Kavalicious Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Is there a way out of this mindset? - Struggling to do cold approaches.		Kavalicious	/r/seduction	26/12/18 02:47 PM
4	"I would like this. I want this. I desire this BUT I don't need this."		Kavalicious	/r/seduction	03/02/19 03:36 AM
3	Skin care routines? What are you going with?	Outer Game	Kavalicious	/r/seduction	13/05/20 06:15 AM

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3	Data from 2 years after losing my virginity: data from every woman I've slept with Man, that's some solid data! I'm impressed. Outta curiosity do you remember your openers that led to day-game success?	/r/seduction	02/12/20 10:09 AM
6	How to introduce sex with the girls you meet/date? My understanding of your question is you'd like some viewpoints on how to get a girl from liking you, to having sex together. So I'm going to skip past giving my opinion on how to get a girl to like you, and assume you're on a date with a girl that you like and you've kissed. If you need me to rewind a bit I can. Okay, so I'll share an experience from my past with you. With my first girlfriend, we hadn't had sex yet, I was keen as a bean, but absolutely dreaded the idea of making unwelcome moves…	/r/seduction	05/10/20 12:55 PM
75	disbelief someone is interested in me You need to get a piece of paper out, and list the things that you're proud of yourself for. The qualities you have, that you like about yourself. Try to steer away from 'accomplishments', such as "I make 80k a year", and go towards stuff more like "I'm not quick to judge", "I'm patient", "I'm curious", ect. It's all about giving yourself some credit. If you don't have any of those qualities I mentioned hopefully you can write down: "I know my weaknesses and I'm always trying to be better". No p…	/r/seduction	14/06/20 04:47 AM
1	Skin care routines? What are you going with? That's good food for thought re: skincare and age Thanks!	/r/seduction	14/05/20 07:44 AM
1	Skin care routines? What are you going with? Cool thanks! What do you need for a chemical peel?	/r/seduction	14/05/20 07:42 AM
1	Skin care routines? What are you going with? Sick advice cheers!	/r/seduction	14/05/20 07:42 AM
2	Getting over the “I’m not good enough” feeling? Sure :) Sorry if I expand too much, I'm not sure whether you mean 'what's self esteem?' or 'how did you get it?' OP said he was struggling with the idea that he wasn't 'good enough' for some girls. Often when people don't feel 'good enough' it's because of a lack of self-esteem, meaning they don't think much of themselves. I had the same issue in my early twenties. I didn't think much of myself. If somebody gave me a compliment I'd reject it because I didn't believe it. Now I've made some change…	/r/seduction	01/05/20 09:16 AM
88	Getting over the “I’m not good enough” feeling? How did I shake it? I shifted my mindsets and raised my self-esteem. My mindset has shifted to this concept that I am not better than those around me, and nobody around me is 'better' than I. Therefore any girl walking around either shares this belief, and I don't have to worry, or she doesn't, and thus is not what I'm looking for anyway. I raised my self-esteem by becoming prouder of the values I have to offer. When I think about qualities such as kindness, patience, honesty, integrity, ambitio…	/r/seduction	29/04/20 11:10 PM
9	How do I go from Beta to Alpha Everyone's interpretation of Alpha and Beta is different, some interpretations are more similar than others. My definition of an Alpha is someone who has lots of self esteem. The opinions of other people don't really effect them, because Alphas are comfortable with who they are. A Beta to me is just the opposite, it's all about tricks and gimmicks to attract a girl because deep down they don't believe they have attractive enough qualities by themselves. I feel to make the transition, you need to…	/r/seduction	31/12/18 02:31 PM
2	Is there a way out of this mindset? - Struggling to do cold approaches. Thanks for your response! I think in situations where I had something to say, such as "You dropped this", I wouldn't have a moral dilemma. I think my purposeful interruption in that case would most likely bring relief and there would not be a high chance of causing annoyance. Your second part really made me think. If 1/10 of the girls I approach LOVE that I did. Does that make up for the 9/10 girls who I've slightly frustrated? I don't know... It's something to think about. I'm not too bothered …	/r/seduction	26/12/18 11:00 PM
2	Is there a way out of this mindset? - Struggling to do cold approaches. I think if you pair being polite and considerate, with the idea "I don't know you yet, I don't know whether I like you. You still have to impress me". You may stay out the friendzone. That's just my running theory!	/r/seduction	26/12/18 10:49 PM
4	Hit me like a truck Nahhh. This is my process, when I see an attractive girl but for whatever reason I don't talk to her, I don't stress because maybe she's not my type cause I know plenty of attractive women who aren't, who are just a bore, or don't share the same values as I do. If you are struggling for self-esteem, like I was, I suggest you watch 'Charisma on Command' on Youtube. He'll point out lots of positive qualities people may have, and you'll feel good about yourself when you realise you have them, and y…	/r/seduction	26/12/18 02:17 PM
44	Hit me like a truck Just make sure you stay positive my friend. Sounds like this realisation has gotten you down a bit. The ole conundrum 'How can I stand out, when that's not who I am?'. I think the answer is to control your emotions, figure out how to be your calm self, in stressful situations, because that's something lots of people struggle to do, so you'll be 'special', not easy to do it for sure, but not impossible. I'm on that journey, I feel a lot more confident and calm around attractive women, BUT not in …	/r/seduction	26/12/18 01:45 PM
12	Do men like being asked out or pursued by women? There's nothing inherently unattractive about approaching, but I think you have to follow the same basics as guys do when approaching women, namely, establish you have self respect, you're confident and have some substance. I would be flattered, but uninterested if they appeared too eager or desperate.	/r/seduction	14/05/18 11:54 AM
2	Getting out of the friendzone. Haha not my post, but as someone who lurks for interest sake, I usually see the top comment is a redditor who points out the problem, but says it in a way that seems too brutal. Yours seemed honest but you took the time to word it in a gentle way.	/r/seduction	31/03/18 05:10 PM
2	Getting out of the friendzone. My general rule is that if I'm interested, a direct inquiry about a date is the best course of action. Playing the 'wait for the perfect opportunity' has too many pitfalls in my opinion. I usually say to a girl very early on something to the effect of, 'I like your vibe, I'd be keen to ..., if you're interested'. I've had experiences where thats worked well, in the short term, and moments where it hasn't worked. But 100% of the time, it's been really good for my headspace, and to get me out of t…	/r/seduction	31/03/18 10:38 AM
5	Getting out of the friendzone. Respect man, perfect advice, very helpful and said in a way that shows you understand there is a human on the other end receiving it.	/r/seduction	31/03/18 10:19 AM
1	Is telling a girl she’s attractive/beautiful/hot a good idea? How else am I supposed to imply I’m interested? I can respect and understanx that's how you thought it sounded. I don't think there is anything dishonest about deliberately saying things that you think might peak the interest of girls, as long as it's not a lie. Pretending you're a big shot lawyer because girls like money, dishonest. Telling her you think Sally is hot when you don't even know at Sally, dishonest. Presenting the most appealling honest version of yourself is fine in my opinion though.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 09:26 PM
0	Is telling a girl she’s attractive/beautiful/hot a good idea? How else am I supposed to imply I’m interested? Follow on question, which tactic do you think is more powerful: a) Telling a girl you think she is attractive, BUT, also mentioning other girls you find attractive or are into. b) Not mentioning she is attractive at all.	/r/seduction	07/01/18 07:36 AM