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Majority of med and law students these days are female. Women make more money than men etc.
/r/AllPillDebate14/04/23 09:32 AM
1

I can definitely see how your hobbies get you to meet a lot of women and get laid but that's not the case for 99% of hobbies guys are doing out here. Most niche hobbies are probably much more solitude or with a fixed group of people and 90+% male dominated.
/r/AllPillDebate27/03/23 09:04 AM
2

If you're not neurotypical "being yourself" is a bad idea mostly.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 10:59 PM
2

Good post
/r/AllPillDebate16/03/23 07:58 PM
7

Fatcel=volcel
/r/AllPillDebate07/03/23 10:48 PM
-1

"purpose" is mostly a meaningless feel-good term. Also, most women (people) don't care about the details or your work (especially if it is highly specialized) or your niche hobby. And telling dudes that those things are important leads them down a very lonely path.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 10:48 AM
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Inmates often have access to books/phones/TVs/consoles as long as they follow the prison rules and cooperate. Prisons are not meant to be some dirty hole were humans are left to rot.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 10:26 AM
5

The copium on that sub lol
/r/AllPillDebate28/02/23 08:04 PM
5

Balding in women makes them completely unattractive.
/r/AllPillDebate26/02/23 10:04 AM
3

Most men are either overweight, obese or skinny fat soyboys. Most men are broke, especially unmarried men. Redpill is still retarded but those are not valid arguments.
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 08:25 AM
6

I've been in the situation where female friends were attracted to me and wanted more at some point. Friends hooking up and starting to date is not that uncommon.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 12:53 PM
-2

If you treat the personal, so the private life of someone as extension of the political sphere you start moving towards identity politics and empty moralism very quickly. I think it's an expression that belongs to totalitarian states where the political ideology of the state is enforced by police and people have to follow it or be imprisoned. But in liberal democracies this has no place.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 12:15 PM
0

"the personal is political" Classic feminism claim. Hardcore disagree with that.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 09:34 PM
6

Yeah female majority in uni and yet most guys are perma single and most girls are in relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 10:30 AM
5

Mostly guys who are a bit older or out of school.
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 10:21 AM
10

I'm in uni, seems pretty accurate if I look at my social circle (early -mid 20s age range).
/r/AllPillDebate10/02/23 08:53 AM
34

If you don't want to (or can't) participate in dating just don't and tell people who bother you about it to fuck off. You can just not approach random strangers and still live a good life.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 10:59 PM
0

Some men prefer skinny girls, most prefer curvey
/r/AllPillDebate06/02/23 11:20 AM
2

I don't know a single woman who cares about kickboxing competitions. Even for men that is super niche. There is a reason he left kickboxing and went on obscure reality TV shows. He was also completely broke before he started his cam girl hussle (or at least that's what he says) so money wasn't used in attracting women. Your average DJ at a local club probably has more groupies than Tate did when he was competing.
/r/AllPillDebate30/01/23 06:36 PM
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Money doesn't cause women to fall in love with you and work for your cam girl business. And I don't think any woman cared about his success in niche kick boxing competition. He had girls before he belew up and got rich. He actually used girls in his cam girl business to get rich and high status. Being 6'3" helps but it alone will not carry you
/r/AllPillDebate30/01/23 02:38 PM
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platonic touch It's pretty crazy how men without a partner completely lack this element of human interaction. Men just don't touch eachother or give physical affection to friends. Women are definitely ahead of men in this regard. They hug and touch their friends regularly, sometimes even hold hands or give cheek kisses etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 01:42 PM
-1

Nah his face /head is definitely below average
/r/AllPillDebate30/01/23 12:47 PM
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Tate is pretty ugly. He has no jaw and bug eyes (which is why he always wears sun glasses, even inside) + he is bald with an egg head. He kinda proves the gym pill. Despite all those negatives his muscular, lean physique still makes him attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate30/01/23 12:37 PM
-1

I mean to be fair if you look at the population of men and women in their 20s who are a) single b) willing to date you'll get similar results. Young women who want a partner typically have no issues finding one.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 12:56 PM
6

Never underestimate a man's ability to cope. Red pill movement is the best example of this.
/r/AllPillDebate25/01/23 09:49 AM
1

Why do you know about the porn your friends watch?
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 06:36 PM
1

I mean light skinned eastasian women (Japan, Korea) are basically white except for the eyes (which they all change via surgery anyway). And the ones that are more "yellow" usually fix that with skin whitening cream.
/r/AllPillDebate16/01/23 04:00 PM
1

Where are my fellow cougar crusaders?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:37 AM
0

