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| 1 | Something most women just wish men understoodI suggest you brush up on the absolute basics of grammar and spelling. Literally the basics. Get hooked on phonics bro because damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Something most women just wish men understoodThe call is really coming from inside the house, it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Something most women just wish men understoodThe comment notification I received right before yours was claiming that women have to be held accountable for their own rapes. Because reddit is a cesspool, and a mistake :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way aroundMost of the women in the world are not in the western world. So their experiences matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 10 | Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way aroundThat's fair! I'm also an American though so I spent 30 years in the states. While North American men aren't even a fraction as problematic, I have had men approach me or catcall me and get aggressive and hostile when rejected. It's sort of a no win situation. Either I give over my number to placate him, or I reject or ignore and deal with a scorned, embarrassed man in public who would rather get mad than be embarassed. An example: one time I was walking home from work at around 11 p.m. at night.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 55 | Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way aroundI live in a North African country where street harassment is a daily, and I mean literally daily, occurrence. If I even look at men or make slight eye contact, they will follow and yell at me or physically assault and grab me. If men as a whole took rejection well or let women exist without expecting or demanding their attention and more, this wouldn't be an issue. If I'm anything less than a steel-eyed bitch 100% of the time, odds are massively increased that some dude is going to grab my ass o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreThis is allegorical, but I know a lot more men who want kids than women. Because they see the kids as their legacy, as an extension of themselves, or as their duty as a man. Many of them don't even think about the logistical aspects and sacrifices of children to the same extent women automatically do. Because those things won't affect them to the same extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 11:16 AM |
| 3 | The reason for a decline in social cohesion and relationships in general is due to a collapse in third places.I am an American living in Morocco with an extremely prolific cafe scene, so you'd think we don't have this problem. But, the "third places" are almost exclusively for men. Cafes are for men to escape the house, drink coffee, chat, and smoke cigarettes outside of the home. Women are not welcome or even allowed in 99% of these cafes and are expected to socialize in the home, the hammam among other women, or not at all. Even if a woman does make an attempt to attend them, she's leered at or commen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveMy opinion and feeling isn’t an assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveI said it for both genders, and I said it’s a sign of immaturity for the older partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveNobody said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 04:12 PM |
| 6 | “Mansplaining” vs Women?This is true. And often "mansplaining" comes with the added layer of acting like you have authority when you don't. I trust a woman's advice on dating more than a man's because... women have dated men. Sure, a guy has his opinions and perceptions, but those are largely theoretical, highly specific to him, and completely lack the lived experience of dating men. Your advice is just to be nice to him? Okay, I did that and got stalked, harassed, insulted, and wasted hundreds of hours of my life bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractiveYeah. Even an attractive 45-year-old will give me massive ick if he's into someone 15+ years his junior. Like, grow up dude. And that's true for both genders. A woman dating a significantly younger man says something about her maturity and it isn't saying something good, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 07:15 AM |
| 2 | People may cringe at the use of the term “Chad”, but there does exist a subset of men who live totally different lives to the rest of us regarding women, and it’s reasonable to have a shorthand for thatNo, average girls do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:17 AM |
| 19 | The true irony of this subreddit is that the vast majority of the men considered desirable by attractive women are red pilledThe anger, resentment, and entitlement are key here. That’s extremely repellent to most women and confidence with bitterness is unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How will you/did you screen your partner for marriage?My husband is my best friend. He accepts the worst of me, and I do my best for him (and vice versa). I wasn’t looking for a type or weirdly rigid set of standards when I was dating, but I also was completely over giving 1,000% in relationships and getting back the bare minimum. My husband knew he was ready for marriage so neither of us wanted to waste time and he really put in the effort to show he was serious which set him apart. We dated for only 6 months before getting engaged and married 6 m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:The assumption that the majority of sex work is voluntary is faulty and not based in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you personally know someone who had problems finding a long-term relationship because of past promiscuity?My husband doesn't like that I had partners before him, and we've specifically avoided this conversation because of it. He's very jealous but it was not a dealbreaker and has no current bearing on our relationship. Before him, men asked but never seemed to care much either way. Surprisingly, when I was a virgin, I had two guys reject me because they didn't want the pressure. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:I said: That's assuming the idea that these women have autonomy and choose sex work willingly, which is only true for a select few. There are some women who choose it and profit off it for a few years until they no longer look like teenagers and age out. I never said nobody chooses it. The vast majority aren't in those positions. That's like saying all lawyers are on the Supreme Court. It just isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:49 AM |
| 0 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Many women will, too. This isn't a gendered issue. This is just a reality of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Men do have options though. They just may not like them, be physically attracted to them, or otherwise want those options so they don't see them. But they're out there. The population is 50/50. Every single man could go find a woman if he tried but many of them don't "see" women they aren't attracted to and thus assume there are no options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Stripping and prostitution are not the same thing at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Sorry, but this tells me you have never dated as an average woman. Yes, there are options (just as there are for literally every man regardless of what men say) but many of those options are simply worse than staying single. Finding a relationship is not the same thing as finding a fulfilling relationship. To say women don't have to put in effort is just blindly and unreasonably incorrect. Not every woman is supermodel attractive and has tons of guys fawning all over themselves. In fact, this is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Me, personally? I'm busy this week but I'll try and pencil it in for next week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:That's assuming the idea that these women have autonomy and choose sex work willingly, which is only true for a select few. Many are groomed into it as children and stay because of drugs, coercion, or a lack of options. It's not bodily autonomy when you didn't choose it and can't leave, which is true for the majority of prostitution around the world. It sucks that a few entitled OnlyFan egirls have made sex work seem cute and fun and empowering because they get to do it behind a screen, not in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 11:00 AM |
