KaptainKopterr Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	Has anyone successfully avoided signing a marriage contract and managed to receive benefits?	KaptainKopterr	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/25 01:27 PM
12	Has anyone successfully avoided signing a marriage contract?	KaptainKopterr	/r/RPChristians	20/08/25 01:26 PM
3	Help me define mission or purpose.	KaptainKopterr	/r/askMRP	20/08/25 01:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing. It’s the “mental load” phenomenon aka my husband isn’t living in my brain and wish he was so he can do everything perfect when I get bored and come up with that needs doing	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 07:47 PM
3	Should I leave my marriage over this? Ok i’ll give advice. She can find a way to make more money.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/25 02:20 PM
–	Should I leave my marriage over this? Let that man. He deserves better and you better not ask for money from the divorce	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/25 01:33 PM
2	Anyone heard of this app? Check out RightStuff if you want something right leaning	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/25 10:41 PM
2	Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reason Liberal women are dumb because they think men are evil and part of the “patriarchy” and then vote to let millions of violent men into the country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 10:21 PM
1	Unknowingly married someone with BPD (and was pressured into doing so) Where is “horns of aparthy”? can’t find that info.	/r/RPChristians	03/10/25 06:03 PM
1	How to be softer when stuck in fight or flight? Check out the theworkoutwitch on instagram and tiktok. She helped me a lot with nervous system regulation!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/25 05:06 PM
–	Why do I rarely find men to desire to be stay at home fathers for the purpose of raising their children? Men have more of a biological need to go out and accomplish things and break shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 12:33 PM
1	Help me define mission or purpose. Thanks for the response. Thats kinda what I mean by journey over destination. I don’t actually know what it is a really want no matter how much I really think about it. Maybe that willl come later for me though. I don’t know.	/r/askMRP	20/08/25 03:01 PM
5	Has anyone successfully avoided signing a marriage contract? It feels suffocating. I’ll look into the common law thing though. Thanks	/r/RPChristians	20/08/25 02:04 PM
5	The idea of marriage and family is dead for women This isn’t accurate. Honestly if I wanted to use a woman for her body then I actually wouldn’t get married as women tend to get more unattractive as they age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/25 02:02 PM
30	The Second She Feels Safe, She Leaves You. I kinda had the opposite happen. I dated a woman that required ALOT of smoke up her ass. It drained me. I put her in her place a lot and didn’t give it all to her. I realized that she is very codependent and jumps from relationship to relationship. Your theory is accurate for a lot of women but i’m wondering if it were the case in my scenario.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/25 05:08 PM
2	How important is romantic love as part of human livelihood? Are you just upfront with women about not wanting a relationship and they still have sex with you? How do you spin this ? Marriage is something i’m hesitant about	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 10:40 PM
3	How important is romantic love as part of human livelihood? What do you mean by other forms of love? Examples?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 10:36 PM
4	TRP’s “just lift bro” was never meant to mean “lift and literally do nothing else” I’m a very vulnerable man and wear my heart on my sleeve. My past girlfriend made it really easy for me to be. I do worry that it will cause women to lose respect etc. but I literally can’t be that stoic. It sounds miserable anyway	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 10:16 PM
18	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I just dated a woman I wasn’t completely attracted to for 3 years. I grew to love her and she treated me the best that anyone has. It was always in the back of my mind though. I dated her so she wasn’t bad but I was worried that it would affect me later down the road. Plus it just wasn’t fair to her. I felt bad about it. That wasn’t why we broke up but stil	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 04:39 PM
9	If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs. I think a big disconnect here is that a lot of men simply don’t care about the same cleaning standards that women do. I really don’t care that I have some clothes on the floor or the counter isn’t perfect. I understand not living in dirt or clutter but the standards are just different with the sexes. I don’t know what the answer is though but this is a big topic	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 01:35 PM
28	Women don’t Care About Your Struggles Once I realized this I determined that Women aren’t really worth it. It’s not that I don’t like them but that relationships are all very transactional. I don’t hide things well at all. Both my parents died in the span of 5 years. I was very supported by my ex but I am just not the type of man that can bury stuff. My ex was very in tune when I was feeling “off” and would drag answers out of me. Maybe one day I will put myself back out there but today isn’t the day.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/25 02:21 PM
1	Red pill is much better for the avg man Ignorance really is bliss sometimes though. The Red Pill has been very nihilistic even though I’m actually fairly attractive, tall, athletic, and have a decent paying job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 07:05 PM
1	Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle it There’s nothing more awkward than being a Man and crying in front of another Man. I agree that Women view it as weak subconsciously but us Men don’t just go around crying in front of each other lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 01:40 PM
0	You can’t expect women to take men’s issues seriously, when you point out inequities but never go into the context of it but men can’t make thousands of dollars selling feet pics on onlyfans though	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 10:37 PM
0	Still can’t inspire him to fix home items/ wtd when he doesn’t take the lead on repairs I’m a guy that had to learn how to fix stuff as we don’t always get taught things. You dont get born and know how to mount a TV. Luckily youtube is VERY beneficial and you can learn anything. This is hard though because we don’t know the full story. Does he work an already physically demanding job and is he coming home tired? Are kids involved…Does hanging with them away evenings and weekends? Is he just not into doing handy work and enjoys things like music or computers? My mindset is if I can’…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/25 07:11 PM
4	All measures to fight bad men unfortunately end up hurting normal men All I know is that if Men created an app like this that it wouldn’t make it on the app store. sips tea	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 06:52 PM
–	Post-MRP Life Rollo talks about this in his book that a lot of men aren’t pursuing relationships because of the effort it takes. I have this mindset now and am trying to quiet the shoulder demon. with or without a woman we still have to step up. What other option is there….	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/07/25 10:01 PM
–	Post-MRP Life That fucker consciously or subconsciously sabotaged potential a future wife for me. I guess the trick is to do things consistently and with discipline that in due time you will start trust yourself and it will shutup?	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/07/25 09:41 PM