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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-4	Being “creepy” is an inevitable part of young men learning to speak to women they’re interested in. Young men shouldn’t allow women who’ve never had to be the pursuer shame them for trying and not being perfect at it on their first tries. The incels are in here, that’s for sure. People acting like “treat everyone with respect” is some assault on their character. They all need to grow up and stop treating women like some prize, or sex dispenser. It’s creepy.	/r/MensRights	04/01/19 05:42 AM
1	Being “creepy” is an inevitable part of young men learning to speak to women they’re interested in. Young men shouldn’t allow women who’ve never had to be the pursuer shame them for trying and not being perfect at it on their first tries. Who? The person you’re creeping out. Do they have authority? Why do they need authority to fee uncomfortable?	/r/MensRights	04/01/19 05:33 AM
-1	Being “creepy” is an inevitable part of young men learning to speak to women they’re interested in. Young men shouldn’t allow women who’ve never had to be the pursuer shame them for trying and not being perfect at it on their first tries. Or, perhaps women today are more open about calling out creepy/anti-social behaviour? Maybe a guy doesn’t intend to be creepy, but if he makes a woman feel uncomfortable with his actions/words, that’s not on her. She can’t read his mind. All she has to work with is his creepy demeanour. I get it, it’s tough being an anxious young man trying to work up the courage to talk to that girl, but that doesn’t absolve men of the responsibility of being functioning adults.	/r/MensRights	04/01/19 05:32 AM
2	Alpha guidelines I always have to explain to people that I am going to sweat no matter WHAT I'm wearing. The undershirt may be a warmer option, but the extra barrier saves the stains.	/r/seduction	28/11/12 12:30 PM
1	Alternatives to bars and clubs for people who can't tolerate the typical "bar and club" music? In my city (Perth, Australia), beginners classes tend to run in 4 week blocks give or take. You can drop in whenever, but I do recommend starting at week 1. You'll meet people as lost as yourself, and you know you're learning at the same pace. Gives you a definite group to go out with to swing venues, because lord knows its daunting to break into a niche like this on your own.	/r/seduction	22/03/12 12:38 AM
2	Alternatives to bars and clubs for people who can't tolerate the typical "bar and club" music? If you like jazz/blues/swing music, find yourself a local jazz/blues/swing dance class. There's been a big revival in these dance styles in the past few years. You'll meet lots of new people (guys and girls), the teachers and students will all go to the same types of venues to dance, and you'll find it easy to approach women with this common interest. I swing dance, and i'll be the first to admit I'm no expert. But the general atmosphere I've discovered is very welcoming. You could go to a swing…	/r/seduction	21/03/12 02:29 PM

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