average man has no emotional intelligence, the average woman does. Like you and i both said i’m single by choice i could be in a relationship if i wanted to. Before i was causally dating l i was celibate for 1 year again, by choice. It’s not anyones fault but like i said i have op…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:27 AM
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It’s not a strict criteria it’s m anybody who after a relationship has been single and alone for a bit and taken the time to work out who they are and want they want in a partner along with the kind, smart and funny. If they’ve done that they don’t fit into any of the red flags in my original comment. If you think that’s high you need to raise your standards off the floor. It’s really not that hard to find as a man looking for a woman. Considering my last partner for that criteria and the girl i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:39 AM
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well then he wasn’t obviously bad was he. I’m not victim blaming or suggesting anything like that. But when you’re dating and getting close to a relationship if they said that they cheated in their past relationship or that they get really possessive i’m walking away. That’s what i mean by easy to spot. When they give red flags i take them and run with it. And frankly I’d rather think anything is a red flag and stay single than be in a shitty relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:32 AM
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i don’t have strict standards for a woman’s dating history there just needs to be a dating history 😭😭😭 You’re right that it doesn’t determine whether they’ll be a good partner in the future but it is still questionable behaviour and id rather spend my energy on a more sure thing. Just because somebody is kind now doesn’t mean they’ll be kind later but i’d still rather somebody who i know is kind now instead of teaching them. From hearing how someone talks about their past relationships and what …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:28 AM
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it doesn’t mean i’m a good partner but it means i’m a better partner than someone who has had 0. You’re right people have relationships and are awful people throughout them but when dating them it is generally easy to spot the obviously bad individuals. That’s not to say you can’t end up in a manipulative or abusive relationship anyway but it does make it easier to avoid people who don’t know how to behave in a relationship. That doesn’t stop cheaters and abusers from slipping through but it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:16 AM
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I live in a big city i have 50+ pending likes on my hinge and have plenty of matches, i don’t need to get to know every person i find attractive i can just narrow it down with quick judgements. I’m no italian model but i know i’m not unattractive. I have 6 figures of savings, i’m a software developer and i’m 5”11. Judge me however you want but i don’t have high standards, i care about personality over looks, i just want someone kind, smart and funny. If you’re all of those things and live in a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:12 AM
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yes i make assumptions about people most do, like you calling me shallow and assuming i’m sexually inexperienced and immature. Consider the fact that we both have made assumptions from the information given. You from my comment and me from the fact that you haven’t had a relationship for 10 years. Am i shallow? Are you a walking red flag? Are either of our conclusions from that information right? Maybe, maybe not but it makes sense in our heads which is why we got there in the first place. The r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:07 AM
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I really don’t care what they expect. If we connect we connect if one of us doesn’t match it isn’t a big deal. And I’m literally not judging you, i don’t care about your past. But if somebody hasn’t been in a relationship in 10 years i really doubt i am going to be the person to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:02 AM
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why are you so butthurt someone you don’t like wouldn’t date you. I can do that, it doesn’t matter if she was otherwise perfect for me we can both find someone else. Meaningful connections aren’t rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:00 AM
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I’m 25 why would i want to be married with kids? I’ve had 2 ltr’s and each one has made me a better person. I struggle to believe somebody that hasn’t had that intimacy with someone else would tackle the challenges that come with being in a relationship. They’re probably a bad communicator or haven’t mastered empathy or consideration for their partner. what strict criteria do i have exactly? have previous dating history? don’t hop from partner to partner because i want you to know who you are as…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:52 PM
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if 10 years of sexual relationships have passed and you haven’t got into at least one relationship in that time i’m going to assume you are the problem not everyone else. Also people that haven’t been in a relationship make bad partners. You grow and become a better partner after each failed relationship because you learn how to be in a relationship whilst being in one. Once a relationship is over you can self reflect on what you did wrong and grow as a person which ultimately makes you better i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:33 PM
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i don’t just ask a girl on a date because i like the look of them that’s weird. I ask a girl out who i think i would get along with because of either their personality, sense of humour, or shared interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:49 PM
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yeah if you can’t have a long term relationship that’s also a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:56 PM
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2-3 new partners a month over a period of 6-12 months is a hoe phase. I don’t think it gets you branded a whore it just means you were bored and didn’t want a relationship. I think what’s more concerning is how much time there is between relationships. If you jump from relationship to relationship whilst never being alone that’s a red flag. If you can’t be single without having a hoe phase that’s a red flag. if you can’t be in a long term relationship for longer than a year that’s a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:10 PM
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pussy has ran the world since the beginning of time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:26 AM
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OP you act like gay men don’t exist. You literally can be a sex worker if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:52 AM
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love on the spectrum/ the undateables would suggest otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:54 PM
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talk to women in real life instead of listening to male figures on the internet, you might realise they’re real humans just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:50 PM
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the same reason you wouldn't stay with your girl if she wanted to step out a bit. why be with a partner that wants to step out and get something else when you could just have a partner that doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:07 PM
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they clearly do care that much wtf are you on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:18 PM
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looksmax is the obvious first step. second step is to put yourself in a position where men can be interested in you. whether that be in real life or dating apps. women are generally more attractive than men so chances are you have a good shot at becoming pretty if you’re not already.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:07 PM
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kind, funny, empathetic, wants to spend time with their partner outside of sex, is interested in their partners pleasure during sex is above the bar but should really be what the bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:04 PM
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being smart is sexy but it’s also smart to be sexy. being sexy with a high intelligence job makes you even more of a catch if you have high emotional intelligence and don’t fit the stereotypes of a arrogant smart person who can’t shag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:21 PM
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i’m a genuinely nice guy and i get girls. being nice is attractive. being a pussy is not. you can be one without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:03 AM
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have you tried hinge? you should try hinge. less mass swiping more looking for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:11 AM
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looksmax before you try dating apps it'll save your mental health if you don't get rejected constantly for a couple years. After you looksmax you'll probably find dating apps easier on your mental health than you would if you tried rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:18 PM
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A lot of the time they don’t get their heart broken they just get sick of being treated like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:54 PM
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I’m talking about both, an individual woman’s attraction is very niche. I’m casually seeing a girl atm who is a 8/10 and has only matched with 30 men in 1 and a half years of being on hinge (she gets 5-10 incoming likes a day). I am not 1 of the 30 most attractive men on hinge. This is why how you compare to others generally doesn’t matter too much. If you’ve looksmaxed chances are you’re somebodies 1 of 30. women don’t see attraction in the same way men do. The thing is a woman’s ‘half effort’ …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:41 AM
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are you putting the same amount of effort into looking attractive as the women you find attractive are? I suspect the majority of sexless men aren’t and so I have no sympathy with them. The amount of men who don’t have the potential to be attractive is much lower than the amount of sexless men. This is just an area men have harder than women and they should simply put the effort into looking their best. The same way you should put effort into your career you should put effort into your appearanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:11 AM
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Do you know what’s hilarious, i’ve found that as a guy having this level of emotional intelligence and self awareness is a game changer in the dating game especially at a mid 20s and earlier. The bar is so low that being able to recognise these things will make a woman seriously attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:06 AM
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guy sounds like he’s shy and uncomfortable being assertive during sex. This is why girls go for the bad boy archetype. The nice guy is a pussy who doesn’t know how to have sex with a woman and makes the girl question her self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:30 AM
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making it a numbers game puts you at a disadvantage. If you swipe right on 8,000 people you are not going to be a priority in all 8,000 of their match queues. The amount of accounts that see you will be low and chances are by the time they do see you they would’ve already matched with someone else and had a connection and date so won’t reply to you. If you are selective on your swipes and only swipe right selectively you are going to be more likely to be shown to that person and a higher chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:57 PM
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okay so you have the looks down, the career, the intelligence, but maybe she’s right maybe you are boring. if you’ve worked on the other parts of your life and have improved them what makes you think you can’t also make yourself interesting? and think about it, if you actually learnt how to be interesting and knew that you were… you would probably have the confidence to go out and try again. and if you knew you had the full package you wouldn’t care if the next person rejects you because you’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:04 PM