This person is just retarded. Yeah no shit you're not going to be perceived as "cute and quirky" for acting like an "eccentric" autist in public and stimming uncontrolled. What did you expect? Of course nobody is going to respect a guy who literally has the height and frame of a girl. Men with that kind of stature get shit all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:36 PM
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Are you a minor?
/r/AllPillDebate09/01/23 04:03 PM
1

The dude is such a skeleton, look at his arms and chest
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 12:20 PM
2

Online "relationships" are not real. You don't know somebody's personally until you've spent significant time with them irl. Online anyone can LARP as whatever they want.
/r/AllPillDebate06/01/23 08:09 PM
2

Shows most guys here don't talk to women irl much. Girls irl are very adamant about what features they find attractive. And short, balding, autistic, curry and janitorial work are definitely not on that list.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 10:18 PM
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Unironically believing in the manic pixie dream girl trope. Cringe
/r/AllPillDebate03/01/23 04:07 PM
2

sex uniform Cringe. Do people actually talk like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:13 PM
1

Just checked the sub is called r/ladyboners You talk about cucking in like every other post. Are you into that or what?
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 02:34 PM
2

Mentalceldom is very widespread. Anyone who denies it is coping hard
/r/AllPillDebate10/12/22 07:38 PM
7

My mom is in her 50s and not fat and most of her friends aren't either. They mostly had kids. Stop making excuses for being lazy and eating garbage all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate10/12/22 02:12 PM
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Well improve might be too much, but I can find a lot of milf and golf porn rather easily. So yeah there are a lot of guys into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:16 PM
7

Milf enjoyers rise up. On a more serious note, "the wall" is just a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:40 AM
2

Might have to spank her a bit for lying to me though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:47 PM
1

A
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:50 PM
7

Yeah there's definitely guys who are very attractive in their early 30s, but that's not guaranteed. Depending on how your aging genetics work and how well in shape you are things can go downhill from 30 very fast. Hairloss alone is a major factor, so many guys just don't have the head shape/facial features to look good without hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:53 PM
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I try to call out male bs, e.g. "men age like wine" and other copes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:27 PM
1

Yeah, many men will endure all kinda of hardships to be seen with a attractive woman IN PUBLIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:20 PM
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Testosterone says no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:14 PM
1

Women do pursue men, maybe just not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:30 AM
3

Checked your profile, from my understanding you're a quant at citadel. So I'm just gonna guess you're probably ~ 140-150+ IQ range. You're making a top 1% income. You're a complete outlier , traditional dating tips do not apply to you. Either put your money towards sugar babies/escorts (isn't this super common in finance anyway? No shot most m&a guys have time for dating) or try to find women with similarly exceptional intelligence.
/r/AllPillDebate20/11/22 06:59 PM
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Nah, I like being big and strong, would not like to be small and weak. Also a vagina seems way to maintenance heavy for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:53 PM
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I think this really comes down to how much internal motivation/drive a person has. I personally know a bunch of guys that are quite driven and hard working and it's not tied to "muh validation". I genuinely enjoy working out and being strong etc. It has value to me on it's own. I will however say that every "asexual male" I've ever seen online does seem to a unkempt, skinny fat loser with 0 drive for success in life so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:53 AM
4

Redpill was invented to sell stuff (books, courses, videos etc.) to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:11 AM
0

That pic is very androgynous to say the least.
/r/AllPillDebate15/11/22 01:52 PM
2

Go look at some of the skin whitening cream ads sold in places like India and Africa. Whiteness is seen as extremely desirable all around the world. It's kinda sad to see how negatively many POC see their own skin colour.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 04:35 PM
2

Envy is a very powerful emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:13 PM
12

Submissiveness (in women) Always found more assertive/capable women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:44 PM
1

Libido gap is just a fact. It's also a fact that there are less single women than guys in the younger demographics (18-30). This just naturally results in many guys who can't get laid. The solution is helping guys deal with their situation and develop healthy coping strategies that don't result in self-harm or harming others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 02:37 PM
0

Introversion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:24 AM
0

Yeah yeah we get it, nice guys suck. It has been discussed to death at this point. Did anyone actually believe growing up that being nice is attractive? Maybe I just watched too much Charlie Sheen in 2 and a half men as a kid but I can't remember ever thinking being nice gets you laid.
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/22 09:39 AM
2

Better cover yourself in a thick layer of artificial chemicals.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 02:21 PM
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real world Reddit Pick one. Just one. But in all seriousness, these big subreddits are not representative at all and just repeat platitudes most of the time. I mean there is stuff in there like brush your teeth. Wtf is this advice for your first day in kindergarten? Also a bunch of posts on body odor. Last time I checked heterosexual women are attracted to male smell
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 01:52 PM
1

