KaptainBrix Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
99	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society	CMV	KaptainBrix	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 05:52 PM

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–	One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women age In my experience, almost every woman I met from dating apps looked wayyy more attractive in person than their photos. Photos and selfies in general make people look worse. Unless you add filters.. Also, this might be just personal preference, but 19 is not even close to a woman's peak, they look like teenagers at that age, there's nothing there for me to be attracted to. Not enough feminine features. In my opinion women's peak is between 25-35 this is when they actually have the most feminine fe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/23 05:09 PM
–	Muscles are more important than height for attracting women That's because 5'8 and 5'10 are not short! 5'8 is at the upper range of average, and 5'10 is literally tall, at this point height really doesn't matter if at all! Sure some women might go for the 6'2 guy instead, but for almost all women once your height is at least average then you're good, as long as you're good looking, have style, and confident. Now if you're like 5'5 or something then no amount of muscle will save you if she's not into short guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:14 PM
8	What sex act permanently taints a woman? What if she only enjoyed the other thing because the first guy did it right but the current guy is weird about it? Does she still have to do things which hurt or she hates? Her level of willingness and enthusiasm is what matters, if she was willing to do it with me but for some reason it didn't work, then it's fair game, we can either work on it and adjust, or simply move on from it. With that being said, for me sexual compatibility comes first, so if we weren't compatible in bed then I won't bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 06:26 PM
14	What sex act permanently taints a woman? None, as long as I get to do it with her too. Except if she did prostitution, porn, OF or anything in front of a camera, then that's a big no for me. Also, I'm more concerned about a woman's dating (LTR) history, than her sexual history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 05:02 PM
1	Is there such thing as luck in dating or is it all based on your accomplishments or hard work? It's neither, and it's both. It's never black and white. With everything in life you need action, as well as the right circumstances in order for things to align. That's why when it comes to dating you need to 1- Work on yourself, and 2- Play the numbers game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 02:07 PM
3	Women Choosing Better Men Don't focus too much on red flags, red flags mean nothing if you look for it everywhere you will find them, and oftentimes you'll end up with false alarms. Instead of red flags, just have deal breakers, and learn to enforce your boundaries and don't settle for anything less. As far as meeting compatible men, I'll give you the same advice that I give men. It's a numbers game, you're going to have to kiss a few frogs. It took me years of dating until I met my current GF. And most importantly, don'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 12:51 PM
1	What are women's motivations for wanting casual sex only? From what I know, if we have sex with a guy quickly or casually, we’ve determined that he doesn’t have any qualities that we are looking for from someone we want to date…if he’s hot, then it’s probably just all he has to offer This is something that still boggles my mind, if you'll have sex quickly with the guy that doesn't have relationship qualities, does this mean that you won't have sex with the "relationship material" guy as quickly? Like make him wait for sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 03:36 PM
1	CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sex Sex is more about chemistry and compatibility than anything else. There is the aspect of skills/experience but it's really not rocket science, and doesn't take much to really get the hang of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:29 AM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? The wall is very real, and it's from personal experience. I used to think that the wall was just a myth created by the MGTOW community. But almost everytime I go on a date with a 30+ yo woman, she seems extremely desperate for marriage and kids, they don't say it directly but I can read between the lines. And they get extremely frustrated and combative when I say anything in the lines of "I like to take my time, start casual first and see how we vibe together before committing" and they just can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 03:45 PM
6	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior Say what? Sexual orientation is not a choice, you don't just decide to be attracted to men, I'm shocked that I have to actually explain this. If women's high standards pushed you into homosexuality then you were probably always gay/bisexual and just wanted an excuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 03:34 AM
1	Do you actually think dating was better in the past? Depends on how long ago. But generally I believe it was much worse, back then we didn't have as much variety as now, OLD made it possible to be exposed to a much larger potential dates than anytime before. 50 years ago I would've never had the chance of getting the same sexual experiences and variety that I'm getting now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 07:14 PM
–	Question for men. When you hear that your male friends and family members have gotten girlfriends have you ever once asked them what they do for a living? It's never crossed my mind to ask that question, but I've been asked by my friends and family every single time that I had a new GF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 12:56 PM
