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Kaleidoscopefatigue/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:00 AM
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Kaleidoscopefatigue/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:25 AM
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Are you these things without red pill ?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 10:30 PM
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That's sad. You're still very young. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:05 AM
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This advice is solid and basically what I wish guys shared w each other.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:04 AM
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I think what's missing is real people as mentors... a lot of stuff online is monetized information. Good luck banging.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 05:34 AM
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When people are having outbursts, you usually just have to let them go and not get in their way by telling them to calm down and making suggestions, even if you are being logical. Emotionally disregulated people often just want to be heard, knowing that someone is listening non judgementally. A book/text on active listening will explain better than me.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 02:16 AM
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2 methods that will help in communication and building emotional intelligence. You can find this stuff online, and also find workbooks with a little research : (As an autistic person, they've really come in handy for social situations) teach yourself about validating/ invalidating language teach yourself active listening These techniques are clinically proven, classic lifelines / game changers in any kind of human conversation and breaking up conflict. some people just have very toxic patterns f…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 07:29 PM
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Do you watch fresh and fit? I only really know them because they seem to come up quite a bit in manophere TRP deconstruction videos. There are a lot of youtubers who are doing videos deconstructing and using critical/educated thought on these channels. I think that F. D. Signifier's material is great.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 12:37 AM
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You didn't answer my question so you didn't really help me. Thanks for listening.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:10 PM
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I used to think this, but I think sex is a beautiful thing at its best. But we shouldn't make that the point of our life. Not everyone needs it, and it should just be treated as sacred and powerful instead of trivial, and never abused. A privilege but not a right.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:03 PM
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A lot of these people only know what a 30 year old looks like from porn. Age is often mislabeled. You have 50 year old women tagged as 30.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:13 PM
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It's being seen from penis tingle gaze. Does it make my penis tingle? No? Not important human. Really that's it.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:11 PM
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Egg count. The factoid that supposedly justifies pedophilia. They wonder why nobody wants to spend time with them.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:05 PM
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How does the female gaze make you feel gross, inadequate and ashamed? I don't wish you were dead.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 04:31 AM
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Hi I'm autistic if that means anything. I read the whole thing. My first question about 'women', ( the women in question ) : Is this a case of 'AMCAW': you actually meant conventionally attractive women ? One thing that causes a great deal of misunderstanding between the reader and the writer in incelexit is whether or not the term 'women' means 'women OP is attracted to' or 'women as a whole'. One is subjective and qualitative, the other is objective and quantitative. And we are contstantly con…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 03:29 AM
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I get the idea that it programs boys to think that the only thing they're valued for is sexuality/muscles + money. It sets you up for paranoia and cortisol soaked doomer mindset.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 08:23 PM
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The joke is, it's a hyperbolic male gaze on men, trying to be employed to appeal to female gaze. Do you see the issue? It's setting up boys/men for failure. But this dissatisfaction and hatred creates more clicks for them. So this manufactured Alpha confidence is closer to The Emperor's New Clothes. It actually creates a form of socially conditioned dysphoria. What is great for selling supplements, cosmetics, razors and books, and harvesting clicks for the algorithm? Manufactured dysphoria. This…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 06:00 PM
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Honestly you can pursue a friendship where one person is sexually attracted o the other, but of not mutual, the person being seen as sexual might be very uncomfortable when they learns that sexual attraction is the main course for the other. Go for it, but realistically understand the imminence that one day a switch may flips and she gets distant because she's realized the weight about your interest in her. It's sad to lose friends this way, but again, if you apply some empathy, you'll understan…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:33 PM
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"but the thing is that one of the reason I like her as a friend is because I think she hot" You are not a real friend. Friends don't lose interest in friendship if the person is no longer sexually attractive. proving the red pill on female relationships. " I think this AMCAW... (actually meant conventionally attractive women) By female friendship, you only mean friendship with attractive women... ? This is sexually motivated. Not friendship motivated.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 01:32 AM
