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| 1 | Q4Women: Would you get an abortion?I'm pro-choice I am 98% certain that I would get an abortion, I have 0 interest in having children. I always have a "what do we do if the contraception fails" conversation before having sex with anyone (calm your raging loins, boys, I know it's a hot discussion). My answer is always that I would want an abortion...it would be a total dickmove on an epic scale to reassure them of that and then go back on it so no, I like to think I'd keep my word on it. Again, the discussion will have taken place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Question for romantics: How many of you fantasize about your own partners?He is definitely the only one I think about, I think about things we've done together and 'desires' we've spoken about. I don't find anyone else sexually attractive and to me there's nothing better than knowing that the things I'm imagining aren't just fantasy, they genuinely are that good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women would be happier without makeup and pushup brasI guess we'd be able to wake up an hour later, more sleep = more happies. But other than that I disagree, putting on make up is a nice routine part of our day and having a full face on makes us go "yep, ready to face the world." It's been mentioned a lot that we wear make up for other women not for men and I'd say thats definitely true, men don't care about our flawless foundation or our on-fleek wings but women definitely notice and definitely care. It's like an art or a skill and something we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?Thank goodness. I was so confused about fancying Rumplestiltskin! I at least understand the appeal as Mr Gold, he's good looking but Rumple?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?I think he's hot because of Hannibal shame. "will he eat a younger, hotter woman?" - ultimate dread game... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?Oh man where to start - Tom hiddleston - Chris Pratt (both fat and unfat) - Mads Mikkelsen - David Tenant ....I go a little blank when I think of hot celebs but though are my go-to ones...put anything in a suit and I'll fancy it though, my standards aren't high.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If you found out your significant other was a Endorsed contributor on r/TheRedPill, how would you react?I would laugh and laugh and laugh... if he gave even half a crap about the pill stuff he'd be very firmly in the blue pool so I'd have to assume it started of as trolling and he ended up too far down the rabbit hole. If it turned out he was actually RP then I guess I'd have to not give a crap considering our relationship is spot on and if he'd been using RP techniques on me without my noticing then meh...continue to trot along happily. I'm ex-red so I'd understand at least a little... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/16 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you lose attraction for a man if he's with an unattractive woman?I lose attraction for a man if he's with any woman regardless of how attractive she is, unavailability is unattractive. In terms of ex's, I would prefer to be the most attractive woman my boyfriend has dated so I tend to be more attracted to guys who have had uglier ex's. Competition is too much effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/16 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Question for men: When have you turned down sex? Question for women: When have you been turned down?I don't think I've ever been rejected outwardly, there's been times where my attempts at initiation haven't been recognised. In past relationships I've had the lower sex drive and rejected a lot, caused obvious issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, how do you feel about sharing restrooms with transgender women?It's not really an issue...there's stalls and we don't exactly sit on the counter comparing lady parts, the most we see is handwashing so Idgaf who is in there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/16 01:09 PM |
| 1 | [shit posting Sunday] CMV: RPW would rather date a BP guy than a RP guy.I think there's more attraction in a man who doesn't bother with the pillsphere at all, he's got better and more interesting things going on. It also kind of depends on what you define BP guys as, really they just oppose trp which doesn't narrow the group much, a lot of them will just be average guys. In general anyone who spends a lot of time commenting on Internet forums is gonna lose points regardless of the side they're on, the void between a moderate BP and moderate rp would be smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/16 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Anyone actually had a good experience while losing their virginity?It hurt a lot but it was with someone I really liked who was kind and gentle about it so I'd say it was a good experience. It was certainly meaningful :) but I also understand that some people juat dont attach so much importance to it, after all it is just the first mingling of your body parts, there's no real reason for it to be a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/16 10:04 AM |
| 1 | How much of your casual sex was looking for commitment?I've only had one casual sexual partner and he was the one wanting a relationship whereas I just wanted it to stay casual. I've never had sex early on with someone I wanted a relationship from. It's never been a matter of leverage and obtaining commitment, just a lack of desire for casual sex apart from that one person who was very attractive and good company but just not romanticallying appealing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/16 07:00 PM |
| 3 | What's your favorite body type?mmmm Hairy men are the best <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What's your favorite body type?F6, F7, F8 and G7. E6 is nice too. I like big strong gruff men rather than the little show off-y six packs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | There's no such thing as cheatingwhat if, instead of entering into a new relationship, she's just sleeping with other people with the intention of staying in her current relationship and there hasn't been an agreement between the couple for this to happen, Surely that's cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/16 02:26 PM |
| 7 | If a woman doesn't want a RedPill man, should she accentuate everything RedPill men hate?Or she could be herself and just say no to red pill guys who ask her out? Why intentionally make yourself unattractive to people when you could just say no to the ones you don't want? By making herself unattractive to one type of person she could also be "weeding out" the kind of guys she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Q4all: What are your "must haves" for a partner's appearance?Hairy chest. I just cant fancy a bare chested man, I've tried! I just can't :( Other than that I'm not too fussy, I prefer facial hair but can go without if there's a nice lil chest rug <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Purplepilldebate IRC QuotesI love the freak out about Atlas going on a trip, it's like she's simultaneously our pet AND owner "how dare she not ask our permission....what do we do without her?!?!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Would your rather..?Female/22/Reddishmostlyprobably Answers in bolldddddddd Would you rather... secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will? have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral? end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex? be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | If mothers love their daughters, why do they push them to have children? :'(My mum has nagged me for about 5 years now to have babies and I know it's because she wants to share the joy that comes with it. It entails an insane level of love for another human that you can't really get any other way and I think she just wants me to experience that and so do I eventually. Also she really want grandkids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/15 09:23 AM |
| 3 | A big party is being thrown and all those who are invited have one thing in common, they are all subscribers to PPD. Unbeknownst to each other, everyone there is either Red Pill or feminist. What happens?This is my favourite one so far! :D The lovely RPW will swap recipes with avid bakers [....]will find the pets in the house and shower them with affection I'm going to swap recipes with the kitties! <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/15 09:57 AM |
| 3 | A big party is being thrown and all those who are invited have one thing in common, they are all subscribers to PPD. Unbeknownst to each other, everyone there is either Red Pill or feminist. What happens?I always have this amusing image of a PPD meet up where everyone tries their little pick up techniques and sometimes it works and then there's loads of lil purple babies running around. People either 100% hook up or everyone stays 10 metres away from the other for fear of succumbing to their irresistible charm and a TRP dude has to honourably kill himself for falling for a TBP gal, there's a big TBP girl outrage cause one of them fancies a TRP but he's being a dick. Some of us would sit on our p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/15 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Female toilet paper usageI really wish you hadn't told me that. "for the benefit of..." There was no benefit here. Damn you to hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/15 07:21 PM |
| 11 | What are your success stories from posting here?RPW made me much more self aware, it showed me where I had gone wrong in previous relationships - self entitlement. I was very take and no give back but was never happy, I think I learned that for some people, like us, happiness comes from making other people happy. It also taught me to be less argumentative and to think about whether it was really worth the struggling, the tension and the unhappiness, the phrase "it's more important to be happy than to be right" comes to mind now. It really hel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Female toilet paper usageOh dear god no, maybe I should put an edit "please don't do this it's super gross"...not that that'll stop them =/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 10:38 PM |
| 4 | Female toilet paper usageWe should start a the shake it off movement...vines of women just shaking around over the toilet until we're dry >.< | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 07:23 PM |
| 17 | Female toilet paper usageAlso, we use more toilet paper because we wipe every time we go wee-wee I don't really think it can be attributed to periods. As someone living in a house of 9 people, 6 of whom (myself included) are girls, I actually really sympathise with the "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING WITH ALL THE BOG ROLL?!?!" issue. edit: after reading that thread - even if she was on her period 6 rolls after 2 nights IS a lot, she actually might be eating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The largest MBTI Dataset PPD has ever seen! Come and participate in the vague- pseudo-science!Ooh I'm already up there, that's exciting! <3 I feel like an established member! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Is curiosity about his romantic past an ugly trait in a woman?I think as long as you ask about it in the right way then there's nothing wrong with it I like to know whether or not he has a habit of sleeping around or if he seems to have any commitment issues, I like to know any habits regarding cheating etc and no one's ever really complained. You have to make sure you don't come across as jealous or insecure and you'll be fine, there's nothing wrong with wanting to know who you're getting into bed with but also be prepared to answer to the same kind of qu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/15 12:41 PM |
| 5 | This is why RPW are encouraged to NOT speak to "journalists"I remember getting a PM from someone asking for more info a while ago but didn't want to get us in trouble so I didn't reply >.< Sneaky little cherry picking! Personally, even with the abysmal attempt at putting us down, to the reasonable minded woman a lot of the things on there wont sound as bad as she's trying to make them. Make it your mission to spoil him rotten. Every day you should have some kind of sexual interaction with him. Make an effort to flirt. A reasonable woman will think "well.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/15 12:30 PM |
| 14 | This is why RPW are encouraged to NOT speak to "journalists"How dare you try to improve part of your man's life! what are you? Some kind of caring, compassionate woman? This kind of disgusting behaviour needs to be exposed! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/15 12:23 PM |
| 6 | @jessphillips a female MP in the uk parliament laughed at mens issuesShe also completely misunderstood what he was saying and talked over him as he tried to correct her. On her twitter she's saying she's all for speaking about men's issues but her issue that the topic was only raised "because women get a debate"...surely that's in the interests of equality? Women get a debate and men get a debate sounds fair. She also said in the video "it's not that I don't care about men's issues, I do but I want parity. When I and the other women in the chambers get parity the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/15 09:22 PM |
| 2 | If we are doing AMA day, I am in a poly relationship so go ahead and AMAGet one of those alarm clocks that shoot something off into the room and wont shut the fuck up until you find it and re-connect it. Also - stop IRC-ing so late, how are we meant to bitch about you if you're always there :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/15 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Casual Sex...Questions for WomenHave you ever actively wanted casual sex instead of a relationship? It's been a passing thought every now and again but not something I've ever actually wanted or genuinely considered. Have you ever actively wanted to sleep around as opposed to being with one solid partner? No. Have you ever had sex with a guy, or been intimate / dated him in some respect, wanted a relationship, but ultimately been rebuffed because he was unwilling to commit? If not, do you think this happens a lot to other wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/15 10:59 AM |
| 14 | Q4Both: Ever given a friend or family member advice from the opposite pill's playbook? How'd it go?I end up quite frequently giving BP advice to friends because they don't want advice, they want comfort and validation and to know that they should be "loved for who they are." If I thought they wanted actual help and not just a chance to vent then I'd sprinkle a little RPW over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/15 09:30 AM |
| 0 | Pills, how old are you?I'm 21 Apparently in the party years and doing very little partying >.< | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/15 02:27 PM |
| 2 | CMV: In a ways, i kinda understand why women are the way they are. Giving women all sexual power at an early age is akin to giving a child a billion dollars.I second this motion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/15 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Libido downAre you eating right and exercising enough? People underestimate just how much those two things can change their hormones and moods. I empathise, it is hard to do something you're just not feeling and it's worse when you want to feel it because it seems like it should be simple, I want to want this, why can't I make myself want it?! Maybe try slipping on some sexy underwear everyday, it gives me a little boost knowing that I look good under my clothing and I want him to see it. I'd also try a bi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/15 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Looking for some honest advice from some RPWLeave - this is FWB with you expecting more and him not wanting to lose the sex he's getting. Even if we give him the benefit of the doubt and he actually does want to be with you (well then why isn't he?) He's still bringing a tonne of baggage - his ex is going to be in the picture for a loooong time. Not knowing when he wants to be with you isn't good enough - here we advise commitment before sex and he's not going to give you the commitment any time soon - why would he change what you have in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/15 10:27 AM |
| 5 | I'm a university student, how can I come across as more feminine?Yeah I agree and I do spend an hour or so on hair and make up, really I was just saying that dresses and 6 inch heels aren't necessary, feminine but casual is best for uni - just switching the cons for ankle boots makes a huge difference imo :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/15 05:55 PM |
| 16 | I'm a university student, how can I come across as more feminine?As a uni student I'm gonna go against the grain here - you don't need to get dolled up for a lecture or two - you're there to learn not to get hit on, sorry to sound like a mother. Ditch the converse for ankle boots and the tight jumpers for some pretty tops, maybe switch the jeans out for leggings every now and again. It's getting cold you need to be layering up so maybe some spaghetti stap tops or t-shirts with a nice big jumper over the top - that's going to be the fashion soon. Also skater s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | The Captain/First mate dynamic doesn't work.We don't demand the perfect idealised man, we accept his faults just as he accepts ours. Our relationships aren't forged in some amazing dream world of impossibilities and pure perfections - We date humans, we all come with faults and we all decide which ones we can live with. I almost agree with your assessment of men although it's a little broad to me and again shows a misunderstanding, we're not saying our men should spend their days making a relationship battle plan, we're saying that when d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 09:25 AM |
| 8 | Required college class wants me to learn about non-red pill values and I'm stuck!Take it seriously - it's something new to learn, something to help explore your own views, if you disagree with the readings ask yourself why and solidify your argument, it never hurts to know and truly understand the other side even if you disagree - the passion will make your performance on the course much better. As for the actual course grades 'n' stuff, do what college always requires us to do - read, memorise, regurgitate. Say what needs to be said and move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/15 05:41 PM |
| 4 | How bad were you before you discovered TRP? Did any of you have a loving, happy relationship, if so what made you take the pill?I was awful - I've said it before on here but I was in total self-entitled princess mode and was an expert at getting my way. When I found RPW I was in a very happy relationship, it was happy and loving because he wouldn't take that crap and as much as I loved it, it was confusing and threw me off guard, I just happened to find RPW around the same time and everything clicked so even though I'm single now I'm pretty sure I know how to make the next one happier :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 10:38 AM |
| 2 | What are your hobbies? What are some hobbies you'd like to do?I'm a big reader - my favourite possession is probably my kindle, I love crime thrillers and dystopian future :D I knit a lot and crochet a little but I'd love to get into cross stitch, also big on baking. I like running but I'd like to get more into weight training. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/15 06:47 PM |
| 2 | What are your hobbies? What are some hobbies you'd like to do?I love a good crime novel have you read anything by Tess Gerritsen? Her rizzoli and isles series is amazing :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/15 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?To be fair those threads usually get deleted - we're not there to discuss and bitch about other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?Was that sarcasm? I think that was sarcasm... seriously though, thanks for the concern :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 11:42 PM |