| 3 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:I actually currently live in a country with practicing polygamy! It's legal here to have four wives, but it's uncommon. I also live in a country with a surplus of single males! It's awful. But the solution to the problem isn't for women to just start indiscriminately having random sex with the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:I'm addressing OPs assertion that the male demand for sex is a problem to be solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:The institution of prostitution is held together with coercion and abuse. Anyone who doesn't see that and thinks it's a neutral practice is delusional or willfully blind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:I agree with you in theory but not in practice, as a woman's most intimate part of herself should not be bought and sold like a pack of gum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Well, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:As a married woman, I do feel for men sometimes. I think there are a lot of sad, single, lonely guys who just... don't get to have a connection for whatever reason. Harder to make friends, harder to have any sort of meaningful relationships. My husband is super traditional and doesn't want me having male friends so there isn't really a lot I can (or will) do about it besides maintain the couple of guy friends I had before meeting my husband, but I really do feel bad for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:I'd like to see those studies because I do not believe that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:05 AM |
| 9 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Being with the wrong man is infinitely worse than being single. I've spent many years with "the wrong man" (not just one but a few) and ultimately chose to be #singleforever until I met my husband, who taught me that relationships can be partnerships, not endless cleaning up after someone who barely cares about you. And add kids to that? No. Being in a relationship with the wrong person AND adding kids to that is a hellish life for women, and I think everyone should stop being with the wrong per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 10:04 AM |
| 5 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Well, my husband married me so I can’t agree with you there 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:56 AM |
| 15 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:But the OP is talking about how men want sex. Many, many, posts in PPD talk about how men want sex, not relationships. So which is it? Men want love or meaningless sex? Many men also have this same sweeping generalization about how "ugly women" demand "supermodel men" in order to dehumanize and laugh at them. It's not simply a "feminist" problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Sex being determind as important by one man does not mean anyone is entitled to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Then they won't get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:44 AM |
| 5 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:This is interesting, because I personally hate the argument that legalized prostitution solves anything, but everyone always uses the Netherlands as the reason it's such an enlightened idea. So you don't feel like legalizing prostitution solved the loneliness crisis among men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Do you think men will change? Because there's a lot of single, lonely guys out there too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:36 AM |
| 4 | Modern-day sexual issues are very simple:Men will just have to get used to not having random sex then? So? I mean, why is prostitution the solution and not just dealing with it? Men want something women have and women don't want to give up for myriad (reasonable, logical) reasons. Men don't want to do the things necessary to get the things from women, so they don't get it. Women want relationships. Men are selective about who they want relationships with, and so women won't get them. Women just have to deal with it. Nobody is entitled … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:30 AM |
| 5 | Women rate themselves 10 of 10 in looks all the time and call each other DIVA and Queens and its okay, a Man rates himself highly or just says he is handsome AF, the women will say he is full of himself and its a turn off. why?It's as if there aren't hundreds of dudes under every plus size womens' posts reminding them that they're unfuckable cows lol. I love the selective eyesight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 09:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.That's completely irrelevant to modern times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:03 PM |
| 8 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?And men having THAT attitude for something as private, intimate and vulnerable as sex is why women hate casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 11:23 PM |
| 9 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Literally no. Just no. All of that, no. In fact, ugly/average dudes are often worse because they think porn is real and lack experience. Men of all attractiveness levels literally don't care about the pleasure and experiences of women they aren't emotionally connected to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 5 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I know what you mean. I fell into that trap in my early 20s. I felt like everyone was "having fun" and I was the only one "not having fun" because I was super religious and didn't really date or even hang out with guys. I thought I'd die with so much regret and FOMO if I didn't do what everyone was saying was so "feminist" and "free" and "fun." But casual relationships in my experiences were none of those things and that rhetoric was a huge lie to get women to be sluts for... attention? Approval… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 9 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I think no man wants to think of himself as "bad in bed" and that they would be amazing, phenomenal, unbelievable sexual partners with literally every and any woman that would have them, if only they had the chance. But their idea of "having good sex" is "they got off" and wonder why she doesn't want to make it a regular thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:48 PM |
| 7 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I completely relate with so much of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:47 PM |
| 17 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I've said it before, I'll say it again. If the average guy knew how to be good sexual partners, more women would have casual sex. The reason we don't isn't some outdated puritanical belief or even the fear of slutshaming (like we see on this sub constantly). It's the fact that the insane risk does not make the minimal reward of bad sex with random dudes worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:38 PM |
| 6 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?But those are isolated opinions of select people, not representative of all of womankind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterWhy would a mature, put together, overall catch want to attempt to be with someone who has such relatively undeveloped ideas, so much less life experience, and can’t relate to him in fundamental ways? Isn’t even the pursuit of “energy and youthfulness” not a sign of maturity but of… escapism and immaturity? That’s for both men and women who seek out significantly younger partners. I’m 33, I couldn’t fathom maintaining a meaningful relationship with someone 10+ years younger than me. And why is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:38 AM |
| 16 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterLacking agency is not the same thing as lacking wisdom. I was a particularly sheltered 20-year-old and you and I did not and do not have the same lived experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 20 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterI think it often gets framed as "oh he's a creep because he likes young women for their looks and youth" and not "oh he's a creep because he likes inexperienced women who lack the knowledge to see how inadequate he is in key aspects of being a good partner" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:45 PM |
| 9 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterChris Hansen in this thread taking notes 📝 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:38 PM |
| 35 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterI dated a 39 year old when I was 20. Should anyone have called the cops? No. But I was too young to see how insanely unattractive it was that he was severely underemployed, lived in a basement, drank heavily, and a bunch of other red flags that I have since learned are actually red flags. I think he sought me out because I wasn't experienced enough in dating to know how much he sucked for his age and how little of his shit he had together. If he were to date someone age-appropriate, she would ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:37 PM |
| 38 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterThat doesn't stop a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 8 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterAren't we all commenting from our own experiences and insecurities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:30 PM |
