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| 1 | Does height really matter?Are you attracted to her? If the answer is 'yes', why does her height matter? | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Girl always expects me to pay for her in datesI wouldn't really compare those two things to completely voluntary dating | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Girl always expects me to pay for her in datesFor me it's like seeing a stray dog or a hungry child in the streets. I'm not dating out of pity That's a really weird motivation | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else have a sex bucket list?This comment is a lot to unpack I pray to god that you're just a teenager and there aren't grown adults that think like this | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 02:08 AM |
| 47 | Went from no sex in 4 months to twice in one weekThey were also drunk but the least drunk one was able to drive my car and drove me back to my place In the future just get an Uber. Don't be dumb | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone.A person like that is also a massive waste of my time. There's light teasing and then there's genuinely being an asshole Why would I want to be around that person? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Im curious about what part of what I said makes me a beta? Because I treat everyone like a person? Im also curious about why you believe thats something you can so easily categorize | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Thats my point. That the high rate of homeless men is because of unrelated factors to hiring | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Hate to break it to you but all men want sex. It’s the reason why we approach, the reason why we ask you for your number, a date, etc. We’re hoping this interaction will eventually lead to sex See this is why you're at odds with the people on this thread. Your end-all, be-all goal with dating women is sex. Thats a pretty limited goal and that energy absolutely pours out of you when interacting with women; they sense that After we’ve nutted and have post nut clarity, we can then start to assess y… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I see it as capitalism. There's a set supply of men and women, and the market sorts itself out with supply and demand The people who are really winning are bisexual folk | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Promiscuous people have multiple concurrent sexual partners and aren’t very picky about who they have sex with. That’s the “hookup culture” that encouraged in the U.S. Just because a woman isn’t promiscuous it doesn’t mean she doesn’t have sex at all. By your own admission, a promiscuous culture should increase your likelihood of success with women, no? In India they don’t believe in sex before marriage yet they have a higher population than the United States so they’re having way more sex than … | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?will still have a solid handful of dudes chasing her. But none are gonna stay | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?On behalf of all dudes Please don't speak for the rest of us | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?A large portion of homeless are also veterans or mentally ill Two groups that are mostly men Correlation =/= causation | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?My guy, I use multiple medications to try to regrow my hair because frankly I hate the way it looks. I avoid looking down because I'm embarrassed about the thinning on top of my head. I'm 25 I'm not gonna complain about the use of make-up | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 68 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Now I focus on women who show actual interest in me Well...shit | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?The same way a guy who fishes with dynamite is successful High volume but go look at what's left of the fish | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:24 PM |
| 10 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Those three things also have nothing to do with something you could bring emotionally to a relationship That gets your foot in the door sure, but then that bad attitude... | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?If I didn't have a sex drive I'd probably be a lot more content My career/health/fitness I all do for myself so that would all go unchanged | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Uh...no The point they're making is that women you're talking to are likely picking up the vibe that you view them as objects. Women (or anyone really) would probably rather be viewed as a person | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?That also requires getting the matches first | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 12 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?In A place that if you’re decent looking guy who dresses nice and has a decent job, and decent socials skills you don’t have to approach 70 women just to get a date with 4 and only have sex with 1. A place where women haven’t been taught to hate men and be sexually promiscuous just because You're saying you want a place where women are more willing/likely to have sex with you....but also a place where the women are less sexually active? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Intimacy is likely more important to mental health than sex Why do you have a girlfriend if you don't care about her? | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 60 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Everything he listed he said is “too much work”, but it’s not work at all when genuinely enjoy it. Tbf realistically how many times do you fail something before it starts to feel like a chore? When you do the same thing dozens of times without success, the most logical reaction is to dread that thing Not to mention, for the average guy, online dating is just bad for self-esteem | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Hotter girls are easierYes that's what I mean. The thing that matters is how he is feeling about himself Getting healthy and getting a job will likely help him alot with self worth | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Hotter girls are easierYour question did not indicate that 'worthwhile' was a binary quanlity. You asked if he would be more worthwhile And I answered that question, no? It's something he feels about himself. That he feels he is a valuable person who feels valued by others | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Hotter girls are easierbut does it make him a more worthwhile person? I'd say so. He's more likely to enjoy life, contributes more to society, people will want to be around him more, etc | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Does smoking