Kafkabracadabra Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	Casual misandry from someone who didn't even understand the post. Context down below.	social media	Kafkabracadabra	/r/EverydayMisandry	31/08/24 11:48 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	The Real Battle Every Man Must Fight Corniest shit I've read this last week	/r/seduction	01/04/25 03:30 PM
5	How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material? You'll soon get the reputation of a creepy, clingy guy and other women might avoid you. Task failed successfully.	/r/seduction	22/03/25 06:54 PM
5	How to get Laid or find a FWB in a Rural Area? How old are you? Did you grow up in that area? These are important questions. In rural areas, you usually get to know people by simply hanging out. You go for walks, chat with the people that hang around local shops, offer to help some neighbours etc. You get to know as many people as you can and then look for connections.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 08:09 PM
2	Oh boy Anytime a topic about the "gender wars" is debated, it's damn painful to see how many people have absolutely zero argumentation skills. It's all about strawmen, censorship and appeals to feelings. It's unbelievable that we've reached a point where sound arguments are not discerned from bad ones, but instead they are even seen as inferior to sophisms and immediately shut down, just because the topic is controversial.	/r/MensRights	15/11/24 12:22 AM
1	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' How is this accusing? Did you just intentionally leave out all the instances where I insisted that we do not have enough information to support EITHER side? I want to hold this community accountable, so it doesn't end up being just another echo-chamber, as most people already think it is. This article isn't of any use. Edit: The guy I've replied to edited out a big chunk of his comment because of the backlash. I still don't think that the part he left unedited helps much, tho, because he simply …	/r/MensRights	09/11/24 05:54 PM
-20	20-year-old Oxford student found dead by suicide after female student told his friend group their sexual encounter was 'uncomfortable' Wait, wait, wait! I'm not supporting any of the sides here, because we lack a lot of relevant information. Do we know what she actually told the others about the sexual encounter? Do we know what compelled his friends to react with hostility? Do we know his version of the story and what he said in order to defend his reputation? As much as we know, this could still be a true case of rape, to which the friends reacted with hostility and the supposed rapist found himself cornered. But we don't kno…	/r/MensRights	09/11/24 05:25 PM
41	In what world should this be acceptable?? And here I am trying not to fall in love with every girl who says "hi". I've been doing this wrong the whole time!	/r/EverydayMisandry	18/09/24 10:00 AM
2	Tumblr fucking sucks I agree with you here. I simply think that it's a safety measure to not tell everyone that she does it. Men are more likely than women to be interested in her or, as you said, to detest her. I wouldn't take it personally if I was in his place.	/r/EverydayMisandry	13/09/24 09:09 AM
8	When Male Rape Victims Are Accountable for Child Support I understand your point of view, but here's a very important thing to consider: It's not simply about rare events that somehow happened this way. It's about court decisions, where arguments were given AND accepted. This is a horrible flaw in the justice system, which means that it could happen to anybody, on the basis of some stupid laws. There's even a university "professional" cited in the article, who argues in strong terms that men simply cannot even be raped. She calls it "unwanted contact"…	/r/MensRights	11/09/24 09:29 AM
9	Seeing 5 year old children as a potential predator is definitely a sign of healthy mind. >1 day ago >1170 likes, Jesus Christ. Lol, she wants to turn them all gay in the military.	/r/EverydayMisandry	08/09/24 01:52 PM
1	An advice for men in relationships: Do not be vulnerable in-front of females! It’s a trap! This post came right in time. I've had to write wall of texts arguing against guys who encouraged opening up, calling it a "strength" and something that implies "courage". It's the kind of courage that gets your ass dumped.	/r/MensRights	31/08/24 11:02 PM
3	She wants young boys to get raped You don't even need to create more actual misogynists for that. You just have to expand the meaning of the word "misogyny" until it covers a satisfying percentage of the male population.	/r/EverydayMisandry	31/08/24 01:10 AM
3	Why are men's traumas and men's emotions seen as harmful to others? Why do we internalize that man-hating idea and then self-censor? Lol, nailed it! Men also have no idea about their own emotions and they need to be educated/brainwashed about this topic, so they don't lash out at others (i.e. the women in their lives). We should add the fact that everything that doesn't fit the feminist perspective on mental health is toxic. Men deal with their feelings in various ways, but most of them are toxic!	/r/MensRights	31/08/24 12:40 AM
7	What are some things that this movement has actually achieved? Well, it's big enough that it gets you banned on some subreddits.	/r/MensRights	29/08/24 08:43 AM