🐔🐔🐔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 11:29 AM
4

Slim fit shirt to show off broad shoulders + showing off big juicy forearms and calves. Don't forget the the calves boys, I know they are a bitch to train but girls are into that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 10:08 AM
2

Yeah, social status is extremely important for men. There is a reason why barkeepers/bouncers get so much action
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/22 03:24 PM
2

Idk then jump on T and become the Chad you were always meant to be
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 11:57 AM
2

Then go to a therapist. Maybe you can get over your complex. Either way, you'll never look like a anime girl.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 11:53 AM
1

Face feminisation surgery is a thing. Plastic surgeons can make your face look more feminine
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 11:45 AM
1

Yeah but women don't know what numbers actually mean. They can't gauge height for shit. Some 5'2 femlet has no idea how tall 6' actually is. She has to look up all the time anyway.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/22 07:52 AM
1

Very based
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:14 PM
3

Male, but I'll answer anyway Humans are serially monogamous. It is the natural state of humans to have sexual relationships that last for a couple years and then end. Lifelong marriage is much less natural and thus it also so unsuccessful.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/22 08:09 PM
7

The presence of a cute girl will raise your skill level at any task by at least 50% (if not get your T-levels checked)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:45 AM
0

Man hitting the wall. Many such cases
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:11 PM
4

Fit guys are seen as more attractive. Stop coping. Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men's bodily attractiveness Estimates of physical strength determined over 70% of men's bodily attractiveness. Additional analyses showed that tallness and leanness were also favoured, and, along with estimates of physical strength, accounted for 80% of men's bodily attractiveness. Contrary to popular theories of men's physical attractiveness, there was no evidence of a nonlinear ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:28 PM
2

I think your situation shows how out of touch redpillers are. From their pov, you did everything "wrong". Women in her 30s, divorced, single mother. Basically the devil 😈 Yet you can run circles around them in the dating world and that drives them crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:16 PM
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Correlation doesn't imply causation, but it does waggle its eyebrows suggestively and gesture furtively while mouthing 'look over there'. -xkcd
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:02 AM
2

Red pill
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/22 09:41 PM
3

Obviously there is no genuine attraction from her. She left these guys. Great way to piss away money and let's be real, she is not exactly the pinnacle of female attractiveness. I honestly don't understand these guys. They might as well pay escorts. That would be cheaper and the girls would be hotter. It just shows how desperate even the top 1% of men are these days for some female love and validation.
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/22 10:09 PM
0

Sorry but spending mid 5-figures for a couple dates with some random 40 y.o. woman sounds like "hit the wall" to me
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/22 09:40 PM
4

Men hitting the wall. Many such cases
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/22 09:03 PM
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I'm a 6'3" Yeah it definitely makes me uncomfortable if a guy is "significantly " taller than me, so over 6'5". It just feels weird. I've never been the tallest guy in any social circle etc. so my identity is not the "tall guy". Always wanted to be but always an inch or two too short. Anyway I mostly like to bully short girls about their height because that's always hella fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:10 PM
1

He is talking about FtM transition
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/22 08:04 AM
1

A lot of women are kinda boring and have no sense of humour, don't like those. Some are hella based and I can talk shit and banter with them + they have titties so yeah love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:20 PM
1

you don't go outside You don't have friends Very high IQ arguments LOL At least I'm not looking for "dirty penpals" on Reddit
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 05:57 PM
4

For women it's probably much less surprising. But for guy it's a bit different because getting laid/a gf is often conflated with "growing up" etc. That's why people will often accuse virgin men of being lazy, NEETs , "not taking responsibility " etc.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 12:46 PM
2

Working out and getting jacked is still super based though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/22 09:25 AM
15

Just because you're friends with girls doesn't mean they want to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:43 AM
1

Don't have ig/Snapchat/Facebook. Only a anonymous Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:17 PM
2

Legalize prostitution and give work visas to sex workers so that average men can afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:15 PM
1

Yeah so much bad advice. Instead of "teach them to respect women" or whatever, how about some looksmaxxing advice. Make them do sports, even if they're more introverted. Hell, teach to be a bit disrespectful/cheesy towards girls. If they have acne problems, force them to a dermatologist etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:30 PM
1

Menslib is basically just the "selfhating male feminist" meme turned into a subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:03 PM
6

Where does this idea come from that fathers teach guys how to get laid? Like what should some boomer tell his 15 y.o. son about high school dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:15 PM
2

This is actually a good answer.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 01:57 PM
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A couple girls asked around in my dorm about sexual history of everyone. Like half of the guys admitted to being virgins. (everyone is early to mid 20s) I know my personal friend group well enough to tell. The guys that have never had a gf the last 5 years are not getting laid off tinder or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:30 AM
1

