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Most likely he used Tinder’s own data request for that exact of a number, and that would just count any conversation. I doubt he counted them manually
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:08 PM
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You can swipe on people in cities you aren’t in if you pay for premium
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:55 PM
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1,000 out of 2 million is like statistical noise. With 2 million swipes it could literally be all bots
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:52 PM
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Counter what? Do you even understand how bad your argument is? No one is saying that you can’t become less attractive with a bad personality, we’re saying looks matter more than personality. Your own example proves it since 29% of women still opted in! If he was short and ugly 100% of women would have popped, THAT’S the difference, that’s why looks matter more than personality to women. You literally have an easier time dating as a good looking FELON than as a short ugly man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:37 PM
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Neither of your responses are relevant to what’s being discussed here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:23 PM
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Calm down. What we’re saying is that his dating success would barely change if he altered his personality, but DRASTICALLY change if he looked like a model Ergo: looks matter way more than personality to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:15 PM
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I don’t you know what merit means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:11 PM
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So? It’s true. You could run an experiment with the exact same profile but an Ai male model and he’d be drowning in matches
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:58 PM
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”Women are NEVER accountable! NEVER!! …wait why aren’t there more women in leadership roles??”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:45 AM
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”But I know a tall Asian guy!”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:52 AM
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Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:28 PM
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Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:28 PM
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Okay so if you understand that being pumped and dumped is not a reward for women, then how exactly are sluts being rewarded? All they’re getting is non-commital dick. So the incentive structures for women work as men advertise: be a slut and you get pumped and dumped, be chaste and you get marriage and family
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:42 AM
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Answer the question, do you think being pumped and dumped is a reward for women? Is that what you long for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:33 PM
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But you’re whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 08:08 PM
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Do you think being pumped and dumped is a reward for women? The only reward that men can give women relationship-wise is long term commitment/marriage/a family and that is exactly what they reserve for good girls. Nobody wants to marry a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:25 PM
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So yes, you are technically correct, but only if you also agree that men are naturally abusive rapists; oppressive; and violent to women and only stop doing so under threat of force from more powerful men. Uhm no, one does not follow the other. That’s like saying we need laws against stealing because people are natural thieves. No. We have laws against stealing because people are naturally NOT thieves and don’t want to live among them. If men were naturally rapists and violent towards women ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:40 AM
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And women still choose prostitution 🫵😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:58 AM
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Now he’ll move the goalposts or never reply, and tomorrow he’ll say the same shit in another thread as if your exchange never happened
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:57 AM
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Read the comment I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 08:17 AM
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Yeah except the male complaints are largely true about women as a whole, whereas women’s complaints are obviously the result of them trying to date top level men out of their league who don’t want them for anything more than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:50 AM
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Are you under the impression that she doesn’t actually believe that men who do not succeed in reproducing is just natural selection, or do you agree that she does actually believe that Because her finding it funny that men don’t get to become fathers isn’t really an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:36 PM
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I don’t understand why you have such difficulty grasping this concept If one appeals to natural selection in one area then one should agree to the application of natural selection in another area If men dying childless bc of lack of female interest is just a failure to adapt then a woman dying childless bc of murder is also just a failure to adapt By invoking natural selection for something so obviously not naturalistic as men’s lack of success in modern dating, then you’re essentially saying th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:29 PM
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Because it’s 100% true?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:46 AM
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Not in the context of this conversation no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:11 PM
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It is extremely uncommon to never have seen a person you find attractive enough to wish they’d ask you out. In fact I think you’re kind of full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:05 PM
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I don’t know, you tell me? Do you have the same attitude about porn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:22 PM
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And you feel the same way about jerking off to porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:15 PM
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The guys who initiate still get the girl at the end of the day No. The tall/handsome/wealthy guy gets the girl at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:11 PM
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Are you going for men in your league or for the top percentile men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:09 PM
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a man winning you over is more psychologically satisfying and it signals his seriousness more But this isn’t happening anymore. Women think that if they don’t immediately want to have sex with a man because of how attractive he is then it’s tantamount to rape to suggest she entertains the idea of dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:50 PM
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If you haven’t been fucking men without commitment previously then yeah that would probably work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:49 PM
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Then the term doesn’t mean anything
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:04 AM
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That is not a contradiction. Men are saying that when women truly love it’s unconditional, which is why it’s preferable to be the (in your example) criminal that can do whatever and still retain her infatuation, than the guy who gets rules and conditions. This is not a contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:03 AM
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Then Saudi Arabia is also natural selection. Then child brides are also natural selection. Then the term doesn’t mean anything. Then all mate selection everywhere is natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:59 AM
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Natural would be pre-civilizational mating structures. Sexual would be what we have today where it’s solely determined by sexual attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:53 AM
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You can’t call it natural selection when it’s upheld by artificial social programs, mass media and last gen technological advances
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:49 AM
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If that is true then you are in an extreme minority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:24 AM
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You didn’t approach at all lmao wtf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:23 AM
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This is woman logic unfortunately The men approaching you aren’t smitten head over heels suitors, they are the horniest fuckers with the least concern for social repercussions The man that approaches you is the same man approaching 4 other girls that night
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:22 AM
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Lol, no To have sex with a lot of women as a man you have to be very physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:18 AM
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Is someone forcing you to bang him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:15 AM
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Women hit on men all the time . But some of you are oblivious Women vs. Accountability. Same story every time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:14 AM
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You are trolling. A percentage is very easy to produce
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:08 AM
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No not really It’s a cute little gotcha y’all got to attempt to invalidate this very observable phenomenon of women not approaching, but it doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:06 AM
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Old school redpill is dead. Contemporary redpill is very much aware that women only want the most physically attractive men. That said, women don’t really approach anyways , even if the guy is above the threshold - that’s how easy they want it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:04 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:59 AM
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Because his breakdown is more accurate. Women don’t really approach even if they are interested so her comment is not accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:58 AM
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Chad only
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:37 AM
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It seems like a lot of women give a lot of shit about passport bros actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:14 PM
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I’m not saying it to insult you, I literally don’t think you have the ability Even if 100% of women made poor wives, that still wouldn’t mean that ”wife material” meant something negative, it would simply mean it was the qualities that women were lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:09 PM
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So you agree? The men that women are spending their 20’s dating before they settle down are part of the Chad class
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:02 PM
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Then why pretend like it’s normal dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:57 PM
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I feel like you don’t have the mental acuity to participate in this debate Women in general making poor wives does not mean that the qualities of a wife are negative As an example; if someone is leadership material that means something good, even if most bosses suck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:56 PM
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Normal dudes are not getting dates anymore. 80% of dating is enjoyed by the top 20% of men, easily
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:45 AM
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Okay so you’re admitting that women would pay to fuck fuckboys if they had to rather than have one night stands with husband materials
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:42 AM
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That doesn’t solve anything, it’s sticking your head in the sand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:37 AM
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Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:34 AM
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So you agree with him then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:33 AM
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What is it you’re not getting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:32 AM
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Women find the majority of men unattractive yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:28 AM
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You’ve confused yourself lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:19 AM
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How are you still not getting this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:17 AM
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There are women in this sub that say shit to that extent EVERY SINGLE DAY and I have never seen you say that I wonder why that is… But please, prove me wrong: attach a link to you setting one of these women straight. Surely you can provide an example of you doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:22 PM
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Which is of course why you enter every thread about domestic violence telling women to calm down and be for real since it’s also not a problem for the vast majority of marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 04:10 PM
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Yep. Above having a parent that was abused, or a parent that is an alcoholic or drug addict. Step parent is number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:17 PM
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The number one correlate with child abuse is having a step parent in the home
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:11 PM
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First sentence in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:46 PM
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You don’t need consent to talk to someone If you don’t want people to talk to you that’s YOUR problem to deal with, no one else’s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:44 PM
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”men approaching a women in public venues feels predatory”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:42 PM
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You don’t need consent to talk to someone. If you don’t want people to talk to you that’s YOUR problem to deal with, no one else’s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:37 PM
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This is so obviously not true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:17 PM
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Lmao, yeah you’re the delusional gull he’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:10 PM
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You’re operating under an egalitarian framing still The equivalent of women opting out of dating is not men opting out of dating, it’s men opting out of relationships! And yes, women are incredibly frustrated about this. Women are very upset about men sleeping with them but then not committing to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 09:41 PM
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Man we used to have a word we could call people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:59 PM
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Could you see yourself fucking him in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:47 PM
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This should be settled social code, from both directions A woman letting a man pay if she’s not interested is fucked up. On the other hand 99% of men would have no problem paying if they knew that it meant she was interested
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:17 PM
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”Why should I care about other people??” is such a perfect and succinct description of modern women’s thought process in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:14 PM
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”Why are you work if this is so randomly casual?” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:12 PM
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Yes, I am able to remember a username lmao, is that difficult mental work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:07 PM
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Dude I pop in here every once in a while and yet I see you every time, in every thread, every day You are in no position to call other people losers larps or shut-ins
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:59 PM
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Yes, I spread awareness about it and support messaging and policies and cultural movements that turn us back to a restrained monogamous patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:47 PM
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“The only ones that talk about this shit (online) in 2025 are the losers, LARPs, and shut ins” This is you dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:45 PM
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And yet here you are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:33 PM
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Lol okay so women who love to travel enjoy having sex with a lot of different men - the wording changes, the substance is still the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:29 PM
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Oh yeah, calling yourself a whore, you really got… us?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:18 PM
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Every fruitful patriarchal civilization rested on the foundation of one woman per man. So yes, he’s right actually: Men can build societies resting on something other than the stirrings in their loins - women can not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:46 PM
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Lmao, right?? ”It’s called survival of the fittest!!” and then it’s just selecting for men with a large mandible
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:44 PM
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And so the goalpost moves…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:59 AM
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Of course not, since you’re a hypocrite with no moral backbone or consistency and your only ethical compass is ”letting women do whatever they want and having men be accountable for everything” You people are so transparent and obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:40 AM
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How is he supposed to debate ”Uuugh you’re wrong actually!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:39 AM
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What sacrifices do you demand of women that you don’t demand of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:33 AM
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So then you’re against abortion I take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:29 AM
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Where in society are you claiming that women are being challenged on misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:24 AM
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It’s a pretty accurate list of what feminists try to pass of as ”healthy” masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:20 AM
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Lol, are you serious right now? You really think that’s the logic here?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:15 AM
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Women regularly say that they don’t trust male female friendships, and make it a problem in a relationship Yes, women don’t say they want a man who can’t flirt or has no relationship experience but it’s very popular today for them to say how much they dislike men who have slept around when in reality that’s generally something that women find attractive e.g. James Bond type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:10 AM
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The woman above who’s obsessed with traveling has the flair ”Promiscous woman”… So we don’t really need to look far for the evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:06 AM
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They don’t need to travel to be promiscuous, but it’s definitely correlated, and more so being into traveling i.e. making loving travel a part of your personality is a huge red flag for promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:04 AM
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Dude, 3-6 hours IS fleshlight treatment, you completely disproved yourself lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:30 AM
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It doesn’t seem like being someone worth dating is a pre-requisite to date women, nor does it seem to particularly make much of a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:18 PM
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Imagine your great grandfather fucked all of your great grandmothers and was the father of all your grandparents: Would you have the same amount of male ancestors as female, or fewer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:04 PM
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Bruh… I don’t know how to explain it any simpler than I did
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:29 PM
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No. Fewer males mated but had more kids. Therefor you end up with fewer male ancestors as your great-great-great-great-great grandfather was sire to more than one of your ancestors, and this happened several times at different times in different lines of your lineage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:09 PM
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Because you continuously claim that looks aren’t the most important thing when it obviously is to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:04 PM
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No. When there are people in charge who care how others reproduce and steer society in that direction: That’s eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:58 PM
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OP as you can tell by the women in this thread asking for an uncharacteristic amount of specifics: they prefer the one that can buy them the most frivolities
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:52 PM
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The forest doesn’t care. It has no thoughts about it since it has no brain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:46 PM
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No it isn’t. The forest is agnostic, it doesn’t care how you reproduce. The people in power in society very much do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:39 PM
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That’s not the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:32 PM
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The ”wild dogs” aren’t choosing in a vacuum tho. You exist in a mass-media society that can influence who women reproduce with and how many children they have. The women themselves may not be consciously eugenicist, but our system is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:09 PM
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There doesn’t have to be force A concentrated effort to communicate to women ”don’t breed with these types of men” is eugenics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:07 PM
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But at what point does it become absurdity? Nobody has any problem with a 90th percentile looking woman going for a 90th percentile looking man. But if 50th percentile women demand a 95th percentile looking man we have a problem, like civilizational problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:31 AM
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Bruh women don’t approach unless you’re top percentile attractiveness, and then you don’t need to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:01 PM
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She didn’t twist your words, it’s literally what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:58 AM
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That doesn’t sound like someone being intimidated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:49 AM
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there are always a few attractive male coworkers who shared her interests and support her goals BZZZZ! Unfortunately the HRification of the workplace that you have lobbied for and your refusal to update who approaches means this option is obsolete
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:48 AM
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See the problem here is that you want things to be one way, but they’re the other way You want men to find degrees and achievement attractive, but we don’t. Which is exactly what OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:42 AM
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Yes they do <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:14 PM
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They do tho. These are the men they lament are non-commital and closed off and leading them on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:45 PM
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<image> OOPSIE!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:49 PM
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It doesn’t really add up why someone who’s had a lifetime of positive reinforcement would become that kind of person in the first place In truth, men who are conventionally attractive or even just average often grow up with a more balanced and positive experience and are therefore the most likely to be levelheaded and socially adjusted people This is just halo effect circle jerking. No, people who grow up with massive privilege and women falling over themselves to cater to them are more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:45 PM
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Women do rank themselves, we all do. You as a man probably have a pretty good understanding of what level of woman you would be able to long term date. Women on the other hand do not No. Market value is two separate measurements for women: Short term and Long term. Women have a massively inflated short term market value, and incorrectly think it corresponds to their long term market value: Which is OPs whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:41 PM
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Pew found that 25% of men and 47% of women were married or living with a partner. That accounts for 22 points of the 29 point difference. That's explained by women in the Pew data who are married to or living with men who are 30+ So nearly half of all 18-29yo women married or living with a partner are coupled with 30+ men That’s a lot more than women on this sub like to pretend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:37 PM
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And you don’t understand how a term like beta bucks being invented by the red pill completely invalidates your original premise then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:26 PM
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The reality is that she was pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:25 PM
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Honey, what do you think beta bucks means?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:23 PM
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No. ”In their league” is who they can long term date, or even more so marry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:22 PM
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They don’t need to consciously think about it, it still is what influences their choices
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:21 PM
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It’s very obvious that you don’t know anything about contemporary red pill philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:21 PM
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Lmao you just described exactly how women are able to sleep upwards hypergamously but not long term date, and you don’t even realize it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:19 PM
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Yes you do. We all do. You not actively thinking in those terms or even thinking about it consciously at all does not change that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:16 PM
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No it simply means that in a somewhat monogamous society, women aren’t able to accurately rank themselves corresponding to the male population and thus end up flustered, confused and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:14 PM
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That’s not at all what OP is saying but ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:10 PM
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But Chad isn’t ”buying” a relationship or marriage with these women, THAT’S how they’re priced out It’s like a subscription service going ”we have millions of free users, surely this means our monthly cost could be $10,000!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:09 PM
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That’s not at all how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:06 PM
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Men don’t have access to sleep with women out of their league as women aren’t willing to sleep ”down” as men are, so OP is correct: this is a uniquely female problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:04 PM
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That logic does not follow what he said, like at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:03 PM
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You add all subjective oh so unique tastes together and if there are clear trend lines - that’s objective Height is objectively attractive to women. Large breasts are objectively attractive to men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:01 PM
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No, not a subset - all women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:07 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 07:06 AM
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Women’s fears are not based on any kind of reason. There are millions of strange male encounters every day that end in as much as a head nod and a smile and a ”mornin’” - but that doesn’t matter because women are choosing to get murder-rapes beamed into their head every day through podcasts, netflix documentaries and 24 hour news channels Men can’t make them feel safer by making them safer because it was never actual danger that made them scared in the first place So maybe you should take it up …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:42 AM
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No, we fucking don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:34 AM
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Women did gain rights solely because of male empathy. Your post is complete feel good revisionism. Women didn’t fight men for it, it was literally all an appeal to empathy, or else it wouldn’t have worked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:33 AM
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You people are so histrionic I wonder how you function day to day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:06 PM
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Which means he cares exactly as much as women care about men’s issue when they don’t benefit - none Which is what’s the thread is about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:03 PM
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Yeah cuz if you tried to appeal to women by describing a man getting harmed they wouldn’t give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:58 PM
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He obviously means gendered toxicity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:56 PM
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Why would they do that? Women adore them and make all the excuses in the world for them so they can act however they want with no consequence, in fact women take their negative experiences with them and then use it as justification for why unattractive men suck lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:26 AM
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I think you’re getting a bit lost in your own sauce here mam, you said that only picking men who approach you is how you filter out users, I’m explaining how that tactic does the opposite In today’s society it’s not that men refrain from approaching women because they’re scared of rejection it’s because they’ve been told women don’t want them to and that it entitled and essentially assault. You’re not filtering for guys who gosh darn it want you so bad they overcome some fear, you’re filtering f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:24 AM
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Welcome to Clownworld bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 05:46 AM
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This is all incorrect. Women are causing this harm to men and we have a chance to stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:18 PM
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It’s not about making them admit they’re wrong, it’s about changing public perception so they can’t use it to hurt unattractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:00 PM
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Lol I schooled you so bad, go to bed man, you’ve been wrong about everything, all of your attempted gotchas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:58 PM
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Lol sure dude, I’m bad at reading graphs Then please, tell me how many messages per week the ugliest percentile of dude gets Did you think the axis started at 1, bud? Was that your boo-boo? I bet it was buddy, sorry, it starts at 0
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:45 PM
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I prove that women are pickier about looks than men are, and you still think ugly men are single because you’ve convinced yourself it’s actually the MEN that are shallow, with nothing to back you up Yeah, that’s what I thought. Hot air merchant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:43 PM
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What deviation are you looking for? The density and attractiveness percentile are both right there on the axis
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:39 PM
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How on earth exactly are you under the impression that this very easily readable graph proves me wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:37 PM
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Men wanting to have sex with ugly women more than women want to have sex with ugly men I don’t think I need to post any more data for, I think you can infer from the two previous graphs Ugly dudes not finding girlfriends or sex is obviously not because they’re picky like you assume, but because women are. In fact I don’t know where you got that from because there’s no evidence that’s the case whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:21 PM
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Men find ugly women somewhat attractive, the reverse is not true for women, in fact women find most men unattractive: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:19 PM
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Men more likely to message ugly women than women message even average men: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:18 PM
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You kinda already did tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:03 PM
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No. We’re all aware that women forget all their rules and fears when they’re attracted to the guy. That’s the whole point of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:02 PM
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This is verifiably false. Men are more likely to message ugly women, more likely to find ugly women somewhat attractive and more likely to want to have sex with them. And this goes doubly for ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:01 PM
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So your suggestion is that men should make an infinite amount of female friends, but never with the intent of dating them, and just hope that one wants to date him eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:57 PM
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It’s a perfect set-up for women (or so they think) If a tall handsome man approaches them they can claim they selected him because he had courage, and must have really liked her since he approached If a short ugly guy approached her she can reject him without feeling shallow because his approach was ”inappropriate” because ”who the hell approaches on a Tuesday!! The AUDACITY!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:54 PM
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Yeah, women are a lot shallower than men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:51 PM
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No. We should hold women accountable for cognitive dissonance between the things they claim to want because their inconsistency is used to punish male behavior in those they find unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:50 PM
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”No one’s asking men to read minds” *Proceeds to ask men to read minds Also this nonsense that women don’t ”owe” men anything is also a huge part of the problem. Every person in society owes other people politeness and decency. We can’t ask men to be more social and then also say that women can act like cunts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:47 PM
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If this was true the modern age would be a golden age of pussy for ugly men who are good at communicating, and it isn’t, it’s the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:44 PM
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”Since women don’t want to be approached men should just use dating apps!” ”Of course you’re not getting any matches on dating apps, it’s not real life, you have to actually approach women!” And on and on and on the clown carousel goes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:41 PM
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Dude no one is surprised that women let tall/handsome men approach them without problem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:37 PM
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”One way to rule out users is to see if they make an approach. I’m not scared of rejection. I’m scared a guy won’t reject me.” You think you’re filtering for guys that are so head over heels smitten with you that they conquer their fears and just MUST approach! In reality tho you’re filtering for guys with high libido, low consciousness, low care for social decorum or consequences, i.e. the guy most likely to cheat on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:36 PM
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Creepy just means not physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:31 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:30 PM
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It’s definitely more women than men. Most men understand that it’s not working
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:30 PM
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It’s so funny that right above you a guy is saying that one must absolutely NOT befriend someone with the intent of dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:29 PM
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”….No, the norm of men initiating doesn’t mean that persistence or unwanted attention is seen as normal. If she says no, indicates disinterest or appears to be busy, there is your answer. There is no need to keep ‘persisting’” Low IQ and trite strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:26 PM
4