| 18 | UPDATE: Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?Well it's up to you to decide whether or not you can accept that this is going to happen repeatedly and know that by staying with him in full knowledge of this you can't moan at him or get upset about it. Personally I'd move on now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?are you saying that you personally aren't good at making decisions or that all women are incapable of making decisions as good as men are? Just me personally. You've chosen to relinquish power? I would very much like to understand the conditions you personally grew up under in order for me to believe that. Your own relationship with your father would speak volumes to me on that front. If it's anything to do with upbringing then it'll be because I'm the youngest child and had to do what the older… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?No your original comment wasn't correct in my view - firstly we're not all guys. We absolutely wouldn't throw other women under the bus to impress a guy, we're smart enough to know that bitchy woman squabbles aren't attractive to anyone and it's just plain mean - why would we do it? Makes no sense. We're haven't given up all autonomy, we haven't decided "wow men are so brilliant let them lead us while we bow our heads, avoid eye contact and speak only when spoken to" as some people seem to sugge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?I still don't understand where the issue is - it's committing ourselves to our man, Greasypoles comment doesn't seem to contradict that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?Thank you but there's no need, we're all pretty happy :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?im 28. you talk like a child You're here to debate not moan about how people talk, if you're using people's grammar or language against them it suggests you don't have a rebuttal to the actual discussion content...is that the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do you get mad at Red Pill Men but not Red Pill Women?What definition of RPW have the RPM given you, maybe we can add some clarity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?I don't mean to be a dick but you're kind of ignoring everyone's advice on here - why did you ask if you're just going to keep justifying his actions - either accept that you're not going to let him go, stay with him and stay in a relationship with 0 respect from him or dump his ass like everyone else is saying. I know you're closer to the situation and you're oh so involved an in love but that's why you ask people on the internet and the people on the internet can look in from the outside and s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/15 03:32 PM |
| 7 | RP: If a woman says she thinks muscles are gross and only likes scrawny nerds, what do you think of her?Yeah but still :( Some faces shouldn't be smushed into the ground by a giant green monster y'know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/15 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Your favorite fragrance?I normally like sweet and fruity or vanilla-y, my cheapo perfume (seriously it's like £3 ) is So...Sinful and it's quite sweet and citrus like. My "special" occasion perfume is Loverdose and that's a little more musky and always reminds me of moving into my university halls because they gave us a little sample. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/15 12:40 AM |
| 4 | RP: If a woman says she thinks muscles are gross and only likes scrawny nerds, what do you think of her?Hahahaha! Poor Loki :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 10:11 PM |
| 8 | RP: If a woman says she thinks muscles are gross and only likes scrawny nerds, what do you think of her?"cute" - Wash your mouth out with soap, that man is a god <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 09:55 PM |
| 0 | RP: If a woman says she thinks muscles are gross and only likes scrawny nerds, what do you think of her?Hm I think it can be both - Scrawny nerds might have a more preferable personality but the bulky guys win on physical attraction. Or it could be a phase, every girls goes through the Geekchic guy phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Both pills; What do you find attractive in a mate? What do you find sexually arousing?Generally attractive: Typical tall dark handsome although I've been appreciative of a good ginger or two lately. Quiet confidence - Those guys that don't have to do or say anything, just sit there and observe - don't ever ever boast or even mention about that time you totally shot another guy down, you sound like a douchebag. Doesn't try too hard to be funny, I'd rather someone who made no jokes than someone who made all of them and hoped one would be a hit, Introverted is best for me - I spend … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/15 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with Prejudices against RPW:( That's so awful, it's almost laughable how it's people like her on reddit calling us the intolerant ones. I know it's just the internet, we should ignore it and consider it meaningless but it is pretty upsetting to try to have any kind of conversation and get "yeah well you're part of red pill so you don't count" as if the way I conduct my own personal relationship has anything to do with them. I have an alt account now, mainly because I post stuff in the knitting sub with my face in it, but … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I fudged up by getting upset at SO forgetting our anniversaryslip-ups happen That they do, to each and everyone of us, we're only human and sometimes we feel things we just can't help- what matters is how you handle them and move on from them :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 11:37 AM |
| 2 | I think this is what I've been looking for.Welcome! :) It can take some getting used to, it's definitely a learning experience and we like to help, sometimes you'll make mistakes and slip up but we always value someone who can admit their mistakes and truly work towards fixing it, if you're willing to be honest and a little stern with yourself the rewards are numerous :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 10:52 AM |
| 1 | ConfidenceHonestly - I fake it 'til I make it - people see a confident person and they see all the good things about them, all the reasons they have to be confident and they think well of them, they don't know all the worries going through my head, eventually you start to notice and embrace the approving looks. Takes time but it's worth it. Another thing I keep in mind is this - nobody cares. They care about you as much as you care about them. When you see a randomer on the street and they're doing someth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Eating your veggiesSteam don't boil! Nice crunchy steamed veg hnnnnggg. Try putting veggies in things instead of just having them on the side of a place? Stuffed peppers/veggie pies? I'm also pretty bad at not eating the whole tub of hummus :P Just make sure to only put a spoonful on the plate and don't go back for more. Soups are good too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 10:36 AM |
| 2 | I fudged up by getting upset at SO forgetting our anniversaryI was expecting a full on screamy irrational meltdown, not much harm done here imo, you didn't even jump the gun and be bitchy with him or anything which is difficult when you're genuinely upset even over something unimportant - I think you did well apart from the obvious being upset in the first place. and now you've had this experience and come to the realization in the last paragraph you'll probably think about this next time you get upset and put it all in perspective, yay for learning curve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/15 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Both pills: What do you think about women who don't wear makeup?My general view on life is if it doesn't hurt anyone then I don't care. It's literally none of my business who wears make up and it would be a waste of my time to care, I wear it - quite a lot of it and that makes me happy so that's what I'll do. If someone was unhappy and wanted advice on how to look better then I would suggest a little make up at least, I don't think I've ever seen anyone who looks better natural than with a little well done make up but people who are naturally good looking or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What did you do today?Went to tesco for an MP3 player after mine went through the wash..oops. Put out a few loads of wasing - making the most of the washing line before winter sets in! Bought the final book in the series that I'm too sad to read because I don't want it to be over :( Started packing - back off to uni tomorrow for my final year. Dissertation research Wooooo prostitutes!! Caught up with Great British Bake Off <3 No, I don't think my pill has an impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/15 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do women need birth control to prevent pregnancy when they are only fertile for 3-5 days every cycle?It's really not that clear cut, sperm - if memory serves- can survive for up to 7 days in the vagina so that has to be taken into account in addition to the not uncommon occurrence of multiple eggs being released. It unlikely that you'll get pregnant outside of the 3-5 day range but absolutely in no way impossible. Some girls can't correctly take a bloody pill at the same time every day as it is let alone track their cycle, also there's the piece of mind to factor in, I just wouldn't have sex if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Are androgynous people attractive?Androgynous women are to me for some reason, My first girl crush was Annie Lennox. weird. Androgynous men - no, I like rugged hairy manly men rarrgghhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 07:50 PM |
| 2 | For all pills: What is terrible mistakes have you made in past relationships?It was "working for me" in the sense that I enjoyed the power I had over them and the validation that I was desirable and men, multiple men, would repeatedly change their ways just to please me. God I hated even typing that out. The change came from two things, probably intertwined, I got into a relationship with someone who just didn't take that shit, if I tried it I got shot down in an instant - not in a dickish or abusive way - and it worked and it made me respect him and along with that came… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 11:26 AM |
| 3 | For all pills: What is terrible mistakes have you made in past relationships?I was the epitome of what TRP hates. I was such a full of myself self-entitled little princess, I got my own way every.damn.time, I managed to turn every argument around and come out as the victim, I took everything and gave nothing back then got bored, dumped them using some kind of vague get out clause and was with someone else the next week - even worse by TRP standards I imagine is that I refused sexual contact - at least "sluts" have their uses, it could have been almost worthwhile if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 10:58 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There are no 8+ guys on TRPNuh uh - no hairy chest = permanently stuck at 7 at the absolute best also no facial hair, do not want :( In response to actual thing - I'm on the fence, just because guys are hot doesn't mean they don't have to put up with girls bullshit and t any thus be turned towards RP for help, on the other hand, guys that look like that picture don't need any help getting women so RP would be useless. I'm not in any place to make a random guess about what the guys on TRP look like - probably all average a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 10:45 AM |
| 1 | [Poll] Ladies of RPW: 3 questions for you on Kids, Living Together, and MarriageI'm 21 and intending to stay single for a year or two and just work on myself after an almost constant stream of romantic encounters (most not involving sexual contact) 1) Do you want to be married to you SO and how important is it to you? Would you accept not being married, but otherwise in a committed LTR with the 'right' man? I would prefer to be, It's pretty important in my mind that we be a legally recognised unit, I want to have his name and carry on his family but it's not the be all and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/15 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Vegan ladies, I need some advice for my non-vegan husband.Honestly, I say cook meat for him, I'm a vegetarian and I still cook meat for my family for almost every meal - it's not our place to force our dietary choices on other people, they're not vegetarians, they don't want to be vegetarians and so they're not making a point to replace the nutrients we'd be forcing them to miss out on. Eating a vegan/vegetarian diet is a pretty massive lifestyle choice which they haven't made - why force it on them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/15 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Hypocrisy of Opposition to Legalized ProstitutionIt was new to me too, I've only done a little research so far so I'm not sure how popular an opinion it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/15 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Hypocrisy of Opposition to Legalized ProstitutionI think this is an interesting topic, I'm about to start my dissertation on the legalisation and regulation of prostitution and so far it seems that people aren't opposed to prostitution itself but the safety issues and the risk of exploitation by brothel managers, there's also mention of tax implications - some people consider it "vulgar" to impose tax on prostitution even if it becomes a legitimate profession. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/15 10:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about this red pill post about single mothers?That in itself is an opinion I didn't say i couldn't give an opinion, I said I can't give an unbiased one. It's still not a post that can really be debated..there are no substantial points, nothing backed up, nothing real to rebut...I think he's wrong but that means nothing in a debate, I think he's more than wrong, I think the whole post is laughably pathetic nonsense but I think that based on anecdotal "evidence" other than that he hasn't given anything to argue against. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/15 10:23 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about this red pill post about single mothers?It's hard to give an unbiased opinion when I was raised brilliantly by a single mother but I don't thing it's wrong to say that no - single mothers are not all bad, married mothers are not all bad, single/married fathers are not all bad and neither are they all good - some people are cunts. This isn't really a post worth responding to, it's just anger and unsubstantiated nonsense, it's not really debate material. but most the time he was a horny guy begged not to use a condom and told she was on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about RP women?these 'men' they enter relationships with are abusive stubborn domineering POS who don't care about them If you're going to insult our loved ones please be prepared to back it up, you're not just saying random stuff on the internet here, you're running your mouth insulting the lives and loves of real people so either you're not thinking before you speak or you're really not a nice person at all..which is it? Perhaps you should focus on your own life rather than getting so emotionally outraged at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about RP women?RP women welcome to participate too, of course. Everytime someone says this I think "oh shit,what if they're right and I've just been fooled...well that's embarassing!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about RP women?I don't go over there much atm but the only thing I really see in relation to female dread game is simply that we are women and that is dread enough in itself, a woman can go very very very wrong in life and still have a number of male pursuers so if a woman is going very very very well in life she'll have an extortionate number of options so maybe that's what it was relating to - if she treats her man well then he knows that she's "high quality" and could have any number of men at the click of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 12:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about RP women?Give me a definition of harming the family- are my children at risk? My first instinct is to try couples counselling/talk to him ask him what's happening- give him the benefit of the doubt and some time for us both to work it out together. If the issue is simply that he doesn't want to lead then we can come to a compromise and share the responsibilities, if the issue is that he's refusing to get a job, lazing around on the sofa all day and still expecting to be catered to then I leave.. it reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 12:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about RP women?It's only inevitable if that party with the power is a total douchenozzle, the whole premise of RPW is finding a good, trustworthy man who uses that power for the betterment of both partners lives, we have told women on the sub when their man is a dickbag not worthy of their trust, the last thing we would encourage is women letting themselves be abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 12:39 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about RP women?We don't think it will make them change at all, we think trying to change your man is wrong and you should find someone you don't want to change. We know that treating a man well will make him stay....that's not RPW advice that's "don't be a dick to the people in your life" advice. If you treat someone badly you're going to lose them..even blue pills know that. The "treating him well" stuff comes from the fact that many RPW go for men who know that they can get many women...if you treat a man wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 12:35 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about RP women?RP women welcome to participate too, of course. Woohoo! I've said this before, but the most infuriating things blue pill says about us are 1) that we're in a constant kink relationship and 2) we're brainwashed doormats. Both things just piss me off so much because it's rude and it's just plain nonsense, I sometimes wonder if they think we're crawling around our house on our hands and knees, never looking our man in the eye and just repeating "yes sir" I think it says a lot about someone who thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 12:31 PM |
| 4 | How do I ask him to drive slower without looking bitchy/starting a fight?Fear of car accidents isn't irrational, they happen a lot, multiple times every day and they can kill people - all it takes is one speed freak. You have absolutely no obligation to spend any time with him fearing for your well being. Like other people in this sub, I would just tell him that sometimes the speed he's going scares you and let him bring you the solution. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/15 10:52 AM |
| 2 | If you're a man, and married (now or future you) would you get a vasectomy/vasalgel etc or expect your wife to get a tubal ligation?I'm not saying he wasn't a shithead about it, he probably was I'm saying that she did have the option to say no and she should have. He's the main one in the wrong, like i've been saying this whole time neither partner should expect or force the other to do anything in regards to precautions..but one of them does need to be willing be it the man or the woman. It's wrong to expect the woman to go through it. It's wrong to expect the man to go through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 05:18 PM |
| 2 | If you're a man, and married (now or future you) would you get a vasectomy/vasalgel etc or expect your wife to get a tubal ligation?No, because she will have spent years and years on contraceptives. That's already a burden. If he has no part in contraception, then he has no part. It's really not a burden for most girls though, one pill a day with very few issues, that is the norm and in my mind 100x better than asking someone I love to go through surgery. And relationships aren't some silly little tit-for-tat agreement, if something has to be done then work out how to do it like adults not "I did [this] last time so you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 11:33 AM |
| 2 | How much makeup do you wear? How much makeup does your SO prefer you to wear?My SO is kind enough to tell me I look beautiful regardless, he likes that I can go without make up around him but he also likes that I try to look pretty for him. I usually wear quite a bit even for my "natural" looks but he says it's fine because it's well done :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/15 11:15 AM |
| 2 | If you're a man, and married (now or future you) would you get a vasectomy/vasalgel etc or expect your wife to get a tubal ligation?The point is someone needs to do something, in a fair and equal relationship it's not right to demand the other one to do it, the decision not to have children is a mutual one and the means of ensuring that also need to be mutually agreed. If you're both absolutely refusing to do anything then you can a) keep risking pregnancy again, b) stop having sex, c) break up because you're both immature children who wont budge. Someone needs to make the sacrifice, to expect it or be resentful is going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 11:07 AM |
