| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3233 | A picture is worth a thousand words... | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | KMDMD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Gay man’s view on women picking LVM. | DISCUSSION | KMDMD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Gay man’s observation on how women select (read: put up with) LVM. Hope this is allowed and formatted correctly. https://open.spotify.com/episode/1yTuhZLmS9akyUadLm4zgT?si=8-5k6GNERvOenhEdoXnBdg&dl_branch=1 | PICKME CULTURE | KMDMD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 03:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | GREAT ANSWER TO "WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A MAN?"Do you realize some of us are reading this at night?!? I’m sure I woke up someone 😂🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:53 AM |
| 29 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?I’m sorry this happened to you, and this is a lesson to us all, as the ex probably lauded him for ‘being there for her.’ Any man that interrupts a date verbally or physically for me, especially if I’m his ex, is not the one. That is not loyalty, that is biding his time until he gets another in with the ex. He probably cheated or hurt her and thus she has him on a guilt leash. I am so incredibly sorry you had to be in the middle of this cluster, and I hope so badly your next date is with someone … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 50 | WHAT on Earth IS THIS.A yeast infection waiting to happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 22 | How Media Grooms Women Into Hookup CultureThis is so true, and so subtle that you don’t even notice the idea has been implanted before you fall hook, line, and sinker. Great observation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:13 PM |
| 21 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.You made me wake up my daughter laughing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:39 AM |
| 175 | It’s Important To Have GoalsI saw this and added it to my vision board. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Since finding this subreddit, I have realized that I need therapy. Nothing could have prepared me for how painful it is, but I know that in the long run it is saving me from a life of choosing an abusive LVM.The saddest and most empowering realization I ever had is that regardless who helped create my wounds, I am responsible for healing them. Which seems sad at first, but it also means I don’t need anything from my abusers to heal and chip away all that is not authentically me. You got this, and I’m so so freakin’ proud of you sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 06:20 AM |
| 45 | Just for laughs ladies.The obvious answer is to stop being so lazy and give up sleeping. If she could stay awake 24 hours, just imagine what she could accomplish in that time?!? Some women are just too selfish and get it stuck in their wee little heads that sleep should be prioritized over their husband’s sexual needs!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:49 PM |
| 13 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meI forgot to mention how angry he is that she decided to be single for four years instead of being with him. So, you’re mad you didn’t get a chance to to be with this ‘annoying luckiest girl in the world,’ and simultaneously in your feelings now that you have her. Either step up to her level and live your best life, or pull her down to your unimpressive mediocre reality. Women can’t win! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 51 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meYou took the words right out of my mouth. Attribute it to ‘luck’ instead of admitting she is more capable and successful than you are. No one runs a successful business without having any idea what they’re doing. And if God just shines down on her to ensure all her leaps of faith work out, why you mad bro? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:01 PM |
| 8 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.This legit made me sad. My heart is so broken thinking of how little this woman thinks of herself. She was treated like a tagalong, third wheel, low-key peasant by her boyfriend. Just imagining her teaching children every day, such an amazing and compassionate occupation, and then waitressing at the local Applebees’s instead of seeing that her value is more than what she financially brings to the table. He may as well have hired an escort to play the role of his play thing, at least he’d be up f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 5 | My grandpa is dying in a nursing home and STILL gave me a Birthday gift- "If he wanted to, he would"I’m so glad that you have the love of your grandpa. When little girl’s are taught what to expect from the men in their lives, in my opinion, they’re much less likely to accept the shenanigans of LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 31 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂Are we gonna ignore the khaki button down? Tell me I’m in my 40’s without telling me I’m in my 40’s…#landsend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.I’m saying people use the Bible as a weapon instead of what is is supposed to be used for, an instrument of love and acceptance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Totally agree, I think, in some ways, the Bible fetishizes suffering. I’m a good wife, if I work harder, stay ‘pure’ and sacrifice for my husband. I think people miss the important symbology of religion and use its scriptures to have personal power to exert over others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 9 | Even men think pickmes are embarrassing.Who’s making sure she starts off her morning well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | This guy gets it.Some guys even say what they don’t do...I don’t put my hands on women, I don’t cheat, I don’t call her out of her name. It’s like, thanks, for having some integrity? But what do you bring to the table?! What a person brings into your life, is what they take from your life when they leave. If he isn’t bringing much, he won’t take much when he’s gone, so why is he there in the first place? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:52 AM |
