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Not sexually, but physically. My mother's boyfriend was a douche. Until puberty, I didn't even know that his actions were morally wrong, so I grew up believing in my own worthlessness. My fetishes have nothing to do with it, I think. I just don't feel comfortable being dominant because I'm afraid to be a douche just like my stepfather.
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:58 AM
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Yup, kinda. And she told some common friends that I was the violator. I accepted that truth so she and others would stop talking about it. Her friend blackmailed me, threatening to tell my then-girlfriend. I don't think I'm scarred, but I will not forget it so fast.
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:50 AM
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Thank you for reminding me. I am currently steering towards friendzoning again (although I'm much better at avoiding it nowadays). But I might be spending New Year's Eve with here, and only her, and I will definitely go all-in. She likes the alphas, she even implied that to me. And I'm going to give her one. I'm saying that to remind myself.
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:59 AM
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Nope, I've been the first relationship of a girl with that mindset. She did it with a class clown, then with some stranger in a foreign country while travelling on herself, and then with me, telling me she didn't want a relationship... At first. Females have urges, even virgins!
/r/seduction28/11/13 01:53 PM
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It's a little paradox that this will get upvoted now, and all those depressed people who stay at home doing nothing (like me) agree with you... And then get back on what they were doing. Nah, just kidding. Seems you got through to some. Maybe even me. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/11/13 07:01 AM
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Yeah, they're a little more reserved than, say, North Americans. But that's really just a tendency. Try eye contact first and see whether she's creeped out or not before you approach her. There's something about the fear of creeps, rapists, etc., which seems stronger. I'm no woman, I can't quite feel the same, but some girls already told me about that.
/r/seduction01/09/13 12:53 AM
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At the moment, I don't feel like investing that much again. I prefer drrrrr's way, choosing someone who doesn't need my mental guidance.
/r/seduction29/08/13 11:15 AM
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That's why I broke up 1.5 months ago - after 1.5 months of relationship. She was super sweet and understanding, but there's just too much past shit that needs to heal first - Like that scarcity mindset, all those girls that hurt me, everything I did wrong, etc... I'm doing myself a favor and try to stay single until there really is someone for who I can leave all those past emotions behind.
/r/seduction20/08/13 09:34 AM
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Lena is/was awesome! But we have a lot of blonde, blue-eyed models here. For her's sake (not matter who she is), let's not continue speculating.
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:42 AM
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OP, OP OP OP - Oppa Art Style As the well-known lyrics of Gangnam Style imply, Oppa(n) is Korean. I've had a lecture about that by a friend. I believe it means "boy" or "girl", depending on the 'n', if I remember this irrelevant (to me) fact correctly.
/r/seduction15/07/13 12:10 PM
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"Afraid you can't keep up?" - I read that one somewhere around here and I liked it.
/r/seduction25/06/13 10:54 AM
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The term friendzone is used appropriately here. It means he turned from being 'not very Alpha' to someone desirable. It's not like he tried to get out of the friendzone or pursued her, and that's exactly the point here. He accepted it. But he felt there was more in for him, so he went for it. And this is the perfect 'anti-friendzone' mindset. The term is a leftover from his earlier times and shows from where he came and where he is now.
/r/seduction10/06/13 08:42 AM
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At first I thought your comment was one of those unneccessary bitchy comments. And then I scrolled down. That's not seddit at all. Your comment is not the comment that's needed, but it's the comment this thread deserves.
/r/seduction03/06/13 01:09 PM
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Actually, after acccepting the friendzone years ago and having almost no contact, she did wing for me the first night we met again recently. :D
/r/seduction15/05/13 02:05 PM
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That sounds really great and and all... I've been to a similar situation in which I could have gone in for the kiss, but actually.. I wasn't interested. I'm kind of okay with not getting her. It wouldn't be going anywhere anyway and we'd probably stick with a friendship; also we both aren't really proud of f-closing our friends. I enjoy that little tension between friends a lot. It keeps the friendship itself interesting. Maybe I'm just not in the standard AFC-friendzone?
/r/seduction14/05/13 08:45 AM
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Although I think it is possible to do really weird approaches (I still have "Excuse me, you look familiar. Did we have sex?" on my ToDo), this one was a little too much. Try something more charming maybe. I'd prefer: "You look like you give good head. Do you want to sign up for a contest? I have the paperwork with me." or something ridiculous.
/r/seduction03/05/13 06:50 AM
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Lol damn, I actually said something like this. At least I'm good at being beta!