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work out why you feel like a pathetic loser. determine whether that’s actually true or a projection. try and work out why you think that. break the cycle by determining which bit of your logic is flawed because clearly a certain cog is turning in the wrong direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:55 PM
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what else could you possibly think the solution is if not from yourself? The first step is accepting that there is a solution and for you to want to find it. If you can’t make that breakthrough you’ll be trapped in your pit of self loathing forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:38 PM
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No telling you to get into a relationship would be the same as what you listed. What i’m telling you is what they’d tell you in therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:08 PM
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be comfortable being single, knowing you are enough yourself. be okay without receiving validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 08:17 PM
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It only applies to men being too nice not women. If there were more dominant women sexually it wouldn’t matter but there aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 04:51 PM
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being too nice = a yes man without a spine that bending over backwards to please a person they put on a pedestal. golden retriever = acting like a desperate puppy who needs belly scratches and cuddles. this doesn’t mean you can’t be nice and do things for your partner and it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a cuddle. But if you want your partner to think you’re sexy you have to act like someone that’s sexy and not someone that’s desperate for validation and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:55 PM
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it’s not that hard, most men fail at one of the bare minimums which shouldn’t even have to be communicated. either they have golden retriever energy and are too nice, don’t respect their partners boundaries, are entitled and get upset when their partner isn’t in the mood, only want to spend time with their partner if it leads to sex, don’t help with chores and turn their partner into their mother, only show affection during sex or don’t focus on their partners pleasure. If you objectify your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:26 PM
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r/mentellingbyaccident time to take a step back and look at the situation from your ex partners perspective. They were into you, they were attracted to you, they wanted you. And then they didn’t. What did you do or stop doing which caused it. When you work that out you might start having happy relationships again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:15 PM
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why would a 30 year old woman that had her life together want to get committed with a 22 year old fresh out of school. Unless she is looking for a bang maid to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:00 AM
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they’re guaranteed if you’re not a vile human being lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:28 PM
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i listen to a lot of podcasts by women and cannot deny some of the funniest tv shows were written by women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 07:01 PM
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used to be extremely socially insecure about my body. I was too ashamed to wear short sleeves or shorts because of how skinny I was. I was still comfortable being with a partner in closed doors though because I figured they were into it if they wanted to be with me intimately. That was until my last ex told me she wasn’t normally attracted to my body type and the fact i was confident and didn’t care about how i looked was attractive. but then proceeded to act hot and cold about sex and plummeted…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:50 PM
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hormones, we feel 24/7 how you feel when you’re ovulating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:46 PM
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I’m saying to SOME women if a guy is hot enough a bad review doesn’t matter as long as the guy is kind to them. A bad review isn’t better than no review but to some women it just doesn’t matter. Obviously there is some nuance as to what the bad review is but if a guy lovebombs a girl well enough and the girl is receptive the bad reviews are out the window. Some people assume bad things only happen to people that deserve them. So they think if I am the perfect partner to this attractive person I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:33 AM
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Social context is words but actions speak louder. They might see a hot guy have a messy breakup with another girl but will be undecided because she hasn’t heard his side of the story. Then if she hears his side and it sounds reasonable sprinkled with the fact that he’s acting sweet to her she’ll rationalise his behaviour and think the girl must’ve done something wrong. Why else would this seemingly nice guy have done what he did if not for the toxic girl. He’s only ever been great to her so how …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:25 AM
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you need to go outside and touch some grass. women get in relationships with guys who are nice to them and then the behaviour turns sour. They don’t just get into relationships with men who are abusive from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:39 AM
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if you think of women as real people and not walking objects you want to fuck you might realise they want a partner whose company they enjoy. I'm guessing the friends you like to spend time with the most are people you find funny and have good times with. This is the same with women. They don't want someone boring or annoying, they want someone who they will have a good time with. Being attractive will get you through the front door but having a good personality is what will get them to like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:57 PM
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Nothing wrong with being a single father but I don't support surrogacy of any kind. It's an exploitative practise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:28 PM
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is a woman just a wet hole to you? tf kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:48 PM
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lol the gym is literally one hour of the day, you’d be surprised how many coach potatoes are also seemingly fit and ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:38 AM
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there’s a difference between thick women and bigger women, all thick women are bigger women but not all bigger women are thick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:38 AM
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well it’s probably the majority of men that approach her, she doesn’t care about the men that leave her alone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:14 AM
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if men have 0 opportunity to meet women then the same applies to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:47 PM
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It’d be a red flag to me, i’m child free, and want a life partner, if my partner didn’t want to get married i don’t think i’d be able to take the relationship seriously or fully commit. Having said that i refuse to have an actual wedding ceremony, i just want to go to the courthouse or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:07 PM
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you’ve known her a month and she’s been at college studying this for years, she has finals in 3 weeks that she needs to study for. She’s just stressed and you’re a lower priority. She’ll come back in 3 weeks if you respect her boundaries and leave her alone to revise but she’s not going to sleep with you until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:05 AM
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i meant more about douchebags, people that don’t help around the house, misogyny, cheaters, subtle to full out racists. I wasn’t bashing victims of abuse or vulnerable people targeted by predators. Like if a girl is constantly bashing her boyfriend for being lazy and always playing video games it’s like… okay well you’re the one who chose to date the loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:01 AM
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you are the company you keep, if your boyfriend or girlfriend sucks you probably suck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:33 PM
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both are 0s on the binary it makes no difference, going to have to pop a viagra either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:02 AM
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yeah fair i didn’t notice the opposite gender bit but they’re both targeting men they don’t find attractive lol. your first mistake is assuming straight women are any more attracted to their subscribers as straight male creators are who cater to gay men. Women might like to do it if it’s with a partner they desire otherwise it’s just as undesirable as everything the straight guy does for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:41 PM
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8 doesn’t really work as gay men exist and are just as thirsty and willing to pay for onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 05:55 PM
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There are enough people in the world that you don't need to stay in a relationship with someone you aren't sexually compatible with just because you love each other. ​ Why would I stay in a relationship with someone that doesn't like to give head when i could just be in a relationship with someone that does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:37 PM
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i'll pay for the first date, i'm asking you to come out with me, but i'm not taking you for food I don't like eating with strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:34 PM
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yes it’s not demoralising to get pump and dumped by someone hot when you’re not. You know beforehand that you’re getting pump and dumped going into it but they’re super hot so you don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:43 PM
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you addressed it by saying it’s a deflection that doesn’t mean you’re right. Your whole argument is based on looks but most people and women especially want a relationship with a person not a sex doll. Being good looking means nothing if you’re arrogant and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:06 PM
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personality actually matters it’s because so many attractive men are trying to pump and dump these women that they are weary and make it difficult. Not because they have endeared egos. Why get pump and dumped by a 6 when you could get the same treatment from a 9. Gotta vet the 6s to not let that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:48 PM
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The majority of people who get married also get divorced for the simple reason of them being idiots too scared to be alone. These people would rather stay in shitty relationships because they think it’s smart thing to do. They think they can work on incompatibilities instead of just finding a compatible partner. They don’t realise liking someone isn’t a good enough reason to stay together. Women marry men who treat them like shit thinking it’ll change later on, men marry women who blatantly aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:17 AM
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the majority of guys that are cheating aren't the ones whose wives won't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:44 PM
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so what are you saying trying to say with your first comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:31 PM
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the type of men posting and answering these questions on reddit aren’t the men that a woman would hypothetically enjoy sleeping with in a sex work dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:12 PM
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their husband shouldn’t be raping them when they don’t want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:06 PM
2

