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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Three months in ... Tempting at first but I feel it gets better as you get used to handling the attention and find ways to channel that drive into your own bedroom. The bright side is, even married, you get to laugh at the awkwardness of some women's pickup lines.	/r/askMRP	03/12/15 08:42 PM
-1	Wife needing advice You said "I would be willing to change. If I knew what to do.". Newsflash it's not about you. You'll find a way to be happy with him or you won't. This isn't for you. If he's going through the motions and doing it for you, he'd be doing it wrong.	/r/askMRP	13/11/15 10:13 PM
2	no desire to initiate Go have fun on your date then. Seriously go do something you will enjoy and don't think about sex. My wife wouldn't give me anything but duty sex if I was overweight either (I've been there I know). It sucks but just focus on having a good time doing whatever it is you like to do.	/r/askMRP	13/11/15 09:31 PM
2	The ignore game? How do you handle when she ignores you? For example if my wife did one of my chores b/c I forgot. I'd just say thanks and go do something else productive that I need to get done. I wouldn't engage in the passive aggressive slam against me. Also moving on to something else productive undermines their ability to call me lazy. If she wants to make my life more productive cool with me. I'm not giving the silent butthurt treatment but I'm not engaging in discussing the details of my mistake like she is expecting. Id also make sure it gets …	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/11/15 06:54 PM
2	First TRP stance assumed. STFU, lift, walk out if needed. Wife seems to mirror behavior. What do? Here's my two cents. I'm a newbie to RP but have some parallel experiences to you. Inflated overestimated SMV, check! Don't do this, it is a trap and leads to lack of motivation for self improvement. Which in a nutshell is your problem. This is easy to have as a foreigner living abroad. I lived in Asia, my wife is Japanes (same age as yours). The foreign veneer wears off quickly in an LTR but you may still get an inflated view of your value due to external attention. Your wife will see through i…	/r/askMRP	10/11/15 06:32 PM
5	Was advised to come here for LTR advice A decision to resign yourself to ONEitis is a deliberate decision to wreck yourself. Having plates on the side doesn't make it ok. The result will be the same. Get through the sidebar to prep yourself for an eventual LTR if that is a goal of yours (with someone else). But in this situation heed the advice that you asked for and just move on.	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/11/15 12:39 AM
1	Fight about wife's diet Not a RP expert here so others can comment on the more nuanced aspects. I'll just add my personal experience which is all before finding RP so I'm sure my approach wasn't perfect (seriously I found RP only a week ago). At 29% bf you aren't going to motivate anyone. I was there before and trust me if you don't show results it doesn't matter how much you know about health and fitness. You will just sound like a hypocrite to anyone else. The most empowering decision in my life was getting in shape.…	/r/askMRP	23/10/15 04:49 PM

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