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:24 PM
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The average modern man is facing a rate of rejection high enough that just approaching women in sanctioned social settings will mean he ends up alone for the next decade
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:23 PM
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Women constantly deny that the top percentile of attractive men are drowning in pussy, because that would mean that they’d have to admit that they do throw out all their rules to have casual sex with non-committed tall handsome men, and that’s cardinal sin for them to admit about themselves and other women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:46 PM
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I have explained this to you twice before, it’s becoming obvious that you are actively choosing to lie about what the data says now The data looks as if women messaged uglier men more simply because it’s not equal sized cohorts and women rated almost all men as ugly. It’s not messages per capita it’s total messages received by the group If 10 men were rated as ugly and got 1 message each, and 1 man was rated as handsome and got 9 messages, the ugly men ”got” more messages This is what the data l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:14 PM
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No, women messaged the most attractive men the most by far, women just rate 80% of men as below average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:51 PM
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This was all 50+ years ago lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:12 AM
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That doesn’t refute my statement That’s a pretty reasonable ratio and much better than women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:34 AM
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It would be great if legislation was made demanding all apps do this, because unfortunately if only one app did it women would immediately stop using it. Women are not extremely allergic to being told who their actual looksmatch is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:15 PM
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Lol, that’s why the top 20% most attractive men are banging 80% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:59 PM
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That’s not what’s being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:48 PM
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I didn’t ask you if you care tho did I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:44 PM
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Whenever women complain about the behavior of ”men” just remember that they’re talking about the top 20% of men with all the options, then it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:43 PM
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But you people say that women can sniff out misogyny and that’s why men are lonely because they hate women Also these guys don’t need to lie, the women lie to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:39 PM
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And how is that working out for women? Only having sex with the most attractive men who have all the options and a roster
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:37 PM
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No? The entire issue is that women are to picky about looks while simultaneously allowing casual sex, which gives the most attractive men a monopoly on women and too much power in the dating market, while men who don’t have so many options that they start treating women as disposable don’t get a shot It only sounds like incongruent ideas because you don’t understand the argument being made
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:33 PM
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Of course they are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:20 PM
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It’s completely made up halo effect bullshit. Obviously extroverted jock types are more interested in short term sexual conquest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:19 PM
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The Blue Pill and Feminism has nothing to offer men. Much like communists, they think that every problem is caused by an unrealized sufficient amount of feminism You can prove to them that things have gotten worse as their ideas have been implemented, but they’ll cover their ears and shake their head. ”No! It’s because there isn’t ENOUGH feminism!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:13 PM
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Assume?? You are a literal prostitute! Wtf are you talking about??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:47 PM
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You’re still getting 100x the quality matches that a man is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:39 PM
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Mam you know we can see your profile picture, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:37 PM
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Men’s swipe rate IS 50%, so you’re saying men are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:29 PM
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”I don’t think it’s misandrist” *Proceeds to write 4 paragraphs explaining why it’s misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:14 AM
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It’s so funny that you’d never say this about for example men earning more money than women for the ”same” work. ”There is no identical work or employee so it’s impossible to have the same wage”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:37 AM
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Criminal scum are not the lesser evil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:44 PM
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Uh, accountability? Like being put in prison? Did you think this one through
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:41 PM
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Diseased food
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:31 PM
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Weird to lie about something that’s so easily disprovable but okay <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:04 PM
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My guy…most people end up with their looksmatch. Marriage rates and marriage ages disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:43 PM
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Lol, no. Not at all
/r/seduction24/04/25 08:54 AM
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This doesn’t exist outside of massive amounts of wealth and or fame
/r/seduction24/04/25 08:53 AM
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Why would there be? Women are hypergamous, they don’t care about men who can’t get laid, they only care about the men that can and thus don’t need to see prossies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:45 PM
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Do you genuinely think there is a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:42 PM
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Okay, talk to men who live where it’s legalized, Nevada, Netherlands. I don’t think you’ll find it made much of a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:38 PM
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Lol how about we just ensure that women who no fault divorce get nothing? Can we just TRY the obvious choice first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:15 PM
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The opposite of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:14 PM
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I don’t think it would change much, even if it was normalized and men frequented prossies a lot Okay so the bottom half of women’s attention/matches/men approaching would be cut off because those would visit hookers instead. Would women care? Not really, they’re hypergamous, they didn’t care about those men in the first place. The only women it may shake up are the very bottom - maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:01 PM
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It’s not by age of marriage, it’s by age and marital status
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:12 PM
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It really doesn’t. At all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:00 PM
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Average men don’t have access to hot abusive women And also it’s not necessarily that women pick hot abusive men, but hot men who have no interest in them except for sex. This type of relationship does not exist with the genders reversed But men aren’t getting their looksmatch anymore, that’s the whole point. She’s spending her 20’s getting pumped and dumped and short term dated and thinking she’s an 8 when she’s a 5… Her looksmatch doesn’t have a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:59 PM
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Uhm, no? People who claim that incels are celibate because of their personality are committing a just world fallacy What you’re talking about is just reduntant. ”Men who are attractive to women are attractive to women” like gee thanks for the insight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:15 PM
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”Statistically childless and single women age into being the least happy female demographic” ”Really?? What about a woman that’s currently being raped and branded with a hot iron, you sure she’s not less happy??”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 11:38 AM
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Not really. Women approach and message Chads less than men approach and message average looking women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:51 AM
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This is clearly a causal relationship. Obviously it sucks to not have a family once the dates and invitations start drying up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:47 AM
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Lol always the Dolan study. Paul Dolan had to retract his study because his methodology was based on a lie That article is comparing single women to single men and then claiming this means single women are the happiest of all. Idiotic Locked article so I can’t access this groundbreaking research from Stylist.co Here’s what the real data says: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:24 AM
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Here’s the data <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:39 AM
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Statistics agree with OP, not you <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:34 AM
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That is extremely dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:31 AM
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Statistically childless and single women age into being the least happy female demographic It’s very shortsighted thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:20 AM
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What are you 12
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:18 AM
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He can say whatever he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:18 AM
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Yeah but women aren’t really out here filtering for men who would make a good partner, they’re filtering for the most attractive ones If women were really out here trying to avoid the ”wrong” men then you would have a point, but instead it seems like that’s basically top of the list of what women go for. Even these supposedly sooo happily single women usually smash their head face first into the wrong men at first opportunity, like a kid with no self control eating birthday cake The problem has …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:15 AM
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Women aren’t happier unmarried and childless, it’s complete fiction to sell cosmos
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:59 AM
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This is incorrect. The happiest demographic are married women with children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:55 AM
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Fan fiction? Single childless women age to be the least happy demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:52 AM
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Then why aren’t any of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:08 AM
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He’s accurately describing how women think, he’s not the one who gave them the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:05 AM
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”Don’t use dating apps, those only work if you’re really attractive. Meet women irl instead” ”Don’t cold approach, that only works if you’re really attractive. Get to know women first instead!” ”Don’t ask a girl you know out on a date, that only works if you’re really attractive! She has to become attracted to your personality first!” ”Wait, you want to fuck me?? I thought we were just friends you creep!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:49 AM
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The very framing of this post makes it so clear that you hate men, and any woman who agrees with this frame should be ashamed of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 08:13 PM
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Women invented the term ”Big Dick Energy” and constantly make fun of men for having small penises so I don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:06 PM
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Female sociology is stuck in stone age society
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:55 PM
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That is another example of you waffling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:43 PM
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You’re waffling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:40 PM
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Now wait a minute, we were told that women don’t dress for or do their makeup for men, but for themselves? Which is it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:49 PM
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I don’t understand what the first part has to do with the second part
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:47 PM
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You guys are obviously cognitively limited by language Sexually desiring someone that does not sexually desire you is not the same as wanting to non-consensually have sex with someone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:21 PM
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This is such an insane and gay take lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:55 PM
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The redditor doth protest too much, me thinks
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:54 PM
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”Is a woman’s level of attractiveness the end-all be-all?” As is a man’s. The most attractive woman is the most sought after, as is the most attractive man, and they almost always pair up with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:44 AM
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”Looks don’t fade in your 30s” Women’s certainly do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:42 AM
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You people are so pathetic Concepts like honor and community and family are so foreign to you that you don’t even understand them theoretically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:16 PM
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Lol that statistic is obviously not true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:20 AM
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Yeah how could we all know you’d pivot to this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:36 PM
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”it’s not happening but also it’s good that it’s happening”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 04:08 PM
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Because if she’s a normal attractive woman she’s been asked multiple times a year since puberty I’ve approached a lot of women in my life, and if they seemed receptive asked them out. Nobody asks women out it they’re cunty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:45 PM
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My favorite is ”men date younger women because the women his own age don’t want him!” Like they really think men are out here like ”aw shucks, these 45 year olds don’t want me, guess I gotta begrudgingly fuck this 21 year old, hrmph!😤”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:18 PM
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”If children are so important to him, then why is he so old and still single? Younger women who want a family would be wise to be avoid a man who failed to commit and have kids for so long” You people would NEVER talk like this about a barren woman, it would be endless excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:12 PM
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Why is it more okay to make fun of someone’s appearance because they look old (which they can’t control) than because they’re fat (which they can control)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:09 PM
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The vast majority of women have been asked out multiple times, this goes doubly for attractive women But sure, it’s men that’s the problem, not your weird lying friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 12:44 PM
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Epic bacon my good sir!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:53 AM
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Your very premise is flawed to begin with The majority of women prefer a man with a penis much bigger than average, and there’s a reason why Big Dick Energy means good while making fun of a man having a smaller size is their go to insult against men And considering women’s own body image, breast implants is the most common cosmetic surgery in the west, so I don’t get where you’re getting your other opinion from… And if you don’t think women copy pornography in the bedroom you obviously haven’t s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:50 AM
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Believe it or not, men are pretty good at reading signals. She hasn’t been asked out because she’s been giving men ”please don’t ask me out, I don’t find you attractive” signals in conversation. One word answers, disinterest, rudeness. Naturally men notice this and don’t pull the trigger. This is the root of any somewhat attractive woman claiming she’s ”never been asked out” - she doesn’t want to be asked out by 99% of men and makes it quite clear A more pertinent question would have been to ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:38 AM
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Yes you did If you cannot tell why this is a problem when killing people in games is passe, I suggest a entry level community college course on ethics and philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:56 AM
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Are you pretending like Trump and Vance don’t face constant ridicule for their appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:03 PM
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This is such a stupid comment. As if makeup is linear, always making a woman the same amount of more attractive so that you can just subtract it in your mind Some of the most beautiful women wear the most makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:21 PM
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They’re entertainers🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:17 PM
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You washed it off because you know, just like anyone reading knows that the ”compliments” you received were the equivalent of telling Jan that her snazzy new haircut totally looks super hot and youthful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:15 PM
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Notice how it was photos and not irl, because they know that as soon as women would notice a man was wearing makeup he’d be laughed out of the room
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:13 PM
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You understand most people aren’t actors and musicians right? Or are you still a teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:10 PM
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For dating apps, I don’t get the impression that men are much less guilty of using ten-year-old photos, wearing hats to hide a receding hairline, etc…then women are of using filters to change her face or angles to hide her weight Well you’d be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:08 PM
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Yeah, for men who like other men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:05 PM
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Women would never accept a man wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:04 PM
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The difference is men don’t spend their 20’s fucking women out of their league so men have a very well tuned image of what their looksmatch is Women on the other hand believe they ”deserve” better because they genuinely think being pumped and dumped by a tall handsome guy years ago must mean that’s who she ”deserves” to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:59 PM
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Nah I can smell a feminist from 100 miles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:48 PM
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Really, cuz in the next thread you and your ilk are gonna be calling men incels for saying that some woman has a loose pussy, and laughing at men telling them that a tight pussy means she’s not turned on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:41 PM
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This is such a lame brained attempt at a gotcha that the women on this sub keep trying to make happen Women never approach average or normal men or their looksmatch, they do however approach the top percentile looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:35 PM
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Resentfully end up with less attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:34 PM
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I mean you just said it yourself: Women never approach average or normal men or their looks match, they do however approach the top percentile looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:33 PM
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Except women constantly lament how they don’t find any men attractive, ever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:30 PM
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Now extrapolate that to a majority of women and maybe you’ll finally get how it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:15 AM
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He owned you but ok 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:07 AM
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Yeah except women aren’t being paid less for the same work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:06 AM
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The majority of women want a man to provide economically more than her, and the majority of women simultaneously want men as a group to not make more money than women as a group yes The women who fall into both categories amount to easily more than 50% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:04 AM
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Prove that they are, for the same value brought to a company. Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:00 AM
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No that’s the majority of women: The majority of women want women and men as groups to make the exact same money, but also want men to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:59 AM
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There is no sociopolitical gender wage gap. If there was everyone would promptly just hire women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:58 AM
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Wrong. You already HAVE equal pay regardless of gender. So what women seem to be demanding now is equal salaries for all women compared to all men. And that is incompatible with the idea that men should be providers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:56 AM
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”The vast majority of women know aged 35-65 are fit, smart, independently financially stable, dress well, and fit in anywhere socially” You’re delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:01 AM
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The women 20 year old RP guys are thinking about when they make this assertion are caricatures of middle aged women. The vast majority of women know aged 35-65 are fit, smart, independently financially stable, dress well, and fit in anywhere socially Delusional. Every datapoint researched disagrees with you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:24 AM
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Nobody seriously says the wall is 25 be for real Yes, married women will be less physically attractive to their husbands as they age, which means they probably should make sure to have more things going for them than just beauty The wall isn’t just women looking worse as they age, everyone does, it’s the the fact that youth by itself gives a woman a 2-3 point bump that goes away starting at 30. It’s not that women become super ugly, it’s that 20 something women are an anomaly in society; nobody …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 07:02 AM
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half a million people are a community?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:14 PM
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What community??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:11 PM
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You go to a hiking hobby group? I’m telling you, as a photographer, a photography meetup doesn’t make sense And what are community events?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:08 PM
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You go to a hiking hobby group? I used to be a photographer by trade, I have never gone to a photography group and I don’t know any of my peers that have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:05 PM
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What’s a hobby group? What’s a community event?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 05:01 PM
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You definitely don’t need to be rich, I’m just saying that it’s one of the traits that make people narcissistic and egotistical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 03:31 PM
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Cold approaching means that you start speaking with romantic intent with a woman who you don’t know, who hasn’t spoken to you, and who has no secondary relation to you. A friend of a friend isn’t a cold approach, nor is a co-worker, nor is a waitress
/r/seduction12/04/25 12:06 PM
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Women are attracted to physical attractiveness, height and wealth, and with those traits comes a kind of brash narcissism and egotism. So if you’re decently attractive, sometimes you can hijack their brain by acting like a brash narcissist where their neurons will misfire and think ”if this guy can afford to act like this, and has lived a life that made him like this, then surely that means he’s attractive and wealthy”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:43 AM
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Yes, because men know that the ”whoever invites” thing is bullshit and understand that they’re expected to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:02 PM
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Nobody is saying that it doesn’t make things easier for you as a man to always pay, what I’m saying is that we should stop pretending like it’s fair or a signal of a man’s ability to provide. If anything a man spending money frivolously is an anti-signal for provision - something women of course would never admit Women value looks and mental stability just as much as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:50 PM
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The number of women who want a rich guy vs. The amount of guys that are rich is waaaay off a 55-45 split
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:45 PM
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Nah. The ratio of women who want a rich guy to the number of guys who are rich is worse than the number of men who want a nerd gf to the number of girls who are nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:48 PM
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A man also needs to look presentable and not act like a psycho. He’s also being evaluated on his looks and his ”not crazy” status. Like the girls here say that’s literally the bare minimum It’s not an ability to provide, it’s frivolous spending. There are other ways to prove you have an ability to provide - that’s why you talk on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:41 PM
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The thing that’s not happening but also is good that it’s happening is women complaining about male behavior and opining about what ”real men” are supposedly like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:18 PM
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She’s not your wife and she hasn’t had your children. Spending money on some random woman is taking money out of your future family’s pocket Your logic is like saying a woman should suck her first dates dick, because surely she should do that for her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:17 PM
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Excellently put. If a man is expected to pay it’s essentially saying that the woman should be compensated for being there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:12 PM
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This is just a long winded way of saying that men should pay, as women expect men to be the one to ask out Also, this idea that whoever invites someone out should pay doesn’t apply to literally any other circumstance. My siblings or friends or co-workers don’t expect me to pay because I invite them out It seems like every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:10 PM
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”It’s not happening but also it’s good that it’s happening”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:36 PM
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There’s a reason you chose an example of being happy and proud rather than true vulnerability, which is what men actually complain about women denigrating and getting the ”ick” from
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:31 PM
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Absolutely. This should be a sub for discussing western dating. It’s poisoning the well to have third world women come in here and talk about what men in their countries do and how ”society” views women and dating when they’re obviously not talking about western society
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:08 PM
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I don’t think the impact that a fringe minority has can be compared to something that is accepted and furthered in polite society, mass media and entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:40 PM
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Okay cool so you’re actively at this stage right now: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:07 PM
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Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:40 PM
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This is a ridiculous thing to say when the term ”real man” is widely used in society, while I’ve never heard someone use the term ”real woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 07:05 AM
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Where does it say it’s broken into 10%? The graph you posted is based on the same data that made the graph that I posted, evident by the fact that there are 7 cohorts in each, not 10. So how would it be 10%, where are you getting that from? The bottom male rung is the bottom 27% of men while the female one is the bottom 6%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:39 AM
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The ”ugliest” men are the bottom 27% of men The ugliest women are the bottom 6% of women Naturally the bottom 6% are gonna receive fewer responses than the bottom 27% <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:14 PM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:52 PM
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I don’t understand why you people have such a hard time grasping this The infighting among feminists is always about someone being not feminist enough, never about someone being a radical misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:24 PM
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Radfems are being called out for not sufficiently towing the femmnist line They’re not called out for being crazy misandrists, feminists never are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:23 PM
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My favorite local feminists are constantly arguing anc calling each other on twitter and in several streams. Feminism is very heterogeneous so they are very likely to disagree and agree in certain aspects. Yeah for micro-aggression and not sufficiently centering black trans voices, but never for misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:12 PM
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Feminists critique each other all the time Feminists critique each other for not being sufficiently feminist, not for being misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:10 PM
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Post one of these numerous discussions then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:09 PM
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Re-read the comment you first replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:49 PM
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You posted ”it’s working just fine” Which it is not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:42 PM
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Why do you keep repeating this after I already explained to you that’s not what those graphs say. They’re not adjusted per capita, it’s total messages per group
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:42 PM
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Feminism was never about abolishing gender roles LMAO what are you mental? There’s no reason for us to change that behavior no matter how much certain men suggest that it’s TRUE EQUALITY And thus you’re gonna keep selecting for the least conscientious, high libido, high body count men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:23 PM
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Are you under the impression that young women are happy with their dating and love life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:15 PM
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That… uh.. that might just be you dude
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:07 PM
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It’s funny how all women claim this and yet when you talk to men they know exactly ZERO short ugly guys that bat out of their league…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:56 PM
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You are literally claiming that looks don’t matter in the comment above by capping it at extreme outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:45 PM
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Meaning you hear what they’re saying about raping someone or you see them raping someone, don’t turn your head away and blame the victim for being a slut when she’s crying and saying ”no, please stop” because she’s being raped in the alley you’re walking past Yeah it’s pretty clear that the issue here is that you don’t live in reality, you base your worldview on fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:38 AM
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Lol, do you hang out with a lot of rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:36 AM
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Are you under the impression that old money is synonymous with stable/educated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:41 AM
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”Your” monthly costs? Surely in a marriage you live together… Most of that sounds like normal family costs, but the beauty and pampering are examples of things that you can and should do yourself since you have more time freed up by not working. Same as you wouldn’t hire a cleaner or nanny: the point is that the wife is supposed to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:15 AM
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I think that the ”the one who invited pays” is a way for women to still put the onus on men without explicitly stating it, as men are going to be the ones who invite the vast majority of the time, and it’s apparent because it doesn’t work like that in any other facet of social life. I don’t expect my friends, or colleagues or siblings to pay just because they invite me to go out, nor do they expect to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 10:04 AM
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They largely are. The women who want to split dates and date men who make less money than them are the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:21 AM
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Most ”progressive” women still expect the man to pay for the date as well as make more money than her Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:20 AM
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Idk, some of us have object permanence
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:14 AM
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Yes, that’s how a traditional marriage works?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:13 AM
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You people are so unserious. You’re like children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:09 AM
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Provide means provide a good life, not diamonds and designer bags and other frivolities
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:52 AM
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You know exactly what he’s saying stop playing dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:46 PM
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Not true at all. There’s a ton of old money men marrying models and actresses, and not much of the reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:44 PM
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You’re confusing proximity with preference, as well as discounting the selection effect of intelligent people wanting to date other intelligent people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:34 PM
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Thank you for this textbook example of womanism Men say ”we don’t really care how much money you make or how educated you are” You turn that into a ”lack of willingness to date educated women with careers” and ”take a barista over a finance managing director any day”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:31 PM
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You said you’ve never done hookups and yet you slept with friends without any courting period, and strangers after 5 dates That’s hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:09 PM
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oh Honey you just described hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:06 PM
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What do you mean ”Again source?” I’m not quoting a statistic It’s like me saying women don’t like when guys ghost them after sex and you going ”UUUH SOURCE????” What are you 12 years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:30 PM
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Wrong. Women into casual sex still want plausible deniability. 99% of women would shut off completely if a guy said he’s only interested in her for sex, even if she’s also only really interested in him for sex. Slutty women still want it to feel romantic, they don’t want to feel like a piece of meat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:25 PM
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Women who are open to hookups don’t want to be told up front that a man is only interested in sex either! It’s crass and juvenile, it removes the plausible deniability that women need to still feel like ladies. Even women who are open to hookups want to feel like ”it just happened”, not like a piece of meat. If anyone should be upfront it’s women who don’t want to have casual sex, because no guy willing to wait will be offended because a woman says so I already explained this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:16 PM
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Yeah, most people aren’t autistic tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:59 PM