if they wanted it you wouldn’t have to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:05 PM
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there is nothing healthy about having sex with woman who don’t want to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:25 AM
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here’s a reverse hypothetical, pretend you’re the girlfriend. You find out your new boyfriend was a cuck for his old gf but won’t be one for you. You find out he was getting off every day too it back then but he doesn’t want to do it with you even though you find it hot as the gf. Do you have any right to be upset? The bf says he doesn’t want to do it anymore because even though he was getting off to it he felt like shit mentally in the relationship because of it. The point of the hypothetical i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:00 AM
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women actually get tattoos to make life a little easier for themselves by turning off the weirdo men who have such opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:13 PM
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you’re forgetting that a 6/10 women is attractive to nearly all 6/10 men but a 6/10 man is not attractive to all 6/10 women. not because they only want someone more attractive but the 6/10 man doesn’t fit the woman’s niche type they find attractive through years of social conditioning. however there is a universal attraction to the 8-9/10 man because he’s objectively hot. no 8-9/10 is being sneered at by 5-6/10 unless he’s acting like a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:55 PM
3

he literally just looks like a regular guy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:58 PM
3

I really don't believe it's real, he literally laughed live on camera as soon as he heard the joke. I bet he mouthed something to Chris as he was walking up there. Pretty sure he's just a puppet for hollywood that does what needs to be done to get people talking about his industry ​ https://www.instagram.com/tv/CboYrGzDeaY There's a reason every news story is showing the 'uncensored' version. Because it never includes this bit of the video which would go against the story they're trying to sell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:49 PM
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You didn't go home with her, she probably went back to someone else's that night and maybe spent their Sunday with them and forgot all about your existence. ​ All you had together was a little vibe while she was buzzed, it's not that deep. You expected her to go home after one chat with you and be be dreaming about you all day??? Just because she lives rent free in your head doesn't mean the same applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:26 PM
2

isn’t he married to the daughter of a billionaire now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:06 AM
2

Only if i see you often and you could be a potential friend. Or if i’m in a social setting where everyone is chatting to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 10:42 PM
2

bro i don’t know
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:16 PM
5

i mean they’re definitely the victim but don’t really care for their sovereignty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:15 PM
1

it’s only excess calories if he is reaching maintenance calories without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:31 PM
1

bad hair, bushy eyebrows, low jaw fat, frail
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:18 PM
1

yeah true, Ukraine would’ve been allowed to join too if it weren’t for the human rights violations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:14 PM
4

