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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	"Pick Me"s and How to Stop Being One Watch for how men in your life 'groom' you for this, and it doesn't even have to be consciously. I wanted my dad's approval, so I became one of these girls, not liking women and wanting to be one of the boys. Now don't get me wrong, you can still be a tomboy and like whatever the heck you like without being one of these girls. But the jokes my dad would say and how he would talk about women made me feel like I had to act like one of those pick-me girls to be loved. Took a long time to get my hea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/19 04:11 PM
17	Always choose a female gynecologist/psychiatrist/doctor Me as well, I was in my teens, and it was a male gynecologist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/19 02:34 PM
6	This is a typical dude's experience on OLD: YEARS of effort with not much success, while women get tons of matches daily, simply for existing. NEVER let them make you feel like there aren't options out there! Doesn't sound incel, but has the thinking patterns that could lead to it. Especially the 'expecting others to know what I expect, and meet those expectations because all other ways of behaving are wrong', and the not looking at things from anyone else's POV. I mean, I get it. OLD sucks, but take it for what it's worth. I had an acquaintance who would constantly comment about how easy dating was for women, took me a few months to finally get him to see things from a woman's POV. Still not sure …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/19 10:28 PM

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