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Can you imagine hearing an adult man scream at your child and then reason to them why it’s okay??? Ma’am this is where your Momma Bear instinct is programmed to come out... she’s so far brainwashed that even her core programming is compromised. This poor little girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:00 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:50 PM
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Flashback to my ex saying, direct quote "You're just so hard to love", in the first conversation he had with me after taking and keeping MY car for the whole week that he gave me the silent treatment as punishment for saying something he didn't like. Never again! 🤡🤡🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:57 AM
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Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:22 PM
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I did this early on in my career with the C level boss I somehow got to report to in my first job after graduating from college. And then any C level or experienced person who wanted my company, to monologue about themselves and would answer all my questions and share strategic company initiatives that the execs were mulling over. It’s insane and kinda embarrassing how much men will blab this way. But I learned and was able to volunteer for new projects a million times faster because of it and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:02 PM
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I love this too! A post from one of the relationship subs came up recently where a woman was asking for advice if it was a red flag that a potential love interests Instagram activity was floooooded with tons and tons of girls. And obviously all the responders are saying it’s none of your business, it’s your insecurities etc. Coffee table and screenless analogies here are perfect- get a hobby guy. Says a lot about someone when their top interests are exclusively the consumption of female bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:26 PM
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Bold to argue with anyone about maturity when you in fact, are not fully potty trained sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:27 AM
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Ya I thought I had an aneurysm when I saw that as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:30 AM
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Agreed! I like it too - kinda like a Carfax report! I don’t want to read the history of other vehicles- but I do want a third party verified history report of the actual car if I’m considering buying it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:32 AM
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Sends apology flowers. Spells your name wrong. Twice. There are only four letters sir and two of them are the same! 🤡 These are not mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:01 AM
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Peencakes are Gluten free, grain free and a super quick, very inexpensive, high protein recipe for these otherwise undesirable and entirely inedible leftovers: -1 egg - 1/2 c. Peanut butter - 2-3 discarded peens mashed thoroughly -dash of cinnamon & vanilla Pour like regular batter, flip when edges bubble and serve with syrup or jam and butter. Nothing like waking up to the smell of fresh Peencakes in the morning 🥞🥞🥞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:27 AM
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EW! That is straight up scary manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:44 PM
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Ahhh this guy. Truly thinks if he had slept with other women THEN he’d be faithful. Nope. That’s determined by your character, not a distinct number of sexual partners that will magically make you an honest, trustworthy and truly loving partner. My most serious relationship and type of love I haven’t experienced since cheated on me in a biiig way and how I found out had significant consequences for many years after. At various points he tried to get back together with me but I knew what he did w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:08 AM
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Or that it’s your fault and you “should have known”. You were there so you deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:57 PM
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I know right! Ya I was confident he wasn’t the violent type but every other type of underhanded sabotage we knew was on the table, my brain is still mentally exhausted from all the legal research and covering of bases I was doing to make sure we were legally protected in every imaginable way. Even until his last day of move out he was secretly trying to BUY our building, which would be in the multi millions ... while telling us he was moving out to save money on rent 😂 Full on crazy making as I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:31 AM
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Total? 6 years. 😭😭 BUT counting from once I realized what I was really dealing with him, that grey rock/ no contact is the only way through it, and started influencing the other two roommates to see and fully implement those approaches it was less than 9 months. Fortunately/ unfortunately I had learned a lot from going through the same thing with an abusive business partner and boyfriend, so once I fully accepted that there was no other way it went pretty fast looking back. All 3 of us are kicki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:53 PM
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We did this with a narcissist male roommate - took the total blindness and non engagement of the 3 female roommates to finally get him to chose to leave. Good luck with your spouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:32 PM
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100%! If you’re in person and his comment actually makes you lol you’ll get to see his rage surge. Particularly for Abusive narcissists, but it makes them furious when they are shitty and can’t drag you into their shitty angry game and suck your emotions out. Total dumb fox move! Dr Pat Allen talks about this and how to do it in committed relationships in her book Getting To I Do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:24 PM
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Thanks! You are correct - And I was not implying that what you said was saying pathetic meh orgasms would be acceptable. What I wrote was entirely in the spirit of 100% full agreement with you. And not a criticism or pointing out of any shortcomings of what you wrote. I see that I didn’t state that clearly enough though so to clarify, yessssss, amazing points. Thank you for writing that. What I am criticizing as I think through the issue is the “did you cum” attitude of men. And how society cele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:04 PM
