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If you learned something, it's progress, if you didn't learn something, it's still processing, just give it a minute.
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:50 AM
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My point is slightly different (although I do agree with yours). We all allow people to mistreat us to some extent, even though we don't necessarily "have to". For example, when living with your parents, you allow mistreatment to some extent in exchange for the cheap rent. You are still the one making the choice to allow it. You could cut your parents out of your life, but kiss that cheap room goodbye. We do the same thing in our friend groups, our jobs, our hobbies, etc in all sorts of ways. We…
/r/seduction18/09/22 10:37 PM
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Hang on, is it lacking or is it out of the box? Also, you are still the one obsessed with YouTube. I'm starting to feel some projection going on.
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:21 PM
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Out of the box? Self improvement is some crazy idea to you, huh?
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:18 PM
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Okay? Who said anything about YouTubers except you?
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:16 PM
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Calling people you don't know pathetic right out the gate is a pretty pathetic persuasive strategy.
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:02 PM
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"Be yourself" for a lot of people means to keep doing all the shit that doesn't really serve us, our goals, our wants. Becoming your favorite person takes time, work, and commitment. I didn't say he had to get to the finish line, I said he should do stuff that makes him feel like he is progressing.
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:29 PM
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You are having paralysis by analysis. You can't just try to break game down into building blocks and hope to be able to play. It's a feeling, it's a mental position. Do stuff that makes you feel like you are becoming your favorite person, Then spread that energy around and before you know it, you'll find yourself speaking confidently to a lovely woman who might even have some stuff in common with you. Then the real pressure is on.
/r/seduction16/09/22 08:04 PM
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Everyone has reasons to be resentful, only some choose to be resentful. Legitimacy is not what matters here. What matters is that you control the narrative.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:31 PM
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People treat you how you allow them to treat you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:28 PM
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Then you are looking at the wrong 35 year olds, standards exist in every age bracket.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:03 PM
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My experience has been the opposite, many attractive women are getting tired of their lazy husbands by 35-40 years old and want to reclaim what youth they still have left, I'm the delivery boy.
/r/seduction12/09/22 11:08 PM
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Go get a car, build your life before worrying about girls.
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:01 PM
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You are wise to be cautious hitting on women at work. It is very easy for signals to get misconstrued, especially with us men who rarely get flirted with in public. We see a smiling face and get some good service and we are in love. Be very careful not to make her feel threatened, even slightly. But if you are feeling a little ballsy... Invite her to a group setting of some sort. If she can bring her own people with, even better. This will give you a non threatening chance to get to know her and…
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:48 AM
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you want 18 more years of "fun"?
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:36 AM
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Judging by your username, I am guessing you are around 28. My practical advice is try some of the more mature women out there. I've found there a lot less mindgames being played and they are just genuinely trying to have a good time, casual or not.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:23 AM
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Good for you for even acknowledging the problem in the first place, it really is one of the most difficult parts. And yes, powerlifts and other full body movements will do just fine ;)
/r/seduction01/09/22 03:13 PM
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You are finding out that muscles are just part of the equation. Having been a skinny kid turned chubby by meds, I reclaimed my fitness at the age of 18 and had the same experience as you. The truth is that while we fixed our body as much as we can, and had great results, our mind is a much more complicated beast to tame. Hell, I'm still working on it over a decade later. Inside you still feel like the guy from before. Hell, you may even feel insulted like "where the hell has this been my whole l…
/r/seduction31/08/22 11:41 PM
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Your first time is entirely what you make of it. If you believe it should happen in a certain way, that's your standard and don't let anyone take it from you.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:03 AM
