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Cold approach. Do what I said and never give up, no matter how downvoted my post is, and you will finally succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:34 AM
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Make it 5 boys
/r/seduction01/11/22 11:55 AM
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Then from what you're saying here, it's clear to me that you need to work on yourself first (socialising, daily habits, diet, exercise, etc.) , my friend. You can't build true confidence which comes across to women unless you take the steps to achieve true confidence, and false confidence doesn't build yourself up long term and isn't that fulfilling, rewarding or effective.
/r/seduction30/10/22 06:40 PM
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This is very weird and unrealistic lol gl
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:18 AM
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I don't touch alcohol anymore. I do cold approaching in public now and go out less, but again, anything you think of is ultimately an excuse. You have to either accept people around you are gonna be drunk in these environments and that's fine, or you adapt & solely do other things (cold approaching, social meet ups, e.g. salsa dancing). As I said, I got turned off by drunk girls but still, it's just an excuse, particularly at this stage. When you're 30 and have a good amount of experience, fair …
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:08 PM
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All excuses to justify not taking action. I'd know because I've had all of the same. You approach anywhere, anytime. Anything you think of to justify not approaching or doing something is an excuse your brain has come up with to rationalize your feelings, fear, etc.
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:47 AM
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Yep. Hope that helps
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:41 PM
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I think you just have to make the rejection as subtle as you can (unless they keep pushing ofc), so this would be being friendly & leaving/ending the interaction soon (like with an excuse, "I've gotta go join my friend" for example). That's what I do anyway.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:08 PM
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Because most girls don't usually get rejected by guys, at least not in any way that they can tell (i.e. the guy will just not continue/escalate things). Also tbh girls are trained by society & how most men treat them on social media, etc. to seek validation from men for them to feel self worth/esteem, whereas we kind of have to stop seeking validation from women to be successful.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:32 PM
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