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| 3 | SuicidalIt feels awful right now because you are feeling how much you loved her. That’s the shitty thing about love. You mourn it as hard as you gave it. Be kind to yourself. It’s ok to cry and let this out. One day, you will realize you feel better. One day you might even meet someone who makes you feel that way again. I thought it wouldn’t happen to me, but it did. Time is the great healer | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/24 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you to grief the divorce?The process is different based on the individual. I think the main thing I see, based on what you wrote, is that you are trying to run from your feelings. The process will take as long as it takes for you to face them. Running from them, numbing yourself with drugs, alcohol or rebound chicks will only prolong it. You are grieving and you need to let yourself accept and come to terms with the death of your relationship. Therapy helps. Personally, writing in a journal helped me tremendously. I was… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Revenge herYea but is it gonna fix it for you? If her life gets worse, will that make yours better? Be honest, we all know it won’t. It’s just being spiteful. The best thing to do is to move on. For you and her. She doesn’t feel any of the hate you have for her. Even if she did, it won’t stop the hurt. Free yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Separated, what now?Totally agree with this guy. As much as it sucks, moving out is going to negatively affect your custody. I was lucky enough to kick my ex out. Even co-signed on an apartment for her. But now that she’s out of the house, it makes it harder for her to ask for more than 50:50 custody. I mean, if you don’t want an equal share of your kids, it’s probably fine. Just need to consider that. Try to get a plan established with her of when you get to see the kids. The longer it goes on, the more it becomes… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/18 06:19 PM |
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