KapUSMC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive? Depends on what you mean by short. I’d waaaay prefer a 5’8 man over a 6’2 dude any day That is considerably outside the norm. And there are far more 5'8" men than women that prefer 5'8" men. But that should also make things much easier for you than most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 03:47 PM
24	Does paying women for sex automatically make me a “misogynist”? It's misogynist for the same reason why calling the cops on a Black person is racist. There are broader things at play than just what's on your mind, there's a dynamic to consider This is disgusting. If there is an act that would call the police for, call the police. If you would only either call or not call the police based on the race of the individual. That's racist. "The broader things at play" is merely how you rationalize it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 12:37 PM
13	Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internet If they were working at 7-11, that would be having a tough time with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/23 02:34 PM
9	CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better . That's largely selection bias - Most people don't care, or don't know when it is. There definitely isn't support at the macro scale for it, but I'm not sure that people are against it at the macro either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 05:29 PM
0	CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better . /endthread	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/23 05:27 PM
3	Here is why traditional women/wives are becoming more and more rare Employers don't want to hire someone with a 6 month gap let alone 5 years or so Don't ever leave a 5 year gap on your resume. If you're a SAHM, put that on there. I don't care what field you are in, there is plenty you can leverage as experience during that time that is relevant to the role you are looking for. The biggest problem with any sort of nontraditional education or experience is people not realizing how to quantify or relate the skills to the position they are striving toward.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/23 02:19 PM
-1	Women should definitely be shamed for settling Establishing a career, especially for women. If you have kids in your early 20s that is incredibly hard to do Taking a break from the workforce is a step back no matter when you do it. The largest factor in this will likely be on how much time they are going to invest in raising their child. If one party is going to leave the workforce completely to raise the child, it's probably better earlier in your career or before it really starts. If you're going to do maternity/paternity leave then back t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 07:20 PM
-1	Women should definitely be shamed for settling It just makes more sense resource wise. How so? Going through life on your own is considerably less efficient than doing so with someone else. It doesn't mean you should rush to have kids. But even having children early, there are about as many advantages to doing it early as there are later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 06:27 PM
5	Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash The goal was to say "we should investigate the accusers' claims instead of blindly trusting the accused", not "we should blindly trust the accusers". This I completely agree with, and should be the case here as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 06:12 PM
10	You must pick one 1 and it's not even close. No makeup, hair in a ponytail, and comfortable clothes isn't a turn off in a relationship. Quite the opposite for me. Shows she is secure with herself, and not out trying to trade up. The lazy around the house one is tougher, but not a deal breaker. 2 is a hard pass for a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:57 PM
18	Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bash Why are you taking the story of the person filing the lawsuit as the absolute truth? Agreed. I would ask if you would have the same response if the gender roles were reversed? Shouldn't it be believed on the premise that "false allegations are less common than real ones". That was a pillar of the #MeToo and the basis of the Believe Women mantra.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:39 PM
1	Q4W: How do you define 'power imbalance'? neutral places like AskReddit That's one of the more humorous things I've read in awhile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 07:25 PM
19	The Lack of Critical Thinking Amongst Red Pill Men My biggest complaint with most of RP or PP is they lack the same accountability for men that they are upset that women don't face. Accountability goes both ways. Holding women accountable isn't license to cheat, or be a fuckboi, etc... It really shouldn't be that difficult. If you're a man... Be the type of man you would want your children (or maybe siblings if you want to be childfree) to be with. The same thing applies to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 07:03 PM
1	Finding a relationship is way easier than making friends as an adult. Just my experience as a mid 20’s woman in the US. After high school or college, making new friends is impossible. You can have the best conversations with coworkers then never get invited to stuff outside of work and get brushed off when you try to make plans. You can meet existing friends’ mutual friends, really hit it off, then never see them again. If someone lives more than 15 minutes away, they won’t make an effort to hang out. This is one thing men and women need to do far better at. Ask p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/23 08:27 PM
