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You automatically lost the game when you said 5'5". Head for Thailand.
/r/seduction30/07/26 12:45 AM
2

So wrong it's laughable.
/r/seduction30/07/26 12:43 AM
1

I think it's money, height, status in the same order. It's height first, then money. Status is a close third.
/r/seduction26/07/26 07:14 PM
7

Don't be fooled by what liars and females tell you. Looks matter more than anything else.
/r/seduction02/05/26 04:51 PM
1

The most correct answer.
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:22 PM
1

Instructions unclear.
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:27 PM
0

It's not so much required as it is expected. Otherwise bald head and thin build create stereotypes and an image associated with being a junkie.
/r/seduction31/05/25 10:13 AM
26

Here's an idea, TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT. Point blank, fucking period. That way there is no miscommunication and everyone is aware of the situation and what they can expect moving forward. Being honest and upfront means they don't get the wrong idea or think you're leading them on. Better for everyone in the end.
/r/seduction29/05/25 04:46 PM
1

Attraction is logical only to the person feeling it. Then it stops being logical and becomes personal. / topic
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:45 PM
10

A lot of them prefer it with no strings attached.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:45 PM
22

So is it really just a game of which female will allow you to have sex? Correct. There are over eight billion people on this planet. It's a strict numbers game, yet we humans are bending over backwards to add extra steps into a process that should be very simple and straightforward.
/r/seduction03/05/25 01:32 PM
4

It creeps into your self-esteem. It shows up the next time you hesitate. And eventually you start building an identity around inaction. You tell yourself you’re the kind of guy who “just watches” or “never had the chance.” Missing the hints is one thing, especially when it dawns on you after the fact they may have actually been interested and given you a shot. The real problem comes when you recognize that you aren't good enough in their mind to begin with. So even if you go with it and take tha…
/r/seduction24/04/25 02:16 PM
0

Because rather than say it outright in a calm & sensible fashion, they expect men to be mind readers and immediately figure out they aren't interested. They don't want to take accountability and live in the real world, because they want men to play their stupid games and attempt to decipher the Da Vinci code.
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:57 AM
-3

The correct answer.
/r/seduction20/04/25 03:52 AM
-1

Women think they're better than they truly are. The only thing the so-called feminist "empowerment" has done the past few years is inflate their entitlement and delusions of grandeur to unprecedented levels. To the point men instinctively know not to even bother with an attempt, because they're behind the 8-ball before it even gets rolling. Once men realize they can shift the power dynamic by being selfish, nature will begin to heal itself and women should be more open to engaging and/or incline…
/r/seduction19/04/25 12:11 PM
2

I'm not a hung bull like some of them guys were, so I naturally concluded that pulling girls at a club was not my game. Expanding on this. If you're not 6ft tall and/or handsome, you won't make it.
/r/seduction06/04/25 05:53 PM
0

It's literally irrelevant why they're denying you On the contrary. they don't owe you anything. Actually they do. It's called basic respect and human decency. Two things you clearly were never taught.
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:32 PM
-1

My first thought as well. Yet another example of a woman who is incapable of being upfront and honest. Dude dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction02/01/25 03:43 AM
32

It'll be gone within a few hours. The good ones always are.
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:38 PM
3

Better to be open and honest with your feelings (because women can't). If you like sex (as everyone should), just acknowledge in casual fashion. If a woman wants to pry and ask for more preferences, hunker down and get into specifics, but maintain an air of amicability. Otherwise, you risk coming off as a creep because women like to misjudge every single word a man says.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:52 AM
2

No such thing as dating after 30. You're playing the field until you find someone who is equally frustrated and/or desperate, then you both agree to settle down.
/r/seduction17/12/24 10:49 AM
1

Roster? Rotations? The dude with options is frustrated when he literally has the pick of the entire field. Cry me a fucking river.
/r/seduction16/12/24 03:56 PM
1