| 5 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterIf I do enough sudoku puzzles I've been promised I'll be smart at 80. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherBut it didn't work out and wasted both of our time, so I have plenty of self-awareness sorry 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherI wanted to disagree because I feel like your language is a bit... yikes. Like talking about "gassing up women" and "the way women have inflated egos"... like yea, maybe for the supermodels whose DMs are all filled to the brim with thirsty guys, but this is not normal (most) women's experiences, no matter what you THINK is going on in our DMs or Tinder accounts. More than anything, we get unsolicited comments on our looks, demeaning demands for sex with no investment, or the most boring guys who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherYou've mentioned having sex with ten women twice in just this thread alone. Is... that your only personality trait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:16 AM |
| 7 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherI'm guessing /u/Poisongirl5 isn't a guy in anyone's DMs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:13 AM |
| 9 | PPD has become the gender wars arena, especially when it comes to the sexual history of women.I've heard the excuse that it's "easier for women to have sex" so they want her number to be lower because her slut potential is higher. Doesn't make sense? Yeah, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, what differentiates men who are successful with women?Looks have a lot less to do with it than you’d think. I know some less-than-attractive dudes who always had a girlfriend or plenty of dates. There are some qualities that are legitimately more important than looks or even money: - Good social skills - Confidence - Ambition and purpose - Hobbies and friends - Good hygiene - Thoughtfulness and decency Having insanely good looks, height, money etc. is secondary to the above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI mean, I found a really nice, good, interesting guy so I think my standards worked out okay. And I really wasn’t asking for much lol. I think most guys are looking for pretty much the same. But yeah, if my husband and I don’t work out, I’ll never do online dating again 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenSorry you went through that! There are so many offenders on there, it’s insane. My friend, yeah, idk. I saw many of his conversations and they seemed normal/friendly/non-creepy but who knows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenDirty/unkempt Crappy, low-res pictures that indicate a lack of self-awareness. You don't have to be Rico Suave but if your pictures are all dead-eyed stares and pixelated mirror selfies, we probably aren't going to vibe. Bad grammar Defensive profile ("nobody will probably like me but I'm lonely...") or something indicating a sad-sackification Aggressively political on either end of the spectrum Someone looking for something sexual General lack of effort (if he doesn't care, why should I?) Someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 08:10 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenWhen I was dating, I cast a wide net. I don't have a strong physical type, so I matched with probably more than the average woman (I don't have any way to know this for sure) including my last match, which was my husband. On dating apps like Tinder, they don't even really show you much info beyond, what, 240 characters? And most guys won't say in their profile, "I'm a misogynistic piece of shit who doesn't see you as a human being and will likely ask to enter your body with as few words as possi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenAh yes, it must be my fault, thank you for that insight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenHow am I supposed to tell the future? There is usually zero indication of this behavior before we match, or I wouldn't waste our (my) time. I gave plenty of lesser-than-attractive guys a chance and got the same disgusting behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:58 PM |
| 6 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI don't think that's ban-worthy, just bad manners. I'm talking more of the time when I told a guy I didn't want to go to his house the first night we matched at 11 p.m. and he called me a brainless fuckwit pig. That kinda thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:41 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenInterestingly, Tinder bans are incredibly comprehensive. I knew someone who got banned and they tried getting a new phone, using a VPN, all new pictures, new Apple ID, and were still banned. I think they may use facial recognition or something because literally nothing he could do could get past the ban. Wish they'd bring that energy to community moderation instead of hyper-aggressive bans with no appeals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:24 PM |
| 6 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI think you're right, if there was literally even a crumb of community oversight on apps like Tinder, it would weed out the creeps and women would be more likely to engage. If I had 10 messages and 9 of them were dudes wanting free sex, I'm less likely to give that 1 guy any attention because I have to weed through to find him. If reporting features actually ever worked there might be more opportunities for genuinely nice, normal men to have a chance. But every time I've reported a guy for being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 3 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenVery true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksI completely agree. I think men should have more men-only spaces, and women too. I currently live in North Africa where the majority of cafes are men-only and women really don't have any place to go outside of the home. The locker at my gym is always FULL of women because where else can they go? There are no female cafes, female spaces. It really sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:49 PM |
| 19 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenBecause the men are the ones paying for memberships and successful relationships put them out of business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:47 PM |
| 5 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI'm married now and met my husband on OLD, but it was seriously a diamond-in-the-rough situation. I actually ignored his first message because I was so burnt out on it, and only started talking to him because he sent a follow-up. I agree with you that they can be useful but it's mostly just dudes trying to get off in my experience. Though I will admit that it varies by location: shockingly, when I was in NYC, I got actual legit matches with offers for real conversation and connection far more th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksI've been yelled at by passing cars since I was around 8 years old, called "bitch" or "loser" and one time had a milkshake thrown on me from a passing car. Sometimes making gross sexual remarks, sometimes just mean comments. Always by men. So yeah, men can be viciously evil, especially towards women and especially when they're trying to impress their shitfuck friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looksMany "gender-neutral" places function as men-only spaces. Many bars, cafes, golf clubs, lodges, pool halls, etc. Yes, women can go, but they'll be monstrously uncomfortable the whole time. Especially outside of the United States. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 38 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenIf it were beneficial to women, we'd use them. But y'all treat them like free prostitution services and run the women off. You think women wouldn't want a way to find good men on dating apps? But most of the messages for the average woman are wack as hell, which is why more women don't use them. And that's why the only women on there are advertising their OF or are bots. Source: dated on dating apps for many years and hated every second 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themPlease share this unbiased data 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themSo you think we’re stupid? We don’t have eyes? I’m well aware of what average is. As an average woman myself, I’m familiar with the type 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themI literally said “average guys” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 4 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themI met my husband on a dating app. He differentiated himself by being really nice, interested in me, didn’t turn weirdly sexual right away, and got to know me because he was ready to settle down and communicated that quickly. I met my ex at Starbucks. I met another ex through mutual friends. I met another through work (bad idea). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themYou aren't owed sex or a second date for paying. And the kind of guy who thinks he's owed sex for paying for a date is often the guy who won't get a second date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 04:20 PM |
| 11 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themOh yeah, if my husband and I don't work out, I'm never going back to apps. Or dating in general. You couldn't pay me, it's horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:44 PM |