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Mam you’re on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:49 AM
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Nobody is saying it has never happened in the history of the world, rather that it is rare enough that it doesn’t need to be part of the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:44 AM
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Very few men are truly exclusively interested in hookups. It would have to be a special circumstance like the guy is moving from the country in two weeks. Almost all guys looking for hookups would be open to a relationship if the girl is right In that sense men are ”looking for short term, open for long term” and women are ”looking for long term, open for short term”. Neither are exclusively looking for sex or for long term commitment Women who are open to hookups don’t want to be told up front …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:34 AM
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Women don’t really view men as ”only good for a hookup”. The men they hookup with are just that much more attractive than ”relationship material men” that women either loosen their rules because of their own libido, or to use sex to keep him interested
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:38 AM
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What’s the longest you’ve dated someone before you did something sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:34 AM
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Uh, you admitted to doing it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 06:33 AM
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My goal is to get more women who think like you to speak up, because it would make more ”good” men want to approach more. Right now when young men are told it’s unacceptable and an imposition, solely the men who don’t care about social norms will approach, and that’s probably not what we want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:38 PM
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You’re misunderstanding me. I’m saying that if women who like getting approached let other women paint it as always an imposition, then men who don’t want to impose (who is whom they should want to approach) will respect that and thus not approach As a woman who likes getting approached it would make sense to work to keep cold approaching accepted in society, otherwise you’re just gonna have men who don’t care about social norms approach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:34 PM
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Hug and cheek kiss like in the European fashion. Not a proper hug and kiss, like how you would a female friend
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:49 PM
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You approach someone you find appealing, then converse and date to find out if they’re whores or golddiggers, it’s not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:19 PM
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Absolutely not Men are still attracted to femininity and women are attracted to masculinity. But society tells us that men are wrong for wanting femininity, but women are right for still demanding masculinity. Obviously that doesn’t work Women can’t demand a man pays for their date and then at the same time act baffled that men are more incentivized to make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:17 PM
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Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:09 PM
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Cold approaching isn’t the only way to meet women, but it is the major way to expand your odds. Most men are not introduced to that many appealing, single, right aged women in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:06 PM
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Hate to be the one to break it to you, but it sounds as if you like cold approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:31 PM
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Yes, that is cold approach actually lmao. Like in PUA circles they would call that long game. If you go up and talk to a strange woman with romantic intentions that is cold approach And the majority of women on this sub would disagree with you that a man should ever ask a woman out at the gym, because she’s ”vulnerable” and ”there to work out, not be hit on”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:24 PM
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I don’t think you understand what cold approaching is. It doesn’t matter if it takes weeks or months to secure a date because cold approaching refers solely to the ”two strangers” aspect of the initial meeting, not the process of wooing the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:20 PM
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Cold approaching means going up and talking to a woman that you don’t know with the intention of dating her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:16 PM
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Again, not the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:00 PM
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No, the discussion in this comment chain is whether or not Specialist Age is presenting casual sex having women vs. not as a binary, which she is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:42 AM
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Nobody is saying he’s not cringe, but she wasn’t putting him on blast for being cringe, she was angry because he DARED speak about sex with a woman he met on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:40 AM
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Cold approaching someone who is receptive to it is not imposing, not even if one is rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:37 AM
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Do you think cold approaching is immoral, and think we should shame men out of doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:35 AM
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How is it hard to get that some women don't want to be cold approached ever? I don’t think you read my comment correctly If you're going to child approach you will have to be ok with the fact that some women will hate it. I’m fine with that, men are fine with that. But that’s not really what’s happening tho. Women aren’t going ”I don’t like it, but you do you” they are moralizing about it, making it out to be immoral for men to cold approach, and by that notion making it out to be that women as …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:04 AM
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Never used bumble
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:41 AM
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Why? You’re an adult, surely you can copy paste the quote into google and click on the first result
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:20 AM
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”74% of women aged 25 and below want to be approached more; 77% in the full 18-30 cohort. 68% wish to be approached more between 30-40, while for women 41 and older 45% wish to be approached more” DatePsychology.com <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:29 AM
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Please quote or screenshot where it says that a majority of women do not have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:26 AM
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I did read it, it makes no claims that a majority of women don’t have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:22 AM
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Lol did you just link an unrelated article hoping I wouldn’t read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:14 AM
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That’s not the topic being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:28 AM
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That’s not the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:24 AM
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Just FYI, the woman who made that post is a raging feminist that also dresses like a slut and posts pictures like an OF promotion, so she’s bound to have some overcompensatory hang ups about sex and dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:23 AM
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Not the discussion but okay Most women have sex outside of committed relationships, which is the definition of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:22 AM
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What you don’t say is “let stop talking and just fuck” unless your intention is causal sex. In which case, be up front about it and find someone just looking to fuck This is you making it a binary
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:18 AM
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Why do you people pretend it’s a binary? Women aren’t split along ”don’t want to have sex without a ring on her finger” and ”fucks men she doesn’t know who she hasn’t been on any dates with” Most women who want to have casual sex do it exactly like in the OP: a few dates to get to know each other and then start having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:40 AM
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It says in the title, they’ve been on 3 dates, which is a normal time to start talking sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:36 AM
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And I repeat: Each of the examples you’ve given of places that are safe to try and pick someone up from, other women will say are not okay Like I’m surprised you said the gym, the mass majority sentiment by women is that you definitely don’t want to ask women out at the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:10 AM
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You people are so histrionic, approaching isn’t harassment lmao Because it’s not 99.9%, it’s not even the majority. 77% of women aged 18 to 30 wished they were approached MORE often
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:08 AM
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Okay I’m gonna be a bit bold here and say: I don’t think you’re being approached or catcalled as much as you make yourselves out to be I think it’s mostly women shaping their view of society based on what loud misandrist women tell them online. ”Well no, I don’t get catcalled, and no guy has ever threatened me for turning him down, but I’ve heard other women are, so I’ll absorb that as my life’s experience” 45% of Gen-Z men have never approached someone romantically and 15% of Gen-Z women have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:03 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:35 PM
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As you walk up and make eye contact the first time you give her a nod and a smile and a ”Hi”. Her heart will race… but then you don’t face her and you don’t keep talking, so she’ll sigh with relief. Stand next to her facing the same or opposite direction as her, e.g. get next to her at the bar but face the bar, or the dance floor, but not her. That way you’re barely speaking to her, you’re just speaking your mind, like the two of you are observing the world together, like you’re pals, a bit abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:27 PM
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I said ”learn things that would take thousands of hours of experience” not ”reading a book equals thousands of hour of experience” and that’s exactly what I meant. It might take me 1000 hours to learn how to cook the perfect steak if I had to go through solely personal trial and error, or I could just look up what a master chef says to do in 5 minutes Learning from people with more experience works for everything else, of course it works for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:56 PM
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No you don’t actually. The data is pretty clear: Gen-Z drinks less, socializes less and frequent bars less
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:52 PM
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That’s not the question, it’s would you rather a guy operated on you that read a 400 page book on the subject, or no book at all A man isn’t going to magically receive thousands of hours of experience just because he doesn’t buy the book. The question isn’t whether thousands of hours of in the field experience is better than a book. The question is whether a book is better than no book, and it obviously is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:46 PM
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But you understand that’s not the general sentiment being presented to young men in society right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:41 PM
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You seem decently level headed so let me ask you this: If it was true that the prevailing sentiment among women wasn’t that women dislike men approaching them and that men should only try to pick up women in bars (if even) then why have I never seen a woman stand up against that sentiment? Why aren’t you out there telling men that it is in fact okay, and berating women for making dating more difficult by scaring off all the guys who don’t want to impose on women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:38 PM
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It's the desire for consenting conversation, preferably in social spaces and social venues where women are safer and protected by social norms, bouncers, and generally social protocol. Except both men and women don’t go out much these days. You’re leaving a lot of ground uncovered if you’re only supposed to approach women in social venues because a lot of them don’t traffic them nowadays, and those that do, do it less than decades prior
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:33 PM
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• ⁠green light places: at a hobby or a social club, out at a club or bar, on a dating app You understand how this extremely narrow standard is making more people than ever end up alone tho, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:20 PM
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Each of the examples you’ve given of places that are safe to try and pick someone up from, other women will say are not okay, except for bars (if even)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:16 PM
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But women are shaming men who approach women. It’s never ”I personally don’t like it, but I understand why they do it and sooner or later he’ll probably find a woman that’s receptive” It’s ”OMG I’m so tired of these CREEPS!! Don’t they understand women just want to live their lives without men feeling entitled to their attention!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:14 PM
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If you need to pay some rando $30 for a bunch of platitudes you could learn for free on your own, you’re not going to make it, plain and simple. Lmao how poor are you that $30 is a problem for you? People who’s time is worth something gladly spend $30 to learn things that would take hundreds or thousands of hours to learn through experience
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:59 PM
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Did you have a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:55 PM
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You are catastrophizing. Just look at how you chose grammar that makes it an inevitability rather than something rare
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:35 AM
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Geez lady, maybe by going on a date and talking to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:26 AM
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Who said all men? The discussion is whether or not women were more likely to message people that were rated ugly or average, than men were, and the fact of the matter is that they didn’t. In fact even accounting for gender ratios men still send several times more messages to ugly and average people than women do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:25 AM
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The ratio of male to female messaging is higher than the ratio of males to females on the apps And the discussion is about messaging as it pertains to attractiveness. Even if you account for more males on the apps, men still messaged ugly and average women several times more than women messaged ugly and average men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:22 AM
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Because you can’t simultaneously complain about dating apps and then also not expand your options in the real world What does it matter if he’s not single or interested. A man will be flattered, he’ll be polite and he WON’T make instagram stories about ”ugh, women!” and how he’s not allowed to live his life because women feel entitled to him. You lost essentially nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:15 AM
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”You’ll die alone unless you do X” is absolutely a threat Now you can agree that this is the way it should be, just like I think that if you stink and don’t shower you should die alone, but I don’t pretend like it’s a choice because it’s not, and that’s the point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:10 AM
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That’s not what that term means It’s not a choice just like ”fuck me or I’ll leak your nudes” isn’t a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:01 AM
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I’m not saying it’s someone different, I don’t know who wrote what, I’m saying the blog misrepresented the messaging rates to make it look like women messaged average men more than they messaged attractive men, whereas this was corrected in the book Dataclysm that accurately showed that women message more attractive people at pretty much exactly the same rate as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:58 PM
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That’s not the discussion. It’s whether you have to do it. You’re agreeing that men have to do it, whereas the original comment is pretending like it’s merely a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:47 PM
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No. Dataclysm corrected the graph you’re referring to. The only reason it looked like women messaged men in what you call a bell curve is because originally the ”amount of messages” weren’t per person, it was per cohort. So imagine if 10 men were rated as average and received 1 message each, and 1 man was rated as above average and received 9 messages, the average men ”got more messages” The rates of men vs women alone would mean women are getting messages more. Do you have date to show anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:45 PM
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No. Saying ”you don’t have to do it, but if you don’t you’ll die alone” is not a choice any more than ”you don’t have to take a drug test, but if you don’t you’re fired” is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:36 PM
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What do you mean ”call the press.” Your first comment is literally you not grasping this concept Per Dataclysm men message the bottom 1 percentile of women more than women message average men The issue isn’t people shooting for the most attractive people, it’s people ONLY shooting for the most attractive people, and women as a group do that while men don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:29 PM
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So you’ve used what you claim is the less effective way of dating but you haven’t used the according to you MORE effective strategy of cold-DMing girls in your friends follower list Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:18 PM
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Have you ever used a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:13 PM
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Women don’t approach average looking men but they do approach top percentile men yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:12 PM
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Go DM a hot girl you’ve never met before from your friends follower list on instagram right now then if it’s such a great strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:11 PM
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Nah brah. If a woman is friends with a any attractive women she has plenty of Chads in her 2 degrees of separation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:56 PM
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Personality becomes more important for long term than personality is in short term, but looks is still more important for both scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:42 PM
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It’s a nice comfort blankie to wrap yourself in, but it’s a lie. And anyone who knows a really attractive narcissistic asshole knows that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:40 PM
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No what are YOU not understanding? Feminism isn’t freedom of choice. Feminists don’t look at men making more money and go ”well I guess men just choose to go into higher paying careers and work longer hours with less distraction” It’s an ideology that demands that every inequality between men and women is wiped away, and gladly completely disregard freedom of choice to do so And no, a woman doesn’t get to demand men pay for her and then act surprised when men have an incentive to get a higher pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:36 PM
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they simply want gender roles and expectations to stop harming anyone and let people choose Where did this lie come from that feminism is about letting people choose? People have been allowed to choose for at least 50 years and feminism is still going FEMINISM is the idea that any discrepancies between men and women in society is caused by sexism and sociology, unless of course the discrepancies favor women. Feminism is much like communism in the sense that they will forever claim that TRUE femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:27 PM
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That is how shit works. People don’t ”slip through the cracks”, you actively invite them in, actively choose to sleep with them. You can just choose not to do that Yes there is just one choice at a time if you’re dating with intention. Don’t date several people at a time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:20 PM
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No. A 99th percentile appearance man with a 10th percentile personality will have an exponentially easier time dating long term and even getting married than a 10th percentile appearance man with a 99th percentile personality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:16 PM
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Again, this is not the discussion. What we’re talking about are THE SAME WOMEN picking and choosing when gender roles are social constructs and when they are ”natural” based on how much it benefits them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:12 PM
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Lol freedom of choice? That has nothing to do with it. We’re talking about the hypocrisy of venerating and denigrating gender roles based on when it suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:01 PM
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People will always slip through the cracks This is you eschewing responsibility for your actions Choice paralysis is a thing Not if you’re dating one person at a time. Also an insane thing to say when the number one way people meet now is through dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:57 PM
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People will always slip through the cracks This is you eschewing responsibility for your actions Choice paralysis is a thing Not if you’re dating one person at a time. Also an insane thing to say when the number one way people meet now is through dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:57 PM
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In the same sense as the make example, no guy is giving the ugly, fat, awkward woman a chance either The body counts and dating app success of fat ugly awkward women would disagree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:53 PM
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If you only date men who approach you you’re filtering for men with low inhibition, not men who are head over heels in love with you Increasing the amount you need to filter is GOOD!! If you want to find gold you should sort through as much soil as possible!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:26 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:22 PM
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Nobody is claiming that it’s exclusively looks, but if you analyze men’s success with women then physical attractiveness is exponentially more important than personality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:21 PM
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That women never approach and expect average men to do everything is not incongruent with them chasing after and doing everything for top percentile men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:18 PM
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Feminists don’t all hand wave away any differences in men and women Yes they do?? Like at most they’ll admit that men are better suited for military work IF EVEN THAT Do feminists admit that there is a biological reason why men are more likely to achieve top positions in high performance careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:08 PM
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Is there a law that says that you have to sleep with a man you approach? Why wouldn’t you just wait as long as you would with a guy who approaches first And no most people are not doing just fine. Dating discourse wouldn’t be the massive topic that it is if people were doing just fine. Zoomers wouldn’t be projected to have below 50% marriage rates if people were doing just fine It feels like gaslighting how so many women both online and irl lament how difficult dating is and how suffering the lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:03 PM
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I don’t think feminism and the abolition of gender rules would preclude obvious realities like gender dimorphism, or some underlying biological truth Uh that’s literally the point of feminism: That any societal differences between men and women is solely because of sociology. Unless it’s something where women come out on top of course, then it’s because of women’s divine being and men’s neanderthal nature
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:44 PM
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He’s saying women in feminist subs believe in traditional dating roles as well, and he’s correct
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:37 PM
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Are you under the impression that women as a group are happy with their dating life? If this was true then marriage rate trajectories wouldn’t be what they are. It’s not working out for women either, so should they change their strategy as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:35 PM
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Not really. The majority of women do not approach men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:32 PM
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Saying that men don’t have to fill traditional gender roles, but agree that they’ll end up alone unless they do, is just a gaslighter’s way to say that men have to fill traditional gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:27 PM
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Yeah, that’s not a good society and we should work to change it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:46 AM
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What’s your source
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:09 AM
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Men are not more visual creatures, women are. That’s why men’s marketing is function based, and women’s marketing is ”look at all the cute colors it comes in!”
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:26 AM
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Yes, and he’s right and you’re wrong
/r/seduction28/03/25 08:24 AM
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You described the blue pill perfectly, but that’s not really what the red pill is about anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:10 AM
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Maybe 20 year old pick up artist forum red pill theory, but not contemporary red pill no
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:08 AM
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Instead of creating a life they want […] and then bringing a romantic partner into that Who’s feeding you people this line? Having a nice life for yourself doesn’t attract women and it doesn’t make romantic loneliness easier
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:43 AM
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”Only starving people center their entire lives about food”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:28 AM
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There are countless studies on the subject
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:14 PM
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That they want to get married but end up not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:11 PM
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And probably about 20% don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 09:02 PM
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The Dolan study has been retracted years ago by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:58 PM
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The Dolan study has been retracted because he majorly fucked it up fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:55 PM
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20% doesn’t sound that high to me, it’s probably similar to the amount of women who divorce a man if he loses his job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:28 PM
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I’m not an unsuccessful man? How is it unsubstantiated? Go ask an attractive man how dating is and then ask an unattractive man. The fact that you like an attractive man with a book rather than a barbell doesn’t change reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:04 PM
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Don’t get married that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:02 PM
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Don’t get married that is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:02 PM
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The majority of women still expect men to pay, even in Gen-Z
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:00 PM
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Lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:58 PM
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Only approaching the guys that have infinite options: What could go wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:48 PM
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But almost all women do want to get married, and were barreling towards a society where a majority don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:47 PM
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This is a major fallacy is women’s thinking, and completely unsubstantiated In reality it’s more like women are into a different 1% of the same 10% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:38 PM
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What’s up with this idea that we shouldn’t point out problems because ”So what?? Those people will fail!!” I don’t want them to fail, and I don’t want the men whom they could have been with to fail because women have absorbed bad dating practices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:33 PM
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I can only agree, I find it pitiful that most women still expect the man to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:28 PM
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From the New York Times, 2024: The researchers found that young men paid for all or most of the dates around 90 percent of the time, while women paid only about 2 percent (they split around 8 percent)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:47 PM
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But the discussion isn’t about whether men are allowed to quietly admire
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:36 PM
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Literally no statistic supports that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:27 PM
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But women say they do all that for themselves? What does men’s sexuality have to do with anything if women buy Victoria’s Secret for themselves, if cheerleaders are athletes and WAP is empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:24 PM
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You should care because marriage and relationship rates are in the gutter, and inflated superficial demands are undoubtedly a reason for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:07 PM
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There’s a pervasive problem on this sub and gender discussions in general: Comparing what women are allowed to get away with in polite society with what low class men that no one takes seriously say Normal white collar supposedly intelligent and good ”classy” women will repost the ”6’5, blue eyed, trust fund” song under their own name. Never seen an equivalent guy post some ”need a girl with big tits and fat ass” quote on their social media
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:59 PM
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From the New York Times, 2024: The researchers found that young men paid for all or most of the dates around 90 percent of the time, while women paid only about 2 percent (they split around 8 percent) I think paying for the entirety is an over-correction, just paying for your half is a nice way to signal that you’re there as an active interested participant rather than a prize to be won over through monetary exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:34 PM
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What do you mean ”Okay? And?” He’s getting the word out so these women don’t have to spend a decade wondering why the type of man they want have no interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:29 PM
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The vast majority of women expect men to pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:17 PM
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Every woman is a feminist until the check comes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:13 PM
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Which is why you of course only support abortion rights in the case of rape, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:07 PM
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So then you agree, women don’t need abortions for the same exact reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:06 AM
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Life is hell for you because you’re histrionic and neurotic, not because of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 04:56 PM
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Cool. Your singular experience does not negate something that just about every straight man agrees on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:14 AM
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Except it’s not. Women make it very clear that they have an issue with the preference in and of itself. It’s subject to mockery, denigration and demonization. Never when the genders are reversed tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:09 AM
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I work in finance. It’s all good looking rich guys in their 30’s. None are dating single mothers, or 35 year olds unless they started dating in their 20’s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:29 AM
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Not even in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:22 AM
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Lmao, you just proved my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 07:21 AM
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Oh yeah dude totally, good looking rich guys always go for 35 year old single moms, bullshit artist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 03:02 AM
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So did you just not read a single word I wrote or? There’s a reason you’re talking about the attractive mid thirties women you know, not the average ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:27 AM
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Be more predictable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:41 PM
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This is assuming that men and women have the same goals with dating. Men are perfectly happy to fuck a hot bitch one night and then move on. Women generally don’t see sex as the end goal itself and thus stick around with a handsome asshole The difference is also that an average young woman dating an asshole has a lot of other options, whereas an average young man dating a bitch might not. If you’re eating dog food at a buffé table I’m gonna think less of you than if you’re eating dog food at an …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:39 PM
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THE WALL is not that merely that women’s looks fade It’s that the majority of men of all ages find the majority of not fat, somewhat feminine, 20-something women physically attractive. Attractive enough to sleep with, to date and honestly yes even to marry By the time they get to around mid-thirties this is no longer true. By mid-thirties women’s physical attractiveness is tracking closer to their same aged males. And boy do they not like being treated as such…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:24 PM
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”Just go up and talk to her. Works every time!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:13 PM
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What I mean by women moralizing a man approaching them is what women in society at large has started doing these last few decades, displayed succinctly by the sentiments of the women in this sub: Reacting as if a man has done something morally wrong by trying to pick them up because they aren’t attracted to the man, whereas when they are attracted to the man what he did is good and lauded How can we tell men who are unsuccessful in dating that they need to approach more when what they face is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:11 PM
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The ick is the filter. He’s not interested in women who would find it icky to be expected to pay for their own meal… like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:16 PM
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The number of women who sour when asked to pay for their own meal is larger than the number of women who would outright reject any date that isn’t sufficient costly. That’s his point - it’s a better signal of how she views you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:12 PM
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It is a social expectation that when you are invited for food that the other will pay for you, no matter the gender This is so unbelievably not true and it’s only ever brought up when discussing heterosexual dating, and only ever to say that the man needs to pay. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:08 PM
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Nobody has ever claimed that women demonize cold approaching if the man is attractive If you pulled most of your girls from being a grocery stocker and your definition of a lot of rejection is dozens of times, then your experience is not what an average or below average looking guy would face The problem is that women moralize cold approaches and displayed interest in general based on how attractive they find a guy, not his actions or words. It’s untenable and it needs to change
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:01 PM
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If women genuinely were physically afraid of men they’d be more polite, not less
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:44 PM
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You’re not listening. The problem is the halo effect. What an unattractive man does will be seen as disgusting and immoral, what an attractive man does will be seen as confident and just. This moralization of behavior by how it’s received rather than its intention is the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:35 PM
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And your position is that women, especially women in this sub, don’t do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:21 PM
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Not being a 3rd worlder means you’re an incel? That’s a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:51 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with preferences Then why do women, especially women in this sub, constantly act in the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:30 PM