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Such a good point about boys and men being taken advantage of. Though I do think you can use logic to analyze irrational cults that program people to lose autonomy.. I would be VERY supportive of dating coaches who encouraged sustainable ways to for young men to build healthy relationships, casual or not casual. There needs to be ideologies that didn't encourage people to psychologically regress, and run on cortisol/insecurity. OR superiority. Oddly, girls have empathic/humility based dating inf…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 10:49 PM
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Yea it's mostly a self care and health related thing.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:18 PM
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well put. This is my thoughts exactly. Much of it is aimed at women of a specific mindset. It's this presupposition that our behaviour patterns are close to bpd / untreated mental illness. Which some do, but really this stuff zeroes in on women who aren't okay, and using this as an entry point to use their bodies as shells. I dunno, just.. not something to really be proud of. Maybe it's nice now, but knowing this is what you spent your life pursuing getting jerked off with no regard for anyone e…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 05:15 PM
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They are pro abortion, but passively. But yet they hate SJW culture, and dgaf about feminism, so they screwed themselves. You can't have your cake/abortion and eat it too. Manosphere never encouraged guys to listen to women's concerns politically or advocate for protecting abortion. Instead, they made a culture that mocked the screechy blue haired women, or whatever the SJW stereotypes about leftist women is, and aim for apolitical, conservative or trad women. Well, here's trad life. there's som…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 12:41 PM
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I'm curious to see how roe v wade overturn affects redpill and incel... it's going to change the dynamic in dating a lot.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 06:22 AM
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Thank you for breaking through to empathy. It is your duty to teach the others.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 01:08 AM
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If you have spent hundreds of hours only with 2D images of women having sex as a representation, it confuses your brains circuitry to be around a 4D woman.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 11:37 PM
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So true. It's the ultimate contradiction to see zooms emmulate the 90s, where the mentality was the antithesis of influencer bs.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 04:09 PM
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I don't know if y'all were there but I saw the internet happen.. I sense that people have this idealization of pre-internet people as being 'good' and 'genuine'. Before everyone was online, people were not more genuine and kind. For example, in my generation was socially acceptable to be homophobic and it was normal to call kids gay/f*g and beat them up. People had no problem locking you up in prison for smoking weed. That's the level of progressiveness and compassion you were at. I'm not trying…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 03:42 PM
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There was no golden age of virtue before social media. There were abysmal and shitty people back then too. Thought it'd make you feel better.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 05:44 AM
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got it.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 10:49 PM
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My bad. I legitimately thought big dick energy appreciation is healing for incels to hear because it's an attitude of confidence that anyone can cultivate, that takes away pressure from what you're born with. I get that it's Freudian and sexualizing, but I wonder to what extent in deprogramming that people need to cancel and censor certain terminology ? Or can we talk about why and how ? Big tit energy ? I'm not offended. Its great. Maybe that's an energy where a person can emmasculate and be mo…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 04:31 AM
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And any historian who says that life for people was better in an era where women couldn't vote, drive, go to university, have their own bank account ... That's a vibe. Lastly, on when men were men-- Damn people really had syphilis. It was out of control. Many historical figures hoped to die before tertiary syphilis told on them. We can have casual sex safely and that's great.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 04:54 PM
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Don't forget his arguments about human society having compulsory monogamy... and how this not being the case now as an explanation for femicidal killing sprees. This was actually his response to the bus attacks, (if not, a similar incel killer around this time). we aren't getting married off like we used to. Imagine the fuel given by that statement. While I think that's not completely wrong, this idea of the lost tradition of monogamy is a bedrock of incel. We are entitled to women and now is a …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 04:21 PM
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Yes ! We love big dick energy from unconventional minded guys, eg writers, scientists , profs and intellectuals. They wonder about those couples where the guy is so-so/dorky and the woman is attractive and conclude the only explanation is gold digging. If you were a person who appreciated literature or film, it might cross your mind that the guy could have a great sense of culture and experience that like a goldmine . But this cannot cross your mind if you have convinced yourself that women are …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 03:48 PM
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An interesting observation
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 10:16 AM
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Deprogram yourself from seeing others and yourself as alpha, beta, sigma, orbiter. That's what's holding incel together in your brain is terminology. There is in reality no such thing as a beta male. It's a construct from an ideology. You are you. And women are not especially into muscle bound, anti intellectual abusers. We really want a person who is brave, fun and creative. David Bowie had no muscles, was feminine with mismatched eyes from being punched in the face. Incel would have told him h…
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 04:04 AM
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created by men / male gaze
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 05:43 AM