| 14 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themWell, then it was doomed to fail because women generally don't want casual hookups to the same extent that gay guys do. I think it has become a more neutral dating app, and that's how most people see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 4 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themBars, clubs, parties... those are all more for hookups than dating, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:39 PM |
| 35 | The only "80/20 rule" on dating apps is that 80/20 is literally the male-to-female user ratio on themAs someone who was on the apps for years before I met my husband (who I met through an app, go figure), I think the biggest problems with the apps are how men act once they get the a woman's attention. They basically demand free sex or they go on the attack when they don't get it. This isn't just "Chads" either, it's regular guys with massive levels of entitlement that feel perfectly fine treating Tinder like Fuck 4 Free and will call you an ugly/fat/stupid bitch if you don't reciprocate. Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?Annoyed that OP deleted his post because I want more people to see this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?Right. Also, the same guys who think they'd be e-thots and prostitutes are the same ones who label women sluts for being promiscuous and claim they have no value. They hate women for doing the thing they'd definitely do if they could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:18 PM |
| 3 | What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?The exception is not the norm, though. And I think the “internet sex workers” who have the luxury of claiming its 🤪 fun and empowering 🤪 are doing a monstrous disservice for the ones who are coerced or forced into it, or can’t leave for whatever financial/logistical/psychological reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?Women are not a monolith so I can't speak for all of us, but I do know there is a fair amount of "liberal feminist" pressure out there encouraging women and girls to "own their sexuality" by pretending that casual sex is somehow fun when it 1000% isn't. See also: kink and degradation as a form of feminism 🙄 I definitely knew I bought into that idea a few years back. That I was "missing out" and that "this is just what fun people do." In the same way that men are told that their masculinity is ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 7 | What is something about people of your sex in general, that people of the opposite sex just dont seem to realize or get?As a woman, it's so laughably stupid that men think that sex work is a reasonable option for women. There's such a laundry list of risk associated with sex work, not just in the immediate but long-term if she wants to be anything but a sex worker for the rest of her life. The fact that guys think that most women can just open their phone and make millions of dollars selling feet pics is so far beyond stupid, it's unreal. But I see this kind of rhetoric all the time. Also, so many men don't reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectYou can dislike my source but my point still stands. You aren’t adding anything of value to the conversation, just being a contrarian. That’s a fun life, good for you 🙂 Also studies are peer-reviewed in academic circles all the time. Maybe one day you’ll be in an academic setting and know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:15 PM |
| -1 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectPlease feel free to share your peer reviewed original research on the topic thx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:08 PM |
| -2 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectWonder how they get data for tons of psychological studies… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:00 PM |
| 0 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectYou're wrong, according to science, but go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:30 AM |
| 3 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectHuh? You want women to be MORE promiscuous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:11 AM |
| -1 | The idea that men glorify players is wildly incorrectCheating is rarely about sex though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Don't be a hypocrite is what I'm saying. For everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 08:13 AM |
| -1 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Citation needed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...As a long-time vegetarian, what? It is not a turn-on for men for their date to be vegetarian if they aren’t. “You won’t cook my red meat?” “You’ll judge me for eating bacon?” “You’re preachy and boring, I bet”. You’re making assumptions that aren’t based in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 16 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...My issue isn't when men have preferences. My issue is when men have preferences that they don't meet. Do you want a girl with a body count under two? Okay, but how many have you got? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | If you could change one thing about the modern dating landscape, what would it be?Complete facts. The one thing religion got right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | If you could change one thing about the modern dating landscape, what would it be?Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | If you could change one thing about the modern dating landscape, what would it be?If men were better at sex, women would want to have more of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Thought you left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Bye! 👋🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?It makes sense that you'd agree with his original point because it completely lacks even a minuscule understanding of how women approach and understand relationships and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Right. Because one is a simple "I'm not performing and dancing for someone who will immediately and rudely dismiss my perspective" and one is an actual, thoughtful, meaningful response. I'll reserve my thoughtful responses for people who will listen to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Nah, I don’t waste my time arguing with people who are so deeply entrenched in their own perceptions of how life is for other people. I could share the female perspective but they’ll just come up with excuses or justifications to try and invalidate it in their mind, so what’s the point. Not everyone is here to learn about the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?I live in Africa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Nah you just have a clear lack of empathy that couldn’t even begin to be reasoned with. I hope you find a great person though, good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?I’m not even going to explain the million reasons why this is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?What the fuck good is that? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | If you could change one thing about the modern dating landscape, what would it be?Sounds amazing, like what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | If you could change one thing about the modern dating landscape, what would it be?Men too, of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 27 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?So edgy. I live in North Africa but go off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?Haha thank you! High-fiving a million angels 🙌 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:00 PM |
| 18 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?I think you're falling victim to comparison based on what you think or assume people are experiencing. There's a saying, "don't compare your behind-the-scenes to someone else's highlight reel." Everyone goes through hard stuff, even people who seem like they have it together. I'd suggest starting out making some good female friends who are literally just that: friends. Learning what their lives are like, and the things they deal with. You'll probably find pretty quickly that we're all essentiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 07:04 PM |