| 3 | If you're a man, and married (now or future you) would you get a vasectomy/vasalgel etc or expect your wife to get a tubal ligation?but can't understand why any man would expect his wife to. He did say "it was either her or nothing" I take'nothing' to mean neither of them have a procedure, so he wasn't expecting her to get it done, just saying that he absolutely wouldn't and if she absolutely wouldn't then neither of them would. But I may have misunderstood that. I personally would never ever ever expect my future husband to get a vasectomy or vasalgel and I would never get my tubes tied, I've spent 6 years on the pill alrea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers: If AWALT, why do you prefer non-sluts over sluts for LTR's?I don't mean to be a dick but....are you just here to be a dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Redpillers: If AWALT, why do you prefer non-sluts over sluts for LTR's?all women are koala bears. In some parts of Australia around 90% of the Koalas have chlamydia. I'm not making an AWALT/NAWALT argument (although I'm sure someone could) I just think it's a funky little fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 09:25 AM |
| 7 | Question for Women of BOTH pills.Some women are disadvantaged in some ways, some men are disadvantaged in some ways. Humans are subject to disadvantages. And it's an awful view to have, why even bother if you think that you're going to lose out on basis of your gender? Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy to me. Disadvantaged in every way? absolutely not and whoever said that has some kind of victim mentality, Being a woman is wonderful I think. I think we have fewer disadvantages than advantages or...non...disadvantages, God… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/15 09:14 AM |
| 1 | For men who are obsessed with late teenage girls, what happens when the 18 year old ages out?Cheating involves deception and breach of trust, if she's happy for them to see other people then it's not cheating. I'm on the same page as you, I'd never want my SO seeing other people but that's personal preference, some people are fine with it and it helps their relationship, as long as it's all consensual and honest I don't see the issue with people doing what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | For men who are obsessed with late teenage girls, what happens when the 18 year old ages out?It's probably not every woman's worst nightmare, I'm sure there are many out that who love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/15 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Are there people who, no matter how much they desire it, will not find satisfying, loving romantic relationships?I think people looking for satisfying, loving romantic relationships are the ones who wont get them, because they're not falling in love with someone and choosing to be with them, they're looking for a relationship and noticing every flaw that taints it, the person is not their love, the relationship is and I think that's where they go wrong. You'll make allowances and sacrifices for the one you love and end up happier in the long term but you wont do that for a person who is only the means to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/15 10:10 AM |
| 3 | What pill would you want your children to stand by closest?I would want mine to be pretty neutral I think, it doesn't take certain pill to be a good, decent person who treats others with respect but knows when to stand up for themselves and that's what I'd want for them. If they choose to have a traditional relationship, or a thoroughly equal one or one where the woman rules, I don't care as long as it all happy and consensual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/15 10:00 AM |
| 3 | InnocenceI do but I've never taken it as a negative, I certainly don't see it as one, it usually seems to be endearing. The negative version would be "frigid." | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Nothing I do satisfies him. He won't communicate.Sounds like a dick to me. In red pill speak : not a good captain, how can he lead your lives when he can't carry a damn box upstairs without moaning. And you shouldn't be with someone who actively makes you feel like crap - what the hell is that about? I know we can be strict around here but jeeeesus we want everyone to be happy and in love in good relationships! Number 3 just makes no sense, I don't know what this man's problem is but I'm not sure it should be your problem too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Let's all understand each other: Blue Pill, Red Pill, No PillGender, continent, and looks (optional) Female, Europe (UK), usually pretty average, can probably hit 7/10 with good make up. Post your pill (or lack thereof) Mostly red with the occasional point of disagreement Explain your view point in a few sentences. Women have stopped treating their men well, stopped being deserving of good treatment and yet come to expect to be treated like a princess just because - this needs to stop. Women need to worship their men and and revel in the delightful happy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Lack of sex for men EQUALS bad sex/chore sex for women? Discuss.I'm honestly inclined to agree, if sex has become a chore then it ends up just...awful, we don't get "ready" for it and it hurts, the addition of lube solves the pain but then what? great we just have something hammering at our vagina. wooooondeful. however I think it can be solved with better sex, if the sex was truly good enough to be enjoyable then even with a low sex drive she'd still happily participate, if she orgasms every time or nearly every time and enjoyed it every time then what reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why can't women find nice guys anyway?It's not remotely hard to find a nice guy, they're everywhere, we just aren't as interested in nice guys as we say they are so we end up ignoring them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Trp ruins another marriage?People don't like change, he's shifted the dynamic to something that doesn't immediately and outwardly benefit her - I'm not surprised she's feeling the way she is. I do believe red pill works but...not always in the right way, even if it works and makes her stop acting like a child she obviously isn't going to like having affection withheld, it's horrible and can go too far. Yes withholding affection is fine when she's being a dick and doesn't deserve affection but what's to stop him doing it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Using a Period cup grounds for breakup?Hehe, I imagine you saying this around a campfire with a flashlight under your chin "and then...when she looked again there were CHUNKS!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/15 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Using a Period cup grounds for breakup?Do you mean "carry around" as in literally...hold it..in our hands...all day...? You think we walk around all day every day for a week with an open cup of blood in our hands/bags? How often do you see that occurring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/15 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about parentsWhen you grew up, did your parents have an equal relationship or was there a power dynamic? They divorced before I was born so I never saw them together but my mum and her husband who raised me since birth were pretty equal. Did your parents teach you any red pill truths, blue pill truths or anything about dating at all? If not, from where did you get your knowledge about dating? Nope, nothing from either side, learned everything by myself if I went wrong then my mum would always be there for a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/15 04:15 PM |
| 5 | AMA; I am a married prostitute working in a brothel in Australia.some men post online about sex workers who will accept rough treatment, including being thrown around, hair pulled and slapped etc. And men who want that will go see those sex workers. I found that really, really confronting. Are those guys rapists in training? (Just a rhetorical question. I don't think anyone can answer that.) I can see how you made the connection but isn't that a really cruel assumption? Rough sex isn't rape, a man who enjoys rough sex isn't a rapist and a woman who enjoys it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/15 09:47 AM |
| 2 | AMA; I am a married prostitute working in a brothel in Australia.No. I've offered before, he is not interested. He is okay with my work because he finds it easy to separate the two. He knows work is work, of course he gets jealous sometimes but it's very rarely. How do you deal with it when he gets jealous? Obviously most girls go for "there's nothing going on, you have nothing to worry about" which isn't exactly an option! Thanks for doing an ama, I find it really interesting :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/15 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Question for redpillers (and rpw) who believe in LTRs... Do restrictions on travel apply to men as well?There have been a few threads on cheating SO's and the vast majority of us say it's a deal breaker from either side, being agreeable does not make us doormats. And I'd say that being exactly what our man wants us to be reduces the chances of cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/15 09:52 PM |
| 14 | Question for redpillers (and rpw) who believe in LTRs... Do restrictions on travel apply to men as well?Firstly I'd have a strong issue with anyone who tried to stop me going on holiday. And it'd go both ways, either of us can travel wherever we like as long as it doesn't get in the way of the relationship but it is common courtesy to check with the other partner - making sure they don't have any couple things planned/making sure they're okay alone for a while, things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD debate: How many times have you been so turned on by a random stranger that you strongly considered casual sex with him?I think some do but over at RPW we advise against "putting out" until we're in an exclusive, secure relationship :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/15 01:23 AM |
| 11 | Are there any RedPill ideas you disagree with?I disagree with the idea that it's the "right" thing to do. I don't think sleeping around is wrong, I think it's wrong for me, I don't think feminism is wrong, I think it's wrong for me, I certainly don't think a high partner count will stop people having successful relationships with the right person, I don't really think the vast majority of people care much about partner count until it gets into the really high numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/15 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD debate: How many times have you been so turned on by a random stranger that you strongly considered casual sex with him?Noo, it's been a few months since the second date and I didn't actually have sex with him on that date I just knew that if I was ever going to have casual sex it'd be with him. That didnt make much sense did it - I feel like I need to know someone well and be close to them before having sex, if I didn't feel that way and was fine with casual sex he'd still be the only person that had me close to considering it, so my answer would probably be one if he can be considered a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD debate: How many times have you been so turned on by a random stranger that you strongly considered casual sex with him?I've never wanted any kind of casual sex with a stranger and I've always been in relationships for about 4 months before having sex with them until the current guy, I could barely contain myself by the 2nd date. I'm committing a serious redpill faux pas by having sex with him despite not having the relationship label, we're exclusive and agreed not to see anyone else, we're basically in a relationship in all but the name. I find it weird that I don't regret it for a second, I've always despised … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Rate yourself physically out of 10probably a 5 or 6 without my hair or makeup done...obviously higher with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/15 09:57 AM |
| 9 | reds: what was the tipping point that lead you to becoming red?For me it was when my last boyfriend didn't put me on a pedestal, didn't give me what I wanted just because I wanted it...and I realised that I was expecting these things, in previous relationships I said jump, they said how high. I was pretty disgusted to learn that I basically expected to be loved and wanted regardless of my behaviour, I expected to win arguments and be in the right, I expected to turn on the waterworks and get my way...it was a horrbile horrible realisation that I was so horr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | My husband says it "takes too long for me to cum". Now I feel like a bad wife. What should I do?Certainly don't feel like a bad wife! There isn't a right or wrong way or time and for him to put you under that kind of pressure seems unfair and would certainly put me off. The only Advice I can give is to stop using your vibrator, even if its not desensitising you, you might still have formed a "I can only finish with this" mindset. Spend some time alone and with him figuring out how to help you orgasm without it, have some fun with each other and see what happens - don't think of it as some … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/15 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: why is being nice to your man considered old fashioned?Yes actually. There's plenty of us with top-of-the-ladder-careers, some who are the breadwinners, some who don't want to have children and be homemakers, some who still want to keep working regardless of what happens, some who are/have been/will be stay at home mums. We don't give a shit what you're doing as long as you're respecting and loving your man and keeping his needs in mind even if that means sacrifcing our own for the good fo the relationship...how controversial of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Women, do you really like romantic, sensitive, Non-"Red Pill" (Masculine) Men?It's a horribly frustrating balancing act for me, someone who is incredibly eager makes me feel like maybe he'd go for anyone and is just trying his luck with me, someone who is superior, over confident, dread gaming etc and isn't interested well...why would I bother? I want someone who wants me. There needs to be a nice in between, I think I need to feel like I'm with someone who has other options but wants to be with me, I don't mean using dread here - if you're desireable to other women then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Question for women of PPD: how much of your sex life is "performance?"In previous relationships it's always been about performance, doing it because he wants to do it, feeling like I had to do it because he wanted it and as a result I'd say it did have the potential to lead to a dead bedroom, one because the woman doesn't want it and thefore doesnt initiate and two because her partner can tell she's not enjoying it and so doesn't want to push it. More recently, as I've gotten into a sex life that suits my tastes it's been pure enjoyment, enjoyment of the sex and e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Being emotional, the good wayThere was a recent askreddit thread about the saddest thing people have witnesses. Oh my god. I'm not even that weepy and my face was just leaking for hours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/15 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Marrying young when you don’t know what you want or who you are?No doubt, I'm not sure I could manage it! Very admirable I think :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Marrying young when you don’t know what you want or who you are?haha! Well clearly it works! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Is beating women always "loss of frame" ?I don't mean good in the moral sense I mean... skilled. Good at being alpha, good at being a desirable man. Would you say its better to be actually wanted or to create the illusion of desire despite knowing it's fake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Marrying young when you don’t know what you want or who you are?Christ, you've been through a lot! It's lovely to see you both work so hard at sticking together, it couldn't have been easy, were there many points where you were genuinely close to separating or did you always know you'd work through it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Is beating women always "loss of frame" ?I think it is perfectly moral to manipulate and gaslight a woman. Does a good alpha man really need to manipulate or gaslight a woman though? If our attraction to you stems from confusion/false information etc then maaaayybe you're really not that great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Are women aware of males that are attracted to them if nothing is spoken?But if you are more upfront you'll get moaned at for being rude/crass/too forward ;) and if you're not more upfront you're moaned at for not making the first move. Yaay! nobody wins :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Are women aware of males that are attracted to them if nothing is spoken?I can tell quite easily, the issue is rejecting their advances when they've been subtle. reject the advances - "oh my god what? Stop being so full of yourself I just wanted coffee" don't reject them - "jesus, you've lead me on all this time, it was obvious that I wasn't just being friendly" ¬.¬ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Why is RPW sub not open to being critical of men?Because we know that a lot of issues are either cause by us or could be solved by us and its much easier to change our own view than his. It's also disrespectful to bitch about our men, I hate hate hate listening to girls bitch and moan about their SO, it's one of my biggest pet peeves, it just reeks of disloyalty. I think women would be utterly shocked by the difference if they stopped moaning about her man, stopped blaming him and started appreciating him...basically treat him like a human rat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?I think I already answered that up there ^ somewhere but it's not really relevant to the thread :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?Haha wow, I don't think I'd go that far. I think I told him I'm going to burn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?I haven't been given any cause to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?Honestly I don't think it's relevant to this thread and in this sub I've written paragraph upon paragraph of my issues with modern women...It's a lot to explain but the shortest version I can come up with is that we are lazy and self entitled, unwilling to consider other people emotions before our own and vastly over-estimate ourselves and what we deserve from our men. Of course not nearly all women fit this description but it is unfortunately my default assumption of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/15 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?I intensely dislike my past self but have vastly improved...I can still very much be as dislikeable as I find modern women if I don't keep myself in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/15 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?I believe there would be cause for people to call me misogynistic but it's not entirely true. I have a general dislike for modern women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/15 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill, what are your thoughts on "blue pill" success stories?There's no reason at all to not believe them, there isn't a "right" way to be happy, if their relationship works for them and makes them happy then they should keep doing what they're doing. Despite being very much in charge, the guy I'm seeing at the moment is a self professed active feminist and I'm basically a misogynist...it's an odd mix but it works and we're happy doing what we're doing...until he makes me wear his "crush the patriarchy shirt" again because he has a sick sense of humour :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill Women: Do you agree with asktrp mod Aerobus' opinions on women? Or do you think he is wrong?Yup, I try my absolutely best to avoid being like that but I'm not a special snowflake, I have my flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/15 10:40 AM |
| 12 | BP women, can you relate to this RPW's comment? BP men, would you want a SO like this?RPW is a good way to get women killed. ... What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/15 12:00 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Women: Do you agree with asktrp mod Aerobus' opinions on women? Or do you think he is wrong?yep. Mostly agree. A lot of those traits do apply to most women to some extent, I extremely dislike the modern woman and the people who taught us it's okay to act the way we do. Almost every time I hear a female friend complain about the current man in her life I think the issues are her fault and could be resolved by her shutting up and realising that her poor little emotions are not the priority. The last quote Most women are useless. They are physically inferior, intellectually inferior, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/15 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Who should pay for dates?Wouldn't bother me otherwise I wouldn't have offered :) It's important to me that I don't come across as taking advantage or just wanting a free date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/15 08:16 AM |
