| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | Tell Women The Truth About Butt Sex (FDS PATREON)As have I. I saw an article a while ago explaining how the clit isn't just the little button we see, but inside our bodies, it wraps around the vagina and into the rectum which is why we feel pleasure both in the vagina and rectum. I'm not sure how accurate it is but it makes sense given my experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/22 11:48 AM |
| 52 | Vince McMahon Finally Got CannedWWE Chief Vince McMahon agreed to pay more than $12m to four women to suppress sexual misconduct and infidelity allegations, new report claims. The World Wrestling Entertainment boss made the payment to four women over the course of 16 years, according to The Wall Street Journal. The women were previously affiliated with the organisation and signed agreements that stop them from speaking about any possible legal claims against or their relationships with the 76-year-old, the paper reported. One … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 73 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 65 -HerHax Cybersecurity Researchers Dispel Myths About AirTag StalkingOmg FDS is back!!! Please stay!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/22 11:52 AM |
| 209 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friendsHis "pretty purple" 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 87 | Red flags and alarm bells are sounding when I saw this. What in the pickmeverse is this?!I just saw this on tiktok and thought she was being sarcastic at first but hearing her talk more and more about how her boyfriend is now on a DATING SHOW to "further his career"? Oh no, she's serious and even contemplates whether or not her relationship is "enviable by the gods" or if she's going to get heart broken. The audacity men have, specifically this man, to lie to get on a dating show and then use whatever manipulation tactics to get a woman to fall in love witb him when he knows he has … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 09:46 PM |
| 172 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstOmg what the fuck!!! What a heartless individual who clearly believes he's above the law, as most adoption agencies have a guideline to give the animal back if it doesn't work out. And to make the poor baby suffer?? Fuck him. Canceled. Deleted. Erased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 188 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstWhat's the details on treating animals? What a low life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 12:34 PM |
| 60 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…I commented on several things said there and I'm still shaking with anger. The deeply rooted misogyny is killing me and the women victim blaming saying she "should have done this..." is making me want to scream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:59 AM |
| 3 | REMINDER: if you post a screenshot/video, you MUST provide insightful/strategic commentary in the comments. Repeated violations will result in a temp ban.Yeah, I'm curious about this too. I posted something yesterday and it's been removed. I thought I was following the new guidelines but I clearly didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:34 AM |
| 13 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.I agree with you, I realize I blocked too late and got sucked in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:13 AM |
| 39 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.Being a therapist myself I couldn't BELIEVE he was saying this. Like after years of school, working towards licensure, and establishing myself locally as a therapist, I would not throw all my work away on some dick. Hindsight is 20/20 and I have learned so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:12 AM |
| 16 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.That's one of the questions I wanted to ask him after all this but felt it easier to block and move on. Why are men so freaking awful?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:10 AM |
| 12 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.I know, I couldn't believe I did that in hindsight. I think I got so wrapped up in figuring out if he was serious because I'd honestly never heard anything like this outside of TV and movies. Lesson learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:09 AM |
| 13 | A guy I was talking to from Bumble showed his true self during our conversation: being sexually involved with his therapist. I should have blocked him then but I couldn't believe he was serious. Spoiler alert: he was. Block, delete, and move on.I also just realized these screenshots are out of order and I apologize for that! I can't believe I let him talk to me that long before I blocked his ass. Better than the pickme I was years ago though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 2 | FDS is BACK!Yesss!!! I'm so glad to see you ladies back!! I missed you all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 14 | Leave the Door OpenMinor detail, he says "and if you're hungry, girl, I got filets" like the steak. Still a cheap effort vision on his part though. The bar really is buried, y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Porn is blatant abuseI had no idea they were owned by MindGeek. Damnit, I liked Bellesa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Quiz: A man calls you dudeSame, "dude" or "yoooooo" is my typical go tos with my friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Porn is blatant abuseI'm curious as to FDS' stance on companies like Bellesa, a woman owned and operated company who write scenes with actors who actually want to be together organically? I have seen several clips of their videos and see a huge difference in these vs PH, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:36 PM |
| 53 | (Edited to stay within guidelines) Reddit is so mad at our sub! The comments only confirm the need for this sub and the community and support we offer. Scrotes can die mad about it.Ignorance is bliss to them. One more way the patriarchy has it's claws in our society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:01 PM |
