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| 1 | What's a good comeback after a playful "Fuck you!" when she replies "You wish!" | Kay1000RR | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 10:27 PM |
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| 1 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?Remember that there's girlfriend material and wife material. You can fake it for girlfriends just to get what you want out of the relationship, but your future wife will 100% love you for who you truly are. You're also assuming what these girls are thinking. I used to ask point blank when it didn't work out so I can learn from the experience. The idea is to be self reflective like you are right now so you can be better everyday. The reward for being a better person is that you're able to attract… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsHe's lucky to have a dad that cares so much. I didn't listen to anybody at 23, but the wise advice I didn't follow back then still echoes in my mind today. I wish your son the fairy tale ending he deserves, whether it be with this one or the next! | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsThe only mistake your son shouldn't make is to get any of them pregnant. Other than that, you should let him live and learn until his prefrontal cortex starts working. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 6 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsI was also this guy with a daily rotation of girls. However, one made it clear that if I wanted to continue seeing her we had to be exclusive. At that point, she proved she was all-in and was only asking me to do the same. She communicated her intentions clearly from the moment we met with zero drama or guesswork. Three years later, we're still in a relationship. tl;dr Communication! | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]Because it's like a guy from New York. You can't get 7 seconds into a conversation without them bringing it up. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You're overthinking it. If she's into you as much as you're into her, then everything will be ok. Message her whenever you feel like with whatever you want. If she doesn't even have the empathy to recognize you're trying your best, then she's showing a negative trait isn't she? If she likes you, she won't care. Don't try too hard and put on an act. You both will eventually break character. Might as well be yourself from the get go, even if you come across as nervous and awkward. That's still you… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Approached my crush after 3 years of wanting to do it...This is hilarious. Just laugh about this one. You'll get the next one 💪 | /r/seduction | 04/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Today i (22M) have kissed a girl for the frist time in my life.I'm really happy for you brotha! Keep kicking ass! | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 02:28 AM |
| 42 | Lost my virginityI love how you're so chill and confident about it, like shit don't matter at all. You don't sound like a pussy at all. Keep being awesome 👍 | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 09:41 PM |
| 35 | Why Loving Yourself is the Most Attractive Thing You Can DoIs it considered gay if I masturbate to my own image in the mirror? Asking for a friend. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:46 PM |
| 12 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?Don't ignore red flags This is major. You tend to ignore them at the beginning because you're so high on endorphins. Every small thing that's weird or off will come back in a big way. The things she says about her ex's and how she treated them through the relationship and breakup. THAT WILL BE YOU! Slapping yourself in the face to recognize the signs is a great way to get out before it's too late. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:51 PM |
| 2 | The first time I saw sexual subcommunication in text. Texts w/ inner breakdown, for purposes of discussingWay to own up to it. I think some of the guys were a little too harsh considering the conversation went well and you got the date. I personally thought you talked about too much sex too directly. It's a mistake I've made in the past that led to the girl think that's the only thing I want from her. To avoid this, use a bit of misdirection and innuendo to make it seem like you're the innocent one and she has the dirty mind. It's a fun way to banter and have fun while breaking the ice. Which remind… | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice.Many women have told me it's not about being nice, but being a complete pushover with no opinion or courage to speak up for what you want. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | We live in the fucking future!! Getting laid in hillbilly country on Tinder.I tend to get a ton of matches whenever I travel too. I know girls love something a little different and how you played it was brilliant. Cheers to many more to come! | /r/seduction | 27/06/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Had sex, she friendzoned.This is why you never expect to have sex with a girl more than once. Any time after the first is a bonus. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Watch some good stand up comedy. The banter that good comedians go on can be replicated to start a fun conversation or you can mimic their style and go on your own rant. Most of these subjects are fun hypotheticals and people tend to get really into them. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Never kissed a girl, i don't want it to suck... any advice?When girls describe their worst kiss, the most common complaint I hear is too much tongue. | /r/seduction | 22/07/16 06:09 PM |