7	Dating for men is a race to the bottom the average woman had so many options when it comes to dating Women don't have any more options than men, if you look at what women ultimately want vs what men ultimately want, they are both screwed. An average woman can get sex from a high smv man yes, but is he putting a ring on it? Nope, and she will eventually have to settle in an unhappy marriage. Same with men, the average man can get friendzoned and used for his attention and resources by an attractive woman, but will she give him sex unc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 09:42 PM
–	A $20 coffee date is disrespectful for us young women. There's no way this is a real post. But I'm gonna reply in good faith and assume it's a real post. No body has a problem paying on dates, but if we're talking about a first date then it's actually very important to keep it very simple, even 20$ is too much for a first date. A first date is more like a meet and greet type of thing, seeing how we vibe, and have a small chit chat that shouldn't last more than 1 hour. After that if we end up actually enjoying each other's company then maybe we can t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 01:30 PM
2	Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical. Ouch! this one kinda stings because this has been the case for me with every hook up. It seems to me that for most women, it's an "all or nothing" type of situation, its either a hookup/ONS, or a boyfriend material, no in between. Which is fine I'm not complaining. If you don't mind me asking, when you ghost after a hookup, is it simply because of the fact it was a hookup, or is it more about the guy being bad at sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 12:58 PM
2	Women and Men weigh sex differently This is not true, and I'm speaking for myself when I say that I've had a few occasions where I stopped pursuing attractive women because they were terrible in bed and there was a clear lack of sexual compatibility. And on the other hand I've had an LTR that lasted 3 years, and her skills in bed and our sexual compatibility was a huge factor why I decided to date her long term, it's as important as her attractiveness and character/personality, and I don't settle for anything less. I think this is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 04:02 PM
7	Do young single girls 18 - 24 mostly hookup with guys aged 23 - 26 who have high paying jobs or careers and luxury appartments with no roommates? Absolutely not! I've hooked up with a lot of beautiful women in my city when I was dead broke and renting a room in a shitty disgusting house, in a shitty part of town too. And that's from both online dating and cold approach. And this is the case for all women btw, even women that are "post-wall" they still wanna hook up every now and then while they're looking for their future-husband. Slutty phase or not, people like sex, period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/23 02:30 AM
–	What techniques do romance scammers use to seduce women online with such success? What the scammers do is very similar to how pimps operate, it's not so about targeting lonely women, but it's more about identifying what a specific woman's weakness is, like a 20 yo woman with daddy issues, or a 35 yo woman that's desperate to get married, then using that to sell her a dream. It just so happens that lonely women have more vulnerabilities to exploit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 02:33 PM
1	In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach? There's no one size fits all type of solution, every woman you meet and every interaction are different, try and work on or improve your social skills, and you'll be able to use your own judgement. Most importantly is things have to move at a natural pace that make sense for both of you, and again, every interaction is different, sometimes the sexual chemistry is too strong that it will be very appropriate to get sexual within 1 hour of meeting, other times it might take weeks, sometimes it will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 10:30 PM
–	The idea being pedaled here that good looking men do not struggle is a myth. Women regularly reject attractive men, sometimes for no reason at all. An attractive man isn't the same as a good looking man. You can be good looking with zero sex appeal = unattractive Or average looking, but with the sex appeal, charisma, personality, style and game = attractive Don't confuse the two. So yes good looking men do struggle, but attractive men don't. Now with that said, even attractive men get rejected, that doesn't mean they are struggling. Also just because a woman rejects a man it doesn't necessarily mean it's because of her ego.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 08:55 PM
6	The only reason you hear so many women say that men overrate their appearance is because they are projecting, as any balanced individual can clearly see women do this infinitely more than men. I can't help but agree with this. There's a reason most good looking men don't even know they are good looking, women usually dont compliment men on their looks easily, they just don't, it does happen but very rarely, that's why even above average looking men think they are average, and average men think they are ugly, just look at black-pillers and in-cels most of them are average and above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 02:25 AM
1	A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10 Wait what? How are vanilla and whore harsh language? And where did the "rough" part come from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 02:21 PM
2	A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10 Actually the Janitor just most likely had better game than that doctor. But even if that's not the case, a woman will bang an attractive janitor on the first date and be his personal whore, but will make the doctor wait for sex and keep it super vanilla, even if the doctor and janitor both have similar level of attractiveness and game. A friend of mine who is good looking and makes a lot of money, never tells his dates what he does for a living, and never tells them that his house is paid for, j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 01:08 AM