| 51 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?I really can't comprehend a world in which some men are just so completely blind to the plight of women. Even the stuff going on in Iran right now, millions and millions of women are still fighting for basic rights to exist in public spaces. Almost every single woman I know has experienced some form of abuse or another, be it at home, in relationships, in the workplace, or otherwise. Like, where is this magical utopia where women aren't feeling fear and rejection and normal life stuff? I want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 93 | Do you women go through similar struggles like men go through?I think a lot of men romanticize the female experience to an insanely unhealthy degree, and think most women are experiencing what the top .5% of gorgeous, skinny, beautiful, popular, wealthy women are experiencing because that's what they see on social media. Regular, normal, or even unattractive women are just people: we pay bills, go on crappy dates, get ghosted, feel like an imposter in the workplace, have crushes on guys who don't know we exist... like, that's just life stuff. Being a woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.Thanks :) And I agree. We need to stop telling women (and men) to be something they aren't just for approval because it never works out in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.Yeah, exactly, that's what I'm talking about. Men don't want "challenging women" a lot of the time, so career women are often put in a position to lower their energy to not threaten or emasculate. "If you make more, pretend like you don't. If your career is more impressive, pretend like it isn't. If you're very Type A, be chill and relaxed." It's not a bad thing to not want a challenge, but I don't think women are bending over backwards like they used to to appeal to male egos. I personally know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.Challenge as in intellectually and financially equal/superior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What would equity in dating look like?“Look at all those dick pics and degrading messages I had to go through to find human decency!” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | What would equity in dating look like?I also hope that doesn't happen, and I hope your next wife makes the next decades way better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.I think it could be partially that, but I've also heard that many men feel like their only worth is in what they can do for others. I'm not sure where that comes from, but I'm certain it's a factor even unconsciously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.My ex would regularly bail on me to go "help" his coworkers and friends who needed him to fix their car, give them rides, or otherwise made him feel more important than I did. Which sucked because I just wanted us to be supportive equals, but that wasn't enough. He needed to feel like he was "saving" people and I'm not the kind of person that needs saving. My husband now, we both take care of each other. I cook and clean and keep our house looking amazing. He takes care of the bills and car and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | What would equity in dating look like?I don’t need your sympathy. I’m happily married. I’m just pointing out the reality for many women. I hope you find a good one 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Just because dating pool for career women "shrink" it doesn't mean that they should abandon the opportunity to grow academically/financially.I think women are realizing this, and adjusting their life expectations accordingly. The reality is, many men are attracted to women who don't challenge them, who they can fix, or feel like they provide value to. As women are increasingly in higher paying, higher-level, corporate professions, the pool of women who need fixing is getting smaller. I think women have spent a lot of time trying to not make themselves seem powerful in order to not emasculate, a man, but I also think women are startin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What would equity in dating look like?You're projecting, I'm not mad Why do you think women give hints more than direct approaches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:45 PM |
| 4 | What would equity in dating look like?poof I guess my girlfriends and I don’t exist just because you personally haven’t experienced something 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | What would equity in dating look like?Huh? Many women start conversations, dude. Not every woman is some mannequin waiting to be carried off by some caveman like many single guys assume. Myself, my friends, many NORMAL women have started and held up conversations with men on dating apps or in person. If I matched with a guy who had a particularly interesting profile or made me laugh in some way, I'd send him a message. This is not an uncommon thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:10 PM |
| 4 | What would equity in dating look like?Women initiate, too. Women participate in conversation and vet potential matches, just like men. They look for signs of danger and aggression, they dress nice and look presentable, they assess for compatibility and do literally everything else a man does when dating. I don't really see your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 8 | What would equity in dating look like?Women field hundreds of disgusting and degrading messages from people who look at them like objects on online dating sites. Women invest emotionally into men who lead them on for weeks or months while they consider them simply an option and not a real potential relationship. Women go on plenty of crappy dates looking for the right guy. What do you mean, "what do women do in the courtship phase?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:54 PM |
| 3 | What would equity in dating look like?It's based and I'm sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.Oops I better go let my husband know that I lost respect for him. But in reality, that's not true and most relationships couldn't function if that were the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.I’m sorry that happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.I 1000% agree. They seem suave and caring and attractive but it’s often just a willingness to be manipulative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 09:10 AM |
| 17 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.Valid point. But for many women (myself included), feeling heard and like my partner cares about the dumb stuff I care about or the dumb books I'm reading is a sign that they care about me. Is that not the same for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.Do you prefer communicating with men versus communicating with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:19 PM |
| 14 | CMV: I don't think men are "bad at communicating" like we women often tell each other. I think this stereotype is false and men are fantastic communicators... when they want to be. I think most men, however, are bad at pretending to care about things they don't.Well, I'm here. So no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Social proof seems much more important to women than innate/natural attractionI feel like the OP is presenting this as a bad/shallow thing, not a reasonable compatibility thing. Why would I date a guy who was weird, rude, or otherwise didn't get along with my friends and family? Wanting the people in your life to be compatible is a logistical thing, not an "I'm only dating people who are conventionally attractive/successful/acceptable for my own vanity" thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?And the inverse isn’t true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 11:25 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?I have never heard that. Aren't men the hunters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsIf a man is not discriminatory and sleeps with anyone/everyone, that's admirable. But if a woman does it, she lacks self-control and self-respect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:11 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?That's fair. It can be tricky to navigate gender roles in a time when tons of people seem determined to abolish them and a lot of people want to uphold them. But I agree about the hypocrisy. Expecting someone else to put themselves out there but not doing the same is super hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Not all of us say "fuck gender roles" though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsI'm not disagreeing, but the blanket "women are sluts for sleeping around but men aren't" rhetoric is so confusing for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:47 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?I think we as women are encouraged to "read between the lines" and hope for intent that isn't there. As in, when we like a guy, we will read into his behavior to find hints of deeper attraction than actually exist. But I think many women are starting to realize (and communicate to other women) that, no, actually, his "you up?" text at 3 a.m. doesn't mean he has deeper feelings. That kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Oh wow, thanks for explaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:16 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?I have literally never heard this phrase and have no idea what it means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:13 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Married but likes to talk shit I want that flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:05 PM |
| 9 | What are your thoughts on the idea of "if he wanted to, he would"?Things like shyness, I understand. But I also think there are a lot of instances where a guy just isn't that interested but won't come right out and say it, which makes it difficult to tell if they're shy or just stringing you along. But I agree, that goes for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 09:03 PM |