Go on tinder and get yourself a 18 y.o. bf
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 08:19 AM
93

Idk how things are outside in the real world, but in uni there are certainly more than 10% of dudes not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:09 AM
2

femcel posting Cringe
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 08:05 AM
20

Personality is used in two ways. Big 5 personality traits, e.g. how extraverted or assertive someone is, how lazy or hardworking etc. This is imo the correct usage of the term Beliefs/attitudes someone expresses e.g. conservative/liberal, sexist, racist etc. When people (on Reddit) say "you have a unattractive personality" or "fix your personality" they often mean 2. Basically the idea that a dude can't get laid because he isn't a feminist (lol). I think 1. plays a very big role in dating. Espec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 07:53 PM
1

Libido gap. Men will always be more horny. It's just a fact of life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:07 PM
0

Why do people here not understand this: women are the sexual selectors. It's the other way around, short women go after tall men. "Oh you're so tall tehe" said every short girl always I will admit though there is a certain masculine urge to pick up short girls and carry them around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 04:52 PM
3

The equivalent for a mother would be to have a son who becomes an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:26 PM
1

give tall women a chance Tall women are already more attractive than femlets wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:21 PM
2

Have some self-respect Lying=cucked, ultimate beta move
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:46 PM
1

What is a good (or sexually attractive) personality to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:15 PM
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normie conformie I will steal this expression lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:06 PM
1

Idk I thought ibankers are all working 100h+ weeks and don't have time for this. I will say though, I interned at a consulting firm a while back and everybody there was also very tall. I'm 6'3" and I didn't stand out among the others. Most guys were around my height, 0 short guys.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/22 08:07 AM
1

You work in IB und have time to sit on Reddit and read green text?
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/22 07:53 AM
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What would be interesting is how many male/female users join/leave each month The idea is that women can join, get a couple dates very quickly and find men faster. So they're off the app quickly again. There is a stable underclass of men who never get matches and those that do need to stay on the app for longer to get the same amount of dates as a women. I read an article by an dating app Dev that said that the main problem was always keeping the women on the app because they just didn't need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:09 PM
1

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17356451/ Yeah of course it's true. Gift your daughter a nice pair of milkers if you love her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:36 PM
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Women who get boobjobs report long-term higher self-esteem and life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:17 PM
1

https://osf.io/tnf7b/ He's been on a couple podcasts you can find on Youtube in which he summarised his findings
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:27 PM
2

William Costello published a paper on incels and showed that they are more left wing compared to the average population
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:22 PM
2

femcel Oh no she fell for the meme
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 01:28 PM
-1

Slut shaming is primarily done by women because it reduces the value of sex, which is supposed to be a limited resource.
/r/AllPillDebate27/09/22 06:53 AM
-1

Underrated comment. Telling a dude who is struggling with women to visit asexual subreddits and read feminist theory is just not helpful.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 12:58 PM
2

Why do you hate studying? It's based
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 08:22 AM
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Got drunk with some friends haven't hung out with in a while. Got some mires for my newbie gains at the gym. Felt pretty good ngl Also my head is still buzzing. Too much gin...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 07:04 PM
1

I see that a lot, at least in male groups idk what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:49 PM
1

No offense, but are you into dudes? My friend groups / social circles formed around shared interests and activities. No around how hot they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:49 PM
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Chad is a physical description. It has nothing to do with how you act. Men are friends with people just as attractive as them Now that's a wild claim. Wtf why would I care how hot my bros are?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:20 PM
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women hit the wall at 25 Proceeds to jerk off to milf porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:16 AM
1

First time someone calles me a unicorn 🦄
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 11:04 PM
1

Redpillers are still mostly copers and wrong about a ton of things. But that subreddit is full of garbage takes by social rejects. I think the creator has some good posts though.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 11:03 PM
1

I think it's more the hopeless, many don't see a way forward.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 10:59 PM
2

I think tranny porn is pretty consistently in the top10-top15 categories.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 10:56 PM
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Wrong. Why do people always forget the foundation of human sexual and romantic relationships: Women are the selectors. Involuntary unmarried women are women who couldn't find a man who ticks all their boxes. They could easily find a man who would marry them. They remain the selectors. Incels were simply not selected by any women period. Entirely different thing.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 08:27 PM
2

Because white people are considered the most attractive race overall.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 01:06 PM
2

I thank the gods that I wasn't born a manlet. Manletism really is a disease. In general as a man you're sold on the idea that female attraction is more based around your actions/accomplishments/masculinity etc. and isn't just looksbased.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 08:17 PM
7