4	CMV: it should be illegal everywhere to get sex using deception Yeah sure, let's also arrest women that wear weaves and hair extensions, then have sex with men without revealing what they look like otherwise. Let's not stop there, also arrest women that lie about their body count and claim being virgins, cause that's deception	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:14 PM
1	Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmate On principle, I don't think a woman should give any explanation why she doesn't want to go out with someone, even giving him a fake number is ok. Simply because at that stage they don't know each other, and she really doesn't owe him anything. Like, just move on, there's no loss. But if we're talking about a couple that's been dating for a while, then morally you owe your partner an explanation of you breaking things off, so they can have their closure and move on. Only narcissists refuse to giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 06:57 PM
6	If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old women That's a weird logic. First, a lot of relationships are purely sexual/casual so personality and compatibility is irrelevant, but even if it's relevant, it's two consenting adults they can do whatever the hell they want, even if they don't click	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 01:10 PM
1	How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying? It's because being nice is not unattractive in a woman, it's actually a plus. An attractive woman who's also nice, wins, always. An attractive man, who's also nice, finishes last, because no matter how handsome he is, if he is a nice guy, then he will be put aside until further notice, or until the woman is ready to settle down, in the meantime she will be having fun with the "not nice" attractive guys. A more accurate one would be "unattractive women finish last"	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 02:00 AM
3	The guys who have "game" do not talk to women as "regular people" You're confusing game with social awareness. Being "natural" and talking naturally doesn't mean that you have to be a sperg. And you don't need to put on a mask and pretend you're something else. There's a time and place for everything, the way you talk to your close friends is not the same as talking to people you just met (men or women). And the way to talk to people your age is not the same as talking to an elder for example, or your co-workers, a woman that you just met vs a woman that you'v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/23 04:03 PM
–	Why be angry at women over their attraction? He's right though! I've seen it over and over, I get shamed by female friends for not dating 30+ year old women, and it's not because of the age gap, but in their own words "at your age it's only fair for you to find a partner and settle down". And I'm only 31. I've been called shallow, immature, misogynist...etc For some reason, a lot of women get pissed off when they see a man casually dating and not committing. And they get even more pissed off when a man is very selective of who he dates, li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 07:10 PM
–	Why be angry at women over their attraction? Only hardcore in-cels get angry about it, which is a very small minority if men. Everyone else accepts it and deals with it, even the blackpillers. The reason those men get angry about it, is the same reason some poor people are angry at rich people, basically envy + a very distorted and toxic sense of equality and "fairness".	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 06:57 PM
1	How does the rest of the world view Western males and women? I've lived in the middle east, specifically Qatar and KSA, for half of my life and it's important to distinguish because the middle east is huge, and those two countries along with the rest of the GCC are very different. So here's my impressions on this topic. Also these are NOT my views! When it comes to male+female relationship, people over there look at western societies as "un-pure" they see western women as whores, and western men as pussies that can't put their women in their place. A rich…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 02:02 PM
1	Do women really want to date older men? Not really. Most women date within their age range. But a lot of women do prefer older men too, but by older I mean maybe 5-10+ max. Anything larger than that and it's in the minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 07:17 PM
2	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this Just for a night out, most guys would just go to the pub with their buds and have a couple of pints. Not really, sometimes I'd take the company of a beautiful woman over any guy, her being a gf or casual doesn't change that, depends on how chill and cool she is. But other times I just wanna go out and shoot the shit with the boys. There's a time and place for everything. When you do it with someone, there's a bit of a bond that gets torn when you go to the next person. Women I'd say are far more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 07:13 PM
2	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this I wouldn't trust that's real love. People confuse lust for love. You never know man, I've seen examples, different couples have different chemistry For a man, money. Like I said a man doesn't need to spend a lot of money, and if he can't afford coffee/drink dates then he got more things to worry about than dating. Besides there's no waste, go to places that you enjoy, a date is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, so nothing is wasted, you're having a good time. For a woman, her body. A woman's bod…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 02:12 AM
3	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this No one falls in love in 2 months. Depends, some couples do, other couples take years What's a micro-penis? Is 4" a micro-penis? I googled it, it's 3.6". But it's relative, some women won't settle for anything less than 6" and that's fair They didn't click in bed. What does that mean? Have you ever had sex with someone, and she was extremely attractive, and you were able to orgasm and everything, but for whatever reason something about the whole experience was off? If you've had that before, that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 01:44 AM