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Why would it be that there is not a single meme or fiction trope that supports your theory? If women experience this in dating as much as men do how come you’re the only one claiming so
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:29 PM
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In dating that is simply not true. ”It’s fine…” and ”Nothing…” are female catchphrases, as is expecting to be mind-read. ”You should KNOW what is wrong!!” is not male behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:03 PM
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If this very simple math doesn’t make sense to you then that’s what we call a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 07:55 PM
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Women are objectified in all sources of entertainment (social media, TV, news) expected to be a bang maid, purpose of a wife is to raise the mans kids and keep things and people clean tidy and fed. Of course also being available for sex whenever the husband wants. & being sexually reserved virgins (non-sluts) while also giving sex to undesirable bums (male loneliness pandemic) Please give some examples of these numerous modern TV shows purporting this message I cant go out alone before 7am or af…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:53 PM
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With all the data that support the view, how on earth can you claim that your dating life wasn’t significantly easier than your husbands, unless he’s much more attractive than you are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:23 PM
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Sucks to be you, but maybe you’re not who this sub is talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:20 PM
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Would you agree that 90% of women do not communicate like this while 90% of men indeed do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:17 PM
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But then you’re agreeing with OP: Women aren’t really interested in understanding men as much as a singular man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:15 PM
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Because women aren’t having a hard time dating, they have a hard time dating men out of their league Advice number 1-1000 for women would be ”you’re not the most attractive woman so stop going for the most attractive men”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:10 PM
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It’s not a particularly complicated arithmetic. If women were sleeping down and marrying up then the most attractive men would not have greater short term success with women than unattractive men, which they obviously do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:07 PM
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From my experience, the man the woman ends up marrying or dating long term is far more attractive than any man they hooked up with If this was true then the most attractive men would not have had sex with more women, and more attractive women, than unattractive men have, which I hope even you can admit is a ridiculous statement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:54 PM
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Because women deny this…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:51 PM
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This reads a lot like a guy who bagged one goth girl one time and thinks he knows game now lmao
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:56 AM
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This is a nice little story to tell yourself
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:49 AM
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You’re not being honest right now A man would be laughed at. He’d be clowned for the rest of the night for saying something like that And no, that would not happen to a woman and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:14 AM
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Well exactly like in my example If you’re at a pub with a big group of friends and a guy started saying that he’s so handsome, he’s a 10/10, an alpha who deserves only the hottest women - People would start laughing. It would be an inside joke for the rest of the night. The women would spread that story talking about how arrogant and conceited he is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:12 AM
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What OP is talking about is in real life, in polite society. He’s talking about our culture. Anonymous internet behavior is not indicative of our social standards in the real world. That’s like saying because some hitler avi in discord calls you the n-word that means that our culture supports people calling others racial slurs. It does not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:03 AM
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I find your comment to be contradictory to itself… Since we both agree that average women can sleep with well above average males - but not date/marry them: Then how would it make sense that women keep sleeping with these men when they know they’re never gonna get commitment from them I say the reason is because these women in fact have NOT internalized the difference between being hot enough to fuck and hot enough to date/marry. I say these women really DO think they’re 95th percentile and thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:58 AM
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Men don’t talk about women nearly as much as you people think, so most likely they wouldn’t say anything The women would gas her up and exactly 0% of them would laugh or call her out, whereas if it was a man calling himself a 10/10 they 100% would
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:52 AM
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I don’t think that’s true at all. I’ve never seen a woman face any kind of backlash for calling themselves 10/10, a queen, a goddess whereas a man who would say he’s a 10/10 alpha gets mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:50 AM
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It really doesn’t. You’re saying that if you’re at pub with a big group and a 50th percentile woman says that she’s a prize, she’s the table, she’s a 10/10 that people would burst out laughing? No. The women would yasss her louder and louder and the men would be silent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:35 AM
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But that’s not what we’re talking about, not what people mean when they say 10/10. People are talking about attractiveness as it relates to dating, specifically physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:28 AM
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I think it’s because he’s describing polite society while you’re thinking of the bowels of the internet Sure men will drag women for how they look - if they’re allowed to be anonymous He’s right tho that in polite society, 99% of women will rate themselves as 8+, probably a third of them would call themselves 10/10 and not even flinch and nobody would ever dare call them out on it. If a guy called himself a 10/10 in a social setting women would burst out laughing and it would become an inside jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:01 AM
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I highly disagree. If that was true you wouldn’t see women flock around the top percentile men. There needs to be some delusion for 50th percentile woman to think that a 95th percentile man will give her commitment rather than just pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:49 AM
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ok, show me these ridiculous amounts of unemployed men living in their car calling themselves “quality men”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:34 AM
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Show me these mass amounts of unemployed men living in their car calling themselves “quality men”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 07:29 AM
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this is would have some merit if women CHOSE to switch from alphas to betas they don’t. the alphas don’t want them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:43 PM
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the question is why do men love and find average or even below women attractive, but women don’t love or find average men physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:23 AM
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However, non of the data you are referring to mentions chad at all It does but you’re not looking. Men are increasingly more sexless, and fast. Women are not. That tells you there are men at the top who are getting more and more sex You also seem to discount the impact COVID has and still have on social gatherings This is a trend that began long before Covid That's not even accurate. You're basically stating all women react the same and deal with every situation the same Aaaw did I hurt your fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 10:39 AM
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I’d date a virgin, and have several times before
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:36 PM
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again: if the only thing she “got” from the other guy was tingles in her pussy, and that makes all the difference to her, then she’s a thot and should begone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:34 PM
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They have every right to not want to date a virgin If that’s really enough for you to cry that “women can’t win either way” then women really have it easier than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:07 PM
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The type of girl most likely to cheat is one with no self control around attractive guys You’re describing a slut If SHE WANTS to remain chaste but then breaks that rule once, she will break it again A slut breaks it every time she sleeps around If a girl actively chooses? No LMAO. This mental gymnastics would be funny if it wasn’t so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:05 PM
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It doesn’t mean it is hypocritical if she admits she changed and it’s just a coincidence that when she backslides every once in a while it’s with another Chad A man can make his own choice and choosing his opportunity to be with her now or not. Up to him. If she’s really improved herself it’s his loss Lol, yeah I’m sure he’s crying himself to sleep that he didn’t marry the slut who isn’t genuinely attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:03 PM
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a woman who fucks any man who turns her on is not a good partner, stay away from such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:00 PM
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Good for them getting their shit together, still doesn’t mean any man should ever put up with their hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:56 PM
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You said men shouldn’t try to sleep with women early on, but accept that those same women do it instantly with other men. I’m saying why the hell would a man put himself through that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:55 PM
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Nope, men don’t care. They might not be interested enough to want to wait but they don’t harbor any animosity to virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:54 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:49 PM
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No. I want a girl who loves sex who has it with her partners quickly not because she can't control it but because she wants to... you know... have sex with guys she finds attractive and that type of woman is the most likely to cheat, bar none
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:48 PM
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strawmanning men don’t have any ill will towards a woman who wants to wait if she has lived a chaste life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:42 PM
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they’re lying women sleep with men they wish they could date. any rationalization after the fact is just sour grapes. “oh he was just a fun fling, he’s not bf material”… nope, he rejected you, you were pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:19 PM
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she didn’t have self control for all the more attractive guys that came before OP tho
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:13 PM
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a woman who makes you wait when other men didn’t have to is not worth your time that kind of hypocrisy is unattractive and unsuitable for a partner now if she has actually lived a chaste life before you I don’t see an issue with it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:08 PM
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a woman who sleeps with other men on the first date, but makes you wait, does not think you’re the greatest thing on the planet. in fact she doesn’t even think you’re the greatest of the men she’s dated
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:03 PM
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you’re operating under the assumption that men and women are the same. they are not men fuck women they have zero interest in. women do not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:00 PM
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hey, I support someone getting off heroin doesn’t mean i’m ever gonna marry an ex-junkie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:58 PM
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why would a man ever choose a woman who sleeps with other men right away, but not him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:53 PM
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I’m in a relationship so I’m not a prospect for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:05 AM
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The data supporting this is data about sexlessness, dating habits, psychology, mating discrepancies etc. It might be 3-5 women at a time, but he can tie up 15 women at any given time bc of the lead up, fade out stages. A man like that can fuck a woman for a month but keep her monogamous for another 6 months bc she won’t give up on him, bc he’s better than her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:02 AM
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Studies on sexlessness, dating, depression, SSRI-use all show that I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:26 AM
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“Yikes! you don’t think women are perfect angels, what are you a misogynist???”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:03 PM
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No you’re just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:02 PM
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“Source?? SOURCEEE???” and how exactly are you expecting that a study would study something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:01 PM
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You said: Unsuccessful “loser” males need to believe false claims that all women are just as miserable as them and are all being relentlessly used by “Chad”. They desperately cling onto revenge fantasies unlike normal well adjusted men who aren’t losers I’m saying you’re wrong. There are massive amounts of women who are being used and who are miserable because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:25 PM
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when men fight for custody, they are likely to get it. At least 50/50, and often full custody. that’s complete horseshit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:40 PM
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Yeah then a huge number of women are idiots, what’s your point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:29 PM
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Sigh, aren’t you people tired of being so fucking predictable? Oh I tell you some uncomfortable truths? “THEN YOU’RE AN INCEL!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:28 PM
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Horseshit and misinformed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:26 PM
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I just explained it to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:25 PM
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Because money isn’t the only thing that’s attractive to women? LMAO what are you dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:21 PM
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SHE is not in it solely for casual sex. SHE is hoping that their tryst will turn into something more Who here but you is harping about relationships? She’s committed to him, he’s not committed to her. Tale as old as fucking tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:20 PM
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I think what we need to do is stop with the bullshit of treating women like they’re all princesses and explain to them that the hot guy is never gonna marry them. We need to bring back a culture of shame and pity where we all wince when a woman giddily says that she’s been pursuing Chad out of her league. Women need to be scolded into correction because rn they’re spending a decade thinking they’re playing in a league when they’re just there for target practice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:18 PM
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Not really. You’re saying that women being used by Chads isn’t happening, I’m saying it absolutely is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:15 PM
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Why??? Just to win an argument? What is functionally the difference between women being unavailable or being in a relationship for the men to whom they’re unavailable to??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:43 PM
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Alpha widowed women 100% are causing huge amounts of men to end up alone. Entering a bitter marriage with one isn’t better either so why are you defending that? No one here is saying that every man deserves whatever woman he wants, it’s a strawman it’s not a genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:42 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:34 PM
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if a woman is having sex with multiple "Chads", those "Chads" are her harem, right? They aren’t. Women don’t tend to sleep with several guys at the same time, they’re most often serial monogamized Do you think that the average woman is so selective that she only has a single digit N-count brcause very few "Chads" are up to her standards? I don’t think a 50th percentile woman that’s entering her 30s has a single digit n-count anymore Because women cannot be both incredibly promiscuous and incredi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:34 PM
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Why? Higher number of connections, higher quality, higher frequency and higher retention rate all come from lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:34 PM
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nobody says it, they act on it no woman goes “sorry i’m not interested, i’m just holding out for a guy way out of my league” they just don’t engage with the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:30 PM
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Women giving sex to men they’re hoping to enter relationships with is not an online phenomenon, it’s reality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:28 PM
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We're saying the same thing lmao So you’re saying a woman who’s getting nothing but sex is having “dating options”? Right. So are you going to cry about it or get into that top 20%? I am in the top 20% but I don’t feel the need to go online and cuck for women like you do
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:16 PM
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Statistics from dating apps confirm my world view Statistics on sexlessness confirm my world view Statistics on dating habits confirm my world view Reading how women speak about average men online confirms my world view Speaking and observing my friend’s dating life confirms my world view Dating confirms my world view Maybe if everything point to one thing being the answer it’s not because of bias it’s because it’s the fucking truth?? Now what do you have, except a princess complex and a tingly …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:13 PM
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Never said they would. Just saying they have more options for dating. They just falsely believe a lot of those guys would be interested in an LTR with them No they don’t. Women get fuckzoned, they’re not entering ltr or marriages with these men It only becomes a man's problem if he's an unattractive loser who spends his time whining on reddit instead of working on himself No it’s actually every man’s problem outside of the top 20% of males by SMV
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:07 PM
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All my views are informed by being out socializing and being active in the dating scene and having a large network of diverse people around my age Your views are informed by whatever makes women sound like the most angelic little snowflakes who only care abt personality 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:04 PM
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He's not destined to be with that one woman and ONLY that woman Who said he is? There are plenty of other women all with different preferences and criteria Actually there isn’t. If 10-20% of women get alpha widowed and are perpetually dissatisfied with their peers then that means 10-20% of men end up alone too Or do you think he should be entitled to whatever women he wants and if he doesn't meet her standards she's to blame? This is you people’s go to strawman. Please educate yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:59 PM
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They in fact do have more options which is why they're getting with the Chads in the first place Wrong. A 5 isn’t going to enter a LTR or marriage with Chad The fact that they keep going back to them is a different issue entirely, but that's their problem, not ours Nope. Same issue, and it becomes men’s problem too. It’s why women have such an inflated sense of self nowadays. They think their peers are the studs they fuck The best thing you can do is make yourself attractive to them so you can b…
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:55 PM
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Most women are monogamous and typically only date one person at a time Yeah but the guys they date aren’t They're not going around taking turns of the same guy like some sister wives shit Yes they are. Most women have sex long before it’s been stated to be an exclusive relationship If most women are dating someone at the same time, that means the men are too Nope. A good roster of 1000 Chads in a big city can keep 15,000 women busy, tied up, off the market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:52 PM
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your little lived experience is nothing compared to easily observable society sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:43 PM
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so you agree that physical attractiveness is the only thing that really matters to woman then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:42 PM
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money is attractive to women. him being attractive to women means he deserves a more attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:40 PM
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The gender ratio thing is a myth. When you break down the stats the surplus females in NY it’s all older women. For people in their 20’s there’s still more male singles than female singles and by quite a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:32 PM
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They aren’t. Literally nobody complains that a 90th percentile woman is looking for a 90th percentile man The issue is that a fucking 30th percentile woman will demand a 90th percentile man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:27 PM
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Bang on, brother
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:26 PM
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It’s extremely common and you’re not gonna gaslight people into thinking it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:03 PM
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If most women are taken that means most men are taken No it doesn’t. There’s a huge number of women who spend their 20’s playing musical chairs on a small number of high value males. This means that there’s a huge number of men at the bottom who get nothing Men here will say the women that aren’t taken are bottom of the barrel, lacking something, etc. No we don’t. What we say is that women have issues entering relationships because of an inflated sense of self worth because of the musical chairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:17 AM
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yes but for every woman that ends up alone because she’s a dummy with an inflated sense of self, there’s a man who’s done nothing wrong who also ends up alone. THAT’S the whole problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:07 AM
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why does it matter if she considers it a relationship or not? she’s still off the market
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:05 AM
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the lie isn’t “hey i’m in a 100% committed exclusive relationship with you” the lie is “i just love spending time with you” “we should totally go on vacation together sometime” “i can’t wait til you meet my cousin” “we’d have such cute kids together” it’s letting the girl’s imagination run wild and never correcting her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:57 AM
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men don’t give a fuck, we’re not like women who say shit like “ugh he held his fork in his right hand, that’s an ick and a red flag eww 😷” we don’t play with your little rules
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:53 AM
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Cringe 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:51 AM
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You’re just moving goalposts around til your point is completely irrelevant. Who cares if they’re necessarily in a committed monogamous relationship. A woman pining for Chad while she throws him crumbs of affection once a week is still for all intents and purposes taken
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:49 AM
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It’s the “Chad, what are we” “nah babe let’s not put labels on anything rn” dynamic. Y’all can pretend it doesn’t exist and isn’t extremely prevalent in modern dating, but we all know you’re lying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:45 AM
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This isn't what "harem" means. Harem is exclusive Nope Anyone who is exclusively sleeping with someone who isn't exclusively sleeping with them is an idiot Spicy take on women.. and most women have more self-respect that that LOL! You sure about that? Maybe look outside for once Women cannot be in "harems" and also racking up triple digit N counts like you guys think they are Strawmanning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:38 AM
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I don’t think anyone who has a guy they sleep with once every week or couple of weeks would actually consider herself in a relationship Doesn’t matter. These women are still holding out for him changing his mind, still operating under the assumption that he will
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:35 AM
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While its absolutely true that some men have a roster of women they casually have sex with, majority of these women who are just having casual sex would not consider Chad their “boyfriend”, as you said That’s irrelevant. Those women are still trying, hoping and believing that they will enter a relationship with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:33 AM
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Girls in fact do not have more options for long term dating or marriage, all they’re getting is fuckzoned by a Chad that has zero intention of committing to them, leaving them bitter and with an inflated sense of value “well I fucked Chad, that means I’m at least an 8!”
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:56 AM
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She did say they were all super cocky which she didnt like which is why she kept going out with that exact same archetype of man over and over
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:52 AM
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This is because they fit the minimum threshold of more women Nope, it’s because they are very attractive If a man’s goal is to only have lots of sex with one woman, though, then he only needs to meet her particular minimum bar of he can manage to attract her in other ways Not if there’s a more attractive man around Some like Adam Driver. Some like Ed Sheeran. I can post questionably handsome celebrities, too, that have other traits that make them more attractive than their face You’re absolutely…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 04:58 PM
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They are just leaving out the part about physical attraction also being important because [EDIT] they want to make themselves sound better All of the other things are in addition to being physically attractive once that minimum bar is met This minimum bar is largely a cop out. The men who do the best with women are the ones who are very physically attractive. We can all observe it. It’s gaslighting to pretend that’s not how the world works (which differs from woman to woman) Oh yeah, some women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:39 AM
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Why? Leagues are arbitrary things. One woman’s dream guy could well be another one’s average Joe - and vice versa with men. Who decides the criteria for each league? Not how it works in the real world. Are Mr. Bean and Brad Pitt in the same league? Do you believe that only people within the same league can be attracted to each other and love each other? Anything can happen, but if you don’t wanna get pumped and dumped then don’t pursue men who are out of your league, you’re setting yourself up f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 12:07 PM
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Why wouldn’t they? The women happily give it up with no commitment. Women have agency do they not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:43 AM
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lol, good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 11:38 AM
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In college there was a guy who I knew through others that was the biggest misogynist ever, and would slut shame women after every hookup. Women would talk about it constantly, many would say sex with him was bad even. And yet, every single weekend he would be getting laid, sometimes by friends of those same women he slut-shamed and that talked shit about him. He was tall and attractive looking But…but… I’ve been told by women on PPD that the only thing that matters is personality… I’ve been told…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:31 PM
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Chad is simply the guys getting the most pussy. Lying is indeed Chad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:26 PM
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All of this can be solved by women not handing out coochie to men that are out of their league. But for them to do that we first need to be honest with women what their, and the men they’re attracted to’s leagues actually are. All women over-rate themselves, and under-rate men. They need a forced recalibration or else this issue is never gonna be solved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:20 PM
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both those issues stem from the same behavior: women having sex too soon with more attractive men if women didn’t hand it out so frivolously then lower value males would actually have more sex than they do now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:16 PM
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there is no "cure all" for getting female attention it’s called being handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:03 PM
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It’s like a Pavlovian thing with women. Ask them what they’re looking for in a man, and more often than not they’ll tell you, “Somebody who makes me laugh.” But I’m here to tell you, as a man who has made his living in comedy for more than three decades, that women are full of shit Based and Redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 10:52 AM
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quite a few of the people who complain in here about not having success with women are also quite mysoginistic. Not surprising women don't find them interesting if they notice that hatred inside them Then how come I’ve never had any problems getting women? What you’re “noticing” is the guy’s unattractive exterior, but since I’m handsome weirdly enough none of you ever ”notice” my deep seated misogyny As a woman (and it's the same for all the women I know) the really decisive features that define…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:29 AM
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you don’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 06:16 AM
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God what a lame rambling nonsense comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:43 AM
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why don’t you go do you “akshually im bisexual tihi” schtick to your onlyfans simps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:21 PM
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You’re cringe! You lie rather than admit you’re wrong. Plus you’re double cringe because you think being a “bisexual tihi” makes you not like other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:26 PM
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No you haven’t. You’re doing the same thing as all other women on this sub when we point out that you don’t really know much about how other women are in bed: lie rather than admit that you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:34 PM
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Oh I don’t doubt that you’re another super unique “bisexual tihi” like all other women your generation, but you have never slept with a female virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:20 AM
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No actually I’m 100% right and you’re lying to try to win an internet argument, like so many other women on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:48 AM
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No actually I’m not. You have slept with zero female virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:08 AM
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I know you haven’t because that’s the same response all women on this sub pull when I call out the fact that they have no idea what they’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:26 PM
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But you don’t know what you’re talking about! You have never fucked a virgin woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:12 PM
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That’s the opposite of what I wrote
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:00 PM
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No, women aren’t actually settling, they just believe they are settling because they have an inflated sense of worth after fucking men out of their league their whole life Men do not fuck women out of their league their entire 20’s so men have a pretty good handle on where they lay in the dating market. That’s why men aren’t as resentful and don’t divorce as easily as women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:55 PM
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Women don’t think in those terms but act on them unconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:25 PM
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Most women cum in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:19 PM
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Most men don't like their women to be a whore. Yes, but a lot guys want their women to act like one for them behind closed doors. Yes, and? What’s the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:12 PM
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The discussion isn’t about whether women want wild sex or not, it’s about why they do wild stuff like “anal, deep throating, choking, and all that nasty porn film shit” with ONS and FWB and then prude up with their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:04 PM
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I don’t really get your logic here… Men aren’t running around getting pegged or femdom during casual sex either… And the reason men don’t do MMF with their girlfriends is Because men don’t generally do that at all, and would never Because they know that getting spit roasted is complete degradation and both men in a threesome look down on that woman forever after + it’s also sharing someone that you really don’t want to share Why would any man want to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 02:02 PM
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People are allowed to do whatever they want, but being the person that takes advantage of that liberty means you’re a shitty person and you should 100% be shamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:53 PM
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You think men find sexual openness unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:24 PM
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What you’re describing is lowered standard, not two different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:50 PM
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Nah men don’t dislike promiscuous women because of comparison. We just find it disgusting and an unsuitable trait for LTR But it’s not the sexual openness that we find unattractive, it’s solely the sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:49 PM
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no, these aren’t just ONS, they’re people I know well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:12 PM
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Because it’s not grounded in reality! There’s no correlation between a woman who dresses slutty or has a high body count and being great in bed! Female sexual prowess isn’t about technique it’s about willingness, and sluts are more likely to just think about themselves and their orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:21 AM
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See but you’re wrong tho. I’ve slept with multiple virgins, and if anything they’re better in bed (after the first few times trying to get the hang of it) because their psychology is better suited for great sex than a th*t’s. Promiscuous women are slaves to their own dopamine, they’re much more selfish in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:18 AM
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Women file the papers most of the time within the 40% of marriages that fail. This does not mean they filed those papers with no knowledge of the husband. In any way. Floundering The divorce rate for educated people is 30%. So? Women are attracted to their husbands. Most probably are, but almost all also have guys in their history that they were more attracted to, and you better believe that a lot of women think they’re higher value than their husband and kind of settled Half end in divorce, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:16 AM
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Women have shitty casual sex yes, because it’s largely a tool to get approval from high value men and a shot at landing one of them. No one is doubting that a woman will have more orgasms in a relationship, but sexual adventurousness is reserved for the most attractive men she ever meets. And no one is more attractive to a woman than a man that she fucks on the first date, or let’s sleep with her continuously with zero commitment. A man like that gets the full menu whenever he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 10:04 AM
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Not every marriage, but half end in divorce and the vast majority are initiated by women. That’s not nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:56 AM
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Nah, men like sexually adventurous women, we just don’t like high body counts and a huge sexual past The men you dated were probably more unsatisfied with the frequency of sex and had below average libido
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:53 AM
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I’m sorry but it doesn’t work like that. The only reason why a guy would care if shes fucked other dudes is if he’s worried that by comparison, his own sexual performance doesn’t match the performance of the guy who had sex with her before him and therefore feels insecure Lol this is just laughably wrong. It’s obviously wrong because men don’t really care if a ONS has fucked around a lot, so if it’s comparison why wouldn’t they care for that? It’s about disgust and suitability for LTR. We find i…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:50 AM