Statistically, single men report lower happiness, have worse health and die younger.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 08:13 PM
2

But no fat guy complains that the ripped guy getd laid. It's the 5'4" guy complaining that the 6'4" guy gets more attention. Sure he can drop 100k and get himself to 5'8" and drop another 30k to fix his jaw. But most just aren't willing to endure so much pain and have so much money to throw around.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 08:09 PM
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Aren't there more and more articles about leg surgery? Hair transplant is common knowledge amount zoomers. In general I think guys are too proud for looksmaxxing and spend their time running clown game or confidence coping
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 07:57 PM
3

There are probably millions of good relationships formed by two people hitting it off at a bar/club/festival/party and hooking up because they're horny and wanna fuck.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 07:49 PM
7

How many virgin guys do you know who are in their 30s or even 40s and seem to be happy/fulfilled ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 07:00 PM
2

1 2 and 3 look off-putting/unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:28 PM
2

You don't look any different after 2 months of lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:25 PM
1

6'3" male here. Yes, people treat you with a default level of respect if you're tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:28 PM
1

I hear women irl complain constantly about tinder. Oh they most be low quality women No, they're alright for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 09:06 PM
0

Dudes will listen to a Jordan Peterson lecture and take some colourful pills and think they have life all figured out. To be honest, you kinda remind me of myself at 18. Cringe. Also, try condensing your thoughts. Your posts are so long-winded.
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 08:38 PM
-2

If a woman if hot she is allowed to be crazy as long as she's above the Vicky Mendoza diagonal
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 08:48 AM
0

Goddamn she is hot.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/22 08:40 AM
1

asking for dating advice on Reddit It never even began for you. LOL But seriously stop those stupid questions on askfeminists.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 08:18 PM
1

I think the wizard thing is such a popular meme for a reason. If you haven't managed to attract a mate and enter a romantic/sexual relationship at that age it will most likely lead to lasting damage.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/22 04:20 PM
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I don't buy that people have all that. People in high paying, competitive jobs typically have to put in a lot of hours. If you're working 50-60h+ and time for commute+gym+healthy food/sleep etc. you're probably not going to have a ton of time socializing and 10 different hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:57 AM
2

If you're khv post 25-30. Depends a bit on the person, some still manage to recover in late 20s but it's pretty rare I think
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/22 08:28 AM
2

Don't lie? Wow such big brained and revolutionary advice.
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/22 08:26 AM
5

telling girls to cover up their shoulders and belly although all those things pare pretty natural. What a godtier argument. Last time I checked my hairy butt is also pretty natural. How does this relate to dress codes How to definitely end the debates like that though? Just have a guy stand up when she is giving her little sexism speech and say "Can I please see your belly button miss xyz? I want to see it. PLEASE " licks lips
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:51 PM
7

Why don't all men just have model tier facial genetics? Yeah, if you look like a model you won't have problems anyway. The question is what do you do if you're not extremely good looking by default? You improve your body. Women see upper body strength as more attractive
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/22 07:28 AM
10

MGTOW has no other meaning then "Men grabbing their own Willie"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:26 PM
11

Yes, the men hit the wall also. Something red pillers refuse to acknowledge. "Men peak later in life" --Loses hair "Surprised Pikachu"
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 03:30 PM
2

I know a couple Ukrainian refugee girls and they're all dating westerners now. Everybody is a student, so there is no money involved. They want out of the war torn, corrupt shithole and stay in the west after the war.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/22 07:31 AM
2

Survival of the fittest. At the end of the day, your own genetic propagation matters most
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/22 10:34 PM
1

A fellow NH watcher. I think he reads too much Nietzsche though, it kinda reminds me of my teenage years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:55 PM
1

autism Case closed Please don't take this as an insult but that's far more relevant to your situation than your finances.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/22 08:12 PM
6

Idk man I started lifting this year and you know, I do enjoy it and will continue to lift (injured atm though...) but all this "it will make you alpha" "It will make you confident" "it will teach you true discipline" "women will love you" and whatever else is supposed to come from lifting seems so bizarre to me. Just doesn't resonate at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:33 PM
3

What does lifting have to do with bravery?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:12 PM
6

This is advice given to men who can't date in their 20s anyway. For any normal person it's a terrible idea.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 10:08 PM
1

Tell him save up some money, maybe from jobs during the semester break and go to Tijuana, Mexico (similar places). Guys who still struggle at that age to get laid at all (let alone attractive woman) do not meet the looks threshold or have a more severe problem in terms of social skills, e.g. autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 09:59 PM
1

Where will share your vids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 09:43 PM
2