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Applause for leaving blackpill journey, even if you're step 1.. You speak here of fear of being a guy not seen as human, yet you have been brainwashed to compulsively apply the 10 scale arbitrarily on other humans. Do you see a little cognitive dissonance ? You won't be ok until you deprogram this gaze and learn to value people in other ways. Turning people into numbers is literal de-humanizing. 4, 5, 7 , 10... you can't go on analyzing something complex, individualized and nuanced as a person l…
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 08:59 PM
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Really? I believe that men who choose to project this have a deep pathologival desire to impregnate and for many, impregnation = a fetish masquerading as a moral mission or determinist existential situation particular to guys. It's an odd, though sadly not unusual ethos powered by emotion and insecurity. That and PUA brain rot.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 11:45 AM
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breeder fetish. same people trying to pass wierd laws to force women to give birth. Just, like keep your breeder fetish to yourself
/r/ExRedPill15/06/22 07:46 AM
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I feel bad for the Asian girls who have to dodge all these guys.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 07:40 PM
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Yes, it's regression and an invitation to many to join at once. :(
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 09:42 AM
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"And here's where Basic and Books come into being. They've never truly appreciated the humanities - art, philosophy, literature" Awesome observation. Youtuber Contrapoints drives this point home in her deep dive dissection of incel. She teases a bit by asking why these boys don't write erotic poetry about the ocean to remedy existential pains, like people did in the 1800s. She says it kind of jokingly, but half dead serious... art is the perfect outlet to psychological toxins and suffering. Art …
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 09:36 AM
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Ok tell me if this is culturally insensitive. Side note, I'm not watching the videos because I just have a low threshold for redpill channels. Is he like roosh v ? I've noticed guys from non-western cultures have this knack of sucking boys in by doing the "western women bad" / trad wife good " schtick. They're pretty present in PUA. Return of Kings was my first glimpse. I knew a white incel who was really into converting to Islam for this fantasy of non western women. Just a lot of cringe.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 09:30 AM
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Sounds like some logical thinking
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 07:21 AM
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Instead of thinking "it bores women" think "it bores her". Remembering the fact that every woman is a unique person will save you. You really don't know what bores us because we aren't a borg like PUA trp logic says. We all have our own ideas of boring.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 07:31 AM
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You are a loser if your self esteem depends on girls giving you attention, sex or getting a relationship. That's not gonna go well for people without movie star level looks and charisma. That is most humans. Even if you do have those qualities, again, basing your self esteem from womens approval, sex, or being in a couple is just a sad way to live. That's a decision you can change for the better. Make your life meaningful. Good luck. Ps-- guys who don't base their self esteem on this are attract…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 07:03 PM
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Congratulations!
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 02:44 AM
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Good call
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 09:49 AM
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well that statement isn’t about the ones who aren’t.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 12:29 AM
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This. ♡♡
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:12 PM
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I believe this. but this sub has me thinking you might actually de radicalize redpill. It's really the only thing I want to change.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 09:54 AM
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Oh you're gonna be like one of those doctors who looks at sperm donation and wants to cum in it. Or imagine you can give unnecessary physical exams to a bratty girl or an annoying sedated patient. It must be a playground for poetic justice, but that's on you. Cool. I just imagine that that same poetic justice will play out on you in a messed up way, if that makes sense .. My father is a doctor who helped girls and women get to abortion clinics.. He is a cool doctor. A boss and also pretty alpha,…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:58 AM
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I've been seeing posts by straight black women that they feel totally dejected by dating men because many aren't interested. I think that's appearance based rejection. There's something happening there.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:55 AM
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I love me a fine short king. I'm crushing so hard on a guy who has a huge nose and a cute little chin. Maybe I don't count cause I'm autistic. But that's the point: so many of us don't count bc incel and trp and pua is laser focused on very peculiar homogenous group of women aka an abstraction or idea. There is no nuance, so it isn't applicable in practice in the organic real world. It's a system that is very applicable in an isolated controlled environment.. like a bedroom in a basement.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:46 AM
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I'm old and I stopped counting. Contraceptives are everything. Sex is fun and it gets more fun as you get older. Also a more relevant count is how many times the person had sex without a condom and how many times they have been tested. People die of ovarian and cancer getting stds that are often completely invisible in men.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:23 AM
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What is considered a high or low body count? I always wonder, won't your purity be equally degraded if you have sex with 1 person 200 times vs 200 people 1 time?
