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| 2 | "Just be sad with me"Which is why I said if she needs the help of a mental health professional but refuses to see someone, that's a problem. | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | "Just be sad with me"You said no one wants to hear platitudes and then followed up with a platitude. | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Read that research showed women have 4.5 times more in-group bias then men. What do you guy's think about this?I mean, even in couples therapy with my ex, the female counselor was biased towards her and focused on my ex's needs while dodging mine. So yeah, I've seen it. | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 4 | "Just be sad with me"No worries, man. Just wanted to help with perspective. But make sure you take care of yourself too and she's not overburdening and over stressing you too. If that starts to happen, maybe talk to her about finding a therapist and doing some research for her if she's okay with that. When you're depressed, even the littlest things can sometimes feel like mountains if you just can't find the motivation. | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 02:49 AM |
| 7 | "Just be sad with me"I have no idea what the situation is, obviously. But it can be hard to word things in the moment if you are trying to process a lot. And I'm not trying to take away your frustration with that. You have every right to look after your mental health and making sure she's not dragging you down with her if she's overly negative or overly depressed. If she needs the help of a mental health professional but she's unwilling to make that happen, that's a problem. I was just hoping to give you an idea of … | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 02:02 AM |
| 7 | "Just be sad with me"I understand you want to help and that's great, but a lot of us just want to feel like we're being heard and understood. We already know what the solutions are, we've already put in the mental effort of how to logically accept things and move forward. A lot of us just need time and help processing our negative emotions and not feeling alone while we do it, and the best way to do that is just to listen to understand and not listen to respond. | /r/MenSupportMen | 28/01/25 01:11 AM |
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