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I swear on everything that I love. I’ve been in this situation & trust me when I say I TRIED, I did find a strategy that works to reverse his misogyny & sexism but it doesn’t matter, not only does it take years.. Because they forget the man they used to be, they are not the lovely simp baby boy they were. No matter what you do they will not be the man you fell for. They WILL become verbally abusive as well, you have to endure all of the abuse & torture JUST to get the man you fell for. But for a…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/25 02:05 PM
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Maybe she realised you wasn’t entirely her type, because during the first couple of weeks some girls scan only for red flags (which can be ANYTHING, cuz when you combine the flags it comes with an off putting image of you). I don’t think you becoming clingy will push her away unless it spooked her asf & she imagine a future where you’re controlling & shes forever unhappy.
/r/seduction18/04/25 12:09 PM
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I’m telling you rn, they do. It’s every girl’s canon event. The problem is that the guy switches up He acts bold & talk crazy horny, turns super clingy. And try to escalate things too quickly, thinking “she must want me bad.” Talm bout “So when you gone suck this D?” All the sudden she won’t like him anymore because his character changed. He gets cocky, his entire friend groups know about the girl & tells them he gon “hit that shi”. Now hes eager to make it a reality so his friends can hype him.…
/r/seduction17/04/25 06:11 PM
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I noticed people are saying similar thing, If you’re looking for a different POV. You need to be able to trust him that he genuinely knows without a doubt how to have a healthy, passionate, erotic loving relationship, with a happy ending. He’d need to read all books in the world about marriages. Honestly, if he’s the one suddenly leading the relationship “solo” then you’ll need to trust this man with your life, in a manner where you know that in the next 80 years he’s still the man you love & tr…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 05:02 AM
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Word? Like all toxic abusive relationships ever existed, all started with this dynamic. People genuinely need to be careful & strategic when entering such a dynamic, don’t just jump into because it’s common?!??? You need to genuinely believe that the man will stay emotionally healthy for the rest of the relationship Of the healthy relationships I’ve seen in real life, the couples don’t be stressing or worrying about who leads, they’re pretty much equal (not like it discredits male-led relationsh…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 04:58 AM
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Word? Like all toxic abusive relationships ever existed, all started with this dynamic. People genuinely need to be careful & strategic when entering such a dynamic, don’t just jump into because it’s common?!??? Of the healthy relationships I’ve seen in real life, the couples don’t worry about who leads, they’re pretty much equal (not like it discredits male-led relationships)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 04:47 AM
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You need to be able to trust him that he genuinely knows without a doubt how to have a healthy, passionate, erotic loving relationship, with a happy ending. He’d need to read all books in the world about marriages. Honestly, if he’s the one suddenly leading the relationship “solo” then you’ll need to trust this man with your life, in a manner where you know that in the next 80 years he’s still the man you love & trust. Because if 1 day he suddenly becomes toxic & abusive, he already sees you as …
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 04:37 AM
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No offence but when have these changes started? New work friends? New podcasts he’s listening to? New TikTok FYP? Someone is probably in his ear Whatever you choose to do just know he will always use your relationship dynamic to have some form of leverage over you, more and more & by then it might be too late to stop it. So be careful
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 03:58 AM
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Also can you reply to my other comment, I’m too curious
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/24 10:01 AM
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Ok What did you do? What’s your plan? Do you think he’s lying? Who’s sick without using their phone lmao, he did not sleep for 74 hours on end
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/24 09:58 AM
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Watch this TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifetaketwo/video/7338619832092396830?_t=8nTgwQTWFqy&_r=1
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:51 PM
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The “happy phases” are probably moments he stopped being abusive (wether it was after profusely begging for forgiveness after cheating 499 times, or he just suddenly couldn’t be arsed, or couldn’t find a reason to that day), that’s it. You’re clearly walking on eggshells around him. This isn’t genuine happiness; it’s the absence of conflict, which you’ve been deprived of for so long that it feels like a luxury & true peace. It doesn’t matter how many good phases you have, if being with him is gu…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:38 PM
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I’m sorry but please leave, you’re half blind in seeing how BHADDD of a situation this is. There’s so much to say I feel like I’m rambling. Do you know what trauma bonding is? Also he’s shown you, multiple times, that he doesn't respect or value you. Crying and begging for forgiveness are just tactics to keep you around when it suits him. Actions speak louder than words, and his actions scream disrespect and disinterest in a genuine partnership. Claiming he wants a "traditional wife/girlfriend" …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:14 PM
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Watch this TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifetaketwo/video/7338619832092396830?_t=8nTgwQTWFqy&_r=1
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:11 PM
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The “happy phases” are probably moments he stopped being abusive, that’s it. This isn’t genuine happiness; it’s the absence of conflict, which you’ve been deprived of for so long that it feels like a luxury & peace. You’re clearly walking on eggshells around him. It doesn’t matter how many good phases you have, if being with him is gut wrenching, he’s a demonic bf, period. Withholding affection and love unless it benefits him is manipulative. It keeps you in a state of dependency, always strivin…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:03 PM
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I’m sorry but please leave, you’re half blind in seeing how BHADDD of a situation this is. There’s so much to say I feel like I’m rambling. Do you know what trauma bonding is? Also he’s shown you, multiple times, that he doesn't respect or value you. Crying and begging for forgiveness are just tactics to keep you around when it suits him. Actions speak louder than words, and his actions scream disrespect and disinterest in a genuine partnership. Claiming he wants a "traditional wife/girlfriend" …
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 10:00 PM
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Your relationship looks done for to me. Even if he was capable of change, he’s clearly already capable of such abuse. He’s extremely abusive, look at the trauma he caused. He doesn’t care about having a healthy relationship, neither of you even know what that looks like in real life. You’re trying to save your relationship but you’ve been doing that for years & he even gotten worse. ”Abusive relationships start in 1 way only & end in 1 way only”, never forget that. This is out of a horror relati…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 09:43 PM
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So are you homeless?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 09:16 PM
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Best case scenario you REALLYY want to be engaged during PIV, you want to crave it… problem is (from your side) your fear. You’re probably better off starting from scratch, that is reading vanilla smutt (for girls) online, you really want to be turned on when reading it, best case scenario your coochie should feel hot asfff. This way you will see it as something more romanticised in your head. Assuming pxrn images makes you uncomfy then move onto twitter, find anime nsfw anime fanart for girls (…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 09:01 PM
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In theory yes you can do PIV even when turned off, but you won’t enjoy it, it’s uncomfy & in the long term you’ll see it as a chore. Was you already scared of PIV before your husband too? Do you have certain beliefs about PIV which affects your attitude/mood towards it currently? Does your husband have certain beliefs about PIV that may subconsciously affect your libido? This might sound invasive but I’m really into psychology & I couldn’t help but noticed you said PIV instead of sxx, is there a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 08:53 PM
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Your frustration is valid, consistency & communication are the bare minimums in any relationship worth your time. All I’m about to say are just assumptions I’m expanding on in case you might need for future reference too. Inconsistency His pattern of behavior tells you exactly where you stand with him. Going days without texting, despite being consistent for a while, is a classic move to keep someone interested while maintaining their freedom. Good morning texts are super easy, especially if the…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/24 04:14 PM
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Women’s bodies are literally made to give birth up to 15 times and you think vaginas can’t handle d*ck?? When we get turned on our vagina muscles relax and expand (same way men get harder). Obviously it’s because of evolution and it helps us do it better. That’s why when you’re in the shower and fully turned off, your vagina feels shorter and tighter (I’m saying this so you know how your body operates more). When you pee, your bladder also empties, so sometimes your vagina feels spacious because…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 04:40 PM
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