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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW? In this scenerio I don't think either should be paying money to the other, they are both rich. Just split the shit you need to. Though I do think a trust for their children to use for college and their lifes in general should be made for each child from both of their pockets. Him paying his half of the childrens expenses, not hers, would also be ok in my book. Just not alimony.	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 04:43 AM
2	Speculation: Why is Tom Brady's wife filing for divorce NOW? Yeah, saying shit like all women are gonna have some kinda motive that benefits them just does more harm then good in pretty much any scenerio. It reinforces the idea that all MRA's hate women and it's just a dangerous mindset to spread imo. It's good to be aware of these kinds of scenerios and watch out for them but this isn't that. MRA already has a big enough problem with giving fuel to the "we hate women" deal ontop of this sub having some posts that are already problematic. Along with comme…	/r/MensRights	06/10/22 04:39 AM
1	Why do we socially consider sexual abuse in underage victims worse if the victim is female than if the victim is male? Besides what I feel is obvious sexism, I think the biggest thing is the fact they can get pregnant and males can't. Pregnancy if left to term can kill the child easier then a fully grown women too. To me I think both are just as bad unless a pregnancy is involved.	/r/MensRights	13/09/22 02:50 AM
4	If males in the military have higher physical requirements and get paid the same, that is gender discrimination against equal opportunity. They should be either paid more than females, or require the same physical standards. There's also just the fact that if they are a combat role, they are putting their lives on the line just like everyone else. That is a factor in the military that is not present in most jobs. Sure I get paying the guy more who is special ops, in the marines versus regular army guys but putting your life on the line is no fucking joke. That should mean something more then a measuring contest. I agree with everything you have said as well. Maybe a women wouldn't be in the role of carrying heavy su…	/r/MensRights	09/09/22 08:39 PM
3	"More Men are Raped than Falsely Accused" i'd love to see the data	/r/MensRights	08/09/22 06:52 AM
-1	What did you guys think of this Instagram post? What’s the best way to respond to it? How likely are you to die while being robbed at gunpoint in the united states? Highly unlikely especially if you give up what they want. Would you call yourself a survivor if you had a gun pointed at your head? If you got severly beaten but lived would you call yourself a survivor then? Does a knife at your throat count? Many rape victims have had these things happen to them. Around 13% of women raped attempt suicide as well. The number of people who actually die is smaller for sure but if you a…	/r/MensRights	16/08/22 01:25 PM
0	What did you guys think of this Instagram post? What’s the best way to respond to it? I mean there are plenty of people who get raped then murdered either during or right after. Some even die after as a result of the injurys they got while being forced to commit sexual acts that are dangerous, like someone shuving a bottle up their ass that breaks or being beaten so badly they die. It's not the common outcome in the USA but in other countries it's far more common then you would want to believe, especially in extremist islam areas were women have been stoned to death over getting …	/r/MensRights	16/08/22 11:10 AM
2	To feminists who support mother bias custody why? You see just as bad stuff on the feminist subreddits too, it's sad. I'd like everyone to be more civil and have conversations above thinking the radical side of each is what the other is going to automatically be. People who want real equality, not a fairytale and not putting the other sex below them are on both sides. Though I will still say plenty here do want to challenge gender roles, one of the biggest factors in the bias you see in courts involving children if you ask me. You are right t…	/r/MensRights	16/07/22 10:35 PM
2	Man talks about how during an argument his girlfriend points a gun at him. "most comments are men telling me to leave, but all the women think differently" Bad idea, as much as I might agree it would be self defense, you have to really prove that. Evidence of struggling over a gun alone doesn't really prove much on it's own. Maybe if you're lucky someone else heard shit but even that could be put into doubt. It's better to get the fuck out or disarm and run then it is to engage like that. Hell he could have all the evidence in the world but the jury could decide he didn't need to shoot her. They'll also use the fact OP is a man and thus probably st…	/r/MensRights	14/07/22 10:41 AM
4	She thinks what she did is okay and that she didn’t SA him 🤬 Wow.. She raped him and then makes light of it. Man I hope he fuckin runs, it's one thing to have a miscommunication but this is well beyond that. Fuck that lady, she should be charged. I'm a bit timid too so this hits home.	/r/MensRights	11/07/22 11:34 AM