| 16 | Been out 3 times, and still haven't had the balls to approach anyone?I play this game with my shy friends. We go to a bar or club and whoever gets rejected by ten girls first wins. The idea is to approach as many girls as possible and get denied as much as possible. The loser buys dinner for everybody. But the loser is most likely the one with a few girls' numbers. | /r/seduction | 30/04/16 05:02 PM |
| 4 | What are your must-reads?"Get Inside Her" by Marni Kinrys will give you a nice female perspective that opened my eyes. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to become desensitized to pretty girlsYou know the weird thing is they're usually just as nervous and shy as you are. Whenever I talk to a super hot girl, they're usually shuddering, saying awkward things and struggling to keep the conversation flowing. So be confident you have the upper hand. | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's?Hey, when you're horny you're horny. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 06:41 AM |
| 4 | Do you think a small stutter would affect how a girl perceives you?You'll feel more confident but you'll be perceived as lacking confidence when they ask you about it. I stutter and mispronounce words all the time. I don't care. If they point it out, it's a great opportunity to turn it into a joke and laugh about it. I have a long ass name so I use an abbreviated version. When people ask about it, I use it to crack jokes and make people laugh. Own what you have because nobody else has it. Be creative and have fun. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do inexperienced guys find it hard to approach?It's because inexperienced guys are not used to being rejected. My friends and I used to compete to see who would be the first to be rejected by 10 women at clubs. The number would be 5 at a smaller bar. The guy who came in last place had to pick up the tab. He lost the contest, but it probably means he actually got a few numbers. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever afraid to be intimate or really connect?I've been described as mysterious by numerous women. They all said they don't know what I'm thinking. For a long time, I thought it was a great trait to have. "I'm mysterious, unpredictable, ultra suave and cool. Yay!" NOPE! I learned this quality was a symptom for a major fear of being rejected. I had this thick filter that censored behavior which I thought would be judged negatively. So in the end, I ended up being a passive aggressive bitch that got flustered when other people didn't perceive… | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | PSA: For those suffering from actual Social Anxiety, pure exposure therapy/"manning up" is potentially problematic and in general you might be better off looking at other places than /r/seduction to deal with your issueI had some pretty serious anxiety as a kid. It was so bad that I had selective mutism. Even though I never had difficulties with girls, the problems that caused my anxiety would surface in the form of relationship issues. It's stuff that I never thought were connected but they were! I only found about these things recently through a therapist. Therapy and self-improvement are great regardless of you having an actual problem or not. I'd highly recommend any guy who has past anxiety issues to give… | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 09:58 AM |
| 12 | Hey seddit, wanted to share a graphic I made on lifestyle.I'm 19. I barely knew how to masturbate at your age and here you are giving me insight into life. Thanks for sharing. This is an awesome post. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 06:42 PM |
| 2 | [FR] 30 year old virgin - First number close everI'm the same age as you and nowhere near a virgin, but I'm still so jealously impressed. You kicked absolute ass! Keep it up, stud! | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Conversing with shitty personalitiesYou shouldn't give her an interview or she'll respond like it's an interview. Get her emotions involved. Women don't care what you're talking about. They only care how they feel in that moment. Try to get in her head and spark an emotional reaction. You probably come across as boring, because I feel the same way about women who ask me question after question during a date. The good ones are the ones that can get me passionate about a topic and incite emotion. | /r/seduction | 21/08/14 10:29 PM |
| 2 | What to do when the girl flakes on a date (texting included)"Thanks for the heads up. Let me know when your schedule opens up. Looking forward to seeing you again." Don't text again until she does. She'll be "busy" until then. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Do Women always seem to come out of break ups better than Men or is it just me?I also remember reading something about divorce. I found the article! Professor Richard Lucas at Michigan State University says men are generally less satisfied with life after marriage. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Minor Victory.. finally, Thanks AllI'm always rusty coming out of relationships too, but you seem like you're already kicking ass. Keep it up! | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 07:18 AM |
| 7 | Approaching a legitimate 10.This was fucking brilliant. | /r/seduction | 12/03/14 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with the catch-22 of desperationWhen all else fails, try talking to them like they're a dude. What conversion would you have with a cool dude you just met? And never give compliments to a woman that you wouldn't give to a guy. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 05:44 PM |
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