They want the benefits of the EU without the culture change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:33 PM
3

Ukrainian culture is closer to russia than it is the west
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:31 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:09 PM
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I wouldn’t identify a liberal democracy with western standards tbh. They’re not part of the EU, in 2014 they signed an ‘association agreement’ to work together for Ukraine to gradually reform to EU standards and policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:03 PM
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Not reading all that, stopped after you said Ukraine supposedly upholds western standards. They don’t. Highly anti lgbt, highly racist, anti abortion, wasn’t allowed into the EU due to human rights violations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:54 PM
2

that’s not possible because the scenario is completely made up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 10:57 PM
2

somebody can look average and you still wanna rip their clothes off lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:37 PM
1

Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Atm only one shes my gym partner. Does it effect how you view women? Not really although she can be a bit mean about other people in the gym so it kind of reminds me that not everyone is as nice as they look. What do you learn from your female friends? Not much we mostly just talk shit and gossip What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? She bakes and brings me the stuff she made to eat every week. None of my guy friends w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:24 PM
3

insecurities / body dismorphia, if i’m not comfortable with someone i find it hard not to flex because i’m scared they’ll think i’m fat or weak
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:27 PM
2

yes lmao https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLyTCB4X/?k=1 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLyTXcHL/?k=1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:20 PM
3

he must’ve been tensing any part you touched lol, when you have 6 pack abs and are built you can switch between being fluffy and being built like a brick by just tensing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:11 PM
4

Why would anyone take the risk of paying for a date with someone they have only a minor interest in. If somebody i have a minor interest in asks me out and they’re paying sure i’ll take the risk of a going on a shit date because it’s no loss on my end if it goes badly. But if i’m paying? It’s not worth the risk unless i’m seriously interested in them. That’s why the person who asks the other to go on the date pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:59 AM
3

you're an idiot if you think all built hollywood actors with their tops off aren't on gear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:11 AM
1

lol no, if anything it's far easier when obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:08 AM
1

Another note is that abusive people tend to frame themselves as victims to make themselves feel better about a situation. I had one abusive ex and i’m pretty sure she started saying weird shit to our mutual friends because they started acting weird to me after.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 11:47 AM
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it doesn’t have to be instant? it could be over the course of a month? you don’t learn everything about someone instantly. why do you expect them to be celibate whilst they’re dating if they like sex? it’s not a lack of critical thinking or a lack of restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 07:01 PM
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but what is the reasoning for the societal pressure on women sleeping around? for people living with their parents it’s shame for supposedly not having their shit together. Although less so now with the rising costs of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:56 PM
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which bit is the bad judgement? having sex with someone you’re not in a committed relationship with? if sex is important to you, you probably want to have a test drive before commiting to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:49 PM
2

societal pressure to what? men move out because they want their own space, there are obvious negatives to staying at home. they don’t leave out of fear of being judged.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:34 PM
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women who like sex have no reason to gatekeep sex, if you're 25+ and dating it's not hard to end up with a 20+ partners if you like sex. Be woman, have a few dates with a new guy, have sex cos you like them, turns out you don't like them enough to have a relationship, move on and date another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:08 PM
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actual nice guys respect boundaries and can face rejection without getting defensive over their ego being bruised. They do things because they genuinely want to not because they want the reward they think they are entitled to for doing said action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:24 PM
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As for the small dick thing, i don’t think it’s as straight forward as that considering lesbians seem just fine. And as a straight guy, if a girl told me she had Vaginismus so we couldn’t have sex but she gave bomb head i think i’d be okay with it so i’m sure there are probably women who feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:07 PM
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as a man no, my partner is a 10 to me if i love and care about them. a 10 stranger wouldn’t be able to get my dick harder than the ‘7’ i’m in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:43 PM
1

it’s 50/50. if you’re the male equivalent of gail https://youtu.be/o7_P2ygkAwU there’s not much joy to be sparked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 09:09 PM
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lol you know you’re statistically more likely to be raped by another man than falsely accused of rape by a woman right? It’s not something as a man you should be worried about. Just don’t stick your dick in crazy and you will be fine. Also stats of rape accusations are null in themselves of leading to anything. Only 1.5% of rape accusations lead to a charge or court summons. https://amp.theguardian.com/law/2019/jul/26/rape-cases-charge-summons-prosecutions-victims-england-wales False accusations…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:33 PM
3

yeah this wasn’t really a mindset which had crossed my mind a couple years ago because back then i was underweight and super weak but as i’ve become stronger i’ve realised that i’m pretty much a threat now and it must be especially daunting being vulnerable with someone who you can’t physically overpower if things turn sour.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:18 PM
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exactly, it removes a whole dynamic i don’t have to think about in my day to day life about dating. And it’s made the way i approach women different to respect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:13 AM
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a world where i can bench my girls deadlift
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:12 AM
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I don’t have to worry about my safety when going on dates or my safety whilst being intimate with someone. I generally don’t need to worry about my safety if I want to approach a woman telling them i’m interested and i don’t need to worry about my safety when telling someone of the opposite sex i’m not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:27 PM
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What do you define as men trying to look attractive? I’m talking about guys making seductive tiktok’s, I’m not talking about guys just being physically attractive/hot and existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:56 PM
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The reason why is because it’s unattractive for a man to attempt to be attractive. Putting out obvious thirst traps for women does not turn them on it makes them cringe. You need to be attractive without making it obvious you are trying hard. aka focusing on the female gaze not the male gaze. Girls are attracted to attractive energy. Watch this music video it’s a great example of a guy being attractive without trying. https://youtu.be/FTk8z6ydZrE (Don’t let your girl see him say hello to the cam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:07 PM
1

if you aren’t established friends beforehand it’s safe to assume he has fuckzoned you and not friendzoned you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:40 AM
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Tbh the type of guy who would go to a strip club for anything other than a bachelor party is the type of guy that would cheat given the chance. Personally strip clubs just make me feel uncomfortable and icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:03 PM
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Fake natty’s are the problem. When only the successful social media icons are fake natty’s everyone assumes that is the standard. Women face a similar issue due to BBL’s. In the sense that your bum isn’t considered big unless it’s BBL standards big.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:36 PM
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if you’re The two chris hemsworth pics are just on cycle vs off cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:34 PM
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Porn sucks and you deserve to be shamed for being a degenerate coomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:11 AM
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how’s it any different from guys finding e girls or alt goth girls attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:04 PM
1