| 8 | Men need to stop justifying why they don't want to date women with high body countsSo because women have an easier time getting casual sex, it means it's acceptable to judge women for doing so? I don't understand your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Marriage has value for menI mean, that's a fair point. It's certainly not desirable. But I don't see women pre-emptively judging him or saying he can't be "marriage material" because he had a wild past. I don't see the "damaged goods" rhetoric for men nearly to the same extent that I see it for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Marriage has value for menYeah, I think most guys wouldn't be as insecure if they realized that. If we still wanted to be with our exes, we would be 🤷♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Marriage has value for menBy whom? I've never seen that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:35 AM |
| 4 | Marriage has value for menI think many men have deep fears about sexual performance and assume that women who have "been around" will be thinking about/comparing/longing for ex-partners. I have had this explained to me by several men. I can kind of understand the root of it, but I think the way to navigate the insecurity isn't just to try and shame women out of having other partners, especially when nobody is shaming men out of "sleeping around" before marriage and those same men would be happy to have casual sex but wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:41 AM |
| 5 | Marriage has value for menBecause nobody judges men for sleeping around, only women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?Every time I was honest with a man about my feelings, he took it as an opportunity to attack me personally. "Sorry, I'm not interested" became "well you're an ugly fat loser bitch anyway, so fuck you and I know where you live" very quickly, more quickly than many men realize. So, uh, yeah. Women are unclear and vague and ghost because it's often unsafe to. And even if many men don't react like this, enough of them do to make it generally unsafe to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards are very reasonableI mean, I live in North Africa now and it’s wayyyy more common here lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards are very reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Women's standards are very reasonableI agree that it is an American issue but it’s also a huge issue in many, many places around the world too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards are very reasonableYes, men never spend weeks or months with a woman, having sex and letting them think things will go somewhere while entertaining other women. That literally never happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Women's standards are very reasonableWomen in relationships around the world simply do way, way more in modern relationships. Not only are we still the de facto cooks, cleaners, and childcare providers, we also have to do the “masculine” role of working full-time. If I have to do all that anyway (and even more for a whole other mess-generating person) why should I not be selective? Men may be less picky than women, but they’re more likely to benefit from the relationship regardless. I was perfectly happy before my husband and while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Did I miss out on hookupsThis is a ridiculous question and a very sad view of women and relationships. I'll get downvoted for saying so, but I don't care. Sexual FOMO is beyond weird to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 12:28 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The majority of men have absolutely no conception of how much sexual and emotional trauma the average woman is carrying around with her and mens’ approach to sexual/relationships would be drastically improved if the majority of men could understand this.New and already done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The majority of men have absolutely no conception of how much sexual and emotional trauma the average woman is carrying around with her and mens’ approach to sexual/relationships would be drastically improved if the majority of men could understand this.You were right. I should have deleted this right away. The amount of “women deserve it” and “women want to be raped” and “women don’t actually get assaulted” in this thread is disgusting and this is why normal people stay far away from these subs. My bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?I care about said friends who are treated like shit. I also got ran through the wringer before finding my fiancé. I’m allowed an opinion and to engage in the conversation even if it doesn’t affect me 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Bruh, stop projecting. I'm happily taken. I do see my gorgeous, attractive, intelligent single friends getting fucked over by all these supposedly amazing men on the daily, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 5 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Bad men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 4 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Absent fathers :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Where are they lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 58 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.But then how will we create sweeping generalizations to get mad at ☹️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?I've only dated one guy that was my height (5'5) and it was AWFUL, not because I cared but because his massive insecurity about it radiated from him. I could tell it made him physically uncomfortable to be comparable in height to me and he commented about it frequently. I haven't dated a guy my height since and again, not because I'm bothered by it, but because mens' masculinity seems to be threatened by a woman of equal size/height. I think this is another reason a lot of men don't like plus si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return.Disagree, I think it's cute and uplifting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return.Clearly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 25 | CMV: The woke crowd is doing little to nothing to address the legitimate grievances of men. They can't expect acceptance and support in return.Making bad faith CMV reddit threads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Having low standards doesn't make you any less shallow.And most men do not even try! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?Is it important to you that I think my guy friends have anger and entitlement towards women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?Because I'm selective with my friendships and don't spend time with men who act this way. They might think it but I would not be cool with them treating the women in their lives like this, and know they don't because we're close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 6 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 12:44 PM |
| 14 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I agree. None of my IRL guy friends have/express this sort of anger entitlement and ideation about who they deserve to date. They just do/don't date whomever. This is purely online rhetoric and we know that discourse online is very mentally healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:36 AM |
| 16 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I think it's a cope by certain men who tell themselves "well, she's 'out of my league' now but at least she'll age out of her looks eventually and finally I will be the more desirable one!" They hate them because these women represent a flawed design in the system: certain (even 30's, 40's and older) women aren't desirable because they're beautiful and young, they're desirable because they aren't sitting online furiously hating the opposite gender for arbitrary reasons. It's a weird, toxic menta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:33 AM |
| 20 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?I disagree. Lying in a relationship is not cool period, but I've never had a guy ask me flat-out how many men I've slept with, and then judge me for that. I can't even imagine how weird that conversation would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 10:30 AM |