You can't
/r/seduction11/12/24 11:22 PM
9

That's a lot of long-winded diatribe. Let me save you the trouble and explain to you the absolute truth. A woman is either drawn to you immediately through natural instinct, or she's not. If it's the latter, nothing you do will ever be able to convince her otherwise. You're welcome.
/r/seduction06/12/24 02:00 PM
0

6.75
/r/seduction06/12/24 12:36 AM
1

"All women are lying, scheming, conniving pieces of garbage & don't deserve a modicum of respect. Do not pay them any attention. They are not worth the time of day."
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:03 AM
-1

Wrong.
/r/seduction05/12/24 12:01 AM
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Already have, genius. I'm speaking from personal experience, as someone who nearly had their reputation ruined because of some selfish, immature twit; who wanted to fabricate stories to avoid feeling guilty that she spoke to a guy who wasn't her BF. So take your red pilled incel BS accusations elsewhere.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:47 AM
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If you so much as try to innocently dance with a girl in this day & age, they'll accuse you of SA.
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:52 AM
1

Be 6ft tall and/or rich. Otherwise they will not acknowledge your existence, except when they want a few free drinks. 🖕🙄
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:48 AM
1

Voice coach and lessons. Now. There's also something to be said about conveying your emotions and enthusiasm through your vocal cues.
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:10 AM
1

One step above being called "nice" or "handsome." It means you aren't datable and they don't acknowledge you as being a man who can throw them over your shoulder
/r/seduction22/10/24 11:08 PM
1

Not the competitive aspect itself, but a way in which men try to pull others down. Unfortunately that's part of the competitive aspect. Remember, at the end of the day, humans are still animals. We're all trying to attract a partner and we men have our own tactics to compete with each other; that go beyond basic displays of physical force.
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:33 AM
1

Like thicker soled boots, lifted insoles are a decent substitute for limb-lengthening, and not nearly as pricey or time-consuming. The trade-off is it's not a permanent solution and unless you consciously try to avoid them, you will inevitably find yourself in situations without shoes on. If you're using them strictly for work-related purposes however, you'll be just fine.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:51 AM
2

I agree that short people can develop an insecurity about it, but the cold hard reality is that height is an important factor for many women Sadly, this is the correct answer. And anyone who disagrees is flat out a liar and/or denying reality.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:47 AM
2

Spreadsheet. Had a buddy in college do it exactly like that and had little to no issue keeping his schedules straight.
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:24 AM
1

That's the neat part. You can't. And that's coming from someone only a few inches taller than you. At that height, there's nothing you can do to improve your physical presence.
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:12 PM
2

Is there such a thing as a girl being "out of your league" Yes there is. Leagues are as much a male thing as they are a female one. Both parties have an innate value they place on their personal self-worth and dateability. With that being said, aren't there levels to how human that person is, and how human you are? Also yes. Some people are more attuned to social norms than others. Then there are those who are more logically-inclined, or who don't deal with BS drama from the emotional side of th…
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:07 PM
5

Actually it will. Apparently you've never seen the meme, "sometimes all you need is that one piece." Stop talking about things you clearly don't comprehend. 🤡
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:37 PM
-3

Will never happen.
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:44 AM
1

The sad reality is, people don't want to hear about your sob story. So we all have to suck it up, put on a shit-eating grin and pretend the world is sunshine and rainbows; if we want to get anywhere in a social setting or casual conversation. It's the same as trying to go too deep or invest too much during a first impression. A majority of people simply aren't comfortable with oversharing, or getting that personal with someone they just met.
/r/seduction20/09/24 11:24 PM
1

Depends on the context. If they're genuinely trying to berate you it's, "drop dead" or "hope you get hit by a bus today. I'll look for you on the 6'o clock news."
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:43 AM
5

Best advice, don't lie. To the people who ask or to yourself. Don't go out with an agenda. Go because you want to have fun or get away from a stressful situation. Be like Wolverine. Go to the bar, drink and give less than two f*cks about who else is there or what they think of you.
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:57 PM
11

Everything is ok as long as you keep up your confidence. The correct answer. Everything they do is a shit test.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:46 PM
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Except when you have a thousand-yard stare and everyone by default, assumes you are judging them. Nah, I remain impartial until some clown gives me a reason to think one way or another.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:46 PM
4

