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They say the want you to show emotions and communicate openly, until you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 07:07 PM
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Some of the greatest fighters of all time are not simply "other men".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:59 AM
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I don't know how it goes down in the US, but Ideally, instead of going through trade college, find the thing you have a passion for, check what the requirements of entry level positions in that field are and put some effort into acquiring those skills. Let's say you like computers. Check for entry level jobs in IT. Check which of those is the best fit for you. Let's say a helpdesk agent. Entry level jobs don't expect you to know everything, just have an overview of what that position entails, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:29 AM
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People like to blame-shift. Don't let yourself be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:15 AM
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Yes, failure is unattractive in general. To answer your other questions briefly: Money, Muscles, Game (Be fun)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:04 AM
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A woman who really wants you, will do everything to keep you around. Sex and attraction is literally the most important natural, basic thing why two people get together. Potential relationships start off primarily because of attraction and the sex. Every LTR I ever had started with very strong indicators that sex is going to happen very soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 12:47 AM
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Make your drink of choice something that could or could not be alcoholic based on appearance. Good advice. Mojitos f.e. People definitely may think you are an alcoholic or boring as myerbot5000 said.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:15 PM
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In my brief sober period as an adult, the negative impact it had on my dating was very noticeable. As one girl told me to me abstaining: "Well, that sucks." Not all were this blunt, but all of the other dates drank alcohol, to some degree or another. It is a huge part of our culture and our social interactions. I imagine it being even worse with people in their University years. I guess if a girl is really into you, and alcohol doesn't play a big role in her life - she will be ok with it. Some e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:08 PM
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If I like her, I am down. I don't care. To actually answer - I think probably not, because you are too busy with busting nuts with all of the "Boner to bust" girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:16 AM
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The right one will come, don't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:12 AM
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u/Mimoxs - Exactly. Very well said. Thank You. It is not necessarily a mental illness though - It may be a phase, an idea that occupies them at a certain point in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:03 AM
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I admit, Your last paragraph struck a chord with me. We do tend to seek and live out ideas we think about. Maybe it has to do with a certain personality type, but they will probably vary from person to person, depending on the particular men's traits that is applying these principles. I disagree that TRP is hateful or misogynistic. The core principles are almost all commonly acknowledged in the broad respected scientific community. As with anything - it may be interpreted wrongly by many, for wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 05:47 AM
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Assuming you meet in public, I don't see a big difference in those risks when meeting someone in person compared to OLD for the first time. I would even argue that you can screen better for red flags online. Chat a bit, do some research on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:08 PM
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Women points 3-5 are responsibilities of both involved. I would argue point 1 is viewed the same by women. It is general knowledge at this point. The points for both genders: Those are all valid - but these are inherent for this product.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:35 PM
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In most cases, if a man is in a relationship, he probably gets more sex then with multiple different partners. So I included the desired traits for those who are looking for a LTR as well. Men should focus on the following to get the most sex: Taking care of your appearance and fitness, build muscle Making as much money as you can Learning game (For a LTR - Choosing a partner where you both desire and admire each other) (For a LTR - Being trustworthy) ​ Women should focus on he following to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:02 PM
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Choking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:55 AM
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You might want to take my answer with a grain of salt - As I may be a literal "abuser and murderer" in the future. A woman once told me that she would like to use a dildo on a man, if I would let her - I told her that I am not into that. I did / do not consider it a red flag though. It never came up again and the sex and relationship was great. Maybe this is my "abuser and murderer" side speaking, but the vast majority of women I was with liked choking. Some even asked for it. You obviously have…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:34 AM
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Congratulations on the realization. Non-consenting sexual relations within marriage are criminalized in France. It seems that a an outdated law was interpreted incorrectly in a small amount of cases. (In France) There have been several other rulings against spouses who refused sex: around 10 cases in the last 20 years according to Mattiussi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:27 PM
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I highly doubt that virtually any men have resentment over "Sex in pop culture — from sex shops to strip shows to lingerie to our multimedia".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:09 PM
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"What happened, what's wrong?" - "Nothing."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 07:04 PM
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He said he was shocked, I don't see any complaining. He never mentioned that women was in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:09 AM
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If you are hitting the gym regularly for quite some time, you are in shape. If you are hitting the gym regularly for quite some time, or more, some more time reading, talking about it, and almost all of your regular clothes and accessories are sporty, have words like BEAST. NO PAIN,NOGAIN. NEVER GIVE UP splattered over them, you run around with a shaker bottle or a food container all the time, your arms at an unnatural distance away from your body because your lats are supposedly so big, you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:19 PM