/r/seduction29/03/13 10:44 AM
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I always thought I could use seddit as some kind of inspiration, and then add a mix of myself to it. But probably you are right. I'm too different than most of the field reports, and that will never be me. I can be like that, and it's fun - But I wouldn't get the girls I really enjoy. Let's find our own way. Thank you seddit, nevertheless.
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:34 AM
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I feel so sorry for her. I wouldn't want to date her for the right reasons, and I'm definitely not alone with that.
/r/seduction25/03/13 09:31 AM
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Thanks, I just turned 22 and my LTR left me. You're so cheering me up. =.=
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:43 PM
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1, 3, 6, 8, 12 are lessons I learned this weekend as well. Thanks for solidifying.
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:18 AM
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I just had a brainwave yesterday... I have good friends, some male, some female (mostly exes), and they do live nearby. But I really only open to a certain kind of people. And this bothers me. Whenever I get to know a girl, we're "friends" and I lose interest because I'm too insecure to tell her enough about me so we can either become "good friends" or anything else (Yeah, I can't do that standard pickup stuff, I need an emotional connection). So now I plan to be more open, more vulnerable, and …
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:09 AM
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Bowling for two? The people I know would unconsensually call more friends in, and I'd hate it.
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:04 AM
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"Thanks, you're quite decent, too."
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:03 AM
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Yes. Thank you. That helps me after years of depression. I do have friends with who I share a bond, but I never thought about how different it is for me to have ONE girl with who I share the deepest connection and A HANDFUL of girls that I like and find hot. Thank you - I now what I am looking for now, and you confirmed that I'm on the right track.
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:14 PM
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I often hear that as well, from good friends. I managed to imply I'm crazy and unpredictable towards others over the years, though. For me, it's enough to say what I think and to do what feels right. Although I am a rational person (my dad calls me emotionally-rational), my direct thoughts and feelings are definitely not predictable, and I don't think anyone's are. So embrace them. I was in a long distance train, when I noticed I was passing a city where a good friend lives. I texted her, still …
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:47 AM
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Meet new people, broaden my social hub. I don't want to f-close most women, I don't feel ready for that. But I love attraction/attention, and find a nice HB8+... Not sure if I want another LTR. I'm thinking about changing my style and living while I'm still young.
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:41 AM
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I do not like sex with anyone. I like getting her so far to give her number to me (attraction), but I usually back off. I've had an open relationship and never met anyone that I would really liked to have dated. Attraction and maybe k-closing fills me right now. Fuck me, right?
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:26 AM
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7 upvotes, 5 downvotes... Now that's controversy. I feel really sorry for miss HB7.5. I don't think she's going to handle her attraction-issues soon and will do something stupid. The only douchy thing to me is the text you send her. Glad you had fun and told us about it.
/r/seduction25/02/13 02:46 PM
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Level Up! Balls +2 Selfconfidence +5 FR-Skills +10 Upvote +1
/r/seduction25/02/13 02:11 PM
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It was summer 2011, me being 20m, on my way to an exam. I was completely nervous and had my mind anywhere, but then this smoking hot red(dyed)head enters the bus I'm on. I still had half an hour drive and couldn't get my eyes off her. She noticed my eye contact and reluctantly looked over to me a few times, while talking to her friend. She sat down and after some more eye contact and smiling we bursted into laughter. So I went over to her and said hi. I told her I'm on my way to the exam, asking…
/r/seduction23/02/13 10:38 AM
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Don't worry, I got inspired by something that supposedly turned AFCs into PUAs, but it only gave me motivation to go out and get more inspiration. Well, I thought more about it and I could inspire other people. I'm slowly building up, and I do have too much other obligations than partying and and f-closing around. ;)
/r/seduction21/02/13 12:33 PM
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Agreed. I tried to date girls that were obviously interested, and when it came down to it, I wasn't interested anymore. Could be something else though. But I believe the asking person is already beyond that.
/r/seduction20/02/13 12:17 PM
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That book was a great inspiration to DO something and feel more confident in things I already thought I do correctly. Had a great night as a wingman after I let him read my copy, he got a number that night, after weeks of depression.
/r/seduction20/02/13 07:52 AM
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Clean, aye. If you like being licked, make sure (s)he's not going to choke on hair. I (male) tend to get insecure from time to time, which is an uncontrollable killer. If it's not working, don't seek blame and don't ask questions. Relax, both of you, it might work 5 minutes later. Oh, moaning is good if it's not too artificial and not too weird. Even if I believe she's exaggerating - It's still a turn on.
/r/seduction20/02/13 07:38 AM
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