8	Seems to me dating could be extremely simple if people were just to do this This is not a healthy way to look at relationships between a man and a woman, unless you don't care about sexual compatibility, or you're asexual. Sex is part of getting to know someone. Imagine this, a man and woman agree to wait 2 months for sex, they spend that time getting to know each other and they fall in love, so they have sex after the 2 months and the sex absolutely sucks! For whatever reason, they didn't click in bed, maybe she has a part of her body that is a complete turn off, or ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 01:19 AM
2	We're going full circle, conservative sexual morality will become the norm again for heterosexuals I hope not! Hookup culture is good for society, notice that now men care about self improvement more than anytime before, this is the natural order, and it's how the human race evolves, improve and progress. Vs the alternative where monogamy is enforced and "everyone gets a wife/husband". Almost every sector and aspect of society is based on hierarchies, and most people have no problem with that except for dating, especially the TRP and other crowds that lean conservative, are usually very pro f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 01:45 PM
–	For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”… This is a weird way to look at it. Why in the hell should I worry whether I loved a woman more than any man, what if she had a psycho that loved her to the point of obsession. Also, the reason we want to make sure we are the best that she had, isn't based of jealousy or being possessive, it's the fact that it takes a lot for a man to really commit to a woman and be monogamous to her and her only, if we're gonna do that then she has to be worth the trouble, it won't make any sense to commit to he…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 01:29 PM
1	Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them. Bruh, the first and most important aspect that men look for in a woman is her looks, if she's hot, we pursue her, now if she's hot and a "boring" bookworm that doesn't party a lot, then we pursue her even harder cause that's what we define as a wifey material. Also most people fall into a spectrum between green and red flags. Most people do a degree of both partying and going to the library...etc it's not black and white as your post makes it out to be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 04:59 PM
6	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Yeah hell no, Any man with self respect should walk away, no further discussion needed. She makes rules for you when she breaks those rules for other guys. I'll happily bang her, but I won't promote her to an LTR. Their reasoning: "They don't think they'd enjoy it with you" Yeah no, that's code for: "I'm not attracted to you the same way I was attracted to the other guy" OR "I'm not willing to go above and beyond to please you the same way I did with other guys"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 03:35 PM
1	If only men with no options wife promiscuous women then why do we see celebrity men doing it all the time? Logan Paul, Will Smith, Russell Wilson a few examples First thing, celebrities and wealthy people live by different rules. But some principles still stand here and there. With that being said. Those men mentioned are not men with "options", these are simps, doesn't matter how rich or successful they are. They are still men with no options. This is at the heart of TRP, your money and success won't save you if you're a simp/nice guy. Being a simp is a turn off regardless of how rich or attractive you are. Typically what happens with these guys is the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 07:13 PM
1	Men over-estimate their attractiveness? I don't know what that study is all about. But in my personal experience, and from what I've witnessed. Attractive men never know they are actually attractive, and above average men live their whole lives believing they are just average. Think about it logically, men almost never receive compliments about their looks, women simply do not compliment men on their looks except very rarely and only when the man is ridiculously attractive, and even then women are very careful about complimenting him.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/23 04:44 PM
2	"Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for men There's a huge difference between an alpha, and someone that calls himself an alpha. I actually made a comment about this in another post. Basically with TRP content creators and this new age alpha/HVM echo chamber, most guys turned TRP into something else, on some conservative/Republican/religious shit that has nothing to do with being alpha. And this is not what I was referring to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 06:01 PM
6	"Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for men Yeah this makes sense actually. I'm disappointed though that this type of thinking is present in western societies. I've lived before in a few ultra conservative/religious nations and that seems to be the case there, that a woman needs marriage/kids for social approval regardless of how much she's accomplished. So when I see this line of thinking exists in our so-called 1st world nations it's kinda disappointing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 05:55 PM
5	"Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for men That's not "alpha behaviour",its the normal thing everyone with an inch of backbone would do. That's true on paper. but in reality most men don't have a backbone, or the self assurance to know when to walk away. That's why a certain level of confidence needs to be there for a man to walk away, which is what most Alphas have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 05:20 PM
6	"Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for men That's a question I keep asking myself, it seems that every woman in their 30s that I go on a date with kinda prioritizes marriage, they don't say it directly, but I can read between the lines. Could be because of their biological clock, or it could be for social validation. I just don't think it's about finances anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 04:59 PM