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I am disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:36 PM
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I did not manage to read it all, but I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:10 PM
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He has expressed multiple times, that he has given up on any hopes on having sex, let alone a relationship or marriage. He always said he is content with it by now, but he really isn't. He joined a more "fancy" online dating site almost a month ago. I could not believe it. He is still not active on it. He wants offspring. He researched a few alternatives of someone carrying his child. He would want to raise it alone. He probably won't be able to do it due to legal reasons. Regarding point 1 - He…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 08:51 AM
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I know someone, good guy overall. For some reason he has basically no sexual / relationship experience as an adult in his 30's. He would mostly agree with all points, excluding point 4. He has no such illusions or expectations as described in point 4. So these men have a very optimistic view of what it feels like to engage in casual sex. What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:28 AM
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Question: Did you find yourself already thinking bad things about Barb? No. why is Barb being villainized for not wanting to settle for a possible lifetime of sexual incompatibility She is largely supported by society to not settle and to do what she wants. Only a minor group of resentful men feel otherwise. yet empathy is felt for Bob all because Barb isn’t attracted to him ​ Possibly by his close friends and family - which is good if Bob is sad about it. Otherwise, mostly only by a minor group…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:12 AM
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Everyone does it. We even do it to ourselves sometimes. Let those people worry while you suck whipped cream off of someones nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 12:49 PM
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You seem to have a very idealistic view on relationships. I guess they say it because trp has a lot of truths and "The truth will set you free". Game is the organic way of getting close to someone, some people just have to learn it from other sources than experience. Trust is important, but I also trust that if I slack off, the other person may leave at some point. No one will be so altruistic to stick around and help you forever if you are not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 07:25 AM
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I generally avoid it early on. If she is exceptionally well dressed or similar,something that actually stands out, I go for it. I suggest to use non-verbal queues instead. If you feel inclined to compliment, I would compliment on personality traits or some specific behavior. Shoes, nails, hair etc. are so obvious, especially when they are not somehow unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:52 AM
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You stated there is something called emotional intimacy with a sexual partner. I am stating, there is such thing as not much emotional intimacy with a sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:51 PM
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I see, how would you define that? It is important to know what you mean when you say those two cannot be separated. I believe, at least for most people, they can be two separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:37 PM
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Being emotionally intimate with family and a few close friends is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:23 PM
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Family is the place to go for that, maybe a select few inner circle friends. Edit: *emotional intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 04:10 PM
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https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ Lack of commitment is the most common reason given by divorcing couples according to a recent national survey. Here are the reasons given and their percentages:Lack of commitment 73%Argue too much 56%Infidelity 55%Married too young 46%Unrealistic expectations 45%Lack of equality in the relationship 44%Lack of preparation for marriage 41%Domestic Violence or Abuse 25%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:30 AM
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Domestic Violence or Abuse 25% https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:28 AM
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I would expect everyone to develop some feelings if they are healthy. I would not expect them to be very strong in most cases and to stay a long time after you leave through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 09:47 PM
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Yes Sir
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 11:59 AM
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Oh no, we are all doomed. Good thing women are not allowed to be as stupid as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:58 AM
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So you are asking woman not to be woman? Not trying to be rude, but honestly, do your genetics suck that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:19 AM
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I see a lot of couples everywhere. We are very social beings. Your experience does not necessarily equate to reality for all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:46 AM
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That escalated quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 01:42 AM
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Yep, we all lack the conscious knowledge on why or how we do most things, but we instinctively know how, why and when to execute them, on some level of consciousness. Some have to learn or re-write said execution patterns later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:15 AM
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Interesting question. May sound weird for some but at least on some levels, I think they have to. Women like to play the dating game, "teehee no" / shit tests, games, all kinds of stuff when it comes to dating. I would not interpret that as them not knowing why other women are doing those things, just won't tell you. That's the game after all, you have to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:04 AM
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I see, interesting. I cannot imagine most men sacrificing porn variety for that. I would guess those who most often endulge in porn and prostitution, probably don't have wives anyway, so they have even less incentive. Would not pass congress I'm afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:55 AM
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Nope. Why do you see having no porn helping in having more loyal wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:38 AM
