Kaladar Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	The primacy of your body I'm going to disagree with this one a little bit. I lift and I also agree everyone should. The point I want to make is, don't get stuck in the bodybuilder mentality. A lot of my friends who lift have solid bodies but they won't approach girls because of the last % of BF or some stupid shit. Lifting is great, but it's very easy to get into this "preperation mindset". Ultimately I think guys should just start before they're ready. Yes go lift, but if you want to talk to girls, go meet girls. If yo…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/15 04:28 AM
8	5 minutes that taught me how to never lose sight of your goal while approaching a woman I appreciate your insight here and I think we have very similar views on this. We definitely agree that making our intentions known is key, I won't debate that. My response was not to say that your core method was flawed but to provide some insight into a way that you could tweak your approach for even greater success. I am suggesting that your message to her does not change, but the medium by which you transmit the message does. In your story you were blunt with her and used your words. Sometim…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 07:40 AM
8	5 minutes that taught me how to never lose sight of your goal while approaching a woman Fair question. I would say that direct plain talk is a man's game. When we speak to each other, we want information, leave the emotions and color out, just give me the 1s and 0s. We would like women to come up to us and be like "let's bang". With women, their concern is they don't want to "appear" to be sluts, they want to be seduced not convinced. They are emotional and insecure and other stuff this subreddit can go for days explaining... Imagine in your mind a guy having a conversation with a …	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 06:20 AM
19	5 minutes that taught me how to never lose sight of your goal while approaching a woman I like your style and your results speak for themselves. But I don't think the obvious sexual language is necessary to get your point across. Specifically I think you head there too early. Why not keep the conversation harmless but let your intentions show more in your frame, eye contact, body language, and smile? Of course if your way works, "I ain't mad atcha". I just want to put my perspective out here to share.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 01:43 AM
3	[FR] First night clubbing after 8-10 months of TRP and semi-Monk mode I don't have any background in the biological sciences so I am simply speaking from my own n=1 sample size here. The different foods we eat make us feel differently, and when we feel differently we act/react differently. You can't argue that nutrition is irrelevant in social dynamics. Talk to someone after they have had 3 shots of esspresso, and then talk to the same person after they've had some kratom tea... Let me ask this question. Does the person have low self esteem because he's fat or is …	/r/TheRedPill	26/01/15 08:47 AM
2	Salary Renegotiation and TRP. What industry are you in if you don't mind me asking?	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 08:31 PM
1	Don't forget to laugh. Very insightful, excellent breakdown of the interaction. I honestly would have handled that situation badly as well. I just watched it 10x and I'm almost blushing a little! She's good, I wanna start gaming in THAT tier of woman.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/15 06:38 AM
3	Is AWALT true for virgins? So operating under the assumption that this girl is a virgin I would say there is a good chance that she will be faithful. If a person can resist the cc for 23 years, I believe they deserve a chance at a LTR. Go with your gut on this one OP. If it all goes to shit, at least it went to shit on your terms. But I still caution you on giving her too much at once, let her work for your attention. Don't stop playing the game just because you think you won.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 07:58 AM
1	A different (non-monetary) reason on why marriage is a bad, bad idea. Do you think it's possible that there's a girl out there that could match your libido? And if so what would hold you back from marrying her? lack of variety? No judgement, just curious.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 07:42 AM
1	Listen to women more, don't be macho, Pope tells men. So in the entire universe, humans are the highest power that exists? Is this what you believe?	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 01:11 AM
1	If you break Red Pill rules, it's not just you that suffers. Beautiful story man, I also had a really good step father who I am grateful for. I can never understand the sacrifice that some of these men make to come in and raise step children as their own.	/r/TheRedPill	17/01/15 07:14 AM
1	What was your tipping point for actually starting to learn game in the real world? I agree with you 100%! I learned that hard lesson with cold showers, no matter how many I take, diving under their is always a tough moment. It made me realize that although you will never get rid of the pre-jump anxiety, you may not want to. Those activities wouldn't give you the same high afterwards without the uncomfortable jump in the beginning.	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:55 AM
4	What was your tipping point for actually starting to learn game in the real world? I agree with this, and to elaborate a bit further... Don't go into it like an "approach", throw out all the PUA stuff in your head, just approach a girl or three and try to start a conversation "hey how are you guys doing this evening?" If you look good, feel good, and are good you should be able to send that across without words. Smile and eye contact is the most important component of "game". Focus on smiling and making eye contact. Everything is else is "protein powder" in my opinion. Put the…	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/15 01:41 AM
2	Should I Give Asia a Try? Well I say just do it. If you aren't happy, change the mother fucker up see if that works. Honestly two things could happen if you make that move. A) You decide that Asia is really cool and you were right to move there. B) Asia is not that cool but you realized that by not bitching and actually taking your life into your hands you were able to make a change. You realize, "wow when I actually DO and TRY something, I have the power to make my life better" then you use your new skill and move to Ne…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:03 AM
1	Never Buy A Girl a Drink. mmmm dat tasty blonde...	/r/seduction	30/07/13 08:39 PM
1	Be a fucking value giver Bro come on now he's 18, I think he knows what he's talking about...motherfucker!	/r/seduction	30/07/13 06:52 PM
1	I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one? You could always just not give a shit and keep doing what you want. The less you care, the less you care. Don't listen to people's labels, they don't define you. Go out there and be proud of who you are. Someone comes up to you and says "hey you're that guy that's always creeping on girls" just be like "yea at the time I thought it would get me laid". Say this with a straight face like it's obvious. Don't let irrational fears stop you from doing what you want, go out there and be known as the gu…	/r/seduction	20/02/13 12:33 AM