| 37 | (Edited to stay within guidelines) Reddit is so mad at our sub! The comments only confirm the need for this sub and the community and support we offer. Scrotes can die mad about it.Of course! I should have reread the rules before posting. Sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | They are so angry about our sub! Most of the comments called us femcels (wtf?) and continue to confirm why this sub is needed. Scrotes, die mad.Damn. I'll fix it and repost! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 6 | YOU ARE THE TABLE AND MOREI don't bring anything to the table because I am the table. I'm the chair. I'm the whole fucking feast. 🧘🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:40 PM |
| 25 | A Totally Innocent Not At All Sexual in Any Way Papaya Eating Contest at 5:10I am today years old when I learned this. Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Alysia Harris - "This Woman"I haven't cried this much in a while. There are lines in here that I never thought I'd resonate with but here I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 12 | Any tips for vetting therapists?Fellow therapist here, not a doctor though. I'd take your therapy one step further and look into ACT, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. It takes CBT and dives further into the "why" behind what we do. CBT is great to recognize our thoughts, feelings, and actions are all connected but if we don't know the "why" then we won't be able to get to the real root of the issues. If you can find a therapist through Psychology Today, you can narrow your search to find some to fit your needs. Good luck! I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | He didn’t wanna get a giftMy boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me on my 25th birthday. Literally tried to end my life and beg him back for months on end until he blocked me. I'm so glad I realized how freeing it feels to not have that anchor weighing you down. I hope this poor woman can find the good in this and use this piss poor excuse of a man to realize she always deserved better and take actions to make it so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 9 | Don't be afraid to be alone!"You are worth more than you sold yourself for." Damn that is a good motto and I'm using it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 2 | When breaking up is hard to doNo joke. He treats her like shit even after they've broken up but she is still so codependent on him. She's afraid he'll take their dog (in his name but she's basically been caring for the soft) if she tries to kick him out. I get that that's really upsetting but is it really worth your mental health for him to mooch off you and continue to drag you down? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 4 | When breaking up is hard to doI have a friend who broke up with her boyfriend who lives with her and he literally will not accept her break up. He actually told her he's goinlg to ignore it and show that he's better. What do you do for someone who won't leave the house you own but you're too afraid to get cops involved, etc? I've encouraged her to cut it off completely but she thinks he helps with the bills and is a warm body in their bed so she isn't lonely. I try not to facepalm too much but I would love some advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 01:49 PM |
| 3 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.Omg I just Googlex this. You're not kidding. Omg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:31 AM |
| 29 | What is the worst case of pickme you've seen on Reddit?Well there is now a Male Dating Strategy sub Wait really? Is this like MGTOW or MRA? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"How do you even pronounce those names? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 4 | As he neglects her making her wait for his “hobby” she assumes the position of an object, for his convenience only, instead of a human with their own wants and needs. Gaslights herself that this is so great, rest of the subreddit full of video game/porn addicts chime in with approvalI have a friend who will do this with her boyfriend of 5+ years. She'll browse her phone or get on her computer or go clean while he plays for hours with roommates/friends in the next room of the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | I just came across a Twitter thread from 2018 #TweetLikeAPickMe and some of these are so pathetically funny 😂I sincerely hope some of these are satire. They seriously can't be so delusional! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:26 PM |
| 2 | I cleared my school debt to qualify for a mortgage, and used the downpayment I've been saving to buy my first house in a safer area! What was something you achieved that you never expected?Holy crap this is great!!! Congratulations!! I was able to write a check to pay off one of my credit cards and slowly paying off the other. Never thought I'd get here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:07 PM |
| 8 | Demi Lovato broke up with her narc fiancé and is living her absolute best life while he’s ‘crying’ on Instagram🧚🏼♀️I used to watch him on the Young and the Restless when he played "Fenmore" and I would giggle anytime he came on. He was such a joke!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:49 PM |
| 74 | Zero percent surprised he's still singleHe looks like a discount Luke Wilson. With a shittier attitude and worse looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 95 | Males obsession with sex makes them fundamentally untrustworthy and malevolent. NEVER FORGET THATCurrently talking with a guy with Google Voice and he brought up sex or sexually related no less than 5 times. I said "is that all you think about? Is there nothing more to you than this?" He was like "I'm a guy". Like what? Sex is not a personality trait I wanna fuck with. Give me sophisticated over simple and sexsick any day. Bye dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 20 | Broke up w a man bc he couldnt satisfy my sexual needsI wish one my of good friends could see this post and retain the info. She's consistently telling me her boyfriend doesn't have sex with her and she has to drop hints, beg him, and give him ultimatums to have sex with her. We were at a birthday party last night playing a board game and she could not stop giving him hints about how she feels about not having as much sex with him as she wants. It made me want to roll my eyes and say "if he's not satisfying you, why are you holding out hoping he'll… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:32 PM |