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Ya know how we talk about emotional labor? And seeing how we were doing all the emotional and verbal heavy lifting to help him see how doing XYZ differently would positively help your relationship- but wording everything in a way so he thinks he figured it out himself and it’s his own idea?? And obviously getting no appreciation or respect for doing it because he doesn’t even know how much flipping effort it takes?? Ya, it took me almost 2 years of celibacy to realize that not only did I use to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:41 AM
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Oh wow. Well... I’m sure there are HVM somewhere else on campus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:42 AM
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Serious question, is this high school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:27 AM
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When I graduated I was shocked by how often men do this in the workplace. -Oh you look sick. (I'm not sick, I went on the corporate run with 20 of our other colleagues and I don't wear makeup to workout) -Oh you look like you've lost weight, look at how small your ______ is (uhhh... Please don't) -Wow your legs are soooo long -You're bow legged. Men love bow legged women (what the actual French toast?!?) -Why are you always so dressed up? -Why are you always so dressed down? -How old are you? Yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:56 AM
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Just WOW. This is good. And makes me so angry thinking about all the time I spent in relationships back when I used to date, tiptoeing around men's insecurities, the ones they don't even explicitly say but you sense so you look for positive ways to affirm them and build them up, you know because that's what positive, healthy relationships do right? Help encourage and make one another better? No. That's what women do. And that's why I reserve all my encouraging, positive reinforcement, compliment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:33 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree with you and similarly don’t know for certain that there will be a point where I am stable enough to date. This should be more common advice and the opposite of how society looks at dating, where we are mindful of our current life dynamics and goals and choose to enter periods of dating mindfully with a clarified purpose, rather than as the normal default of always dating unless you’re in a relationship. It’s such a significant energy and emotional drainer and complicator …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:03 PM
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That’s so insane to me, definitely very greedy! It’s so sad for people who have actually been in that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:10 PM
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Many lifetimes ago, after 2 years of long distance my college boyfriend and I finally transferred Universities to be together, less than a year later I find him sleeping with someone else who was just visiting for a WEEKEND. We breakup. Sometime later I end up exploring a relationship with a girl for the first time. Boyfriend who cheated on me, threw my entire life into chaos and broke my heart hears I’ve been with a woman intimately and is FURIOUS. Apparently “We we’re supposed to explore that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:50 PM
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100% nobody’s business. Funny how men’s responses to any sort of sharing past histories, particularly sexual ones doesn’t lead to them then reflecting on and then “confessing” their sexual histories, harassment’s, coercion, sexual assaults or raping of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:01 AM
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Exactly. And this is her post THREE BABIES body. As in the "fat before" photos were from in between her three PREGNANCIES and nursing of her 7, 4 and just turned 2 year old childen and the "took me long enough" is probably referring to getting into shape again in her post-natal body. Not that she owed that to anyone in any specific amount of time either. Leave it to a LVM to make the physiological changes of growing and nursing THREE WHOLE HUMAN BEINGS IN HER BODY more about men's attention than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:01 AM
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Exactly, this woman is doing her best to survive the situation she is in as best she can right now. Especially when we want better lives for people out of care and concern for their well being, criticizing people experiencing domestic violence and trauma doesn’t help them move towards safety or alleviate the myriad of factors they weighed out to make those decisions. Trauma literally changes your brain, how you process etc. Its not a character flaw, it’s our brains evolutionary survival programm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:53 PM
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Yep. Get the restraining order now. When you file a police report you can try to get a judge to issue an emergency protective order. This gives you time and protection while you do the legal documentation process, tons of free resources and legal aid helping DV/ stalking victims file restraining orders. Google CROC or free restraining order services in your area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:01 AM
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Seriously. For a second I thought it was Pete Davidson’s voice doing a bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:42 AM
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Sounds amazing! Following for details
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:24 PM
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So true. I know there’s a lot more to the broader category, but Narcs specifically LOVE to ruin holidays, birthdays and literally anything that is special to you. Lovely to hear about such a delightful different experience 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:05 AM
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Exactly. When your rapist is your partner, they will treat you even worse afterwards because they KNOW what they did to you. By treating you terribly and getting angry at you they are manipulating you to get you to doubt yourself of what actually happened. Cognitive Dissonance is already insane with domestic abuse and only gets worse if you “talk to him” about it. Hope she is able to leave without having a single conversation about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:49 PM