| 3 | Who should pay for dates?I offer to pay - if he says no then I suggest we split, if he says no then I let him pay and then take in turns for each date. If he still refuses to let me pay then I shut up and be grateful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/15 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a late bloomer looking to get into online dating?I have on mine. I've stated that I'm only in the area for a few months before moving back to uni and so anything long term probably isn't possible but I also don't have casual sex at all, I didn't want to lead anyone on. Put it in there but be aware that a lot of people aren't even reading your profile so you'll still get some rubbish, ignore and delete. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/15 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Are there any other Autism Spectrum ladies here?sometimes he goes off on a speech about certain topics and I can tell he has a hard time stopping himself. I don't mentally check out. I listen and ask questions so it feels more like a dialogue and that usually helps him calm down and end his monologue. I like this, it's one of the areas I never managed to grasp, I just couldn't sit and engage with these long winded conversations that meant nothing to me, I wanted to and I did truly try but I never managed to communicate it to him. I think I ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/15 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Are there any other Autism Spectrum ladies here?My ex was on the spectrum, it came with its difficulties but ultimately it fell into the list of better traits, I like that we could just be straightforward with each other. In the end though my inability to communicate in ways he understood and to make him feel understood played a heavy part in our breaking up. I do really hope he finds someone better suited to dealing with it, it must be really incredibly difficult to feel so isolated from everyone else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/15 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!I do love a pink smoky eye, I just need to get a softer pink, mines a little harsh! I tend to put a little sparkly stuff over the top as well and now people call me the pixie! I've never thought of using purple as though, I'll try it out :D Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Five thingsI think outwardly showing respect for him would be number one, same for trust and appreciation and love...everything's number one! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Taking husband's last name. Feminists say no. What's your take on it?absolutely 100% take his name and if I had an SO who didn't want to marry I'd happily have my last name legally changed to his. It means a lot to me to have a solid family unit. I've had male friends say they'd never marry a woman unwilling to take his name so it clearly means a lot to them too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/15 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!My mum's advice is - whenever you leave a room, put something away, even if you're only passing through the room or going in quickly for something, on your way out put something away. helps me quite a bit :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/15 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Week of 5/17: Weekly Goal Thread!So i managed to go all of last week without fizzy drinks or sweets, has some seeeerious cravings but I've figured if I managed one week, I can do another! so 1) no sweets or fizzy drinks, I may be lenient on the fizzy drinks on Thursday because I'm going on a night out and vodka and coke is the drink of choice! 2) Try to find some natural make up looks, I usually go for a fairly heavy brown smokey eye and I think it's a little...intimidating maybe? I want to find a nice, pretty look for my night… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/15 12:05 PM |
| 2 | What advice would you give to someone whose partner cheated?Leave for all. Nothing more, just leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/15 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Birthdays: How do you make your SO feel special?In my experience Love Coupons go down very well :) little hand made "coupons" with "good for one massage" "good for a list of 10 reasons why i love you" "good for breakfast in bed " good for any meal on me!" and some sexy ones in there too. They can be used whenever so it's a little treat that carries on after his birthday and is good as a reminder of your love every so often :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/15 05:48 PM |
| 10 | [Happy Update] Not my boyfriend's typeI'm really trying to just say that I'm happy for you and I hope things work out but it's just not genuine because I can't help put feel you're shooting yourself in the foot! You seem like a lovely person and I just feel like you could do better than this man who appears to have no regard for your feelings... nobody in a relationship should speak of someone else the way he spoke of her to you, it's just....absent minded at best! I saw your post about your scars and I wont lie, I have no doubt the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/15 05:45 PM |
| 3 | As a woman, have you ever been turned on by a man boasting about the number of women he's had sex with?Certainly not boasting about it, that just seems ridiculous and I'm less incline to believe him. I'm generally unimpressed by any hint of boasting about an active sex life. However, when there's just something about him, just an air of confidence that makes it obvious he doesn't struggle if he's looking to pick up women - that's much much more effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/15 10:49 AM |
| 29 | [Happy Update] Not my boyfriend's typeI apologise if this is unwarranted but....OP what are you doing? This guy sounds....low...lowest of the low! I'm not talking captain abilities and SMV and all that jargon I'm talking basic human being low, does he have even an iota of respect for you? Or even a sliver of common sense or self respect? You've just had to convince your SO that he doesn't have a crush on a weird horse porn lover and he was reluctant to let the crush go. I don't want to over step my boundaries so congratulations on t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/15 10:20 AM |
| 13 | [Update] Ghosts of Boyfriends PastGood field report although perhaps not quite there yet, like many of us. If I may offer a sliver of advice regarding the 4th point - just because you have a thought, doesn't mean it needs to be said out loud, don't ruin a good thing by adding an unnecessary negativity. I say this not just in regard to this sub but in your relationship and in life, stick to the good! Spread cheer and happiness and avoid negativity unless absolutely necessary to better something. If I remember correctly you receiv… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/15 03:31 PM |
| 8 | What do you think of r/RedPillWomenBecause when women moan about their relationships there often is plenty of blame to go round the woman will always have faults, as will the man It very often is a mountain out of a molehill as are a lot of issues people complain about They're not taking care of his needs leading to dissatisfaction and then they complain that he's not taking care of her needs, leading to her dissatisfaction. if none of the above are true then there's probably a real issue that she needs help with. We don't think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 11:35 AM |
| 9 | What do you think of r/RedPillWomenI think the tough love comment is somewhat more on the mark (but I suppose I'm heavily biased.) To a new comer, yes it does often sound harsh and snide but a big point of RPW, I feel, is that women have spent their whole lives being coddled, being told it's okay, everything will be fine, you should do what you want etc etc etc. Our point is no - it's not okay and if you want change you need to look at yourself in the cold hard light of day, validation doesn't help you change it helps justify wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Why isn't prostitution legal ?For the record, here in the UK prostitution IS legal, solicitation isn't. It perfectly fine to have a sex for money arrangement you just can't approach people on the street or blatantly advertise it, it's considered an offence to public morality. Brothels (or "keeping a disorderly house") are also illegal. I'm doing my dissertation on making the laws more lenient and regulating it, from the little research I've done so far people seem to be mostly for it, it's the safety of the prostitutes that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 7 | Week of 5/10: Weekly Goal Thread!'ve let myself go after being dumped, not hugely, I'm defintely not fat but I'm not what I used to be and my self esteem has plummeted beyond words so I'm putting an end to that right now! Go for a walk every day and do little runs when I feel I can, I can't run properly anymore because I have some major messed up legs but that's not an excuse to do nothing. No sweets/ fizzy drinks at all for a week. ReviseReviseRevise, I've got a big exam next week and I'm bricking myself but if I just revise p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/15 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Hopefully I'm preaching to the converted but this popped up on my FB and thought I'd pass it onI completely agree, I know there's tonnes of things that wives and girlfriends do wrong (unfortunately) but complaining about their SO is one of my biggest pet peeves. It just reeks of disloyalty! The people who I've said this to try to defend it as well! "sometimes you need to get something small of your chest" - if it's small then it's not important shut up and keep it to yourself. "but sometimes it's really upsetting and they need to talk about it" - If it's that big an issue, shut up and res… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/15 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Having the Captain, but not the marriage.One of you is going to have to make the sacrifice and I don't see think either of you should feel bent into giving up on what you want, you've both got perfectly valid reasons to stand your ground but that isn't going to solve the problem, eventually one of you is going to have to give up or you'll both have to split up. I understand both sides perfectly, I don't envy your position. Personally I think that if you really truly love him and plan to spend the rest of your life with him then you sho… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/15 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Do you hate RPW too?Unless you are the type of person who can have sex without any sort of feelings attached Did you miss that bit? If you're okay with casual sex then it wont apply to you and you're fine but for those of us who require serious attachment before sexual involvement it actually does feel shit. Our partner count becomes a running total of all the people we've deeply felt for and things haven't worked out with, it's kind of horrible so it's not "cute" at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Do you hate RPW too?I find it amazing how many people think that RPW is an unintentional dom/sub thing, what do you think we're doing all day? We're not taking orders, getting on our knees and chanting " yes sir". We're in perfectly ordinary relationships where we've chosen to place unwavering trust in someone we love and believe can do best for the relationship, we've chosen to stay calm, rational and collected when our emotions go into overdrive, we've chosen to go through our relationships and ensure that our me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, my captain cheated on me and I'm not sure how to proceedAs if the cheating isnt enough of a reason to end thing, he drove drunk! He put his life, this woman's life and the the lives of everyone he passed on the road at risk. He could have killed multiple people, that's not something you take lightly! This man is not a man you want making decisions for you, one night out to meet a friend isn't hard to do and yet he managed to fuck it up so badly that he cheated and risked people's lives! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/15 05:43 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendYeah, the hurt is unavoidable unfortunately, which is shit when it's wasted on someone like this! but you're absolutely right, why put in all the effort to be high quality LTR material if he's going to be orbiting all over some woman he'll never have and who most people seem to dislike! Find someone worth the effort! and what kind of man sits there gushing all these compliments and justifications for some other girl right in front of his girlfriend?! Add that to the fact that he said "we're not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/15 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you gals deal with the Elephant in the Room?I make it clear from the outset that I don't have sex outside of a long term relationship, I don't bullshit or try to cover anything up I tell them outright that there will be no sex until we've been official for a good few months, there's no set amount of time but I do show that they'll be waiting. If they stick around then obviously I've peaked their interest in another way - great, I get to showing them why they should want me and why they should commit with the added bonus of eventual sex. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/15 09:58 AM |
| 5 | [Update] Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendDefinitelty sounds like the right decision, of course it's a lot easier said than done, try to keep in mind that conversation and how turned off you were and it should make it a little easier. He can say he's not into her all he likes but defending her so avidly when everyone else sees a reason to avoid her is just ridiculous and plainly illogical. In your first post I could see how there was little wrong with his travelling but this thing with her isn't about the travelling it's about providing… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/15 09:44 AM |
| 2 | What's the RPW way to get over a breakup?I think you definitely need to stop talking to him again, his having a girlfriend is really not going to help matters at all, just talking to him will be giving you a little jolt of happiness which might not be that obvious but it'll be addictive and that's only going to hinder your moving on. I know it's hard and you miss him and enjoy his company but now is not the right time, you need to do the painful stuff now and it'll pay off in the future :) It has gotten easier for me, I miss the little… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/15 03:43 PM |
| 2 | What's the RPW way to get over a breakup?Firstly cut all contact with the ex down to the bare necessary minimum, if there's no reason to talk to them then don't. Feel what you need to feel but don't let it take over. Try to keep a routine, get up every morning, get dressed and made up even if you're not going out. Having been broken up with about a month ago my routine is get up, get dressed, get my make up on, go for a walk, get some uni work done and maybe watch a few tv episodes. I make a point to spend time with my friends so I'm n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/15 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendSounds like you know what needs to be done, I hope it all works out for you, it is a horrible position you've been put in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/15 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female Friendhe would definitely not be okay with me going on a trip with a guy. That's the bit that important, if he thinks there's a reason he wouldn't be okay with you going on a trip with a guy then I can't see any reason for him to expect you to be okay with the reverse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendEven knowing her work schedule he could have asked, she'd have plenty of time to book time off work/save up, they're not going to until December but I think that in itself is a good enough reason not to ask, after just 5 months together I wouldn't want to make plans for something so big that isn't happening for so long. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Both pills: what do you actually look like?I'm 21, 5'4 125lbs carrying most of it on my hips, fairly small waist and lacking in the boob department, pretty much as pear shaped as they come. Curly hair - pretty long just down to my lower back, naturally brown but dyed black. Very pale skin, blue eyes. I have a very girly sense of fashion, usually only wearing skirts and tea dresses but it's pretty windy where I live so sometimes i have to wear leggings and a long top, I'm usually in something that's fitted at the waist but then flares out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/15 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendYeah, I'd wait until you've had a little time to calm down :) I wish I could be more helpful in suggesting how to talk to him but you are in a difficult position, technically there is no real reason he shouldn't go on holiday with friends but at the same time it is pretty much an unwritten rule that you just don't do that when you're in a relationship no matter the level of trust it's just a disrespectful gesture in itself. I'm sure he'd be less than thrilled if you were staying round a male fri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/15 10:30 PM |
| 8 | Boyfriend's Travel Plans with Female FriendI'm going to be the dissenting opinion here and say that just because they're travelling together, doesn't mean they'll be bonking each others brains out but you should verify that they'll be in separate hotel rooms and each paying for their own expenses etc. Friends go on holiday together all the time and contrary to popular belief the opposite sexes can be in each others presence for extended times without screwing. Yeah he might sleep with her. He might already be sleeping with her. He might … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/15 10:10 PM |
| 6 | I really can't get over this "oneitis" syndrome. X-Post from /r/asktrpCut him out of your life completely, delete him from everything. eventually you'll be thinking of him less and less until he's just a memory. You are absolutely not going to get over him while still in contact with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/15 11:34 AM |
| 2 | I[24F]Broke up with my SO[26M] of 3 years. Here's what I'm going to do, i want more perspectives.It's gonna hurt for a while, let yourself feel what you need to feel and know that it absolutely wont feel awful forever :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/15 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I[24F]Broke up with my SO[26M] of 3 years. Here's what I'm going to do, i want more perspectives.Rather than thinking of it as 3 wasted years that you could have saved realised that now you have the opportunity to save the rest of your life, to improve for the better. I hated thinking that I'd lost the future I was meant to have with my ex but it isn't lost at all, You have an amazing opportunity to start again with a clean slate, keep the lessons you've learned in mind and make your future better than it was ever going to be with him. Be excited instead of sad :) Happiness will help you mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/15 11:51 PM |
| 1 | SO wants me to get into video games.I think it's good advice, I was once told that my absolute abysmal attempts at playing pool were endearing and "cute". Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself and get into it. Honestly when you're terrible it's good because you can bond over him teaching you, when you're good at it it's still good because you can bond over a mutual interest, win-win :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/15 11:40 PM |
| 8 | I[24F]Broke up with my SO[26M] of 3 years. Here's what I'm going to do, i want more perspectives.I say work on yourself and forget about going back to him, which I know isn't the answer that you want but i feel like I'm talking from experience, although I'm younger than you so I hope I don't come across patronising. I was in the same situation, broke up last year and given a nice long list of my flaws, after being an emotional wreck who couldn't leave the house I managed to get him back, I exhausted myself trying to improve only to be dumped a month ago, completely out the blue ( for me, ob… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/15 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Women: Being in a relationship with a man that wants to be a stay-at-home dadWell my plan is to have any divorce issues settled in a pre-nup whereby we both keep what is ours and amicably split the rest, although that might be some serious naivety. The biggest issue of I'd have is the greater custody of the children, I've always known that being a mother is my biggest dream in life so i think giving up custody of them would destroy me but I'd like to think i'll do what's best for them and if that's custody with him then so be it. Chances are, in my future, he will have p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/15 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Women: Being in a relationship with a man that wants to be a stay-at-home dadIf my wage was the only way we'd be able to live comfortably then yes, I'd accept it but i do think it would affect my attractant to him. If money were no issue then no I'd rather not. I love the thought of welcoming my man home after a day at work, to help him relax, cook him dinner, I love the idea of sending him off to work with a homemade lunch and making sure he comes back to a tidy house and happy kids. I think those things come from a nurturing nature which I don't find particularly panty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/15 11:56 AM |