| 0 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?Ah that actually makes a lot of sense. Women have a lot of double standards thrown at us, but y’all do too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 7 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?I'm honestly surprised Conservative Barbie would have that kind of rant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 11 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?I mean, I think men (possibly unconsciously) have negative associations with "career" women based on the comments I've seen. Bitchy, materialistic, poor work/life balance, harsh, severe, "feminist" (as an insult), masculine, etc. I don't think a man would consciously be like "oh she's earning 6 figures, she probably sucks" but I have seen comments conflating career-driven with negative attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The Sexual Revolution Was a Complete FailureSome would argue this is still leftist men today, wrapping their misogyny in wokeness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Question for the menWell, agree to disagree I guess. I found an amazing, kind-hearted, sweet, funny man who will soon be my husband after years of being treated like absolute shit by men, so I don't believe it's a hopeless situation. I do think there is a modern trend towards making an interpersonal issue into a societal issue (I did this too). I went on dozens and dozens of dates when I was single and most of them just weren't very good. I started to think "oh men are..." or "why are all men..." but in hindsight I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Question for the menI disagree. I think the current situation is the correction of a long history of imbalance and it'll correct itself eventually. I agree the "kill all men" rhetoric is really toxic, and I'm saying that as someone who used to think that sort of misandry was totally acceptable and participated in it myself. What you have to remember is that, while women hurt your feelings, many, many (if not most) women have been mistreated by men. Either as children or as adults, usually both. Do I think all men a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Question for the menWell that makes me sad to hear. I also don't believe that. My mom, who is objectively stunning and hilarious and an all-around quality person, met her now-husband on a video game when they were in their late 40's. They've been friends for 7-8 years, married for 5. He's a great guy but by no means attractive, but they are best friends. I say all that to say, it's never too late. Give up if you want, but I know for a fact that there are many wonderful women out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Question for the menThis is the first answer I see that isn't laced with misogyny. That's cool. And I can understand that. I've also seen this a bunch of times with my girlfriends. My gorgeous girlfriends are dating decently attractive men who are absolutely not as attractive as they are, but have good/stable/responsible/funny personalities. So it's not an unreasonable tactic! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 11:05 AM |
| 0 | Question for the menOkay but this isn't how actual people work. You are clearly viewing human interactions through the lens of somebody who is focusing too much time on reddit and not enough time in the "real world". Nobody is entitled to anyone else's attention, and if you are constantly "striking out" it's because you're doing what OP said -- only going for the most attractive girls and disregarding the ones you actually have a shot with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 11:01 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?I, too, can be hyperbolic! But to act like men face even a fraction of the physical, financial or psychological consequences of unplanned pregnancy to the same extent women do is literally so stupid lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 11:41 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: If male birth control existed as a pill like it did for women, would you take it?Or is it because they largely don't care because the onus of childbirth has always been on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 08:55 AM |
| 3 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offHe edited his original post to make himself look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 12 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offThe only thing cringier than OP's post are the comments so far. Wants to "get laid" but complains that the "hot girls" he's going after are... shallow? lol ok. All the comments chiming in (from men and women) that yes, in fact, all women are shallow and hate emotion and empathetic men are weak. Oof. Y'all hate men and think women are terrible, so that's fun. If you're looking for shallow hook ups, you'll find certain characteristics. If you're looking for meaningful relationships, you won't run … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 4 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?Absolutely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 21 | What is the worst dating advice you’ve gotten and why was it so bad?"Asking questions is the best way for a date to go smoothly. If you want to be interesting, be interested!" This, uh, might work on some men. But in my experience, a lot of guys want a captive audience or a free counseling. The amount of men that used my question-asking and active listening skills to wax nostalgic about their fucking bitch ex Jessica, I could have the clinical contact hours to be a licensed therapist. Pro tip fellas: if a girl is a good listener and is actively participating in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Traditional Masculinity isn't for everyoneAgreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Traditional Masculinity isn't for everyoneI mean that’s generalizations for you. Any conversation on the internet becomes pretty useless pretty fast if you take out all the generalizations. I try and speak from personal experience as much as I can and my personal experience (present partner excluded) includes men who demanded unwarranted respect. Does this mean all men do that? No. But a lot do, and the ones who feel entitled to it the most tend to complain about it the most. The ones who earn it, get it. “Waste no more time arguing wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 14 | Traditional Masculinity isn't for everyoneThey want respect without being respectable. Respect is earned. What are they contributing worthy of respect? My fiance is extremely respectable and shows effort and care for our family with his time and energy. My exes? Wanted a woman to fawn him with respect while he played video games and farted for 9 hours a day. Want respect? Earn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Right Like he's more capable because he doesn't value her contribution. Whereas many of my working mom friends find going to work to be a huge break and relief from the pressures of being home and "on" 24/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 11:48 AM |
| 0 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I see no argument that you've made worth responding to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:49 PM |
| -1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Or they could staff adequately and use proper gear to make the jobs safer for everyone? Seems like the issue is more about cutting costs because it's easier to wear down men's bodies than to make the job less physically taxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I would never presume to. But to pretend that women are somehow controlling the world is stupid ☺️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?You’re right, women being killed and beaten for not adhering to strict patriarchal control is an issue of culture, not human rights. Good point. Sorry for colonizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?And I was responding in good faith to what I assumed was a troll question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I live in Alaska. My female friends in these trades deal with insane sexism from coworkers, supervisors, union reps... saying “just be a [male dominated trade]” assumes that people want women infiltrating their high paid boys clubs, as they’ve existed since time immemorial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Being informed about the injustice isn’t colonizing but if false equivalencies are your jam, by all means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I live in Alaska and have female friends that are welders and guess what! They get harassed constantly by male colleagues and supervisors. So acting like it’s an egalitarian work environment is fun fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Yes because women spontaneously give birth on their own! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?And it gets messy. One teacher can positively influence the life of a child who can later go on to become extremely influential, or extremely destructive. Saying one is inherently more valuable than another is hard to quantify and ultimately meaningless. Or, for example, productive product can have destructive results. Yes Google reaches billions, but it's also having huge security issues. Is that better than a therapist who only reaches a handful of people? More meaningful doesn't necessarily m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:34 PM |