126	Mother took her 14-year-oId son to the doctor and gave the doctor's 12-year-old daughter permission to stay in the room while her son was being examined completely naked despite her son not wanting the girl to be in the room. The son was belittled by redditors for being upset. A few days ago, I was using a urinal at a gas station. The urinals were all lined up right in front of the door and the women's bathroom was right next to it. A huge queue of women formed and they could easily see inside the men's bathroom if anybody opened the door at least a little, in order to enter. Now here's the fun part! Me and another man or two were using the urinals and a guy left the door open. After a while, a woman entered the bathroom irritated and slammed the door shut, criticizin…	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 10:08 AM
-1	Why the only naked bodies you see on screen these days are men's, not women's: 'No nudity' contracts, intimacy co-ordinators and the feminist MeToo backlash. Lol, enjoy the downvotes! We're in this together!	/r/MensRights	12/05/24 01:06 PM
-14	Why the only naked bodies you see on screen these days are men's, not women's: 'No nudity' contracts, intimacy co-ordinators and the feminist MeToo backlash. This post took me by surprise, too! Let's just admit that women are sexualized way more (men too, but not as much). There are entire subreddits centered on actresses and other kinds of female public figures in compromising circumstances.	/r/MensRights	11/05/24 11:57 PM
-5	Man or Bear: which would you choose There's something missing here... Isn't the thought experiment based on the fact that the woman and the man/bear are ALONE, maybe in a forest or a similar secluded space? Yes, women do encounter thousands of random men on the street, but there's a huge difference between encountering someone in a social setting in broad daylight and encountering that same person in the woods, where a crime is likely to go unpunished. Leaving aside all of the sexist stuff, we can wonder how many people would stil…	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 07:48 PM
2	Would you rather be stuck with a man or a bear? Give me the bear! It is unfortunate for a man to die without testing his battle abilities.	/r/MensRights	11/04/24 08:15 PM
3	When a woman physically assaults a man, the man is expected to prioritize the comfort of his attacker over his own safety. That is very tough! I hope you and your friend are doing better now!	/r/MensRights	11/02/24 08:11 PM
4	When a woman physically assaults a man, the man is expected to prioritize the comfort of his attacker over his own safety. Unfortunately, in many countries this simply applies to any attacker. You permanently injure a mf who tried to kill you? You might still go to prison or pay him, because you "crossed the line".	/r/MensRights	11/02/24 08:08 PM
48	Feminism claiming the loneliness epidemic? How can I make this about me?	/r/MensRights	27/12/23 05:34 PM
1	Is this article true saying that female feminist are narcissists? A study in which women are called "females"? Tbh, I wouldn't bet on it.	/r/MensRights	26/12/23 05:27 PM
1	Do you want to be in a relationship with women? Yes, I do. There are many awesome women out there!	/r/MensRights	03/12/23 12:33 PM
1	I cringe at idea of marriage I empathize with you, but I'm just saying that both lifestyles can be good and people should choose according to their preferences.	/r/MensRights	16/10/23 04:53 PM
-1	I cringe at idea of marriage Quit shitting on men that want to be alone. You kinda did the same thing with men who don't want to be single, so I was answering that. I am not "governing" anybody and I have no problem with men deciding to stay alone. You were just making it look like wanting to marry is stupid.	/r/MensRights	16/10/23 04:30 PM
1	I cringe at idea of marriage You say that "being single is addictive", but I think we have to decide already if we go for that or say that "loneliness kills men". A LOT of guys, including me, are single and have been so for a damn long time and, trust me, most of us are in depression because of that. If it's an addiction, then I "ducking" hate this addiction. Before the "solitude, not loneliness", I want to say that I don't support that view and I think it's not suitable for most people. I can have peace with myself and enj…	/r/MensRights	16/10/23 04:19 PM
-1	We need a NoChivalry movement to bring more attention to mens rights. I hear you about helping women but they're arguing that they don't deserve/need the help. That's not very common irl, at least in my experience. When it comes to physically difficult actions like carrying heavy luggage, my help is often welcome. When it is not(and the person is rude), I do my best to understand that not everyone is the same, so I shouldn't just stop being kind because of a few rude people. I do it for the thankful people who actually need help. It also really depends on the cont…	/r/MensRights	30/09/23 01:12 PM
-6	We need a NoChivalry movement to bring more attention to mens rights. Nah, I'd rather help women while opposing feminism. If men applied the same tactics of simply stopping to do anything in order to prove their worth or being rude to women, we'd go nowhere.	/r/MensRights	30/09/23 12:22 PM
2	When did “fragile male ego” become the number 1 most used feminist insult? I was recently laughing at a post about "men's need to create male spaces". The feminist approach was, in that post, that such communities cherry pick made-up or unimportant issues and cry about them, often manipulating "real problems" in order to fit their narratives and try to turn it into a problem about men, not women. Oh, if only there was a huge movement that could be accused of similar things, but with a huge bias towards a certain sex!	/r/MensRights	26/09/23 07:24 PM
