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I think this is too strong. I've known a couple of guys that went through some seriously bad shit. One was financial, the other was health wise and both girls stayed with them through it all. They were both decently hot too. They could have found other guys but they didn't. It's bullshit to say love conquers all. Statistically, if your gf who 'loves you so much' gets hit on by Brad Pitt, she's gone. But the number of girls who wouldn't just up and go if a significantly richer and more attractive…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:00 AM
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I got to say i don't see why you ended such a good relationship! Haha fuck no seriously though, good thing you got out before it went any further.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:56 AM
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Seriously dude how the fuck did that work. Like 'Hey if you don't do this I'll go jump on another dick' or was it more subtle. What a fucked up chick either way.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:54 PM
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She has the luxury of holding out for the Chad you say. But here's where things don't compute for me... 6,3 9 out of 10 Chads are by definition a tiny slice of the population. Sure they are fucking way more girls than the average guy but they surely they aren't fucking like the top 60 percent most attractive chicks... or do a lot of chicks just go home to an empty bed dreaming of it being filled with a Chad eventually rather than hook up or fwb or LTR with a guy who is far more average.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:34 PM
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I had to google that shit. She got diagnosed at 22 with type 1 so it wasn't weight related. Some speculation she was misdiagnosed and did have type 2 but go back and look at pictures of her she was never fat. In any event, I think your broader point is right on. Think about it: if you put on 20 pounds in a marriage, what are the chances the guy is going to leave with the high costs of a divorce. To be fair to women though, I've seen a lot of married men go the wrong fucking way too. Just eating …
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:27 PM
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I feel you on the second paragraph. Do you have some examples... in my case it's just hard to describe but it's a general sense of not being appreciated enough.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:02 PM
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I mean one time we had a fight about it and she's all 'We do it a lot more than all my friends and i like it, it feels good but you want to do it way more than i want to.' And i think she was probably right. Her interest and sexuality was, relatively speaking, high. Maybe 80th percentile even. But not enough for me. But she's judging it by the people in other percentiles below her.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 10:00 PM
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From what I can tell, it seems that only about 20 percent of single women (not in a relationship, no friends with benefits or one nighters) masturbate more than once a week. A lot of them seem to only masturbate a couple times a month. Compare this to the average guy who is not fucking anyone. So yeah I do think that's a big natural barrier to overcome.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:54 PM
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I think it's a good argument in both cases. Some of the married guys I talked to have visions of single guys fucking different hot chicks every weekend and they are bored with their 'i'm so tired tonight' wives. Ultra-Chads probably do accomplish this feat but they are such a small sliver of the population. Keeping in mind that most people in any category, married, single, whatever, are not on top of the world is a good way not to get down about your own situation.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:50 PM
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Is she fine with you fucking other chicks... cause i'd consider that a big one. If so, congrats.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:42 AM
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That's true. LTRs involve a shit ton of tricky trade-offs.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:15 AM
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This works fine with dating app girls who are kind of looking for a jerk (and as we know here those types of girls exist). It's harder when you actually love and respect a girl. This is why LTRs are frigging tricky.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:15 AM
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It might help temper your frustration if you were more aware of the realities of the standard marriage lol. I mean even happy marriages are more pleasant co-habitation than reliable sexual ecstasy. Unless you're a celebrity or super rich and she's constantly wanting to please you lol. But hell even then being with one person for a long time... things can't help but get somewhat stale.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 02:14 AM
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I've been reflecting on your post. I grew up in a pretty small town and a good number of the guys I know from home (none of who are red pill guys) have settled down with girls and have been married since their early to mid twenties. Many have kids. Few if any of their wives were ever on Instagram, at least in a big way. I wonder if this produced a dynamic where they did not developed an inflated sense of their value... It's a different dating market culture than in a big city or maybe things are…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:58 AM
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I don't think so. Keep in mind we were living together, she was angling for that ring. I ended it because I was moving away for a new job and didn't want to do long distance and also felt we were too different. You might say if she was really angling why didn't she do more and quite frankly i think she figured that being a 6 who put out at least as much as her friends did and wasn't batshit crazy was enough. Which, for many guys, it is.
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:34 AM
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Shit, Have you tried other sites...
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:32 AM
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So you're saying in your view maintaining her sexual desire while living together is basically no chance...
/r/askTRP15/06/21 01:30 AM
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I hear this all the time (the part about no tinder matches). Do you all mean literally a big fat 0 matches or 'very few.' Hard to imagine especially for guys in big cities with huge numbers of people that it's really 0 but I've heard that a lot, including from guys that are like 5.5. or 6 out of 10 looks wise. I guess OLD is a bitch.