| 1 | I am not my boyfriend's type, what should I do?It sounds like the issue isn't that you aren't his type but more that you aren't her and that's never going to change. Is he actually as fixated on her as you make it sound or is it actually you who is fixated on her. When he says he likes your height and your short hair does he say it's because it's like hers or do you make that connection yourself? I'm in awe that any man would talk about an unrequited love and compare his SO to her like this.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/15 10:19 PM |
| 2 | What is your daily makeup routine?I actually wear a fair bit of make up but it still only takes about 10 minutes to do once you get the hang of it. I say the most important things for me are 1) a nice base - find the right shade, coverage for you and 2) good eye make up, i find the smokey eye technique is amazing because you can go as light/dark, colourful/nude, heavy/light as you like, it doesn't have to be dark and smokey. My everyday make up is a brown smokey eye look and for that i use the urban decay naked palette with a pa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/15 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Flirting strategies for a single RPW?I just smile. Lots. Maybe too much...all the smiling. Maybe make sure to say "hi" or give him a smile and wave when he comes in, give him a wave goodbye, things to show he's got your attention. Unfortunately I'm miles too shy to do anything more forward than that so I can't offer any other advice, any attempt of mine to take things further tend to end with "heh..hi..how..uhm..yeah..uh..that's some nice..skin..you have there..." and that doesn't work as often as you'd think... | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/15 07:26 PM |
| 3 | How to tell someone you have a boyfriendWith the ex I think it's clear he's not being polite to you and you don't owe him the gesture of not making thing's awkward, really the best option is to ignore him, he's clearly trying to get a reaction out of you and to respond, in anyway, is only giving him what he wants. I saw in your other post that you sent him a message and it sounds good, the best thing now is stick with what you've said and ignore anything he does from now :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/15 09:02 PM |
| 4 | How to tell someone you have a boyfriendMaking it "awkward" only matters if you intend to speak to him again, which you don't. In theory you're never going to hear from him again so it shouldn't matter how it comes across. "I'm sorry if this comes across harsh and I don't mean to insult you by assuming an ulterior motive but we've been on dates together and I don't think it's appropriate for me to be talking to you" Personally I'd have just ignored him if I had no intention of speaking to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/15 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill, what do you think of a woman if she has a low sex drive? Or just doesn't want to have sex?As a RP woman with a low sex drive I say suck it up and try harder, relationships need sex, if we really really "can't get ourselves going" for sex then we should get on our knees. Low sex drive is not an excuse to make our SO feel rejected and unwanted, it just isn't, rejecting sex causes so many issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/15 02:39 PM |
| 4 | How to view a SO that smokes/vapes?Why did you get into a relationship with him if you knew you hated smoking so much? You can't expect him to quit so either live with it or break up with him, it's definitely your issue not his. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 10:40 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?We make our judgements on people in a matter of seconds, you don't think a man has to muster up some courage to approach a complete stranger and try to make a connection in seconds? The odds are stacked against him, he knows nothing of me, there are a billion reasons that he will be rejected, to approach anyway does take courage and I like to show that I appreciate that. Also, you can tell a lot of men are nervous when they approach, the last thing I want to do it reinforce their fears by being … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/15 10:32 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?I don't have sex before the LTR threshold has been reached...that's the whole point. Before the LTR point it's sex within a relationship which isn't exactly advisable too early on but it's more desirable than no relationship at all. Sex outside an LTR is not any suggestion of an oncoming LTR it's casual sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/15 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in soulmates?I dont really believe it in the strictest sense but obvously there are some people out there better suited to you than others, and in that group of people some better suited still I like to think it follows that out of all the people you meet one or a few of them of them are surely better matched to you than all others but I have no doubt that there's probably better matches all over the world and you'll never meet them, or that person that you make eye contact with on the train and never see ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/15 08:17 AM |
| 13 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?....dear god no...are you serious? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 10:19 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?"demonising" casual sex is not a new concept. RPW is about finding a long term relationship and marriage if desired, casual sex is not an LTR or marriage therefore counter productive to our aims :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 09:26 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?She's here for RPW advice, RPW advice is to decline casual sexual encounters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 09:12 PM |
| 18 | Ghosts of Boyfriends Pastwe said some vows and yadda yadda yadda. Wow...Really? You made a lifelong commitment to another human, someone you should love so much that you know you can made it through all the hardships of life as long as he's by your side and that's how you describe it? That's awful. Honestly? I'm not going to sugar coat it, it you sound like you have a superiority complex and you look down on him...I think he could probably do better than you but seeing as leaving him, even for his own good, isn't an opt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 09:51 AM |
| 15 | How to deal with advances in the RPW way?My SO and I broke up two weeks ago and, I've been struggling to deal with the sudden amount of attention but my go-to line is "Thank you, I'm very flattered and I know it took courage to approach me but I'm just not interested" Usually they leave after that if not then i just outright ignore them, everyone gets one polite show but if they push it then I'm not going to keep being nice to them. If you want to flirt a bit then go ahead but keep it clean and be aware of your surroundings and people'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, how do you feel about splitting the bill on dates?First I'll offer to pay, if he declines I'll suggest we split, if he declines again I happily and graciously let him pay, I enjoy being paid for but I do like to show that I'm willing to give what I take. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/15 09:28 AM |
| 6 | Redpillers: Would you say you are a social conservative who thinks that ALL women should subscribe to traditional feminine gender roles?Nope. I'd like to think that people's actions aren't harming me or the other the people around them but other than that I don't give two hoots what other people are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/15 09:23 AM |
| 4 | Question for Red Pill Women: What do you believe?Do you think this type of man would subscribe to a Red Pill viewpoint? He might, he might not. I imagine that if it does then it would not be as much of a conscious effort as some of the people on here, he would be naturally dominant, perhaps not even aware of the red pill. Which traits I think the vast majority of women have been raised with an inbuilt sense of...superiority for want of a better word. It's seen all the time in wives and girlfriends who will bitch and moan about their SO, about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/15 10:22 AM |
| 7 | Question for Red Pill Women: What do you believe?My overall view of RPW is that I like to think that one day I will find a man that I can 100% trust, that I can defer to and know that he will lead us in the right direction. I think the importance of making our men feel like men has been lost on women these days and they need to step it up and stop being all take and no give. Do you think women are inferior to men? Not inherently no but I do think that women these days have been raised in such a way that the have traits that do make them inferi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/15 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Am I just being too emotional?I think you handled it very well, even if it is over emotional you still kept it under control which is hard to do right when you're in the moment. I think it makes sense to feel a little down when you spent so long preparing but he did tell you he would be going out so you can't reaaaalllyy get emotional about it, but you recognise that so I think you're okay, it's fine to have the occasional crazy emotion so long as you can keep yourself in check and be logical about it which it seems you have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Getting "too comfortable" and losing mystery - do not do it!I still maintain that girls don't fart. Yes, sometimes it happens accidentally and I'm always mortified, I'd never intentionally let one out! I have to admit I don't understand people doing toilet activities with the door open or talking to their SO at the same time, just....why? what is so important that you can't wait until you're out the bathroom?! There was an ask reddit thread about the most disgusting thing couples do together and so many people said that they went to the toilet together a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, do you prefer....Thirding the lumberjack look, oh yes! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 10:14 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, do you prefer....It sounds horribly shallow but I honestly can't even consider dating a man without chest hair. Manly chests and beard hnngg Just give me a bear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/15 10:13 AM |
| 4 | Can you help me clear up a few general dating questions?Unfortunately there is no fool-proof way of knowing whether or not he's just playing you, the best you can do is really trust your judgement and make sure that you've found a truly trustworthy man, don't be naive and willing to believe everything he tells you ( but don't be bitchy and unpleasant and clearly unsure of him! just be aware in your own mind.) I've always made it known at the out-set that there will be no sexual contact until I'm in an exclusive relationship with the potential to be l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/15 11:45 AM |
| 2 | A proper fitted bra.I have to admit, i've spent most of my life in a 34B but I'm becoming increasingly convinced that it's wrong but i am small enough that i can go braless if the top requires... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/15 10:43 AM |
| 4 | My [23] BF [22] of 3.5 years does not want a serious relationship with meIf he says he can't see a future with you after 3.5 years it really is time to move on which I know is a horrible horrible thought after nearly 4 years together but if he doesn't see a future with you then you're going to break up eventually anyway, it seems pointless to be in a relationship with an expiry date when you could be moving on and improving yourself and your life in that time. even if we broke up there's no guarantee I'd find someone i'd like to be with more. Sooner you end it the be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/15 10:31 AM |
| 1 | red pillers did you grow up in families where you were under parented or over parented?I was given a lot of freedom but I wouldn't call it under-parenting, I'd say it was less than most but at the right level, I learned to take responsibility for my actions, I could take all the credit for the things I did right and suffered all the consequences when I went wrong, now that I'm at uni I'm a lot more responsible and willing to hold myself accountable that most other students. did your parents make your breakfast, lunch, dinner or did you do that yourself? Bit of both, usually made i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/15 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Read any good books lately?I find that books that give you something to talk about are good for self improvement, I've started reading about Greek mythology and my SO likes when I pipe up with little "stories" about everyday things, he knows all of them already but it makes for nice conversation :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/15 10:40 AM |
| 4 | How should one respond to dread game?Make it clear that you agree with her, tell him how you're not remotely surprised women flirt with him, he's irresistible! I'm not sure what I'd do in public, maybe smile and kiss him on the cheek, make a joke if you are sure it wont come off as passive aggressive. Essentially - proud and most importantly - secure | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/15 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Men do not age better than womenPersonally I think they're both more attractive in their older photos. Also, it's not just physical attraction it's the fact that they probably have more money, more stability, a good job, they'll be more cultured. Their personalities gets better as they get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/15 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What PPD member would you like to conduct an AMA or audio AMA?It makes perfect sense, men are better than women these days, women need to clean their act up. Only a blind follower defends a group just because they're a part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/15 04:02 PM |
| 6 | I have been a RPW for over a year and didn't realize until nowAnd blow jobs, don't forget the blow jobs ;) Sounds good, keep it up! :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/15 04:52 PM |
| 0 | SO doesn't like makeupNot completely related to the thread (my answer is that if he doesn't like make up then don't wear it, what your SO wants overrides what we say) but if you're worried about ruining your hair you could go with coloured extensions. I was pillarbox red for a year or so before going dark again to look more professional for my degree but I always miss the colours so I get coloured extensions for when I'm feeling funky (currently pink! yay!). I would say don't use them too much though, they can still … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/15 06:07 PM |
| 3 | What is 'Dread Game'?As I see it, it's a reminder that you are not the only person in the world for your partner, if you start being a shithead they can and will go elsewhere and get what they need from someone else. I don't think it's as bad as people make out, I'm always very much aware that if I'm not up to scratch my SO could leave me and find someone better, he never says it himself or threatens it but it's still a very real possibility that makes me always be the best I can be. I don't know why people are so a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/15 10:25 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be a feminist and still want to make your SO happy?Sorry, I was talking in the context of RPW, in your OP you were saying you liked the idea of the RPW (although it was a little extreme for you) but hated how against feminism it is. I was saying you could have both feminist and RPW ideas if you could make them work together but a primary aspect of RPW is relinquishing control... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 09:33 AM |
| 2 | What does everyone think of /r/gentlemanbonersWell they seem to be posting hot women looking hot in classy outfits, maybe some people just like a hot woman in a classy dress sometimes. I'm all for a hot naked man but I like to ogle at a hot man in a suit too. It does't strike me as self righteous... just another thing they find appealing, maybe some of the guys who post there also frequent GoneWild when they're in the mood for a naked chick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 3 | What does everyone think of /r/gentlemanbonersPerhaps I've missed something but isn't that sub about women in formal attire not just "with clothes on" ? So it's more of a "holy fuck classy women are hot" than a "Ohh we can't objectify them naked" thing? I don't think it's BP I think it's just an appreciation for dolled up and classy/formal looking women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Is it possible to be a feminist and still want to make your SO happy?Not feminist doesn't mean anti-feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be a feminist and still want to make your SO happy?I think you're trying to make connections where there aren't any. You can believe in equality and have a career and all the rights and privileges of a man (which in a developed country, you do) and still have a happy relationship, whether or not you call yourself a feminist isn't really an issue. There are a few RPW with high positions at work who still keep their men happy, it's possibly harder but it's still done. If you can reconcile your feminism with the ability to give control to your SO t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/15 08:13 AM |
| 24 | Red Pill Women, do you not want equality?Modern day, developed country feminism is not about equality, its just not. It's about a totally lack of accountability for women's actions, it's about getting a leg up in the workplace rather than putting in the effort to show we deserve the high positions. It's about victimhood and blaming everyone else rather than taking responsibility for your mistakes. Feminism is just too female focussed for my liking, equality doesn't need a female focussed movement, it needs human beings with a basic con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/15 10:04 PM |
| 17 | [Meta/Idea] In light of recent posts on TRP, should we compile a guide of the best RPW content to be available "offline"?Definitely a good idea to me. I would say that I don't think we're at risk because of our content but probably just the association with TRP but after far too many...."debates" on other subs it seems that we, a sub full of women, talking to other women, helping other women, are regarded as misogynistic sigh | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What are you doing for your SO on Valentines Day?We don't really do valentines, we both believe you don't get gifts 'n' stuff simply by virtue of being a girlfriend/boyfriend on a specific day. If one of us wants to do it then we can say so but we have to deserve the special treatment...but neither of us are particularly bothered, we tend to treat each other fairly often anyway, I think we both appreciate it more when it's spontaneous. TL;DR - We're cheap and lazy ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/15 10:42 AM |
| 2 | What are some of your experiences with people of the opposite pill in the wild?Mmmm I don't know. I still feel very guilty, no one should be treated the way I treated them. I wasn't even outwardly bad or cruel I was just disrespectful and uncaring for things that didn't benefit me, acted out mostly because I wanted them to grow a backbone and put me in my place but it never happened, I had more than one of them on their knees crying for me not to leave them, when I think about it now I'm disgusted with myself but it was definitely an addictive power to an 18 year old girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your experiences with people of the opposite pill in the wild?I've had a lot of blue pill boyfriends and quite frankly I treated them like shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?I still think she's lying... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 12:44 PM |