| 63 | She kicked him out of her house mid stroke lol. Don't let them use you as a fleshlight.I read the title and thought she kicked him out as he was having a stroke, lol. Begs the question why I still clicked on the video... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSGirl, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 57 | Once again, All of Reddit vs. FDSOmg some many guys wrote me saying all we do is complain, and that we’re ugly...projection much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 12:24 AM |
| 58 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"👑 queen energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 01:13 AM |
| 189 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"If I had an award, you’d have it. My ex was a good person, solely because he pronounced he was a good person. Virtue and power via fiat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 19 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Exactly, some people will always frame things from a victim’s perspective. If he’ll talk about his ex negatively, one day, he’ll do the same about you. My mom always asks why people believe people they know to be a gossip or a liar. If they’ll talk to you about someone, they’ll talk about you to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:23 AM |
| 769 | A picture is worth a thousand words...Because it captures what we feel, and the way we disassociate from parts of our body because embracing what they symbolize for men is heartbreaking. At least that’s what I feel looking at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 11 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.I hate when I’m scrolling Reddit, find the perfect meme or post for this group, and then realize it was posted on this subreddit 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 15 | You did the right thing! ✨👑His actions ripped your family apart, you just said the words. I am here too, stay strong sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 29 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?You don’t know how much it means to know you read what I wrote, and actually see me. I was with this person from the age of 17, and we were together for almost 20 years when this happened. I can’t decide if I lost myself somewhere along the way, or never really gave myself time to develop. Probably both. It is so important to share these experiences because you helped me feel less alone. There’s at least one woman out there that didn’t shame me, didn’t criticize me, and comforted me from an auth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 48 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?I also want to add, I’m tired of people saying don’t use sex as a weapon. If I’m angry or hurt at my partner, not being physically intimate isn’t me using sex as a weapon, it’s me valuing my feelings and body. My vagina is not a shared asset in the partnership! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 60 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?TRIGGER: I had been dealing with resurfacing memories of childhood molestation, and after weeks of crying and turmoil, finally told my ‘partner’ what I was remembering and processing. He pretended to listen and I thought he really heard me. I told him the thought of sex right now made me want to puke, and I needed time to grieve and heal. He said he understood... When we stood up to go in the kitchen, he gave me a hug, I thought to comfort me, as I’d been crying throughout the conversation. I fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:17 PM |
| 8 | This is why “Not All Men” should NEVER be entertainedHe may not have hit me, but the emotional abuse was worse, with the warden living inside my head. This man bought me things, did all the things I didn’t ask for, ignored the things I needed, and ran credit up on my soul he didn’t have the ability to pay. For reasons unknown, I gave up my sanity, my spirit, and my hope for us to strive for better. Okay, alright, and we’re way better than other couples we knew became goals. Never. The Fuck. Again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.You can’t imagine how much I needed to hear this. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I love it when men recognise LVM!Men: Women aren’t visual creatures Women: Budget’s in makeup, body grooming, hair care, fitness and self-care... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Don't let men play stupid.With privilege comes responsibly, if you want to be spoken to and treated as an equal, then be my damn equal. I don’t have time or energy to teach you how to manage life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).I think you’re being too hasty, he could hold his date’s keys and lipstick in one of his cargo pant pockets 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).And the Netflix login lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectExactly this! We train people how to treat us and he was testing the waters to see if you’re a pushover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | treated myself simply bc i can ✨Queen Energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:58 AM |
| 7 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsYou made me wake up my daughter from 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:08 AM |
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