The correct answer
/r/seduction18/09/24 09:46 PM
10

Then when you try to be honest, you get called a creep or a perv. Literally an unwinnable situation
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:09 PM
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She said she has bf and I feel really bad. Sorry to be the one to tell you, but she was lying to your face in order to make you go away.
/r/seduction14/09/24 08:59 AM
3

"Rejection isn't personal -- it can't be." It literally is. You market yourself, they reject you. Therefore the product you were selling wasn't good enough to meet their qualifications. You yourself are the product. It doesn't get any more personal than that.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:17 PM
1

Same
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:36 AM
1

There are millions of eligible woman out there, and they’re not a hivemind who are all gonna think the same thing about you. Actually they are. But clearly you've never had to deal with gossip and/or high school drama. One piece of garbage spreads a lie about you to the rest, and suddenly you've been excommunicated from ever touching a woman again.
/r/seduction12/09/24 11:35 AM
0

Failure is still failure, regardless of how much you sugar coat it. You always think about the ones who got away, because all of them are missed opportunities.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:57 AM
2

Impossible.
/r/seduction31/08/24 11:27 AM
-1

Nope.
/r/seduction29/08/24 08:58 AM
39

I'm too soft physically, maybe I should be more dominant. You've already found the issue. Your energy and personality don't match the expectations they have for you. You're too gentle. You don't make them feel secure, only safe. Whatever masculine vibes these women get from you at an initial glance/first-impression, are quickly evaporated once you get physical or have a drawn out conversation and they discover the personality behind your face. Once they realize you're not the caveman who will th…
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:16 PM
8

The correct answer. Unfortunately not the one most people want to hear.
/r/seduction27/08/24 01:11 PM
1

And this is you admitting that the curiosity you previously touted was in fact a guise. As now you openly confess that the looks being given to another woman's partner stem from your own innate curiosity about what makes them worthy to that woman. You are now subconsciously competing in your own mind to figure out why that man is qualified to be that woman's partner and comparing it with the list of qualifications you have for yourself. See what happens when you try to speak out of both sides of…
/r/seduction24/08/24 10:39 AM
1

It's really not. Actually it is. Which you just admitted to. It's curiosity. Preselection is real but it means a male is safe. They're judging that a male is safe and observing. Curiosity stems from, and begets, interest. You yourself just admitted that preselection is an actual thing. And by acknowledging that a man is "safe" to be around, that also means you've subconsciously accepted the current partner's appraisal of their man's dating potential and qualifications. Its females that pick male…
/r/seduction24/08/24 10:38 AM
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It's envy and/or jealousy. Not towards you, but your date. Women compete with each other physically and fight with their attractiveness. The stares you are receiving are them trying to dissect and analyze what makes you so special to the girl you are currently dating. While also appraising a potential rival. Subconsciously, they are calculating if they could either, a) pull you away from your date. or b). find someone as good or better-looking to take for themselves. Human nature is not difficul…
/r/seduction22/08/24 09:42 PM
1

And when a non-comedian tries that in real life, they get called an asshole by stuck-up, pretentious women.
/r/seduction20/08/24 09:32 AM
16

Not from a piggy.
/r/seduction19/08/24 08:18 PM
4

Women don't value practical intelligence in the slightest. You could be the smartest man in the world, but if you look like a 3ft goblin, they will want nothing to do with you. So long as you pass their initial test in the looks/physical department (face, height, etc), the rest of your attributes are of significantly less relevance.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:44 AM
7

Nope.
/r/seduction15/08/24 08:33 PM
3

My thoughts exactly. If I was playing the game and some rando tried to undercut me like that, he'd either be on the floor or called out for being a try-hard clownass.
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:29 AM
1

Considering it's always a lie when she says it, "Go f\ck yourself, b***h."* is an appropriate response.
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:13 PM
0