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There are a lot of different politicians out there too. Almost none of them are in it for the right reasons. Just the desire to be in that position is a red flag as to why they shouldn't be in that position. If 1 out of hundreds is in it for the right reasons, great. But to then recommend that we go to their kind for help seems silly to me when they are unnecessary in the first place.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:26 PM
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"The right person" isn't running boot camps
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:29 AM
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I'm not against approaching by any means. But the PUA community is trying to like... speedrun sex or something. So many of them are asking for a girl's number before they even know their name. I guess it makes sense though, who can remember names when you are approaching dozens of girls per day. I recommend talking to everyone in a friendly, non intrusive manner with no expectations in mind. If someone is worthwhile, you will have the time necessary to form some sort of seduction with them. Also…
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:13 AM
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No bootcamp is going to fix your anxiety, and also they are scams. The only thing that will fix your anxiety is "exposure therapy". Essentially, put yourself in that uncomfortable position enough, and you will become used to it, and may even begin to like it. Go out, have some fun, talk to everyone (not just girls you want to get with). Dont know what to talk about? Go do something in a group setting that you like to do. Take a class, go to an event, do some volunteer work, meetups, etc. These t…
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:31 AM
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This could potentially be a shit test. She might be giving you a hard time to vet your response. Just play it cool, and have a good time no matter what she says or does.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:55 PM
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I comprehended just fine. It's not approach anxiety. It's just recognizing that it is not a numbers game. This approach was popularized by car salesman types that have no real game so they just lash about hoping to catch a woman, any woman. It comes off as desperate and word travels fast on what you are up to. It takes finesse to be effective, and finesse is not developed by simply talking to 100 girls. Focus on closing the deal at hand rather than talking to 100 prospects.
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:20 AM
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The first paragraph makes no sense because choosing the right woman IS a skill that is necessary for your success in seduction. If just any woman will do, that means you don't value yourself enough to be picky.. The second paragraph also makes no sense, I see no difference between "trying to bag" and having women that are already bagged. He also was not talking about being friends, he was clearly talking about being involved with them in a dating/sexual capacity.
/r/seduction17/03/22 04:39 AM
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Nah, you're just clueless.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:37 AM
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I beat the game already buddy, I know a thing or two. Yes, women want what other women want. Women do NOT want womanizers despite what you may have been told.
/r/seduction17/03/22 01:30 AM
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This is exactly the point.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:17 AM
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In real life, it just doesn't work like that unfortunately. I could date 10 women a week if I quit my job and never do anything else ever again.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:33 PM
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It is definitely the foundation with which you build the rest of your life. This guy's trying to make 3 random girls a week his foundation, it's a recipe for failure.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:28 PM
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Nah, I'd be willing to bet this guy is more of an incel than I ever was. This guy looks at women like a quota to feed his ego. Meaning he doesn't care about the QUALITY of the women he is talking to. Any woman worth a damn can smell that mentality a mile away. Will he get laid from time to time? Maybe if they overlook this. But there are better ways. If you think you are desperate trying to get one girl to notice and become invested in you, wait until you try 3. If you can be secure with not hav…
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:05 PM
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Or.... Hear me out, you don't need women to validate your ego, you can do that on your own and save yourself the hassle of half assing three relationships. It will backfire on you eventually. There is more to life than girls, and you don't NEED girls either, zero girls is better than having 10 problematic girls. You don't need an over abundant supply if you can reduce your demand. That's how you come at it from a position of strength.
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:53 PM
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Be direct.
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:37 PM
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I conquered the seduction game a long time ago, but thank you for the concern.
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:28 PM
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"cold approached too many girls", "randomly going up to groups of girls" "worried about reputation". Of course he didn't say he harrassed. Noone premeditates harrassment in cases like this. Sometimes you have to connect the dots.