| 4 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I think the country is moderate at best, Trump proved that and a narrow Democrat victory confirmed it. I also think insinuating that gender inequality is only a middle eastern problem again indicates to me that you don’t understand global gender inequality. Probably because it doesn’t affect you. I’m not saying you’re wrong, I’m saying you’re wrong because you’re uninformed, because you don’t care. If you want to maintain a US-centric view of the world and not learn that’s fine. But to insinuate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?Saying the "country has effectively been taken over by feminism" sounds like you feel victimized. Also downplaying the fact that women are still very much second class citizens in "some middle eastern countries" leads me to believe you have no idea what you're talking about lol. You clearly don't know what women face in most of the world and it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?If someone showed me research that women are stupid? lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 23 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I don't disagree with you. But I think men (and society at large) value "male shit" higher than they value "women shit". Hence why the highest paid professions tend to be more male dominated, and stay-at-home moms aren't paid at all. Or even trades for example, it doesn't take 8 years of schooling to become a welder but you'll make 3x as much as a teacher or childcare worker, despite both being extremely necessary for society to function. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?That would be a bad thing if the situation was equal, but we're still hugely correcting an imbalance that has existed for all of time... And like I said, equality in only a select few countries isn't equality. I (an American) can go to *most countries* and will be considered a second class citizen to *pretty much every man*. Women can't even drive or vote or own property in much of the world. Idk man, if you really feel victimized because women have a voice (in society, not politics or the board… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 01:54 PM |
| 69 | Wait, why do a lot of you believe that men don't respect women (including women they love)?I generally think a lot of men think women are stupid. Hyper emotional, less intelligent, less capable physically and mentally. I think this is magnified tenfold outside of industrialized countries. I say that having been to them. Women are still expected to be quiet or unseen while the men talk and engage in society in like 70% of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.You... would hope so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.What’s the point of sex? What’s the point of risk? Why wouldn’t we talk about the actual goal of sex when discussing if it’s worth it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.20% is high lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Most women lack self awareness about their unearned privilege when it comes to sex, dating, relationships and socializing.But they’re guaranteed that orgasm and she rarely is. Plus women are massively and disproportionately affected by unplanned pregnancy. Financially, emotionally, physically, socially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Lol pick me!Height is not a personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/19 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Thanks to TRP and FDS, I deleted all of my OLD profilesWe got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 02:43 PM |
| 8 | Best dating advice you've ever heard?We have a very different perspective of her here in the US, that's why I was confused :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | MEGATHREAD: Under What Circumstances Should A Woman Agree To Sex?For an FWB I need someone: clean (STD-wise but also physically) someone attractive but not emotionally compatible (so I don’t catch feelings) articulate and respectful same kinks It’s over if at any point he’s: pushy demanding pics after I’ve told him no (sending nudes is so unwise—I’ve had an ex threaten to send them to my family. NO.) married or in a relationship (even an open one) clingy or jealous FWB can be fun but its hard to find a good one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 10:45 PM |
| 18 | Don't double text, ladiesI never save contacts unless we actually go out and sometimes not even then. It makes it difficult to delete chat threads to avoid double texts because I barely remember who anyone is anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/19 04:32 AM |
| 15 | A reminder that men deserve NO explanation whatsoeverFucking YES. It's not his or anyone's business why you are on any app, ever (unless you're in a monogamous relationship). You don't owe anyone shit. He's just big mad that you rejected him. Can you imagine if women threw a fit every time we were rejected? Lmao. No. Good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | MoodSo you've met her? lol fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 6 | true love is DIRTY & HARDThe realness hurts. The time I spent taking care of a GROWN. ASS. MAN. should be returned to me, with interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/19 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Deleted him from everythingMe too, girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Deleted him from everythingAgreed. I made myself too available. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/19 01:05 AM |
| 3 | This sub is helping me not take shitYou men are all the same: you don't belong in this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/19 01:15 AM |
| 2 | This sub is helping me not take shitProbably not. So get creative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/19 10:38 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Condoms. Always.Contraception End of list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 06:02 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Condoms. Always.Yes, absolutely! That's definitely reasonable :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 02:55 PM |
| 5 | FDS/Pinkpill Book RecommendationsAdding all of these to be TBR. I would love to hear those other ones, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/19 12:41 PM |
| 9 | This sub is helping me not take shitUh, he's actually white. Not sure what that matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 16 | This sub is helping me not take shitSo I dont get common courtesy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 03:03 PM |
| 5 | This sub is helping me not take shitk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 03:01 PM |
| 12 | This sub is helping me not take shitPure evil?! Finally we've arrived, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 02:57 PM |
| 31 | This sub is helping me not take shitmen who post on exclusively female subs are stupid dicks who deserve to stay unfucked forever. This made me almost pee myself. I love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 01:01 PM |
| 16 | This sub is helping me not take shitBecause I'm amazing, Jeremy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Tips on keeping men at arms length?Welcome to living in a patriarchy. It fucking sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 12:38 PM |
| 3 | This sub is helping me not take shitk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 12:25 PM |
| 11 | This sub is helping me not take shitWay to assume, lol. I'm actually looking for something casual. But it's impolite to not even say hi? Like, is that too much effort? If it's too much effort for him to say "hi, how are you?" you really think he's going to bring his A game sexually? gtfo lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 12:23 PM |
| 12 | This sub is helping me not take shitI'm new here and don't know what that means :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 11:13 AM |
| 22 | This sub is helping me not take shitI agree 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 10:55 AM |
| 87 | This sub is helping me not take shitYep. Yep. Yep. 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Dating ethically (?)This is a yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 09:16 AM |
| 19 | This sub is helping me not take shitMaybe the problem is that everybody is terrible? But seriously. The best advice I can give for not getting ghosted is to be engaging. I cannot tell you how many dudes I have to drag information out of because they only care about video games, anime, sports, and watching TV. There's nothing to hook onto, so girls lose interest. Either be funny or interesting, preferably both, and you'll have a good time. Also if a guy mentions something about my profile (my dog or my eyes or the fact that I'm scu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 09:14 AM |
| 14 | It finally came in! Thanks for the recommendation ladies!My therapist recommended this. Some of the principals are really good. Some is outdated. I really liked the emphasis on focusing on your fucking self, and not rescuing or mommying, as so many of us are conditioned to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/19 09:10 AM |
| 4 | The Madder The Males Are, The Closer You Are To The TruthI just went through your reddit history and I'm a stan 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/19 04:38 PM |
| 24 | Stay away from men who taught English in AsiaHell yes. Also guys that are super into Asian women always kinda creep me out. There were those guys in college that always hung around the Asian girls and I always found it vaguely predatory. I'm not sure why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Put them above everything elseBless this post. My accomplishments are mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Here's my best friend!She’s a cunt for leaving her dogs. You’re awesome. | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/18 05:44 PM |
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