Dude she is a fit, blonde hair blue eyes white women. Yeah her face and curves are nothing special, but she still has extremely high SMV. Yeah she's shooting for high quality guys but that's because she can.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 06:42 PM
2

Thinking ape. The CBP channel. Hamza is such a clown/grifter. I just can't take grifers who sell snake oil to young desperate men seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:24 PM
3

I think many men resent the power women have over them and their lives. That's what motivates many to try and control female sexuality because in a way it allows them to keep their own sexuality more manageable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:14 PM
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I think social media and dating apps are way worse than anything else. The hippie and boomers were all having a lot more sex than later generations. And for zoomers sexual activity has fallen off a cliff
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 07:57 PM
2

Women prefer above average dick size just like men prefer above average cup size. We're all just degen coomers in the end.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 07:13 PM
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People are finally realizing that TRP is mostly a complete joke. All this talk about being "high value" and how you should learn "game" and all that jazz just doesn't map onto reality.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 11:03 AM
1

The chadistian. Always interesting what kind of people listen to stardusk.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 09:21 PM
9

Holy fuck all the women in the comments are malding. I'm sceptical of marriage, especially if you don't know the person. He should just use his money to get laid, not sign a contract.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 06:41 PM
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I think with the rise of social media etc. it's just easier to see what's going on and compare tangible results instead of relying on stories, e.g. "I know xyz and he's short and ugly and he slays". Yeah sure. I think it will keep getting more popular. I'm hearing normies talk about BP adjacent stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 04:15 PM
1

Some women also put men on a pedestal. It's a very unhealthy dynamic. Me personally I'd feel very uncomfortable and there are definitely a ton of men who will take advantage of it and make the girl his bang maid.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 06:49 AM
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So you are in a age gap relationship just like I said. Well then I was correct all along. Not wanting to live in a tiny apartment and not being able to afford more than the absolute basics is not chasing vapid luxuries. Also, we know that women select for men with money, hence it will not be irrelevant for an intimate relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:50 PM
2

If you have kids in your early 20s both parents will have to work a lot of hours at some shitty underpaid job because they lack education, experience etc. That doesn't sound conducive to tons of quality time.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:04 PM
1

How the fuck do you think most people live? It's certainly not luxury and lifestyle. Even in their 30s many still struggle to afford a kid or 2. And kids know very well if they're living in a poor family that can't afford new toys of a summer vacation etc.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:50 PM
2

Nobody can afford to have kids at that age unless we're going to normalize 10 year + age gap relationships.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 11:50 AM
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Human sexuality is just fucked up and psychotic in so many ways. I think cucks get off to being humiliated and treated like shit. Why? Probably some fucked up shit from childhood. It always comes back to Freud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:39 PM
1

You didn't even make an argument, you just made a claim and that's it. There is nothing to argue about, no argument to be countered.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 07:20 PM
1

A LOT of the western enlightenment social contract theory is indirectly culprit for incels, if you think about it. that seems like a wild, out there take.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 07:44 PM
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I also watched the vid. Burgerkrieg has this weird idea that feminism just kinda "forgot" about mens problems and that you just have to remind them about it and everything will be fine. A bit naïve imo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Isn't there already the "bropill" sub or something?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 09:37 PM
2

Read the models book and i don't understand why it's so popular. Didn't get any great insights from it and I think he severely undervalues looks.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 06:48 AM
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Yeah the dude is a legit Chad
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 07:17 AM
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Yeah I've seen the idea being spreaded that actually a bunch of girls are attracted to nice guys or the shy cute boy or whatever. The reason most guys seek out red pill content is because they are not attractive to women and they wanna understand why. The idea that actually there are a ton of women secretly into these guys is just untrue.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 08:24 PM
3

Alpha traits promoted by red pillers is basically the bully from middle school with a roided up gym body and a lot of money. It's almost a caricature. Actually it is a caricature/meme created on 4chan which spread and at some point people started taking the memes at face value. Alpha/beta females What is even more interesting is that there aren't any women talking about alpha/beta females all the time. I think the reason this stuff only resonates with men is that, like I said, position in the hi…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 06:00 AM
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Humans form social hierarchies. Mens attractiveness is significantly influenced by their position in those hierarchies with the top guys having more options. But you can't just assign Greek letters to people, human interactions are inherently messy and more complicated than that.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 07:17 PM
3

It's basically the same in the most recent study. If you look at the error bars there is not statistically significant difference. Both genders have a sexlessness rate ~25-30%
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 07:03 PM
3

Quick question: How's the gender balance in the poly community?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 06:54 PM
2

If you're tall you don't have to act confidant, people just think you are even if just stand around and do nothing T. 6"3 dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:44 AM
2

