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| 2 | Do you ask to exchange numbers or snapchat when meeting a girl in college? | Fundamentals | KaleWeekly | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:05 PM |
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| 3 | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?Simple. Approach with the mindset of just getting to know her. Have zero expectations or the desired outcome. Women need to warm up to strangers. Most importantly be confident in every aspect and trust in yourself. Hopefully, this helps you like it did for me. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 0 | I 31M asked a girl out at the bar and she said prove yourself?That was the correct move | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandYou must flirt. Flirting is how you avoid the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 03:08 PM |
| 12 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?Sure women do have lots of power in the dating world. That is if you let it happen. If she immaturely threatens you with that, just leave. Tell her to find someone better than you. Only focus on things that you can control and that is your own value. Be high value and leave if she pulls that shit. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:30 PM |
| 14 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?You need to change this mindset. Next, realize you need to take girls off the pedestal. Realize that all girls are just normal human beings with flaws like everyone else. Start small, just talk to girls with zero intentions to date. Girls can sense your desperation. Just get comfortable being around girls. Don't read any PUA crap. It's important to just be yourself. Good luck to you man! | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | how do you talk to girls?Like normal people. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?I'm 6'4... if any girl says these exact words she's automatically off the dating/relationship list. Shows how shallow she is and makes my job a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Had the most amazing first date and now…nothing?Number 1 rule. Once you set the date, chill on the texting. Of course, if she texts first, just politely respond back and if it gets too much just say you're busy and that you are looking forward to seeing her. Otherwise, don't text. Save the conversation for in-person. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Advice from a girl: don’t always take it personally if you’re rejectedJust try to connect with her and get to know who she is as a person. Detach yourself from any expectations of asking her out. In fact, you need to think to yourself that you just want to get to know who she is before you do anything. Place zero expectations. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | having a sex doll instead of dating?Why not do both? Date and have a sex doll. Date with the intention of just getting to know the girl and build a connection. The Sex doll eliminates your neediness and desires. A win-win. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:30 AM |
| 9 | Girl who originally rejected me seems interested and seemed shocked by complimentIt's just a normalized reaction. Don't think a :) means she automatically likes you. She's just being friendly. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I asked her out, she said she doesn't know me muchNext time just say "let's grab some lunch sometime or "let's hit up xyz" Tbh your sentence is too wordy and conveys neediness with the phrase "would you mind". It makes you sound unsure of yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | I asked her out, she said she doesn't know me muchHow did you word your ask out? | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Tbf it does help that I'm 6'4 | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 11:43 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Terrible, I would rather die trying and not get any, then get some lame ass pity fuck. 19 btw | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 01:01 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Don't say it, show it through flirting, bantering, and kino. Women want a mystery, what fun is it when you just tell her. You're not in middle school anymore. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Considering just forgetting about women?I would do all of this, but still talk to women and ask them out on dates IF you feel chemistry, if not don't even bother and just treat them like friends. That way you don't waste time. That's what I'm doing now after a breakup, just learning and practicing socialization and flirting even though I know it's going nowhere. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Why I give upWtf you talked to her on the phone for 6-8 hours??? I've never talked to my former gf for more than 10 minutes on the phone. In fact, I only called her once for 5 minutes before the first date. You have one-itis. You need to talk to multiple girls at the same time. You are also coming off as really needy, which is a huge turnoff. Relax and be yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 03:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.I was in your shoes when I was in highshool. Unfortunately for me, the pandemic hit when I just turned 18 and pretty much eliminated senior year of HS and freshman year of college for me. I pretty much just focused on myself and working to improve myself in the big picture. When I finally got on campus this year, I originally had your same mindset, which caused me to try to hard. I then took a step back and realized I didn't need a relationship. Guess what happened? I got into a relationship, al… | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Girl at my university always laughs and praises me in person, but never answers textsIn a similar way, I had the same experience as you. In fact, I would say you have it much better since she laughed at your jokes. For me, I literally just invited her to come to the football game with me. We made out that same night. Even then I treated the whole thing as like a friendly get together. We actually jumped from a fwb into a relationship for a month, but we moved way too fast. But, just be casual and invite her to join you for any activity. Don't think much of it, use this as a way … | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Do you ask to exchange numbers or snapchat when meeting a girl in college?Thank you. If I see her constantly, should I build rappaport for a couple of meet-ups before getting her number or snap? Or just ask straight away to form a study group or something? | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Do you ask to exchange numbers or snapchat when meeting a girl in college?Thank you. What if she declines and only offers her snap? With snap, there's more comfortablility in communication. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:32 PM |
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