19	"Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for men That is not the TRP definition of AF/BB. Actual AF/BB is the dual mating strategy that a lot of women implement, its dating the alpha when she's young and hot and has a lot of options, with the hope of eventually locking down that alpha for marriage and kids, this is every woman's dream. But oftentimes that scenario doesn't happen, the Alphas tend to dump the woman once she gives them an ultimatum about marriage or kids, so now the woman is in her 30s, doesn't have as many options as before, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 04:41 PM
12	What is the goal in consuming RP dating content? RP is about understanding the reality of dating dynamics, as opposed to the lies that we were told from society, media, Hollywood..etc It's absolutely not about slut shaming or limiting female sexuality, but that's what most RP users get from it, the reality is most men can't and will never handle RP, so instead of taking accountability and trying to "compete" they instead try to bring women down to their level. And this is why RP has turned into this conservative/religious/back to the dark ages…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 04:41 PM
1	How successful must a man be to have the same options as an average woman Your success won't give you sexual options, but it might give you "conditional love" from women. The only thing that will give you sexual options as much as the average women is you having good looks + good game	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 01:54 PM
1	What's up with certain girls who pull away when you start being nice to them. But then when you give up and ignore them they turn all affectionate and lovey. What is going on in their head? How do I make sense of this? Stay the hell away from women like that! They will drive you nuts if you take them seriously. Keep it casual and fun (they are amazing in bed!) but do NOT start an LTR. This is common among insecure women even when they are hot, also women with daddy issues do this a lot, especially young women in their early 20s, some older women are like that too but not as common. Again, avoid them at all costs, because she will do the same thing when you start an LTR relationship, they will act toxic as hell…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 07:02 PM
1	Discussion : Are you being settled for or a beta bux if you managed to attract a girl primarily because of your personality and chemistry? I dunno, man, I'm really surprised by the responses in that thread. I think asexuals might be over represented in PPD? This might sound a bit fucked, but I don't take anything women say regarding dating to be true, what they say is one thing and what they do is completely different, (example when they say they want a nice guy), plus people online tend to project an ideal version of them selves online, so take everything here with a grain of salt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 04:39 PM
2	Discussion : Are you being settled for or a beta bux if you managed to attract a girl primarily because of your personality and chemistry? That's a good point, and very true. But a simple Google search shows that only 1.7% of adults identify as asexual, so these cases are very far in between and aren't the norm. But let's say that a woman has an average/normal sex drive, then sexual attraction is still the most important aspect even if sex is not her priority, because it's not just about the act of having sex, but mental stimulation/arousal for a woman is as important, and that can only be done when she's genuinely attracted to him…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:26 PM
1	Discussion : Are you being settled for or a beta bux if you managed to attract a girl primarily because of your personality and chemistry? No, if she doesn't find him attractive then she can't be attracted to him based on personality alone, and the opposite is true too btw, if he is an attractive guy, but has an unattractive personality (typical nice guy, no backbone, pussy) then she is settling for him too. Sexual attraction is crucial, and without it, a woman can't have genuine burning desire for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 03:19 PM
6	Discussion : Are you being settled for or a beta bux if you managed to attract a girl primarily because of your personality and chemistry? If she doesn't find you attractive then she is not "attracted" to you, even if she likes your personality. Keep in mind that looks are subjective, you can look average but due to your personality she sees you as a 9/10. But if she sees you, in her eyes, as an unattractive guy, then her desire for you is not genuine, and she is definitely settling for you, and if she's not ready to settle, she'd friend zone you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 02:58 PM
2	Weight vs height, is a huge double standard It's not a matter of height vs weight, it's male vs female reaction to being looked at as unattractive. It's the same reason why if you're talking to a group of women, and you call a guy ugly, they will laugh, but if you call a woman ugly, they will crucify you. It's in our caveman brain, back in those years when a woman was considered unattractive it meant she will die of hunger, will never have kids, and won't survive. Beauty and looks is the only power that women have according to our caveman…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/23 04:56 PM
5	What do you think of hypergamy? Hypergamy does exist, but not as extreme and dark as TRP makes it out to be. And I don't see anything wrong or immoral about hypergamy, it's what humans did for the most part of history, until monogamy, and then religion came along and indirectly prohibited it via sexual repression and slut shaming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 03:25 AM
1	Lessons from a former incel. I appreciate your post and your reply man. It helps knowing that I'm not the only one feeling this way. I've posted on a few other subreddits trying to get advice on how to maintain these relationships, and pretty much every reply was either too Bluepill, or too Redpill, with pretty much everyone talking out of their asses like they've never been in a relationship before. I personally don't see the problem with getting with a women who has got the wall, The wall as a term is over-used, most wome…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/23 11:43 PM