If you're tall you don't have to act confidant, people just think you are even if just stand around and do nothing T. 6"3 dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:43 AM
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Just have heightfidance bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:40 AM
2

The point isn't that dating is easy for young men. The point is that pickup/game etc. doesn't work. It's garbage
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 08:56 AM
0

Yeah women become less attractive when they age. Especially if they don't take good care of themselves. But this huge "wall" is big time cope. Just go on onlyfans and tell all those models in their 30s and 40s who make more money in a month then most of us here do in a year and tell them they have hit a wall and aren't attractive anymore.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 08:53 AM
2

confrontational I think it's interesting that many people here push the women want bad boys/rebels etc. because they are assertive, dominant, confrontational etc. narrative and the reasoning is usually some evo psych cave man stuff. Personally, I've experienced that being a more confrontational/competitive person is more of a negative with women. Although this might also be a bit cultural, competitiveness is much more valued in the US I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:44 PM
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Meh, all these rationalisations are completely pointless. Women are attracted to tall men, honestly just have a couple beer with some female friends and ask them about the "height question". All the girls I know irl are quite open about their preferences. They just think it's hot. The problem is when people want to mix sexual roles and gender roles in general. Just because a women likes a stronger/taller men and to be submissive in bed doesn't mean she has to also be a tradwife serving her husba…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/22 11:37 AM
2

"Figure out basic elements that (most) women want" is pretty much the definition of red pill. Isn't this a anti TRP sub!?!
/r/ExRedPill21/06/22 07:35 AM
1

No, Chad is tall by definition.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 10:36 AM
1

"Just buy my seduction course bro, I'll teach you all the psychological traits to seduce a women bro"
/r/ExRedPill04/06/22 11:16 PM
1

Most incels/black pillers have mental illnesses, are neurodivergent and/or a abusive families/environments
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 08:10 PM
1

Yeah he looks fine, just like he's fresh out of a COVID lockdown where the barbershop was closed down for months. But as long as he has depression/anxiety it probably doesn't matter too much how he looks.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 02:59 PM
2

I'd define attractiveness as: what many people find attractive. And since some people are seen as attractive by many and some are not, this gives us a objective scale of attraction by definition. For example, there are dudes who are into obese women. But the claim "obese women are more attractive than slim women" is wrong. More men prefer slim women, hence I can say they are more attractive than obese women. I will admit that what's attractive can change over time due to media influences etc and…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 02:08 PM
2

I'm not your mommy? If you want to wear a beard then do your research and figure how out how to cut/groom/style it. Honestly I think you'd look like a completely normal dude if you just shave and you most certainly won't look worse
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:22 PM
11

Yeah, you objectively look ungroomed and not well put together
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 09:11 PM
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I know this is kind of a meme, but have you tried getting a haircut and shaving instead of making endless Reddit threads all about "tfw no gf"? I'd say looks are much more objective than people like to admit.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 08:58 PM
1

The focus on marriage seems so weird to me. The role of marriage has changed since the 50s. Today it is very normal to be in a relationship and even live together but not marry or only are after a long time together. Back then that didn't happen, people just married their partners in their early/mid 20s. So looking at the rates of relationships/cohabitation is much more interesting then the legal status of marriage. To marry, you need a romantic/sexual relationship first. Incels by definition ca…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 11:55 AM
2

Pursuing higher education makes you more likely to be an incel. So much for self-improvement crowd. Brutal
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 01:55 PM
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I don't get the hate. He has definitely made some money with their podcast, he's in Miami and wants to hookup with attractive young women. There's no shame in just paying for it. The only thing I disrespect F&F is telling their audience that they don't pay for it and that women are just attracted to their money/status by magic without them paying for anything. But if you really believe that then you're kinda a moron anyway.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 02:09 PM
1

I honestly think that's just internet smack talk. Dudes who talk about high quality women or how they want a submissive virgin trad wife or whatever will probably cream their pants the moment a random 3/10 even looks their way in real life.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 08:22 AM
1

Yeah that's just not true and you seemingly don't understand male sexuality. Dudes, especially young dudes with healthy hormone/T levels etc. (So fit, not fat/depressed) need very little to get them going. The idea that they only feel attraction to some 10/10 model is just plain wrong. Most guys have little to no standards, especially for casual sex. They don't have tons of average girls interested in them that they ignore. They just don't have girls interested in them period. A guy has to be su…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 08:25 PM
4

Being introverted does not equal being shy, timid or socially awkward, let alone having autism, social anxiety or depression. That being said, if you are shy or anxious or even have mental health issues that is deeply unattractive. Especially for men. How much this is fixable really depends on the individual. You can't make someone neurotypical and even things like anxiety or depression are not always successfully treatable.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 04:17 PM
4