weed get you laid?In my experience they usually don't end up being people I'm compatible with. I'd describe myself as 'motivated' and while you'd definitely get laid, they seem to really enjoy sitting on the couch doing nothing for hours | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Does smoking weed get you laid?So basically he's either: exchanging weed for sex impairing their judgment with weed so they'll have sex Guy sounds like a real winner | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Hotter girls are easierOkay, but does losing weight and becoming gainfully employed make you better? Unequivocally, yes His mental health alone would skyrocket because he is building self esteem in the progress he can see | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Hotter girls are easierSo let u/Ok_Yogurtcloset_669 be a textbook example of how *not* to treat a person, woman or otherwise Damn incels are all over the place | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:08 PM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]You think the difference between an object and people with emotions is semantics? That's kinda trashy | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 07:07 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]This sub has a weird way of treating women. A lot of them act like all women are playing some elaborate game that you need to crack the code for. When in reality every person has a million different things going on in their lives | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 06:07 AM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]girls are just cute, goofy, insecure dolls Or y'know, people... | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 06:03 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]You're right. He's gorgeous, charming and funny | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Dont chase girls they will comewell said OP I'm not so sure about that. Look at the guy's comment history | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally saw the girl I liked and asked her outYou're correct | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Do everyone a favor and make the first moveThe worst that could happen is they have a bad breakup after going out. I have friends and family whl have gone through this and it is far worse than it being a little awkward TL;DR Don't shit where you eat. Keep work separate | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 07:40 PM |
| 13 | Do everyone a favor and make the first moveThat is far from worst case | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?The problem is people get fucking depressed and regretful if they don't have the best time of their lives in this random ass time frame and spend the rest of their lives filled with spite and regret instead of working to make their present day the best of their lives. College and high school were shit for me. I agree. As cliche as it is you choose when the best part of your life is | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.His point being if both people apply this strategy, the number of words spoken will naturally approach zero in an attempt to be the one speaking the least. Its simply following the logic of the original statement | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 10:22 PM |
| 3 | How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?Don't just join a frat to meet women. You'll see yourself turn into someone nobody wants to be around (the stereotypical frat guy). The frat guys that non-Greek people (remember that 99% of the world is not in a frat) like are the genuine ones who break the mold | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:33 AM |
| 21 | How exactly should I go about getting laid in college?It should be noted hat's the epitome of 'your mileage may vary'. For example, I went to a large university and most frats there haze. A lot of people (especially independent thinkers) would appreciate being part of a community that didn't require abuse I agree with most other people that joining clubs is a much lower-investment way to achieve the same thing, and without the unwanted side-effects | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Best guide on how to eat pussy...PERIODJesus Christ who let this guy write a formal article? | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Best way to meet medical professionals?I understand that. But my point being that when you say 'fire department', most people don't think 'medical professional' | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I view myself as “sexy” when no woman has ever wanted to have sex with me?I'm also bi, and goin g to gay clubs and getting hit on by dudes is like I'm straight and it's still flattering when a guy hits on me. Just makes me wish women would do the same more often. | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Best way to meet medical professionals?Tbf, you said fire department. It's a normal assumption that most aren't medical professionals | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Women find you way more Attractive than you Realizethat’s because people don’t like the results we do have/find and so research is not further funded and realized I also think because (or at least hope) most psychologists performing research are focusing on more applicable/important fields of study. | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Women find you way more Attractive than you RealizeI don't know how to take that Same thing happened to me, I was incredibly flattered. Made me realize that women probably think the same but are conditioned to not say anything | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Women find you way more Attractive than you RealizeMost men don't know how to approach a woman anymore I'd argue cat calling has been an issue long before today's social environment. Even worse than it is now | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women find you way more Attractive than you RealizeI mean, they're talking about 'attractiveness thresholds' here. Not exactly a 'hard science' with lots of supporting research | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | I realized the importance of eye contact... without even talking to the girl.Usually in places where people have better attitudes | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.Good bot | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.It just didn't strike me as a joke | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 01:58 PM |
| 6 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.I got the conditioning part, not the joke part. Delivery was rough | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 08:20 PM |