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:05 AM
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My ex didn't like oraland only came from PIV sex. Lots of issues ultimately ended that relationship but this was not one of them!
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:49 AM
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It kinds of freak me out how much that is true. With my ex, sex was like good but just good. At most. I never finished and went like 'Omg fuck yessssss.' Except for when I would come back from work trips. It was insane. She was like a 14 year old guy couldn't get enough. Of course, avoiding monotony in a LTR is impossible I think.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:47 AM
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Is r relationships full of SJWs... I do remember one guy on there who said he wanted his gf to lose weight for her health and there were people basically saying he was a monster so that might have been an indication!
/r/askTRP05/06/21 02:44 AM
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'efforts trying to prove how desired she is by other men.' Fuck this sounds shit. What did she do
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:07 AM
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I agree with legalizing prostitution on basic freedom grounds, not to mention others. But I'm not sure how satisfying it would be. Knowing a girl wants you for reasons other than you just increased her net worth by a couple hundred bucks is so much more satisfying than the alternative of paying. Better than nothing but yeah.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:56 PM
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Women, on the whole, may be over-valued. Pussy is not!
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:54 PM
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All these posts have been very interesting for me to read. I'm single now and live in a big-ish city but when I was in my early twenties I lived in a fairly small town and dated a girl exclusively for two years. Met through mutual friends and quickly became a couple. She had Instagram but wasn't on it 24/7 and on weekends it was just like 'We should call up so and so and go to the beach and then go out and do bbq for dinner.' Or we would watch Netflix say. She was no Instagram model type but she…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:44 PM
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Sounds rough. How did that manifest on her part
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:30 PM
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I don't know about that dude. I fully believe in telling girls you don't believe in the nonsense bullshit social myth of platonic male-female friendship and you're not going to be with her if she's hanging out with 'my guy friends' (a.k.a. the guys in the invisible line to fuck her). But telling her she can't be close with a gay guy... that seems a step too far. Not to say the slut encourager features of the gay guy can't prove detrimental as well but I think if you start telling a girl she has …
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:20 PM
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She's been 'open' with you huh. I got to ask how does this 'openness' came about dude because normally girls are super reluctant to talk about their sexual history... It sucks that she told you, especially if you never brought it up. It's hard to know how many guys a girl has been with so your next one could be even more 'used' if you will. I remember this guy I used to work with. He was dating this cute but somewhat nerdy, shy girl. He assumed she had been with a couple of guys maybe. Turns out…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:24 AM
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The way I see it is the risk of you looking back at this two years out and saying 'Why the fuck didn't I just bring her back in' is probably greater than the risk of you saying 'Why the fuck did I bring her back in.' But if you think long and hard about this (and you should before making a final decision) and feel differently don't frigging do it.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:11 AM
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I think part of the question is did the 'certain person' bother you. In other words, are you going to be haunted by the idea of her fucking this one guy or not... i would think you might be given you asked not about her general sexual history but her experience with this 'certain person.' If not though, I don't think you would look like a bitch asking her back. Easy to say 'Obviously you're with me so i must be way fucking better huh... now come over.'
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:08 AM
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Before I got my current job, I spent a lot of time working in customer service. Most of the time was at a hotel and boy oh boy did I witness a lot of married couples and couples in general. I wouldn't say most of the women were 'dominant' per se but few of them were submissive. There was a lot of bitchiness. It's not that uncommon to find women who are submissive once it turns to sex (or maybe I've been lucky here i don't know) but to find generally submissive, pleasant women who just go with wh…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 03:00 AM
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I hear you dude. I remember watching a show back in the day (i forgot what) and it was one of some dude running for senate and the host was commenting on his announcement video and she's like 'I hate how his wife is all beside him looking at him admiringly the whole time' and it's like 'Ugh yeah why is that bad.' So many women seem to be like this. I don't want a girl who follows like a dog to a master lol but some level of appreciation and respect and not I know better-ism would be nice.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:53 AM
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Enjoyed the story OP but not sure how much of a Red Pill moment this is since most people recognize that extremely high levels of wealth cancel out good looks (if we define a red pill moment as one that goes against the dominant social perception of things). Maserati and a mansion is the pinnacle of the pinnacle. The more difficult question is what level this kicks in. .. would she have dumped the guy for a dude who was 20 percent richer... that's trickier.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:47 AM
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Haha yeah I know right. That's why I've lucked out with my 3 girls. Not that it happens literally every time but far more often than not. I guess I like the ability for us to do at almost the same time. It's a big part of the getting off-ness for me.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:43 AM
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How would you define a 'traditionally feminine women' out of curiosity? My real life friends are hardly red pill dudes but none of them are particularly beta either but they've all admitted to me with frustration 'She doesn't want to have sex.' In some cases, it's a lot of 'Not in the mood, too tired, too this excuse' but even the dudes who are with girls who rarely say no say they are never initiated on and they get the sense that their girlfriends might actually really want to do it a couple t…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:41 AM
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Here's the thing there's online reality and actual reality. Online it's a bunch of Instagram guys who are super jacked (many on steroids or sarms but also just great genetics) with 5-10 percent body fat. But that's like the 0.1 percent. Worrying about competing with them is like worrying about competing with the dude driving past you in a Rolls Royce. Just be reasonably lean (ideally around 15 percent body fat) and have decent muscle and you'll be fine physically. Tinder and online dating in gen…
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:52 AM
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Do you really think that's true... of my 5 closest buddies, only one has by any standard 'stopped trying' and you see a lot of couples at the grocery store or whatever and most of the girls look reasonably competently put together, well dressed, make up. Hell my girlfriend won't go out without makeup, though she too put on some covid weight. I got to imagine the total stop trying girls are the exception.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:44 AM
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Interesting I had similar experience as you and op. In your case, was she just eating too much and stopped exercising or...