Yes there is. She won’t care if you don’t like your ears. She will care if you think you’re so ugly that you don’t trust her around other guys and need constant validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:18 PM
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there’s a difference between having an insecurity which gives you some inner turmoil and having an insecurity which causes you to be outwardly bitter / jealous / controlling. I would assume the red flag ones refer to the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:10 AM
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I think the vocal women who say men don’t like intelligent women just aren’t as intelligent as they think they are. I think it’s quite a common thing for people who use their perceived intelligence as a personality trait to be lacking in self awareness. And so anyone intelligent that values intelligence will see through the facade and dismiss them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 01:48 AM
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i mean you’re right but if you know this is the case why do you frame it you can frame it as ‘not understanding the need for them to sexualise themselves so excessively’. You’re essentially victim blaming when you know the reason why is because they’re brainwashed by society into thinking their self worth is in how attractive they are to men. It’s just nonsensical to attack the victim and not the oppressor. Would you shame a prostitute for doing what she has to do to survive or society for faili…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:49 PM
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well if it’s not a matter of being a pick me it’s an ego thing and wanting to think you’re better than everyone else. Just let people live their lives it’s not that deep. Some people aren’t comfortable not looking their ‘best’. Some people have the self confidence to not give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:07 PM
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pick me, choose me, other girls are whores. your first instinct is to say that the other girls are pick me’s but if you do some self reflection you’ll realise that maybe you are too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:30 PM
1

If you were a prime employee employers would be fighting to hire you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:39 PM
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you sound mad that they won’t sleep with you. like how the most homophobic guys are secretly gay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:41 PM
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her putting looking for a relationship means she is looking for a relationship, but that doesn’t mean she can’t have casual sex too? It just means instead of having to deal with 1,000 guys trying to casually sleep with her she can actively look for someone to be in a relationship with and also just have casual sex when she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 04:31 PM
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It doesn’t make me uncomfortable as I think it’s important to know about someone. I wouldn’t want to date someone who is in a stressful or time consuming career. I answer honestly about myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:15 PM
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From my experience women do value intelligence but based on your anecdotes I can conclude that you aren’t as intellectual as you think you are. You just have knowledge on topics which interest you. Why do value your knowledge on royal hierarchy from the 19th century and not her knowledge on the kardashians. Like it or not but both are people of cultural significance. Discussions about historical facts, figures in society and the future have no correlation with intelligence. You’re not stopping y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 06:18 PM
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yes, that doesn’t mean they can’t acknowledge and work on their flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:41 PM
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It’s not about power. It’s about self worth. People who don’t consider themselves prizes think they are less than their partner and don’t deserve to be treated how they actually deserve to be. Everyone deserves to be shown love and respect but people stay in shitty relationships all the time partly because they forget that about themselves. When you consider yourself a prize you don’t put up with bs because you know you will be able to find love again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 11:26 PM
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single funny decent morals not conservative smart enough to not be dumb sexually compatible doesn’t have annoying mannerisms attractive to me laid back not judgemental of others but still knows when to make fun of others doesn’t want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 09:28 PM
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it’s okay you can admit you’re wrong https://assets.vogue.com/photos/613a3f8192072d656a6c8adf/master/w_1600%2Cc_limit/GettyImages-1235133963%2520(1).jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:09 PM
3

you don’t consider this alternative to the norm? https://images.app.goo.gl/FCaJewjoCeZUPgPf7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:00 PM
1

underweight leads to a frail face, overweight leads to a fat face, built with a low bf = peak face potential
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:58 PM
3