It's not perception of self. It's an objective observation based on the input from others. If you're not tall, muscular, outgoing, etc. and you receive that feedback from friends and others telling you they don't find you attractive; then you are not attractive. Simple as that.
/r/seduction05/08/24 09:37 AM
0

It’s bullshit. Limb lengthening will literally break your legs if your recovery isn’t done well. Which is why you only use the most expensive professionals. What happens if she knows that you weren’t tall before the surgery? Will she accept the relationship or marriage? Don't overthink it. If she's already accepted being in a relationship with someone who isn't 6ft, there's no reason to get the operation to begin with.
/r/seduction05/08/24 09:30 AM
1

Limb lengthening. Hence why I said "within reason." At best you can get a few inches taller, but it's hella expensive and requires PT after the operation. Not for everyone obviously and shoe lifts are always a decent alternative (at least until she realizes you're a dwarf).
/r/seduction05/08/24 08:52 AM
3

In my case i think is because i'm short and got no money Same here. Those filthy sows who have an arbitrary height requirement aren't worth the time of day. Nor do they deserve to breathe the same air as the rest of us. Bright side however, if you get enough of the second, you can buy some of the first (within reason); or ignore it completely while fanning yourself with a stack of $100 in the club.
/r/seduction04/08/24 05:37 PM
2

No one's avoiding anything, clown shoes. Especially not responsibility. You're still of the deluded and childish belief that with enough effort, anything is possible. Too bad mother nature proves you wrong.
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:42 PM
2

Why would it be clingy? You're literally following up on an pre-agreed intention to check in after two days. You're just being a man of your word and showing an attribute that all women lack, but desperately need in their lives; integrity. Focus on yourself first. Handle your exams, then talk with the girl.
/r/seduction01/08/24 01:17 PM
4

My guess is since you have a dad bod. You're invoking some kind of long-held, subconsciously stored daddy issues in these gals.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:21 PM
3

If she's really into a guy, no matter the reason (looks, personality, status, a special skill or lifestyles that she praises), that guy needs to just be around there to get her, everything he might know about seduction is just minmaxxing at that point. These are the type of women I absolutely despise the most.
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:36 PM
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Unless you pass her looks threshold no technique will help you That's the cold hard reality none of these alleged seduction savants will ever tell you. Unless she has subconsciously placed the ball in your court before you even start speaking, you have no chance.
/r/seduction31/07/24 03:34 PM
5

As a 6’4 good looking shy guy the club is the main place I pull because all I have to do is be there and girls come to me at club, No shit they come to you. You're literally impossible to miss once you get on the dance floor. Their monkey brains are programed to automatically want to attract the tallest person, because your physical traits are the most optimal. It's like being surprised when you hold up a magnet and all of the paper clips just get drawn in by natural forces. It's not any kind of…
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:14 PM
15

There's nothing racist about it, bud. Just making an observation and stating the obvious. I'm also not the only one who pointed out the uphill battle he's facing because of ethnicity, but props for feeling the need to single me out.
/r/seduction30/07/24 12:39 PM
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Being Indian in a country that is predominantly white, you've already DQ'd yourself from consideration. On top of being short, which already excludes you from any white woman's preselection phase by default. Regardless of how well-kempt and confident you carry yourself. These women will instinctively label you as a creep, stalker or worse yet, a scout for human trafficking.
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:31 AM
1

They didn't tell anyone to commit suicide. Actually they did. But seeing as you're just a troll, who is only here to antagonize, that part went entirely over your head. But there's echo chambers where your kind can enjoy brigading and circle jerking to harass others, after they outline the reality of the situation. Pathetic doesn't even begin to describe you. u/MouseAware809
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:57 AM
0

Bro, I like already described the reason I'm here. Same as everyone else. Your primary objective to troll just caused you to miss a painfully obvious point that got made. Why do you feel the need to harass someone who has outlined their personal experiences and stating quantified facts from research studies? Like, go back to the basement and troll on a different sub. You've been here all of an hour and contributed absolutely zero to this discussion.
/r/seduction29/07/24 10:55 AM
0