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If you meet a new girl and she's a pornstar in bed then she's probably very sexually experienced Wrong. No correlation. In fact I’d say it’s more of an inverse correlation. Women who have a lot of casual sex are slaves to their own dopamine. They’re more likely to be selfish lovers because they are subservient to their own tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:46 AM
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You don’t need to dress slutty or have casual sex with a high number of different men to be wild in bed with your SO Why is this difficult to grasp for women. It’s like the one thing high n-count women get to cling onto, ”at least i’ll be good in bed!!!” Nah sweetie, it doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:43 AM
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The two things aren’t related at all I’ve fucked virgins, I’ve fucked 99th percentile thots. There’s no correlation between experience and sexual performance in women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:41 AM
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Women use sexual submission, adventurousness and openness as tools to get a higher value man, which makes total sense and I have no issue with. The problem is that the most high value man to a woman is de facto the one that she tries to sleep with instantly, or that she lets fuck her with no commitment, and men who arouse that behavior in women already has a stable of other women and prospects, so the chance that he’ll choose her of all of them is very slim So the woman will do this little dance…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:19 AM
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I don’t understand your logic. A guy would obviously rather date a slut that’s a slut for him too, than a slut that’s a prude for him… Her turning off the tap once she settles down doesn’t un-notch her belt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:11 AM
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Cap. Women give their sexual best to the men they’re most attracted to. Women try to marry the exact same type of man (they just can’t and rationalize it as him not being marriage material)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 09:00 AM
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They use men they don't care about for sex; but they fear looking like a slut to men they truly like This is cap and hamstering. The reality is that the 3rd example of women is the same as the 2nd example of women, who just didn’t manage to snag the alpha that they were trying to fuck into a relationship. This idea that women pick some guys for sex and some guys for relationships is pure hamstering. Women want exactly the same type for either, the guy they “chose” for a relationship is just the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:56 AM
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Unfortunately what you wrote is absolutely true. If a girl is so attracted to you, think you’re so high value and dominant that she fucks you the first time you meet, or let’s you have no-strings no emotion sex with her whenever you want, she’s gonna let you do facials, anal, threesomes, whatever she can do to try to make you happy enough that you end up giving her commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:51 AM
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I’ve been with virgins and I’ve been with th*ts. I can tell you there is no gain of quality that comes with female experience. Wanting to fulfill him sexually and giving in to his tastes is the only thing that really matters. The technique stuff you’ll learn in 5 times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:45 AM
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LOL so Chads only get casual sex from Pick Me’s, Criminal Women and Minors?? Why don’t you actually look at the demographics of casual sex havers… It’s the same type of sex positive liberal feminist women as the ones who lurk around here. You don’t get to blame your gender’s poor actions on some nebulous “Pick-Me” trope whose definition and attributes are completely contradictory. It’s y’all that fuck Chad on the second date, not little conservative submissive women trying to get a husband E-tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:32 AM
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Lol you had me in the first half ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:24 AM
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”Using people is cool actually!”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:23 AM
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It sounds a lot like you people have made up this psychology of a pick me. I don’t see any evidence out in the real world that submissiveness and partner hopping go hand in hand In fact the women who are most likely to cheat or leave for another man are the ones who come in with a laundry list of requirements, the ones harping about equality. I think you’re ascribing the negative traits of your own ilk to women who ruin your little pity party
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:20 AM
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…those statements aren’t contradictory, in fact they fit together perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:05 AM
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What percentage of men do you think ever engage in rape? You think you made a good argument there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:44 AM
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Men don’t fuck women they don’t find attractive, men just find more women attractive than women do men. Men are less shallow in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:50 AM
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Again, with how many women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:21 AM
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No I mean that your one anecdote of a guy who we don’t even know if he struggled or not is completely irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:11 AM
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So he’s not really a very important data point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:55 AM
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That’s not really the question at hand… if he didn’t fuck a lot of women who’s to say it wasn’t difficult for him to land your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:48 AM
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and he fucked your entire friend group?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:09 AM
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Not really… He won’t pull anything extraordinary, but he’ll do alright as long as his personality/charisma is average
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:20 PM
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I don’t really put much weight into social studies, at least not ones asking participants what they think, so no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:27 PM
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do you think 20% of men on earth equals 3 million men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:04 AM
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Social science is plagued with bad science. The study you linked is one of them The replication crisis is real
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:42 AM
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we don’t actually have any natural instincts Humans don’t even genuinely ‘evolve’ anymore, either incredible logic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:21 AM
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No he marked you down pretty fucking accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:18 AM
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I refuse to believe things that I can observe in reality are patently false, you should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:28 PM
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No, the “I love he for her brain” people are corny losers trying to capitalize on sounding deep. They don’t actually love them for their brain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:19 PM
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So you disagree women don’t place heavy importance on financial stability and importance on height, and men don’t place heavy importance on looks for short term partners? I think they place an even bigger importance on it than they reported. Height for example only scored a 4 I believe? Again, it’s about choosing the “good” option over the true option And again, you’re just saying it’s not true because you disagree with it No… Things can be true regardless of whether this study says they are or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:09 PM
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The female part had 60,000 participants so I think it definitely is better, but it has the same problem of people not being honest. People constantly answer more “good” than true in these things. Ask people how much money they give to charity in a study and then cross reference that with actual charity contributions, which number do you think is higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:48 PM
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They weren’t all rated top level importance; they gave the percentages. All the non-bigoted attributes were in fact rated the top level of importance. It’s right there in the text Yes, it included all other men. It doesn’t take away the study. Straight men are still included, and it’s still a minuscule percentage that rates education as not important Okay, how many were straight? That’s exactly what I can say to you too. That’s why anecdotes aren’t accurate. Because in my experience, education i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:24 PM
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I would’ve thought you read at least that part earlier when I first sent it since it’s directly related to that part of the study, but you must’ve just dismissed it right away. Anyway wdym? Uhhhh… what? So if I rank kindness, financial stability, intelligence, supportiveness for my partner as all very important… it can’t be true because they all can’t be important? Yes! If every answer that isn’t directly bigoted is rated as the top level of importance then the scale of rating is flawed You thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:07 PM
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No other variable was very drastic like that Yeah well that’s the problem… It’s easy to mark something as very important when the truly most important traits aren’t there In fact the more I read about this study the worse it seems: Desired characteristics: Kindness, supportiveness, intelligence, education, and ambition, were considered very important by most men (the most frequently selected rating for all was 6. 85.5%, 84.4%, 72.2%, 58.0%, and 55.6% ranked each respective trait as very importan…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:36 AM
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It was still mentioned in other parts of the survey, like rating how important body is for a short term relationship. It’s a very big stretch to say, “Well, they were probably just afraid to say the truth.” Actually the looks part of the study is also dubious. Why would men rank average breasts higher than large breasts when just observing male behavior and preferences tells us that’s not true? That makes zero sense. Even if it was rated lower, it wouldn’t change the fact education is still rate…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:16 AM
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Yet, they feel comfortable saying how important a woman’s looks is to them? Except there were no mention of looks in that graph. In fact that’s a pretty big hole in the study… If looks, youth, same opinion on having children etc. was one of the options, where does education rank then It’s more so he wouldn’t really consider her in the first place. […] Dudes who come from the really upper class prefer someone from the same background This is applying female values to male sexuality. It doesn’t wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:22 AM
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So I have NO CLUE why so many men claim education isn’t important to them. Men on reddit, anyway Idk, maybe it’s because that’s how we really feel and reddit is anonymous. I mean are you really sitting here thinking that a man will go “I met this great girl, she’s hot and great personality- wait… I just found out she didn’t go to college… oh well, can’t date her now” It’s not real. If I tell a friend of mine that I’ve got a girl for him, ‘where did she go to school’ won’t be one of the questions…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:28 AM
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Money doesn’t attract anyone you’d want to attract This is a very naive way of looking at dating. There isn’t a single woman who isn’t attracted to wealth in some way
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:18 AM
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Selection bias. More educated men are more likely to interact with more educated women A female receptionist is just as likely to start dating a high value guy at her company as a female engineer at that same company would
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:12 AM
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Moving goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:31 PM
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Can't blame the women for thinking these self-centered men are self-centered Uhm… you were just arguing that’s how men should act… Why.. are these men getting married if they don't wanna do the things being married usually means? Being married usually means the man works more and brings in more money and the woman does more of the housework, so yes in that sense I agree with you And I don't consider these money "my money", it's ours. It goes to frivolities for the both of us, lol Yeah, and then …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 04:26 PM
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It's not a claim, it's literally a solution to your argument that men "contribute more to the household". Then contribute equally then That is a claim… to say that men could just do that If every woman you're dating is a gold digger, you might wanna take a look at what you're doing If wanting their husband to contribute more money to the household funds since he makes more money, rather than just hoarding it for his own frivolities makes someone a gold digger then every woman is a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:48 PM
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What’s the source for your claim, that men could just step down to 50/50 If you have more going for you than a Lamborghini, your only choices aren't gold diggers. 🤷‍♂️ Okay, what does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:32 PM
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He can lower his quality of living to reflect 50/50 contribution if he wants, yet funnily enough most don't Yeah because no woman would accept that Seems men like living in better neighborhoods, fancier vacations, better food, fancier toys Women enjoy that way more than men. No man has ever fucked a woman solely because she drives a lamborghini. Can’t say the same for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:24 PM
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expecting the other to be a free maid just because their salaries are different It’s not because the salaries are different it’s because the man contributes more money to the household. If they keep separate bank accounts and share equally for rent and groceries or w.e. then yeah sure, house work can be split
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:14 PM
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normal couples tend to only spend their own money Wrong! Men contribute way more to the household budget
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:12 PM
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The benefit is that he's better paid This would make sense if the man doesn’t contribute more to the household budget, but they do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 03:11 PM
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Okay so go out on the street, ask men if they prefer their wife slept with less than 5 men or more than 50 What percentage of men do you think chose the 5
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:50 PM
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Yes. Adriana Lima held onto her virginity for 27 years, who did she marry? A tall handsome NBA player who’d slept with a looot of women But sure they’re celebrities so maybe it doesn’t count, but just anecdotally all my friends with high body counts like 60+ who have settled down did so with gorgeous high level women with low body counts I’d wager if you did a study on the partners of women in the 99th percentile of attractiveness their partners probably average in at least the 90th percentile R…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:48 PM
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I don’t fantasize about eating candy dude! I see hot women all the time but I don’t fantasize about fucking them!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:25 PM
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Yeah but men don’t marry women they don’t find attractive and then use that as a justification to cheat on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:22 PM
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99% of men prefer a non-promiscuous woman The same can not be said about women and is easily observable in society. The men who land top women are almost always men who have slept with a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:18 PM
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If it truly was gross to women when a man has slept around then why do the most high value women pair up with men who have very high body counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:07 PM
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it’s gross but it’s true per the polygraph studies you gotta multiply any number they give you by 1.9
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:04 PM
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Virgin wife lands you at an 80% chance of a stable marriage Plus I don’t think a lot of guys here are suggesting men go for a 20 year gap lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:55 PM
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Good so you agree, women are extremely shallow and jump at a chance at infidelity with a more attractive man as soon as they can
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:42 PM
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So I guess you have no problem with your husband sitting around fantasizing about fucking the neighbors daughter then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:38 PM
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Most people do drink alcohol… And I’ve never once fantasized about alcohol, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:36 PM
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So you’d have no problem dating a man who fantasies about fucking children then right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:33 PM
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It’s absolutely pathetic to pretend like it’s unique when 99% of people put any given person in the same bucket as 99% of other people do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:30 PM
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Female nature. Any downturn in the relationship counts as a breach of contract to them and that means they have no problems cheating. It happens fast too, like just a few weeks is enough “For better or worse” means nothing to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:26 PM
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This is just splitting hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:22 PM
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It’s 100% in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:16 AM
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It’s insane to watch women gaslight us in real time, as if the “just focus on getting friends” argument isn’t thrown around here several times every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 AM
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It’s not “a few”, it’s the consensus opinion among young women, and it’s not like they’ll be quiet about it. Having rumors spread about you either through word of mouth or online canceling is a death sentence for a man’s love life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:42 AM
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This is purely women on PPD being delusional to what people’s preferences and behaviors actually look like The vast majority of women work fewer hours, and make less money than men and wouldn’t have it any other way. If women have a choice between spending more time at work or with their children/in the home, 90% of them chose the latter, and who can blame them But someone needs to pick up that slack economically and it falls on the man, who coincidentally also wouldn’t have it any other way Bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:26 PM
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We don’t care about your careers but the rest is false Men don’t care about a woman’s ability to do anything?? Every guy says they want a girl who can cook, it’s so universally understood that we don’t even need to mention it Don’t confuse men not caring for a certain personality with not caring about personality at all. No man would marry a loud mouthed feminist harpy just because she fucks a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 06:15 PM
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This is preposterous. Men spend hours every week here describing what they want from women and what they don’t want from women and guess what: it’s not just paragraphs on paragraphs describing their tits Nobody, literally no man has said they only value women for sex. If we did we’d all use prostitutes. What men are saying is that most modern women bring nothing to the table but sex. Men still greatly value other qualities, and women who exude them are highly prized and get snatched up immediate…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:38 AM
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Nobody has ever said that we don’t care about women’s personalities stop capping We don’t care about your height, wealth, education or career which are completely superficial things that women actually DO care about and put a lot of stock in Men don’t say they only care about sex, they say that most modern women bring very little else to the table than sex. We’d LOVE to meet someone who did, shit that’s wifey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:32 AM
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You picked a guy 6 inches taller than you. Wow, you’re mother Teresa
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:29 AM
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Do you not understand what women’s selection of superficial dating standards have to do with men’s superficial dating standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:26 AM
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you have such a bad attitude he’s not surprised you’re struggling with dating. Women can feel it when you have a bad attitude towards them, and it’s a huge turn-off Lmao no they can’t. I’ve never had any problems getting women and I ooze misogyny But honestly as long as you really think women are all self-entitled delusional crazy bitches you’re not going to attract them, period WRONG! Women don’t give a shit as long as you give them tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:24 AM
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That’s completely false. Men in this sub and at large keep describing what they want in a partner and you people keep ignoring it. And guess what it’s not a list that just goes Sex, Sex, Sex, over and over At most what men are saying is that most modern women have no relationship qualities anymore, i.e. the only thing they can bring to the table is sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:15 AM
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Just B Someone Else
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:25 PM
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Lol a lot of people have a lot of opinions here but missing the obvious answer: They met in college
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:09 PM
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Just B Yourself
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:06 PM
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Yeah, that’s why we’re making fun of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:04 PM
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There are a lot of non-western people in western countries that do exactly that. And a few westerners as wel
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:32 AM
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For women a high body count is purely negative, because there’s no correlation between attractiveness and body count. An ugly woman has just as easy of a time to be a sl*t as a 10/10, in fact an ugly woman has more incentive to sleep around For men a high body count might be seen as improper BUT it’s always instantly balanced by the intrigue of “if he’s slept with that many women then at least that many women have found him attractive enough to sleep with”. And that works in his favor Then there…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:13 AM
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I kind of prioritize body over face so I’ve definitely hooked up with girls I find kinda ugly, but that had big tits, great ass etc. Most of the time it’s good because the body is hella more important than face for sex When it comes to dating I’d say all of them have been in my league, but I’m more handsome than all but one of them, but all of them had better bodies than me. Taking both body and face into account I’d say we were equal, except one girl who was a lot more attractive than me I’d sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:57 AM
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And what kinds of answers are they giving? All kinds. Cooking classes, dancing, hobbies, parks, libraries Where are they saying they hang out in large groups with other women who do not drink with the intention of meeting men? Moving goalposts, nobody said that’s the requirement Again, 30% of Americans is very broad. Tell me what the % of young eligible ladies don't drink... And if I had that statistic you’d say “oh well we don’t know how many of these are actually single” and if i had that stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:32 PM
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Sure, women who don't drink do exist, but it's not like there's a social club for non drinkers where OP can pop in to meet chicks Except you’re wrong, there are women up and down this thread who say they do exactly that Yes, that is debate. If you think I am incorrect, please attack the argument, not the person. If not everyone lives like me, prove me wrong I DID! I told you that 30% of Americans don’t drink, but you refuse to accept that because again: That’s not you so how could it possibly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:12 PM
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I think you’re thinking about this way too small. He’s speaking about a behavior that’s very easily observable in society, not any one particular interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:09 PM
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30% of adults includes recovering alcoholics, people too sickly to drink, the old, the very religious, and probably not any normal young women who are trying to socialize and meet men You’re grasping at straws. There’s millions of young women who don’t drink Also, I'd like to remind you to remain civil and not make things personal while debating You don’t even debate tho! You just post up and pretend like your behavior is everyone’s behavior and then get pissy when people point out that not ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:23 PM
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And yet the majority of women would say no, “I go to a cooking class because I want to learn how to cook, not get drooled over by some creepy dude. Being a woman is so exhausting” Unless you fight those women on that, the only men who will approach you are the ones who disregard social rules, and don’t care if they harass a woman every other time they socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:37 PM
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But labeling people by numbers is just as objectively stupid as it is inaccurate Actually it’s not. Someone’s percentile of attractiveness is pretty easy to determine, and arguably the single most effective predictor of romantic success The whole point of the post is that if a 4 rejects a 5 she's a dumb bitch and doesn't deserve happiness Nope, try again there is no objective way of determining someone's attractiveness with an arbitrary number Yes there is, we do it every day unconsciously but a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:33 PM
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30% of adult Americans don’t drink, so no, I think you’re thinking about your dick having aunt for other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:28 PM
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I tried the tactic of going to restaurants or coffee shops and having "open body language" and it never worked It would be great if this worked, but women have ruined that chance for everyone. No guy is gonna risk being a “harasser” on the off chance that she might like you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:36 PM
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Are you joining in to tell women off when they say it’s unacceptable to approach women in these situations? Bc that’s the consensus among young women today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:33 PM
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They ruled out university bc they’re not in university They ruled out work bc the consensus among women is that approaching women at work is harassment They ruled out clubs/bars probably because they don’t drink, and the consensus among women is that approaching someone who’s drinking when you’re sober is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:31 PM
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Are you making sure other women know that you like being approached at these places, because the general consensus has become that approaching anyone outside of a party/bar is harassment. We need to get the alternative viewpoints out there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:27 PM
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Do you like not fucking understand what a hypothetical question is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:25 PM
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We’re not gonna gamble on whether the woman is gonna scream harassment or not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:19 PM
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How are we even supposed to have real discussions in this sub when you people will go so far as to pretend like there isn’t such a thing as objective attractiveness just so you don’t have to admit that the other side might have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:05 AM
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By objective attractiveness He’s not saying that every woman less attractive than him has to fuck him, he’s saying that most women dating out of their league drives alpha flocking which drives hypergamy which makes the eventual long term couplings that happen much less fruitful and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:21 AM
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Men should absolutely care as they should want MORE of it Bringing back intense slut shaming is one of the most important tools to better society and make dating/relationships/marriage great again
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:08 AM
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no, i asked which celebrity, so give us a name
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:52 PM
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I’ve heard a lot of women like Paul Rudd, and I get it, he seems like a cool dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:42 PM
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EHHH!!! not an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:37 PM
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no joke this is the answer i was fishing for bc people tell me he’s like me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 05:29 PM
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except I’m not deciding what women find attractive: they showed us quite clearly since they engaged in the exact same messaging patterns as men arbitrary designations such as 5’s or 10’s don’t matter since you can obviously see that women treat 90th percentile men exactly as 90th percentile women are treated. what number they give them doesn’t matter because the number isn’t real or quantifiable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:05 PM
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this is such an absurd fucking logic this would be like me saying “actually, i find these victoria’s secret models really ugly, but I’m gonna message them anyways, and this is proof that i’m not shallow tihi!” it’s fucking preposterous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:21 PM
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Yeah because women lowball men to an insane degree, not because those men are actually as unattractive as women say
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 02:14 PM
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Lmao, the top 20% of men weren’t 5’s, that’s absolutely absurd and you know it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:51 PM
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You still don’t get it and it’s honestly incredible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:30 PM
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No, they weren’t. The 90th percentile men got the same attention as the 90th percentile women, the 50th percentile men got the same attention as the 50th percentile women etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:24 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:57 AM
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The top men were average looking and above. The top women were supermodels. Lmao no they weren’t! Women just lowball their ratings because they’re pickier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:41 PM
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I’ve explained this twice now already and you still don’t get it It doesn’t matter what arbitrary number women assigned the men: The hottest 20% of men got the exact same amount of messages as the top 20% of women did
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:08 PM
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no, not nice try because your analysis is wrong. women messaged 90th percentile men exactly how men messaged 90th percentile women. just because women artificially lower their scores doesn’t mean that they’re actually less shallow. the top men still got the same rate of messages as the top women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:34 PM
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I was hoping you was gonna reply with that so I could school you with the fact that the only reason women seemed to be talking to less attractive men is because women rated men so absurdly low. If you actually look at what percentaile of male received the most messages it tracked exactly the same as the men’s messaging rates
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:20 PM
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actually that OkCupid study showed that women messaged more attractive people at the same rate as men do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:27 PM
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then you have a below average sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:23 PM
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genetically men and women are exactly as attractive, it would be strange if we weren’t but society has much more focus on female beauty in commercials, in art, so we associate femininity with beauty men also have to master so many more things to be attractive while women can basically just spend their efforts on their appearance and of course the big last one is make up/hair dye. all women have a socially acceptable way to add at least one point to their appearance and almost all of them use it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:43 AM
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You keep not reading what I’m writing or you have terrible reading comprehension, pick whichever is less embarrassing for you If men are mindless animals comparatively then you are saying that women have more self control, do you seriously not get this? I’m not saying “sexual self control” I’m saying self control. Women do not have more self control than men and it’s evident if you look at society. So your idea that women would have more self control is preposterous On the other hand there is ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:56 AM
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and you only repeat that it’s just women having more self control which is not evident anywhere in society whereas men having higher sex drives is evident wherever you look
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:26 AM
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bruh nobody cares about age gaps outside of online feminists. you’ve got plenty of time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:19 AM
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SNOOOOORE 💤💤💤 it’s not women being able to control themselves better which is self evident if you look at other patterns of self control such as gym going It’s literally just that you don’t have anywhere close to the same sex drive as men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:38 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:32 PM
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you don’t get it do you it’s not self control, why would it be when there’s no evidence in society that women have better self control than men! it’s solely sex drive!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:02 PM
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Well bc of your circumstances it’s got nothing to do with it since you haven’t been single
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:58 PM
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No. You people think you get it. You don’t get it. Men’s sex drives isn’t just wanting to come. It’s a primordial urge to fuck and it gets louder and louder until you do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:56 PM
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everything you people try to say as evidence that men and women are the same just proves that you have no idea how different and stronger the male sex drive is. the male body 100% cares how you reach orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:52 PM
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How much of your adult life have you been single and how much sex did you have in this time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:44 PM
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Men can be celibate, but men with average male sex drives will not choose to be for anything as flaky as “oh i wanted to focus on my PTA meetings” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:38 PM
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“Have you had sex with someone that you had not dated with exclusivity for at least a month, in the last 365 days” If yes you are engaging in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:34 PM
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Wrong. It’s not called a cum drive, it’s called sex drive. Women might be more likely to be slaves to their own pleasures, but they have nowhere near the same sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:22 PM
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Masturbating a lot is not the same as having a high sex drive. There’s plenty of low testosterone men who masturbate a handful of times a day You do not have some special level of self control, you just don’t have anywhere near the same urges as men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:12 PM
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Women don’t have better self control than men, that’s pretty preposterous Men just have stronger sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:10 PM
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I know that of the two women who replied to say how crazy high their sex drives were one of them was voluntarily celibate for 4 years and the other one was a voluntary virgin. That’s not high sex drive, not like a man has a sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:08 PM
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No, you don’t get it. It’s not about women having some greater mastery of self because you don’t, it’s just simply that your urge to have sex isn’t even in the same realm as the urge that men have
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:22 PM
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You’re a virgin completely voluntarily. You do not have a sex drive anywhere close to a man, nor should you want to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:20 PM
1