0	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? Yeah, of course. Those spaces being worse doesn't change when it happens here, nor is it a reason to not call it out for what it is. Cheering on something that ultimately makes things worse for all with the reason being "good, now they can hurt too" is letting negative emotions consume their reasoning. That's not progress, that's letting hate/anger add more fuel to the fire between 2 groups, that just creates more hate/anger which means more people less willing to see the reason of the other.	/r/MensRights	30/06/22 12:03 AM
1	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? I never said anything about it being good or fair. On the contrary it is the lowest form of argument for it isn't an argument it's just name calling. Understanding and accepting that both sides have "crazies" isn't the same as putting up with bad behavior. I think it's best to remember they exist and we are all human for the sake of not letting your emotions and/or bias turn a conversation that could be very beneficial into one full of anger. Your message then gets lost, one that is far easier t…	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 11:53 PM
-1	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? I agree with you whole heartedly. I got downvoted into the negative for saying a group of people being jerks shouldn't be a roadblock to do the right thing. That abortion being legal is the right thing, that it being illegal actually gives men and women less reproductive rights. Also pointed out people are letting their anger consume them. I don't see this behaviour all the time but it's very disheartening. The instince you mentioned very much so as it reminds me of people who would get upset a …	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 10:19 PM
1	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? This is a real thing too. It's also just human nature to label something as "bad" because of your own experiences or view on them. To many the men's right movement is about putting women down when in reality it's about men's issues being taken just as seriously as womens and advocating for things that make things more balanced, like less bias against men in custody battles. We challenge old traditions too while pointing out bad behaviour, people don't like change that makes them look bad. We als…	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 10:11 PM
3	Why are we being labeled is mysogonistic? The movement itself isn't but it's easy for them to say that because they view it as against them. Most people just want men issues to be taken seriously alongside the real issues women face, sort of like how early feminist movements wheren't about just raising women up like the modern wave. Secondly we have to face reality that there are plenty of people among our ranks that don't really have real equality in mind. Feminism and Men's rights movements both have some very vocal, for lack of a bet…	/r/MensRights	29/06/22 09:59 PM
-4	All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it. Hate, anger and resentment are powerful things, far too powerful for some. Hate to see it but some folk just let that shit consume them.	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 08:17 PM
-3	All women that said "no uterus, no opinion" and are now begging for mens support on abortion can go shove it. Exactly this. Besides one group of people being jerks shouldn't be a roadblock to do the right thing and the right thing for everyone is abortion being legal. Men have hardly any rights in that catagory sure, but abortion being illegal just flat out makes it worse for everyone. Even if it's something you don't believe in you're not stopping abortion, you're just making it unsafe for those not wealthy enough to just go have the procedure done elsewhere. People are just gonna go back to old school…	/r/MensRights	25/06/22 07:58 PM
2	saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels. It's always best to not make assumptions or label people until they actually 100% prove themselves otherwise. There are plenty of reasonable people on both sides but we also have to admit both sides have those who are not very reasonable. Logic, reason and compassion should be what is leading the charge. Not anger, resentment and narrow-mindedness. Either way point is focus on what matters and don't let your bias or emotions ruin what could be a good chance to learn and grow.	/r/MensRights	09/06/22 08:53 AM
2	saying all feminists are radical misandrists is the same as saying all mens rights activists are like incels. I agree with you, those who are being loudest and making the news are mostly the most recent wave. A wave that doesn't really want equality, the kind that cheer on male abusers (like amber heard) despite evidence. It's gotten to the point where I felt shame in calling myself a feminist about 6 or so years back. I didn't want to associate myself with the kind of people who would barge into a safe space , shrieking to the heavens and saying horrible things about them only because they were men. Mo…	/r/MensRights	09/06/22 08:44 AM
4	Why do some cut men defend MGM so fiercely? nothing wrong with being ok with your dick. I don't like that I didn't have a choice in the matter but I don't care if people like that it got done to them. The only thing I want is awareness of how unnecessary it is but more importantly that it should be a choice made by the person it's being done to not anyone else.	/r/MensRights	17/05/22 12:42 PM
