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| 1 | Could social acceptance of prostitution solve everyone’s problems? | Discussion | Kaleb_Bunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:09 PM |
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| – | Having no friends is not a red flag in datingI think it is a red flag in general. Like who do you know that legitimately has no friends? It’s not a neurodivergent thing, my autistic friends all have friends. You’d need to willingly isolate yourself from society. Would you want to date a woman like that? Some terminally online femcel type? I don’t think most people would find that to be ideal, nor do I think people like that are necessarily mentally healthy for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/26 11:37 PM |
| 1 | It isn't worth it to have casual sex with menAs a man, I kinda empathize, because I tbh feel the same way about most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/26 06:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: “Join Hobbies” and “Expand Your Social Circle” Are very low-ROI Dating Strategies for Most Average MenYeah but it helps you make friends and learn more about yourself, which is inherently valuable and will make you a better partner in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Some people are not meant to find a partnerPerhaps, but if you believe this is you, it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Akaash Singh (or any rich guy) losing "half his wealth" in divorceIt’s basically misogynist ragebait. Just like how women are, to some degree, responsible for choosing shitty men. Men are, to some degree, responsible for choosing shitty women. I don’t feel bad for Akaash for willfully marrying a degenerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:55 PM |
| 5 | If the U.S. only allowed women to immigrate, most of the usual left/right arguments basically disappear.I mean that is a thing. Hitler himself saw slavs as being of an inferior race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:41 PM |
| 5 | If the U.S. only allowed women to immigrate, most of the usual left/right arguments basically disappear.Leftists don’t care and are pro immigration because they think borders are oppressive. Right wingers hate immigrants because they are racist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:21 PM |
| -4 | Could social acceptance of prostitution solve everyone’s problems?Sex work is just a different type of work. There is no real argument as to why a consenting adult should not be able to buy sexual services from another consenting adult. These women have agency and are often well compensated for their work. Saying we can’t have legal sex work because sex trafficking exists is like saying we can’t have normal work because labor trafficking exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention itAny relationship any person has is transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are never going to believe that virgin men are not respected as long as they are told not to mention itI think you take back a lot of power when you realize you could lose your virginity any day you want by simply going to a brothel and hiring a prostitute. Some people will consider this “cheating” or somehow an inferior form of sex. But consider: - All relationships are transactional. If a man has a girlfriend, he is paying to have sex with her, just in an indirect way. In addition to simply paying to take a woman on dates, a man must pay his time and energy to keep a woman in his life. Prostitu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 02:21 AM |
| – | If a loner guy gets attention, but from overweight women only, does that mean he is not THAT "off"?From what I have seen, no. On the contrary I think they do significantly better than their male counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are obligated to “fix” male loneliness by dating/sleeping with lonely men.The real solution is to just legalize and destigmatize prostitution. I think a lot of angry sexless men would be much happier if they just had sex with a prostitute. But that’s only legal in Nevada(and a handful of states worldwide) and it’s perceived by some as emasculating, less valuable, or whatever because you are paying for it. But irl most relationship are transactional. Is there really that big of a difference between paying a prostitute for sex, and paying to go on dates with women for (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 10:02 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highMen are expected to put in the bulk of the effort at the start of a relationship. We need to approach you, convince you that we are worth your time, and take you on dates to try to court you. Because of this, It actually ruins dating when every single woman you are even somewhat attracted to is uninterested. Especially when said women themselves aren’t the ideal. It makes even the act of trying to date women unrewarding and humiliating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:31 AM |
| 10 | Not everyone needs to play the field, but everyone must have a "young" romance first.I’m pretty sure most older men who go after younger women do have a fetishistic obsession with youth. Because these aren’t typically late bloomers looking for their first relationship. Rather they seem to be mid life crisis divorced dads. That might be a generalization, but the folks on passport bro subs and 90 day fiancé really give that vibe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 10:25 PM |
| 4 | Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive.N-count only matters if you’re in an ultra conservative culture. How many guys you’ve fucked is a personal and intimate question and it’s not something most people just talk about. Age is an issue tho. Older women do struggle more. They’re not even necessarily unattractive, but that is just the reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 10:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men frequently lose in life if they are too empathetic towards women and female issuesIt requires a balance Being a chud will not get you what you want. You cannot have healthy relationships with people you have no empathy for. Likewise, life is fundamentally competitive, everyone does have their own interests, and if you are not pushing your agenda, nobody else will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonWomen do it too. My mom voted for Trump twice and she’s literally an immigrant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 02:47 AM |
| 26 | A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women.Men should be more selective. Aspire to date the type of woman you are truly attracted to. And if you cannot measure up to those standards, improve yourself to meet them. I feel like that is how you end up in a happy relationship. At some point maybe you’ll have to compromise on some things, but hopefully, you won’t compromise on much. The alternative is picking someone, not because you actually want them, but because you think they’re your only options. And I’m certain that type of thinking lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:45 PM |
| – | CMV: Inexperienced men who want to improve should get practice girlfriendsTbh, there’s nothing wrong with this so long as you are honest about your intentions. A lot of woman don’t really care about LTRs and would gladly be a short term “practice GF” to someone, so long as he’s a decent guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:09 PM |
| – | The redpill is due a revival.Every day you wake up, you choose who you want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:05 PM |
| – | The redpill is due a revival.We live in a hierarchical world. This fact necessitates the existence of a “red pill”. An ideology of gaming the hierarchy and improving one’s social status. Is it toxic? Yes, but it reflects the world we live in. These philosophies are best compared to religions. Having a mild adherence to the red pill is probably harmless and could genuinely improve a person’s life. But being a red pill zealot/fundamentalist probably makes you a detestable person. One ultimately needs to balance their desire f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Who else has worked long and hard for something thinking it would increase their chances at getting girls only to have fallen short?This is probably the truth. Being fit and having a good job helps and I doubt anyone would deny that. But being likable and good socially is what makes men attractive. Every girls I know who I’d really wish to be with are dating guys who are basically normal folk that are just very likable. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Men have it harder in dating than women doMen and women have unique problems. A grown man, statistically speaking, isn’t nearly as likely to be the victim of sexual assault or domestic violence as women. Likewise, the loneliness and isolation many men feel is something that just doesn’t affect younger women as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.Most women will probably be offended if you say this out loud, but, this is why you need to be manipulative. Yes, you do need to form friendships under false pretenses. You do need to hide your intentions. You do need to learn how to control the emotions and feelings of others. It sounds wrong to say. But actually think about it. Are women going to just throw themselves at you if you are a “nice guy”? If you don’t do it, other people will. The key is balance. You cannot be a brazen asshole. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.This is so much of “blue pill” dating advice. Fundamentally single men are in a unique situation. One that women and men who don’t struggle with women cannot understand. At the end of the day, life is competitive. You need to be selfish to get what you want. That doesn’t mean there isn’t room for empathy. But a man who is purely altruistic will never get what he wants. To quote the Talmud: “If I am not for me, who will be for me?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:41 PM |
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