| 2 | RPers, whats your origin story?I'm in the UK, for me at least feminism isn't huge but "I'm not really a feminist" is something I feel the need to whisper...to selectively few people. Funnily enough Feminists are the only people to ever make me feel oppressed. I kind of agree with the class thing, I'm from a very working class family and I'm amazed and how little some of my friends can do for themselves but at the same time with every Tom, Dick and Harry getting a place at university these days (I didn't even get the grades an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 08:42 PM |
| 3 | RPers, whats your origin story?I'm at university so unfortunately most of my friends are feeling the need to find a movement, we're still young enough that reality hasn't kicked us up our self entitled little bums, we're still at the stage where we've never really had to work for anything, my "generation" has been the prime target of "don't change for anyone, expect people to love you for who you are even if you're a gargantuan twat" message. I hope that didn't sound like I was making assumptions about your age, I'm not imply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?My aspergers SO is one of the most wonderfully sarcastic people I know, I'd say a big big trait of ASD people is that you can't lump any of them with the same generic traits...which means this sentence makes no sense at all... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 07:07 PM |
| 5 | The UK has just enacted a new guilty until proven innocent policy on rape accusations.Honestly, I can't figure out why women let things become like this. Neither can I. I'd hate for my boyfriend to have to prove I said yes or face prosecution for rape...I can't prove my own consent let alone someone else. Most of the time it's just there....it just is. I think part of the issue is that this isn't an issue for women, we pretty much never have to worry about being accused of rape, we can't put ourselves in men's shoes, we can't begin to appreciate how big an issue it is for men so.… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/15 06:05 PM |
| 8 | RPers, whats your origin story?My sister sent me a link with "can you believe this shit? they're just woman hating assholes!" I read a bit and thought it was a big too strong for my liking, wasn't a fan at all then came across RPW and agreed with almost all of it, saw a lot of issues within myself highlighted, realised how bad I and most women are these days and decided I didn't want to be that. Now I feel happier in myself although I find myself increasingly annoyed by women. Funnily my sister linked me to RPW a couple weeks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 05:26 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on this TwoX post?3 things came to mind. 1) fake, she says she's always kept quiet about women's rights issues and has no female friends but anyone who says the phrase "I'm so fucking done guys" is far too used to having a ranty-venty-validate-my-feelings session with the girls. 2) We only have half the story, apparently there's no fault on her side, I assume she's a raging CrazyPants, there is a reason her boyfriend found solace in TRP, if he was happy he wouldn't feel the need to change the relationship dynamic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/15 05:09 PM |
| 13 | The UK has just enacted a new guilty until proven innocent policy on rape accusations.This is pretty awful, even as a woman I don't know how to explain my non-verbal consent with anything other than "it's just obvious" and I bet that wouldn't stand up in court, there's already laws about being literally too drunk to consent, those women are protected. If you're going out and getting so drunk that you are happily running off with men only to regret it in the morning then you should take more responsibility for your damned vagina. Guys are going to have to ask "do you freely and wi… | /r/MensRights | 29/01/15 04:32 PM |
| 1 | TRP says that aloofness and holding frame fosters attraction in women. So why don't women find the fact that Christian Grey is a needy crybaby repulsive?Unfortunately...each as horrendously crap as the last, how is it that I could read those but a chapter of my university textbook is impossible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | TRP says that aloofness and holding frame fosters attraction in women. So why don't women find the fact that Christian Grey is a needy crybaby repulsive?Yeah, I read them purely because I didn't have any books that I hadn't read 10 times over. Got a kindle last month so in theory I'll never have to go through that again! I don't mind romance as long as it's an underlying theme, I can't stand a pure romance book! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | TRP says that aloofness and holding frame fosters attraction in women. So why don't women find the fact that Christian Grey is a needy crybaby repulsive?My ex bought me all 3. I read them all. More than 2 years on and I'm still trying to forget the ordeal...ughh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 07:18 PM |
| 7 | TRP says that aloofness and holding frame fosters attraction in women. So why don't women find the fact that Christian Grey is a needy crybaby repulsive?No woman with more than half a brain cell actually likes Christian Grey or thinks he's anything more than an insane dithering twit, I'd say the women who do like him probably have some mega daddy issues and if they don't then my guess would be that the attraction has something to do with his main trait - shit tonnes of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 01:30 PM |
| 2 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP MenWell becoming more self aware is probably the first step. Ignorance isn't a defence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 10:40 AM |
| 4 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP MenAre you suggesting they shouldn't try to change? They should realise they're tainted and just continue? If you drop your phone do you think "hey it's already ruined" and smash it up? Of course not. You say they're telling themselves that they're "at the top" but at the top of what? We're not aiming to be the best women on earth, we're not in competition with anyone but our former selves, if these women have changed and like the way they are now, if they are trying everyday to be the best that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/15 10:39 AM |
| 2 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP Menbut we are controlling our nature...as more women should IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/15 07:02 PM |
| 4 | RPW I want to hear you defend RP MenWrong, as far and I'm aware we know that the "RP stereotypes about women" apply to us and a big part of the sub is actively putting in the effort to avoid those traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/15 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Is the denial of sex in a relationship emotional abuse? I asked 38 people if denial of sex in a relationship was a form of "emotional abuse" here are the results.Isn't that somewhat subjective? People interpret love in different ways (see the five different love languages) as an anecdotal example my so could cuddle, kiss etc me all he likes but if he doesn't tell me he loves me I wont feel loved, my love language is words of affirmation, conversely his love language is touch, I could give him everything in the world and recite every love poem known to man but if I'm not having sex with him he doesn't feel loved therefore I know that if I withhold sex I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/15 08:00 PM |
| 10 | So...can we just have a quick discussion?Honestly I see where you're coming from and really the best advice I'd give is just don't go over there, the vast majority of them are not the men we aim to please, they're not the men we're devoting ourselves to and we, as women who refuse to be plates, are not the women that most of them want or are looking for either. We don't seek "red pill" men, we seek good men who can take control of the relationship in a way that suits both partners,whether or not he is "red pill" is a total non-issue. T… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right decision?I think you made the right decision, your situation sounds very much like my friend's and she's refusing to let go, she's clinging to the idea of a relationship and just nagging him every.single.day about how he needs to change and see her more and be nicer because she's not happy, is it working? Of course not. She's making him miserable and less inclined to see her. He sounds a bit like he enjoys being a victim, rather than pick himself up and deal with things he likes to think the world is aga… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Occasional... TransgressionsWell...I can't have an opinion about it if I don't know but if I did know then even once is a deal breaker. Gone.Zip.Zilch.Nada. and it works the other way round too, I'd be out on my arse in 10 seconds flat. My mum is currently with a man who she knows cheated on her and I just can't get my head around it because she makes comments like "I don't know what he's doing right now" "I have a reason not to trust him" and I just think why is she in a tainted relationship?! In my view, if you choose to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Hey purple pill! Tell me about you.I'm 21, in my third year of a 4 year law degree, my dream is to be a law teacher either at A-level or university level I love love love the academic side of the law but the practical side could send me to sleep in half a second. Teaching law is secondary to my desire to have children and be a good wife and home maker. I like to read, mostly crime/thriller books with my favourite author being Tess Gerritsen, I knit fairly well and I'm learning to crochet, I adore baking. I'm in my 3rd week of try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/15 02:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle being in love, or have you never been?I've thankfully never had the misfortune of falling for someone who didn't love me, I imagine it's pretty horrible. The way I experience love with my SO is through this desire to make him happy, to make him comfortable and to make life easier for him. I'd love to be a selfless angel who says my only concern is that he's happy but really it's half that I want him to be happy and half that I want to be the one making him happy, I want him to know that he's happy because of what I do for him, I wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/15 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Do you honestly enjoy sex everytime?You really need to go to the doctor, this isn't normal. Either insist your doctor looks deeper (pun not intended :P ) or get a new one, not because your SO needs someone who wants sex but because you need to look after yourself and your body, your health is so so so important. Tell the doctor that sex hurts and it makes you tear and bleed and no matter how many times they say it's normal insist on a second opinion or more tests because it isn't and it's a massive burden on your life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/15 07:14 PM |
| 5 | Do you honestly enjoy sex everytime?Have you been to the doctor? Have you told your SO about the tears? I don't think he'll want to have sex if he knows it's hurting. Go to the doctors and in the mean time get your SO off another way? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/15 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you honestly enjoy sex everytime?I can't really give you any advice as to how to actually like it because, while my SO is incredibly good in bed, I simply enjoy that he's enjoying it rather than anything I'm getting from it. The most I can suggest is finding out, either with him or by yourself, what you really enjoy and ask him to do those things. I don't meant to pry and feel free not to answer but is there a specific reason you don't enjoy it? is it painful or anything like that? If it's a physical thing you might want to go … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/15 12:25 PM |
| 12 | Do you honestly enjoy sex everytime?I don't always want it, I actually have a very low libido so I pretty much never want it ;) but I always say yes because he wants it, it makes him happy and I want to make him happy. I also truly hate the idea of rejecting him when he's being affectionate, it would be like him refusing to kiss me. Once we get going I never regret it, I enjoy being close to him and I'm always glad I did it afterwards. It can be hard to always say yes but I have to remember that he doesn't see sex the same way as … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/15 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is getting married young to a man who will be hot enough to pull women with higher SMV when their youth fades a risky gamble for red pill women?I'm from the UK and in uni, absolute misery for 3 years with another one to go and no job at the end of it "yay!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/15 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Is getting married young to a man who will be hot enough to pull women with higher SMV when their youth fades a risky gamble for red pill women?Or marry a good man whenever the hell both partners want to and if that means young then so be it. I really despise the "you have to go to school" nonsense, every tom dick and harry on earth has a degree and there's nowhere near enough jobs for them so they can't get their degree level job, they're over-qualified for the lower jobs and they've spent too long in education to get the required life experience for any other job. all this because someone told us we have to go to school to have a good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/15 02:08 PM |
| 1 | top five bands/movies/tv-shows?bands - Fall Out Boy, Vitamin string Quartet, yiruma, Sophie Ellis Bexter, Maroon 5. Films - Labyrinth, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, Hunger Games, v For Vendetta, Pitch Perfect. T.V shows - House, Rizzoli and Isles, Orange Is The New Black, QI, Great British Bake Off. 7/8 Red pill :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/15 08:10 PM |
| 5 | RPW and TRP: since you have the same world view, have you thought of dating each other? Making a dating site for yourselves?No, we have the same core beliefs but pretty different aims, My SO is only vaguely aware of TRP and doesn't follow it at all he's just naturally in control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/15 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Happy New Year!I'm having a quiet night in, it's my mum's birthday so I've cooked her dinner and baked her a cake, I'll probably just get some uni work done then stick the tv on at midnight to watch the london fireworks :) New years resolutions are to get fit, make more of an effort to look nicer,get better uni grades and be more pleasant :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/14 07:02 PM |
| 7 | Blue Bill, Red Pill, whatever Pill...what are your New Year's resolutions?Get fit. Work harder at uni. Be happier and more pleasant. Start dressing nicer everyday instead of having half hearted "I'm wearing clothes, isn't that enough?" days :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/14 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Femininity and AssertivenessDeferring is very hard, especially with big life decisions and I wouldn't dream of doing it if I wasn't with the man I am with, I know he's thought of every possible outcome of any decision and decided on the best and worst options before I've even fully comprehended the situation so I know I can completely trust him to lead us in the right direction. I don't think any of us advocate putting our lives in the hands of any man :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/14 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What are your hobbies? How do you most like to spend your time?I'm sure I saw some book scented candles on Etsy...No idea if they'd be any good though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/14 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What are your hobbies? How do you most like to spend your time?Mostly red female. Baking is a pretty big one I can knock up a decent dessert, I'm trying to get into savoury cooking so I'm doing something filo pastry related for my mum's birthday tomorrow - "filo pastry related" is all I've planned so far! I can sit for hours with a good book, I got a kindle for my birthday and I love it but I miss the proper book smell. I'm into knitting just because I need something to do with my hands that doesn't require any brain power during my revision/assignment brea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/14 12:04 PM |
| 6 | Femininity and AssertivenessThe idea is that we've chosen a good man who wont be making decisions with awful results. Even if we think we're right it's better to keep our confidence in him and let him make his decision than to doubt him and drive a wedge between us. Would you rather be right or happy? Also, it's not like we're unable to speak up if we have our own ideas about something important, if it's a decision that affects our lives and our relationships then of course we can give our input, it's disagreeing with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/14 10:17 AM |
| 1 | BPW/RPW: Why don't women like being put on a pedestal by men? As a man, I'd LOVE to be admired and worshiped by girls, so why don't women like being put on a pedestal?For me it's just boring, there's no boundaries, nothing to respect and quite frankly it gives me a higher sense of self importance. All my ex's would do what I said at the drop of a hat, there was no strong manliness about them, nothing that demanded my respect, they spouted all the "i love you as you are so never change" nonsense that prevented me from ever improving. With my current SO if I mention something about myself that I'm unhappy with I get "change it then" and some advice if he has an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 2 | What dating advice did you receive from your parents/family? Was it good?"Keep his stomach full and his balls empty." Seems to work so yeah I'd say it was good...thanks, mum! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/14 05:00 PM |
| 4 | This made me so disgusted...It was the shirts done up with the buttons in the wrong holes bit that got me! If my SO buttoned his shirt wrong I would revel in the opportunity to half undress him and do it up again...That woman is missing a world or opportunities to be kind and sweet and loving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/14 11:36 PM |
| 1 | "Foreign" women do not make better wives if the man doesn't do his part.Reminds me of my dad and step-mum's relationship, My step-mum is a beautiful, eastern European house-proud, loving mother. Used to always wear make up, didn't believe in wearing flat shoes for anything other than exercise, hair and nails always done perfectly. She walks all over my father like you wouldn't believe....it's astounding, I don't think he's ever said no to her. I don't think he's truly happy which is a shame. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/14 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What are your parents like?My mum would probably have a fit if she saw the red pill, She very much recognises that women can be awful but I don't think she sees the full extent. She recognises a need for equality but I haven't seen any specifically feminist tendencies...perhaps she keeps them to herself? Either way she's a very very loving single mother, caring is in her nature, raised us more on love than with money because we never really had any. She raised us with a lot of emphasis on freedom, we could go out and do w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/14 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Assuming they have good earning capacity, why would women ever want to get married?For me it's because I want my SO's last name and I want our children to carry on his family name. Honestly I'd be happy to just legally change my last name but I'd like us to be Husband and Wife, Mr and Mrs so on and so forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/14 01:39 PM |
| 2 | What's your personality type? (Whether you're red, blue, purple or other)ISFP You are one of the Explorers - a bold and freedom-loving individual who enjoys pushing the limits and exploring the unknown. You are known for your quiet nature, artistic skills and ability to improvise. Disagree completely, i hate exploring the unknown, i never push limits and i have no artistic abilities :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/14 01:16 PM |
