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discussionKamIsFam/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/25 09:19 AM
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I mean I was specifically referring to SA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:15 AM
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I'd love to know where they get statistics for that anyways. If be willing to bet it's seen as weak for men, so it gets heavily underreported.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 12:36 AM
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I rarely, if ever, talk about my sex life because that's just not something I care about outside of with my gf. I'm more likely to make gay jokes with the boys than discuss mine and my gf's sex life. She's way more in depth sharing with her cousin.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 12:35 AM
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Classic "grass is greener on the other side" mentality. They often think that because we don't have the same problem they do, then ours isn't a problem, it's the solution to their issue. They claim they'd love being a ghost in society, but I doubt they'd say that if it were true from the start.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 12:33 AM
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Here's what I think, and it's simple. Most of the horrible people are locked away online. I've rarely met the crazies in real life that hold these extremist views. And even if I meet crazies that hold these extremist views, I don't care. I have a good social circle that doesn't think like that, and I lean on them. I don't find it that hard to ignore them. They don't affect me. Don't let strangers invade your mental space, and if you're worried about dating, those are the least of your worries wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 04:45 AM
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That's like saying you can't defend or shoot a goal in a sport because you "look like a better athlete". Are you just supposed to let them dunk on you for free?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/26 01:36 PM
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In that second video where he fights back, there's a guy that just watches her be the aggressor and then fights him when he stands up for himself. What are the legalities of that bystander attacking a victim defending themselves? It's not entrapment because it's not a legal authority baiting people, right? I'd be really curious if that were prosecutable. I hope all those people hate themselves. Imagine being THAT much of an NPC.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/26 01:35 PM
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Yup. Historically, men bottling up there emotions only knew anger and took it out on their wives in the form of boxing matches. If anyone is against men seeking therapy, ask them if women deserve black eyes. I feel like it's a universally good thing, because everyone needs an outlet and to learn how to express themselves appropriately without resorting to negative forms of expression. At least among my friends, I've anecdotally seen how my "traditional" thinking friends tend to get treated in re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/25 02:52 AM
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I mean, you're vehemently arguing a point that makes it look like you don't grasp the concept.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/25 11:01 AM
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I'll give it a look. Sounds like a good read!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 06:45 AM
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I wonder what causes that, anonymity? I'd imagine it's hard to be that toxic irl without getting your teeth kicked in eventually, lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 04:07 AM
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Plenty of people here have already stated, more eloquently than I ever could, how it feels to be a man and ASSUMED that you're a piece of shit just by nature of being a man. I've been ignored and treated like shit because "oh, they're just a bunch of man-hating lesbians who had some bad experiences with men..." Boohoo, don't project that shit onto me. You want compassion? I've got lots of that to offer, but you catch more flies with honey. Anyways, the biggest thing for me is, what I feel, commo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/25 07:09 AM
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Who takes that sub seriously? As someone who agrees with the vast majority of Feminist talking points (abortion, equal pay - with some caveats, etc.) I don't think you necessarily need to be Left wing to be a Feminist. In psychology, you need to meet SOME of the criteria, just enough to be classified, because everyone is different and psychology is a spectrum, even for the same disorder/state of mind. It's the same thing politically. Everyone has their own individual thoughts, opinions, and expe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 07:44 AM
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In my opinion, it's messaging and attitude. The Left hasn't lost me in terms of how I vote, but they've lost my moral support. I'll vote for whatever candidate provides the best policies outside of social policies, so if an alternative to Conservatives comes along that I agree with, then it's goodbye for me. Now, I think for a lot of people, it's a few things. Firstly, people vote selfishly a lot, and I don't necessarily mean that in a negative way, just objectively. If someone is struggling to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/25 07:19 AM
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I agree with the environmental support, and I want everything possible for women's rights, but the current political climate pushes me away from getting involved. As selfish as it feels to say, I've stepped away from consuming political content. I used to watch political conversations and debates in 3 hour chunks. I used to binge commentary and try to stay up-to-date on current events and get a balanced perspective, but this year was very turbulent and I needed to focus on me and my mental healt…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 11:33 AM
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Funnily enough, black women have been criticizing white women too. White women have been saying "but not all white women" lmao.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/24 07:00 AM
