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| 2 | From Happily Married to DivorcedBest way to look at it is doors in life close for a reason. It ain't worth it to dwell on it....look for the door that opens next. Not everybody is meant to stay in your life forever, and often that's a reality that we don't necessarily get a vote on. We learn our lesson and move on. Be glad there were no kids involved. There can be a lot of variables as to why things didn't work out....don't drown yourself trying to figure it out. This is where you put one foot in front of the other. As for sob… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 05:33 AM |
| 9 | Out with another guyThere is literally nothing you can do to turn back time. It wasn't meant to be. You're so focused on this door that you're missing the other doors in your life being opened. If there's an issue in life that you can do nothing about, it ain't worth worrying about. It'll give ya something to do, but it won't get you anywhere. She likely isn't thinking of you. Don't let her live rent free in your head bud. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/26 12:37 AM |
| 7 | Today I RealisedBro, 90% of your issues are because you refuse to get off the pity train. You can be at rock bottom but at the end of the day, you gotta stop letting other people have that power over you. Start living FOR YOU. I say that as one who questions himself harder than anybody else ever will. But you gotta make that choice to get up and start living for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Am I needlessly escalating thingsBest of luck man. Courts tend to be favorable to the mother so it may be an uphill battle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Am I needlessly escalating thingsBro, just work on moving on with your own life. Vengeance is wasted time and effort here. Accept that the relationship is over. The important part is moving on with YOUR life. At this point, what she does is her life, and you need to focus on yours. Trust me....the sooner you move on, the happier you will be. Being stuck on a pity train is a ride to misery, and the reality is that you control that train. You can either stay in misery or you can decide that you're moving on to a new life, new opp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Expensive hobby after divorce?I loved when I had my bikes; it was always something I enjoyed doing on my own and getting away. But as my son got older, he is special needs and has an aversion to various sensory things and wouldn't ever want to tag along for a ride. Between that and marriage issues keeping me at home anytime outside of work, I sold them and got out of it. Sure miss my ol Street Bob though lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Expensive hobby after divorce?Live your life a bit. Unless you're in depression and have self harm tendencies....a motorcycle isnt going to be for you then. I just got divorced and decided to get back into archery...something I loved to do but while married I was never able to get away enough to do it. Sold all my stuff and got out of it for the better part of a decade. But after it was finalized I said to heck with it; I'm doing something for me that I've wanted for quite some time and bought a new compound bow, and am in t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 02:29 PM |
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