Imagine being so mental you tell people to commit suicide, simply because they cited both documented facts and anecdotal evidence... Your contributions to the dating world are comical.
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:25 AM
0

The same reason anyone goes to any sub, genius. To find advice and to improve themselves. Your assumption pertaining to effort couldn't be further from the mark. I'm here to get better while also highlighting my negative experiences. Don't like it? Tough.
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:45 AM
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“This always happens” - Does it really? Every single time you’ve ever talked to a girl they’ve been rude to you? 90% of the time, yes. “No girl will ever like me” - So because one girl didn’t talk to you, every single woman on earth has magically concluded that you’re unattractive? Correct. “She probably thinks I’m so creepy” - Again, can you tell what she’s thinking? Yes. Because women are easier to read than a two-piece jigsaw puzzle. “I bet if I was taller she wouldn’t have done that” - The c…
/r/seduction29/07/24 12:00 AM
0

A woman's default state, first and foremost, is to be a liar; who lacks anything resembling logic, rationale or integrity. "Emotionally unavailable" is just the sprinkles she puts on her shit sundae to doll it up.
/r/seduction25/07/24 07:56 PM
2

That's what everyone is doing you can't read your way to success in game. Wrong.
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:35 PM
1

You didnt even get a fair shot. And that's the worst part. You catch the hippo at a bad time or on a bad day and she automatically thinks you're worthless. But that's not on you. That just shows a lack of maturity, insight and thoughtfulness on their part.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:45 AM
0

Your first mistake is thinking you made a mistake in the first place. You can't correct a mistake when no mistake happened. Naïve optimism. There's a method to approaching. Some of us just don't throw shit at the wall and hope it will stick. People do make mistake with their approach game. It's a matter of trial and error.
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:22 AM
2

Intelligence and analysis aren’t usually your friends in social situations. Translation: The dumber you are, the more success you'll have with women. In other words, I'm screwed.
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:53 AM
-2

Already have, champ. What I said is still factually correct. Women don't want you unless you're 6ft tall. Go outside and live in real life.
/r/seduction24/07/24 04:59 PM
7

That's the neat part, you don't!
/r/seduction24/07/24 03:06 PM
2

They’re not working because you refuse to believe the problem is you. Actually they're not working because the women have already decided they don't work; which if you'd actually bothered reading my comments, you'd understand. Rather than continue to follower your own deluded fantasy of "huRR huRr! G1t g00d br0!" If you truly believed others had success like myself you would see that’s the only difference. You need to work on your mindset and attitude as it affects your personality. The only one…
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:56 PM
0

Nowhere did I state you don't have success, bud. Only that your advice and methods don't work in every situation. Certainly not in mine. Pry your head from your ass and learn to recognize the world is much larger than the handful of hippos you've personally managed to snag.
/r/seduction24/07/24 02:34 PM
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Haha, no-life griefer trying to downplay others for things that are beyond their control. Funny how you have absolutely nothing of substance to offer this discussion. But that was to be expected. You sound like you're clueless and that's because you are. You've already lost the game of life, kid.
/r/seduction24/07/24 12:30 PM
-3

Only with that defeatist attitude. Wrong. There's no changing their minds after they've made their initial assessment with first impressions. They are literally a lost cause and by no fault of our own. Hit the gym. Already doing that. Doesn't help. Anymore asinine suggestions you'd like to throw out? Make them feel you’re a protector even if you’re short. Again, not possible. They've already decided you aren't good enough based on physical predisposition. You could literally be the most dangerou…
/r/seduction24/07/24 11:01 AM
2

And you shouldn't be giving advice period. Git good with life. Then you can help others.
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:14 AM
0

Since you seem to make a big deal about your height seemingly holding you back. There's no "seemingly" about it, pal. They made it an issue with their first glance and stupidly predetermined I wasn't good enough. So the fault lies with them, not me. Get that through your head before you start trying to psychoanalyze others. My short friends who are struggling with women think height is the only thing holding them back. Nowhere did I say it was the only thing holding someone back. But again, it's…
/r/seduction24/07/24 09:31 AM
2