alpha widowed is just the incel way of saying ‘hung up on someone’ which is a widely accepted phenomenon. It’s not a direct parallel to being addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:34 AM
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wouldn’t this not work because they’d assume themselves to be the 20% so not bother mentioning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:38 PM
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post pics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:20 PM
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If a woman ‘lies there like a starfish’ under you and you’re still pumping away at her unenthusiastic body to completion she doesn’t want to be there and you most definitely are bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:55 PM
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The difference is improving economic inequality would not worsen the lives of the people better off. It would only improve the lives of people in poverty. I don’t see how you can improve the dating inequalities without worsening the lives of other the people happy dating. Unless you just want people to be nicer too less attractive people in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 06:15 PM
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If you’re actually the man in the pics and really posted this your personality does not make up for your looks and she deserves better lol Although tbh if you didn’t have that nice hair you’d be pretty looks matched anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:11 PM
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everyone deserves to find love, as long as their personality isn’t ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 07:59 AM
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They do have to compete, they’re just not competing for below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:56 PM
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appearance- these women put effort into their hair, makeup, nails, outfits etc. According to these women it’s a sellers market so why wouldn’t they look for someone that puts more effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:58 PM
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a walk is literally low effort, so is a cheap restaurant. They don’t want you to pick them up because they don’t want a man they haven’t vetted to know where they live, so they are happy with in the middle. You’re projecting hard. I admit a lot of the women on there want to be courted but that does not make them entitled. It’s their prerogative to want that. Let them have that desire it doesn’t make a difference between you or me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 04:44 PM
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Who said they do nothing? Who said they don’t treat you nice? Who said they aren’t happy to be with the person? Just because they have boundaries and expectations doesn’t mean they aren’t just as nice and happy to be with you as anyone else. Not wanting to be with somebody who puts in low effort is not the same as feeling better than the person you’re dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 08:06 AM
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I think you mean setting the bar real high. When you settle you get what you settle for. Being happy single is a message shared in the group just as important as anything else so i don’t see why anyone would need to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:34 AM
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So what if they can be attributed to women also? How does that make it toxic in the first place? I don’t think FDS or TRP are inherently toxic. I just think there are toxic people in each of the groups. I don’t however think the fundamental of either are toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:32 AM
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Mostly to do with being in a relationship. Things like after having a child, not doing their fair share of childcare. Being controlling, normalising neglectfulness, only treating females they find attractive with respect, and entitlement towards their bodies. I definitely wouldn’t date a person who was 100% FDS though because I think they put too much focus on materialism and capitalism as a means of happiness but I can still respect the fact they won’t settle for what they consider abusive beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:35 PM
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maybe but that’s still better than underestimating and being a doormat to some loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:13 PM
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i was being satirical. Most young people I know (myself included) are as you described in your post. I don’t think it’s as rare as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 12:34 PM
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fellas is it gay to respect women’s rights and empathise with their plight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:54 AM
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Feminism is not the opposite of misogyny. Misandry is. I think that says enough about why TRP can be harmful. Although i am pretty red pilled, it clearly does no good to educate at a basic level and so can be harmful to the already bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:33 AM
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FDS will have more examples of normalised male behaviour of treating women awfully. That’s not the same as a disparaging thread about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:31 AM
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I’m an INFP guy depending on the day and i’m not even against FDS. You don’t have to be a psycho to be involved with FDS. From reading the sub it’s mostly just about knowing your worth and not dealing with BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:27 AM
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Because government in house studies to check the validity of laws they introduce themselves aren’t going to be biased lol. You do realise that by legalising it they can easily rewrite trafficking as just recruiting. When prostituted women become “employees”, and part of the “labour market”, pimps become “managers” and “business entrepreneurs”, and the punters are merely clients. They are no longer considered trafficked from other countries they literally call it “migrant sex work” and even “work…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:48 AM
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There is no evidence in that article which claims a minority. It only disproves false statistics used.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:55 AM
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You’re looking at it from a western onlyfans viewpoint. The majority are infact forced or coerced. Most prostitutes don’t get to keep all the money they get from prostitution, a large majority goes to their pimps / debtors.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:49 AM
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You’re looking at sex work from a very western high end standpoint. Luxury escorts are a niche, 99.9% of sex workers aren’t doing that. Most are human trafficked or come from poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 09:40 AM
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Yes but a job is selling your time in exchange for money. Prostitution is selling your body. And as ‘a means of survival’ also includes not getting killed by your trafficker / pimp. Not just needing to pay your rent. The only time a sex worker is actually a sex worker and not somebody being exploited either economically or socially is when the sex work they are partaking in isn’t their only source of income. Otherwise they’re being paid to be raped. They have to let somebody use their body other…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:28 PM
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Calling it a rule is insecure and a bit cringe tbh. But I do have a very what’s mine is yours ethos when in a relationship and so if that isn’t mutual I don’t want to be in said relationship. So if you feel the need to withhold your phone from me I will detach myself from the relationship. I don’t want to snoop on your phone but you should be willing to give me your phone if i want to use it and have trust in me that i’m not going to some unwarranted snooping and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:01 PM
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Not really. Keeping prostitution illegal is to protect the economically vulnerable and socially exploited (human trafficked). The same population who make up the majority of sex workers. It’s the same argument for keeping certain harmful drugs illegal. People want it illegal because for 99% of sex workers it isn’t a choice, it’s a means for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 09:55 PM
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What even is this question? Stop overthinking your existence and trying to mould your personality to some weird female ideal you’ve concocted in your head. Just exist and react to situations organically, it’s not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:52 PM
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😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:46 PM
1

I think it’s a pretty common trait that most top tier actors don’t actually photograph well but instead look excellent in motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 06:54 PM
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He has a pretty shit hairline and a massive forehead along with pretty awful eyes. I don’t think many women would rate him highly if he wasn’t already a celeb. His face is hardly close to perfect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 08:30 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding FDS. It is less about finding a high value man and more about not giving a low value man the time of day by finding value in yourself. They just don’t want to settle for what they think they deserve. And apart from the occasional radicalised posts I think most FDS ideals are respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:00 PM
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especially when your date activity might be something you want to do anyway. Did you purposely ignore what I wrote before that. Some people enjoy doing things. I’m not broke so I don’t mind paying for someone else to tag along and do those things with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:12 PM
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I mean it’s not a bribe especially when your date activity might be something you want to do anyway. It’s not a competition to spend the least amount of money possible and still have sex. Some people just enjoy doing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:50 PM
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I think it really depends how well you know each other beforehand. If you really don’t know eachother well and you ask her out you should pay as there is a large risk factor on her part. If you already know each other well it’s a bit muddier and just depends on your values really and what message you want to convey. Although the bigger point is that nobody is forcing you to plan expensive dates in the first place. Just go on dates within your budget where it literally doesn’t matter how much mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:26 PM
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The point is most men in this subreddit who value ‘traditional feminine values’ don’t have the attributes which would lead to a situation where 2 women were fighting over him in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:07 PM
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There are guys out there that don’t mind waiting for commitment and are comfortable being a traditional provider before anything sexual happens. As long as you’re okay with them sleeping with other people until the exclusivity point i don’t think it’s unreasonable. You’re definitely limiting your pool of potential partners but it sounds like you wouldn’t be interested in someone who doesn’t meet those requirements anyway, so it doesn’t matter that you’re ruling out people who you aren’t compatib…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:02 PM
1

How many pregnancies are unwanted though? I’d imagine a large amount. I don’t think birth rate numbers will change much unless sterilisation rates go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:45 PM
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What do you think humanity did before 100 years ago? Masturbating isn’t new. Porn is though and it perfectly coincides with increasing divorce rates, misogynistic teenagers and increasing sexlessness in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:47 PM
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We know that women are generally more easily manipulated by mass propaganda compared to men Qanon, anti vax, terrorist organisations, antifa, proud boys, literally all wars and genocides would suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:03 PM
1