No men just have higher sex drives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:18 PM
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Well there it is, if you were voluntarily celibate for 4 years you have nowhere near the sex drive of the average man. It’s not even debatable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:15 PM
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Lmao, okay then let’s stack your numbers against men: You’ve been single in your life have you not? How many months of your adult life have you been single and how many men did you sleep with during my that time? What’s the longest you’ve gone without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:05 PM
-1

yeah but what percentage of young women do you actually think reads erotic fan fiction? <1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:59 PM
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this is a nonsense statement mathematically the average heterosexual body count is exactly the same between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:01 PM
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i keep hearing about these female erotic novels i have never in my life met a woman my age who reads them. i think it’s just a talking point that ppd likes to lean on but doesn’t have much to do with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:58 PM
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you might think you have a high sex drive, but you’re nowhere near the average man’s sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 05:56 PM
1

first girl has a great body tho, look at the hip to waist ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:12 PM
1

That’s kind of the problem tho. Having to give multiple one sided orgasms just to be considered adequate is a pretty shitty standard How many women put in that kind of effort into sex? I don’t like this new internet obsession about how you should focus on the woman for 45 minutes before every sexual encounter, and worse any criticism is met with “just say you’re bad in bed and go lololol”. What happened to just mutually pleasurable sex with likeminded effort
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:33 PM
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No, only almost all. And even the ”conservative” colleges are much more liberal than they pretend to be
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 02:22 PM
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Why do you think you’re exclusive? Why do you think you’re boyfriend/girlfriend? None of what we’ve read in this whole story is indicative that you two are in a grow up relationship with each other You haven’t met even though he’s back in town after a long while. Neither of you have made plans or tried to make plans to see each other This is not a relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 04:31 PM
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14 days ago you were posting about how you’re talking to 3 other men with romantic intention. Now all of a sudden you have a boyfriend? But it’s someone you have hardly talked to in that 2 week period, and not met in person during that time Honey I’m stating to worry that you’re delusional about who you are to this man. You’re his girlfriend but you’ve been separated the whole time? You’re his girlfriend but he doesn’t know where you live? You’re his girlfriend but neither of you wanna reach out…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 08:23 AM
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I think most men like this arrangement, where you make a bit of money for yourself/gifts, but he takes care of pretty much everything If you feel guilty then maybe the scales aren’t really balanced? How many hours a week do you work for your job? How many hours do you do at home? Because if he’s spending money on a maid when you have the time, well that’s not right. If he doesn’t want to get rid of the maid then you can still cook and bake lavishly, you can spend the time working on your appeara…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 09:06 PM
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it sounds like you have a nice little life together, and compatibility like this (plus virginity) isn’t something to just throw away i think he needs a good sit down. he loves that you’re soft and feminine, tell him that he can’t have it both ways. he can’t talk to you like that and expect you’ll just brush it off. tell him it really hurts your feelings and you don’t get over it when it comes to the sex stuff you should just remember that even the most dominant rp men want to feel wanted. he was…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 07:03 PM
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i agree with everything except the “guys don’t care if you comment how hot a guy is” that’s a great strategy if you want to end up walking home from dinner
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/22 06:32 PM
2