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Both sides have their issues and I think what's important for the Left to understand right now is there are a lot of internalized issues men deal with that the MAJORITY of women are unaware even exist. Unfortunately men are going to take care of themselves first, and if that means getting their finances straight and finding role models, they're going to do that before caring about abortion issues, especially if they're not able to date and feel unvalued by both women and society as a whole. Why …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:43 PM
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I'd respond with, "do you need to be swaddled?" They want someone who cares and is compassionate and empathetic, but they need to give that in return. I usually just call them out for not treating people like they're human.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:39 PM
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That's my issue with all of this. Many of the Far Left have NO IDEA that if they want to gain more votes and have the support of men, they need to stop excluding men. They're pushing left-leaning men to the right to join trads, and I think that's why they lost. They've complained about men, criticized, and ostracized men with issues for YEARS instead of embracing them and wondered why they didn't join their fight. Now, they're doubling down and pushing men even farther away. I personally don't c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 09:55 PM
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I've said that exact statement in previous comments. If it matters to you, you're welcome to find it. If you were to read the other comment thread adjacent to what you replied to, you'll find your answer there as well. I'm very aware of how it comes across, but I also believe people can and should be slightly more inquisitive before rushing to judgement. I believe you're referring to Rule 4. If I said "I fucking hate all men", then that might apply. The lack of the word "all" implies that it's n…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/24 06:19 PM
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Dude, listen to yourself. Did I say "I fucking hate ALL men"? No, I did not. I am just fine. What I said is fine, and what I meant is fine. If you choose to purposely misinterpret it, especially given the context, that is your prerogative. However, I'm not going to engage with you because that is unproductive. If you'd like to debate what I'm ACTUALLY saying, then let's do that, just know you'd be defending guys that grope women at clubs or guys that say creepy shit to women. You decide, dude.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/24 05:48 AM
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This is the most disappointed I've been in this sub. Are we really going to sit here and talk about how Feminists need to self-police and call out terrible women while being hypocritical and not calling out the bad men? Me getting downvoted for saying SOME MEN ARE BAD is simply ridiculous. Shame on you guys. Be better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 01:40 PM
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So you're upset because I hate how a lot of guys treat women, and that's why I don't like some people?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/24 02:43 PM
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Dude, read more than the shock value text in my post. I don't literally hate ALL men, just the ones that treat women like shit... ...and the ones that don't read the entirety of my posts lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/24 05:19 AM
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I heavily agree on the self-policing. I can't stand when they refuse to acknowledge bullshit people say just because they're on the "same team". Like nah. As a white guy, I think there's a lot of dumb white people and a lot of dumb guys. I fucking hate men, mostly just because lots of them are morons and do treat women like shit. Not all, just many. If I'm able to call out the bullshit, so should they. People assume I'm a certain way and they don't have to talk to me long to realize I'm not like…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/24 05:08 AM
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The part they always leave out is Feminism isn't about equality, it's about equality for WOMEN. They scoff at the MRA and Egalitarianism because they don't care about men's rights in any way. If I can care about men's AND women's rights, then I don't consider someone a good person just because they're a feminist, they need to support both sides of the aisle. That's bare minimum. I'm not saying men have it worse in most ways, but life isn't just a stroll in the park either, so like, you know, giv…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/24 05:03 AM
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There's a lot of overlap, but it's not "all feminists". My main problem is that any organization I support doesn't either doesn't interfere with other belief systems I hold, doesn't lie about what they are (performative), and doesn't criticize organizations that target areas where they slack. Feminism claims to be about equality and many Feminists claim that "Feminism helps men too" but I have yet to see that be true. Men's issues are not only ignored or made worse in many cases, but bringing up…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/24 04:57 AM
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Thanks dude, I'm glad you're still here too. It really sucks when the person you cared about most turns out to be a massive narcissist and everyone else falls for the mask they wear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 08:19 PM
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I can't attest to that. I became very suicidal and got close to committing suicide as a direct result of my ex. The abuse, her telling me to kill myself, and manipulating me took a huge toll on my mental health. It's even worse when abusers, who are great at manipulation, manipulate other people in your life hurt you even more by taking people away just to spite you. One reason I didn't kill myself is because then she'd win.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 08:11 PM
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u/gratis_eekhoorn said Height is (mostly) seen as an attractive feature in men You replied in other words, if your parents are poor, you will be more likely to be short (due to worse nutrition). Explain how you're being misconstrued.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/24 12:19 AM