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As a somewhat red pill aware apprentice: With the exclusion of one point - these are definitely not my goals or wishes. Try to guess which one it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:28 AM
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What is the source of this? I think I know where you are going with this, but you are probably misinterpreting it. Feel free to DM the source of the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 06:30 PM
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If you are a creep, these are creepy. If you are a respectable lad who knows his worth, these are just lies and excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:49 PM
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Yep, you see a specific slice of time. Most phrases are overstated and / or interpreted in a slanted way. Even if you should only get a slice, just for a while, wouldn't you go for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:30 PM
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Didn't that red pill you took have a taint of black? Women sure as hell can love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:09 AM
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Well, maybe I am wrong and there are a few honest people left out there. Everything is fair game when it comes to avoiding the HR Karens.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 05:07 AM
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I meant that lying and withholding truth are both designed to deceive. I got the impression from your previous reply that you learned to withhold the truth instead of lying. I apologize for the misunderstanding, I did not intend to attack you in any way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:47 AM
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I think he could have provided a vague answer and steer the question back. Regarding the other points, you're right. I did not express myself properly and assumed a lot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:35 AM
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Interesting, fair enough. Although not lying per se, both are designed to deceive.The potential is there, as you said, even in yourself. Side note - I cannot imagine someone being satisfied with "I don't want to discuss that", when they really want to discuss it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:25 AM
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True, in this case I probably am. I tried to make the point, that this is exactly why you don't disclose it. Women are notorious for lying about theirs. It's just a friendly tip. I assume you mean "*her lying skanks ways"? I do not see how it would keep him ignorant, she won't disclose hers either way. It would just protect him from being seen by his GF as a less experienced gent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 04:03 AM
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I agree and support honesty, no question about that. I honestly believe that people lie about all kinds of serious matter to their close ones. I am not saying that they all have malevolent intent. People just lie all the time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:51 AM
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I am usually brutally honest. Reality is, most people are not.Also, part of the honesty is also admitting that I have lied, not always, obviously. Anyone who can say he never lied in a LTR, is in my opinion either not self aware enough, is lying to himself or is delusional.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:44 AM
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I agree with all that has been said regarding the morals and benefits of not lying / honesty in a relationship. I am obviously not condoning lying. I probably sound bitter or a bit stingy, I get it, fair enough.What I am saying is, that it is naive to think that there is a LTR where there was no / will be no lying at some point regarding some substantial matters, or the very least, withholding of truth. I don't mean white lies or small irrelevant matters.People lie all the time. I always advocat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/21 03:41 AM
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Yes. Not looking to marry. If I would, of course. What do you think, we monsters or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 01:23 AM
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Would make even more sense why he would have studied that shit so hard.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 10:23 PM
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I am surprised as well. Probably people who openly discussed their notch count in their relationships and see this as withholding truth.Although extreme, sure would have helped this one out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/21 10:10 PM
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Just go for a walk in the mall and check what height of men do average / above average women have as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 05:09 PM
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This is why you never, under any circumstance ever, disclose your notch count. It is always going to be too low or too high in someones mind and will cause problems down the road and sure as hell, will be used against you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:02 PM
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Gentlemen, if any of you ever find yourself in a situation where you find out you are in a relationship with a liar, that relationship needs to end. You cannot have a relationship with a liar, as there can be no trust given to a liar, and trust is critical for any relationship to work. You are basically suggesting that we should not have a relationship. Everybody lies to some extent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 04:56 PM
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I do not consider not being fat, crazy, not having kids, or not living too far away is having "even higher" standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:38 AM
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I don't have to tell you that there is almost nothing in it for you. I understand though, you want to stay with this girl. They usually want to marry and they are usually the one's who want to divorce. The questions I would ask myself are as follows, besides the obvious if you love her, can be faithful etc. obviously: Is it likely that you can keep her stick around forever? Can you find another girl/s to meet you needs without marriage? Are you aware of the possible consequences in case of a div…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 06:13 PM
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So... Why are you considering marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:48 PM
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Nice. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:44 PM
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Maybe not so much because of standards, but because you have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:35 AM
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Fear of being cuckolded. Easy access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:28 AM
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Why is it so unbelievable?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/21 08:06 AM
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