| 1 | UPDATE: How to "get official"?Sorry it didn't work out but at least you found out sooner rather than later, it sounds like you conducted yourself well :) Also sounds like you dodged a bullet, you're kinder than I am - I automatically despise anyone who drives when at all drunk, absolutely hate them and I've never known anyone affected by drunk driving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get harassed online for your views?A few members in TrollX went through and downvoted my post history and I've had the occasional PM about how I'm in an abusive relationship and they hope I see sense soon before I become a domestic violence advocate O.o | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/14 05:12 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about when a girl hangs out with a bunch of guys most of the time?I tend to assume (rather unfairly) that she's one of those "I'm not like other girls" girls who is exactly like the other girls, she causes the drama that she claims to hate so much and says she can't get along with other girls but doesn't realise that its probably her fault for being hard to get along with or for not picking female friends very well. Harsh, I know. I also think she enjoys the special attention that the guys give her because they will not treat her the same way they treat everyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/14 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Internal struggle accepting RPW- please share your stories with me!Yeah I still struggle a little, my first reaction is to explain why I do whatever he's mentioning but then I realise that it doesn't matter why I'm doing it, the fact is that I do it and it's a flaw, it needs to stop or be changed in some way and him telling me is the best way to solve it. Mine has helped me improve so much too, he's honest if something's bothering him but he doesn't get annoyed or angry about it he just tells me how I can improve, he recognises when I'm trying to be better and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Internal struggle accepting RPW- please share your stories with me!The shift in mindset absolutely did not come easily for me and I still struggle occasionally, I'm not sure about others but for me personally it requires a lot of constant self-awareness and often I've started saying something and I have to just stop there and then and consider everything. My SO is very honest, very straight forward and this used to put me on the defensive, he'd point out a flaw and I'd jump straight to defending myself where as now I just stop for a moment and remember that eve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to "get official"?Ooh I personally would just talk to him sooner rather than later and explain that you don't want to lead him on so you think its important that you clarify what you meant when you said you're not ready to take the next steps and explain your position :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 07:22 PM |
| 3 | How to "get official"?When it comes to getting official, are dominant men really willing to do so without having had sex with a woman? Absolutely. All of my sexual partners have only become such after we became official, and still not straight away. I've always made my position very clear by telling them that I absolutely do not have sex unless I'm in an exclusive relationship with good prospects of being long term, that way if they want to walk away they can before they invest and lot of time, money and effort only … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I need to overcome my trust issues & jealousy before it ruins every relationship I ever have.Figure out why you're insecure - are you insecure in yourself/your looks? If you are then brilliant you can improve, if it's deeper rooted there might be some issues. First things first as has already been said here, if you actually like him then you need to make things official -why would he give you his commitment if he can get all the perks of a relationship without the actual relationship? Number 3 is an issue for me, why ask who was messaging him when you know who was messaging him? That ki… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 08:41 AM |
| 6 | The "Joy" of Counseling FriendsI have a friend who drives me absolute frickin' crazy! She absolutely cannot ever in any way begin to accept responsibility for ANYTHING! Teeny tiny little things that aren't even an issue still have to be someone else's fault and she wonders why she can't hold a relationship. She hasn't had to put effort into anything in her life, she's in a failing relationship with a guy who's kind of high on the autistic spectrum so naturally that relationship is going to take a little more effort but she ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 07:34 AM |
| 11 | To what point do you appreciate feminism?I saw a quote the other day along the lines of "feminism is the idea that you are free when you serve your employer but a slave when you help your husband" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/14 12:10 AM |
| 10 | To what point do you appreciate feminism?I appreciate the civil rights movement for the fact that I can have a relationship and lifestyle where my SO is the leader and know that it is my choice, I can be truly happy with it because it's what I want to do not because I'm expected to do it. I don't appreciate that modern feminism created the expectation that I have to get a high paying job and support myself by myself, get a uni education and get into a good profession - £64,000 of debt and in the penultimate year of a degree that's maki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/14 08:06 PM |
| 6 | What would you do in my situation?If he wanted to be paying equal amounts he would have accepted when you offered. There's a big difference between taking advantage of someone and letting them treat you, I'd want to give something back too but I'd do it by showing gratitude rather than spending more. I would say that if you've agreed on a $20 then stick to it otherwise you risk making him feel a bit crap. It sounds like he loves treating you so let him :) Shower him with love and affection, show him your thankful :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How far removed philosophically would you put TRP and RPW?"force all TRP and RPW to post photos of themselves. Peoples' presentation explains a LOT." I'm curious - what do you expect you would see if we all did that? I'm fairly sure you'd just get a tonne of pictures of...humans. Ordinary people you pass on the street everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/14 12:41 PM |
| 3 | RPW, how much older than you would you ideally want your husband to be, and what is the largest age gap you would accept?My current SO is a few months younger than me and it's the best relationship I've had. I've always thought I preferred older men but I've dated 12 and 10 years older and neither worked out very well at all, I am still young though so that makes a world of difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/14 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill men and women compatible?Honestly, I'm in 100% agreement with you - I don't think most women have intentionally become this way, it's something that we've grown up into and I think a lot more women could improve if they were willing to be truly critical of themselves which is incredibly difficult for anyone, no one wants to see the years and years of bad habits that have been ingrained into them and the difficulty that comes with quitting them is pretty daunting. TRP is waaay to full on for me so I just tend not to go t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Red Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?Sadly it's a very common occurrence. I think the power goes to our heads, suddenly there's just all these guys falling at our feet, willing to do just about anything for our approval and we keep testing our limits, we realise we can get more and more and give less and less until we're just bored, I think everyone needs boundaries, the nicest person can get a bit power crazy. Also I think I was too young to understand the pleasure of making someone else happy, making my SO happy makes me far far … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Would you cheat on your SO if you knew you wouldn't get caught?Wouldn't even consider it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 07:52 PM |
| 2 | What do you ladies usually wear to bed?Usually a tank top and shorts, sometimes just one of the SO's shirts and maybe a pair of knickers. If it's "that" time of month I wear longer pajama bottoms, I suspect SO has figured out that pj bottoms = bj week! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/14 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill men and women compatible?I believe (but I don't speak for everyone here) the basic idea is that women have been put on pedestals that they don't deserve to be on, they get away with a lot of shitty behaviour, even the seemingly nice women still exhibit a lot of manipulative, self-entitled behaviour towards men and their relationships and over time men have been told by society that they have to lie down and accept it. Over at RPW we aim to see our flaws, see the issues that society has told us we're allowed to have and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Question for RPW - Does never saying no to sex ever affect your sex drive or your relationship negatively?Mutual confidence boosts, mutual pleasure, mutual bonding -why say no? I think I can understand saying no to sex, what I can't understand is saying no to trying. Time and time and time again I, and I'm sure many other women, have thought "I'm not in the mood so I don't want it" but then when I go with it anyway you can be damn sure I'm in the mood. I've never never ever regretted saying yes even though initially I wasn't up for it. If a woman was to try and really just couldn't get going then ok… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Are red pill men and women compatible?The vast majority of us at RPW don't want or have a Red Pill man. Most of our SO's either haven't ever heard of red pill or are at most just aware that it exists. Most Red Pill men are after casual sexual encounters with no commitment which is essentially the opposite of the RPW aims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/14 12:26 AM |
| 3 | CMV This sub is an unproductive wormhole, no social change happens.Haha I know! It's horrible and I hate myself ;) I honestly just forget every other song in existence, I'd probably miss all my old music if I could remember what on earth I used to listen to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 07:15 PM |
| 5 | CMV This sub is an unproductive wormhole, no social change happens.I like it, true enough nobody is really changing their mind but I like the discussions (when people aren't getting childish and offensive.) I think it makes us all seem just a little bit more human, it gives us all the chance to explain our views rather than just having 2 sides of thoroughly misunderstood ideals. I think it's a shame that the anonymity turns a few people into colossal douchenozzles but such is the internet I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:54 PM |
| 3 | CMV This sub is an unproductive wormhole, no social change happens.I'm 21 and I still do this. The song isn't over when it's finished, it's over when I hate it ;) I have no doubt that it's one of the most infuriating things on earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Ladies am I making something out of nothing?That's great, I'm glad it's worked out! Try to remember this for the next time your mind starts working over time :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/14 06:13 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome feelings of inadequacy?could make him some "love coupons" i.e. "This coupon is good for 1 back rub lasting at least 1 hour". I made some for my SO's birthday, ranging from breakfast in bed, to a meal out, massages, "sexy" things, a list of the 10 things I love most about him. It sounds cheesy and something that only the ladies would like but he often says that receiving them is one of his happiest moments :) It might be a bit late to start it now considering it's already the first but I made a "love note" advent calen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill men and women compatible?In my view a truly good reason is usually obvious but you're right a good man with a good woman will know that she has a good reason for saying no. I think over at RPW we might have different ideas of what a "good reason" is, it seems that in mainstream relationships "I'm not in the mood" constitutes a good reason..I feel somewhat hypocritical harping on about it, it's an aspect I struggle with because I've got an incredibly low libido (sorry for the TMI) but I agree with the principle, if you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Are red pill men and women compatible?The not refusing sex can be somewhat misunderstood. The nature if RPW means that we've found a good man who wouldn't try to have sex if there was a good reason not to, if we're unhappy/ill/ridiculously tired they don't try it so we don't have to say no which logically leads to the fact that if our SO is initiating there is no good reason to say no. In a lot of relationships women withhold sex because their SO has done/said something wrong or because their favourite show is on, because they've go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Are red pill men and women compatible?I'm wary of speaking for the whole sub, we're not a hivemind so please don't take this as the RPW default view. I wouldn't automatically excuse a man for saying things like that but I would think there's some truth behind it. Women are likely to say "god, they can't do anything can they?" about any and every man for any and every thing they don't do perfectly, I find that women just wear men down to the bone for every single little mistake they make. I don't think men do, half the time it's not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 11:54 AM |
| 12 | Red Pills, what is your most guilty admission of your behavior, thoughts or preferences in your relationships?I used to be a horrible horrible manipulative girlfriend. Not to my current SO but in my previous relationships I was just awful. I somehow attracted a lot of male attention, if I'm honest I don't know how, I've never been promiscuous or particularly flirty, I've only recently "come into" my looks and I dressed pretty modestly but somehow I got it. The attention I was getting gave me an inflated sense of self worth, I never "played" guys I've always been monogamous but I managed to get my past b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Are red pill men and women compatible?I think we use equal in a different way, I believe my SO and I are on equal levels in regards to the respect we earn and deserve, we're on equal levels of love for each other, we have equal standing and importance in the relationship. We just have different ways to achieving the above :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 10:48 AM |
| 4 | Are red pill men and women compatible?We'd be a horribly insecure group of women if we thought we were inferior, no, we just know that men and women are very different and believe that these differences can complement each other wonderfully :) I don't want to speak for the whole sub, we have the same underlying idea but we we use it differently. I don't believe it's my duty to cater to his every whim but I do think that women should be putting in more effort than they do. In today's world women have become incredibly lazy and incred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/14 10:35 AM |
| 18 | Guy here.... Wondering about this double standardThat one gives me a chuckle. and then the slightly paranoid part of me says "oh god..what if they are all guys and I've just completely missed the point? how embarrassing!" | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/14 09:41 AM |
| 4 | Guy here.... Wondering about this double standardMen and women ARE different so why wouldn't there be different standards? Unfortunately you men aren't allowed to do it because you have to show women all the respect in the world...because they're women...I believe the argument is "we're still human and we should be treated as such" but the "respect is earned not given" rule doesn't apply to women apparently ;) I like the different standards, we are different, we work differently and think differently and want different things why we should be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/14 09:39 AM |
| 5 | Favourite TV couple?Up until the most recent series I loved the relationship between Robert and Cora in Downton Abbey, very loving, very supportive, Cora was supportive without over stepping her boundaries. Probably not very reminiscent of a true 1900's lord and lady relationship but I liked it nonetheless :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Can a red pill woman be a doctor?You need a hobby my dear...creating new accounts just to troll the red pill subs? Too much free time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Question: How do you feel about "never say no?"I mostly mean in relationships by the way, it's his way of showing love to his girlfriend/wife...it's not quite the same for casual sex i believe | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 10:25 AM |
| 7 | Question: How do you feel about "never say no?"I agree with it, I absolutely think it's the right thing to do but if I'm honest, I struggle with it a little because I have a horrifically low libido - I'm actually thinking of seeing if there's anything I can do about it because I think it's lower than it should be. I don't see any reason, aside from terrible illness, to say no to showing my SO how much I love him. Sex is most men's way of showing love and my SO's love language is touch so when I reject him I really am rejecting his love, why … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/14 09:20 AM |
| 2 | How/When did you decide you were ready to become a SAHM?My SO and I have spoken about it and both said we'd be happy with it as long as I'm still doing something obviously this means keeping the house tidy, making the meals etc on top of looking after the child(ren) and I'd probably take care of the financial budgeting too. It's what we want and we'd be happy with it but I just know that I'll feel so guilty depending on him like that, it would feel like putting such a huge amount of stress on him. As far as I'm aware we're going to both be working un… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/14 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel, personally, about partner count?I'll only have sex within a long term committed, loving and trusting relationship but I do understand that most men don't hold the same romantic notions towards sex so their "count" is more than likely going to be higher than mine. The number doesn't particularly matter to me, I seem to be naturally uninterested in men who have shagged anyone they could pull or men who have a lot of casual sex with people they don't know particularly well. If their number is restricted to people they've been in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/14 05:52 PM |
| 5 | How did you attract the right man for you?I always thought that eye contact, smiling and being sure to laugh often are the best ways to attract the right attention. My mum always said "be the light, not the moth" :) I think if you focus on being the best you can be then you wont have to approach them, they'll approach you if you invite them with a sweet smile. A simple "hi" with a smile could easily be enough :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/14 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Needing some advice..I think the desire to check his phone at all shows that something is and always has been missing. I like the way you accepted that there was no solid agreement of exclusivity between you with the first incident, it can't have been easy to just put it behind you but you did, you sound very reasonable and rational :) but now there is a firm notion of commitment, even if he's not cheating in the literal sense of the word he's still going out of his way to check out other women, tinder isn't a seein… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/14 10:03 PM |
| 2 | RPW, what do your weekends look like?With us both being uni students we tend to just do our work in the same room, if we're losing concentration we'll go for a long walk and then back to uni work. It used to be hard when we were both doing law because we had the same work to do but learned in different ways and at different paces but he's switched courses now so we can just quietly enjoy the others presence :) When we've had enough we'll cuddle in bed with a show on, usually a comedy. It used to be that I'd do lunch and dinner but … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/11/14 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Tips for meeting his needs while you are away from home?I think that's a great idea, I'd love to see everyone having the chance to boast about their SO's, I know a lot of us feel unable to do it with our friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/14 10:08 AM |
| 2 | CryingHaha! Yes, thank you :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/14 09:02 AM |