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 03:14 AM
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A lot of phenomena women experience as mundane, guys dont see and there is no reason you would, unless you lived in convincing drag for a while. Also some women don't see their orbiters. Orbiters will do so when given the chance and are fairly common. As another man, you have certainly met them, but you aren't their target, so they will never present this predatory side to you. He could be an otherwise cool person. Any girl will tell you that in whenever she's been conventionally attractive (eg …
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 08:05 AM
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Wow thanks for getting through that. Yes, different word or term for the ones youre jealous of! No one is particularly jealous of an average looking 35 year old woman carrying her groceries. She is not the 'problem' , right? Because all the people like me are reading these statements online and we think it's a literal jealousy or resentment of all women as a whole -- when it's really a veiled confrontation of attractive women of a specific age? And many of us are surprised to learn that the hatr…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:45 AM
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Yeah, when I heard 'my standards are non existent'. I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but to me that's a 'incel focused on top 5% of conventionally attractive women' going to 'top 25% most conventionally attractive" and this feels like being very compassionate in doing so. I say this because women who are 20+ lbs overweight or have a visible disability, or are of certain ethnic background are not even entered because people visually radicalized on the internet/social media have a visu…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:34 AM
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wow I wrote a lot here. Deprogramming incel with logic has recently become a special interest since I had a life/career changing run in with one of these people. I feel like writing. If an old woman and a 20 year old man are the same person under this definition of 'women'? Therefore, the word 'women' is technically not applicable in this case. It's not being used correctly. This is a broken point you need to fix in the tapestry of incel. This situation = the context under which a new term needs…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 04:16 AM
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Remember the other 70% of women that you are not considering in AWALT. Incel is a cognitive distortion generated by 'women' as being the women that they are sexually interested in, without totally applying the 'all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares' aka. I know you're not interested in the others, but are you interested in the cohesiveness and logic in the body of logic you are using to grow your brain? Remember that an incel boy may be fixated on the most attractive 20% …
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 12:59 AM
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If a conventionally unattractive man sees himself as this way, at least he is seeing clearly. If it's a conventionally attractive man, that shows a break from reality.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 08:00 PM
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wow. Never thought of that!
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 06:09 PM
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Me and my friends notice that when incels post pictures of themselves they're always not bad looking guys. I noticed a lot of them are actually conventionally attractive.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 02:05 PM
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Really what's more important to consider right now in 'murica is the safety of pregnant women. While you are so concerned with fertility, carrying one to term is a whole other challenge, poppet. And that's not because if darwinism or biology stats, it's because of man made laws. 1 in 20 women has a mullerian birth defect in her uterus making it so a baby can kill her. If you rely want to wow a lady right now, show you keep up w of human rights and safety and offer her you get a vasectomy! (In a …
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 08:16 PM
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Not so mysterious with the internet. Fertility is one thing, but a more relevant question is if she miscarries, will a hospital tend to her? Will she die of sepsis? Fact: I'm hoping your girlfriend stumbles upon your comment history, so she can learn who you actually are. It's not a great relationship if you are created a soft talking alter ego to mask your true self. Your true self measures woman's worth by the ability to give you an erection and conceive a child.. this type of mind on a man is…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 06:56 PM
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Their only reference for women's age is porn, so they have a really warped sense of what a woman in her 30s looks like, if you know what I mean
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 07:34 AM
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'Giving me her good years' Lol at women over 30 incapable of breeding .. I feel for the woman whose boyfriend talks about her like he is buying livestock
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 07:31 AM
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'Best years' for what?....... Oh if it's a man talking about women he means for her best years for making his penis hard. They wonder why we get repulsed.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 07:24 AM
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True. Apply those generalizations to the opposite sex before deeming them relevant.
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 07:16 AM
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Because Redpill is a giant cognitive distortion
/r/ExRedPill22/05/22 07:10 AM
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You can masturbate without streaming porn, you know. There is this wierd problem with the what I will call the ‘screen generation‘ of thinking masturbating means masturbating while watching a screen. It’s not common knowledge somehow that you need to clean out those tubes and that’s healthy?
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 08:39 AM
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By the you speak of your 'female friends', doesn't sound like friendship.
/r/ExRedPill17/05/22 06:35 AM
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That's enough Reddit for me.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 08:09 AM
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I find it ironic that men consult other men to learn about women, when they could listen to heterosexual women literally tell you what works.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/22 05:28 AM
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