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:40 AM
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The salary is elite dude. That's like top 7 percent or so of income earners. That's a shit ton of cash. Height is sweet. Obviously if your face is of the only a mother could love variety then that's a problem but you didn't report that so hopefully not. There is a view that non-white guys have a difficult time getting white women. I have no idea if that's true being white myself. But certainly there must be hot Indian girls who would be into you. Elite height plus elite salary is a hell of a sta…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:37 AM
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A bit confused. You say it's all a competition to be bigger, stronger, and smarter and you're just trying to be productive... by getting education and going to the gym. Is it not the case that your efforts to be more productive (school and gym) are advancing your ability to compete in the drive to be bigger, stronger, and smarter... In terms of a lack of potential partners, how wide have you cast the net
/r/seduction01/06/21 02:22 AM
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Haha I don't know where you're living but in big cities, very few guys are obese (though a lot are skinny fat or lean but lacking muscle). People do tend to overestimate competition though, though it's probably not quite as shitty as you suggest ha. I imagine in suburbs and rural areas you get older people who let themselves go more.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:07 AM
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There's spending money and then there's spending money. Like go out for dinner or a walk in the park with a drink or something and then there's 'Hey you know i need a whole new wardrobe. You should come pick out for me and bring your credit card.' The second is no good.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:03 AM
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Well I don't know you but it really is a number's game. How many girls have you approached... approaching sucks at first. I might do a post about this in the main but my buddies and I created a fake dating profile with pictures of an Instagram model and he only got 5 first messages over 2 months. Crazy shit. If you're in the 4-6 range looks wise and have a decent career, you should be able to get a girlfriend. But you have to cast a very wide net because even very good looking guys rarely get ap…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:00 AM
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Yeah I hear you dude. But I'm not sure nofap is the way to go. I mean is your plan to not fap for as long as you don't get laid... I would recommend a middle ground where you still do it but limit yourself. Because yeah if you do it every night you'll mess yourself up but saying okay i'm never jerking again is a step too far and will put you in a bad spot.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:16 AM
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Yeah I think you're probably right. I notice she likes teasing that highlights she's hot but in a kind of playful way that kind of says 'You get things because you're hot don't deny it' and it kind of brings out a certain sexuality on her part. David, on the other hand, does not joke. Dude is so serious about everything. He's basically granite with the average Twitter user's view of society oppressing women through 'the patriarchy' or whatever.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:32 PM
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Yeah but still hard to reconcile her being so into him with red pill tenets. I'm thinking there's a certain point when good looks overwhelm things, at least temporarily. Probably not long term.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:25 PM
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I hear you dude. I honestly think it's better to date a girl who is not super hot but really wants to fuck and wants to please you and be sexy for you than a girl who makes your eyes (and other things as well) pop but then doesn't make any effort or just is not that sexual so ultimately you're not really getting much from her (sounds like this girl kept in bad shape too though so really worst of all worlds).
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:03 PM
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I wish it were that simple but you can still get herpes even if the girl does not have open sores. Happened to a friend of mine. Got to imagine way lower risk but it can and does happen with enough regularity to make you think twice but no risk no reward you know. Apart from wrapping your entire public area in something, you can't 100 percent avoid it.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:59 PM
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You mean watching porn in an LDR because the chick was so unattractive to you that it was better than fucking her...
/r/askTRP31/05/21 08:45 PM
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