| 5 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.I just mean I want someone to want to talk to me not because I'm buying them things | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 6 | What a gay guy hitting on me taught me about seduction.Exactly. My personal opinion is that I want to be able to keep someone interested (platonic or romantically) through what I can provide as a person, not what resources I have | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?Um what the hell is his intro? | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?I agree with the last part. Negging is something I would hate in a woman and don't want to emulate in myself. People appreciate my being blunt and friendly so I like to stick with that | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?I've been on that sub for a year now and have never read anything that bad. Lol Unrelated, but just so you know we're in that sub right now You said 'that' sub | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:04 PM |
| 5 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?accept that its terrible advice from mostly terrible people That's the impression I usually get here. First comment I read on this sub was "plow her, then her friends, then throw them to the curb" Most people are pretty friendly and helpful, but I notice a few too many treat women like their PlayStation trophies | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:57 PM |
| 4 | I'm 26 and I have Asperger's, I'm a virgin and the sexual frustration is driving me insane, is there any way I could be attractive to a woman?Most incels accept the appearance they were born with A lot of normal people do that too. The difference is incels then blame everyone else for not having sex with them. Like they're the center of their own computer simulation | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Made out with 2 girls that are best friends, what to do?You could be honest and say you're more interested in girl 1 | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Tips for a Late BloomerHe replied to me...you can read the comment | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 12:22 AM |
| 9 | Tips for a Late BloomerYes and I've had a friend end up in a decent sized legal battle because some girl regretted the drunk sex the next day, hence my cautiousness. I'm not trying to be argumentative, just that colleges tend to be a minefield with conduct rules like that There's no shame in going a little slow and asking. I know some on this sub will probably bring up the whole 'beta' pseudoscience about it | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Tips for a Late BloomerListen dawg, if he’s preoccupied with that ('that' being consent) he’s not ready to get down and dirty anyway Idk if you've been to college but they're pretty heavy on consent these days. I think as a decent person you should be concerned with consent | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Tips for a Late BloomerWell probably because if he's in college it's bad advice. That environment you basically have to ask to do anything with a woman. Just going in for intimacy that isn't reciprocated can land you in a conduct hearing | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:12 PM |
| 55 | How To Text Girls -- Done For You (With Examples!!)The only women this is going to work on are the kind of women who are gonna play game with you too. It would just be 1000 texts back and forth of people trying to guess each other's thoughts | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 03:54 PM |
| 6 | I passed out right before sex.There's no shame in being a lightweight. There is shame in blacking out drunk because you don't know your limits. Try to gain her interest again. Now she's probably thinking you can't even responsibly drink, and she why would she have sex with you | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manThat tip is only relevant if you want to keep the other person around | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | The most common mistake I see hereI would just risk the rejection for the friend. I've never been really interested in having friends that are girls, unless it's to expand my social circle. I agree with you on everything except for that. I'd feel like a dick for using girls for social gain just because of their gender. I don't see much of a difference gender when it comes to just being friends. Some women are friends, others are more than that. Seems draconian to me | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 05:46 PM |
| -12 | "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. " - Lao TzuUpvotes for trivializing mental health. Yayyy I gotta unsubscribe from this sub. All of these post are ridiculous | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | You are sent $86,400 into your bank and someone steals $10, would you be so upset that you would throw away the remaining $86,390? Of course not. There are 86,400 seconds in one day, and yet when someone robs you of 10 secs with their negativity you sacrifice the remaining 86,390 on them.Uh...no. You can't earn time back. You can always get more money back. Also I would be using that $86k to prove a point Every time this quote is used it loses more meaning. Money is nothing like the concept of time. Also in the month scenario someone just deliberately stole from you, what's to stop them from doing it again. It's the principle of it that matters | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Tinder success storyI don't think there's anything more beta than calling someone else a beta. Alpha/beta is a load of shit | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 06:34 PM |
| 20 | Tinder success storyYeah dude women are just objects good only for sex! /s u/Maikowski2 is the genius we need | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 12:51 PM |
| 9 | How to get new guys friends to be gaming partners?I thought this post was about a woman gamer trying to get new guys she knows to (video) game with her | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 01:54 PM |
| 11 | 29 year old virgin suddenly getting facebook friend requests from attractive women - wat doIf you don't actually know those people, that's kinda strange. Facebook isn't like Tinder. It's more of a collection of people you know. Might be those fake accounts that don't have a lot of friends on them | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 01:51 PM |
| 2 | A List of Approach InvitationsI wasn't trying to start an argument. I just thought it was funny that OP is basically saying that anything a woman does on a sidewalk points towards whether or not she'll have sex with ypu | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 05:47 PM |
| -1 | A List of Approach InvitationsSo basically a woman is either 100% interested or not interested in fucking. She can't just be walking at any given time? | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 05:13 PM |
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