Kaintaro Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Oddly bothered		Kaintaro	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/22 10:53 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Name one of the best things that has come from your divorce. I found a partner who is not judgemental, prudish, and rude to my family. I found happiness was not the lack of negativity, but the growth of joy. Never would have found that if I had not gone through a divorce and found someone who actually cared for me and not what status she got out of being with me.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 09:11 PM
1	Divorced & in a relationship, need help! Not sure why being previously married would matter unless you still are. Being divorced is not a bad thing. That is taking virginity culture to an extreme, and that entire culture is dumb as shit. Tell her siblings to shut up and mind their business.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/23 06:38 PM
3	How fast did you get on top of someone new after your divorce? Yeah that's some Men's rights bullshit. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt that you were just angry or bitter over a shitty situation. But then I dug into you after this gem of a post. Sorry women are not items to be put on pedestals or to be looked at for their value to your life like a car. That you are attributing that status to them in your post tells me you are an asshole. You might have been treated like shit by a woman in your life or multiple, but women are not a uniform collectiv…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 03:49 PM
2	How fast did you get on top of someone new after your divorce? You should talk to a therapist if you aren't. I read a lot of anger in this post. I'm sorry you had a shitty experience with your ex. You should seek help for the anti-woman stance you are beginning to espouse though. That's not healthy	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 03:32 PM
2	Great marriage but, I realized I'm gay and I fell in love with a friend. You are pushing the assumption this person knowingly did that out of malice or had a lack of respect, which is pretty clear is not the case based on their worry about their spouse. Regardless being less of a dick is probably something you could learn.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/22 03:40 PM
3	Great marriage but, I realized I'm gay and I fell in love with a friend. Gotta say this is the shittiest response I have ever seen. Dealing with religious upbringing and accepting yourself as gay, bi or not straight is incredibly difficult for many people. It is also in no way a reflection on his parenting or if he was a good man. Yes will a divorce hurt, sure. But expecting someone to be perfect or they are a failure is ridiculous. Take the hate somewhere else, cause you're not doing anything besides being a jerk here. OP: Go to counseling. Figure it out first, then…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/22 08:50 PM
6	Oddly bothered Can't really avoid him. He is connected to my life via my kids and his kids being close before hand and now their relationship. I would rather have a positive relationship for my kids sake.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/22 01:46 PM
8	Recently separated-just had some questions. Get a lawyer....	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/21 02:43 AM
2	Unusual Divorce Legal Court Proceedings I'd get a new lawyer who has done this and can explain all of it to you.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/11/20 04:12 PM