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This is really good, thanks for writing this! On the low value side, low value companies also breed complacency. Low value employees will stay at low value companies and talk endless trash about how terrible the company is... while staying... and doing the bare minimum... making the company worse for it. A demoralizing and destructive cycle both in reality and analogy for our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:16 PM
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Yes. A JP reference is immediate game over. Block him now before he starts sending you podcasts and YouTube links to help “educate” you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:04 AM
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Bless all you mods and leaders. I didn’t know this was a thing and am truly devastated thinking about going back to trying to do this alone... Thank you for everything you all have put into this, it truly is life changing 🙏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:15 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:05 AM
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I’m unaware of recent bans as my meager reddit literacy is purely motivated by being functional enough to participate in FDS... but FDS is my AIR now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:52 AM
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I’m so sorry. How many years apart are you and sibling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:08 AM
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PLOT TWIST! Did not see that coming after yesterday’s post, Congratulations my dear! What a way better ending!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:08 AM
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Declining his proposal and selling the ring is one of my proudest moments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:43 AM
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OH MY GOODNESS. I cannot believe what I just watched. A child. That is twisted and filthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:37 AM
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Yes! Clean sheets, clean room, clean eating, journaling, reading good books or positive films, waking up early and feeling rested in my own home! In summary when I think about it, even the wealthy ones, I don’t want to spend another minute letting LVMs, dim my light, lower my vibration or slow my growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:19 AM
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Oopsies! Considering this lil guy’s hands were going to be his only sexual partners, you’d think he’d have been more careful with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:58 PM
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In short, go places and do things that you are genuinely passionate about and enjoy. For me, speaking events, meetups for topic I’m interested in, community/ clubs and being very active through an extended faith network in my city creates a lot of opportunities to meet new people. So your starting pool is more likely to have values/ lifestyles passion etc. in common with you. Then ruthlessly weed out from there. Commonalities are a great start. But they also can be bullshitted, and we should nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:23 AM
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Good lord yes this. The following detox and repair is brutal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:49 AM
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Did you see the scene in homecoming when very recently after birthing the twins and training her butt off to finally fit into her previous size/ costume she finally fits into it and calls him excitedly to tell him... his response and lack of enthusiasm, zero encouragement says a lot. That scene makes me feel so sad for her that he couldn’t give a shit to celebrate her and how hard she worked to get there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:40 AM
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Yesss, phenomenal additions. I’d also add -Invests in you generously. That looks different for everyone, but they gladly want to use the resources they have be it knowledge, connections, finances, physical abilities etc to add to your life. And build a life WITH you. -Proactively cares about your feelings. A man who wants to know how you feel and wants you to feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 08:43 PM
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THE. SOCKS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:14 AM
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“He responded saying he was just a shitty husband”... that’s manipulation and playing the victim card. He even told you he wasn’t going to do anything for you to hurt you. There is no time for passive aggressive men like this. Grey rock to deal with co-parenting and leave this man. You can’t keep explaining your hurt to people who keep hurting you. So sad she’s dealing with this with children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:48 AM
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I’m so so sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:24 PM
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Yes. That glazed over look that comes over his face after 15 seconds after he’s just told you his nuanced life story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:28 PM
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No more free therapy guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:26 PM
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Just discovered this sub but on my own I have been reading and applying many of the concepts from recommended books on the wiki for the past 4 years so I’m so excited to see this community exists! In the past when I’ve shared the principles outside with girlfriends IRL like how I don’t initiate or pursue in anyway, not touching doors is a personal favorite, but I’ve gotten a lot of criticism from my girlfriends about being high maintenance etc so it means a lot to me to find other women using th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:43 PM
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Never! How do you not see you’re throwing all your bargaining power out the window and stuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:09 PM
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Wow. I’m so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:15 AM
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