It’s a shit analogy because it’s not right to compare it to a lock and key in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:57 PM
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lol you don’t have to be a virgin to get a rich guy to marry you. If you’re hot enough i don’t think that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:40 PM
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Point 1 is 100% true but that’s not really what i was trying to address with my comment although I do think it answers the question OP posted better. My point was more that 30 years ago Zac efron’s body would’ve been appreciated for being muscular but now it’s just considered the norm to look like that as a hot male Hollywood actor . And in the same dynamic men don’t appreciate women’s makeup when they see it worn. It’s just considered the norm now. Point 2 is true to the extent that having musc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah PEDs to men is the photoshop and plastic surgery to women. Society would be better if all these influencers would stop pretending that how they look is achievable naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:24 PM
56

It’s probably because of the societal effects of juicing within the fitness industry and hollywood. A lot of women now don’t realise what a muscular body actually is. A lot of women think Zac Efron in off season is a dad bod https://i.imgur.com/4f2pGQN.jpg but even that is a well muscled body that requires a consistent gym routine. With 99% of male instagram influencers being juiced, the standards of what a body that goes to the gym is meant to look like raises. Anything that doesn’t look like (…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:04 PM
3

There are plenty of misogynists, privileged bigots and racists that can hold a conversation too without ever giving away their true beliefs. Just because they’re a cool dude doesn’t mean their beliefs and morality is compatible with the majority of left leaning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:09 PM
4

lol I hope things start going better for you bud. Seek some help if you're struggling, it'll get better you just have to grind through the darkness
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:05 PM
-1

It’s because you’re racist. Saying i’m not racist doesn’t stop you from being racist. Especially when you follow it up with statements like: ‘black men have no standards’
/r/askTRP26/05/21 08:10 PM
2

Yes my first ex wasn’t that funny and i didn’t really like her for it but i have another ex who was hilarious and since i’ve realised it’s a necessity. You just don’t get the same closeness when you aren’t constantly laughing with eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 07:09 PM
2

123kg you fucking unit. She wants to get her back broken by a giant.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:52 PM
2

I think the only real benefit of having a better body is increasing the possibility of arrousal from visual stimulation, especially in a relationship. A lot of women say they don’t care so much about looks because they rely on their reactive libido but when there’s true attraction it can go differently. Assuming you are in a fulfilling relationship and actually sexually satisfy your partner and they have a regular libido just existing around your partner may have a different reaction. Eg. if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:59 PM
1

I think you care too much to be a winner but whatever helps you cope i guess.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 03:22 PM
2

she just wanted an older guy that didn’t go to her school to take her virginity and now she’s stringing you along
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:03 PM
2

Part of vetting for a LTR should be to make sure she’s actually into you as much as you are her. If your relationship was fulfilling to her and she liked you enough she would be sucking your dick because she wants to without you having to ask.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 10:55 AM
30

you’re her plate
/r/askTRP23/05/21 10:21 PM
1

Sorry to tell you but If you only masterbate to porn you’re addicted to it. And if you pay for porn there’s a high chance you’re an addict.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 07:33 PM
7

I don’t like people who knowingly sell to alcoholics and pubs that treat their ‘regulars’ like family, as if they’re not enabling a life destroying disease. The thing is there are addicts of literally every consumable in existence. I don’t think cleaning companies are bad because they enable someone’s excessive spending on supplies for people with cleaning OCD’s. The difference is the proportions of your clients that you rely on who are addicted and how debilitating it is to that person which ma…
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 07:12 AM
16

Porn is a drug and i don’t respect anyone who profits off of the addictions of others. Hard drug dealers and sex workers (who aren’t being exploited) fall into a similar group imo. This doesn’t apply to non addictive drugs or someone with a softcore onlyfans. I also have little respect for people who profit off of naivety or a lack of knowledge on a subject. i.e dropshippers, anyone selling courses or paid groups on how to make money doing something like crypto or forex, fake natty fitness influ…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/21 11:54 PM
2

This situation isn’t that big of a deal, they just seem like clowns nothing to get worked up over. Following a coworker or guy on social media again isn’t disrespectful. You’re starting to seem a bit overbearing and controlling. This is valid disrespect if it was just you two at the bar together on a date and she left you on your own. If you were with a group it’s not a big deal. so really none of these are worthy of a reaction apart from the 3rd (if you two were on a date) at which point i’d pr…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 12:05 PM
5

Is that ever successful on anyone with half a brain. Sounds like a massive cope. A lot like ‘yeah of course i have a gf but you don’t know her she goes to a different school’
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:40 PM
2

I wouldn’t be interested in a long term relationship with a partner that had a career which involved lots of overtime/ time away from home or had an overly stressful job which spilled into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:45 PM
0

It’s not valid to you because you see all conversational topics as equal weighting. If a pointless topic is made into a conversation you’ve lost my interest. That’s the argument. It’s not about the money it’s about making a small amount of money a subject of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:07 PM
0

It’s not that they don’t want to pay it. It’s that they are weirded out by the fact a cheap bill is brought up in the first place. People that pay attention to minor amounts of money being spent on a supposed friend or partner are not people i want to be friends with. And the majority of women don’t either hence why it’s a common argument made. If you’re weird about spending $10 on your partner you’re probably going to be weird about loads of other small things that don’t matter. Are you not goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:41 PM
1

Women prefer taller men because of the biological safety response it triggers. Someone domineering that is physically bigger that could protect them from danger and creeps. It makes them feel more feminine too by being smaller than their partner. Literally nothing to do with ego. That uptight personality is going to do you 0 favours with ladies. You’re really overthinking something that deserves little thought. If i was a woman on a date with you that would be a huge 🚩🚩🚩 If you don’t want to pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:34 PM
4

The only takeaway I got from this is that the only value you can derive from any form of a relationship with a woman is sex. Which means you’re probably not good at it as you can’t seem to recognise there’s a real human on the other side of this not just a walking talking fleshlight that will enhance your wanking experience. Also laughable how you are upset some other person slept with her and ‘had to pay nothing’. Literally why is your ego so fragile. Bonus laughable how broke you sound. A grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 09:23 PM
3

Sure but his facial structure and features are quite average imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:17 PM
2