75	Study: Gender gap in alcohol consumption is shrinking, therefore we must focus on reducing consumption and harm in young women They're just closing the gender gap. Women shouldn't be criticized for drinking. Is gambling next?	/r/MensRights	25/09/23 12:09 PM
10	Why are "patriarchal" societies a lot more moral than feminist societies? Why are feminist societies so immoral and gross? they were invaded by feminists You make it seems like they were attacked by women's activists with weapons. they have managed to retain their beautiful values and morals. You still don't understand that I strongly condemn their "beautiful values and morals". What are those morals, by the way? Forcing a young woman to marry you and be your slave? Forcing women to cover almost every part of their bodies? Beating the shit out of them for slight misdemeanors, in order to "protect your honor"? Imposi…	/r/MensRights	24/09/23 11:25 PM
11	Feminists tik tok harassment You can't reverse the argument because you can't apply the same standards to the sexes. Variety only exists among women, while men are all horrible.	/r/MensRights	24/09/23 10:57 PM
18	Why are "patriarchal" societies a lot more moral than feminist societies? Why are feminist societies so immoral and gross? Does sexual freedom seem to you more "immoral and gross" than horrible authoritarianism? We want to stop being labelled as mysoginists here, yet this kind of posts attract attention by causing outrage. There's no way in hell I'd prefer those countries you mentioned and you should know that your view of "feminist societies" is exaggerated.	/r/MensRights	24/09/23 10:51 PM
3	Women who hug (again) I think that chances of you being accused of touching her improperly would be very low and I personally wouldn't take that into account, especially since she was clearly the one to initiate. If she just hugs you and you stay there or barely mimic a hug in response, there would not be suspicions. But I agree with you on the other point. You didn't want to be hugged and she is not entitled to that.	/r/MensRights	20/09/23 03:23 PM
2	Feminists saying the quiet part out loud Not trying to be that guy, but isn't it wrong to call them feminists? Did I miss some part of the video? It just looks like they are some random women on the street, not some prominent advocates for women's rights. I'm not even confident that they would call themselves feminists. The video is helpful for pointing out misandry in common perceptions about men and women, but it isn't much of an attack on feminism. Feminists would simply not claim them, probably.	/r/MensRights	16/09/23 01:05 AM
1	Why some men think that feminism also want to help mens? Because they've only been exposed to feminism and they are not even aware of men's problems, aside from crying and wearing dresses and crop-tops, which feminists so proudly advocate for(social problems, not political). I am not necessarily a fan of Peterson, but a short video of him debating a feminist and listing a few problems that affect men made me slowly switch sides. The bad part is that they will insist so strongly, with every dirty insult they have, to make you avoid this kind of guys at…	/r/MensRights	15/09/23 01:07 PM
2	Got told "thats not a hill you want to die on" with the education gap I've discussed this recently and I was literally amazed. A male feminist twisted the problem and insisted on the fact that women NEED higher education if they want to live decently, while men don't have all that pressure on them. I used a similar trick and insisted that many men are seen as disposable and people would just tell them to get a strenuous physical job like it's no big deal, instead of investing time and money in their education. Since we are appealing to such …	/r/MensRights	15/09/23 01:22 AM
92	Got told "thats not a hill you want to die on" It usually goes like this: "Feminism already advocates for equality, so focusing on men (who are already extremely privileged) means that you are sexist and just want a safe space to hate women, or you are a crybaby who complains even though you have it way easier." Not my words. It's just how conversations tend to evolve on those totally not toxic subs who support "equality".	/r/MensRights	14/09/23 03:22 PM
2	Boy, 12, is placed in isolation for wearing shorts in heatwave - but is told he can wear a skirt instead You can wear shorts in PE class, but wearing them in any other context(in school), even during a heatwave, is a horrible crime. Some people are crazy.	/r/MensRights	13/09/23 01:02 PM
14	Isn’t calling any man you disagree with an incel hate speech? Aren’t some incels disabled, disfigured, rape survivors, and other marginalized types just like women? I don’t mean men who hate women. You think so because you are only taking into account cis white males(monsters).	/r/MensRights	11/09/23 06:59 PM
11	If men really are the priviledged sex, please give me some examples.. This might not be the right sub for your question, but I still wouldn't advise you to go elsewhere unless you want to lose your mind. That being said, I think that men really happen to be priviledged in some aspects, just like women are privileged in others. I find it difficult to draw the line somewhere and say whether men or women live better. One example of priviledge is that men are often not expected to know how to cook or even clean. Before jumping for my throat: Yes, I know that we are st…	/r/MensRights	01/09/23 11:28 PM