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You said height is due to poor nutrition, and women tend to be shorter than men. Does that mean women have worse nutrition than men? Also, Filipinos tend to be much shorter, in general. You gave a case for causation and I'm implying it's not a very good one. Yes, nutrition can play a big role, but genetics and other factors play a much bigger role in height variation. Some suggest genetics plays around 60-80% of said factors. I found it to be pretty ignorant to suggest that biological attraction…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 10:31 PM
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So you're saying women generally have poor nutrition? I think Filipinos would like to have a word with you, lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 08:09 PM
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Ever heard of Napoleon Syndrome? It's an imagined state of mind where everything is attributed to some kind of power struggle and overcompensation due to an insecurity due to one's lack of height. Run for political office? Compensating. Buy a truck? Compensating. Take a managerial position? Compensating. It's an assertion that short men only think about their height and that everything they do/think is a conscious, or subconscious, by-product of this deep-rooted insecurity. If a taller person do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 01:44 AM
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Not always true. You'd be surprised how many women don't want a short partner. No amount of confidence is going to change that. I don't want an overweight partner, and no amount of confidence is going to change that. I wonder how you figure confidence just overrules everything else?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 12:32 AM
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Personally, in a way, I don't care what other people do. I care about protecting minors, and that's about it. Is that situation weird and gross to me? Sure. Do I care? Absolutely not. The question is, "When can people make their own decisions, whether it's weird or not?" If we decide 18, or 20, or 21 is the legal age, then we need to stick with that and let them do what they want. Society sets that standard. If we want to keep bashing older men for like younger and LEGAL women (provided they hav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 05:16 PM
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You have a good point. I do agree with you. I think one reason people become bitter and angry when no one befriends them is because they don't know why. Maybe if you lay it out for people so they can have an easier time correcting the issue, that would help?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/22 04:09 PM
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Well put, that does describe exactly how I feel about it. Thanks for putting it into words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/22 08:06 AM
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Yeah, I hate the word "ally" and I'm not really sure why. Honestly, I think just peer pressure is the best way to start. If friends say dumb or stupid shit, call it out. Misandrist friends? Cut them off. People might be less shitty when no one wants to be friends with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/22 04:46 AM
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What part of conscription is not a responsibility? Conscription is literally a responsibility to defend your country... Reading through your replies, you're either stupid, trolling, or not reading his replies. Or some combination of those three, you tell me.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 05:06 AM
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Honestly, in today's climate, you need to have someone brave enough to advocate for men that need the support. Fuck what dumb people say. Yeah, I hear all the people saying "boohoo men's issues" and I'll say the same thing I told my girlfriend a couple of years ago. She told the wage gap exists because a teacher of hers said she should go into a "woman's role"... I said, "he's a fucking idiot, and you listened to him?" As a man (with his own problems) I'm very empathetic and sympathetic to issue…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/22 12:01 AM
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Oh sure, I'm not disagreeing with you. Ideally, yes, these fucktards wouldn't be discriminating against men. All I'm saying is next best thing is to take advantage of their loophole, like fuck it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/22 10:52 PM
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Yeah, but as long as it's not a legal thing and you can just say whatever you want, fuck em. Let them get their ego boost making homeless men say they're non-binary. As long as homeless men get money, fuck it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/22 09:40 PM
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I've started distancing myself from a friend recently because when she talks to me, she's so dehumanizing. I've brought it up to her before and she simply doesn't see it. She doesn't understand how she's talking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/22 08:11 PM
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"Sorry, did I say I was a man? I meant non-binary."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/10/22 01:00 AM
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That's exactly how they're using it. Lmao, every comment they've made in this thread used the word "incel" at least once. I think they're projecting.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 02:42 PM
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Are you 5?
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 02:38 PM
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Ahh, yes, the "everyone that disagrees with me is an incel" take.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/22 02:37 PM
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I doubt most men kill themselves because of cancel culture, but I'm sure that ones that do have done so because of loss of income, shame, etc. that is a repercussion of cancel culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/22 08:03 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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