1	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. Unfortunately so, i'm just in the camp of having something versus nothing but marriage and child support is a pretty bias and fucked up area in the law. I don't mind the idea of keeping the child in mind above a pre-nup but all the extra shit where a man can be ruined or you have this kind of situation where this lady is getting an amount that is honestly far too much. I could understand the arguement that if they wheren't split the child would have a lot more but when you have no accountability…	/r/MensRights	16/05/22 02:50 AM
2	NBA player reportedly required to pay $200k a month in child support after his wife secretly filed for divorce 2 weeks after the birth of their son and refuses to let him see his own son. They need a damn good pre-nup. Pull all the bells and whistles to make that shit as legit as possible. I'm pretty sure you can have an alimony agreement on it too so there won't need to be any fighting over an amount. You need to give her something though, if memory serves prenups that get thrown out a lot are the ones that give the women nothing. I kinda look at it like a will in that regard. If you don't leave someone who can be deemed an important enough family member nothing they can contest…	/r/MensRights	15/05/22 11:20 PM
1	Without exception every defense of Will Smith's violent assault I’ve personally heard so far comes from women. I think we often forget celeberties aren't that different from us. What he did was a normal human reaction. The man insulted his wife and he snapped by doing something many of us have probably done at least once in our lives. I think the guy deserved the slap but Will shouldn't have done that at the event because it does insult the event, though I also don't think he deserves his award taken away.	/r/MensRights	31/03/22 06:04 AM
3	What male privilege looks like in Ukraine You can't blame every citizen in a country like that though. Most people are just trying to live their lives in peace. Those in power did things badly but that's hardly every joes fault. I'd rather let some people in that did bad shit then let thousands or even millions of innocent be denied.	/r/MensRights	25/02/22 12:43 PM
1	What Happens When Alleged Sexual Violence Victims Lie? The sooner people realize the system fucks everyone the better. Sure courts might more often then not treat men badly in demostic cases but that doesn't mean women don't get fucked over. Things we do to stop bias helps as many as possible. It's not a man vs women thing nearly as much as some think when it comes to fixing stuff. Sorry you got fucked over and hope you're doing better now at least.	/r/MensRights	07/01/22 10:19 PM
8	I am not having my baby circumcised Do you have a link to these studies? There are plenty of people who do experience lossing some sensation if not a lot of it. The foreskin itself also houses the majority of the nerves associated with pleasure from sex. I find it highly unlikely that losing the vast majority of your nerves is going to result in things being the same. It also depends on how these studies were done, did these patients have pleasure related issues before, how big was the sample size, how many actually reported no di…	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 08:27 PM
3	I am not having my baby circumcised The thing is the foreskin is already known to have value. The foreskin produces a natural lubricant, it houses most of the nerves associated with pleasure from sex, sex is just better with foreskin and it has the added bonus of making non-consensual sex harder. The last one could be argued to not be of evolutionary value but since we understand rape is a terrible thing that downside is actually a good thing. If sex is better the male also produces more sperm plus you have a healtheir penis if me…	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 08:21 PM
3	I am not having my baby circumcised You're doing the right thing. People become brainwashed to the idea it is fine too easilly because it is a very common thing and has been for a long time. Truth is by having your foreskin cut off you are lossing the vast majority of the nerves responsable for pleasure during sex as well as the natural lubricant the glans produce. Not to mention all the other complications that can come from circumscision. While I don't hold a grudge over my parents doing it to me I had a lot of anger at them for…	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 08:11 PM
1	Someone commented that men have the most powerful voices on issues because most politicians are men. I asked them to show any examples of politicians speaking up for men. I was downvoted til hidden, but nobody provided a single example. 100% agree	/r/MensRights	24/03/20 09:48 PM
2	Someone commented that men have the most powerful voices on issues because most politicians are men. I asked them to show any examples of politicians speaking up for men. I was downvoted til hidden, but nobody provided a single example. Thank you for informing them. You're a good person.	/r/MensRights	24/03/20 08:48 PM
2	Male rape victim also has responsibilities Damn	/r/MensRights	31/12/19 06:16 PM
2	Male rape victim also has responsibilities How much female pedo's get away with is fucking disgusting. He wasn't of age and could have easily been taken advantage of due to his age/hormones. This isn't equal treatment, it's a travesty of justice.	/r/MensRights	31/12/19 05:54 PM
1	College gap by sex and race. The overall number looks like the average of all the numbers to me. It's not adding them all up but having it labaled as "overall" causes confusion for sure.	/r/MensRights	02/10/19 02:50 PM