Wouldn't be a problem if the hippos didn't make it one.
/r/seduction24/07/24 09:02 AM
12

Either laugh it off, or if they're taunting you from a place of malice, let them know you're not into hippos and heifers.
/r/seduction24/07/24 09:00 AM
5

You should not have any comebacks. Imagine being this wrong and delusional. He's afraid. No, we just don't take shit from immature lowlifes who want to insult others and act like they're better than everyone else; because of a genetic trait that can't be controlled without external aid.
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:59 AM
-10

You're 5'9 not 5'2, To a woman, if you're not 6', you don't matter.
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:56 AM
-2

Fun fact: If a girl says, "I have a boyfriend," she doesn't actually have a boyfriend. She's just a conceited b*tch who doesn't think you're good enough to date her, and just wants to be left alone. Women have no concept of moral integrity or consistent behavior. They are biologically programmed to lie, so never expect them to be forthcoming or honest with you about anything. And you can forget about them ever taking responsibility when they are at fault. It's easy to get frustrated, especially …
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:28 PM
1

False. We are a visual species first and foremost. Women care primarily about looks before anything else.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:01 PM
-5

You can't. You're a man. Sex with beautiful women and fights with strong men define your worth as a man. This is the correct answer. Try as we might to act like we're better than animals, biology and mother nature programmed us to attract women; through our efforts to be the most valuable male in the pack.
/r/seduction02/07/24 08:39 AM
1

Definitely spot on about being a source of entertainment. Girls just want to have fun and if they aren't enjoying themselves, they'll seek amusement and validation from elsewhere.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:51 PM
0

It's liberating because it takes the pressure off, however it's also sickening because it reveals the true nature of all females as gaudy, shallow attention-whores. 90% of whom are not worth giving the time of day.
/r/seduction19/06/24 07:04 PM
8

Tried this my entire life, never worked for women. Attracted several gay guys though.
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:38 PM
-1

One of the keys with fitness is you have to genuinely love it, or learn to love it eventually. Yeah, that's not happening. We all start to get more attention from the opposite sex, and to look better over all. But we all stay for the other benefits. The discipline gained, the easing of depression and anxiety, the chase of progress, the endorphins of a post workout high etc etc etc. If you can’t find other reasons to love working out besides more attention from women, then the attention from wome…
/r/seduction18/06/24 01:15 PM
0

Sad but true. Any man under 6ft is going to have an uphill battle. Because women are shallow and have to actively fight their biological imperative to overlook what they instinctively see as a genetic flaw; and find any redeeming quality in said short guy. Visually first, you have to meet her minimum physical expectations. If they're not immediately hooked by you on this front, the game is already a loss.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:07 AM
3

You don't fix it by becoming a billionaire. Actually you do. Because money solves 99% of life's problems. Intelligence and cosmetic surgery also help.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:03 AM
3

Only the first two apply to me, but they are 100% the reason why I'm not landing anyone.
/r/seduction13/06/24 08:20 PM
1

Already tried that, clown-O. Doesn't work like you seem to think.
/r/seduction05/06/24 11:13 AM
11

There are roughly 3 billion women on the planet. Even if only .00001 percent found you attractive, that still means there are tens of thousands of women who would be interested in dating you. Bold of you to assume even that scarce quantity of women would be willing to date some of us.
/r/seduction04/06/24 06:05 PM
1

He doesn't have two halves, he's psychotic.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:26 PM
2

There is no "self" just a wide myriad of perceptions that people have of you. Actually there is. Outside perception is one thing. The true personality of the individual does exist and is shaped by outside influences and internal justifications. Their mind exists and builds an identity with time and experience. If a person says, "I don't like pickles on my sandwich." There is no perception about it. That is a statement of fact by the self of that individual. That is part of their identity. You ca…
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:48 PM
2

Women are not usually the aggressors in pursuing or asking for a date. If she's being genuine, you have a very rare individual and should at least pursue the opportunity you've been presented.
/r/seduction30/05/24 08:49 AM
0