this is good advice
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 03:22 PM
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it sounds like he’s been carrying the communication for all this time have you told him anything about how you feel about him? i mean in some comments you claim that you’re boyfriend and girlfriend but then i other places you talk about how you’re talking to 3-4 other guys… so what is it? are you attracted to this man? are you in love with him… there’s zero mention so this all sounds very transactional is he supposed to feel like your boyfriend when you’re dating other men and never initiate con…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 02:46 PM
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nothing wrong with that if she’s not interested in him but she is which is why it was a bad move. no friend would get mad at her for backing out bc of a valentines date
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 03:18 PM
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he asked you what you’re doing for valentine’s day and you invited him to a group thing 🤦‍♂️ he wanted to take you on a date
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 01:32 PM
1

and what HAPPENS is that 6’s get pumped and dumped by 8’s because they buy into your “no leagues” bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:52 AM
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none of these claim to be entitled to a certain degree of woman, why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:50 AM
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and the more mismatched your SMV is the lower the chance is of you two ending up in a LTR or marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:49 AM
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this is something that women tell themselves yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:46 AM
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I’d say marriage, not just commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:42 AM
1

see that doesn’t sound half as bad as literally having your discrimination written into code, and not only that: be cheered on by every “decent” person in the country
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:40 AM
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tell me, what is there in the proper channels that’s equally as affecting and unfair to women as affirmative action and diversity quotas are to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:20 AM
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plates refer to the term spinning plates, which is when a guy has several women in rotation for sexual encounters. it doesn’t usually refer to FWB type deals, but to women who all wish that they could take the relationship somewhere further
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:12 AM
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That’s incorrect, just mathematically. Since women share men by being plates that means that women, all women get a chance to punch above their weight during short term dating but also I don’t get how that has to do with what we’re talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:36 AM
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I mean, you are right that men are only viewed as creepy if they fail, but also like come on: these are TV characters played for laughs. How people perceive them is written into the script. Barney is for all intents and purposes pretty much the same as Dennis from IASIP, but Dennis is written as a kind of villain when it comes to dating. The writer/director decides how they’re gonna be perceived, not “society”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:34 AM
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Huh? how does that pertain to what we’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:21 AM
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Yeah dating people who don’t suit you isn’t good, what’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:20 AM
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Amen brother
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:11 AM
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yes, and should you boss then reward you, 7.5 hour Sally, or 12 hour John?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:10 AM
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wrong, zero evidence of that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:09 AM
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do you lock your front door at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 09:07 AM
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except it’s not. if bossman comes in at 5pm and goes, “we need someone to stay late today and finish up the brief” it will be a man who ends up doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:36 AM
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lol why? what do you want us to do, sit down at the weekly man meeting and tell other men they can’t murder anymore? women are the ones voting for leniency, defunding police, no-bail release and pardons
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:28 AM
2

or it’s because you’d spend your first years working 12 hours a day and that’s simply not that attractive to most women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:22 AM
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the proper channels are the ones promoting sexism against men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:14 AM
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no he’s right. if you live in an apartment and have all the machines and no kids, housework is less than 2 hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:12 AM
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and we should, but those same men need to then be okay with waiting which i think most RP men here would be
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 08:02 AM
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what are you a creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:50 PM
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I don't think most men would wait, I just don't think men would be resentful of a girl who did. I also think women greatly underestimate how many men would actually wait, in less liberal circles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:13 PM
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not really, kind of a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:46 PM
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who wouldn't want both! have your cake and eat it too, yum! but that doesn't mean that there's not (like he was saying) two different groups, one of which would have no problem waiting
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:34 PM
1

Who's doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:28 PM
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As a woman, our attraction is a YES or a NO Interesting how women both claim to have a "holistic" view of men's attractiveness and yet it's also a hard yes or no Women thinking less of themselves won't lead to them giving men they don't currently find attractive a chance Well I don't know about that. I'd like to think that if I found out that I was a straight up 3 that I'd recalibrate who I find attractive with that knowledge. It's horrible to think that women are really so shallow that they cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:07 PM
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I don’t think this is literally possible to manage for anyone Of course it is, everyone in the dating pool rates everyone, add the ratings together: that's their SMV You aren’t going to go to an Attractiveness Committee to make sure that they are your looksmatch No... who said that you are? SMV is just a good tool to understand your realistic outcomes of dating, and a way to think about the world that will make things make sense, and manage ones expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:41 PM
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it still doesn't mean a higher league has the right to demand sex or love from the "lower" leagues Who's saying this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:31 PM
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All that matters is how attractive who you are trying to date perceives you Yes and women are incapable of understanding how attractive they are to their date because they have an inflated sense of their SMV. This is why so many of them get pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:30 PM
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It doesn't matter. You rate him a 2 then, and all the other women rate him whatever they think 9-10, and the average of all your votes is his SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:26 PM
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We don’t all rank “somewhere” Yes you do If you take 100 people, and have them be ranked by another, say 10 people, the ranks assigned will be wildly different in each case They actually won't be wildly different. They'll be very uniform. The fact that you think it will be wildly different is part of the problem. And more than that if you took everyone in the dating pool and had them rate everyone in the dating pool: That's their SMV Again, don’t know what you’re basing the claim that “majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:23 PM
1

you're right, no one is asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:44 PM
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All that's relevent is who finds you attractive Lol yeah... if only we could rank people based on how attractive people find them and then sort them into some sort of... I don't know League
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:41 PM
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Nobody is suggesting that anyone is entitled to anyone else, but the dating market is largely fucked up because women have an inflated sense of their own SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:31 PM
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By whose standards is someone your looksmatch? By every person in your dating pool. Imagine you line every woman up from most attractive to least attractive, and then you do the same with men. Then you give them numbers 1 for the most attractive woman and man, 2 for the second one etc. The woman who is number: 56129 is the looksmatch to man number: 56129
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:27 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:22 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:16 PM
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Something that one person finds ugly, might not be ugly to another one You people love pretending that this is some sort of massively important point to make: it isn't. Beauty is objective and we all rank somewhere. And why do you believe that the only default to self-conceptualisation is in thinking something bad about yourself? Who said that? Will you point me to the person that said that? What if the fat girl really thinks she’s good-looking? Will you then start advocating to put her down ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 06:24 PM
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Most women will care tho, that was the consensus among women Have you ever interacted with women in real life? God what it this pathetic attempt to out-alpha me online. Shut uuup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:45 PM
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See but this isn't true tho. There was a whole comment chain yesterday of women saying that they'd dump a guy instantly if he asked about their bodycount with all the women agreeing How would what you're saying make sense if people aren't even allowed to ask for such information?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:36 PM
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but that’s not the sole predictor of compatibility or predictor of a lasting relationship Who said it is? What I'm saying is that you're massively underplaying how important it is, how shallow women are, and how the halo effect make you think that effects caused by attractiveness are actually personality/values If you want everyone to be attracted to everyone physically - eliminate all imagery of attractive people in the media Incorrect. People know inherently what an attractive person is. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 04:26 PM
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they won't outwardly agree because they can see the double standard coming a mile away, but they'll post and upvote things that are saying exactly that in so many words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:37 PM
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i don’t think you’ve paid attention to what feminism has evolved to… feminist do believe men and women are different: men are all the bad traits, women are all the good traits
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:00 PM
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i’ve never met a conservative woman who believes a single thing that FDS does. they’re libs and feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 02:13 PM
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and men kill men more than both war and men kill women does that mean that I should operate my entire life as if I'm a victim waiting to be murdered. what a pathetic type of person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:26 PM
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And once again, you are presuming to know what women “think”? Are you a woman to claim? What people say and what people think doesn’t always converge. I will tell a douchebag I’m a “10” anytime, if he asks me. Doesn’t matter how nicely you put it, and in what context, it’s inappropriate. And deserves to be shut down/dismissed Wow, this is an amazing performance. The amount of hoops you have to jump through to just not come to terms with the fact that maybe women give an answer that reflect poorl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 01:24 PM
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LMAO you people really only have one card to play. As soon as you're forced to do any kind of introspection you instantly turn to slanderous "You're just an incel no woman wants to fuck you and it's because of your personality!!!" I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! I have had a long and fruitful career of playing the field, and that's why I know just how shallow you people are. You're sitting here under the belief that surely I could never date since I have such an unlikable personality: AND YET I do date, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 11:11 AM
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It’s a factor that gets you through the door, not a factor in whether you are compatible with the person you meet. Compatibility is largely a mirage that means attracted to. I can't tell you how many girls I've had no chemistry with that have stood in the mirror talking about how we look cute together, talking about how compatible we are. No honey, I'M compatible because you think I'm attractive and need to tell yourself a little lie rather than admit that you're just as shallow as a man Otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:59 AM
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and yet you’re completely incapable of accepting 1 & 2 because you believe the hype about how angelic and emotionally pure your gender is. it’s not, you’re just as shallow as men, but men at least have the decency to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:52 AM
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so nobody’s threatening her but because there’s a remote possibility that they could become angry/dangerous, even tho there’s no evidence or hint of that, then that’s still enough to call it rape you people have completely lost the plot. you’ve completely watered down the word rape
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:46 AM
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it’s not “people arriving at the same conclusions” it’s people being fed the “correct” opinions by the powers that be and it takes a blind person to not see that there isn’t a single person outside of cults that have had more exposure to religion than media. you’re on social media right now. this one is also priming and programming you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:43 AM
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a 60th percentile woman can easily sleep with a single 90th percentile man within a few weeks, or really right away if her timing is right. it’s extremely disingenuous to pretend otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:40 AM
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it doesn’t matter if you included men tho because the article doesn’t really say anything negative about men. your objective was to dispel any negative press that women as a gender get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:36 AM
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it’s obviously objective, and pretending that it’s not is just a sweet little lie we tell less attractive people to pretend like life isn’t cruel looks/physical isn’t the only factor but it’s by far the single biggest point of attraction for both men and women. both genders are equally shallow it’s completely false that women are more likely to date someone below them in looks, they only perceive they date down because they have an inflated sense of themselves. every one of them are told daily h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:31 AM
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wth are you talking about? there’s nothing in OPs post about arranged marriages or threats or child brides
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:14 AM
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evidence: talk to a group of women then talk to a group of men for more than 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:11 AM
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there aren’t more or fewer attractive men or women, everyone is just ranked from objectively most attractive to least attractive. if you’re number 3652 - your match is male nr. 3652. the only disparity would be at the very tail end of which ever gender there’s more of lol you’re thinking about this too literally. i told you it’s just a heuristic for understanding what SMV is and how it’s very objective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:02 AM
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but women are more monolithic in their opinions, so female approved opinions have much higher stopping power
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:55 PM
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yeah but you see how this comes across a bit disingenuous right? it’s like all these women talking about how all they care about is personality and then their bfs are always physically attractive. it’s just kinda transparent again, good on you for aspiring to be less shallow, but i don’t think you can staunchly claim that you wouldn’t care if he wasn’t attractive, or that you would have still dated him if he wasn’t. the proof just isn’t there
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:36 PM
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i’m not dancing around the question i already answered it it’s an aggregate rating. your SMV is the average placing you get by all men in your dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:33 PM
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eh, like good on you for aspiring to be less shallow, but this just sounds like another run of the mill “i wouldn’t care what he looked like, but oopsie just by sheer luck i do find him physically attractive” it just sounds very convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:17 PM
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same as for physical attractiveness, aggregate rating of all potential partners. if you think stutters are cute, GREAT you’ll get a man at discount pricing! but it doesn’t change where his SMV resides
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:14 PM
1

oh yeah, who’s threatening her in this scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 11:11 PM
1

that’s dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:39 PM
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i don’t really think it changes anything. okay so a guy is rich he moves up the line, another guy has a stutter he moves down the line. i don’t think it changes the fundamentals of what we’re describing here it’s just a heuristic to explain how women are being delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:37 PM
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women haven’t hurt me, i’ve just been appalled at how they act my question to you is: we all know what happened to you, so was it your uncle, your dad or your teeball coach?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:28 PM
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bruh that sounds like the loneliest most pathetic existence in the world. smoking pot and having casual sex and dying alone please tell me you’re aiming higher
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:22 PM
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no the 60th percentile women can get him for a night and that’s what’s throwing the whole thing off. they start thinking that’s their match, and it becomes very hard to go climb down fro Chad to some lowly 60th percentile joe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:17 PM
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you don’t know why someone is asking you a question, you are not a mind reader, you have zero idea yes you did, you’re ready to dump someone bc they asked you a question you didn’t like, you’re like one of the most privileged people in the world with a rubber stamped easy mode card
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:15 PM
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i would never self categorize myself as a Chad but i definitely reside in the top 20% of men that has the top 80% of sexual couplings per the Pareto principle. i am not speaking of women because i’m missing out, but because i’m in a uniquely privileged position of seeing how women actually act, compared to how they present themselves, and how they pretend online that their thought processes, values and cues of attraction are every single test be it peer reviewed, pop psychology or just some guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:12 PM
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it will make them realize “oh shit, i’m actually never ever gonna marry Chad, Brad or Thad” and that will be a big wake up call to where they should be setting their attention i think most people would recalibrate where their line for ugly/attractive is once they know where they reside on that scale very few women would have the gall to be up and down this thread being like “if i don’t find them attractive then there’s nothing i can do” while talking about a guy who’s in the 64th percentile whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:59 PM
0