/r/seduction12/02/22 12:36 AM
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What happens when he ends up working with one of the girls he has harassed (since he harrassed all of them)? What happens when he ends up working for one of their fathers? What happens when he is in the same class with them next year? What happens when every girl knows who he is and what he is up to and word spreads to females that he hasn't even talked to yet? Talk about preconceived notions. High school is a professional environment, whether high schoolers realize it or not. Yes, some conseque…
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:04 PM
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High School is no different from a job, you go, you see the same people, you do your work, go home, repeat. Social skills are learned during group projects and the lunch table, not cold approaching other students trying to get a nut. As far as his reputation not mattering within a year of hs, you have no way of knowing that. Word travels fast in some communities. Also, encouraging someone to needlessly ruin their reputation when there are better options is why men get a bad rep these days. Act l…
/r/seduction11/02/22 08:40 PM
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It will affect your reputation, and you should care. Don't listen to the others in this subreddit. They have nothing on the line while you do. Hitting on other students is the same as hitting on coworkers. Don't shit where you eat. With that being said, if you must flirt with coworkers, it HAS to be done tactfully and respectfully. Cold approaching is to be done with strangers that you will never see again if it doesn't go your way. If your reputation makes all the girls perceive you as just "a …
/r/seduction11/02/22 07:34 PM
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It shouldn't theoretically, but if we are talking historically....
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:15 PM
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Dicketh it shall be.
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:34 PM
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Attention, Dick, or wants to make her current toy jealous. Run.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:56 PM
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Value is 100 percent subjective. Obviously neck beard gamer guy doesn't pull any Megan Fox type girls, but should that be the goal for him? Him and Megan Fox would never get along.
/r/seduction02/07/21 08:17 PM
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If you are genuinely a "nerd fatso", what is wrong with that? Many nerd fatsos lead full and rewarding lives, and many find deep relationshils. Heavens forbid you end up attracting someone who is genuinely like you. Sure, you can go to the gym, get fit, keep yourself clean cut and well dressed, work 55+ hour weeks to afford a glamorous lifestyle, but what happens when you burn out 3 years into a relationship and start being genuinely yourself.
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:15 PM
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You are right. People are less filtered when they are online, so we can take a glance in and see what's going on inside of them. Whether OP wants to admit it or not, the message he is putting out there is that he (and by association, all of us) is not good enough so he needs to change in order to compete with the top 20 percent of men. When the reality is that humans are complex and it's not as simple as going to the gym and drinking water and making a ton of money. This may get you a woman, but…
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:58 PM
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This is what actual confidence looks like. Not OP's "I'm not good enough so I gotta lash out to make everyone think I'm the shit so I can finally get a date since women do all the selecting" shit.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:37 PM
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The first part of seduction is likeability, Reddit has this great feature where you can get great feedback on the things you are putting out there, and the things you are telling yourself. You right though, totally irrelevant.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:18 PM
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I am speculating by your language that you are one of the younger guys that you are referring to. You also come off as massively negative and borderline sociopathic, this is unattractive to most high quality women, and also other men, for that matter. Look at the downvotes on your comments throughout this thread and take a moment to reflect.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:13 PM
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This didn't happen. Even if it did, it isn't the flex you think it is. The CDC would like to know your location.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:40 PM
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Very true, people will only care about you to the extent that you care for yourself. If you don't care for yourself, noone else will. This is why it is sooo important to be happy with where you are and who you are right now.
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:17 PM
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It's funny you responded to my comment out of all of them. I have ADHD, some people suspect I am on the spectrum, I am overweight, don't have great teeth, with thinning hair, hairy everywhere else, and yet, when I was single, I had no problem with high quality women, despite my mediocre looks. Sure, I got my heart broken on occasion, but eventually, I landed a very sweet girl who has a rocking body and is into all the same things I am. She is not perfect, but noone is. I am educated and make oka…
/r/seduction29/06/21 01:59 PM
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I believe it is because many people originally come here from a place of pain where they were insecure and/or rejected. They are overcompensating for this and end up in a toxic headspace. Their confidence (attractive) becomes arrogance (unattractive), their assertiveness (attractive) turns into inflexibility (unattractive), and their empathy (attractive) turns into sociopathy (unattractive). They usually don't seduce anyone worthwhile because of this, which deepens the insecurity and worsens the…
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:32 PM
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This would work great in a chick flick, but in real life it may nauseate them.
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:46 PM
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walk outside
/r/seduction23/03/15 06:11 AM
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