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There are bad people in this world (both men and women are capable of doing wrong, though being capable doesn’t mean they will; that’s where the difference lies in each person’s values and character). I am a woman, and I have also known men who have abused my trust, taking advantage of me with out caring about how their actions were damaging me; one even left me emotionally devastated after constant manipulation, coersion, and psychological abuse (which involved insults and aggression). Yes, the…
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 05:09 PM
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I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Saddly the manipulation of a abusive partner doesn't end just when you cut ties with that person, usually you have to deal with the after effects (It doesn't mean you can't overcome them, just that it could take some time). As the things are going, the best for you is to cut any interaction with him and his image (even don't try to look on how his life is going, since it will just rub salt in the wound), but always remember he is and always will be the ma…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/26 04:59 PM
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You can't save him, he is the only one who can save himself and if he doesn't want to do that you can't do anything about it (and as long as you stay with him the more possibilities you will drown in to his avism than you will get him to move out of it). The best thing we could tell you is that you should first and foremost save yourself, focus on healing yourself because years of abuse do really mess oneself up (specially when it come from a first relationship... since it means total ignorance …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/26 07:03 PM
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Yeah totally. There are bad people everywhere, and Latinos are not an exception for that. Thinking that foreign women are going to be that "easy solution" to their dating problems will make everything more difficult, since they will fail to aknowledge that cultural depths that forigners have + that the kind of foreigners that wants to be with you mainly because you are a white guy in another country will indeed be the kind of person you should be more worried about since they are not with you be…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/25 11:26 PM
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I totally agree with you in many things, just I think it would be good to add some perspective in the socially problematic phenomenon just in case. First, let me introduce myself: I am a Latina woman (Venezuelan, with both Venezuelan parents, and currently living in Argentina). Now, I'm not going to say that what you went through wasn't wrong, because it definitely was. The fact that this person used you to obtain the green card is reprehensible and clearly left a mark on you and caused you grea…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/25 09:18 PM
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Auch 🫂. But it's good that you broke up with him. That kind of argument doesn't sound like someone who is emotionally mature enough to take responsibility and handle correctly their life (let alone take responsibility and handle a relationship) because even if it gives him "genuine enjoyment" it's destroying his life in the process (his real life, not his online persona) which already tells a lot about his priorities, as well as lack of life skill and social capacities (to be chan the only place…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/25 01:13 PM
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You need to analyze your own position in this. I'm not going to tell you what to do (whether to end it once and for all or give it a second chance), as that's something you have to decide for yourself. But it's good to remember at least a few things: a relationship is a dinamic with very important life implications, and for it to work, both partners need to seek ways to have a good relationship together, and that means changing or working on aspects of themselves in the process. And if one perso…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 09:29 PM
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