Personality / game / chemistry. Some people just click, it’s not that deep. Your looks can’t save you if you don’t have the same sense of humour or you have no game or they find you annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:44 PM
1

Will Poulter comes to mind as the most average celebrity I can think of. https://i.imgur.com/dmRNHHz.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:42 PM
5

It’s a narcissistic trait. Not being a narcissist doesn’t make you a pussy. Well i guess it might to other narcissists but the opinions of people who only care about themselves shouldn’t matter.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:33 PM
5

Don’t suggest putting your gf on a diet unless you want her to break. Just cook healthier meals and don’t buy junk food. You can’t openly tell her she has a problem unless you want her to resent you for it. The correct course of action is to comfort her and tell her she doesn’t need to change but stay healthy yourself and keep healthy things around you. She needs to make any changes on her own accord.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:06 PM
5

It sounds like you’re not horny and too in your head before you’ve actually started making out with her so there’s no sexual tension beforehand. Maybe you have a reactive libido? The key is to get into the same state of mind when you’re fully immersed in sex before you’ve actually started doing anything. You need to be able to think with your dick and your brain at the same time (instead of just your brain) and then gradually as things progress your dick will fully take over.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 10:34 AM
2

You’re right there is no reward for being nice because it is the bare minimum expected of a human being? Do you want praise for wiping your ass too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:32 AM
10

I can empathise with her because I can imagine it’s a problem most women will have to deal with. She clearly doesn’t want something casual and is being treated like an object that can be used and discarded for. Having said that I think the solution is fairly simple. Either be okay with starting things off casually and only letting your feelings get involved when it is clear there are mutually respected feelings or to not get into casual relationships in the first place. She seems to have an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:36 AM
2

Any female influencer that ends up in Dubai for a week had their flights paid for them by a sheikh.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:20 PM
11

Have you looked at the laws? Are you 100% certain that is the case where you are from? In the UK only a male can rape someone. https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/part/1/crossheading/rape I still don’t understand OP’s point though because his premise would still be sexual assault which is just as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:16 PM
2

My point is sexual attraction is physiological as well as visual. (at least for some)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:55 PM
2

no doubt but i didn’t want the girl at all before. ‘Finances don't directly cause sexual attraction’ is not true because of this. Maybe i’m just a cheap whore but still, i kind of get the whole wanting a guy with money thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:42 PM
0

I dunno i’m male and i’d be lying if i were to say i wouldn’t be suddenly more attracted to a woman with a lot of money. A lot of flaws are suddenly frivolous when a free vacations and a PS5 are dangled in your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 10:28 PM
1

Sense of humour, intelligence, morality, kindness, music taste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 11:20 AM
0

it’s not ‘blue pill’ to use the term mansplain. this isn’t MGTOW.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:11 AM
0

ngmi
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:39 PM
1

they understand the scarcity of resources, they disagree with the distribution.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:59 PM
12

From my experience a lot of guys aren’t actually as clever as they think they are. Most of the time they state the obvious whilst believing they’re revolutionary thinkers for scratching the surface of an obvious problem. A lot are also set in their ways and don’t want a debate. They just want to seem smart and no amount of accurate rebuttal would change their opinions of things. Girls aren’t stupid, they understand the problems but sometimes it’s easier to say ‘i don’t know’ instead of get bored…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 11:04 AM
2

Tldr sexual tension
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 08:40 PM
1

I’m not white knighting for women my original comment was about women with new changed behaviour. If you read everything i said in the original comment that would be clear. Everything i’ve said is true of a relationship with a good potential partner which turns unfavourable. No doubt there are awful women out there but if you marry one of them and knew what she was like beforehand you can’t complain about it... You made a bad decision early on in life to marry the wrong person and now are dealin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 11:53 AM
1

I have lmaoo, i’m not the one here who was desperate enough to marry an anti vaxer who is in your words ‘fucking awful at sex’ and ‘selfish’. When you settle you get what you settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 10:24 AM
1

Yeah, but they start off giving enthusiastic head jobs, wearing lingerie, watching their diet, and so on. You know... bait and switch. And guys who are dissatisfied with their bitch partners do eventually leave them, fuck their friends, etc. it’s more likely that there’s underlying unhappiness in the relationship than her just doing a bait and switch is my point. I agree if this does happen they should split up but it’s still more likely that they switch their moods because the relationship is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 11:18 PM
2

> That's total bullshit - women do things early on to impress the guy they are chasing. It's bait and switch. Men do shit like housework and consume awful music and films for women. Both are compromising or giving something in the short term which they will not do in the long term. Fair if she bait and switches but that’s quite unlikely. Most girls won’t do things they don’t like and suddenly stop because they know that if they start doing something for you they’re setting a precedent for future…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 10:06 AM
3

You could argue it’s harder as a female to get a meaningful relationship. Guys will lie about themselves just to trick a woman for the sole person of having sex with them. How are you as a girl meant to weed through all the dicks and pick the right person. The ratio of shit options to good options is much worse for a woman. Guys might have fewer options but the options they do have are a much better ratio for true compatibility. Women have it easier to have sex but that doesn’t necessarily coinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:56 PM
5

lmao if she’s only doing starfish sex or she keeps rejecting you but there was a previous time in the relationship where she wasn’t like this the guy is probably at fault. If she was always like this you shouldn’t have got into a relationship with her in the first place as you knew what you were getting yourself into. There’s hundreds of reasons why her behaviour may have changed but some obvious and common ones where the guy is at fault would be that: you’re only intimate with her right before …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:49 PM
1

Women are rightly withholding companionship from dudes who think like you. Why would a woman want to be in a relationship with someone who is so self loathing lmao.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/09/20 04:51 PM
1

https://i.imgur.com/j4CbGdq.jpg
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:26 PM
1

Women can be so evil sometimes
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/16 03:08 PM
30

Isn't a fragile snowflake that takes offense easily
/r/seduction12/01/16 10:02 PM
10

Imagine the guys behind the camera who would beat him up if he touched the girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/15 07:14 PM
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