0	Western society is too prosperous and strong We need to separate out the western society portion from the US. European countries are at far greater risk than the US. Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs doesn't just apply to individuals, but society as well. The US is so absurdly blessed in terms of resources, how/when society was founded and it's guiding principles, the geography and neighboring countries, far and away the most powerful military/police force to quell civil unrest, the list goes on and on. Being born in the US is starting on 3rd ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 03:20 AM
9	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? it’s not an uncommon experience for black women to be followed around in a store by wary employees. There are definitely some biases there, and that gets far more complicated. The assumption of criminality is an excellent point. The expectation rides more heavily toward men, but there is a racial component as well. Where the societal norm stands on that between black women and white men is an excellent question, and just a quick check... Not something I could find any data on. Rest assured plent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 02:10 AM
2	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? She doesn’t date and therefore don’t get free meals or drinks that way. She has the opportunity to do so, it's a choice not to do so. Not saying that the choice is wrong, or if she were male the calculus changes. She never goes clubbing or any have one night stands. Same as above She have never committed a crime, not even gotten a parking ticket. If she does, she won't be held accountable to the same standard, and will receive less of a sentence. If someone is assaulting her or mugging her, some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 01:44 AM
63	Which privileges aren’t women able to see? That isn't remotely close to true. Harder since you just said Europe, and not the US, because there is infinitely more data available for the US with our long standing obsession with race. These are commission findings are from using multiple studies covering over a 20 year period: For the US Black female offenders and Other Race female offenders also received shorter sentences than White male offenders during the Post-Report period, at 29.7 percent and 35.4 percent shorter respectively.. For th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 01:03 AM
3	Analysis Paralysis and the Anxiety of Failure in Red Pill Men This is a good take. Are we saying that real world experience trumps all else? For me at least, real world observations lead to trying to understand the underlying reasons behind them. And while I think a lot of TRP is accurate in regards to women... And that men should work on self improvement far more, but much of it is framed in advocating for poor treatment of women or so they can gain the same inbalance they complain about instead of doing it so they can be a better partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/23 12:39 AM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege Women don’t attempt suicide bc they’re crying for help This is a large difference between a suicide attempt, and suicidal ideation. Aaron Beck the person considered the father of modern Cognitive Behavioral Therapy developed two different scales that are still in use. Beck’s Suicide Intent Scale is still in use, and Beck's Scale for Suicide Ideation (SSI) is still used but gradually being replaced by the expanded MSSI. This Oxford study shows there are differences in the intent to complete a sui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 11:53 PM
0	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood I did. And that isn't it. In fact, found the opposite. If you go to the study itself here and download the supplemental PDF, section S1 covers the age distribution. And if you go down to s3, in NYC where it was almost 50/50 distribution, had one of the largest gaps in desirability while Seattle with the largest ratio and the least, the age desirability gap was less. But exists across age as well as across ratio or pool size. There is a reason for the age gap in relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 09:35 PM
-1	The wall for women isn’t when they hit their 30’s, it’s when they hit motherhood And believing that only applies to women This isn't some made up thing. The peak for men being attractive is almost inverse with women. Men’s desirability peaks at age 50. But women’s desirability starts high at age 18 and falls throughout their lifespan..	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/23 06:22 PM
2	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege There’s more men that commit suicide because they tend to choose more violent methods. If you look at the attempted suicide data they’re more equal. There are reasons behind this as well. There is a huge difference between suicidal attempts, and suicidal ideations. Men use more violent means, because they are actually looking to follow through with the suicide. One is an attempt to end ones life, the other is to signal that there is a problem and they need help. Women can make an unsuccessful at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 05:35 PM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege For the initial phase when selection is occurring - courtship whatever... Women control access. For moving a relationship to being exclusive, or longer term, etc... But once your past the initial phase, men typically have more say on where it goes after. Neither are always true, and there will definitely be exceptions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 03:44 PM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege relationships easier This isn't as unbalanced as you make it out. Yes, women control access to sex more often. But men usually control access to relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 02:48 PM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege Why do you think this is impossible? It absolutely is. The part that usually isn't mentioned in that debate - same holds true for men regarding women. Percentage wise the imbalance isn't the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 02:43 PM