KatyaBelli Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning Nah, I genuinely feel bad that you're this wrapped up in being upset: makes my stomach hurt to think this owns so much of your headspace and time.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/07/24 01:21 AM
-9	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning It really looks like a pipeline to being angry against something rather than for support of anything based on what I am reading. I am not sorry I engaged in the first place, but I do feel bad that places like this get hooks in so many young, disillusioned men and point them at feminists or women rather than towards supporting mental health. Being angry at women trying to lift up women isn't going to make the world a better place. Not all feminists, or even most, are pushing down on men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 05:49 PM
-9	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning If people here are reading this, if you are reading yourself, if this is a genuine reply from your heart... I feel very sad life has led you here. You are being used to hate. That isn't much of a life, and I would say the exact same thing to any woman who talked about men's mental health advocacy as you are talking about feminism. :(	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 05:46 PM
-4	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning I am not going to delineate point by point. I will say this, you and I are individuals whose paradigm is shaped by a very narrow view of the world and a whole lot of integration of others' profundity based on reinforcing or combating that narrow view. The most profound mistake an individual can make is taking their narrow set of lived experiences as gospel: that what went wrong for them shapes the world for others, or what is good for them is suited to others. Why should men listen to people who…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 04:17 PM
-14	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning The weight of negative examples of/experiences with feminism looms large in this thread over productive discussions to help redirect both sides toward collaboration. Neither feminism nor male advocacy are going to stop existing, and tit for tat reprisal thinking because of bad individual actors is only entrenching things further. Feminism at its core is not going away, but that core also isn't the sexist, radical ideology being portrayed here. Until someone pivots the conversation away from exam…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 03:39 PM
-11	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning You are absolutely correct. Sad to see so many don't get it and are being co-opted by hate like so many generations before them. Hard to break the cycle when lucidity about tribalism comes to so few and outrage gets its hooks in people younger and younger these days thanks to social media amplifying it. It used to be the world was a bunch of tiny bubbles and trying to stand against tribalistic thinking was knocked down due to lack of a visible, well-articulated counterpoint. Now the bubbles are …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 03:28 PM
-6	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning Until we try to move the needle for compassion past a zero sum game, we're going to be quibbling over fractions back and forth. The idea that someone can mean well and do harm anyways is an elusive but critical truth: it is not us vs them and any enduring positive change never can be. "Feminists almost ubiquitously don’t want to relate" and other assumptions that are deterministic of intent are exactly the problem. Be the bigger person and see they are trying to do good with their limited social…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 03:17 PM
-12	The comics subreddit is having a bit of a reckoning So, gay man here after following the Author's profile. I am about to state a view that seems at odds with the zeitgeist here (this subreddit) so bear with me: People are too focused on being against something to make meaningful social change. Pizzacake couches her comics in her lived experience and offers insights many women can resonate with. Unfortunately, her paradigm is limited and sometimes her attempts neglect other perspectives, leading to the drama last for example. The author of the afo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/24 01:26 PM