you still have zero idea why someone is asking no your life is on easy mode bc you’re rich AND bc you think it’s reasonable to dump someone if they’re not perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:55 PM
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and yet, just about every casual sex partner i’ve had has tried to transform sex into a full time relationship, how could this be when women only care about emotional maturity?? it’s almost like all the shit you said is fake and all the shit i said is real women are just as shallow as men, and i do much better with women than any of the kinder more emotionally available men i know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:48 PM
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it’s pretty simple, if you got men to line up from most attractive to least attractive, and then women did the same, and then we paired them up the most attractive man with the most attractive woman, and then the 2nd with the 2nd etc. you’d know exactly where someone stacks up. that’s why i like talking about percentiles rather than 1-10s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:35 PM
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lol i have a girlfriend that i’m very happy with, and i’ve had a great run of casual sex before that, so actually you’re proving yourself wrong. if women are attracted to emotional intelligence, and you’re saying i’m lacking in that area, how come it’s never set me back from sleeping with them?? how could that be?? could it be that you’re just making shit up to make women sound good?? but i’m not surprised you went the “you’re just a bitter incel” route; that’s always what you people do whenever…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:30 PM
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how did you start dating/how did you even consider each other if you aren’t particularly physically attractive to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:53 PM
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lol so now people who consent to sex are ALSO getting raped, good to know the word hasn’t been watered down to meaninglessness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:40 PM
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women should be ridiculed for having absolutely zero idea of where they rate in SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:39 PM
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he’s done a pretty good job at rebuking you but you just keep deflecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:34 PM
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he said he worked on himself to rid himself of his shallowness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:30 PM
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bruh it’s called lying: she’s lying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:29 PM
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bruh women are exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:23 PM
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that sucks bro… just throwing this out there: streaming on twitch might be a good avenue if you’re into gaming culture. some of those guys are basics alphas of their niche even though they’re not physically alpha at all shit isn’t there some like wheelchair matchmaking service?? there should be
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:12 PM
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it’s a well known fact that arranged marriages are happier and stronger after the initial honeymoon phase of regular marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:00 PM
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God we do NOT need more busybody lib shrew spinsters with unlimited time on their hands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:57 PM
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you don’t know why someone is asking!! yeah and you only feel like that because you live life on easy mode and feel like unless he’s perfect, he should be dumped! you’re no different from girls who dump their boyfriends because he cried in front of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:45 PM
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and grizzly man thought he knew how bears thought because he spent 13 years living as a bear, but guess what: he got mauled to death. because he wasn’t a bear he was a human, would always be a human, and if they dig up his bones in 1000 years they’ll conclude he was a human the men who get the most play from women are handsome, tall and wealthy. emotional maturity is essentially a non-factor and like i said it’s likely even a hinderance as the dark triad types do better than any other type of ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:42 PM
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Except you don’t in fact know the values of the person asking. And here’s the thing, even if you did it’s such an insanely “life of easy mode” thing to reject someone over their opinion on something that’s so incredibly inconsequential and minimal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:21 PM
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yeah and i said you live life on the biggest easy mode if you think it’s reasonable to dump someone over a question (a question to which you ascribe a value which you actually don’t have any fucking clue if it’s accurate since you indeed can not read minds)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:12 PM
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the thing i think women have to get through their head, the one take away you all should have from this sub is: you’re just as shallow as men any person who observes women’s actions rather than their words can tell that 1. is true you’ve been put on a pedestal for so long that you refuse to accept that your gender has any flaws so you’re incapable of accepting 1 & 2
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:05 PM
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well i’m just saying that you don’t have any more insight into how women think than i do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:01 PM
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well you took an action for a reason, that implies a goal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:00 PM
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except it’s not. modern women have an insanely inflated sense of self worth and think that their “match” is usually a guy at least 20 percentiles higher up than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:56 PM
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what your describing only works like that in a strictly monogamous culture where people pair up 1:1 and then stick to it and that’s exactly the point: we aren’t that kind of culture anymore which means that 60th percentile men, aren’t getting the time of day from 60th percentile women because those same women have an inflated sense of self worth and think that they’re gonna land a 90th percentile male
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:55 PM
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Women’s sexual attraction does not depend on character and charisma mostly and it’s absolutely delusional to pretend that it does
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:45 PM
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yeah, that’s why i said it, i just didn’t get what your second part meant
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:40 PM
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no offense but aren’t you a transexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:34 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:34 PM
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you said you know their values from them asking you a single question?!??!!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:33 PM
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men are much better at estimating their value than women, in fact i sometimes ask women how hot they think they are and i have yet to hear a single one say lower than 8… fucking 8!!! men are complaining that women aren’t interested because those women are delusional to what level of guy they’ll end up with. they’re kept busy for a few years being pumped and dumped or serial monogamized by men out of their league, and don’t realize that if they had dated within their league they’d actually have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:32 PM
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go talk to a childless 70 year woman and see how fucking fun her life is with no grandkids no partner, friends all moved on, no studs to come smash her, no parties to go to such an empty meaningless fucking life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:27 PM
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Nobody would care if women had standards that aligned with where they themselves were at. The issue is that women have enormously inflated standards, largely brought on by hooking up with men who are way out of their league and who would never settle for them. This gives women an inflated self worth (“I must be a 9, after all I fucked Chad and Brad, and they’re 9’s) which is what inflates their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:23 PM
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you’re delusional. in fact the Chad’s who slay the most are usually dark triad types with poor emotional adjustment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:18 PM
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you absolutely inferred that you do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:16 PM
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well it all turned out for the best, but that’s more by chance than by design
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:15 PM
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and you’re absolutely delusional in your self professed genius level mind reading skills if you think you know everything about a guy’s values from one question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:13 PM
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https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/facebook/001/987/227/1f3.png
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:11 PM
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“women aren’t shallow like men, women need chemistry” starts listing shallow attributes instead of actual personal chemistry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:09 PM
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lol women aren’t holding out for emotionally well adjusted men, they’re holding out for Chads. also how the hell would these women know how well adjusted someone is if they refuse to date them bc of their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:00 PM
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no, you’re projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:48 PM
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you’ve obviously never watched Dharma and Greg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:32 PM
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You still shy away from the questions i asked, because unless you can put your own “i’m actually not a lib” spin on it it becomes extremely obvious how lib your really are all your opinions are means tested, all your opinions are straight liberal consensus hey and if we’re throwing out life tips: you should try getting some friends
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:28 PM
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i mean if it’s high enough that you can’t even remember them all then it’s pretty safe to say that the men who asked about your body count wouldn’t have been interested anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:21 PM
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what’s your body count
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:11 PM
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lmao do you people not understand how fucking easy mode you’re living if you feel like it’s reasonable to dump a guy for asking you a question
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:05 PM
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see you’re moving goalposts tho, where you’re changing my very clear definitions for your definitions colored by your very lib opinions. i ask about gay marriage, you say “oh so no one’s homophobic??” which to someone like you probably equates to any rational person who doesn’t want gay couples shoved into every piece of media i said go do a poll of your friends, and maybe you’ll finally understand just how monolithic women’s opinions are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:52 PM
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Ask your friends if gay people should be allowed to get married Ask them if LGBTQ people should be allowed to adopt Ask them if black people are discriminated against Ask them if social media should be able to ban people who are racist Ask them if white people are privileged Ask them if women should be able to sleep around as much as they want Ask them if women make less money for the same work Ask them if a person can change their gender Ask them if we should help refugees Ask them if women sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:28 PM
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yeah well people who believe exactly the same thing as every hollywood actor, every social media influencer, every singer, every Fortune 500, every sports team, and every media darling politician should MAYBE practice introspection a little bit more urgently than some guy who just gets his vitamin regiment from Joe Rogan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:32 PM
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people know i’m extremely conservative, it’s not a secret and i don’t hide it it sounds like you hang around white trash women and i’m not interested in those. i also have zero interest in acting edgy and narcissistic also, no one here was asking for advice, i’m stating a psychological fact of women’s mindset, not asking how to meet anti-social outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:29 PM
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never met a single western atheist millennial/zoomer woman who’s not a boiler plate pro LGBTQ-BLM lib, this includes every gf and hook up, friend and colleague i’m overtly anti-lib so if they existed they’d know it’s safe with me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:26 PM
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the men have vastly different codes of ethics, just because most of us agree that the dating scene is fucked, we don’t even have the same solutions to how to solve it Rogan, Musk and Peterson don’t even believe the same shit, so it’s not even remotely as bad as women. Women’s opinions are a monolith, there’s no discourse, there’s the ”right” opinion and then browbeatings until everyone is on the same page
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:54 PM
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>You
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:43 PM
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young men don’t find that deal attractive, older women don’t find that deal attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:58 AM
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well you have to adjust for the fact that about 50% of the men will go for young never married women. so yeah the bottom half of these divorced professional women can’t find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:57 AM
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lol what you’re describing was probably 1% of of all gold digging marriages at that time. it’s always been a woman’s sport
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:49 AM
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lol always with this it seems no matter what evidence one can provide that women have negative traits, the evidence has to be dispelled because the sample size didn’t include every woman on earth i’m yet to see a woman on this site accept a single flaw in their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:46 AM
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see but you’re completely wrong tho. even here on a tiny sliver of the internet the men are largely not in agreement whilst the women predictably are there’s not a single person in media that men agree with completely, whereas you could sit 100 atheist women down, have them watch John Oliver and Trevor Noah and have them stand up and leave when they disagree with something that’s said. you’d sit and watch them indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:26 AM
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wow, that’s so cool, since the beginning of man people have formed complex moral frameworks and personal opinions, but then purely by chance since the advent of mass media and social media every single woman just “happened” to arrive at the exact same conclusions that are being broadcasted to them 24/7 365 days a year, that’s amazing, what are the odds!! you guys really think for yourselves!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:13 AM
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no, he said agreeableness makes them more likely to go with the crowd consensus, he never said that’s the only thing it means or that it’s the only reason they do, you’ve completely made that up and i worry for your reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:07 AM
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great answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 08:04 AM
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oh yeah for sure, but it’s like 99% of women and maybe 25% of the men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:58 AM
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who but you is saying that agreeableness just means agreeing with consensus? who but you is saying that agreeableness is the only reason why women fall to perceived consensus?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:00 PM
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ockhams razor tells me that the guys you’re talking about weren’t stunned to silence because they liked you so much, they probably liked you less than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:41 PM
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wrong. beauty is objective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:38 PM
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lol keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:38 PM
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nope. women want relationships from exactly the same guys that they have casual sex with, they just can’t lock Chad down
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:30 PM
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lol women don’t care about if you do interesting things, that’s exactly OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:23 PM
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lmao “women don’t just agree with whatever they perceive consensus to be” proceeds to describe how women indeed just agree with whatever they perceive consensus to be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:02 PM
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women are so extremely easily manipulated by perceived consensus. they believe exactly what the media tells them, and it gets reinforced by their social circle to make sure no one steps out of line. ask yourself why is it every single woman you know that’s not religious believes EXACTLY. THE. SAME. THING do you know an atheist woman that disagrees with say, John Oliver or Trevor Noah on a single subject? just one subject
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:58 PM
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bruh FDSers can’t even be bothered to wax or smile, they ain’t bringing shit to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:54 PM
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lmao she just said “i’m proud of being easily manipulated and never arriving at any conclusions or moral decisions by myself”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:39 PM
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and what exactly do you think happens when women perceive that the people around them all agree on something
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:20 PM
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lmao, bro code? what is this 2008
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:10 PM
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reminder that when women say they like skinny they mean Tyler Durden. when they say they like dadbod they mean like a heavyweight boxer. when they say they like not too muscular they mean like a guy who lifts weights 5 times a week, but just doesn’t take steroids
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:35 PM
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yeah of course they’re gaga for relationships: with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:03 PM
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yeah but a nurse also makes like 100k euro a year so at least they’re rich
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:51 AM
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it’s perfectly reasonable for a boyfriend to not answer every single question you have about his dating history truthfully he knows that when you ask about some girl he used to date/love/fuck and he answers that he indeed used to, that you’re gonna be upset and in a bad mood for the rest of the day, maybe the week, AND dislike that girl forever. don’t deny it, it’s very obvious that you’re that type of person (90% of women are) if he’s not in contact with his exes more than some above board mess…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 11:16 AM
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Traits such as nurturance, sensitivity, sweetness, supportiveness, gentleness, warmth, chastity, cooperativeness, expressiveness, modesty, humility, empathy, affection, tenderness, and being emotional, kind, helpful, devoted, and understanding have been cited as stereotypically feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:48 AM
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but you do have options, it’s just that you want a guy that’s out of your league you’re allowed to have that preference, you’re allowed to never settle for anything less, but don’t pretend like your inflated standards are the same thing as not having options because it’s simply not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 09:24 AM
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and females have completely forgone the feminine virtues that 99% of women in history managed to uphold. men aren’t the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:30 AM
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Yes high value men use women for sex, but those same women can then turn around and still date a male 7 in a week even if they’re a 5-6. As long as enough women are tied up being one of Chad’s plates there’s still a deficit of women in the dating market for 80% of guys. Women have a clear advantage and date way above their value Long term? Body count is permanent dude, if women spend a decade riding the carousel, by the time they’re “ready to settle down” they’ve significantly lowered their valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:13 AM
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Men do not have an advantage in getting into LTR’s, or even marriage, it’s just that women’s advantage is neutralized when pairings have to happen 1:1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:04 AM
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⁠Women undoubtedly have a massive advantage in dating. Not just casual sex, but all dating. These women don’t dickride Chad but then immediately jump off the carousel because some beta wants to get in a relationship. Even tho in a sane world beta boy would be way out of her league it’s still the woman that has to begrudgingly come to terms with that she should give him a chance (and she’ll resent him for it). When it comes to marriage things are brought closer to an equilibrium as it’s paired 1:…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:03 AM
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why is that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:56 PM
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Women undoubtedly have a massive advantage in dating. Not just casual sex, but all dating. When it comes to marriage things are brought closer to an equilibrium as it’s paired 1:1 but that brings us to the second point Men currently are absolutely the ones who are forced to settle, or rather are the ones choosing not to and just stepping away from the whole thing. Women as a group have lowered their market value significantly as casual sex and sharing an alpha male was no longer considered taboo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:49 PM
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bruh, you’re asking us to have sympathy for women who cuck themselves by having insane standards that they don’t even meet, rather than the men who can’t even get a date with their SMV match until she’s good and done riding the cock carousel also what is the logic that there’s simply more women at every level of attractiveness lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:21 PM
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men do not have an advantage getting relationships. the top 20% of men do what you think women are out fucking chads but as soon as her orbiter asks her if she wants to “gee, go steady” she’ll just accept and be his girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 11:17 PM
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you deny that the aspect of life that controls how you’re going to spend the rest of your life is important?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:57 PM
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Men can opt out of dating but it’s ridiculous to say that those men have the same advantages as women. Women have it so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:55 PM
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the alternative is a return to a shame based culture the issue rn is that sexual pairings happen essentially polygamously where the top 20% of males get almost all the play, while marriage pairings still happen 1:1 this means 80% of men have to settle for a looksmatch who has a body count that brings her SMV down waaay below his, and the women in turn get delusional about what their SMV is since after all “they used to fuck Chad” it makes no one but the top percentage of males happy, it serves n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:53 PM
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That’s nice :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:10 PM
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if you can’t cum from regular sex then that’s on you. if you need a marathon of oral and digital stimulation to orgasm then something’s wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:58 PM
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There are men out there who would give their right nut to be pumped and dumped by a hot chick yeah because that says that he’s attractive. a woman sleeping with a man no matter how hot he is only says that she’s the one who gave it up that night
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:51 PM
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she’s got no answer because she’s completely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:47 PM
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exchange fat men with short, weak, small dicked or simply not wealthy men and maybe you’ll see
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:43 PM
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Plenty of people are independent and have money. I’m more asking when you’re 70 and you spend your days alone. I’m sure you have friends but that goes away with time, and the friends you keep who have families simply won’t spend much time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:24 PM
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who’s talking about 20 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:44 PM
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I think you’re going to see much more dating around at older ages. Ultimately both men and women know that an empty house at 70 isn’t gonna be pretty. What used to be people getting into second marriages will now be their first marriages. As a society tho this will be terrible, very few people will be having kids and selfish libertine consumerist ideology will continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:52 PM
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how do you think, in a monogamous society, that women will be paired up while men won’t? if anything men have a bigger pool to select from as they can go lower in age than women can
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:48 PM
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How do you see your life at 70 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 04:45 PM
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this is patently false, because marriage is paired up 1 to 1 which means that your average girl isn’t gonna marry a Chad, she will need to settle for her looksmatch, whereas for sex, 10,000’s of women can pair up with Chad over his career which means even average girls get a run
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:57 AM
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yeah but most young women who claim “bi” aren’t actually bisexual so they don’t get offended. most of these “bi” women will never have a long term exclusive relationship with a woman, and 90% of them will end up marrying a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 12:28 PM
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all women are somewhat attracted to women, it’s just the younger generation realized that being “bi” is considered hot so it’s a way to increase their sexual market value. also the fact that younger women have consumed massive amounts of porn compared to earlier gens, porn which focuses almost exclusively on the women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:31 PM
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“do whatever you want” is the attitude that’s made women desperate and depressed. RP is not about “do whatever you want”
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 03:04 PM
1

That looks great! It’s not too much
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 10:52 AM
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Bad advice
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/21 10:51 AM
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College educated liberal women having the most sexual partners before marrying or never doing so is not surprising at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:56 PM
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This thread is filled with really dumb classist bullshit. Women who don’t have good jobs don’t automatically become drooling idiots that get wasted at company parties and pull their fake tits out. Most women I interact with in high end jobs are way less physically attractive than your average shop girl, and honestly the higher level job the more tedious and socially unskilled they seem. Most high value men see a woman’s job as a non factor and prefer someone who will be a wife and a mother, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 01:09 PM
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Don’t play hard to get. Be hard to get. What men hate is a woman who’ll make them jump through hoops while simultaneously or previously sleeping around
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/21 05:46 PM
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no man has ever fucked a woman because she drives a lambo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:37 AM
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this is just deluded. men’s physical attractiveness peaks later, and declines slower. add to that the fact that men’s sexual market value is dependent on so many more factors outside of physical attraction compared to women and it becomes obvious that the wall is clearly not the same for the two genders
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 11:22 PM
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my man brought the receipts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:28 PM
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he said you’re risk averse and cowardly when it comes to this sort of thing and it seems like he’s correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 01:24 PM
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because before say 1960 the shame wrought upon such women would mean that no other woman would ever consider sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 09:04 PM
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Men aren’t intimidated by successful women, success is just is a non factor for them, but it almost always comes with baggage. I’d much rather spend my time with someone who isn’t stressed out, and wants to focus on family and home. Success isn’t unattractive it’s simply not attractive, so I’d rather just not deal with all the negatives that comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:20 PM
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you know the difference when it comes to cheating is: the man knows he fucked up, the woman will rationalize it (and all her friends will “you go girl” her)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 08:53 AM
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Certainly before you sleep with him
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/20 09:06 AM
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One can have any preference one wants, as long as one understands that the more rules one has has, the smaller the selection of mates becomes. And wanting virginity as a man who isn’t one is only hypocritical if one believes that men and women are the same thing and are attracted to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:35 AM
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I understand you, but personally I have never once felt worried that a woman was going to break up with me. I think if you feel secure in your value as I do that fear fades away.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 08:10 PM
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I’ll check it out, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 04:36 PM
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To me RP is about understanding the natural order of things, and how modern society pretends that such a thing doesn’t exist while very clearly operating with the natural undercurrent still there. That’s how you end up with women bragging about how much money they make while simultaneously thinking the guy should pay for dinner. Modern society and especially inter-gender relations are in a deep state of cognitive dissonance. RP is about understanding that men and women are different, want differ…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 03:10 PM
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this is a huge one, and I’d also tack on that sleeping around has demonstrably been shown to make women near incapable of bonding properly with their long term partner
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/20 07:02 AM
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being alone for the rest of ones life is definitely a reason to be miserable
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 06:30 AM
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the woman’s height has no bearing on how tall of a man she can get. men don’t care about height
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 06:28 AM
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there’s a lot of comments in this thread perpetuating the stereotype that men go for younger women “because they can’t get women their own age” which is not only untrue, it’s incoherent. young women are more attractive to men, all men, all ages. this means young women have a much higher SMV and RMV than older women, which means they’re harder to get men date young women because they find them more attractive, and it’s not always just physically. you’re not gonna find any guy in the age ranges th…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/20 01:24 AM
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lol loving someone without having had sex with them is unfathomable to the modern woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 12:41 AM
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I can go into your post history and find titty and pussy pics, so maybe you should STFU about chivalry and sexual conservatism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 06:39 PM
1

What description
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 11:52 AM
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Lol you’re dim Men have no problem being the provider, in fact we like it. We don’t like loud obnoxious feminists like Tomi Lahren. I don’t want my equal, I want someone different than myself, why are you freaking out about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:03 AM
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every man wants a woman who makes his life easier. that’s your north star
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/20 11:31 AM
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it’s only a double standard if you think men and women are the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:09 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 12:53 AM
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funny how negging doesn’t work on any of the women in this sub and yet every guy has had success, several times doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 06:54 PM
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those are all examples of relationship equality/inequality, women are just dissonant
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:23 PM
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Having sex without commitment, and I mean REAL commitment is a fools game for women. BUT! You still have to show him that you’re sexually attracted to him. Tell him that you want him, make out with him, dance for him, decide how far you’re willing to go without commitment and don’t feel ashamed to go just that far! Basically you shouldn’t sleep around, but no guy wants dating to feel like a business lunch either.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 09:34 AM
2

why not just shoot every man you ever cross in the street, after all he might be a rapist :O don’t be trite about risks you’re taking yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:24 AM
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You could also, idk, just not lie to your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:17 AM
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Of course I don’t lie to my partner, and the fact that you think that’s an insane standard proves how messed up you people truly are
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:01 AM
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Women are like “it’s not my fault i’m a disgusting liar :( it’s the patriarchy’s fault :( “
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:50 AM
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This thread is disgusting, it’s all just women caping for each others lies and shitty degenerate behavior. Does truth not mean anything to you people!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 08:45 AM
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