They do, but they're incredibly rare. Even more so if you find one who is only willing to sleep with you exclusively. It's important to be upfront with terms and boundaries early-on, so to avoid confusion and missteps. When it works, it's the best thing in the world.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:08 PM
1

No. The tedious back and forth drivel, having to constantly think about what to say next in order to hold their interest and not fumble the conversation, all while gambling on whether or not things will escalate. It's nonsensical stupidity predicated on emotion and hormones. And often times the woman is too wrapped up in her own skepticism and self-doubt to realize when a good man is standing directly in front of her.
/r/seduction22/05/24 08:25 AM
4

You need to play the game. Learn to like it. Yeah, that's not happening. Just like the process of earning money or working out, the process itself is not enjoyable and never will be. Only the end results matter. Would it be fun to play cards if you could see your friends cards and vice versa? It would if you're playing to win or trying to get ahead of the competition.
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:07 AM
0

"And them choosing not to be involved with you could be for ANY reasons that might not even relate to you!" Right, except for all those times when the reason actually is as simple as they don't like you. You can do all the mental gymnastics you want to make excuses to explain away a woman's rationale for rejection; but if they are genuinely not feeling your vibe, that is on your failure as a man and your inability to market yourself and your personality in a positive and inviting way. Pure and s…
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:27 PM
2

That a girl giving you tons of choosing signals doesn’t mean shit. Half these girls just want validation and attention. The older I get, the more I understand this and despise women for their deceitful tactics. Many of them are trash who don't deserve the time of day and only use others for their own selfish ambitions. Just yesterday I approached this girl that’s been stalking and following/smiling at me at the gym. After chatting for 15 mins, I ask what she’s doing this weekend and she starts t…
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:51 AM
1

It's still technically rejection because the other person is choosing not to be involved with you. However, the way you framed the experience definitely cushions the blow of being told "you're not good enough for me."
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:48 AM
1

You just simply start small with holding eye contact longer, getting closer, And the second you make the attempt, you get labeled a creep and vilified. So it's very much a no-win situation.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:37 PM
0

Financial stability, emotional maturity, directness with intent to name a few. Of course if you try to get ahead of the game and learn to apply these traits while you are still a young man, women will accuse you of being insincere and a creep. So you're SoL regardless.
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:56 AM
1

Being tall and/or handsome have a higher priority than being confident. Women are extremely shallow and insecure. It doesn't matter how well you present yourself. If you do not check off all the boxes on their physical traits checklist, you won't get far.
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:46 AM
1

Personally, I think this whole “frame” talk is fucking stupid. 100% Every time so beta honk speaks about it, they and their echo chamber always make it out to be this grand, philosophical revelation that all men must understand; in order to succeed in life. It's not, nor is it as important as they've bent themselves into pretzels to believe. It's simply a crutch they use to make up for their own personal inadequacies in the dating game.
/r/seduction18/04/24 01:58 PM
5

The trick there is to either ignore the bitch or take the lead and establish dominance by making her think she has to dance. If she walks away, too bad and it's her loss.
/r/seduction16/04/24 06:57 PM
1

Would've never shown my face there again.
/r/seduction15/04/24 03:30 PM
4

Height and/or an athletic frame makes women more visually appealing, so you technically weren't wrong.
/r/seduction15/04/24 01:44 PM
0

That's like saying if you aint a millionaire then you don't exist to women. I see you missed the part where I explicitly stated that women can and do ignore their base instincts and often select a partner despite their genetic inferiority. Height is not the end-all-be-all, but it is a constant, and major contributing factor to preselection. Even if women lie and say otherwise.
/r/seduction09/04/24 02:13 PM
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The only one incorrect here is you. If the choice is between a 6ft guy or someone who is four inches shorter, women will take the former 9/10 times. when you're out there, the game is comparative, not absolute. False. I hang out with men and women of varying heights and the ladies always go for the taller ones. While women can (and do) ignore their gut feeling and base desires, going for taller partners is instinctual.
/r/seduction09/04/24 11:50 AM
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entire purpose of height is to signify strength. It's to establish who is genetically superior, so women can immediately identify the weaklings while filtering out potential partners to have children with. No matter how much we try to sugarcoat and gloss over it, we are still animals and our monkey brains tell us "bigger = better, stronger, faster, etc." Biology doesn't give a rat's ass about using personality to cope with your literal shortcomings, or any other mental gymnastics we can drum up.…
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:50 AM
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you get way better result if you just go out and talk to girls in person. ​ Speak for yourself. IRL is much worse for some of us. Especially when every stuck-up and pretentious twit, who believe they're God's gift to the world, labels you a creep without ever having a conversation with you. That and they always end up using the "I have a boyfriend," lie to avoid just being honest.
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:26 AM
1