It's a very spiteful and also immature view of the world. "I will show them all, I'll just become rich and then everyone will respect/love/worship me". Most learn soon enough that they'll never be a super rich 1%er anyway.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 12:23 PM
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The whole idea that men will become attractive to young women later in life is mostly a tranquilizer young, unsuccessful dudes. "You'll never have a young, attractive girlfriend" is just not what their audience (romantically unsuccessful dudes in their 20s) want to hear, it just wouldn't sell.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 10:39 AM
7

Because there is no magical sequence of words to make a girl sleep with you, but getting people intoxicated will make it easier to manipulate them. Also , if she's too drunk to say no...
/r/ExRedPill27/05/22 11:52 AM
0

Yeah, "having standards" only makes sense when you have options. Otherwise it's just a coping mechanism. Like, what are you gonna do? Reject a woman who isn't interested in you? Tell yourself she actually just didn't meet your "standards" anyway? That's just sour grapes. You wanted her and you know it.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 06:28 AM
1

It's always astounding to me that women can't imagine that a person could go through life and not have anybody interested in them. No, they must all be obsessed with dating a supermodel.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 05:22 PM
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What you are saying is literally just AF/BB And reading your other replies: Do you really think a high quality women, so with solid looks and career, who wants a long-term relationship (potentially have children) is going to go for kissless virgins in their 30s who've never had a relationship etc. just because they make a bit more money? You even mentioned sexual skills. Like, those dudes have been jerking it to God knows what the last 15+ years. They'll probably not even get hard, let alone be …
/r/ExRedPill15/05/22 09:27 PM
7

The whole "wall" thing and "men age like fine wine" has been discussed here before. It's really just a revenge fantasy that's sold to the younger dudes. Telling them things will get better and that they will get with the girls they want eventually. Truth is, if you're not getting laid when you're in college, you're not getting with girls that age 10-15 down the road. Unless you're willing to pay...
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 06:51 AM
2

Maybe a weekly discussion (or self-improvement/journal log book) thread. I think that would reduce the number of repetitive threads. Another option could be flairs, like "questions for men/women/all"
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 07:54 PM
1

This happens even outside of sugar relationships. I know early 20s women dating dudes in their 30s. It's not the norm, but it's not unheard of either.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/22 05:29 AM
4

The average man is not paying $$$ to some YouTube dating coach or measuring the ratios of his facial bones.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 08:31 PM
3

You'd be surprised how easy it is to skip that socializing aspect. Just take somebody who is introverted/shy, maybe on the spectrum. Then let him study a STEM subject with a low female:male ratio. Then he'll graduate and work in an all male work environment, have an all male friend group (if any), at maximum goes to the gym which is often also male dominated. And before you know it you're pushing 30 and have no relationship prospects although your doing everything 'right'
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 08:00 PM
1

I think the whole "women want assholes" trope is a bit overblown. That's why I said "they think are an asshole", so just maybe dudes you don't like. I think the way bullying is handled today is just so bad and instilling a revenge fantasy into young kids about how their bullys will later have it worse in life somehow is very unhealthy.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 06:55 AM
2

It is actually very easy. You grow up as a dude, go through puberty and obviously start having sexual fantasies and feelings of attraction towards women. These feelings are not reciprocated by women. So you start wondering, why are women not attracted to me? What is wrong, what is the problem? They are obviously attracted to other dudes, maybe even some you think are assholes or that bully you. So what does the modern man do when he was a problem? He goes online to figure out how to solve it. Fr…
/r/ExRedPill27/04/22 08:09 PM
2

I'm 6'3 and have never even had a date. I know a bunch of guys that are somewhere around my nipples in terms of height and they have/had hot girlfriends. I don't know maybe it will chear your brother up 😐 Like, there are definitely some women with some really rude attitudes when it comes to height, but those are certainly not all.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 04:41 PM
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Well I think the problem is that men, especially in their 20s, want to have sex. Like, yeah there might be a small portion in that population who asexual, has some medical condition or another valid reason. But it's obvious that most dudes want sex, either in a monogamous relationship or at least with one or several FWB. So from that assumption people start wondering, why isn't he getting any and that's where all the negative stereotypes start to emerge... For me personally, only women have pres…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/22 07:29 AM
2

I remember when this book came out in German. I also read some reviews and in internet lingo, she is hardcore blackpilled, as far as I can tell. She is basically in agreement with incels, i.e. women are the primary mate selectors and are only attracted to the top guys and that thanks to feminism and modernity, women can finally follow their instincts again. It's over buddy boyos. It never even began...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/21 11:19 AM
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