| 66 | Charlize Theron Reveals She Hasn't Dated Anyone In 5 Years: 'I Don’t Feel Lonely'I haven't been in a relationship for 6 years. Three years after my last relationship to soul search and figure out who I was and the last three years because I leveled up and saw the LVMs my friends were with and wanted everything opposite that in my next relationship. Charlize is goals all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | No words.This can't be real... This has to be a troll account right? Like jfc... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.One of my friends gave her boyfriend an ultimatum to go to counseling or she'd break up with him. He went to counseling for a few months but now that his counselor has left the area, he's not going to counseling. She's currently trying to "find him a counselor who will mesh with him". Like girl, you're literally doing the work for him because you'd rather be with a gaslighting and controlling dude than be single. I can't do the mental gymnastics for that... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 5 | I can’t believe how many women that I’ve seen in my life who have done this because they’re afraid to be alone. One and done people!! Find your happiness though yourself and there will be no other person that you need.You literally described one of my close friends. So scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Thinking he is the love of your life, even though he rarely puts an effort = pure attachment. Is your fate being with a LVM? Don't think so 👑Ugh I see this with one of my best friends. She met her boyfriend in a bar, told him she loved him weeks into the relationship, and got house (in her name, he pays half the mortgage) to live with him less than a year into dating him. It blows my mind how insecure she is to need someone who takes her extreme granted. I wish she'd want up and realize she's so much better than him, dump his judgmental and insecure ass, and level up herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 3 | A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of thingsYes!! That worked!! I'm not sure why it's not showing up. I'm officially following it though! Thanks for helping me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of thingsUnfortunately all I see are podcasts :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of thingsThere's an FDS playlist? I couldn't find it on there when I looked a couple weeks ago. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 01:39 PM |
| 7 | I'm curious how life is for other women dating childfree! Please share your stories/goals/dreams with meThese are exactly my reasons for adoption. There are millions of kids needing stable, loving homes without also contributing the to mass population growth for our planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:28 AM |
| 1 | This is why you should NEVER send nudes. I’m so creeped out.Is there some way we can report this new website to a federal level? This is disgusting and needs to be stopped at the highest level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Married man (with kids) cut his wife out of his profile pic and still had the audacity to "search for friends, something more tbd". Blocked and reported.Imagine calling yourself out so blantantly like that. You'd think they'd catch on, but no, thank God. Now we can see those red flags far from away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:00 AM |
| 59 | Married man (with kids) cut his wife out of his profile pic and still had the audacity to "search for friends, something more tbd". Blocked and reported.Women who don't feel like they deserve better or who don't realize what LVM or ZVM are in their lives and how to get away from it? I have been friends with LVW in the past who would have messaged this asshole back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 30 | Married man (with kids) cut his wife out of his profile pic and still had the audacity to "search for friends, something more tbd". Blocked and reported.It's literally the only one he has so I don't doubt that. Logic and men don't go in the same sentence most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Promise Rings- Do they mean anything?I have a friend who bought her and her boyfriend "promise rings" right after they moved in together (less than a year into dating) in the house she bought (but he pays half the mortgage) after she spent a good few months chasing him and begging him to commit to her in a relationship. She admitted to me they said they loved each other very early on (within weeks of their relationship starting) and I can't help but think these promise rings are her kidding herself into being with a man who will ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!This is awesome! I don't know what the username url was so I tried to write it for reddit and add my username. I hope that was right. If not, I can message the mods on the site. Thank you ladies for doing this, this place has given me a wealth of knowledge and confidence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Today's my birthday, I found this subreddit, and acknowledge my worth and desire to not settle. I am so glad you ladies are here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 7 | I hate this channelSame! My friends are all on relationships and complain nearly everyday about their significant others. I tried to introduce these ideas to them but they just thought I was petty for being single going on 6 years and "purposefully not dating because you don't like to date." 🙄 I just have standards higher than yours maybe? Ugh, I need some new friends who understand!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 12:02 PM |
| 2 | All my ex boyfriends would get raging hard ons when I was upset and crying. Sudden realisation that this is SO FUCKED UP.I had an ex boyfriend who admitted to me after a particularly bad crying spell that he liked making me cry so he could hold me and make me feel better after. Like wtf in hindsight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 02:05 AM |
| 8 | Saw this while swiping through IG, thought you ladies would appreciate this; especially my fellow younger ladies who feel pressure to date LVM rather than stay single and level up.As a 30 year old going on 6 years single, this has been super rough for me. Most of my friends have gotten married or are in relationships these last several years and it's really made me feel like I'm further and further behind. I feel hat I don't fit in and can't share relationship stories with my friends or look forward to commitment. It's hella fucking depressing. I often fantasize about moving out west to a new city and starting over. Maybe my luck will change. Thank you for posting this. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:33 AM |
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