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| 2 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyTake a knee, champ. Sometimes we all bite off more than we can chew, and sometimes it's hard to swallow those tough nasty ones. But it's something we all do. You had no bad intentions. Just a few missteps that snowballed. Shit, just this weekend, I was at a party and saw these cute girls by themselves. I went up to them and made a joke and one of them (the one I thought was hotter) asked my name. I thought I had this one wrapped up. Wrong. Ended up just going kind of cold, and I eventually was t… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 01:19 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?Just make sure to not think about it too much. Just get out there and make an awesome life for yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:59 PM |
| 15 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?If you've ever heard people advise that you "assume attraction" upon the initial interaction, this is when it becomes most important. If in your first interaction you can make them laugh, you'll have significantly lowered their barriers. The barriers they've built from dealing with insecure guys (trust me, I have a lot of girl friends who are quite attractive and there are plenty of good looking muscular tall guys they think of as insecure) Being confident is about loving yourself. It's about lo… | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 03:18 PM |
| 47 | How do you guys get over the nagging feeling that some girls are just too attractive for you?You've got to realize that attractiveness=/worth. You can be a 10/10 and still be a shit stain to humanity. Looks are nice but they shouldn't intimidate you. Accomplishments, values, hobbies, interests are all things that are more attractive. Think of physical looks as her getting her foot in your door. Treat her like you would anyone else and you'll see how well you do. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] FIELD REPORT. Wingmanning all night. All was going well until we got to the girl's apartment and I became too 'rapey' when trying to isolate girl #1Like others said, you were outcome dependent. You were trying things to get sex from her, and that's how you came across. If you show that the most important thing in your mind is getting laid then you'll come across as rapey. | /r/seduction | 11/10/14 03:43 PM |
| 9 | Because this keeps coming up - sex on the first date.Love this post. We always talk about outcome independence, why should this part of the interaction be any different? Be the guy she can't get. Always test the waters but the nano second she stops you, never go further than that. Keep it for the next date, because remember, it's a daye, she doesn't want you to think she's easy. | /r/seduction | 08/05/14 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all?A guy in my fraternity has a stutter and has he sweetest and prettiest girlfriend of all my brothers. So yes, just learn to love yourself, and sigh about the faults you can't fix! | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 11:19 PM |
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