| 2 | CryingI just apologise, tell him specifically that I'm *not trying to manipulate him or make him feel bad, get some tissue and breathe deeply. I try to continue whatever conversation we were having as normally as I can but if I can't I'll just wait until it stops. Thankfully, I don't tend to cry often and it only really hits me after an argument and I'm feeling a bit guilty - he'll just give me a kiss or hug and then some space until I pull myself together. If I'm crying unrelated to an argument he'll… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/14 08:25 AM |
| 8 | Tips for meeting his needs while you are away from home?Sometimes I wonder if the people over at blue pill know what it's like to actually care about someone and have a desire to facilitate their lives rather than just thinking about what they can do for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/14 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Just a friendly reminder that we live in a world where if a woman decides she doesn't want a to have a kid already in development, she's allowed to kill it without the father's consent. But if a man dThe issue I have with this is that the woman accepted that risk too, she let him do the deed inside her but if she regrets the result she does have a way out of it, I'm not saying it's a nice one or something that we want to do, but if we don't want that child we can get rid of it without consulting the father, we have a way out - the man doesn't. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/14 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else here hate Sex and the City?Good luck with that...God awful self-entitlement seems to be a running theme in all chick flicks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else here hate Sex and the City?Gosh...I tried to have a girly night in with chocolate and chick flicks and everyone recommended Sex and the City. I just cringed. I didn't finish it but what I did watch was spent being either angry at them or embarrassed for them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Honest Question: Why did you choose this lifestyle?There's two factors for me, the first one being biological and the second being emotional (although really they both tie in together). Firstly, I understand my biological make up, evolution has designed me to be a homemaker, to have children and to raise them while my male counterpart provides for us, that's not fantasy, it's very well known that those were our original roles. Now I know that society no longer works this way in such a literal sense but evolution works over thousands of years, so… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/14 08:22 PM |
| 3 | FitFriday, FatFriday III.1: How did you get moving this week? Zumbaaa! Did it on Wednesday and I'm still hurting, I think the instructor is some kind of sadist! 2: What was your go-to healthy food item or meal? I got the slow cooker out and "made" (by made I mean I shoved some stuff in the pot and left it for 6 hours) carrot and coriander soup, literally just blended vegetables (mostly carrots) and coriander. 3: What song got you moving? Probably BangBang by Jessie J...Got me dancing while tidying. 4: What are your plan… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/14 11:22 AM |
| 1 | The pill, histocompatibility complex genes, and sexual satisfaction/attractionThe issue with the pill and research like this is that, for the most part, women start the pill while they're going through or starting puberty so there's a lot of things going on and we don't know what to attribute them to. I put on weight after I went on the pill but at 16 I was going through puberty and bound to put on weight anyway ALSO I was a recovering anorexic so I was* trying* to put on weight. From what I remember my taste in men did change but in the opposite way to what the biologica… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/14 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Going to a guy's house tomorrow to watch anime - need advice.I would tell him in advance, it might be awkward to bring up but you can just message him (or use whatever communication you've been using so far) to say "I don't mean to be presumptuous but I think it's important that you know..." That way you can make sure that you've put it across properly and clearly rather than having an awkward and uncertain stuttering conversation at the time You know yourself and what you're capable of, if you think you're too shy or too concerned about being rude to tel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/14 08:36 AM |
| 7 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)Bloody hell, thank you! :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/14 08:18 AM |
| 12 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)That was mentioned the SubredditDrama thread too, I think it's been over analysed! The Hunger Games and Harry Potter are two of my favourite book series and I'm terrible at picking usernames so I just thought of the two female leads in my favourite series, that's really all the thought that went into it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 07:06 PM |
| 5 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)The only times I've ever had the opportunity to gush are while my friends are complaining about their SO's (they always seem to moan but never mention the good times?) but I think it's insensitive at that point so I just sit and feel just a tiiinny bit smug (tut tut pride is a sin 'n' all that!) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:34 PM |
| 8 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)That's such a shame, We put so much time and effort into having a relationship we can gush about and then we're not able to! But you and you SO know you've got a good thing going and that's the important thing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:21 PM |
| 12 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)It had to come up eventually didn't it? I wasn't expecting it so soon though... | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:18 PM |
| 11 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)Hmm yeah, good point! I had some very kind and well meaning friends do the girl power stuff on me recently, something along the "you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone!" lines. I changed the topic pretty quickly! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:13 PM |
| 17 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)I think you're right. That's why I tried to avoid making a red pill debate, I knew they would have refused to even read my comments properly if I had (or they'd have read too far,nitpicked and misinterpreted them.) I figured such a "girl power" centralised group would've been more open to keeping a friendship alive despite some differences but either they missed that point or I didn't get it across very well. Oops! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:03 PM |
| 23 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)I've been in their bad books before but I have to say, they really outdid themselves this time ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 06:00 PM |
| 4 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)I'd like that thank you. My SO was reading it a while back and I read a few pages over his shoulder but they were disjointed pages with no context so I didn't get much from it but he enjoyed it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 05:53 PM |
| 64 | katniss_granger trying to have a level-headed discussion in trollXchromosomes (goes as expected)I don't think I did as well as I could have but I was trying to avoid a red pill debate with them (what would be the point?) and stick to why differing opinions shouldn't end a friendship. I also didn't want to be presumptuous in sparking a debate and attempting speak for this whole sub! Especially while I'm still learning RP ways myself! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/14 05:30 PM |
| 5 | WOMEN -stop the disrespect towards men (rant)I'm irritated beyond belief by one small phrase. "ugh, men!" or the condescending "Men! what are they like? Haha!" I genuinely have to take a deep breath and make a concerted effort not to respond, I'll busy myself with something in my bag while all the other girls giggle "Oh my god, I know right? All men are terrible" Really? If ALL your experiences with different men have been terrible maybe you should have a look at the common denominator here. It's not even just a little bit annoying, it mak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/14 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?I do understand that completely, pride takes precedence, if you're not going to do something with pride why do it at all? Surprisingly the staying it touch was his idea, we watched a film while we were doing the stuff-switch-over and everything was fine, I wasn't pining after him or anything it was just the vague knowledge that he was there, we've been speaking normally about general stuff over facebook and I've felt fine so I think it's the loss of the relationship itself that's hurting the mos… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?I'm definitely sticking to dressing well and working out, making sure I'm always wearing make up (it'll be a cold day in hell when I leave the house without make up) I've only recently got a new haircut so I bought some new lipsticks instead and am re-organising my make up draw :D Thankyou for your reply :) I just need to be patient! | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Vintage Girl Game on PinterestSomewhat relevant - There's a documentary called the Gender equality paradox where it was shown that Norway is number 1 for having the best equality laws and equal opportunities etc and both sexes still flowed naturally into traditional gender roles, they had the freedom to do just about anything they wanted regardless of gender but 90% of nurses were female, 90% of engineers were male, it wasn't shocking but it was certainly interesting :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?I'm sure that I don't want to get back together I think it's just very soon after the break up, I'm realising how much everything is going to change and it scares me but if I just remind myself that I have the absolute ability to make sure it all changes for the better then there's no reason to be scared of it, I should be excited I suppose :) I was very calm, and very certain of my decision when I ended it, it's hard to remember that mindset when my emotions are flipping around everywhere but I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?Thankyou everyone for your replies, You've all made me realise that I now have a chance to reinvent myself, consider and fix my flaws and be a better person than before, I'd be an idiot not to take it! The things that were going to happen in the future now wont but that time is going to pass just the same, I can't waste it by not learning from my mistake. For the moment I'm taking it day-by-day, I have a checklist on my board to keep me to routine (sounds silly but I love checklists!) Thank you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?I think "why did you dump him" is impossible to answer at the moment when I'm looking back so soon after breaking up. I think it's going to be a few weeks until I can calm down and remember the multitude of issues that lead to it. I do know that it wasn't a spur of the moment decision, it was a bad one, but I didn't jump the gun. His rule that he absolutely does not get back together with anyone is one I've known since before we started dating and it's one that has made me very careful about how… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/14 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Is there a red pill way to get over a break-up?In all honesty I don't think that what you've said is harsh, it's nothing short of the truth and I have no issue accepting it, my issue is how to move on from it now , unless you have a RedPill time machine? ;) I know (now) how to act in a relationship and I know how to act in the pursuit of one, it's the middle ground that has me stuck. Also for the removal of any doubt, the definitive no came up in general conversation not an "I made a mistake take me back" type thing. We were talking amicably… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/14 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as a feminine lawyer? Making the decision of whether to go to law school.Sorry! I thought it would put some perspective into the "lawyers are cut-throat aggressive brutes" idea. I realise I strayed from the topic a fair bit! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/14 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Is there such a thing as a feminine lawyer? Making the decision of whether to go to law school.I'm currently in my 3rd year of law school, I don't want to be a lawyer ( a law tutor is the dream) but I definitely think that femininity is possible if not a benefit. The only example I can think of at the moment is that we have "standardised client" assessments where we're given an actor who has been briefed on his/her legal issue, we have to go in and gather facts, make them feel comfortable, make them feel confident enough to place their case in our hands. Every time I've done one of these … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/14 09:00 PM |
| 16 | "F Bombs for Feminism", or little girls dressed up as princesses encouraged to cuss.Firstly absolutely disgusting, why is that even remotely necessary? Secondly - Isn't it feminists who moan about children being influenced while they're young and say how it's wrong? Apparently a pink aisle in a shop is wrong and doesn't give girls a chance to decide what they want but getting them dressed up and giving them a "fun" dramatic script to promote a controversial movement before they're really old enough to know if they agree with it is fine? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/14 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Meghan Trainor: Case study in how not to behaveOne of my main issues with the "any size is fine" mindset (aside from the fact that it's just downright wrong) is that it only applies to larger people. If we told a severely underweight woman that she's beautiful, it's what's on the inside the counts and she doesn't need to change a thing everyone would lose their minds and say we're encouraging her ill health, which it would be. As a recovered anorexic I know that we all want anorexic/severely underweight women to get better, to get to a good … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/14 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Ladies in my attempt to understand my RPW. I was wondering What Meyers Briggs personality are you Ladies? I am a STRONG ENTJ.INTJ :) Not sure what my SO is | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/08/14 11:13 AM |
| 1 | I'm really messing things up with a good man.This might seem irrelevant but what is your diet like? I've got a major sweet tooth which I've had to really keep in check not just for my health but also because sugar crashes make me so so so moody and I don't even notice, even if it's pointed out to me I wont see it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/14 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How to find a LTR in college?I'd say meet people for the sake of making friends and pursue one if it seems like a good option. I don't have sex until I'm in a relationship that seems to have the potential to be serious and I met my boyfriend in my first year at a university flat party where hook ups are pretty prevalent. Gave him my number and things just fell into place after about 6 months. I'd also suggest not actively looking for a relationship, just relax and meet people, that's what uni (or college) is for. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/14 10:48 AM |
| 2 | What happened when I gushed about my husband in front of my girlfriendsMy old housemate used to constantly refer to her boyfriend in conversations as "it" or "that thing" and I could tell she meant it in a jokey way but christ it annoyed me so much, it just sounded so disrespectful! I have to resist the urge to gush about my SO nearly all the time for fear of annoying people and she was there talking about him like he was an inconvenience in her life, it was actually hard to listen to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/14 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Health and Diets.I've stopped using any heat styling on my hair. It's a little annoying at the moment because, while my natural curls are coming back a little, it's still quite frizzy and all over the place so looking feminine and girly is a little difficult when I can only have my hair up in a pony or down and frizzy =/ I have a god awful sweet tooth, honestly I could probably live off skittles (not very well mind you) so I often completely cut out sweets/sugary drinks for 4 weeks and by then my cravings aren't… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 02:04 PM |
| 1 | 25 things to do before turning 25 - RPW editionI've only gone a month so far but my curls are coming back (I managed to straighten my hair so much it was just a fuzzy ball of fuzziness) and it seems longer but that might just be that it's smoothed out a little bit. T'was a good decision I think :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/14 02:27 PM |
| 2 | 25 things to do before turning 25 - RPW editionThe advice is more than welcome :) I'll the tips out, thanks :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | 25 things to do before turning 25 - RPW editionDo you use a lot of heat on your hair? I've gone cold turkey from any straighteners/curlers/hairdryers etc and it's done wonders. Come up with a new make up/clothing style or skincare routine? Find a new perfume? I'm training for a half marathon too but I keep giving myself shin-splints ¬.¬ | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why she would blow up just because he liked a girl's picture? [xpost videos]I couldn't watch to the end. It's pretty hard to get my head around that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/14 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the subject of separate bedrooms?My mother's partner is just the most ridiculous snorer ever, I didn't even know it was possible to be so loud. When I'm home from uni I sleep downstairs and I can hear him as if he was next to me. Ear plugs are my mother's answer but even then she sometimes sleeps in a different room...and still keeps the plugs in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Asking for complimentsI think this is something that depends on the individual relationship. Some will consider it fishing for compliments, some will say any compliment received will be insincere. I'll usually ask something specific "is my hair looking okay?" "is this dress too much" and I like that he will be totally honest and sometimes he will say "it's not the best" or "it's not the most flattering" and I appreciate that, I like to know when I could be looking better to him. I'd never just say "tell me something … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else annoyed by these "dresses"?What's the quality like? Those prices look a little too good to be true! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What sweet things do you do for your SO when you don't live together?It's a bit lame I suppose but my SO seems to like it when I leave little notes around his house. Sometimes when I go round I'll do his ironing (he hates ironing, I love it win-win.) He has a draw of his stuff at mine and sometimes I'll put a little treat or love note in there... Now that I'm thinking about it I don't really do much for him (oops!) Suppose I'll be watching the comments myself! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 09:47 AM |
| 1 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?Myself and my SO are moving in together next year, my idea is to Bagsy whichever ones you find enjoyable (I like ironing so I volunteer for that) and then work out your pet peeves and do the things that you want to be done in a certain way (I make the bed because I do it right goddammit). Make a rota for everything else that needs to be done. Sometimes I'll take on a chore when SO is doing his ridding-the-house-of-the-spiders-and-other-things-with-too-many-legs duty | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 09:36 AM |
| 1 | I am a woman who got tired of Tumblr's bull, and made this little post in favor of men, which now has over 100,000 notesSame here...I can't imagine hitting my boyfriend. I once gave him a playful tap and it felt like it did it harder than I meant to, still feel guilty about it no matter how much he tells me he barely felt it....just the idea of hitting him is horrible. | /r/MensRights | 03/08/14 07:23 AM |
| 1 | I am a woman who got tired of Tumblr's bull, and made this little post in favor of men, which now has over 100,000 notesEveryone on earth needs to see this | /r/MensRights | 03/08/14 07:17 AM |
| 3 | Whoopi Defends Stephen A. Smith: If You Hit a Man, Don’t Be Surprised if He Hits BackThe other women just interrupt and talk over each other in shrill loud voices that make their already rubbish contributions less credible. Why do they have an issue with being told not to hit someone? | /r/MensRights | 29/07/14 08:14 PM |
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