8	Lessons from a former incel. Thank you so much for this post. I'm currently in the exact same position as you, it's like I'm reading my own self talking. I was even searching online on different subs and on YouTube channels to find answers, or people with similar experiences. Basically, I'm 30 years old, and I used to be what you'd consider an incel all my life up until the age of 27, even though I'm 6'2 in shape and good looking, but my social skills were borderline autistic, and I used to be super awkward around women, th…	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/23 02:53 PM
1	Born Again virgins and hoe phases Because they wanna have their cake and eat it. A lot of them know exactly what they are doing, it's not about forgiveness and second chances. They wanna party and be hoes while they're still young and hot. And then transform to a virgin when they are older and much less attractive and can't afford many options anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/23 12:40 AM
3	You can't truly be red pilled if you aren't a religious person TRP has nothing to do with conservative values or traditional values. Come on, I hate it when people turn TRP into something else. Some people even turn it into a political movement and associate it with the Republican party, I hate when people do that. Religions (mainly the big 3) are in fact blue pill as hell, it's more in the line of equality of outcome (every man gets a wife), go to the church, worship, turn the other cheek...etc Marriage in on itself is blue pill. TRP is about two things, 1…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/23 05:25 PM
3	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Nope, nobody owes their sexuality to anyone. But if we're gonna use marriage, a religious practice that was founded on the concept of sexual purity, then I will use sex as a metric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:29 PM
2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society If you need a piece of paper, and government involvement in order to ensure that your man will behave, then your relationship was doomed to fail. Choose better next time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:27 PM
2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society See this is the type of response I was looking for. Your points are valid, and if marriage is what you deem as genuine connection and is what you find happiness is, then by all means go for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:19 PM
1	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Well that's a good point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:15 PM
2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society That's exactly why I made this post, cause I don't see the reason why men here want to get married. LTRs and living together, in my opinion, fits the current social climate more than an ancient practice that was based on sexual purity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:14 PM
5	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society People who may be a bit different than you value people for who they are and how they make them feel. Not because they want to be the only one nutting in their butt. That's nice and dandy, but why do you need marriage in order to do that? Enjoy sex and enjoy getting to know other peoples body and come to the mature understanding that an individual will never be your property Of course people enjoy sex, and will continue to do so, casually, and with the virgin wife later too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:11 PM
2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Cool, and men can marry virgins for that	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 07:01 PM
3	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society When did I ever call women names? Did you even read the post?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:55 PM
5	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Yeah, it doesn't bother me, the same way a man paying a new car price for a used car doesn't bother me, but I will ask him why, out of curiosity	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:51 PM
-2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Lmaao Did you even read my post? A woman's sexual past has nothing to do with the way I would love her or value her, my question is why is a religious practice required? A practice that was built on religion and sexual purity? It's an oxymoron	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:48 PM
4	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society I will never understand the over fixation over virgins I will never understand the over fixation over marriage. people marry Because,get this,love eachother. Sure,many do shit marriage choices , So people can't love each other without marriage? What, you need marriage to prove your love?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:45 PM
1	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Exactly! Thats the main point of my post, but people decide to ignore it	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:43 PM
5	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society it does not bother me, I'm just genuinely curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:42 PM
-1	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society You don't need marriage in order to have kids. And even if you're right, still not my problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:38 PM
2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Not my problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:35 PM
-2	There's no point for a man to get married in a western society Did you even read my post? A woman not being qualified for marriage, doesn't mean I'm looking down on her, it means that I'm looking down on the concept of marriage in that context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 06:34 PM