"Go f**k yourself," Or some variation. Nine times out of ten these women are liars, and simply don't have the courage or decency to reject you straight up. They're afraid of confrontation so they'll put a convenient excuse in between you and themselves to cushion the blow for both parties.
/r/seduction24/03/24 08:38 PM
2

Except you added the negative of being fat, which negates or hinders the 6ft advantage. Being 6ft in itself is automatically a huge benefit.
/r/seduction22/03/24 10:39 AM
13

Be at or above 6' and the rest will handle itself.
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:44 AM
6

and that they are good enough as they are with no grind or work required ​ Well that's a lie. ​ Matter of fact, women hate psychological or mental effort being put into getting them. They want to see competence and physical effort, even if it's just working on the girls car or cutting your neighbors grass. This is why if you are working really hard on a project in public women often go out of their way to be in your way. ​ I'd love to know what color the sky is in your world; where women just wa…
/r/seduction18/03/24 04:27 PM
1

Alcohol maybe have played a factor as well. No shit. That's the first and primary reason. The booze is out of her system and she's thinking clearly again. You're not as fun or attractive as you appeared to be the night before.
/r/seduction06/03/24 09:02 AM
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But this just irritates me how girls have completely changed their behaviour because now I look "acceptable" and good. Harsh Reality: A lot of girls are petty and shallow. Source: Someone who constantly gets overlooked, due to having chronic RBF and the stare of a serial killer.
/r/seduction29/02/24 10:15 AM
7

Take a shot every time the word "congruent" is mentioned...
/r/seduction08/02/24 05:28 PM
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Here's the thing...each of your comments in this back and forth about listening is demonstrating to all of us that you're really not the listener that you believe you are. Every single suggestion or statement made is immediately met with a hostile retort, you're reading our comments with a preconceived notion of what the "correct" answer is and are only thinking about how to rebuke people. That's exactly the kind of "listening" everyone is telling you to avoid. ​ Here's the thing... you and the …
/r/seduction29/01/24 07:35 PM
1

You're not needy. You just appreciate quality time with the people you care about. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:01 PM
1

Already do that.
/r/seduction29/01/24 01:06 PM
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And your presumptions are 100% incorrect. I'm actually a very good listener, thank you. Have been since grade school. I lean on every detail and chime in when I think it's necessary. Even going as far as bringing up a point of reference from the other person's earlier conversation as the night progresses; just to again let them know I was paying attention. EDIT: lol At the clowns hurling downvotes because I corrected someone's ignorance. This sub is rich with pettiness.
/r/seduction29/01/24 01:06 PM
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Additionally, I attribute my success to being a really good listener. Being an effective listener is one of the most seductive things you can do with a woman. Unconfirm. All I do is listen to others and not one woman finds it attractive.
/r/seduction29/01/24 10:16 AM
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Oh I've been trying and unlike you, I have the knowledge and wherewithal to not look a gift horse in the mouth. You should try being an adult sometime and smile when life hands you a basket of ripe fruit to enjoy (not lemons).
/r/seduction18/12/23 07:09 PM
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A straight man who says no to casual sex with attractive women, just because they have a bit of confidence and an ego... This is beyond pathetic.
/r/seduction18/12/23 04:30 PM
1

If you're making that much and still not getting any, that is the definition of a skill issue / you problem.
/r/seduction11/09/23 10:28 AM
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